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MOOD FOR LIFEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:57 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:19 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:35 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:07 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:45 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 03:50 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?prettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:56 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:19 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:23 AM
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DISCUSSIONprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 09:59 PM
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RANTprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 02:32 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:48 AM
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DISCUSSIONprettyexcitingnews/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:55 AM
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This guy is dreaming. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:45 AM
5

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:24 PM
9

Dude he's so fugly 🐸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:01 PM
110

First of all, say no to the frigging coffee date for the first date. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:51 PM
13

She's such a savage queen. I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:46 AM
25

I just finished. I have such a mixed feeling about this doc. For sure I admire the braveness of victims who came forward and did all the work to have this POS caught. But I can't help but think if only these women had known FDS, all this mess would've not happened... duh. I really don't want to blame victims, but girl stop using Tinder for the love of God 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:43 AM
26

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:23 AM
1

No more community dick in 2022
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:49 AM
25

Fuckbois are so 2010. I'll leave them behind 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:33 AM
14

This is it. I simply do not want them to reach out to me again. This happened far too many times 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:57 PM
26

😂😂🥯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:34 PM
5

I'm so so so proud of you, Queen! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:45 PM
2

I feel so thankful for this community. It's my daily routine to check here, and I feel empowered always. My proudest levelling up work I've done this year is that I didn't go back to OLD and also didn't date. Not dating for this whole year was one of the resolutions I set for 2021. This helped me really find my true self, stay strong and independent throughout the whole year. It also made me realize how independent I was and dating is literally more or less optional in life. Needless to say, my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:42 PM
10

I stan this energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:26 PM
2

Oh fuck you, Ryan. Rolls are all mine 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:53 PM
27

What the fuck did I just read. This is so terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:19 PM
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The last pic sent me 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:16 PM
5

Totally. Do not second guess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:24 PM
2

Oh shit I wanna do this to men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:24 PM
7

Curious to know your advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:09 AM
16

Oh no. I feel sooo bad for her. That ain't it sis...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:39 PM
1

Yes! This is the worst part of his post. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:05 AM
63

Damn scrotes do go the extra mile to not spend any money 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:50 PM
89

... speechless. Rest in peace 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:27 AM
55

Idk somehow I've stopped doing it completely as I felt repulsed doing it at some point... I've been single for some time, and even if I'm in a relationship, I don't think I'd do it... 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:42 PM
19

Yeah sis, this guy's behavior sounds way too familiar. From my experience (when I used OLD), most guys from OLD tend to put their best foot forward for a few dates from beginning, and it's just going downhill from there for some reason. Boi bye to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:08 AM
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Gosh I'm so happy FDS is back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:52 PM
21

What a tool he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:49 PM
3

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:17 PM
11

This is so true. I almost gave men the benefit of doubt, ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:16 AM
4

I’m dead. This made my day 💀💀💀🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:51 AM
3

Thank you 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:39 AM
4

Thank you for this. I’m leaving the job that doesn’t serve me any good soon and I’m excited about what the future has in store for me ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:00 PM
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Grandma spits facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:24 AM
3

For real tho, I saw some bios (including pics) uploaded for review & feedback... man it's frigging awful lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:49 PM
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Yup, my guy friends (plural... duh) told me they literally swipe right on every gal. They only look at girls’ profiles when matched ha. Straight from the horse’s mouth. It’s like that ladies. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:19 AM
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This is exactly why I quit dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:12 AM
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Yesss #boycottdatingapps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:47 PM
42

Yesss hot girl summer here we go 🌞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:38 PM
28

Yes let’s #boycottdatingapps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:35 PM
25

Damn. I agree with everything you wrote. I was using dating apps on and off previously (quite religiously duh), and it took quite some time for me to finally completely stop using dating apps. All you wrote is a hard pill to swallow cos dating apps are addictive and you feel like if you are on apps a bit more you might find the one... no no no. Literally there’s no hvm in the app. Plus using dating apps is a massive time waste. A subpar date to another subpar date... it’s really not getting bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:32 PM
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I want this to be a trend #NotAllMen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:00 PM
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Exactly this. Men are known to be not empathetic or rather rational compared to women... (it’s just a loophole for them to act like a douchebag tho), but look how they behave towards the men they have to show respect to e.g. their boss, senior, idol etc. They can’t be more empathetic and considerate lol. They literally behave selectively for their convenience 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:46 PM
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Amen 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:42 PM
10

You’ve dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:58 PM
10

Goals 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:48 PM
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Damn every sentence screams LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:15 PM
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Are they kids or what... this is upsetting 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:01 PM
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Yes! It’s so important to detach yourself emotionally at an early stage until they invest in you fully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:56 PM
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Nah they don’t deserve to know 😐💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:48 PM
7

These are amazing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:53 AM
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Great message!! Thank you 🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:07 PM
4

Man dating apps are such a cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:05 PM
3

Damn this triggered the memory with my ex... fuck I’m so glad I got past that time and single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:22 PM
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This site seems like they did some research on which parts people feel jaded about online dating 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:20 PM
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Yes, I totally agree all the women should delete dating apps. 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:02 PM
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Only men who have small dick are mad... well get a big dick then, easy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:51 PM
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I found that the guy who I used to date briefly is in a relationship. He was mad cute, but when we dated he was hot and cold, overall emotionally unavailable. He said he’s open to a relationship but his behavior showed otherwise. So it just got me thinking how the fuck this guy is in a relationship but not with me? Idk how to describe this feeling... but definitely not something pleasant. I ended things with him cos I really couldn’t stand his inconsistent behavior that time, but now that I see …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:34 AM
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I’ve recently found him on tiktok, and he’s very much aligned with FDS disciplines 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:49 AM
4

Lovely drawing 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:48 AM
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Omg the color is so unique and beautiful 🦋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:35 PM
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Thanks for writing this for those who need, but I really do hope we all boycott dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:29 PM
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Fuck... I feel so sick to my stomach. Wish justice for this girl and her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:28 AM
8

Amazing!! Congrats on your new journey 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:55 PM
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Yes, #boycottdatingapps 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:27 PM
4

All the best sista 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:21 PM
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I mean what’s wrong with that? Lol they think staying single is a big deal... nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:18 PM
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Omg he really looks like he’s watching porn all day long 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:00 PM
3

Seriously? Woa. The fact that it was written by a woman is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:50 PM
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This is the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:04 PM
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I sometimes wonder if sex is that good for men so they keep lying and doing anything to get laid. Well, if it’s that good, it’s fucking unfair for women... cos I can count the good sex I’ve had with my fingers 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:16 PM
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No fucking way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:50 PM
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How do you cope with pickmeisha / non-FDS friends’ relationship issues? I realized that I tend to be pretty firm & blunt when I give some advice to them... and for me some of their issues are even not worth worrying about based on my engraved FDS disciples... oh well. But not everyone is following FDS, so I get it... I’m just a bit worried that I may hurt their feelings or come off too aggressive. How do you ladies handle this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:42 PM
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hE sEeMs LikE a NiCe GuY 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah, men only love men actually 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:45 PM
8

