Before shutting down my OLD accounts, I had been noticing a lot of men's profiles with "My love language is..." (side note: most of the ones I came across were Touch... go figure!)

I feel like the way it's being framed nowadays is bs. It's like: I'm only good at words of affirmations, so if you come home exhausted after a stressful day, I will tell how beautiful/handsome you look instead of giving you a back rub or making you a comforting cup of tea.

To my understanding, a fulfilling relationship must have a good balance of all of these languages. Granted, our needs differ and we can't be strong on all aspects, but why should we, as partners, only provide one or the other? Why can't we offer our best while working on our shortcomings?

Maybe I'm just misunderstanding these. But what do you think FDS ladies?