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| 6 | Forward women on tinder | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:15 AM | |
| 2 | Do you think many girls are attracted to hitler’s body ideals of perfect aryan stock like tall strong white blonde English/German/Scandinavian etc? | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 12:48 PM | |
| 1 | Dealing with frame tests in cold approach? | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 11:05 AM | |
| 1 | LOL | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 12:53 PM | |
| 0 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me? | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:31 PM | |
| 0 | I made a mistake and now I don’t know how to get over my ex | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 01:00 AM | |
| 0 | Someone experienced explain this to me please | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 01:36 PM | |
| 0 | What’s wrong with me (lol) | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:46 AM | |
| 0 | Are money rules different for LTRs? | kbterps | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:49 AM |
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| 2 | InsecuritiesYes especially with the surge in popularity of drill music over there in the last year or so. I imagine the 16-20 age group is pretty much the same as over here. Mostly over confident dickheads. Don’t sweat it just chill and be yourself. Give it a few years and girls will be over the fake bad boy shit. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 6 | InsecuritiesMake I ask in which country do you live? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think many girls are attracted to hitler’s body ideals of perfect aryan stock like tall strong white blonde English/German/Scandinavian etc?Me but 6’3 and my beard is actually somehow brown as are my eyebrows and body hair, kinda light brown but definitely not blonde. I lucked out big time. And I get so many dirt looks from other guys and even what I would class as ‘bitchy’ comments like on the gas station forecourt the other day two dudes in their car making comments about me thinking I’m cool because I have a moncler jacket and shit?? I’m a big adult as well i don’t even know why this happens. It’s either just the Jamie Lannister … | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you think many girls are attracted to hitler’s body ideals of perfect aryan stock like tall strong white blonde English/German/Scandinavian etc?I mean I’m not condoning it it’s just interesting to think about. If you’re truly RP then you’d wanna be up on game and know how (if at all) race and racial characteristics affected your chances with women, wouldn’t you? Different races are predisposed to different characteristics when it comes to features, body types, etc. And it would be foolish to deny some of these features and body types are more desirable to women than others. It’s just the way it is, they do judge on looks. To that end, I… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 01:07 PM |
| -1 | Do you think many girls are attracted to hitler’s body ideals of perfect aryan stock like tall strong white blonde English/German/Scandinavian etc?To be fair these days at least in the U.K. I find more girls are attracted to dark hair and eyes but I guess all these things are just fads and eventually blonde will be back in fashion for a bit | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you think many girls are attracted to hitler’s body ideals of perfect aryan stock like tall strong white blonde English/German/Scandinavian etc?I’m not gonna lie I’m on my phone right now so you’re gonna have to hold on EDIT: Google Translated this and now I’m scared | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I lower my SMV?LOL | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend got offended when I wanted to have sex. What's going on?I’m not sure I’d even class this as LMR. If it’s a boundary she’s established with you previously and is regularly enforcing (regularly here meaning every time you try to initiate sex), then it’s a different problem entirely. You need to have confidence and conviction for this but try something along the lines of: Her: ‘we talked about this, no sex til marriage’ etc etc bla bla You: ‘I can’t be in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t fulfil me sexually. Either you stop shaming me fo… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I avoided a fight. Was I right in doing so?Lol. This is a mess. You clearly wanted to beat his ass otherwise this post wouldn’t exist, so no you didn’t do the right thing. Furthermore, alluding to someone’s ‘high smv’ as a reason not to fuck them up is the most beta thing I think I’ve read this year. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend got offended when I wanted to have sex. What's going on?Ngl bro you need a SERIOUS reality check. Sidebar. Ditch the frigid bitch. Work on how you speak to women idc whether it’s sarcastic or not reading that conversation made my skin crawl and I’m not even a girl. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:39 AM |