At this point, you can seriously considering stop dating for your own good. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:41 AM
4

Omg he looks like he’s dying 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:34 PM
2

Excuse me... Burger King? 🤡💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:33 PM
2

OLD = Online Dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:27 PM
4

Hey, it seems that you aren’t fully ready to date someone seriously. Adopting FDS disciplines is a journey. I also made lots of similar mistakes as you while I was absorbing FDS disciplines. But don’t beat yourself up too hard, it happens. And you acknowledge what you did and want to correct it. That’s already good enough. Hope you can work on your past trauma and yourself first before going into a dating scene. I wish you all the best. Hugs 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:22 PM
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What the fuck. Sorry this happened to you. Great that you didn’t let this dude waste your time further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:13 PM
12

That’s so true! We don’t owe men anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:36 PM
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Yup, well said! I’ve been using the apps on and off for some time, but never really had pleasant experiences. Well, maybe some led to a few another dates, but in the end all faded or started showing LVM traits. Now I completely stopped using and will never look back. Sadly, meeting organically in real life doesn’t really guarantee men’s quality. Therefore, it’s important to know your worth and vet carefully in any situations. Use apps at your own risks, but really... it won’t be worth your time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:32 PM
25

Yea it’s not funny. But in real life if I say I’m offended guys would say “yOu’Re tOo sEnsiTivE.” Duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:36 PM
2

Does anyone feel that mercury retrograde has beeb hitting especially hard this time?! Ugh thank god it’s over tomorrow!!! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:33 PM
10

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:35 PM
19

Basically we don’t need them and we are more than fine without them 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:35 PM
20

🤡😂😂😂 shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:33 PM
1

Lol their audacity is frigging ridiculous at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:27 PM
4

Seriously... can they get any worse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:23 PM
5

Awww what a cutie pie 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:22 PM
98

Shit sorry that happened to you. This man is gross af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:17 PM
17

Yes, seems like OP is new to FDS. Please read the handbook and never offer to split the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:52 AM
39

Yeah, they know exactly what they are doing smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:36 AM
5

Oh sister, pls find FDS and dump that fucker 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:30 AM
5

You had me at ScroteTube 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:27 AM
5

Queen shit 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:36 PM
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After sometime to mull over my dating/love life, I’ve reached a conclusion that I’m and will be okay without dating. I’ve been on numerous dates, and most dates were mediocre. As you already know, the quality of men out there is getting worse and worse, and I do not want to compromise or settle for less. Sometimes I do feel lonely or need some physical intimacy, but I do not want to trade my peace when I’m alone with a mediocre relationship and all the emotional labors that are accompanied by th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:53 AM
2

Hope you’ve already blocked him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:44 PM
4

Why girl 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:59 PM
3

There’s absolutely no benefit in fwb relationship. Sex is mediocre at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:23 AM
14

I mean let’s talk about your watch too 😻✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:09 AM
11

Sadly not many people agree with me when I say this... 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:06 AM
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It’s random but there has always been something wrong with the guys using 🙈 emoji ...in my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:36 PM
27

Why do you think why men love bitches is trash? I’ve read it, and I don’t agree with all in the book but it was pretty insightful for me. Just wanna hear your opinion :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:29 PM
2

Happy for you!! Congratulations 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:56 PM
11

It’s soon 2021, and I want to completely stop dating. Hope I have strength to be okay with myself and never be going back to dating apps. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:52 PM
20

Masterpiece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:03 PM
2

Thank you for your reply. Definitely, I have no plans to lower my bar haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:00 PM
4

Tell me about it. My 2021 goal is to completely stop using OLD. I’ve been on and off way too many times. Time well wasted. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:56 PM
7

Love this energy so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:55 PM
6

The fact that this new word is commonly used within teenagers makes me just lose hope in men for the next generation too 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:16 PM
21

I’m really sick of this subtle LVMs who tend to act normal/proper at first but reveal their true intention later on. For example, let’s say we meet on OLD, they initially act normal, know when to ask out, pay for the date, say nothing sexual... so I decide to meet up. And at the end of the first date, they invited me to their place also saying something subtle; oh I wanna talk to you more, spend more time with you bla bla. This already happened to me a few times. I have no issue to reject and st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:15 PM
1

Oh the worst fuckbois (plural!) I’ve ever met in my life are brit men 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:30 PM
11

Sorry sis, pls dump him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:20 PM
4

🤣🤣🤣 yeah sorry but his face is really hard to look at...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:43 PM
17

Omg that’s worse!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:37 PM
16

What the fuck did I just read? Omg poor girl. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:31 PM
30

They will never read the longass message. Don’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:28 PM
1

He tested himself already 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:31 PM
1

Amazing, congrats for closing the deal!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:26 PM
5

Seriously tho... what’s wrong with these filthy old & married men at work who misinterpret politeness with something else. It’s purely disgusting. Hope you take care of yourself. He deserves this consequence for what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:23 PM
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She can be a professor tbh 💀🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:37 PM
11

Omg I’m checking rn... and found this dude’s profile saying “I love the outdoors (I haven't been out much).” 💀 yea of course you can’t go out much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:42 AM
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Honestly tho... I always used to be back on OLD thinking it’d be better than before, my ass... it’s always WORSE. It’s just getting worse and worse over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:25 PM
11

I know this is still dilemma for me too but I don’t think I will ever look for someone to just meet my sexual needs cos it’s just too risky. I used to sleep around and learnt the hard way that it’s meaningless and freaking dangerous. So whenever I have temptation to find someone for physical needs, I thought about the lessons and just DIY ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:17 PM
1

Happy for ya!!! All the best 💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:39 PM
2

Ugh this guy is creepy as hell and talking nonsense constantly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:19 PM
6

I’ve been extremely demotivated and annoyed by anything and anyone lately... like I don’t wanna meet anyone and just disappear for sometime, but still gotta work tomorrow and it feels just so overwhelmed. Ugh... don’t know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:17 PM
10

Fuck yes... so sad but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:05 AM
2

😂😂😂😂 amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:42 PM
1

Damn I’ve always known that OLD is a huge waste of time and energy but this break down of numbers hits me hard. Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:35 PM
1

That’s good for you!! Honestly there’s no one to meet on the apps if I weed out following my criteria hahaha... then so it be💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:53 PM
5

And there was no guy left in the apps 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:54 PM
11

What a freaking jerk!!! I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Men’s audacity is really beyond my imagination...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:09 PM
189

Wow, what’s wrong with this guy? I just checked his tiktok account and most of his videos are him negging, being rude to his gf... whether it’s staged or not, it’s extremely unpleasant and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:18 PM
6

Belated happy birthday! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:16 PM
2

Haha he messaged me if I’ve got any fun weekend plans lol... well boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:56 AM
3

Yeah, definitely. We only exchange messages one to twice per day. Last night when I replied, I just made my messages short and sweet unlike previous lengthy messages. Thanks for your comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:15 AM
3

