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Yeah, I would not want kids if I was still a teacher. I’d probably sooner have my tubes tied if I committed to that career.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:15 AM
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Can I mention how misplaced that fight club quote is? Like we all know Tyler Durden and his group of destructive terrorists were all a part of a disillusionment of their own violent misanthropic tendencies? Someone could probably word it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:12 AM
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All humans are emotional creatures. I think for a man to decide not to display emotions is largely an emotional decision in itself. I don’t think any man, or woman, should be expected to display emotions a certain way all the time. I don’t feel disturbed watching a man cry over a loss or tragedy. But I do think it’s important for all people to have an ongoing self-awareness, and the ability to distance oneself from emotions and talk about them in an objective way.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/21 01:19 AM
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I didn’t think MGTOW was about “curing” or solving women or feminism. I thought it was about abandoning these issues to live your own life, model values and live by example. Aren’t there other groups for discussing women/modern gender roles? It seems like this group is a bunch of doctors who joined a group for architects.
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 02:59 PM
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What is the man’s perspective then? That women should owe them sex? No one, I mean NO ONE who thinks anything like this is relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:43 AM
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Add allergies and nutrition to that list of possibilitiesz
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/20 08:44 PM
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It never said he paid so he could have sex with her. It sounds like he paid because he didn’t want to waste anymore of his energy over the matter. She was definitely being a POS, but at least he ended up being the bigger person by valuing his time over a petty check. She’ll face her own natural consequences when she realizes after many failures that she can’t maintain a relationship. It’s not his responsibility to teach an adult woman how to value morals and honesty, and he also can’t “make” her…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:52 PM
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I think if girls want to be traditional, that’s fine, but it’s on them to communicate openly from the very beginning and search for a partner that fits. In no way does that justify this kind of immature and selfish behavior. If she cared THAT much, she could have told her that she is traditional and is interested in the kind of guys who pay for the first date. But she chose to be passive-aggressive. I don’t think that is a societal norm on her part, even. I also agree- he dodged a bullet! And pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:40 PM
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Is working and making money a “manly thing?” Honestly this is one idea I have to reject. Women play valuable roles in many careers and many enjoy working. Many are uniquely talented and fulfilled in their work as women. I get why many women want to stay home. Not every woman enjoys being in the workforce, but that doesn’t make working and having your own income “manly.” That’s one thing I think you should consider. I realize this is a central idea of RPW that I am generally fine with, but just b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 01:17 AM
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That’s true, but even that can mean a lot of different things
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 08:46 PM
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I can’t agree with this. Obviously it’s up to you, OP, and I wouldn’t blame you for not inviting him if the complications in your relationship would make that the best decision for you. But not giving his blessing alone shouldn’t be a reason to exclude him from the wedding IMO. It’s not a healthy thing for your marriage to be the thing to drive you further apart, let alone your father’s pettiness. If you think he can suck it up and let it be for that day, maybe still invite him. Of course, do wh…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 06:34 PM
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Voluminous Ringlet curls for your hair, some pink blush, and something with ruffles should do it
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 10:48 PM
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When they get long, maintain their shape with regular filing and keep them moisturized and lustrous with coconut oil. I also keep a nail brush to clean under them every night, and if they start to look dim, I clean them with a lemon juice before the coconut oil goes on. I like to keep them natural, but if you do paint them, make sure you care for them properly in between colors. I love KUR polishes because they go on so easy, look beautiful, and last. A little pricey but worth it IMO, especially…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 12:54 AM
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Yeah, I’m having trouble believing that he truest wants to be faithful to you, as you say. His actions have said differently time and again. He is controlling you in an unhealthy way with his threats, excuses, and false promises. Is it really just the woman and child making you miserable? You have a choice. Drop the resentment and understand that he likely will not accept all of your boundaries, or leave. Feelings are one thing that are beyond us, but I wouldn’t go on with certainty that he is y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 02:21 AM
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It hurts a tinge more on sensitive spots. For most of my legs, it’s not bad and you get used to it. It’s definitely overall less painful than waxing because it doesn’t tug your skin as much, but I bled a little from the hair follicles at first where my hair is just a little thicker around the ankles. You can also try rubbing baby powder or cornstarch into the skin before waxing or sugaring so it doesn’t stick to the skin as much, but still gets onto the hair.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 10:33 PM
