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CSEW under-estimating domestic violence Is it though? CSEW is a survey, the other data source seems to be reported incidents to the police. So CSEW is more informal and expansive because it measures unreported violence, both in the home and outside of it, and we know that men are far less likely to report than women, or to label things that happen to them as abuse. From what I see, Starmer's claim should be more accurately framed as most reported violence is women reporting it when they are vict…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/21 03:47 AM
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now i don’t know the whole story since it’s just one tweet but on the face if your SO passes out or had a natural health reaction and then you blame them or get mad at them for it or say that they’re being selfish, that’s emotional abuse and gaslighting. I have to wonder...how many times have we heard “jokes” and stories about controlling wives and wives who endlessly shame and haggle their husbands and constantly make him feel bad about himself or feel like he owes the wife? in the past i would…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/21 11:34 PM
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The top 5 subs with most user overlap with this sub are fds, ask trp, and incelswithouthate. So if you're wondering why this sub is basically psychotic, there's your answer. All the worst females and males on the internet crammed into one sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:07 PM
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Is gender studies necessary? Sure! All degrees are necessary if there is significant academic work and interest available. I'm not a fan of "banning" a field of study just because some people don't like it. However, undoubtedly, the field of gender studies has been corrupted and hijacked to remove any empathy or consideration towards men's issues, as much of gender studies either don't believe men face any meaningful issues or dismiss it as "men do it to each other as part of the patriarchy". Th…
/r/MensRights16/02/21 09:40 PM
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I read through Biden's executive order, didn't find anything specifically mentioning women, in fact the word "women" was not mentioned once in the EO. So far it's just media portraying it as a solely women's effort. We'll have to see what happens.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 09:37 PM
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“i feel” is used before “i think” w these people
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:23 PM
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are we sure it's a joke? i've seen plenty of women use it so much intensity i'm feeling like it's not a joke but a mindset
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:00 PM
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Go to a public high school and you'll find out both men and women do that. People are toxic and make life terrible. Tough lesson to learn.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:59 PM
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you need help
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:46 PM
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A cool-headed total mic-drop. Refreshing.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 01:15 AM
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All the research shows that men wear masks at roughly equal rates. They complain more, but who fucking cares as long as the mask is on? Death rates are adjusted to infection rates. Men and women don't statistically differ in infection rates by a significant amount, but they do in death rates
/r/MensRights05/02/21 01:08 AM
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I've heard of mom reflexes. Let's not put mothers down please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 04:52 AM
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Unfortunately neither party is going to give a shit about men's issues. I remember Warren Farrell saying he had talks with both the Obama and Trump administrations over working on boys' issues and nothing ever seemed to result out of them. Women are a dominant political force, and you better believe they'll look out for their issues. Both parties then will pander to them endlessly, even Republicans, who actually won the female vote in the 2010 midterms. Men unfortunately are not as politically e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 04:37 AM
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There may indeed be a gender disparity in the this area and I have no problem with it being reported. What I have an issue with is the lack of reporting of how men are disproportionally being affected in health by Covid by, you know, being more likely to die from infection than women. Go ask your friends right now who they think are more negatively affected by health in Covid and I guarantee the vast majority assume women are. It's the same old gynocentrism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 04:31 AM
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women are thought of as having higher emotional intelligence and being more empathetic than men. the actual research on this is mixed at best but it's a belief that persists. these types of women want to be seen as emotionally superior to men but also don't want to deal with the "emotional labor" or caretaking work that comes with being "emotionally superior". they want to eat their cake and have it too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 04:28 AM
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this is exactly what I have been feeling too. Men are being told to share emotions, but only the emotions women find non-offensive or palatable. Essentially male emotions have to be repackaged in order to appease women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 03:57 AM
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Thanks. I just ctrl+f's the oecd document and couldn't find any mentions of blind testing. The Google Doc did have several other studies that did have some form of blind testing or other more direct measurements of gender discrimination, but I don't think the description for the OECD study is completely accurate.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 05:14 PM
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I can't actually find any version of the study online outside of a few articles that give their own summaries of it. Do you have a link to the original OECD study?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 05:09 PM
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one misconception that I see on this sub about that infamous 2015 OECD study is that this sub assumes that the study was a blind test study when it was not. It merely looked at boy's and girl's average PISA test scores (I think it was the PISA test, I may be wrong) and then compared their classroom grades to see any discrepancy. That 1/3 grade discrepancy is probably not 100% due to teachers being biased in grading for girls but also due to boys being less interested in school and thus having wo…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 05:00 PM
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that is literally every single post on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:30 PM
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Basically it's like a speed dating experiment where the women go around interacting with men and choosing the men they'd be interested in pursuing a date with. I believe I read about it in a Psychology Today article about dating myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:21 AM
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So humans generally could be becoming more k-strategic under these circumstances. True. However, that goes back to the same question: is this from natural biology, or is it a social construct? For instance, more "sexually desirable" men invest less in children, but what defines "sexually desirable"? Certainly the current standards for attractiveness in both men and women is just as much artifical/a social construct as it is natural, if not more. Easiest example: shaving. So are the group of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:58 PM
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You're referencing male variability hypothesis, which is not true for every situation. For example, men are (slightly) more variable than women in terms of intelligence, but women are actually more variable in traits like empathy. Also, keep in mind that most gender differences are not that big. They may become a lot larger at the upper and lower 1% percentiles, but most people are not outside 3 sigmas. So a comparison in these differences is not really worth pursuing. Finally, men invest in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:14 PM
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most gender arguments these days are 100% bad faith. no question about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:58 AM
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It would also cue all the stories and anecdotes about how teachers are stricter on girls, and give higher grades to boys. shit, are there really people who say this? that's a horseload of shit. i'm sure just about every single guy in school can give you stories about how girls are overwhelmingly favored by teachers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/21 12:33 AM
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when i first started working out, i'd say probably the majority of the motivation was to attract others. now that i'm a few years in, i mainly do it for myself and to appease myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:12 PM
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this is some major gaslighting
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/01/21 10:31 PM
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they'll say this and then also blame men for wanting a "natural" woman who isn't cake full of makeup and injections. they'll call these things simultaneously degrading and empowering, empowering when they can point out the beauty of women, degrading when they can find a way to blame men using it. feminism for men: damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/01/21 10:35 PM
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this is the type of shit that's admissable in court
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/01/21 03:26 AM
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it's actually astounding how almost everything you said was wrong. not only wrong, but the exact opposite is true. further proving my point on projection. What you're saying actually kinda supports the point. In my experience and that of most girls I've ever talked to, men overreact and nitpick just as much if not more than women. However, women are the ones negatively stereotyped for doing so. i understand that is your personal experience, but anecdotes are just anecdotes. clinical studies and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:35 PM
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lmao
/r/FeminismStopsWhen11/01/21 01:45 PM
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women are not impressed by "just having a job". the requirements in terms of money go far beyond that. money is very important to women, and being a decent boyfriend means bringing in decent money to take care of the household. and once any misfortune strikes that causes the man to temporarily lose that income flow, well, that's when the women cut their losses and move on to another man. after all, 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women, and divorces especially rise in times of financial trouble…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:44 PM