Yeah like, there is another guy I matched almost similar time with this guy but he already asked me out yesterday - but I wasn’t feeling it so I turned the guy down... so if this guy wanted he could’ve made plans already haha. Cos I don’t wish to endlessly chat... you know? Ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:40 PM
2

Thanks a lot for your comment. Yeah I doubt he’s gonna ask me out for this weekend. Well... I guess I’d either just stop entertaining him or make plans for next weekend if he asks me out. Duh. More inclined to unmatch him tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:24 PM
7

Ladies, I’m back on OLD and... talking to this guy for like 3 days? Although we exchange messages sporadically but it was always lengthy msg and he seems genuine so I’m interested in meeting this guy in person. But here where I’m, already end of Thursday and tmr is Friday... well but he still hasn’t asked me out or asked my number. So it got me thinking, is this guy just going to chat endlessly or use this to boost his ego? I’m kinda on the verge of dropping him. Am I too impatient or what is he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:04 PM
3

Hugs to you sister 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:03 PM
14

Ugh, never!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:59 PM
1

Yes ladies.. we have like 3 months until this shitty year ends. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:13 PM
6

I don’t need to be constantly getting texts but text is the lowest effort that anyone can do... if he doesn’t... he is just a lazy piece of shit 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:09 PM
3

So true. I dumped the LVM today and of course it felt shitty at the time but yeah it was for my own good and for the best. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:07 PM
2

Thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:41 AM
2

I’m having hard time doing this, could you give me some tips? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:51 AM
3

🥺🥺🥺 so pure and cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:21 PM
2

She da best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:14 PM
3

Scrotes gang gang 🌚🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:13 PM
5

Wow. At this point I’m so done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:47 PM
3

Love you queen 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:50 PM
1

So classy 🇫🇷😭😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:11 PM
3

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:11 PM
16

I remember this guy who refused to hold my bag cos the bag is too feminine to carry 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:07 PM
1

Haha yea but unfortunately she’s taken and pretty busy with work but sure! Thanks for your comment :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:57 AM
3

Yeah, I do... but it’s kinda different types of affection unfortunately :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:22 PM
1

Yeah, that’s the thing. I have a supportive and solid friend group but sometimes it only does much you know 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:21 PM
3

I guess Matthew has lots of luck on OLD 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:52 PM
16

I know there are not even many HVMs I’d want to date but damn I miss affection and companionship like I’ve been doing lots of things by myself and okay with it... but you know sometimes you just kinda miss having someone to do things together and share feelings and stuff ugh. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:36 PM
17

Hope she joins FDS 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:28 PM
2

Guilty as charged 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:12 AM
11

I think he’s tryna troll 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:17 PM
3

Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:13 PM
2

I feel like i read a book by reading your comment! Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:12 PM
24

His friends make fun of him or his gf and he’s just being there laughing not even trying to confront or defend. It shows that he’s at the bottom of the hierarchy of his friend group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:39 PM
8

Awesome bio, Eric! You’ll definitely get tons of matches bro 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:28 PM
5

If you change your setting to private it will be seen as anonymous when you check other’s profile, but if the person is a premium user no matter what setting you set they can still see your name 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:14 PM
4

Ugh I fucking hate when these married men at work are trying to do something with single women!!!!!! Like bro get lost... you are fucking married and this is work!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:08 PM
2

Happy for ya!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:10 PM
1

Hey sis, I just wanna say you are one strong-willed and brave woman! Raising three kids, working and studying is a lot. But you still manage to do all like a champ. I know it takes some time, but slow and steady wins the race. Keep it up. I’m rooting for you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:47 PM
11

Oh my gawd. Why. Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:56 AM
2

I’ve been using quite actively for years... not actively recently. But it’s almost close to impossible. And if you have a high bar or standard which we should have, it will be a lot harder to find men from OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:28 PM
3

Damn, I wish I could hug you. You are a truly strong independent woman! I wish you all the best ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:24 PM
3

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:18 AM
3

Welp, I think mostly my insomnia comes from stress and anxiety, so it may help I guess. Unfortunately, a weighted blanket isn’t so common in my country but I’m tempted to get one and try out. Thanks for your reply and tips! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:22 PM
3

I had an exact same feeling a year ago. I wanted to meet someone and be in a relationship so bad. I saw my ex moving on with a new girl fairly quick, and guess that kinda triggered me. I was on apps and met tons of dudes. Had some flings here and there but nothing meaningful. Eventually I got extremely jaded and frustrated. I took a break, met new people not for the sake of relationship, tried new things, read tons of books, meditated and so on. Now, I’m ready to date again, but... what I realiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:15 PM
4

The last paragraph hits me pretty hard. Thanks for the comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:04 PM
4

I’m thinking to buy the weighted blanket as I’ve been having insomnia for some time :/ Do you think does it help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:55 PM
15

Exactly, nobody deserved my explanation lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:52 PM
3

It’s just a pure insulting wtf’s wrong with this ugly bald man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:34 PM
15

Idk why but this is fucking hilarious 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:55 PM
1

💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:46 PM
5

I know right, tbh I was surprised that she has friends 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:16 PM
7

Oh what a relief!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:13 PM
1

So true, just timing when to break up... ⏱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:45 PM
6

I recently went back to the dating apps after couple months of break, fuck man, it’s such a cesspool. One day in, I’m already done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:33 PM
5

Keep it up, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:10 PM
2

This is one of my favourite standup gigs! A must watch for single ladies out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:40 PM
5

I’m in shock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:32 PM
41

Damn is this for real... i’m happy for you sis! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:52 PM
2

Maybe cos she’s Asian? But yeah this actually applies to any men who say this go with the flow BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:51 PM
23

Really the only way to weed out LVMs is to be ruthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:09 PM
3

This is the best compliment 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:37 PM
4

Great! No matter what we carry on with our life. If they want to meet you, they will make it clear and fix the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:33 PM
8

I’m deceased 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:19 PM
24

He looks like a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:47 AM
27

I know right. That part is fake af lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:45 AM
2

Glad she left this cheap ass scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:17 PM
2

Yeah man, that’s clearly a joke. You are a fucking comedian bro. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:06 PM
8

This is really strange statement to put in their prompt wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:45 PM
1

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:27 PM
5

Same, I’m so sick of this contradicting behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:18 PM
5

That’s my queen! I absolutely admire how strong and firm you are. You deserve someone so much better than that scumbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:06 PM
3

Omg his whole bio screams NVM. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:55 PM
7

He’s fucking stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:55 PM
5

Ugh, I know right! Her page is filled with the videos of her husband. I’ve always felt a bit icky watching her tiktok... now I know why. 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:35 PM
3

They are a match made in heaven 😳💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:47 PM
13

I see no neck Ed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:21 PM
3

Only love 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:18 PM
3

Sorry but they are not even average to me 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:14 AM
1

Narcissism at its finest ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:44 PM
1

Pretty much sums up the modern dating culture. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:31 PM
6

Ugh so immature... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:51 PM
2

Savage 🤪💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:32 PM
31

He’s a lizard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:29 PM
4

This is why he’s losing hair... 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:55 PM
9

