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Muh PENISPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:56 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:39 PM
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Muh PENISPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:12 AM
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PaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:09 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:08 PM
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LEVEL UPPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:59 PM
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PaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:19 PM
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#JustLVMThingsPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:45 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:22 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:46 PM
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SEX STRATEGYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:39 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:58 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:35 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:31 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:05 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:36 PM
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LIES MEN TELLPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:18 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:40 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:32 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:32 AM
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LVM LOGICPaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:44 PM
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PaciencaYFe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:54 PM
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42

Books by Margaret Atwood are amazing and female centric
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:13 PM
1

It shouldn't be glorified but I also don't think it should be criminalized. There will always be sex work and I think it's more important that we're there for some of our most vulnerable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:02 AM
3

She was handicapped and a lot of her books are about feeling trapped and helpless. Obviously I don't know but her writing seems like a reflection of her trauma so I wonder if something happened to her. In my experience she was the first author I read about that talked about grooming and the nuances of not understanding what it is at first as well as some other darker themes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:59 AM
5

Literally teaching him misogyny. He could have just said no. And all the support in the comments 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:46 PM
9

I wish more men respected women because of their moms tbt. Better then the way they're acting now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:41 PM
7

Pick out something you think could look better on him like his nose and ask if he's ever considered getting a nose job. See if he thinks he's being silly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:19 PM
17

If he wants you to be his therapist he can pay you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:17 PM
65

I joke with my friends and my man like this. I think it depends as you as an individual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:54 PM
9

It's kinda cute though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:29 AM
1

I always say I disagree but let em make their own choices. Otherwise they just push away and think you're judging them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:06 PM
19

I feel like most people are too codependent to actually leave and telling people to communicate is them projecting their idea that "relationships are constant work". The truth is a good relationship doesn't need to be forced to work. It works without you making it work but not many people have these awesome relationships. Them telling someone else to leave is shameful when they've put up with similar behavior and think they've "talked" through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:04 PM
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A lot of people enjoy staying single more and not dealing with them. I hope it works out for you ✨✨✨ cats are sweeter anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:51 PM
6

Sometimes the experience of trying out a new dating technique is worth it to an individual. I don't think there's anything wrong with just having company on the fourth while also experimenting your dating strategy a little bit. I used to go on dates soley because I like meeting new people and considered it me branching out. Not one size fits all. She doesn't need to go with someone but if she wanted to just for the yolos I don't see the issue. It's not like she slept with him or invested at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:35 AM
42

You are the red flag in this situation. Just work on having a good opinion of yourself because clearly he thinks you're worth it ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:36 PM
5

But her pregnancy is stressing the poor widdle man baby out :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:32 PM
58

It's just Twitter humor lmaoooo no one is snorting cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:55 AM
3

I want both 😌😌😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:15 AM
12

And if he can't pull any girls he considers cuties he must be pretty ugly himself. Doesn't even hold himself to his own standard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:54 AM
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No I know and I know leaving is hard but at the same time... What makes her think he's not gonna try it again as soon as he feels she's trapped again. What's to say he's not going to try to trap her with a baby on purpose or any other way. He's clearly willing to do anything to get what he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:10 PM
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Probably because the system is FULL OF PEDOPHILES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:09 PM
15

Seriously it's gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:23 PM
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I love how there's a 20% chance she's gonna stay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:13 PM
12

The show crazy ex girlfriend is a musical that goes through the life of a girl trying to find love with border personality disorder. I actually do think she does a good job of showing the illness and showing personal growth. I mean it's still a show so it's still corny with love triangles but maybe it could help you feel less isolated or maybe you could relate a little bit. She also transforms from being a pick-me to picking herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:38 PM
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IT'S COMMON BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT PERSECUTED HARD ENOUGH. IF IT'S NOT A BABY AND IT'S A 15 YEAR OLD THEY DON'T CARE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:25 PM
21