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men in relationships deal with womens' never ending emotional outburts, control, and jealousy constantly. if men acted emotionally how women act, women would consider it abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:39 PM
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because boyfriends who don't meet the most basic human decency standards are so common, yet girlfriends are demonized for small mistakes. this is such a strawman, especially the second part. since when are girlfriends "demonized for small mistakes?" if anything, it's typically the girlfriend who is overreacting and nitpicking on things their boyfriend does and what they could mean. why do you think women initiate 3/4 of all divorce? because they are typically the one that dictates where the rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:37 PM
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and if you looked, it also shows that women go after white men more than men go after white women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:56 AM
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https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/live-experience/cps/1248/cpsprodpb/vivo/live/images/2016/7/1/7e422aa2-07d6-4409-800f-3c4aab85a642.jpg what immediately stands out is how badly black women and asian men are rated. black women have it the worst of any group since not even their own men rate them very high. pretty sobering to see. also the 2014 data shows that women rate white guys a lot higher than men rate white women, although those numbers fluctuate to some extent on different years
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:33 AM
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bumble data also shows this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:16 AM
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a large part of that race factor is women automatically discounting asian men. also, women of all races like white men more than or at least about just as much as men of all races like white women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:01 AM
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some of them mean that and this post wasn’t about them. however a lot of them also combine looks into that with obvious lies like “he doesn’t have to be taller than me” or are ambiguous on what they mean. they also complain that men demand that women be super pretty and sexy for them when that’s not really the case. i also have serious doubts as to whether the bar rally is “on the floor” even in terms of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:59 AM
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ah ok. i don’t use tumblr so i did not know that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:55 AM
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tiktok had to ban the killallmen hashtag and the kam hashtag has hundreds of millions of videos. i click not interested and still get those videos on my fyp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:47 AM
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you’d be surprised at how many older folks are on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:47 AM
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ik tiktok is considered a joke, but it’s pretty influential among gen z and it offers a raw glimpse into the psyche of a lot of boys and girls in the generation bc a lot of ppl are super open w their personal lives and feelings on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:27 AM
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feminism and women's studies is the most close-minded of all academia. i still remember one college student who wrote a blog concerning campus free speech. he wrote that, despite right-wing accusations, free speech was actually doing pretty decent on campus in most departments...except for gender studies. in gender studies, you were absolutely not allowed to question anything you read. he said it best when he wrote that, unlike most other departments, feminist "scholars" view their feminist work…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/21 02:41 AM
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worth noting that this paper minded vindicated wider academia but zeroed in on gender studies. the sociology journals rejected all of the hoax papers. it was gender studies that was the culprit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/21 05:02 PM
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isn't sarkeesian part of tyt? pretty sad. they're a progressive version of oann and newsmax. if you want a good laugh, check out their super tuesday meltdown
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/21 07:08 PM
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feminism relies a lot on negative equality. they want "equality" (only in areas where boys outperform girls, though) by destroying men, not by uplifting women. in this case, why not just encourage girls to play with legos more or do something of the equivalent instead of attempting to hurt boys? why? because this teacher's activism is based on the hatred of men more than the love of women.
/r/MensRights07/01/21 04:23 PM
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pure projection
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/21 01:33 AM
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right, but the verified polling data shows that key demographic groups had their clinton vote share underestimated and trump vote share overestimates, such as white women or black voters
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 10:24 PM
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https://fivethirtyeight.com/videos/dont-believe-anything-the-2020-exit-polls-tell-you/ https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2018/08/09/an-examination-of-the-2016-electorate-based-on-validated-voters/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 06:40 PM
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they also ignore the fact that women did not just perfectly ease into manufacturing. what really happened was that our non-military/civilian manufacturing absolutely disappeared. car production in 1942 was 223,000 units. in 1943? it was only 139 units. thus, when men left for war, our auto production, the backbone of blue collar america, dropped by 99.9%. that doesn't sound like "women doing that too" to me.
/r/MensRights05/01/21 06:29 PM
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the comparison is also totally faulty. these people admonish men for not immediately taking over 100% of duties that women typically are more involved in (housework, childcare, etc.) and they expect the men to be able to do so all in one day. meanwhile they laughably compare that to women going into manufacturing during wwii, forgetting that that happened over months and years, not just one day. oh, and when men left for war in the 40s, our non-military manufacturing absolutely collapsed, with c…
/r/MensRights05/01/21 06:26 PM
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this is one of the reasons i left this sub even though i still visit from time to time. it was so obvious that "awomen" was a dumb, corny joke after speaker pelosi mandated gender neutral terminology on the house floor. it brought laughs and was nothing more than an innocent little joke. stop getting worked up over it. this is just as bad as feminist subs losing their shit over obvious, innocent jokes
/r/MensRights05/01/21 03:51 PM
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men and women do not work equal full time hours, this is a laughable industrial feminism talking point. from 2011 data, fathers on average still work 12 more hours of paid labor a week than women. combining all working hours, paid and unpaid, fathers still work on average 1-2 more hours a week than moms in the 21st century. considering that the vast majority of women say that finding a man who makes a good income is essential for a relationship (compared to only 1/4 men who say an attractive gir…
/r/MensRights05/01/21 03:49 PM
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yep. you can just sense their disdain for men when they said that they bought sausages because they couldn't cook anything else. forgetting that many working single parents (which all these men effectively became for one day) buy these easy-to-cook meals in order to interchange their time between work, childcare, and cooking. considering feminism tries to emphasize the plight of the working woman in terms of the stress of juggling family and work responsibilities, it's ironic that they completel…
/r/MensRights05/01/21 03:44 PM
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feminism's greatest tactic is the lack of controls or comparisons. here they do actually bring up the comparison (if men did not work) but then laughably claim that if men did not work, the world would continue. you cannot get more blatant with your misandry than that outside of straight up saying "i hate men" (which many women do say). ironic, considering that most of the important blue-collar jobs that make up the foundation of our economy that these anticapitalists are supposed to support, su…
/r/MensRights05/01/21 03:41 PM
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he won the men's vote by 8 and lost the women's vote by 16. worth noting that exit polls this year weren't very accurate, but most likely they actually overestimate trump support among key demographics. this was the biggest gender gap in an election we have ever seen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 01:16 PM
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i looked at the wep platform and tbh what exactly do they stand for? they don't seem to have any specific policy goals.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 12:34 PM
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in america there are no parties that actually advocate for male issues in good faith. republicans will pay lip service, but the actual actions are very few. everyone is interested in pandering to women voters, even trump (albeit unsuccessfully)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 12:32 PM
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this reminds me of when i read some news article labeling 70% of new doctors (or some other biology-related field, i can't 100% remember) being women as an accomplishment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/21 01:03 AM
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the uk has had some surprising attention and services dedicated to men left behind, which america could learn from
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/21 07:16 PM
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go read the comments section. r/feminism is quite literally OBSESSED with pro-male MRA organizations. they're in their heads.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/01/21 10:33 PM
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i wonder how these people feel about 13/50...
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/01/21 05:40 AM
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it's ironic because a common calling card among feminists is that women get nothing out of relationships and are doing the majority of the "emotional labor". with a lot of feminist claims, it's 100% projection
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/20 09:00 PM
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i mean there’s been both patriarchal and matriarchal societies throughout history. it’s such poor analysis to say some group has been oppressed throughout history (except for maybe jewish people, who were persecuted almost everywhere) because every region has a different history
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/20 05:53 PM
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like you left college because you were a white male? cmon now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/20 05:15 AM
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this is the fakest shit i've ever read
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/20 02:40 AM