I’ve stopped using any dating apps for sometime with a little hope that I might meet better ones in real life. Alas... it wasn’t any better sadly. All I can say is I’m just happy being without men. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:48 PM
31

Sadly most of guys who I’ve been seeing lately all acted like that! Idk if they all are following fucking manual or something... all the same. Their hot and cold behavior obviously made me so anxious and question my behaviour too... like is this because I did this and that. No. Simply put, they just half-assedly liked me. When guys show that sort of behavior... just walk away and don’t waste time. You have no obligation to fix their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:20 AM
1

So true no one can disrupt my comfort zone 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:49 PM
7

No you should never ask first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:01 AM
2

Awww so sweet and empowering. Happy mother’s day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:44 PM
9

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:42 PM
11

I learned this the hard way 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:23 PM
3

Men’s ego is this fragile, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:48 PM
14

Hope everyone is doing fantastic and staying sane. Love you all! 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:32 PM
3

Sadly this is so universally true smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:23 PM
2

Ouch 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:37 PM
3

Loved reading this article. Thanks for sharing! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:28 PM
3

Spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:40 PM
5

So true. If they don’t add any value to my life I don’t need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:35 PM
21

I’ve been somehow weirdly addicted to watching Tiktok lately and cringed so much by all those pickmeisha videos. Videos like always cooking scrumptious course meal for bf, walking in naked to bf who’s playing video game (so so so many guys are playing video games in Tiktok clips, don’t they have any other hobbies?), seeking bf’s attention by making them jealous or doing silly things. Some may be staged but ugh... I just can’t handle. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:08 PM
5

Seriously tho, I can’t think of benefits we get from dating anymore. Yeah, of course there may be good guys somewhere, but if I can’t find any, that’s still fine! Why? I love myself anyways. ✨ Thanks for the great post! I couldn’t agree more with ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:03 PM
8

Spot on. This has been my thought for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:55 PM
17

I’ve been reading Why Men Love Bitches, and this book is amazing. Highly recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:24 AM
7

So true. If they are truthful, they show it! Talk is cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:54 PM
13

Yeah right. 😌🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:16 PM
2

Awww 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:05 PM
3

True. But HVMs are almost extinct sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:56 PM
3

What a shitshow. 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:55 PM
1

My heart 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:17 PM
12

I’m literally so fed up with this fuckery. #kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:14 PM
2

This post literally spoke to me. Thank you so much for posting this. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:11 PM
11

We’ve all been there done that 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:53 AM
13

Ugh, that audacity. From my experience they’ll never delete your number so that they can text you out of the blue, then what? Block em. Easy peasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:23 PM
11

Please. I know it’s easier said than done for some people, but trust me... you won’t gain anything from engaging with LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:21 PM
16

Hot and cold, breadcrumbing 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:52 PM
11

I’m so sorry... sending lots of love to you. Please take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:43 PM
8

Bob is living alone in the 1800s. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:46 AM
10

This is a good advice. We sometimes tend to try to fulfil us from others as they have what we don’t have. Once you have those qualities in you, you won’t need to find them from others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:19 PM
19

That’s so true. No means no, no further explanation needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:44 PM
4

She’s wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:42 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:40 PM
11

So incompetent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:39 PM
6

Fair point 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:31 PM
5

Tell me about it. I was so sick of OLD and stopped using it, and all of a sudden I met someone organically. I had high hopes thinking this might be different from OLD. Nah. Same. At this point, I just can’t stop thinking there aren’t many HVMs out there regardless... or they are already taken lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:23 PM
12

Can people just stop dating for a while? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:56 PM
12

This is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:43 PM
2

What an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:02 PM
12

Honestly none. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:50 PM
3

Ugh... if only I could have a pet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:53 PM
9

So sad I’ve been dating only LVMs... sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:47 PM
3

That’s my girl!!! Well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:36 PM
40

Ethical and respectful open relationship? My ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:09 PM
1

You rocking there sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:49 PM
13

I think I was afraid of being alone. Welp, more like I had no courage to walk away when things had started falling apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:19 PM
2

All the best for you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:15 AM
1

This is absolutely true. How many times I was so worried about being alone that I let LVMs play with and use me. Ugh. You will be fine by your own and you must be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:50 PM
10

Nah, I think you’d better prioritise your health rather than interacting with random dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:44 PM
13

I’ve stopped dating for like 6 months, using OLD as well... I’ve been feeling great, can focus better on things that matter... but sometimes I just miss some companionship and intimacy. Of course I’m not going to have a fwb or do ONS or something... funnily enough I do not miss the emotional connection (welp, have I had one anyways?) with men at all lol... I think it’s because I’m so much emotionally stable when not dating. So that’s what I’ve been up to... and I’m trying my best to level up and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:41 PM
2

... hope you left him already...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:35 PM
8

Jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:33 PM
2

Ugh, tell me about it. 2 LVMs from the past reached out to me again, blocked both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:46 PM
6

It’s all up to you of course, but I don’t want you to make everything so easy for him when he doesn’t do his work on his end...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:05 PM
7

This is too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:32 PM
8

Seriously this kind of dude better not even decide to date, just stay home and jerk off bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:37 PM
2

Absolutely agree. I’m self-reflecting hard on this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:55 PM
20

Speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:33 PM
6

Damn gurlll! Congratulations!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:31 PM
7

I think it takes quite some time to see who’s HVM. Guys put their best foot forward for the first few months or some years. However, there’s always this moment of truth that they show their true colours. Always be cautious and try not to lose yourself over men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:13 PM
1

I’ve been there done that. Acknowledgement goes a long way. And you already did. Once you acknowledge your mistake, you can now consciously make efforts not to repeat the same mistake. I know, easier said than done, but for real. Be conscious on what you do and know your worth. Thinking back, all the pickmeisha things I did was because I did not put myself first and know my worth. You’ve got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:19 PM
8

Aww this makes me wanna fall in love again, but yeah... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:47 PM
21

No emotional labor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:45 PM
7

Oh, so many times...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:42 PM
1

That’ll make a good side job 😗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:09 PM
4

Is this bio written by 7 years old boy? 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:08 PM
2

Yay, this is the spirit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:07 PM
32

Ugh, there’s this married dude at my work who tried to make a move on me. All I did was I just treat him nicely like I do to anybody else at work. I just can’t believe their audacity. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:08 PM
4

Good for ya!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:56 PM
2

Ewwwwww 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:03 AM
6

This is perf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:49 PM
2

Damn this is a poem or what 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:41 PM
3

Smh... know your worth ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:39 PM
2

Seriously I don’t mind being super successful without man. My life goal lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:35 PM
7

It really reminds me of this guy I dated before. I was a pickmeisha at the time, so my anxious clown ass asked him what are we as I was looking for something serious. And he said he’s open to a relationship (not with me obviously lol). After I heard this, I was kinda hopeful we might be a couple, my ass. But he acted super wishy washy, hot and cold. I ended up realizing he just said it to give me false hopes or relief so he could still get all the semi-boyfriend benefits from me. Talk is cheap, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:45 PM
1

Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:14 PM
17

True, the biggest reason that I stopped hookups is safety. If something goes wrong during hookups, everything will be on girls. Would guys be worried about pregnancy, STD what not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:48 PM
3

V narcissistic behaviour, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:45 PM
34

Fucking hell... pls guys, I haven’t had that many hookups, but I have never really felt that it was mutually satisfying or respectful. Better not do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:13 PM
9

Basically compare them to others, act totally opposite as they expect you to act 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:06 PM
4

Too low effort, I can’t...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:05 PM
5

Omg. This is literally the success case of KickHimOut2020 campaign. I’m so proud of you. Wish you all the best for you and your son. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:00 PM
10

Y tho. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:57 PM
28

It reminds me of the recent documentary of Taylor Swift. She was talking about something passionately and apologized as she got heated with her own opinion. And she realized herself that why she apologized for that? All she did was just speaking her mind. And then one of the female staffs (I heard the majority of staffs for this documentary were women) told her it’s because we women were told to apologize even over small matter. I want us to be more unapologetic. We’ve apologized way too many ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:53 PM
6

Issa mood. Been doing it, so good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:52 PM
3

Nah, it’s almost impossible to change someone. And he said himself that he just wants something casual. Forget him and move on to the better one who respects your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:48 PM
2

Drop this dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:10 PM
3

TRASH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:09 PM
4

Yikes... why. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:07 PM
2

Did he come back as a fuckboi? Wtf 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:05 PM
15

Why he trying so hard to look handsome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:59 PM
6

He’s not a HVM, he’s just blind af...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:31 PM
9

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 feel bad for crab 🦀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:11 PM
48

I couldn’t agree with you more. If someone genuinely likes you, they can’t be hot and cold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:35 PM
28

Ugh, why they are so cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:10 PM
1

For me they just look boring af. Maybe because others have dramas not them? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:04 PM
16

Jessica... second hand embarrassment is so real. When she had a drunk talk with Barnett... gurl please. I bet she’d be so embarrassed watching that. She’s a borderline alcoholic and mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:02 PM
61

Yas. Dump the low effort guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:51 PM
2

Thank you. Ha, yeah OLD is such a mess. All the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:55 PM
4

Ugh, I know right. I regret bringing random tinder dates to my favourite restos. They didn’t deserve to know. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:36 AM
2

Good for ya! Would you mind sharing what’s your bio?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:15 AM
8

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:00 AM
8

Seriously tho, if you want to kill yourself, why kill others too? Similar thing happened to my country as well, the guy also killed his wife and 2 kids before he killed himself. Like why!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:57 AM
3

This is so me as well! You are worth anything you deserve! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:06 PM
9

Awwww, this put a smile on my face... happy for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:57 PM
2

Done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:48 PM
18

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:18 PM
1

Aww! Congrats boo 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:17 PM
7

For me reading and meditation helps heaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:14 PM
1

Yeah right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:46 PM
3

Keep my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:43 PM
6

I couldn’t handle pick mes and a fuck boy 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:41 PM
3

WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:40 PM
7

I wanted to write something like this as well. Although this sub’s name is dating strategy, it’s not really about all that. But rather we learn how to value ourselves better and look out for ourselves over LVMs out there. Simply put, self love. That’s the start of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:18 PM
2

Wtf... I wish this was just staged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:57 PM
16

Again, we are not men’s therapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:20 PM
2

Awww ❤️ bong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:13 PM
11

"kinkier=more enlightened/fun" mindset is boundary-pushing and messed up, makes no sense to do sex acts for the wokeness component = absolutely agree with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:11 PM
4

I stopped reading when the gf asked this jerk if he has plans on Vday... yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:43 PM
1

Ugh, this is why I deleted all dating apps. So stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:21 PM
8

He’s total trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:50 AM
2

Me too. Checking this sub after having a long day is the best routine of the day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:30 PM
1

I know right. I was swiping for my guy friend for fun and heck, girls are so pretty and charming... I genuinely thought this is fucking unfair! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:17 PM
14

Ugh, wish my pick me friend would do the same... 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:11 PM
5

It’s just so pathetic that he made an account to write that shit expecting girls will be emphasising with him. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:38 PM
3

That’s the spirit sista!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:35 PM
14

I know right. He’s the cutest among all participants but man his personality... typical fuckboy 😂 I just can’t...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:52 PM
26

I’m on EP3 now. Barnett is definitely a fuck boy. I don’t really feel like Mark is a HVM as well... Idk he just seems too over the top and hot-tempered. So far, Cameron seems like a HVM. Let’s see... this show is getting interesting haha Man... can we say Amber is pickmeisha???? 😂 I can tell she’s frigging happy when she saw Barnett lol.. oh well sis..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:49 PM
19

Amazing. We gotta always put ourselves first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:46 PM
6

Ouch, it hits my old pickmeisha self 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:38 PM
2

This is true love 💕🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:33 PM
10

I don’t even like the word FWB... it’s what, a sex partner at best? It’s just another sugarcoated word for sex partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:29 PM
1

Guys can smell this really well. Hope she finds this sub and drops that beggar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:23 PM
3

I literally laughed out loud 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:17 PM
1

If this is not a face app filter, Girogio... you are a fucking liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:16 PM
3

“New phone, who dis?” When my profile picture is still same ol me. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:14 PM
13

I’ve been there done that, but I didn’t get any benefit from it. Sex is good, but what comes after that? STD, pregnancy, worries until you get period although you used protection etc. Now that I’ve passed that phase, I am feeling so free and relieved. I will never ever give up on my relief and freedom for the temporary intimacy with a random dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:01 PM
3

Did you just hear the sound? The sound of having his ego broken 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:34 PM
3

I totally agree with you. Thanks for the comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:02 PM
17

It really applies to any relationship; men, friends, family and so on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:57 PM
2

I always went with a hug... for me handshake is weird hahaha. It’s a date not a business meeting. But maybe different culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:39 PM
3

Drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:34 PM
4

Ugh, why their ego is so fragile. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:28 PM
5

🥺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:23 PM
3

Only love I believe is the love from my family. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:20 PM
25

It’s this easy to be HVM. Yikes 🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:19 PM
6

i KnOw riGhT 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:43 PM
3

🥇so inspirational as always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:27 PM
3

Ugh, this guy is fucking insane. He’s purposely lowering your value. Do not let this ever get to you. You are enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:23 PM
3

🤣 for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:07 PM
6

Scott, get a grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:09 PM
14

Shoot... I’m so sorry sis. I can feel your sadness and disappointment. But I’m so proud of you that you walked away as his behaviour is absolutely gross. I know it’s sad and frustrating now, but it’s good that you found out earlier than later. This shall too pass. Stay strong. X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:49 PM
2

For sure. Sad there are way too many broken men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:25 PM
3

What was I reading just now? 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:19 PM
5

I told exactly this to a man who asked me to go dutch on the first date lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:16 PM
3

If they still don’t get if after reading this... I’m fucking done. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:15 PM
1

Aw! Give me a five. I’m totally with you. Our happiness is always priority regardless of your relationship status. Keep it up. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:54 PM
3