I actually had a man tell me that it's women's fault men are addicted to porn. They can't help it because of their biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:57 PM
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Also cats are THE MOVE. They allow your independence in a way where they're more independent themselves. They have a harder time getting adopted so it feels good to help and they're honestly such great companions. I love dogs too but I have my own life and I don't want to take on an animal I couldn't handle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:26 PM
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And even if you do talk to his exes you'd be called crazy and obsessed. I just wish there was a way to warn other women easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah that's why I said idk how we'd enforce honesty but in theory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:17 PM
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I knew it probably wouldn't fly but it would be amazing if men couldn't get away with rape or just being gross without putting yourself out there to be shamed by women haters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:17 PM
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😭😭😭 I hate it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:16 PM
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She actually is known for selling child pornography of her and her friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:15 PM
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Maybe on a scale of 1-1000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:34 AM
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I think she is pretty in a young way but at the same time SHE LOOKS LIKE A CHILD AND THAT'S WHY MEN LOVE HER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:32 AM
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They're a hateful, petty people. We already knew it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:31 AM
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When more men do this and we recognize it we have a better chance of normalizing it. Even though it's basic adulthood for us their expectations are different so it's nice to see a man not doing the bare minimum required of him knowing he could get away with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:11 AM
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It's actually one of the best ones I've found in general too. I couldn't handle the corny voice actors and I love how they go over everyone's childhoods and what led them there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:06 AM
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My man wasn't fully porn free when he was single but after we started dating he never uses it. I think it also kinda depends if they watch really kinky stuff or more vanilla. The more depraved the porn the more depraved the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:43 PM
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Don't forget something like 80-90% of men also commit all murders/serial killings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:01 PM
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I love how it's a huge epiphany for man to contribute to their own household without being told
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:59 PM
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They never got shit to say on the truth bombs dropped here. It's always about paying for dates. They clutch their purses like little old ladies at the grocery store
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:56 PM
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Idk I was always pretty hyped to go to Olive garden. Some of the worst food I've had was at boojy overpriced restaurants. I like to be taken out often but I hate to see shit places get a lot of money just bc they display themselves as nice. Like not being a pick-me but personal preference. I prefer a few specific chains or mostly tiny hole in the wall places because I like to enjoy my food. It's not about the man but about the principle 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:52 PM
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They'll put up with anything in the hopes of getting a crumb of puss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:45 PM
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She really gotta explain all that just to say no means no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:04 AM
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You'd be surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:29 AM
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The way it's written, maybe he just goes in the other room.... But I picture him Naruto running away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:14 PM
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Something about the way this is written and the physical running away doesn't sit right with me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:40 PM
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I'm kinda mean so I'll slut shame them if they pull something like that. Or just shame them in general. Like that's such a weird question. I've never had anyone ask me that before. You're literally making me so uncomfortable right now. It's so weird how you're so obsessed with my past, seems like you're hiding something. Or I'll ask him and act super disgusted no matter what the number is. I guess it's kind of gaslighting but if they're making me uncomfortable im fine with doing the same back 😂😂…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:09 AM
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She helped him install anti-porn software on all the computers and his phone then still caught him jacking off the first day he came back from his mother's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:18 PM
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Ditto. But my Mexican dad married a white girl so it never flew when he tried to make all the women do the woman's work 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:25 PM
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Also there's an issue with some being machismo. It obviously depends on the man but be on the look out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:11 PM
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It all makes sense now. IT'S MY FAULT HE'S A PIECE OF SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:10 PM
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How come he can refuse to bring the kids to his house but you can't refuse to let him in yours. I mean you can but he's just taking advantage of the fact that you love your kids and want them to be happy. He should love them enough to figure it out for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:22 PM
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The rapiest guy I've ever dated also had the biggest age gap. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:18 PM
