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Wish I could give you some advice mate but I’m exactly in the same boat as you. While I’m in my work mode my libido is almost non existent, I’d risk saying that stress and pressure has something to do with it. The moment I chill with work life or go on holiday, my dick is made of granite every day, all day and I want to fuck everything that moves with a nice ass. Shit is weird but I’d say that maybe we were not designed to thrive in the environment we currently spend most of our lives in. Keep i…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:50 AM
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Dude, who cares. I’ll be 40 in August and I’m fucking 18 year olds on a regular basis and I can tell you that the topic of age barely ever comes up. She sounds extremely immature and too much hassle to be honest, I’d just next her ASAP. There is way too many women out there for whom age is not an issue so I am not sure why would you waste your time on this particular one.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:52 PM
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Have you lost it? Sorry to be that blunt with you man but I am not sure you ever had it. You should never loose frame with your woman. I know that LTR’s know exactly which buttons to press to wind you up but there is no excuse for putting your hand through a wall or knocking yourself unconscious. That’s just fucking stupid. I don’t know you but from your post it sounds like you are not in control of your life at all. You want some sound advice? Start with the basics, read the sidebar, start exer…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:31 PM
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I always thought that explaining falls into the same category as arguing, it is a massive waste of time. It signals scarcity mentality and that you actually care what others think about you.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 03:40 PM
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Man you wouldn't recognise healthy relationship even if it kicked you straight in the face. Here is your problem, you are needy and dependant and she picked up on it straight away, like any other woman would, and she rejected you because women hate those two traits with passion. She wants a man. Someone she can lean on, someone to be her rock when she is her feminine, silly self. At the moment, you are none of these things. You are a liability. That's why I told you to sort your shit out first b…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:09 PM
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First of all, you are not red-pilled at all. You are as blue pill beta as they come. Second of all, you never open up to any woman about anything unless she is your wife or mother. Third of all, you are clearly not focusing on yourself enough if you have that much fucking time to overthink how one girl didn't want to be in a relationship with you after a few dates. Build an interesting life first, go to the gym, educate yourself, find hobbies that excite you or go travelling and see the world. B…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:11 PM
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Abundance is not fucking one girl from Tinder. Abundance is having so many options that you don't give a fuck anymore.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:01 PM
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I actually tried to read your post in full in order to give you some advice but I eventually gave up half way through. Seriously man, your writing is fucking atrocious and no one will bother to read it until you show some fucking respect and write like a grown up.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:54 AM
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Go lift heavy shit in the gym. Also, meditation is really good for clearing your head after long day at work. Ideally do both and you are golden.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:44 AM
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I can't remember if it was Rollo or Donovan that said this but text like this one from a girl means just one thing. She is fucking other guys. Move on mate.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:41 AM
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Or you can learn day game and save yourself fuckloads of money trying to impress some 9 on Tinder. Don’t get me wrong, photography is an amazing hobby but you should be doing it for yourself and not to impress girls on dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:20 PM
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You need to get more sexual. What helps me massively with that, is always assuming attraction. Once i start talking to her, in my head i'm already going "This girl wants me so much" then i start watching her body language and watch how her body turns towards me, which reinforces my frame. Before i know it i'm saying things like "You can't imagine what i'd to you if those people weren't here" to a woman i met 15 minutes earlier. By now she is usually eye fucking me so hard that if fuels me to god…
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:44 PM
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Stick to 9's for now, if you can game 8's you can game 9's. 10's are different story and in my opinion not worth it, unless you have balls hanging at your ankles made of fucking adamantite and your inner game is rock solid.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:56 PM
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It sounds you are already neck-deep in shit, you use words like mesmerized, you are already making excuses for her etc. You will never get girl like this with your current attitude, sorry. Move on.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:32 PM
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I always follow one rule "Leave them better than you found them". I could somewhat understand if it was some hb10 with bitch shield at 100% but why in the world you decided to destroy some sensitive, ordinary girl is beyond me. I just hope it was one time short-circuit in your brain, otherwise you are just an asshole.