From my experience, where you meet might not be a big factor as long as you a keen sense of weeding out LVMs. You gotta have this courage to drop them immediately once they show low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:53 PM
8

OMG. I’M SO SO PROUD OF BEING PART OF THIS SUB. 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:45 PM
1

Speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:39 PM
6

In where I live, meet up is full of old men + creepy dudes lol... but I agree with what you said! Do something you like not being fixated with meeting men there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:21 PM
0

I don’t mind not getting oral sex, so that’s fine for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:50 PM
1

Thank you, I’ll give it a listen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:24 PM
2

Same lol... now I just delete the conversation to not reply at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:15 PM
2

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:12 PM
2

Hey, this happened to me before as well. However, you’d never really know if he’s having his best life or something. That’s just your assumption. I was also hurt and my heart was instantly dropped when I saw my ex with a new girl. However, over time I started feeling sorry for him that he can’t even stand a minute without a girl, while I was alone trying to move on and work on myself. You can feel sorry for yourself or shitty. It’s okay. But do not let it get to you. He’s the past. We are only m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:02 PM
4

Ugh, absolutely! Please keep it neat and sleek, guys. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:52 PM
8

At some point I also stopped giving a bj. I think that’s like after I saw this pic of an inside of woman’s mouth after giving a bj. It was pretty shocking, and I also heard that giving a bj increases the chance of getting mouth cancer. Don’t wanna risk my health for the pleasure of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:48 PM
7

Thinking that anyone should accept you as you are is very selfish way of thinking. Would you do the same to the other person? I don’t think not many would do, but rather they want others do it unconditionally. Work on yourself and be better. That’s key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:16 PM
30

Just do not give men any benefits that should come only after being in a decent relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:14 PM
3

Nope. I’d rather stay single. Once you start compromising, there’ll be more to come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:11 PM
2

That audacity... yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:01 PM
4

Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:14 PM
1

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:14 PM
5

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:12 PM
10

We are on the same boat. Tbh, I do not see any value of dating guys unless they are really proved HVM (I doubt tho lol, yes I’m bitter). I just have no energy to deal with all the emotional BS and games. Even those guys who I thought are HVMs turned out to be LVMs... I lost all the faith in men. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:58 PM
9

😂😂😂 no need to even read, delete that shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:49 PM
7

Please know your worth. Nobody’s more important than you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:48 PM
4

Great. I also completely deleted all my OLD accounts last December. Since then, I’ve been focusing on myself and doing things for my self development. It couldn’t be better. For me OLD was toxic af so, I don’t think I’ll be going back any time soon. Cheers to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:45 PM
3

So douchey. Don’t know what to say lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:41 PM
1

Do they really think dad bod is somewhat appealing to women? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:46 PM
2

Wow... he looks just like that 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:11 PM
6

True. Sex is good, but the aftermath and worries followed by it wasn’t worthy at all for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:07 PM
2

I was never super liked by good looking men lol... mostly just mediocre men who want to get a tiny little attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:58 PM
4

Let’s learn from the past and move forward. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:55 PM
3

☺️💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:49 PM
10

Absolutely agree. I’ve encountered way too many times that guys hid their true colours within a few dates and acted like HVMs. I can’t stress enough how cautious we should be when it comes to dating a man. Just mute what they say and see their actions only for a while. LVMs always take themselves out after some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:40 AM
21

Hahaha so classic. Yeah, I split and will never see them again. Bringing up feminism in that fashion is very inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:59 AM
2

Exactly. I used OLD frequently last year and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t desperate. But after a lot of unpleasant experiences and self reflection, I decided to stop and focus on myself. Yeah, I agree LVM can smell my desperation, and they tried to take advantage of it. I’m not gonna let that happen again. Thank you for your comment! All the best for you too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:47 AM
21

Next time when you smell LVM, just drop. No need to test him or sth. Move on to the next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:43 PM
27

It’s mostly because of frequent masturbation cos they are so used to that stimulation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:34 PM
6

What a piece of shit? Who’d let their beloved one be a laughing stock? Ugh, I feel so sorry for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:04 PM
4

LOL, I can relate 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:38 PM
4

Always remember you should be a whole as you are. Do not expect someone to complete you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:29 PM
14

We take no shit! Keep it going sis :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:11 PM
4

I’m sorry you are dealing with this extremely childish behaviour. Aside from telling him to stop, have you had any serious talk about it with him? If he still repeats that shit after you explain how you feel, man I have no word for that. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:28 AM
3

YASSS ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:26 PM
2

Sadly it’s almost same in any other countries. You are always welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:59 AM
9

Awesome. Please don’t be too nice to dudes, but nicer to ourselves :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:54 AM
16

Of course sticking to FDS is hard because that’s the beginning of self love. Beginning is always the hardest. I genuinely wish my mom had taught me all this when I was young like your mom did. You are lucky! Speaking of sex, yea you all have your own choice. You can fuck with anyone, any time. But we choose not to because its aftermath is bigger than we get from that experience. FDS is not a must, but a choice for yourself. As you mentioned, I also had ONS, fuckboi and fwb experiences, but man t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:50 AM
10

I used it frequently last year, and my experience was horrible. All men were after sex, boring, low effort, cheap you name it. I completely deleted my account a few months back. I feel so free and can spend my time on something better. You will find many posts here about OLD (online dating) on this sub. Obviously, it’s not v positive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:46 PM
10

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:05 PM
23

Thank god, he revealed himself like that. You know when guy makes a joke... it’s actually not really a joke. They are telling the truth lol... but they tend to cover it as a joke depending on girl’s reaction. Like seriously... why’d he tell you about money thing if he wants to impress you, make things work out with you? It’s so unattractive and cheap. Yeah, some girls might react nicely; yeah you spent so much money, I’d treat you this time. Yikes. Typical pick-me behaviour. If I were you, I’d a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:04 PM
23

I’ve been men-free for a month and couldn’t be happier. I’ve been focusing on myself, started meditation, reading every day, cutting down on alcohol and so on. It’s so fulfilling. I hope I can continue to do this because I’m so peaceful and emotionally stable now. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:58 PM
5

Ooo gurl, I love all the people you mentioned. Love those style :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:55 PM
5

I can’t stop scoffing at no. 2. Lmao... get a grip, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:36 PM
13

Hot vanilla? you wish 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:59 PM
2

Great job, sister. Moving on to next. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:25 PM
3

Me too!! Wish you all the luck 💓🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:48 PM
3

Preach 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:07 PM
2

Omg. This is creepy af. He doesn’t even know how to type properly? Yuckkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:54 PM
1

Yeah good job unmatching him. Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:53 PM
18

I know it’s really common nowadays and I was using very actively last year. But... man you can never take OLD seriously. If you are using it with a mindset like oh I’m gonna fine mr. right from this you might go nowhere. But rather just relax and take it lightheartedly without any expectation. Then there might be something else.. cos OLD can be really exhausting as you will talk to numerous people and only a few will really go on a date and so on. Anyways, my 2 cent is if you ever feel tired fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:17 PM
12