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It's on r/deadbedrooms and no she did not leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:09 PM
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Happy that you didn't go through that for even longer. You deserve something more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:27 AM
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I don't even know what I'd do because leaving him wouldn't be enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:10 AM
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And for me as well 🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:41 PM
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Because I'm sure realistically most of them know it's gonna be a hard no. So why else would they??? They seem to like just talking about it at my bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:16 PM
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Sometimes I think they do it just for a reaction to get attention. Like to force her to think of him that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:23 AM
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Hopefully your dad stunted him to the point that no woman will put up with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:04 AM
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This is such a sad story and even though you suffered more emotionally because of it, at least you're your own person. You're an adult and your brother never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:20 PM
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https://youtu.be/bc8R7fgXDN8 Reminded me of this song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:27 PM
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My childhood best friend since I was 4 is a man and the last 4 times I've seen him he's been weird and gross to me and I'd NEVER be alone with him. I just blocked him on everything after the last time. Doesn't matter how deep the friendship goes. Their dicks come first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:19 PM
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I get it in theory but it does NOT work in practice. It's about getting rid of double standards but really just makes women easily accessable and vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:56 AM
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It popped up fine for me. Men have some audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:54 AM
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If he wanted to move out with you he would make it work. It's honestly as simple as that. He seems like he has some great qualities but obviously nothing is ever going to change at this rate. I have a lot of driving anxiety as well but having a car is having freedom. It's so important to your independence to try and learn. When I was younger the more dependent I was the less happy. Now I don't need anyone. I could do anything all by myself and having a partner is a bonus, not a necessity to my l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:50 AM
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I think women have it easier in the way that they can have their pick and they don't need to do most of the initiating or work. I think women have it harder in relationships when they do almost all of the emotional/mental labor along with child raising and babying men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:56 AM
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I saw that. As if women of color don't suffer too. Women of color have to deal with BOTH misogyny and racism. They get the shortest stick over all so if I'm gonna buy anyone lunch it's not going to be the men. #sorrynotsorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:45 AM
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Also what 21 year old would want to date a 17 year old. That's a big maturity difference..... Well I guess in his case maybe not 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 04:31 PM
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This definitely wasn't on you but you're naive. You think skinny dipping is innocent and all these things but men think with their dicks. It sucks that society let's them get away with it but until the world is different you can't just trust men. I personally never let men even touch me unless I'm willing to go further. I don't even like to be alone with men for this reason. I DO NOT TRUST THEM. I've been in the same situation before and no doesn't mean shit to them. It's gotten to the point whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:57 AM
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If he can't clean for himself he can't take care of himself and that means you'll be the one doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:45 AM
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Pro. This sub is more about you getting what you deserve and not being a doormat. It's all about what makes you happy while putting yourself first and making sure any man you dates respects you too. If you're looking for marriage I would say about 1-2 years but it should definitely be in the talks before that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:42 AM
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I'm very pro scrote usage but I do get what she means about it sounding extreme to show people she knows in real life. It's kind of a gross word. I don't think we should put down other fds women like this. Explain your perspective but don't put her on blast. It's going to turn her away and reinforce the stereotype that this sub is toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:41 AM
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I personally didn't notice any trends but I never went out with fish boys, flag boys, or office quote boys. My man I'm with now had the worst pictures but he was a reverse catfish. Very handsome in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:38 AM
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Jeez how can you not find your baby daddy for SIX YEARS. like what????? Ugh my worst nightmare I didn't know was a possibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:52 AM
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There's all types of men in their 20s and honest to God the bigger the age gap in my previous relationships, the more of a degenerate. I went on hundreds of dates to find a man I thought was a genuinely good person who I clicked with and he is in his 20s. Stay picky but stay open to dating in your own age range 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:42 AM
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Oh my gosh this poor girl. People are so blind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:13 AM
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Do you think it's ok to sleep with other girls??? Just to let off some steam??? His girlfriend doesn't need to know 😁😁😁😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:12 PM
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My cats actually love everyone 😂😭😂😭 gotta depend on myself for character detection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:39 PM
115