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:24 PM
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Search for "David Shade's Manual", i remember one of the chapters being pretty neat guide about making threesomes happen.
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:05 PM
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Dude what the fuck? Awful physical escalation and zero consideration for the girl and you are suprised? There could be bazillion reasons why she blocked you, starting with you escalating poorly, which is my bet, and ending with her being on period and having fragile boobs. Not to mention worst attempt of freeze out i've read on seddit recently.
/r/seduction28/08/12 04:59 PM
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I'm 100% sure that if woman agrees to come back to your place or invites you to hers after the date, she has already decided to fuck you. All you have to do is to not to fuck it up and play it right.
/r/seduction20/08/12 10:33 PM
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Okay first of all, it's completely normal so stop freaking out. Second of all, you can tell her you haven't slept with woman before, just be fucking cool about it, no shame, no self loathing, we've all been there at some point. Also you can ask her to guide you first time, women like that. It's probably better to tell her what really happened, telling her she turns you on so much you couldn't control yourself, she will take it as compliment and it can lead to some kinky stuff, instead of weirdin…
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:46 PM
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Dude it's because women like sex just as much as we do but they don't want to come off as sluts hence the name of this proccess ASD (Anti Slut Defense). What he did is called Freeze Out, they were making out, she was feeling great and she has decided to have sex with him at this point but she needed to reassure herself that it's her decision, not his and that he won't treat her as slut afterwards
/r/seduction20/08/12 10:28 AM
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Very nice post, was doing some thinking on topic recently and reached, pretty much, same conclusion. We live in a world which empowers women and men have been forgotten. And noone told us how to deal with this new reality and in this frame seduction community is indeed trying to "restore balance to the force".
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:18 PM
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Oh man...Dude i was so proud of you until you walked her to her car. Why would you say such crap about fear of not seeing her again? You just met her and you came off as needy already. And that text game was just awful, she mocked you and you asked her for a chance? Are you fucking serious? You fucked it up, just go out and pick some more women because it sounds like you are about to make her your oneitis while you completely don't know her.
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:19 AM
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Was thinking pretty much the same thing, she wants to do it right. Oh well i will know soon enough, time for some zen before date. Thanks for advice.
/r/seduction04/08/12 05:30 PM
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Sorry that's how the world works. Everything that is worth having requires lots of hard work and dedication
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:00 PM
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I just read his previous FR and it seems on his first hook-up with this girl he tried to unhook her bra in the trunk of a car with five other people in it. I'm not sure if i should worship him or euthanise him
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:01 AM
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You should love, respect and appreciate your woman but you should never let her become your raison d'etre or you set yourself on fastest road to loosing her.
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:06 PM
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You tried to undo girls jeans in the bar?