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wait...are you saying half of men reported reproductive coercion?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/20 02:53 AM
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yup, a lot of studies i saw remarked that it was weird how little research has been done on female perpetrators of reproductive coercion...i wonder why that is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/20 02:52 AM
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you say you regret voting for obama's second term but liked his first term, yet obamacare was passed in his first term. seems a little contradictory to me...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/20 01:55 AM
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the notorious white feminism. feminism was for a long time in the early 20th century directly at odds and at war against civil rights for african americans and other minorities.
/r/MensRights21/12/20 09:16 PM
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cmon now, lets's not get into generalizations here. this isn't r/feminism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/20 05:14 PM
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which is then us men's fault. everything is always our fault, don't forget!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/20 05:13 PM
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reason.com, which isn't a website i always agree with, has a great article on this. basically, the argument against pornhub is 100% bad faith. sure, there are concerning anecdotes about illegal content being on the website, and that is terrible. but anecdotes aren't evidence of any widespread, systemic issues with pornhub that would justify it as "trafficking hub". the vast majority (94%) of trafficking content is on facebook. the illegal content on pornhub is miniscule compared to other website…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 01:42 AM
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this article should be read in every school in america
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/20 01:52 PM
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even marxist feminists make arguments that seem to go against left wing principles. a lot of feminist economists seem to think that because housework is unpaid and wives tend to do more than husbands, therefore wives should earn a wage for housework. like, you're a leftist complaining about commodification in the economy, and your solution is the commodify one of the last few things in society that has not been commodified yet? huh??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/20 04:20 PM
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which is a huge problem i have with many leftist or liberal feminists. they are extremely nuanced and forgiving in their view of minority/poc crime, which is good! but when talking about male crime in general, they suddenly start to sound a lot like conservatives/alt righters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/20 04:06 PM
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summary: working class men are being exploited. women most affected
/r/FeminismStopsWhen17/12/20 01:20 PM
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behold, the white knight has arrived!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:11 AM
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any reporting on how 17% less women than men are willing to take the most important vaccine of the decade for no apparent reason?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/20 02:37 PM
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feminism is for men is a condescending, patronizing mindset. the central view is that there is something wrong with men and masculinity and that they will "fix" us. a big part of feminism is women who have no idea how men work talking about how they think men work
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/20 02:25 PM
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being bald isn't necessarily a bad thing for men's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:55 AM
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the only people who are not aware that teachers and schools favor girls are girls themselves. every single male student on the damn planet knows this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/20 03:09 AM
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i like yang. i was disappointed that r/mensrights turned so hard on yang because he made some corny joke about men during a debate once, it was one of the reasons i left the sub. but in all seriousness, he pays attentions to the forgotten man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/20 03:03 AM
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some people are more equal than others my friend
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/20 07:08 PM
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"women are pure and innocent" stereotype via their own actions... but they still want to be treated as if the world saw them that way. As usual, they want paradox, to have their cake and eat it too. could not have said it better
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/20 12:36 PM
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criticism of draft dodging have less to do with gender and more with class. i'm not a big fan of the male-only draft, but let's not act as if trump dodged the draft with bone spurs because of some noble fight against sexism. nah, it's because he's a rich, spoiled kid, and rich kids don't go to war. rather, they send your kids to war
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/20 12:36 PM
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ask a feminist about men's issues and watch their true colors show
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/20 01:01 AM
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in real life? no. online? sure, because on the internet the most controversial views get the most clout and people can run their mouths without fearing retribution. worth noting that most studies show that women have more in-group bias towards their own sex. like a lot more (5x). so women are wonderful effect or men are bad effect is something that has always existed to a moderate extent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:34 PM
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tin men with another terrific piece. i had to leave r/mensrights because of the bad faith vitriol that was pervasive on there but im glad therer are accounts like tin men who can talk about masculinity issues without veering into warped misogyny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:45 AM
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overall his cabinet is about 50% divided among gender lines so i don't really care
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/20 12:33 PM
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the government should not dictate abortion and choice for women, nor should it dictate paper abortion for men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/20 12:06 AM
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i've literally seen fds posts where the girls there say they should break up with a bf if they do find a hobby, so idk what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 12:32 AM
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there's more to life than sex buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:28 PM
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as chris rock put it nicely, no women has ever said they got closer with their husband after the husband got laid off. that's the main concern. divorces skyrocketed during great recession in 08, with 85% being initiated by wives. so to men it's a daunting realization that the marriage basically relies on their ability to bring in money, especially if no prenup was signed with more women being breadwinners this might change. ofc this is only the male perspective and women face unique issues too i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:49 PM
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that clears it up, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:51 AM
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This isn't a gender thing, numerous have shown that while men are less bothered by unwanted sexual advances by the opposite sex in general is this just for low-level harassment like cat-calling or unsolicited comments? from what i have seen serious events like sexual abuse, rape, or unwanted touching affects men just as negatively
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:48 PM
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lmao at the race part of the question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:41 PM
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this is giving fds too much credit. sure, some of the women there genuinely want a guy with money because it shows the guy works hard and has ambition. but many are just there for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:36 AM
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if i shorten or cut out 1-2 paragraphs about fds to make it more balanced would it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:31 AM
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if you go on tiktok and see girls posting videos about them being attracted to guys who actively disrespect them and act as bad guys (their words, not mine), you'd get that impression too. nice guys finish last...sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:49 PM
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ya lmao. either way we shouldn't give attention to it. we should pity the poor, hateful souls who think like this or ignore the dumbass trolls who say this shit to rile us up
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/10/20 07:44 PM
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i'm not a big fan of partisan hacks acting as if misandry is a left or liberal issue. conservative men will pay some lip service to mens issues, but no action. everyone is beholden by the fierce feminist lobbying and power of female voters. and conservative women are basically no better, just more subtle with their favoritism for women over men. shit, andrea dworkin, the big-time radical feminist, literally wrote a book aimed at courting conservative women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/20 03:40 AM
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that incel group isn't even bad at all. the asian guy in the black shirt and the asian guy (probably asian at least) in the jean jacket actually look decent and could get chics. soem of the guys are definitely ugly but nobody exactly looks "hideous", they all look like average people you would probably meet on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:51 PM
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it most definitely about money. i've been on fds and as they say, it's important that men should be able to take care and provide for the family or for you. it's ironic because as a self-proclaimed feminist sub they sure like to uphold traditional gender roles (men asking out first, only men paying for everything, men providing money) when it's convenient for the woman. very one-sided
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:45 PM
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but men, in terms of the RATE of incidence, are far more likely to abuse their children then women are, because women simply have far more contact with their children than men do. both men and women consistently spend time with their children. yes, mothers tend to spend more time on childcare while fathers spend more time away from home at work. but this does not negate the fact both parents in a two-parent household still spend significant time with their kids. by your logic, if fathers on aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:20 PM
2