This man is 24 getting butt hurt because of his own choices. Wonder how long mommy is gonna let him stay there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:49 AM
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But he got the attention he wanted so it worked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:46 PM
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At least everyone isn't jumping to porn's defense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:26 AM
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I really hope she doesn't go back to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:15 PM
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My man likes to agree. Most men are TRASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:41 PM
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Also who asks for something expensive on FATHER'S DAY??? That seems a little ridiculous to me. That's more of a take you out to breakfast holiday and maybe something small
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:36 PM
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Not your son, let his son get him something and quit reminding him. He's an adult and is just as capable as you at remembering important dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:35 PM
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I like how he still couldn't directly tell you though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:33 PM
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"there's a lot of reasons he chose you"... Uh yeah he was trying to do some selective breeding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:55 PM
10

Jeez he's older than my grandma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:50 PM
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For me I just stayed single until I found a good man who was the same way. We still do our own thing but we like to see each other often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:35 AM
10

Nothing to lose?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:33 AM
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Big upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:33 AM
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They've got some audacity and you're being very mature about it. They'll both come back to you eventually with excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:17 PM
10

I'm the same way. I've learned to sometimes just listen more than talk and that's what helped me. Or I'll offer something neutral. Instead of talking about my favorite food and why I love it I might talk about a new restaurant that just opened. Obviously that's just an example and food isn't a big deal 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:50 AM
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She is so naive jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:01 PM
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Let his little sister bother him when he's playing cod tho and watch it be a different story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:28 PM
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Men had hundreds of years to change. Now they're butt hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:26 PM
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Why did he ask if he's just gonna argue. Clearly he knows it's wrong or he wouldn't be asking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:29 AM
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There's a musical called 6 about all his wives. It's all about how they're only known for their husband and their fates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:12 PM
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You should honestly be more upset because he was capable the entire time and he knew how to act right. He chose to be selfish until the very last minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:35 AM
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A lot of moms looked the other way. Especially for poorer kids or minority kids. And not to mention the normalized ass creepy uncle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:03 PM
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I used to do yoga, go to work, take classes. Classes are over, work is gone, I don't like doing yoga at the house. I'm too burnt out to enjoy doing art anymore. I just feel like it's a hard time to level up independently or even be independent right now. I'm always home and he's always home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:46 PM
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I mean I do those things but with quarentine it just doesn't take up enough time for me. I feel like I'm constantly available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:24 PM
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Yeah but let's say you live together because you're married and it was after you found fds. What do you stay so busy with all the time? There's a lot of hours in the day and I do not have a lot of energy for a million hobbies that feel like work to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:00 PM
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Not to mention touching little girls when they started developing was way more normalized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:45 PM
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I tried to retweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:50 PM
11

Lmaoooo this looks so low budget
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:38 AM
12

I've been fatfished by many men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:34 AM
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Damn men and women have always wanted the same different things. A maid vs respect and love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:01 AM
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I know it's hard but you need to love yourself more than you love him ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:58 AM
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I just support girls no matter what. Although it may be a little internalized misogyny I support a girl securing the bag in whatever way she wants. I personally would never but it's not my place to tell others how to live their lives. Just because she's in a line of work that is often times harmful doesn't mean I'm not gonna be open and not judging if she needs a safe space to talk. Also some of these men are too hard not to take advantage of, y'all heard of findomming 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:50 AM
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They're delusional and I guarantee in prison they're gonna be entitled and weird. They just thought they'd never be the ones to get caught and honestly more men need to be caught because the amount that go after teenagers and little girls is way too high
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:32 AM
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A king
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:33 PM
3

