Advice needed post first date

Lalelolaleelo · 2020-03-14T17:39:48+00:00

You say you know that these things are a “nono” but do them anyway so I doubt you’ll take this advice.

You need to disconnect completely. Do not reach out to him. If he’s interested he’ll pursue you.

PaciencaYFe · 2020-03-14T17:58:46+00:00

Girl at this rate you'll be paying his phone bill in 3 months

ldnsurvival · 2020-03-14T18:05:12+00:00

Why would you initiate the date and offer to pay when you've been a long time lurker :(

Davina33 · 2020-03-14T17:42:06+00:00

This has already gone too far. I think you should just do nothing now. Certainly do not text him first! I doubt he thinks or intends to make anymore moves.

tindercoach1998 · 2020-03-14T18:13:05+00:00

Did you even read the FDS Handbook? 🤦🏻‍♀️

2020-03-14T18:15:57+00:00

You initiated, split the bill, and you will now "let him know" when you'd like a 2nd date. At this point, just cut your losses and continue with the pickmeisha strategy.

If the relationship ends, you'll at least have a case study in why this didn't work. I wouldn't switch to FDS at this point, you've already come too far and would only be sending extremely mixed signals if you did that now.

timetofliptables · 2020-03-14T18:28:52+00:00

If you’re wanting us to tell you to go for it you’ve come to the wrong place and you know that.

Men will go for what’s easy and comfortable not because they truly like you but because you’re there and why not. Is that what you want?

If he genuinely likes you he’ll figure out what to do next without any help from you.

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-03-14T19:05:22+00:00

It’s all up to you of course, but I don’t want you to make everything so easy for him when he doesn’t do his work on his end...

Title	Advice needed post first date
Author	uiucstudent12343
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	March 14, 2020 5:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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