trump is all talk no action. you talk about warren farrell, a wonderful (and thoughtful) mra, talking with the trump administration about mens rights forming a council. yet your own linked article states that no such council has been formed in the almost 4 years trump has been in office. this is the exact same thing that happened under obama, where warren farrell was also in contact with the obama administration but did not see any council formed. ironically, when it comes to the plight of singl…
/r/MensRights17/10/20 07:09 PM
1

what is "abuse" these days anymore? is it actually beating the shit out of your girl, or is it just not bowing down to her every little whim and "not giving her enough attention"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:48 AM
1

fds is manipulative, just as manipulative as trp. not to mention one of their standards is that, unless the guy proposes marriage, the woman should not be monogamous to him. so idk what type of man would want to get involved with a woman like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:41 AM
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actually, it is true. mothers are far more likely to abuse children and kill children, especially boys. however, some of the statistics include stepfathers and biological fathers to distort the numbers to make it look like dads are killing the families. you would be correct, however, in asserting that husbands kill their wives more than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:35 AM
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actually, fathers work slightly more hours per week than mothers in terms of paid and unpaid labor. ik there's this big fuss feminists make about "emotional labor" and "unpaid housework" (because apparently the best solution to today's commercialized world is to commercialize domestic housework and childcare duties too. fuck the family, i guess), but men and women work roughly the same hours. despite the feminists best efforts to make it seem like women are working oh so many more hours than men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:32 AM
1