I mean some people do like that stuff having never even been exposed to porn. Just do you and as long as he's adding to your life and not sucking you dry just enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:10 PM
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A good amount of men are so fucking lazy they'd rather choose porn and complain on Reddit. Pussy doesn't have the power it used to 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:58 PM
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If he was romantic in real life would she even want to play the game?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:50 PM
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But how did he bag a wife. This poor woman gets a $20 allowance off her OWN PAYCHECK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:55 PM
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Whenever I had a FWB I made sure they were a good friend to me too. Still bought me food and was there if I needed help. You're not allowed in my body if you don't want to be in my life 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:27 PM
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I like how everyone is saying she's too attached bc they're just FRIENDS with benefits. He's not acting like a friend though soooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:22 PM
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That's funny because MOST GIRLS CHANGE THEIR NAIL COLOR AND SHAPE MONTHLY LIKE WHAT????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:03 PM
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Many guys are even unable to hold a conversation while they play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:32 PM
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I mean this is just my personal experience but the 33 year old I casually dated when I was 24 was literally the worst person I've ever met morally speaking and did not have good values whatsoever. Obviously in the beginning he played it off but it became obvious quickly. I think if they're willing to date that young it's a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:30 PM
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Girl whyyyyy??? Why did she get back with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:27 PM
2

And she still puts out often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:20 PM
4

He specifically says he uses condoms with everyone but his wife 🙃🙃🙃 like what a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:04 PM
12

Also he knew his wife was going into labor and could have left earlier but he chose to hang around until something else came up and he couldn't leave at all. I think that part in itself makes him selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:25 AM
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Darcy catfished a younger guy named Jessie who also got very sick of her very quickly and I think this is her third time on this show. Her poor daughters must be so sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:44 PM
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That's just an excuse for him to fetishise that ethnicity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:27 PM
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These attachment styles are magnified by a man not treating you right too. In my last relationship I was definitely anxious attachment because I didn't feel secure or loved but in my current relationship I almost never feel anxious about him. I know he's dedicated to me and he gives me a lot of time so I feel very stable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:30 PM
21

Neckbeards 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:28 AM
10

I don't even know he's just hating to be hateful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:48 AM
9

She's very skinny too so it's not even a relevant criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:23 PM
12

He got so excited when he thought he got one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:56 AM
22

But I mean he did say from day 1 it was a deal breaker. But I agree he definitely can't forbid her. That's why I said it was handled badly. To be fair I also would never be with a man that forbid me to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:58 PM
42

This is cute. I like it. Fds is my little hvw angel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:34 PM
30

I feel like it's fair for her to do whatever she wants to her body and I also feel like his standards are his standards. If he can't live with this maybe he needs to be on his own. Like personally that's not how I would have handled the situation and the pettiness on both sides made the situation worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:31 PM
9

Here looking to meet new people... To fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:07 PM
9

This is not socially prosected enough and a lot of girls even brag and say they married the 20 year old who was trying to get with them when they were 15. Like congrats on marrying a guy who tries to hang out with CHILDREN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:47 AM
30

It's not flattering. It's part of their personal serve kink. They do it for themselves. 4chan always has tribute posts up and obviously the girls are unaware so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:07 PM
5

🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:36 PM
10

Love love love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:39 PM
125

I WISH they looked that cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:19 PM
55

The comments are ridiculous. Acting like it's her job because she doesn't have one right now. Like bitch no unless she's getting free rent and agreed to it y'all got some AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:36 PM
4

Even the girls can't stop. They really can't be alone for 30 days or just make a genuine friendship/connection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:28 PM
3

Yeah I think the concept was good but the people are just lost causes. They already were too privileged to care about the consequences so they had no reason to stop. Only the two guys cared about the money and everyone else literally said rules are meant to be broken and they don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:27 PM
6

I don't think anyone had actually self growth. It was all very vapid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:25 PM
1

Netflix!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:24 PM
12

Girl do what you want to do. If you're posting this it sounds like you already know what you want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:53 PM
21

Imagine how little he respects her though. Him and his other fuck boy friends probably laugh at her and say he's lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:49 PM
94

Men think they do a lot more than they actually do is the issue. If they're equally emotionally supportive, loving, cleaning, all that. Sure. But they aren't most times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:45 PM
11

A lot of it is subjective too. How do you feel when you're with him? Does he put in effort? Do you feel respected and prioritized? Although different men may do things differently, with a quality man you should ALWAYS feel secure, safe, and valued
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:41 PM
0