Congrats! All the best for your future endeavour 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:09 PM
12

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:27 AM
2

Ok, next LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:05 PM
1

We gotta be just brutal with low value men. Don’t settle and compromise. #KickHimOut2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:04 PM
3

Preach sis. Welp, I’m really happy being single. Women who want to find someone out there, please do not settle for the less. Know your worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:03 PM
3

More like 81, typo I guess 😗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:52 PM
4

I mean seriously... if you are fucking broke then why bother to date? I just don’t understand this guy’s logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:49 PM
3

My mantra for 2020!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:47 PM
11

I’ve been there done that sister. I know it sucks when your close friends are in relationships and you feel lonely. But... maybe it’s because we all see the beautiful and good side of relationship partly. I’m pretty sure their relationship is not always rainbow, happy all that. Not being salty, but meeting someone cos you are lonely is getting you nowhere, rather you do something for self development or something fulfilling for you. I am doing this and feeling less lonely. Cheer up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:41 PM
12

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:35 PM
8

Typical mansplain. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:33 PM
3

Prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:34 PM
3

Gahhhh, sounds great. I’m so happy for you! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:32 PM
1

Mostly. Either fuckboys or no personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:27 PM
11

Lmao... hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:20 PM
53

I’m voluntarily single now and happy with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:05 PM
4

Sis, I couldn’t agree with more how you felt, and I genuinely appreciate your posting. It’s uncomfortable in the beginning always, but I’m pretty sure we are doing the right things for ourselves. I’m really proud of you for not losing yourself. Keep it up. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:46 PM
1

Online dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:10 PM
2

In 2019, I met tons of guys from OLD and in real life. What did I learn from that? Men are shit. They were just trying to get in my pants, not emotionally stable, leading me on and shit. Those things really made me feel like shit, but I still didn’t lose hopes. However, man I’m now really sick and tired of men. Although there might be good men, but somehow I cannot fully trust their quality. Lol... you will get what I mean once you encountered so many fuckbois. So... I’m just taking a break, it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:18 AM
1

Second this. This is so me right now. Keep it up :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:14 AM
12

This is my criteria too. Surprisingly so many dudes are following those accounts shamelessly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:53 AM
6

Them eyes are so creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:41 AM
71

Yeah, to be honest I’ve reached the point that being single is so much better than hanging out with mediocre men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:24 AM
21

Word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:43 AM
1

This is a stretch as I only have this post to go off of, but you may be pursuing emotionally unavailable men because subconsciously you believe that getting them to commit will validate your self worth. Hey, thanks for your reply. This part, yea it got me thinking, cos I’ve been a healer kind of type. But I know now it’s their own issue to deal with not mine. I definitely should be more selective on who I want to date. Thanks again :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:57 AM
22

I hate confusing dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:08 AM
3

Thanks for your reply! It will be great for FDS if you can post on that :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:03 PM
13

Same 🥺 gotta work on that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:55 PM
8

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:31 PM
3

Oh fucking hell. What’s wrong with this people with dick. Ugh. So sick of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:26 AM
18

Haha I didn’t send, but the fuckboi from last year sent me this. I thought I blocked him already but no, so I immediately blocked ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:17 AM
5

Love it, when can I watch it? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:15 AM
9

Dang.. I gotta cut off this fuckboy 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:26 AM
3

Wait what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:55 AM
33

No, that’s fucking creepy and pervy. And obviously they don’t give a single fuck about how other people consider them as anyone can see their following list. How audacious. Yikes. Big no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:05 PM
31

I matched with this guy on Tinder. After matched, I checked his pics again and found that he’s wearing a wedding ring in one of pics. I asked him if that’s a wedding ring, he said yes and now he’s divorced. We stopped talking, and after a while he appeared again on Tinder. He still has the same pics but he photoshopped and removed the ring on his finger 🙄. It was fucking creepy... and feel bad for other gals who’d believe he’s just single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:00 PM
6

I actually block dudes because I just don’t want to deal with them. If you don’t block, you’ll still get their message and somehow it might trigger you to reply or react although you’d believe you won’t. So blocking them prevents me doing impulsive behaviour in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:22 PM
1

I hope you blocked him already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:34 AM
5

Fuck this dude. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 09:23 PM
18

True. We might die... seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:25 PM
14

I’m sometimes just wowed by their audacity to say that kind of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:24 PM
40

Amen. Do not ever expect they will change. Big no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:04 AM
2

All the fuckboys behave this way. Fuck em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:43 PM
5

Thank you, sis! Yeah, I’ll remember what I learnt from this and move on. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 06:17 AM
10

Thank you. Yea, seriously all he wanted was to get laid but I still treated him genuinely, which made me so upset. But yeah, what’s done is done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 06:17 AM
9

Thank you so much sis. Your kind words really help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 06:16 AM
9

True dat, sista. I genuinely thought there was some positive change from him my ass. Nope. Once fuckboy, always fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 06:14 AM
8

Thank you sis. I also wrote down how I felt last night and it really helped ease my mind and clear my head. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 06:14 AM
17

Thank you sis. Yea, I’ve already blocked him. I’ll just focus on myself. I don’t want this one fuckboy to affect my life like this. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:32 AM
2

Really needed this today. Thank you for your wisdom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:12 PM
10

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 06:55 AM
19

Period poops lmao. So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:19 PM
10

Woa this sums up men in my country lol... they are fugly. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:38 PM
8

You are a true queen. I’m so proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:05 AM
46

Aw it hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 05:21 PM
10

Oh sis, I’m in the exactly same boat as you. What I realized is if you feel tired of it, you gotta definitely take a break from it. Like when you are too fixated with the idea that you have to find someone, it easily makes you tired. I know it’s hard, but just take it easy and try to focus on yourself for a while. If you find your energy back or feel like you can get back to dating pool, get back to it. Now that it’s been a while for me to be single, I kinda stopped actively looking someone but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:20 AM
26

Power woman! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:22 AM
4

Savage 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:20 AM
4

Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:31 AM
6

Hey Todd, get a grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:05 PM
5

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:52 PM
11

Yeah sis, don’t give half-assed man a second chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:36 AM
8

SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:41 PM
32

Yeah ladies, better stay single than meeting mediocre moids 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:37 PM
2

Ugh yeah, never ever lower your standard. If you spot one red flag or feel uneasy, trust your gut feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:40 AM
18

Go fuck yourself, James. Jeez... all the guy I’ve met named James were assholes lol. Is it a coincidence? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:27 AM
8

They age like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:31 AM
3

🥇🥇🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:23 PM
4

She married an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:14 PM
1

Ewww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 02:47 PM
108

Until you become exclusive or define the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:48 AM
42

I feel personally attacked. Ouch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:47 AM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:29 PM
2

Saved. I should have known this way before. Thank you, sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:27 PM
20

Their face is the biggest red flag oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:46 PM
20

Dear all the fuck boys out there... 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:45 PM
6

I know how you feel. But if they run away because you tell them what you want, let them. Don’t be afraid of losing your boundaries and expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:37 AM
1

