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That's ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:51 PM
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Now I would not care if he had bought it cheaper, but from a yard sale? Hell no! And his mommy picked it out? F that! He doesn't even care about her enough to pick it out himself! Now my man picked out a several thousand dollar ring for me, but I purposely said he should pick a cheaper one and we are going on a cruise and having a destination wedding instead. That was my choice. This boy does not respect her and she should not put up with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:53 PM
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Why would he propose? Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:03 PM
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He is only telling her that so she won't leave him. She will keep thinking she's lucky to have him. My ex husband did this to me.for years! It is so painful and shameful to look back and think about what he put me through! She needs to get away from him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:50 PM
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He is mad because he thinks she is calling him a dog! Um, dude, you ARE a dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:29 AM
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I think this is right! I met my ex when I was a single mom of 1. He came in strong with a job and buying us presents and paid rent and had his own vehicle. Slowly over time all of those good things went away! I was left with a man that had no job (for 8 years!) no desire ot get a job, no work ethic of any kind, never cleaned the house and rarely took care of the kids! It is like he was grooming me to take care of him and be his 2nd mom and we had 3 more kids so I couldn't leave him. He would tel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:08 PM
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My advice is to get a new husband! This girl needs to level up badly! He does not care about her health? Clearly he does not care about her as a person! She is just a sex doll to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:42 PM
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This was me for years! I am so much happier and better off now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:55 PM
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Oh my god!!! I can not stress enough how true this is!!! I was married to a LVM!!! I kicked him out at the beginning of the year!!! He obsessed over the number of sexual partners I had before we met! He would get mad at me and call me a whore and a slut. This was after we had been together for YEARS! I started dating a HVM recently. He has never asked. Something that was such a big deal to my ex, literally hasn't even been brought up once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:31 PM
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I found one! The first couple times we had sex and I noticed he didn't do those things. He likes to rub my arms and feel my skin amd rub my back and kiss me. It's so different than the abusive relationship I just left. He loves going down on me! It's amazing! And I have had an orgasm every time we've been intimate! My ex? If i didn't do it myself, it didn't happen I feel so cherished by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:36 PM
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I thought "acts of service" was mine too!!! But same as you, he was just an abusive disgusting slob! I figured out it was touch, when he would refuse to even hug me and pushed me away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:20 PM
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I thought it was just me. I thought I was alone. This is the main reason, no matter how hard he tries to convince me, I will never take him back! I'm 2 weeks free today ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:31 PM
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I kicked him out and he is at his mom's. I now recognize that it is abuse, but for years I was not mentally or emotionally well enough to see it sooner. So now we've been together for almost 12 years and he's trying to guilt me for breaking up our family. My counter argument is that he will still have the kids, but he does not deserve me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:28 PM
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This is what i need to hear!!! My husband keeps begging me to let him come home and this right now, this is when i always give in and let him come home!!! He knows this and he is pushing hard. He is begging, then accusing, then getting angry and yelling at me. This is the longest I have held out for. And when he is begging/bargaining, I almost give in. But I hold strong and then he moves into the angry/attacking phases and I snap remember what an emotionally abusive POS he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:31 PM
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I absolutely hate how this sub is viewed by men! And I don't really care that they don't like it! I see this sub as a safe.place to come and talk. I see it as if I was going g over to my girlfriend's house to hangout and talk or we were having a girls' night out to hangout and vent about relationships. All of those things are perfectly acceptable irl, but for some reason not ok when we are online? No! They are pissed off because they are excluded! And frankly, I wouldn't have it any other way. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:20 AM
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kickhimout2020 UPDATE I did it! I kicked my LVM out last night! I met with my lawyer yesterday and he is going to get the divorce papers finished and sent to him at his mom's house. He has been texting me all night, but I just muted my phone and went to bed. I really wondered if I was strong enough, but all of your comments and support on my original post a couple days ago, really encouraged me. I know I did/am doing the right thing for me and my kids. I want to say thank you ladies. You are won…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:46 PM
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He used to watch a lot of porn and masturbate all the time, so some of that does make a lot of sense. But I guess I just figured his ED had put a stop to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:15 PM
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His counseling appointment is supposed to be today, but he told me yesterday that he probably wasn't going to go. It just reaffirms what I already know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:22 PM
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Lol, I live in the midwestern US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:18 PM
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Thank you so much! I won't be taking him back! I was worried I would back slide, but you all have given me so much strength and support, I feel like I can do anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:28 PM
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We do have 3 kids together and he told me that when I kicked him out last month. He said he will never pay child support and he will do his best to take the kids from me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:50 PM
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I am going to see him on Friday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:10 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:47 PM
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When we met, he had just quit his job in another city to move here to help his parents. They were homeless at the time and he got a house and moved them in with him. He then got a job at the restaurant where his mom and I worked and that is how we met. He worked there until a few months after our wedding 2 years later. There were some things that I would say looking back are red flags, at least for me. He slept all the time. Like, all the time. He worked 2nd shift, and he never got up before 2. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:49 PM
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Thank you so much! Not gonna lie, your comment almost made me cry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:19 PM
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We have not gotten the deed transferred over yet. We are set to do that this weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:01 PM
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You are absolutely correct! Especially with his PTSD. I am so afraid he will trash the house and break things! I am gonna take the most important things out of the house and to my mom's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:18 AM
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I am expecting to pay alimony or some shit, because the laws are what they are in the US. Laws meant to protect defenseless housewives are gonna kill me. That is a great idea, though. I will call my lawyer later this morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:52 AM
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That is stuff sitcoms aremade of!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:14 AM
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I really needed to see this today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:02 PM
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I literally said I am not trying to steal him. I then commented on how well he takes care of his wife! I have no intention of stealing someone else's man, cuz frankly, if I could steal him, then someone else could as well. And that would not make him very HV. What I like about him is his devotion to his wife. That is what I want. I want someone to make a special dinner for me just because. I want a man to make valentine's dinner in the shape of a heart. I want him to coddle with me and give me b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:48 AM
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Yes! You are exactly right! Even LVM in their 40s and 50s think they can get an 18yo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:34 PM
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Good for you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:17 PM
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Right? Apparently "older" women must just be that desperate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:48 PM
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That was my problem with my LVM! No intimacy or emotional involvement at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:14 PM
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Me. I needed this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:17 PM
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Ladies, this is my resolution for 2020! I am choosing me this year! I always put myself last. Not anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:58 PM
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He'll shower less. He'll start expecting you to cook and clean more. He'll stop trying in bed. If you allow a man to take an inch, they'll take the whole fucking mile and then lose respect for you for giving anything at all. He'll say "you've changed!" because you regressed to the slums with him. The reality is, he wants you to put in effort, not him. If you think I'm exaggerating, you just... haven't met men? This is literally my whole marriage. He only put in effort when I threatened to leave …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:50 AM
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We should crowd fund this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:50 PM
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Why guys with face tattoos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:47 PM
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With healthcare costs is the US, that is 100% correct!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:19 PM
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I really needed this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:55 PM
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Nope! He will complain that I am not able to take care of the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:53 PM
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My ex said this and I made more than him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:00 PM
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