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Try sugaring. It’s easier to learn than waxing. If you don’t want to remove your hair, wear hosiery or just own the leg hair. It’s not conventional, but in my opinion, if it wasn’t a womanly thing then women wouldn’t have it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 10:26 PM
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This summarized my thoughts pretty well. I think many women who idealize the time before the sexual revolution also generally don’t know what things were like for most women, and think primarily about a privileged percentage of educated stay-at-home moms with romantic courting leading to happy secure marriages. Also, for many, the grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:04 PM
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Lol. Even if women choose to do porn, doesn’t mean they ACTUALLY enjoy it. They are getting paid to do it and look happy doing it. Any guy could do porn if he wanted, as a last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:31 PM
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Some men are ambitious with humble beginnings. I’d build with that man. Any man, whether rich or poor in the beginning, can take you for granted one way or another. Character is what matters.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 06:51 PM
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I just got my ears pierced at 25, it was annoying and I did not feel special to not have them pierced
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:00 PM
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What are you doing to improve your face? I am someone with a lot of "problematic" facial features, so I realize when it comes to the structure of your face, stubborn skin issues, etc. there's only so much you can do. But I have still had a lot of luck just playing up anything I've had going for me, physical and otherwise. I do, if I may say so myself, have a sparkling personality :) and that really does count for something. There are many ways to make yourself more magnetic besides your appearan…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 07:14 PM
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When my husband and I first met, I was already in a pretty serious LTR with another man, and my husband has been previously engaged. We acknowledged this early in our relationship and moved on. We know we chose each other and that’s all that matters. Many people do not end up with their first loves. I think we set very unnecessarily high expectations for ourselves and our relationships when we embrace this romantic idea of a one true “soulmate.” Yeah OP, he might have ended up with her if things…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 03:49 PM
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The hobbies you enjoy and invest in and are passionate about :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 11:05 PM
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Cooking the basics (scrambled eggs, your grandma's casserole, roasting veggies) is a life skill. If you enjoy trying new things, investing time into learning different techniques, exploring seasonal/global cuisines, innovating new recipes or creatively pairing foods and beverages, it is a hobby. Edit: grammar
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 11:03 PM
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Yes, and I actually had a conversation with him on this topic early in our relationship! I was looking at stuff online and asked for his opinion and he said which one he liked. It happened to be something I liked too, but Idk if I would wear it. It would take some courage for me to pull off the kind of thing he likes but maybe I’ll build up to it like someone else suggested, or get a piece to keep around for a time I’m feeling risky.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 10:08 PM
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I recently mentioned this in a post because I let my husband see me naked all the time and it's the same thing. I almost always get some kind of little attention or sweet gesture. I should mention, I don't consider myself a "traditional" woman, but I do enjoy a lot of things considered conventionally feminine and appreciate the advice in this sub. I know that having him see me naked less will get me less gropes overall (lol) but my thinking is I'll enjoy the gropes so much MORE if they aren't so…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 04:33 PM
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I like this advice because it gives me something quantifiable to build on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 04:25 PM
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I ordered some inexpensive sets from shein almost three weeks ago and they still haven't arrived. I am hoping it is just delayed because of COVID and they didn't get lost in the mail. I usually try to stay away from fast fashion, but pj's/loungewear/underwear are just not things I would thrift, and the responsibly sourced ones I like are way out of my budget. I was so looking forward to replacing my faded, mismatched, stained excuses for nightwear so I hope they come soon :( Anyways, this is goo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 04:23 PM
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You describe me perfectly. I definitely don't belong to a "girl group." It's hard making friends in general, especially as you get older. Sometimes that's just the situation you land in. It doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:05 PM
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If you need someone to forego their identity for you then you need to stop leeching them to sustain your own ego
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:16 AM
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What does it really mean to you besides tradition? It makes it sound like you own your kids more than your wife does. Couldn’t you have your kids names hyphenated?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:55 AM
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This is only true if you believe it. You are still a whole you if you’ve had multiple partners. If you think it’s time to draw some new boundaries, move on, and settle down, then you should. I’m not gonna pretend like this “low value” thing in regards to your n count isn’t toxic and bogus. While I do think it is important to be honest about whether or not you’ve had intimate experiences, I also don’t owe any partner of yours a detailed account of your sexual history, nor they for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 11:12 PM