you are settling for some shitty men then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:30 AM
2

i don't think it has as much to do with politics as much as just a pure gender issue. conservative women are not much better. go look at tomi lahren's rant about men. or amy coney barrett saying girls are better than boys. hell, don't forget that radical feminist andrea dworkin, who's known for wonderful beliefs like all sex is rape because...reasons, wrote an entire book dedicated to forming an alliance with conservative women and radical misandrists i mean feminists
/r/MensRights16/10/20 11:03 PM
2

it's not a theater lmao. barrett has no problem refusing to answer the most basic questions and saying roe should be be a superprecedent. women regardless of political leaning often hold these misandric views. just go look at tomi lahren lose her mind about men. that's why notorious misandrist andrea dworkin wrote a book dedicated to working with conservative women. this is not as much of a political issue than a women issue
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:38 PM
2

if you're gonna troll, make it less obvious next time
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:32 PM
1

clearly you have not seen the type of radical feminists that lead the movement. look up where the term the future is female comes from sometime
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:31 PM
10

these types of women are not rare. many girls are raised today, mainly by their mothers and sometimes their fathers (internalized misandry, perhaps, as a twist on the old feminist adage) to fear, hate, and generalize men. women are statistically more likely, 5x more likely in fact, to favor their own sex over men while men hold negligible favoritism in either direction. had this person been born biologically female, they would have been raised not too different than many girls in america (idk wh…
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:29 PM
18

this is the doublethink of feminism. it's shocking. any type of sexism is still misogyny. at this point a woman could quite literally come out and say they hate all men (which plenty of women do in fact say) and it'll be pinned on misogyny. hating men is still hating women. war is peace. ignorance is strength.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 05:25 PM
2

it made fun of johnny depp during the amber heard situation, so it comes pretty damn close. it also belittles male victims of mental illness and abuse, so it’s not much better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:24 AM
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both should be banned but at least mgtow was quarantined. fds is still allowed as a regular sub. personally mgtow is probably worse but comparing them would basically be splitting hairs. i hate this reddit policy that hating the "majority group" is okay. it's one thing to make some dumb gender joke but it's another thing to allow blatant misogyny or misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:40 AM
12

how is fds still allowed? genuine question. a truly sickening sub, not to mention astroturfed by lesbians who don't even know a damn thing about men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:33 AM
1

these are all satirical tweets by the way
/r/MensRights04/10/20 12:51 AM
17

remember folks, body image issues are only a problem when it happens to women
/r/MensRights18/09/20 09:33 PM
15

i hate the idea of toxic masculinity because it's essentially women telling men how to be men. i'm sorry, but women have 0 idea what men are like, and vice versa
/r/MensRights16/09/20 02:17 AM
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queens declared war more than kings and there are ton of female war hawks in politics. women perpetuate making men penetrate as often as men rape in the past 12 months. tons of women watch porn and women porn directors are becoming a more popular phenomenom (and hey, more power to them, you won't see us cry about it). plenty of women are accomplices or play a role in the sex trafficking industry, with some names like ghislaine maxwell being high-ranking madams. but i would not be surprised if so…
/r/MensRights16/09/20 02:14 AM
0

idk what is with these people's obsession with god, if god exists, being a woman. what are you trying to prove?
/r/MensRights15/09/20 03:06 PM
18

victim blaming is a favorite among these ppl
/r/MensRights12/09/20 08:48 PM
1

you're absolutely right. a lot of the bs from feminism is the same as the 19th century southern belle gender roles for men and women. it seems as if many feminists want to keep the good parts of the gender roles (i.e. men give them stuff, men give them money, society considers women morally superior and good people, being entitled to sympathy and support, etc.) while throwing out the bad parts of the gender roles (such as men being better logical thinkers, being better at some jobs like STEM job…
/r/MensRights12/09/20 03:24 PM
1

the first minute mentioning the genocidal origins of "the future is female" slogan was good. the video really started going downhill with the whole anti marxist cultural war stuff after that
/r/MensRights12/09/20 02:15 AM
2

sometimes the "asshole" behavior is necessary. parents are not here to be your friends and coddle you. especially not fathers.
/r/MensRights12/09/20 02:00 AM
2

that is like saying incels and male serial killers are justified because many of them had bad experiences with their moms
/r/MensRights12/09/20 01:58 AM
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you got it all confused guys, she clearly needs $600k to pay off her electric and phone bills!!!
/r/MensRights12/09/20 01:55 AM
3