/r/seduction02/08/12 08:03 PM
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She basically gave you value by saying you are a charmer, you always agree with that. Being charming doesn't have negative connotation in my opinion, it means you feel comfortable with other people and you can make them even more comfortable with yourself. As for girl, she sounds playful, likes to be challenged and prolly is an extravert. You figure out the rest.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:16 PM
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Overall, good job. My only but is with your text game. When she called you out on being charmer, you should have said: "Ye i do that all the time, i love talking to people" instead you went beta and started making excuses. You can even tell she picked up on it in her response by tone and disgusted smilee at the end. Lucky for you she was already hooked and she let it fly. Be more mindful about those things.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:01 PM
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"50 Shades of Grey...really?" with big shit-eating grin.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:11 AM
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You basically ran away from there. If you start thinking about whether you should or shouldn't have done something it means you should have done it. If she rejects you then what? Nothing, you just go on with your life and you just learned something.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:05 AM
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Noone likes rejection but you have to realise one thing, you don't have any control over things that happened in the past. It happened and you can't change that, no matter how often or how hard you are gonna be thinking about it. You only have control of what you are doing at this very moment or what you will do next. Past is only there to get some conclusions out of it and to not repeat same mistakes again but you can't live in it. You always push forward because it's only direction you can go.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:40 AM
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Fair enough i'm always confused about inches, being from country with metric system.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:53 PM
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I will use analogy from "The Game", because most men in general are like Marko, who believe by just being nice and being yourself will eventually get them love of their life. We are brainwashed by our culture, magazines, movies to believe there is just one person in the world for you, which is obviously bullshit. Here on Seddit we tell men "Take control over your life, be best version of yourself, push your boundaries" because every woman wants best pair of genes for herself ( and very rightfull…
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:42 PM
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Like some guys before me said, you are in wrong mind set. Don't seek validation from women. If you manage to open good for you, if you get rejected you just don't let it affect you, she probably won't even remember you in 15 minutes anyway and the world goes on. Try to have fun and don't focus on picking up women, if you go out and you stress yourself "I have to pick up someone tonight" you will very likely fail to do so. Also try to talk to as many women as you can in your everyday life, talk t…
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:00 PM
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I'm little bit confused about your question, i'm 6'6 and my height has always been massive advantage for me. I love shorter girls and never met one whom was intimidated by my height, it's quite opposite actually. On many occasions i've been asked to pick them up in the air and when i do they are always extremely playful and flirtous about it. As for taller girls it's quite obvious they feel much more comfortable in my company knowing they can wear high heels and they will still be a bit shorter …
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:17 PM
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Very nice dude! What you wrote is basically essence of what Seddit is all about in my opinion. Lots of people here are just "Yo! I wanna fuck girls, any tips?" They don't understand that it's all about improving your life and yourself and then women come naturally, one could say as cherry on top. Keep it up, really great job.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:12 AM
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First of all i'd suggest you work on this attitude of yours. Women are creatures operating on emotions hence they can read us much better then we can read them. If woman notices you acting like a jerk or smart-ass and giving her attitude you won't be getting laid much i can tell you that. Also don't blame women for you being unable to do small-talk, it's your problem not theirs maybe they act shallow. Why should she tell you about her hobbies or dreams when you are clearly only interested in her…
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:01 PM
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Ok first text was quite okay but i'd end it there for the night. I think you waited for too long after night you met her, i'd say ideal time is next day afternoon to 72 hours after that period she will just loose her interest. To be honest you didn't give her much to work with with your last text, don't really know what you were expecting. Simple "Hey hun, what are you up to today?" would be much better and that smilee at the end was like a nail on the coffin, try to avoid smilees when texting.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:37 PM
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Basically you need to regain control over your life. Confidence, in my experience, comes from knowing that you are in control. Smile a lot, even better smile all the time and look people in their eyes as you pass them everyday. On the street, on your way to work, on public transportation, basically everywhere you can. I've been doing that myself and i can tell you that some people even make motion like they want to stop and start talking to me. It's really great confidence boost. Talk to people …
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:07 PM
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Well approaching girls via FB and text will do nothing for you at this point in terms of building confidence. You need to start going out, smile a lot and just open as many people, not just girls, as you can. Sign-up for gym and do regular work-out's, change your diet and live a better life, improve yourself. Also on girls being interested in you when you were in LTR, having girlfriend automatically adds value to yourself in eyes of other women, you are already tested by your girlfriend as being…