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I think this is really important to note, but what I’m seeing here is this: OP, who may or may not be reactive abusive in this relationship, decides she wants to please her partner who, in any case, is allegedly abusive to her. I think what most people here are trying to convey to OP is that being a sweet wifey is not going to save her marriage and protect her from abuse. Like you say, there is a lot more that needs to be addressed. There obviously is no respect in this relationship to begin wit…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 11:33 PM
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Honestly I don’t get why the N-count thing has to even be brought up. My husband doesn’t know mine and I don’t know his. We both agreed it didn’t matter if we were going to be in a serious relationship. I don’t think about it and I don’t think he does either. Neither of us flirt a lot or hang out with friends of the opposite sex, etc., so our boundaries are what help prevent insecurities from seeping in. We have open access to each other’s phones, which isn’t really everyone’s thing, but it work…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 02:40 PM
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Dump him, tell him your reasons , and DON’t look back even if he says he’s changed
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 01:24 PM
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Am I the only one who sees this as a non-issue? I really think that mature, established, and decent men should have no trouble finding relationships IF that’s what they really want... Women are also deciding to get married later in life, so that might mean men are getting married a bit later as well. A lot of people, especially in gen Z, are just beginning to plan their futures and who they might want to include in them. I do think generally more and more people are less involved in relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:38 PM
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This makes me think of that awful joke, “if she says she is fine, RUN,” etc. have a talk with him and tell him you are just being honest, both with your facial expressions and when you say you are fine. Share your thought process and communicate more openly. He shouldn’t be telling you how you feel and then getting upset about it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 11:57 PM
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Nope
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:11 PM
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Well tough! As his partner it is healthy for you to make him feel desired, but you are not solely responsible for his self-esteem.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 03:48 PM
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You put a lot of emphasis on the fact that you don’t need them. Don’t pretend like you do. What bonds the relationship is that you are committed because you choose to be and you want to be with them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 01:02 PM
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I’ve made big maxi dresses into cute and comfy/flowy palazzo pants. There are a lot of cool thrift-flip diys on youtube
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 01:31 PM
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That’s exactly why this should be offensive to everyone. This woman represents millions who didn’t have a choice. On the other side of the same coin, men had no choice either.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/20 09:38 AM
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Gross. What is this book and when was it published?
/r/AntiFeminists13/04/20 02:47 PM
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Tinder. No shame. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:12 PM
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As someone who love kids, I also know I don’t need them to be happy. I love my partner, home, and job. I also find a lot of people have kids for their own fulfillment and that’s a kind of selfish reason to bring an autonomous sentient being into the world. And yes, it’s worth considering that raising a child means losing a big chunk of your own identity, joys, pleasures, and sometimes aspirations. I think younger generations are just feeling less interested or obligated to make those sacrifices …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:07 AM
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Yes, you are right! But I also would have missed out on a lot of really good experiences too! I would rather live in a world where I feel like I can make and own those choices without being ostracized. YES, we live in a society where sex is overly valued and poorly portrayed, especially for confused/naive/hormonal/impressionable teenagers in need of social acceptance. Everything is sexualized and young people these days have a warped sense of healthy relationships. But teenagers naturally have c…
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/20 12:34 AM
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Unless you were forced, it’s no one else’s fault that you lost your virginity/participated in sexual acts even if you felt pressured. It’s also not anyone else’s obligation to avoid topics that make you uncomfortable either in many social settings. That includes sex stuff. Honestly, I had a lot of casual sex in college. And a lot of those experiences put me in situations where I didn’t feel like I could defend my boundaries and I did things that I wasn’t comfortable with and with guys who genera…
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/20 11:14 PM
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I don’t think “promiscuity culture” gave you emotions trauma. That is separate from sexual predation.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/20 08:57 PM
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That’s something I think on often because it’s kind of what I strive for when working, but I don’t think it’s quite possible. “Put together” for a woman also means being bright-eyed and clear complected, two conventionally-pretty qualities that my pastey face doesn’t have. I do think that makeup can be soooooo subtle that you can tell there is a difference but can’t quite pinpoint what it is. That doesn’t mean the prettiness isn’t there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:51 PM