"you just can't handle me"
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:26 PM
1

ding ding ding
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:25 PM
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when the men there talk about how they may have been victims too, fds calls them "low value" and "twisting the conversation". these people have ZERO empathy and basic human decency whatsoever. if you are ever unlucky enough to date someone who goes on fds, get out of that relationship immediately. you will not get any emotional support or love out of that relationship, but you can sure as hell bet she will demand a lot of that (and money) out of you
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:22 PM
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the amount of vitriol and genuine, unhealthy hatred that some women have for men talking about their issues is actually concerning. i never want to generalize about women but it's been a lot of them (at least online) that have just sheer levels of hatred that just seems so out of character compared to their usual personality when talking about other things. misandry and gender bias is a LOT more prevalent than many of us would like to admit perhaps
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:13 PM
58

we do make our own space for it, and you absolutely hate it
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:10 PM
16

im sorry but if my wrinkly ass teacher try to cane me they better expect their ass to be caned right back
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:23 AM
6

feminism and racism have always been deeply intertwined
/r/MensRights10/09/20 03:50 PM
1

men have always been the majority of violent crime victims. anytime this gets brought up feminists will say that they the perpetrators are also majority men. well...okay, and? so what?
/r/MensRights10/09/20 03:49 PM
3

this man has no real convictions outside of what gets him attention and power
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:25 PM
15

narcissism red flag
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:23 PM
2

ive never heard any man say this. i always found it ironic that some women will complain about toxic masculinity but then will uphold higher masculinity standards for men than the men hold for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:14 PM
2

we need to show we are better than them. we can't complain about feminists if we act the same. that's why we prided ourselves in letting women know that their opinions are important here and valued when fds tells men that they can fuck off, it is clear which sub takes the high road
/r/MensRights08/09/20 01:11 AM
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true. we complain that feminist subs constantly demonize men (which they do), but that doesn't mean we should turn around and do this bs
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:49 PM
4

while i understand the point this is making, some of this is weird incel content "i'm gonna put it inside of me tonight" yea no
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:48 PM
1

oh please, nobody's ever gonna do anything about it. this is what society calls "empowerment". don't waste your time on it and let the pityful moronic feminists fuck themselves
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:52 PM
1

the wall street journal post made me puke in my mouth
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:29 PM
2

fr it's just bad for mental health. pity and laugh at these people and move on
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:22 PM
5

anyone who tries to sell you the point that you're either with us or against us is always in the wrong
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:21 PM
7

i think it's times like these that we should take a deep breath and remember that most women and people are not on fds and are not like these people. let's be honest here. most of fds is never gonna have a good, fulfilling relationship. they are pitiful people who we should feel bad for instead of getting worked up over. no point in getting sad or angry over low-value individuals like those in fds
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:19 PM
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mind boggling. by their logic every single thing ever is based off of anti-women sexism. but of course the couple comments in there that say they primarily watch women's sports and prefer female athletes over male fail to recognize their irony, because preferring male sports is sexist but preferring female sports is EMPOWERMENT. fuck em, women are inferior athletes in most popular sports. deny it, cry about it, truth won't change
/r/MensRights01/09/20 01:39 AM
4

the mental gymnastics these feminists go through on the daily is mind boggling
/r/MensRights01/09/20 01:34 AM
1

you cannot make one comment about women's bodies without being accused of being a harasser or having high standards. women are endlessly coddled to believe everything is beautiful. give me a break, women most definitely do NOT have it harder, and the ones that do get body shamed usually are shamed from OTHER WOMEN
/r/MensRights01/09/20 01:32 AM
1

this got the heartwarming award lmao. then she said she'll donate $25 to planned parenthood as if it's some anti-male gesture, like okay, does she know who's planned parenthood's biggest private donor? warren buffett, a man.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:43 PM
1

all this proves is that girls tend to be less confident than men, but of course instead of pointing towards some more positive encouragement for girls they pin the hatred onto men. goes to show feminists have little interest in actual improvement and are here basically to hate on guys
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:41 PM
1

actually an interesting point. trump has lost the white women vote that he won in 2016. so the independent and moderate male voters will likely decide this election, assuming that this election will be close
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:39 PM
1

she looks lightskin to me but idk
/r/MensRights29/08/20 06:44 PM
12

she definitely fetishizes black men but then gets mad at others for liking white women
/r/MensRights29/08/20 03:05 AM
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so goes the mantra: if the gap favors men, it's discrimination. if the gap favors women, it just shows women are inherently better. that is what equality means to feminists
/r/MensRights29/08/20 12:46 AM
1

ya i was thinking for the divorce case but then i saw he has a prenup which is nice
/r/MensRights27/08/20 11:45 PM
5

probably cheated. he needs to find a way to perhaps get an admission out of her
/r/MensRights27/08/20 04:03 PM
2

because they are not a minority
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:49 AM
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this really has more to do with race. far right breitbart, who used to have a whole section dedicated to "black crime", is using prior charges to justify the police attempting to extrajudicially execute jacob blake. he is a criminal and a terrible person. and that does not change the fact that the police have no right to use excessive force like that
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:48 AM
5

i mean, there are some pretty sus posts over at r/MGTOW and formerly at the incel sub. this sub is not "extremist" by that stance
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:47 AM
1

so did she just admit that many of these wives are bloodsucking gold digger leeches?
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:46 AM
5

feminists want men to talk about problems, but when men actually do feminists call them entitled spoiled brats
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:43 AM
3

let's not give fds ammunition with mildly homophobic comments like these
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:14 PM
3

look up made to penetrate
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:13 PM
4