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:06 PM
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Again it's beta attitude in this case. You don't know why she cancelled it might be everything from bad hair day, her period starting to shit-test to see how you gonna react. There are good chances that if you act cool and confident about it she will contact you before you try to contant her again anyway.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:43 AM
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Women cancel for various reasons, very often it's shit test to find out if you gonna act needy/hurt like beta would or like alpha with "No problem" and general don't give a fuck attitude. Well is she cancells on you for the second time you just drop all contact and move on.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:36 AM
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Hey Cajun, not really question was just wondering if are there any plans for any of you guys from Love Systems to come to Eastern Europe, mainly Poland? I'd bet there would be massive interest as you guys are awesome and considering how"scene" here is poor at best, whenever i read forums or watch videos from "PUA's" here my eyes flood with tears from laughter. Besides women here are hot as hell and i'd definetely love to get shit-faced drunk with you at parties i'd take you to. Big love from Pol…
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:06 AM
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I'm gonna agree with gym on this one, you blew it for now. Women sometimes try to talk to you about other guys and very often it happens to be shit-test. They wanna see if you get insecure and beta about it. Shrugging/laughing it off is the way to go. Getting sad/feeling betrayed makes her not respecting you at all. As for number two, holy shit. Dude i think you need too work on some basics before you start asking girls out. Work on yourself, try to talk to as many people as you can, work on you…
/r/seduction29/07/12 10:32 PM
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Listen i'm not attacking you, i'm actually trying to tell you something here. You are a woman, or will soon be, embrace it! I love women, i think they are the most awesome creatures in existence. Don't try to change they way you dress, way you act around people and all other bullshit. Learn to love yourself Learn to accept who you are and i guarantee this will help you much more then anything anyone told you in this thread.
/r/seduction29/07/12 09:28 PM
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No, i will tell you how i know you are very young. You didn't come here looking for answers, you came here looking for acknowledgement for something that you think is only truth because you chose to believe it. You came here because you have low self-esteem, because you want to be praised for who you are and not how you look and it just doesn't work that way. Instead you downvote and refuse to listen to people who have different view then you do, who have seen much more and experienced much more…
/r/seduction29/07/12 08:42 PM
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Wow, you must be younger then i thought. Piece of advice for future, don't come here asking questions if you can't handle the truth.
/r/seduction29/07/12 08:05 PM
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We are on the internet, seen stranger shit. Anyway, don't know what young means in your case but i was young boy myself at some point and i can tell you that boys think about getting laid 99% of the time. So your safest bet would be to just hang with your girlfriends for now and ignore males until you are more comfortable with your sexuality as a woman.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:45 PM
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Any variation of "sure, no problem. I'll text/call you soon/later in the week" will do. And just text/call her few days later without any contact in between.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:38 PM
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This post smells of a troll to be honest or you are really young and confused about your sexuality. You pretty much want to deny thousands, or even millions years of evolution, if you are good looking no matter what you do, most people will want to fuck you, that's just the way world works. Men want to sleep with women, women want to sleep with men. I can't give you any advice because i really don't know what the problem is and i'm quire confused about this post.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:23 PM
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You need to get over your oneitis, i know it's hard but judging by your current state if you keep pursuing her you will just end up as needy in her eyes and that will be the end of it. Maybe focus more on yourself, find new hobby, spend more time with your friends or try to expand your social circle. Hooking up with girls right after they come out of LTR is always bad idea in my book, unless you are looking for one night stand, they usually just want to rebound from ex and are indeed not looking…
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:27 PM
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From my observations it seems that hotter the girl is you are trying to attract, more you need to step up with the game. I'd say from HB9 and upward you need more then just lines to get her interest, you need to add value to yourself and that means letting her know she can learn something valuable from you but without sounding like smart-ass. Without intelligence you won't be able to make a witty comment or make her laugh and making woman laugh is fastest way to get you any woman you want.
/r/seduction29/07/12 11:35 AM
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You are right, i might have gotten too excited at some point but it was hard not to when you realise that 10 is interested in you. I wouldn't agree on looks part, she already told me that she really likes my intelligence and that i make her laugh all the time. Also there is indeed lots of bullshit when it comes to 10, she talks a lot about her high standards when it comes to men and about how she doubts she will ever find one good enough for her, she is also bitching about something like 90% of …
/r/seduction29/07/12 11:12 AM
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