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I have a kind of unconventional job that requires traveling to many different facilities and public venues. I do think makeup doesn’t just look pretty, but also more presentable/put together, which is something I want to achieve since I represent my organization to the public. I do 100% choose to do so, but it still feels like an obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:18 PM
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That’s kind of exactly what I mean. I personally can go many days without makeup to give my skin a break and so I don’t lose sight of what I look like, but I also often experiment with makeup at home and wear it around the house when no one is there. I also routinely leave my house without makeup probably as often as I put on makeup at home. The one time I feel obligated to wear makeup is for work, but I keep that to a pretty minimal 5-minute routine. Otherwise it’s just fun/creative/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:02 PM
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Gives women more options. Generally, at least for women, you can find what you put out for on most dating apps. I met my husband on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:11 PM
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Literally has happened to me and I did not care. Also, someone being upset about their man having been with another man does not equate a woman having many sexual partners and I don’t see how it is supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:31 AM
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Unfriendly. I’m sorry, OP, but it’s not worth it and you’ve already been through so much hurt. You need to do something quantifiable to create distance with him. I’m sure he must have been a lovable person in many ways, but really, a person with irredeemable issues like that shouldn’t have this kind of power over you and your current relationship. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 10:10 PM
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It depends on whether or not you want them. And if you want them for the right reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 10:28 AM
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Hahaha nope. Makeup might be a product of male-created beauty standards, but I really do think most people who wear makeup today do so for their own enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:45 PM
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“Mystical treasure.” Hahaha. You’re not wrong and women should definitely get more comfortable with telling men what they really want! But even the most basic anatomy lesson would make a significant difference for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:32 AM
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Regardless it is appalling to me what most men think will suffice to please a woman. Jackhammering for 3 minutes might be good for some, but that’s a pretty poor generalization to make about all or most women. Like, come on now. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:03 PM
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That’s not true. I don’t advocate for a ban on porn because I don’t think consuming it in itself is morally wrong. On the contrary, completely normal and natural. Maybe if we had respect for the human body enough to forgo al the ridiculous/unrealistic/unfair expectations we have on the people in porn, porn would be less exploitive. Same as any other job. And people should always have to pay for their porn. I don’t think that is possible, though, as long as people are comfortable and complicit in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:32 PM
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A lot of people learn the hard way. I used to have casual sex fairly frequentlyish in my college years, and I made the mistake of sleeping with a real asshole once. I realized what a dick he was after he got what he wanted and he was angry when I didn’t want to see him again. I ignored many o’ butthurt DMs. Most of the other men I had casual relationships were really cool and nice, almost like friends. I could have conversations with them afterwards and they’d be like normal, nice people. I knew…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:45 AM
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Porn degrades every sexual relationship to some extent. I get that it is a pretty natural thing for both men and women to partake in, but it’s wiring everyone to a very specific and unrealistic set of expectations, as OP said. I think it’s time to question porn and how it limits our abilities to 100% respect and focus our energies on the actual people who we actually have sex with. Whether that be within a marriage or not. No one is trying to control other people’s behavior. I would never make p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:27 AM
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What is it made out of?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 02:05 AM
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How is it funny? Maybe if this didn’t actually happen it would be funny. I personally feel terrible for that man and I hope he gets justice.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/19 06:37 PM
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The guy who wrote this article is a disgusting, horned-up idiot. Perhaps a pedophile himself.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/19 02:19 AM
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I think a drawer of fortune cookie papers would make me cry myself to sleep every night. He sounds very lucky to have you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 12:04 AM
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Maybe a renegotiation of mutually acceptable “dumping” areas is a good idea. You are absolutely right that he won’t just magically change.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 02:30 AM
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Okay OP. I had some definite “yikes” feelings reading your post but if it’s more than a kink, then you do you. To be share, that wasn’t really 100% spelled out in your post. I certainly don’t want to kink-shame but as long as you have your own autonomy and aren’t actually content with actually being dumb then continue to enjoy your husbands interruptions!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 07:50 PM
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Maybe an acceptable punchline in a casual setting from an acquaintance. Definitely not from your boss.