god that some is so stupid. nice lip service but as the feminists would say, telling guys it's okay to cry is just a lazy bandaid that solves little
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:03 PM
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unwomen is disgustingly gynocentric
/r/MensRights26/08/20 03:02 PM
1

maybe so but no man or woman is entitled to sex. most of the fds and incel users are just people not willing to contribute anything to a relationship while feeling entitled to all the benefits
/r/MensRights26/08/20 02:55 PM
1

let's not be incel apologists here bruh. don't forget elliot rodger and that other incel guy killed like 15 people combined
/r/MensRights26/08/20 12:03 PM
1

false rape accusations are not important i guess
/r/MensRights24/08/20 05:52 PM
1

nice diversity!
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:54 PM
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25% isn't for rape. it's for any level of sexual aggression or coercion. so a guy who asks twice for sex might be considered sexually "aggressive". doesn't mean he's a rapist, despite what feminists claim
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:50 PM
2

my guess is the son isn't his
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:47 PM
1

are we really gonna start going pizzagate mode on this sub now
/r/MensRights20/08/20 11:46 PM
9

because men and women have biologically rooted attraction standards. sociologists may not like to admit it, but the science is true. men are attracted to certain physical characteristics of fertility, which is why for men female attractiveness peaks at like age 20. women are attracted to a man's ablity to provide and protect, which is why they like "capable" men in terms of strength, social status, and height. of course we all have frontal lobes so nobody perfectly abides by these biological imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:35 PM
1

men do buy and smoke more but the arrest rates are greatly disproportional
/r/MensRights17/08/20 01:32 AM
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feminists are the type of people who will say black lives matter but then call the police on a black man for walking within 10 feet of them
/r/MensRights16/08/20 07:50 PM
3

bullshit like this is what happens when feminists that have no idea how men work try to comment on how men work
/r/MensRights16/08/20 07:47 PM
5

read up on the history of why exactly marijuana is illegal. it's not because the feds thought it was a danger to the public. they knew that rhetoric was bullshit, nixon's own private aides admit to it in fact. it was made illegal to target, in the aide's words, blacks and hippies. and inadvertently it dis proportionally targets men.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 01:34 AM
2

ask them if they're happy that george floyd's dead
/r/MensRights14/08/20 01:59 PM
70

fds complains about this but then expect their boyfriends and dates to pay for everything
/r/MensRights14/08/20 01:53 PM
12

tiktok has been taken over to turn into an immature gender war. both sides have fault but any radical feminist video that hates and suggests that men are all bad can get a couple hundred thousand likes, it's not the same app that it was in 2018
/r/MensRights07/08/20 07:46 PM
1

"show me one instance of an adult woman trafficking adult men" wasn't ghislaine maxwell just arrested?
/r/MensRights06/08/20 09:05 PM
24

yea that's why we all hate ellie too... oh wait, it might just be that we are fine with the strong female archetype but hate abby because she tortured a beloved character to death without any backstory given at the time
/r/MensRights06/08/20 08:17 PM
1

just ask if that pertains to george floyd too
/r/MensRights05/08/20 04:19 PM
99

it's moments like these when the mask comes off for feminism... it was never for equality
/r/MensRights05/08/20 04:18 PM
5

the feminazi women sure can't
/r/MensRights04/08/20 09:44 PM
2

men make up most workplace deaths and are more likely to be victims of violence, crime, and workplace hazard, but women have it very hard because they have to send out holiday cards
/r/MensRights04/08/20 09:43 PM
1

any party or club in the universe is going to charge less for girls lmao
/r/MensRights02/08/20 03:19 AM
1

damn what a loss for us men. who would ever say no to that
/r/MensRights01/08/20 06:12 PM
1

pretty big assumption to make that these types of women work
/r/MensRights29/07/20 11:34 PM
2

why is british media so fucking awful
/r/MensRights27/07/20 10:50 PM
1

personally i don't give a shit about small penis jokes, as long as we can make fat jokes too. only difference is you have a level of control over being fat, not so much with dick size and height
/r/MensRights27/07/20 10:47 PM
3

this reminds me of freshman year in ap world history when my teacher devoted a day to basically shitting on the guys in the class and talking about how hard the girls have it because they have to shave their legs and shit. and this was a male teacher.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 10:47 PM
2

and it's not even a radical feminism sub lol. at this point any brand of feminism that does not outright call for a boy genocide is considered moderate enough. what a low standard we have for these misandrists
/r/MensRights25/07/20 03:39 AM
5

where the comic gets inaccurate is when it portrays the feminist as actually wanting to solve the problem. typically they say something like "it's the patriarchy's fault still" and leave it at that
/r/MensRights25/07/20 03:37 AM
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they don't, but tiktok is dominated by large misandrist accounts like @ sisterbryana, misandrist hashtags like #killallmen, and petty gender wars. i've only seen one mra account that has like 900 followers compared to some misandrist accounts with 100k or even 1 mil followers
/r/MensRights25/07/20 03:31 AM
2

r/unpopularopinion mods have an agenda
/r/MensRights25/07/20 03:23 AM
3

this is a satire account
/r/MensRights24/07/20 03:35 PM
2

the entire guise of feminism is women who have no idea how men work talking about how they think men work
/r/MensRights23/07/20 11:52 PM
2

great point but probably not a great idea to associate ourselves with the incels lol
/r/MensRights23/07/20 02:19 AM
10