Nah it's actually a form of sexism where they're basically saying all girls are a certain way but you're the exception. It's also something they say to everyone because everyone wants to be special and so it doesn't mean anything except that they're trying to flatter you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:38 PM
6

If I wanted to pay for dinner I'd spend time with one of my friends I know for a fact I'll actually enjoy time with. They won't make me uncomfortable or be sexist or creepy and I don't have to worry about them pulling some gross move on me 🤮🤮🤮🤮 these men really think they get to harass for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:48 AM
16

Crazy because that's how I feel about MGTOW. The way they rationalize and expect is crazy without expecting to contribute anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:42 AM
32

No one likes her and women do not claim her. She's on her own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:38 AM
17

Why is the focus on monitoring social media instead of going after these men and not making it so socially acceptable for them to be this way. Like yeah social media should be monitored but also men like these need to be contained and not let off so easy. They're doing it because it's easy and there's no consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:45 PM
24

I think the situation is more nuanced than that. You're not teaching men to be better manipulators. You're teaching them how YOU expect to be treated and I've dated a lot. It didn't mean anything except that I don't get along with a lot of people and I'm not willing to settle. I feel like a lot of these fds posts are trying to make things black and white when some things are just a case to case basis. I would say pay attention to everything in the beginning and make sure he maintains that effort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:22 PM
25

I mean look at all the threesome questions. Is it ever MFM?? NAH. It's always FFM and the girlfriend ALWAYS says it's so hot and is being very cool about it. I guarantee the reason she thinks it's so hot some of the time is because it's hot for her man and she lives to serve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:49 PM
25

I get stressed taking the trash out in my apartment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:43 PM
145

Edit 1:"omg I did not expect this to blow up". Edit 2: "Thank you for the gold!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:33 PM
28

All of his books are weird like that. I'm just happy he got it all out by writing instead of acting like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:32 PM
121

So she can bring home other men right?? Because she's single right?? They're just roommates?? Haha see how well he takes it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:14 AM
1

Lmaoooo I love it. It's true, first you're paying dinner then you're paying his phone bill and that is NOT going to be my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:40 AM
1

Start a riot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:25 PM
2

Love wedding repeat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:55 PM
36

Yeah it's easy to fall into but if you've only been on one or two dates I still wouldn't think about him so strongly. Put yourself first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:28 PM
84

Girl if y'all haven't met yet it's not ghosting. Don't put so much energy into a guy you don't even know, there's literally thousands of other ones to swipe on and distract yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:22 PM
121

I always got very bitter when I man would tell me I'm not like other girls. Like bro yes I am and you sound so dumb right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:17 PM
108

I think it just means they took years away from finding the actual right person for them. I mean that's how I've always thought it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:16 PM
12

Personally every guy I met off bumble was way more shallow with a bigger head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:00 AM
198

Men have nothing if not audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:17 AM
73

Very common story. Men do this often to see what they can get away with. It's gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:30 PM
24

Hey I wouldn't have to "nag" if you did the right thing all by yourself big guy. -message to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:26 PM
15

😭😭😭 it's a guy talking about international women's day being a joke because all women do is cause suffering to men while another guy pulls up the hateful guy's sexual assault charges. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:22 PM
7

A man made this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:36 PM
37

My boyfriend wanted to meet my friends immediately. If he wants to commit to you he wouldn't be that weird and skittish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:29 PM
3

I think just because she wasn't breeding. She was maintaining that her place was a tiny bit better but she was still for-profit so idk why she had such a sense of superiority. Not that there's anything wrong with breeding if it's to restore the population but Joe was selling these cubs and I can guarantee most people cannot care for a tiger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:38 PM
6

Not with that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:28 PM
33

So when push came to shove you'd move for him and he wouldn't move for you. There's billions of men in the world and you deserve one who wants you to to be happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:30 PM
18

Oh yeah you're right. But still I couldn't imagine someone referring to my baby as a cockblock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:46 PM
115