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/19 10:44 AM
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Please do not subscribe to the belief that all young males are immediately prone to doing something so idiotic as saving sexual images of another woman on his phone, while in a relationship with another woman. Of course men will look at and occasionally think of other women- but yours did something beyond that and it was pretty stupid. And then he lied to you about it. It shouldn’t matter how mad you would have been (assuming you are not abusive- some women really can be)... that’s just not good…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 10:25 PM
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So does that also apply to every other population that has experienced 2nd class citizenship? Society creates structures for the people who have the money and power to build. For most of history in Western civilization that power has been reserved for rich white men. For some reason or another, people are increasingly more reactive when an increasing number of “outliers” are used to supply evidence of female independence. Not saying these systems are better or worse... they just show there is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:20 AM
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Actually I used to work on a treatment facility for sexually reactive youth, all boys. Publicly farting was a behavior we were trained to prevent and address because it is considered a dominant “grooming” behavior. I realize it sounds totally controlling and obsessive, but was very important where it’s necessary to take every step to keep everyone safe. EDIT: I would definitely not go nearly as far as to say that any man who farts loudly plans to rape or is even subconsciously asserting dominanc…
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/19 12:06 AM
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Men generally have better physical prowess, but there have been and continue to be single female professionals and nomads, even before there were cars and fast food. Like you said, men would also have difficulty surviving alone... what’s important for survival is having an organized group of people, not men. There is sufficient evidence that while men hunted, women gathered, and sometimes accompanied on hunts to corner animals, and so on. Female tribes have been established in remote parts of Af…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:57 PM
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I agree that there are injustices in sending men to war... but it is also men who created that legislation. I don’t think women ever demanded it. I can only speak for myself, but if half the population at random were required to register for the draft rather than men for women to longer be “infantasized” or seen as such, so be it. Do you suppose that would be a feasible alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 02:58 PM
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The existence of a women’s suffrage movement isn’t enough to tell us that women were never second class (to men?). Clearly there have been other social hierarchies and injustices regarding other demographics, but women absolutely have been 2nd class citizens. Women could not own propriety (thus, could only grow food on husbands land, not their own), initiate a divorce, or vote, regardless of the family they were a part of or the rights their male counterparts had, for a long time in the Western …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:44 PM
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A 23-year-old sleeping with a 17-year-old is already a power imbalance- he took advantage of you. I’m sorry. I hope you come back stronger from this whole thing. It sounds terrible. It’s okay to feel regret, but you want to do better for yourself, so I think you should take every step possible to empower yourself for a better future! This can start by being selective about guys you show interest in. It’s okay to have wanted a purely sexual relationship in the past, but if you want to show value …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:39 AM
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I felt this dilemma- it’s easier to pursue and be pursued when you look attractive, or in other words, allow yourself to be objectified on the surface. Definitely had a lot of guys interested in me when I was younger (I’m no striking beauty by any means, but I guess I know what my assets are). Through it all though, I absolutely hated feeing objectified. It definitely felt like an obligation and I was unhappy and insecure. So the first date I ever went in with my now-husband, I wore jeans, a swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 02:23 AM
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I experienced the same in my early 20s. I think men if that generation are more accustomed to making moves. Many are older and live mundane lives, some even bored of their own marriages, and are thrilled to be in the company of a young and attractive woman.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 12:28 AM
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Ah, well I am sorry that happened to you. It looks like, understandably, it is something you are still healing from. I hope you do.
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/19 10:51 AM
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They would also maybe consider that there other lots of other women exist aside from the ones you see in news media (which is most often sensational and one sided, one way or the other, at best).
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/19 11:10 PM
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Feminism didn’t get you that STD. You did. Don’t blame a movement because you were gullible, impossible, and making bad decisions...