conveniently leaving out that the perpetrators of that bullying is from other girls
/r/MensRights23/07/20 02:15 AM
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unfortunately they cast the mentally ill derek as an "mra" for an obvious strawman. and you can just see how some of the women basically turn away and stop listening whenever the man speaks
/r/MensRights23/07/20 02:14 AM
1

pretty sure unbiasedkatie is a satire account like friendsofjournalism
/r/MensRights20/07/20 09:51 PM
1

honestly women are just as objectifying and horny as men lol
/r/MensRights17/07/20 01:43 AM
2

nancy pelosi is not as relevant as trump. it's not as if some loons don't make conspiracies about michelle obama being a dude. any president in history who is not attractive is going to be made fun of based off of personal looks
/r/MensRights17/07/20 01:38 AM
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we see this on social media all the time. on tiktok (idk why i still go on that app) and instagram all i see are feminist posts about how men commit more crimes, men are rapists and scary, men are disappointing and useless, women are beautiful and should run the entire world, whatever whatever. occasionally an "intersectional" feminist will give some lip service to male victims, but then the comments are all "yeah but what about..." can't lie, i may be desensitized to some of it, but it takes do…
/r/MensRights07/07/20 04:54 PM
5

feminists want the suicide victim rate to be 100% men
/r/MensRights07/07/20 12:29 AM
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i have never heard a single man say that in my life
/r/MensRights03/07/20 07:16 PM
2

your mistake is assuming feminists culture allows that to happen. feminist "scholars" and professionals routinely protest at and interrupt men's issues conventions, male victim clinics, etc. whenever men need help, there is always a feminist there to stop it. for instance, when the 08 recession hit, male-dominated professions were hardest hit (such as blue collar jobs) while women faced a far more mild response. Obama's stimulus plan thus conformed according to that to issue more stimulus to mal…
/r/MensRights03/07/20 07:11 PM
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honestly i doubt it, it'll be way too obvious
/r/MensRights02/07/20 07:39 PM
1

i'm waiting for the articles that say "here's how we can help employ more women"
/r/MensRights02/07/20 07:39 PM
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feminists will pay lip service occasionally towards these issues. but their actions speak louder than words. no resources spent towards male victims, no demand for more male domestic violence centers, college feminist "scholars" disrupting men's rights conventions. even this instagram page will maybe make a pretentious post every 3-4 months or so, but the vast majority is propaganda that paints assault and domestic violence and mainly female issues to blame on men
/r/MensRights02/07/20 07:33 PM
1

revenge. they view patriarchy as the crime of all men, even those born in modern times that are not personally responsible for anything. so all future men who have never done anything wrong must be enslaved and pay reparations to modern women who were never born under the old patriarchy, all because their long-lost ancestors were unfair to each other.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 03:22 PM
1

this is the difference between feminist thinking and the thinking on our sub. when feminists see a man guilty of sexual assault, rape, or domestic abuse, they automatically apply that crime towards all men, saying that all men must pay for the crime of an individual. all men must die. any distinguishing between the individual and the collective is lost. when this sub sees the opposite happen, sees statistics showing the much of domestic violence and assault is actually against males and often al…
/r/MensRights02/07/20 03:19 PM
1

do not want to see elliot rodger on here. we are not incels, despite what r/feminism may have to say about us
/r/MensRights02/07/20 03:14 PM
2

irreconciliable differences...the classic excuse
/r/MensRights30/06/20 03:54 PM
4

no because as far as i am aware r/politics has not devolved into plotting assassinations on political opponents or advocating for borderline genocide
/r/MensRights28/06/20 08:54 PM
7

i've been on the donald a lot. it's an absolute shitshow and cult. this sub is politicall diverse. we are roughly split between republican democrat and libertarian. unlike the donald we are an actual forum
/r/MensRights28/06/20 06:34 PM
0

now we're just devolving into a right-wing crapshoot. by this logic mlk and the civil rights movement also sucked because they were socialists.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 02:43 AM
2

i snorted
/r/MensRights28/06/20 02:36 AM
2

honestly it depends on what you're studying. if you are in stem or business/econ it's not a big deal. sociology has become a shit show. gender studies isn't even a question. also, colleges are diverse. you're gonna meet crazy feminazis whereever you go but for the most part most of the women and people you meet will be normal
/r/MensRights28/06/20 02:27 AM
1

that is a cure worse than the disease
/r/MensRights28/06/20 02:26 AM
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fds is a hate sub
/r/MensRights28/06/20 01:44 AM
1

i'm more of a bill clinton-styled dem
/r/MensRights23/06/20 06:27 PM
1

anybody who goes out of their way to call others betas and who tries to brag about their own masculinity is 100% a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:55 PM
3

vox, cnn (if you believe trump about cnn), and vanity fair were some of the first sources to cover keith ellison's abuse allegations and say that his campaign is in trouble. fox was late to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/20 09:52 PM
1

biden never raped reade. believe all women means giving all women a platform for their claims to be taken seriously, which is what reade got. unfortunately, when her story got the attention and investigation it deserved, it fell apart. i mean, for fuck's sake, reade's claim is identical to a sex scene to that her dad wrote in his book three two decades ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/20 09:47 PM
8

that is just blatantly false. keith ellison's case was given the attention and investigation it deserved. and frankly the attorney general of minnesota isn't going to be as publicized as, say, a national senator or the fucking president. al franken, for instance, had his case taken up first by democrats. it was the democrats that recommended to mcconnell for franken to be reprimanded and investigated, and it was dems who pressured his resignation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/20 09:46 PM
0

You realize these are all op-eds, right?
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 06:14 PM
6

Wow, this story seems very believable
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 03:10 PM
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