And she's still putting out fairly often. Imagine calling your baby a cockblock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:25 AM
13

People are actually saying to vote for him because he's raped "less than trump" like honey no. We don't want ANY RAPISTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:15 PM
4

THAT'S her husband??? He's a dick in every part he plays and he's not good looking at all. Kristen is a musical QUEEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:11 PM
3

I think it's her sense of superiority as well. Like you can just tell she has the biggest opinion of herself. Like how she didn't learn employee names and she laughed it off like it just wasn't worth her time. Joe had a big head too but I think he came off more insecure and peacocking than the snobby better than everyone way that carol was showing. I actually personally do hate joe more because he's shady and doesn't treat his animals well but off the bat carol was more unlikable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:09 PM
18

To be fair she does sound crazy in a lot of parts and that's not because she's a woman. I think everyone featured on that show was insane. I can see why people are hating on her. You can tell she's the type to give Starbucks employees a hard time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:51 PM
27

And they act like joe was some great tiger owner. Like nah he couldn't afford them and he was breeding them too quickly. Tigers live for a long time so what happened to all of those cubs???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:49 PM
1

It's almost like... Should I??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:59 AM
47

I've had men tell me they think of me as a child and hit on me anyways later. They know better but they just won't admit it because they know it's wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:26 PM
4

Rent strike
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:19 AM
26

I liked your response. Clapping back and sounding articulate while you do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:10 AM
14

I like to start petty arguments when I'm bored 😁😁😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:07 AM
25

But the real question is HOW DO I WATCH THE NEW SEASON WITHOUT BUYING ANOTHER SUBSCRIPTION
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:47 AM
11

I like the controls anger statistic because it's so subjective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:30 PM
4

I went on dozens upon dozens of tinder and bumble dates but only two from hinge before I found someone I liked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:28 PM
85

Actually in birds the females cheat more often. I hope he has that same energy when he's the one getting cheated on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:13 PM
27

Get a restraining order out on him wyd girl??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:12 PM
33

That's a whole ass pedophile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:55 AM
34

Yes. Las Vegas for example has a lot of low value people in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:54 AM
6

I mean in my case I didn't go on and on about porn and how great it is. I just asked in a non-judgmental way. Like so what are you into, do you watch porn, what type. They just assume you're cool with it and if you don't like the answers you know they were honest ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:44 PM
6

I think it's partially the way they're socialized too. A lot of men are babied their whole lives and therefore think the world of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:18 PM
30

But it's quarentine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:14 PM
8

Ok manlet. Your neckbeard is showing. I hope your mom is proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:13 PM
21

Nothin on you by b.o.b. Like he openly admits he's flirting with others but it shouldn't matter bc at the end of the day he wants to be with the main.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:38 AM
27

But he finally poked a response. They'll take any attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:39 AM
6

Act like you're open to it and just ask
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:27 AM
10

I lose my temper because they never hit on you respectfully either. The grossest men always have the most audacity. Like bro shut the fuck up I'm just trying to live my life without being consistently harassed by these ugly ass men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:40 PM
5

Or just have really good camera angles in some pictures but look completely different in others 👀👀👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:35 PM
8

I like when they put their handle because a lot of them be fat fishing or short and I gotta do a mini stalk to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:03 PM
16

Damn imagine feeling lucky your husband cheated on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:24 PM
6

Tips for mood swings. I'll be up for a day and down for a week. Now that I can't leave the house I'm down more often. I'm so bored and not sure how to level up. Also worth noting that I'm recovering from surgery and not up to working out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:59 PM
2

He sounds great 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:23 PM
2

I've been to the store a few times and except for tp and supplies like that, I've never had problems buying anything I needed. There's less of it for sure but the stores restock often. I don't think you need to doomsday prep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:15 PM
43

But men ARE useless if they don't have money 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:57 PM
18

Gross. I bet she's much younger than him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:54 PM
8

When people ask mine I say all of them 😂😂😂 I need it all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:54 AM
4