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/19 11:04 PM
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I’m appalled by the amount of people here who... even care? I’ve done some other reading on this, and what I’ve found is that Always was already planning on changing their logo... they weren’t forced into, or catering to, the .1% of the population from which a handful representative individuals questioned their branding on social media. Since the transgender population is so small, it really wouldn’t add up for this company to change the logo just for them. I don’t see why anyone would choose a …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 02:47 PM
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NoOoOoOoOOO she is not. If other feminists reject this type of thing (many do) then it is not possible for women like this to be the “embodiment of feminism.”
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/19 02:22 PM
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Me specifically? Not really. I think actively, mindfully and diligently raising kids is a hugely undervalued task.
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/19 01:39 PM
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I think they are both. Is that really such a novel idea?
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/19 01:38 PM
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That’s because no one needs to have aspirations or be inspired in order to become a garbage man. We don’t propagate these positions for men either. Whereas young boys have been encouraged to be astronauts for a long while, in comparison.
/r/AntiFeminists22/10/19 08:46 PM
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I definitely see what you are getting at, and I can see how the coverage on the all-woman spacewalk just feels manufactured and uninspired. So, while it might be pretty great to have an all-woman spacewalk, maybe drawing so much attention to it is counterproductive.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/19 10:57 PM
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Men have better spacial awareness and reasoning (often resulting in an aptitude for geometry and conceptualizing numbers) and retaining more short-term memories. Women consistently have better verbal ability, reading comprehension and more accurate long-term memory. https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html People tend to compartmentalize these attributes by boxing the sexes into disciplines (men = science and women = humanities) but this is extremely …
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/19 10:55 PM
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Representation is especially important for minorities (gender, ethnic, national, or otherwise) in any area where people have historically been intentionally excluded. Role models don't make people feel *good.* They demonstrate to young girls, boys, whatever, what is *possible.* Sure, there has to be an individual for every first, but I think male achievement in general would be proportionally smaller if boys today had not had male role models throughout history, and I think there would be more f…
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/19 10:44 PM
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The quote says why it’s important. Girls are more likely to go into STEM when they have role models in STEM, as men have had. Without this encouragement, half the potential STEM workforce goes untapped. Men do have many characteristics that are valuable in STEM, generally. But women have other characteristics that are also valuable that men do not have at such high degrees. They balance each other. True innovation requires both so I think it’s a worthy investment.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/19 04:42 PM
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Staying at home, and actually raising, kids (not just watching TV while they are on the iPad, etc... that’s just sad), is real work that is constantly undervalued. It takes patience, creativity, enthusiasm and resourcefulness to care for children and make the most out of all their developmental stages. My husband is a special education teacher and so he unsurprisingly has these qualities. Also, anyone who works in Education, especially special and elementary, knows that men are hugely valuable i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:28 PM
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Could that “neuroticism” just stem from women caring more?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:11 PM
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But do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:09 PM
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Aging provides the freedom to care for yourself for the right reasons- no longer for outer beauty but for energy, longevity, and strength. It gives you the confidence that the people in your life love you for you— not as a pretty accessory. It will challenge you to explore neglected parts of your being. I do think that the fading of youth can be liberating rather than conflicting. I was never a glamorous beauty by any means, but even as I am entering my late 20’s I’m noticing that I don’t captur…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 12:02 AM
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This woman made a dumb rant. She is probably not highly intelligent. Maybe she was butthurt and desperate after a breakup. I highly doubt her, or virtually anyone, actually believes this. Maybe though, OP, it might just be harder for people who can’t spell “believe” to pick up on social queues. This whole post just perfectly illustrates how easily people on both sides are peeved beyond reason.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/19 12:18 AM
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As a feminist it is refreshing for me to see how many individuals are sharing some good honest, depolarizing, and intelligent comments such as this one. It’s really not that complicated to be reasonable and many of the responses on this thread demonstrate that quite well.
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/19 11:46 PM
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I don't disagree with you in that people often have low self-esteem because they don't take care of themselves or lack control of their lives... However, there are certainly more interesting, more important attributes for people to attain than being attractive or sexy. I think people need to get past the whole narrative that we are programmed the same as cave-people. We are animals, sure, and sexuality is generally a part of life, but no one should be told that it's central to our existence. Whe…
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/19 09:20 PM
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It doesn’t matter who is objectifying you or why. The point of this is that whether you are ugly or pretty, people will be quick to taunt you for your appearance. Objectifying is inescapable and hardly about sexuality at all. It’s also describing a pretty engrained thought process when you realize you’ve been conditioned to want to be desireable, even if it’s not what you want at all, in your logical mind.