Am looking forward to your post sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:59 AM
23

2 years later??? Ouch... 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:52 AM
13

For me that’s not an acceptable answer because that sounds pretty wishy washy. I’d only take it when guys firmly say they are also looking for something serious / a relationship. I’m also so done with casual stuff and don’t want to waste my time, so I tried to ask them as soon as possible maybe before meeting them or on the first date. No need to be too heavy or something, but you can casually bring up this and see how they answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:44 AM
14

Smh... fuck off dude. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:24 AM
13

Lmao. They’ve got nothing to do. Pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:36 PM
29

It was hard to swallow. I was just fooling myself giving them benefit of doubt. No contact = no interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:35 PM
8

Solid! Thanks a lot for your comment :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:22 AM
1

Woo... I’ve heard a lot of nasty shit about guys who are doing ART... 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:41 AM
3

I’m so moved by this comment. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:27 AM
9

Exactly. They will never be able to figure out what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 12:35 AM
13

What the fuck? This guy I met didn’t say and send me anything that I shouldn’t accept the dinner and drink. But I’m pretty sure that was what he was thinking. Incredible. I didn’t owe you any sex bro. 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 12:22 AM
19

Sadly they are very attractive and they know it well, therefore many girls fall for them (including me). But ladies, please know your worth. You deserve better. Those fuckbois should be left alone, don’t feed their ego. They need a therapy. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:51 AM
9

Oh, tell me about it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:36 AM
11

I think you already know the answer, although you stated you aren’t unhappy in the title, you seem unsatisfied according to your post. Why do you have to wait until things get better? Don’t waste your time. Meet another man who can fulfil your needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:11 PM
25

2nd one, I feel guilty. Ugh!! We are not their therapists. No obligation to take responsibility on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:34 AM
43

Fuck that guy. So sorry to hear that sis, you deserve much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:33 AM
4

Exactly, no reason to date mediocre men lol I’d rather be alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:28 PM
4

Ha. Speechless 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:23 PM
9

Funny enough, I’ve experienced this so many times. After a few experiences, I see infatuation (aka love bombing) as a red flag. They probably fall in love with the idea of loving / liking someone than “you.” Be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 04:26 PM
3

Yeah just reply this lol... why he fucking sent you a long ass garbage poem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 04:02 AM
7

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:21 PM
16

Very well written and a must read. I was pick me chick heck but no not anymore. Thank you for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:42 PM
11

This. He just has no gut to tell you upfront. I’d rather expect to drop him and see another dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:37 PM
5

I don’t know why I feel cringey when I saw guys putting their height on bio... it just makes me think oh is this only thing you can offer? 🙃 Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:19 AM
5

Absolutely. Please set the solid boundaries ladies. If they want gf experience, they should ask you to be their gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:06 AM
0

Happy cake day sis! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:39 AM
3

Solid advice right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:30 AM
5

This is so true. The largest number so far I’ve dated at the same time are only 2 guys at the time, but I’m trying to practice this more now. As when I focus only one guy, I realized that I become fairly obsessed with that guy and it eventually eats me up. Men ain’t shit... v easy to replace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:08 AM
8

Fuck... what kind of men have I dated. Feel so sorry for myself. Now at least I know my standard. On to the better one. Thanks for posting this xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:05 AM
2

Oh damn, this song is frigging cool. Thanks for the rec❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:01 AM
3

What a piece of shit... speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:33 PM
1

This is utter comedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:30 PM
29

The future is female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:32 AM
5

Their head is just full of sex. Gross. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:27 AM
27

I have a quick question. The guy I’m currently talking to respond me inconsistently. (We met only once, so I don’t really expect that I’m his priority but..) Mostly 1hr to 6 hrs. When he responds to me late, should I reply him late purposely or just respond it at my convenience? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:56 PM
2

Comments here are so golden 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 01:18 PM
5

This is what I’ve been thinking a lot lately! Much needed post, thanks a lot sis! X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 01:04 AM
3

This is so fucking true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 12:52 AM
3

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 04:13 PM
14

I’ve heard only bad things about French men; cheaters, commitment phobic, cheap... you name it. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 09:26 PM
10

Damn sis. I kinda wanna make guys cry at this point lol. Would be pretty entertaining to see. What a fragile soul they have tsk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 09:17 PM
9

This guy sounds awful af. Good that you ghosted him. You deserve better sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 08:57 PM
7

I don’t wanna spend money on dating apps :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:47 AM
2

Fucking cheap bastard. Drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 03:20 AM
10

Preach sista. Useless religion ever tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 03:05 AM
1

😂😂😂 true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 06:35 AM
92

They say anything to get laid 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:32 AM
6

Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 09:24 AM
5

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 09:21 AM
-2

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 02:27 AM
3

Thank you sis for your kind word. Hope better ones come along to us. Cheers xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 03:58 PM
9

Mantra forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:11 PM
3

Pure beggar tsk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 03:25 PM
73

Community dick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 07:21 PM
19

Yikes. It’s almost psychopath level of empathy 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 08:57 PM
72

I call it “my dick is bored” season
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:28 PM
2

Ikr, that’s not cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:31 PM
2

Same here! All the best sista. X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 05:38 PM
4

Hell yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 05:37 PM
21

Nah, men go downhill as they get older. From 30 (well even before that), balding, erectile dysfunction, beer belly... what else, you name it. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 05:34 PM
9

What a freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 03:58 PM
364

“DICK IS ABUNDANT AND LOW VALUE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:40 AM
16

No strings attached
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:39 AM
11

I don’t wanna date ugly or mediocre men. For what? If I hang out w good looking dude, at least good for my eyes 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 05:17 AM
7

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 12:48 PM
33

Shh... drew the line right away huh ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 06:02 AM
5

I just read it, and that’s become my mantra. Thanks for sharing x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 03:18 PM
9

Same. I ended up getting a sex toy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 12:53 PM
17

Amen to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 01:59 AM
52

This is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 09:05 AM
3

Please move on sis, he’s not interested in you. You are just giving him the unnecessary benefit of doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 03:29 AM
1

Amen 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 05:52 PM
24

Getting bald is the biggest fear for men, it always gets them 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 05:43 PM
3

Yes yes yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 05:16 PM
2

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 10:24 AM
18

This guy is total bullshit. I’ve dated tons and now I just have no expectation on men cos I know they’ll eventually disappoint me in any ways. Next time, you may cut things off early when you see any red flags as it’s not getting any better as soon as you find any red flags. Cheers sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 10:22 AM
14

I know it’s a silly question, but let’s say I’m dating multiple guys and how should I behave when I run into the guy I’m seeing when I’m with another dude? I’ve only dated 2 guys at the same time so far, it fortunately didn’t occur but always wondered what will be the best behaviour if this happens. Thanks for the great post btw :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 12:38 PM
4

Thanks for the great post sis. I almost forgot this while I was blind as I felt desperate and lonely. I’ll definitely keep reminding these and value myself first. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 12:31 PM
5

Relatable 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 11:09 AM
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