I mean some people have more social need than others. It doesn't mean they can't be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:50 AM
5

I personally got a cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:48 AM
2

I thought I knew one. Then the new call of duty came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:59 PM
68

You should pick a man that you can trust to handle his own money. If he says he's got it, he's got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:56 AM
5

Interesting article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:54 AM
33

This is the weirdest looking man I've ever seen. The AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:19 PM
37

Well then he should know to spend less time on dating apps and more time on the woman he somehow achieved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:04 PM
45

CEO of bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:21 AM
22

Hey he can feel however he wants about it but at the end of the day you still said no to his crusty ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:56 AM
136

Men are intently selfish and even if they know, a lot of them lack the ability to empathize. Even some of the best men I've met just don't completely get it. They care more about how our reaction affects them than how we're feeling. Obviously there's exceptions and good moments and bad moments but this is the trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:53 AM
23

Cute. I hope it keeps going well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:48 AM
30

Honestly poor dolls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:22 PM
26

But he was such a good guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:06 AM
62

Poor baby isn't showered in the attention he deserves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:01 AM
5

Girl you gotta love yourself because he sure wasn't being very loving to you. You deserve BETTER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:03 AM
11

3 years Max as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:14 PM
35

Idk Marge is up there. Never yells at Homer much and constantly defends him. And she knows she's doing it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:12 PM
3

You can do some of mine I GUESS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:08 PM
5

I treated myself to a Wii switch and I still have plenty of hw to do so I'm good at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:45 AM
18

A king and his Queens 🙈🙈🙈 the story just kept getting better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:37 AM
6

This is so racist and inaccurate?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:20 AM
3

🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:07 AM
2

Mine was less than 4 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:06 AM
30

Girl at this rate you'll be paying his phone bill in 3 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:58 PM
20

I know fds advises against living with a man you aren't married to but I can only afford the #ghetto™️ by myself. I feel so much safer living with mine. People don't leave notes on my car anymore or wait outside my building to try and talk to me. And he do be cleaning the house when I work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:23 PM
3

Nah they've always backed straight off in my personal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:02 PM
51

I used to say not until it's Facebook official. They can't take it back on Facebook 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:15 AM
34

This is all deadbedrooms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:23 PM
17

You're different than other girls. Calling any girl crazy. I'll go off on a fat nag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:48 AM
4

Idk because I have men and women ever since I was in high school say I look like celebrities. I don't think it means anything except that I remind them of someone they've seen. I get one particular celebrity constantly and mostly from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:24 PM
8

I yell at them and I'm honestly just waiting for one to get super offended and come kill me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:23 PM
15

I like stylish men who put in effort but they were always too superficial for us to connect. I think we're just incompatible since i dress cute but I'm not super into hair or makeup or designers or being edgy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:50 PM
29

He's got a point though. They even want their fictional girls to be easy to control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:53 PM
5

Ok sorry I'm not on Reddit every day and didn't notice. Won't happen again 🤗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:35 AM
19

Does he clean? Does he take full responsibility or care of any pets including training, cleaning up after them, and exercising. Is he patient or a yeller. Is his own life in order? Does he do his own laundry and cook for himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:12 PM
6

As a bartender, I'll have men mad-dog me for like 6 hours straight. Got real good at ignoring them. They're freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:59 PM
5

QUEEEEEENNNNN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:41 PM
73

Maybe they're low key congratulating because you're a catch physically?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:34 PM
15

If he wants to, he will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:11 AM
80

Dick is abundant and low value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:01 AM
4

My ex still pays my phone bill. I don't think about him every time I send a text. I don't think it's a big deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:36 PM
3

Woke him up for all his appointments and classes because his mommy woke him up his whole life. Also dealt with his schedule because he "couldn't remember things like that". But I did get a car out of it so 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:26 AM
6

Author: men treat women like objects Also author: women should pay for the dates and initiate the conversations where they're treated like objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:00 AM
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