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/19 03:06 PM
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Thank you! To be fair, I do understand the aversion to a lot of discussions in r/feminism; however, I definitely don’t think it’s productive. I just try to promote the idea that, even though feminism has undergone some really generic branding that really ignores a lot of important factors of gender inequality (that exist on BOTH sides), the ideals in themselves are still important. I really do think that a lot of us want the same things, but everyone is too angry to think of ways of actually get…
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/19 02:22 AM
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Both were dumb.
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/19 08:43 PM
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I am a feminist who has made posts on here w/o getting banned. You can be different and not share the same ideas, but I came here to learn rather than make jokes. Anyways I do appreciate y’all being tolerant.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/19 10:23 PM
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Women are also more empowered than they have ever been, especially in the West. A lot has changed for people in the world but nationally and globally there is a loooooong way to go before anyone stops “complaining.” People starve and die in the streets in the land of abundance, including children. That, to me, suggests several failures of society. I personally consider history as - very important but also peripheral point of reference because people have been impoverished, at war, enslaved, and …
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/19 09:18 PM
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All skill and knowledge is power, regardless of how it came to be. Also, my original post was about how I regularly do things that other men do, so what is it that I am "not good enough" to learn, specifically? I will admittedly not know what it is like to never be a man. Is that what it is to "not be good enough?" Listen, I am not trying to minimize your or any other man's trauma. I know I haven't lived your life, but surely that doesn't make me fragile. You haven't lived mine, either. I am not…
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/19 12:52 AM
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I agree that it's a partnership. Women can't do everything that men can do better, but they can still do just about everything men can do. They also definitely do have their own set of skills they excel in over men, and vice versa. Like you said. I don't quite agree that society works, though. If it did, we wouldn't be having this discussion. It has never worked.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/19 12:27 AM
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I’m just going to establish my credibility of knowing these people while you do not. What I meant is that I don’t hang around people like you, always feeling victimized. I should also say that these men both found equally self-sufficient women to be with, so they don’t need to serve anyone. I don’t hang around these people because they serve me, but because they treat me as an equal and are comfortable expecting that from me. Also, I want to be clear that real feminism (when you set aside all th…
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/19 11:35 AM
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I guess I was caught off guard because my brothers, rather than feeling hopeless and degraded, used what they were taught and tried their best to influence me in ways my parents had failed. We are all self-sufficient. I really do not know a man in my life who was not afraid to ask for help. I guess I just choose to hang out with self-assured guys like the ones I was raised with rather than those who feel like/are victims? That’s just been the norm in my life, personally. There are definitely man…
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/19 05:44 PM
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Clearly you don’t serve women. Or anyone. So I wonder what has you so butthurt.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/19 05:09 PM
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I am personally very happy that my husband doesn't try to do this stuff for me, it feels more respectful and that he sees me as equal. He also doesn't hold it against me if there are things I can't do, and he feels comfortable asking me for help sometimes too. I hope in future generations all women will have that same relationship with all men.
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/19 12:59 AM
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PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU REMOVE or RESPOND: Full disclosure, I am not anti-feminist but I came here to this page to understand more about the movement and I think a lot of these points are totally valid. PLEASE ASK ME QUESTIONS and I will always take a very mindful, understanding approach. I just think there is more common ground here than either side would have you believe. ANYWAYS. *rant*I am a woman and I change the water cooler at work all the time, and I am not a particularly …
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/19 12:15 AM
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As a feminist I see this happening all the time (often not from feminists but women in general) and it makes me sick. Abuse isn’t funny regardless of who the victim is. Men can be victims too and they need to be truly heard.
/r/AntiFeminists18/07/19 02:32 AM
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shrugs
/r/AntiFeminists18/06/19 05:43 PM
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You heard him.
/r/AntiFeminists18/06/19 02:28 PM
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