I am sure all of us have heard of the rare "forever girlfriend" that makes it out. That mythical unicorn that we've only heard of.

Well my bff is that woman. She dated this LVM for 14years, i knew he was LVM when i was 17. Over the years he's sucked the joy and purpose out of her life. He transformed this vibrant, enthusiastic young woman into this (still gorgeous) woman who is unhappy and soulless.

In typical LVM style, he broke up with her twice after their engagement. Insisted on having an inexpensive wedding, hardly invited anyone to the ceremony. And now she's stuck with a manchild who did not take her on a honeymoon, did not buy her an expensive wedding ring, did not even buy her a gift for their 1st year of marriage.

I just feel bad for her. She's stuck in this vicious hell with a man who blames her for forcing him into matrimony. And the highlight of it all is that she's way more attractive than him and could do better. if only she would let herself escape and be happy.

So any "forever girlfriend" reading this please know that you are NOT going to be happier marrying him. He's just going to resent you for forcing his hand.