| 13 | How to escalate from kiss to sex at clubs?An environment like a club is where all the bitches go for validation. Think about it. They’re dressed up like whores, full face of makeup, dancing provocatively etc etc. It may be the case that what’s happening is you’re going and giving them exactly the validation they want, far too early. They want all the Male attention they can get in this situation. They want to feel desirable, hot, etc. Maybe hold off on the kissing until / unless you can get them to leave with you. To me seems like you’r… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about when rappers/high status men buy women expensive giftsIf you have to pay for it you aren’t alpha. End of. Edit: if you even feel the need to reward a girl for it. Regardless of whether you secure the sex first or not. No arguments. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 36 | I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusivelyYou’re probably not attractive enough / game not good enough. Post wall bitches are far more desperate and therefore more likely to succumb to you. Edit: YET. Not trying to be toxic. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Idk if I can be toxic sometimes,helpEven better rule of thumb is. Fuck other people. If they’re too sensitive to recognise banter then that’s on them not you, and if your personality revolves around a lot of banter / shit talk (which is 100% fine mine does too) you presumably don’t want to waste time talking to people who aren’t likely to get it. Keep being you and let your personality act as a filter to get rid of all the dry as fuck boring ass people from your social interactions :) | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Are money rules different for LTRs?I never showed her an extravagant lifestyle or anything life that if it’s what you’re suggesting. Sure I have a few nice things but so did she and it was never the case that I was splashing out on shit for her | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Bailed 2 of 6 times in the last 30 days.Go quiet until / unless she asks to meet | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:31 PM |
| 19 | Once you're an orbiter (LJBF/Friendzone), is there a way out?YouTube Alpha Male strategies friend zone he got some real good shit | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Are money rules different for LTRs?I agree because without sounding cocky I’m in a pretty good demographic in terms of looks / race / status etc. My game is shit though I go soppy as fuck especially in LTRs, I don’t know how to stop falling for womens’ utesie cutesie bullshit! | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me (lol)I have a bit of a reputation for being a hardass I guess but I think I’m just a mostly stoic person in a world of increasingly more and more pussies. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me (lol)It’s happened numerous times and I’ve found myself making adjustments to my behaviour / personality but no more, I reckon. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me (lol)Unfortunately things have escalated over the course of today and I’m pretty sure I’m done with her permanently now. Fuck it. And fuck yeah! More of a Yas one trick these days but I’ll always be a riven main at heart 😅 | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with frame tests in cold approach?I’m 20, more than a fairly attractive face, white, blonde, blue eyes, 6’3, 85kg give or take, 12% bf give or take, I lift, I am one of the most stylish people I know. I will however admit I’m just not confident because all I’ve experienced in my life is 2/3 LTRs that went really shit. Also quite a bad introvert who plays games in all my free time and didn’t get proper socialisation at key ages as I went to an all boys’ secondary school. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | My collegue from university is a slutIf you’re on asktrp asking for advice in the most obvious situation ever, then I don’t think you can afford to turn this sex down - you clearly need it. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Recovering from toxic ParentsI’m skeptical about wasting the money because I’m high key poor when it comes to having expendable income for this sort of thing and it’s £50/hour+ for anyone decent and the 4 or 5 therapists / counsellors I’ve had before didn’t really provide much of value for me. I guess I just need to find the right person | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Are money rules different for LTRs?Not ideal but it’s clear she wasn’t going to let herself be demoted to plate, and I can do without the bullshit so here we are | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Are money rules different for LTRs?Beyond not giving in she’s now blocked on everything lol | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Recovering from toxic ParentsWell well well, fancy seeing you here. All I can say is I relate hard and am sorry, my parents behaved similarly and fucked me up and I still have to live with one of them. Therapy is the route, hoping to get on it myself soon. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me (lol)So she’s just making excuses to leave and wants me to feel like it was my fault / that I pushed her away, when in reality it’s her own bullshit expectations and poor behaviour that have landed us in the situation we are in? Thought so. How refreshing women are 🙄 Edit: a fellow riven main, cool! | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with frame tests in cold approach?Okay I hear that. However, I’m in a fake it til you make it kinda position right now. Decided I want to just cold approach any / every girl I’m attracted to and currently I’m not ashamed to admit that I would definite crumble and lose frame if confronted with a girl’s shit testing in this situation, because I don’t have an abundance mindset yet. I guess I’ll make mistakes and therefore learn from them and I accept that most girls I approach I won’t fuck to start with, but it would be good to hav… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me (lol)Ty | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Are money rules different for LTRs?I know that attraction is not just my credentials, just saying on paper. And Knowing her for half a decade as I have I’m pretty sure she does find me attractive. Idk. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Are money rules different for LTRs?So she thinks I’m unattractive? 6’3 85kg 12%bf white guy, own car, job, very masculine, various hobbies and talents and a solid friendship circle. I guess maybe but somehow doubtful? Sorry if this comes off as rude I’m just trying to be concise with my responses | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me (lol)Being a man of self improvement I feel like I’m falling into the trap of listening to her feedback because I want to better myself for next time. But I suppose I shouldn’t be taking feedback from my ex, right? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Stop nitpicking how I talk because I’ve just shit on your awful reply. you’re sus as fuck lil man | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Her. She is. For being on some Oo no I can’t show you my body I’ve eaten a pizza this week type shit. So many niggas on here really tryna denigrate me and break their necks just so they can deliberately not see the situation from my perspective... why? Kinda simpy if you ask me | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?How so | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Technically speaking we’re LTR Exes who have rekindled and are as close to official as you can be without being official. She bugs me every week to ask her back out despite her breaking up with me and getting with someone else. You’re right but I guess this episode of her doing things to make me lose frame HAS made me realise I’m done with her? If that makes sense? I guess some might argue that I choose my response so ultimately nobody is making me lose frame except myself, but to that I say: wh… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Okay I feel like people are misunderstanding. The timeline is as follows: She gets sexual with ME. I play into it and flirt back. She abruptly stops and blames it on a bullshit reason. I reply bluntly and coldly. She then says she’s tired. I ignore her. For the record she texts twice more wishing me sweet dreams and all the rest of it half an hour later. Since then I’ve blocked all contact with her, I don’t suppose she’ll enjoy waking up to that. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 12:42 AM |
| 0 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?She’s my gf but equally all women are just hoes? Just so happens that this one wants to be my gf and who the fuck am I to say no. Who says I want an LTR? Some plates just get to a stage where you’ve been spinning them for so long that they get wise and you have to do some crazy shit. Hence why she’s my “gf”. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?I think we’ll leave it there for now. If this is the way you think then idk what you’re doing browsing this sub. I wish you all the of luck you most definitely need | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 0 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?I’m sorry but are you new or just stupid? She went to sleep because i instantly went cold when she stopped hanging sex in front of my face / tried to shit test me, and that made her feel like a piece of meat that I was objectifying, I don’t blame her for feeling bad / awkward and wanting to leave, but fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?I don’t recall saying I can’t stand to look at her. I wouldn’t be salty over not getting nudes if they were going to be disgusting nudes now would I. I like to keep composure I find it turns women on more. Unfortunately she’s just being a bizarre cunt. Call me stubborn, naive, ignorant, but I refuse to believe that there’s anything I did wrong here🤷🏼♂️ | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:53 PM |
| -1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?I’m on holiday in France, she’s in England. If I wasn’t thousands of miles away I wouldn’t be on FaceTime to my own bitch. I shouldn’t need to dish out compliments to get something I usually get just by either flirting back, or more commonly, literally minding my own business and waiting for her to get horny. If you ask me that’s beta as fuck. Edit: tl;dr I suppose I’m of the mindset these days that I shouldn’t have to make any effort. I like to think I’m high SMV (inb4 memes), and as such I don… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Please /s if relevant because I’m not going to reply unless I know where you stand | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:44 PM |
| -8 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?Top tier trolling, virgin, goodnight | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 0 | I’m flabbergasted wtf just happened to me?I’m not sure you understand. I was rewarding her by giving her my attention and SHE SHUT ME DOWN Edit: to clarify: it’s not my job to simp her and tell her she’s not fat and I’d love to see her body regardless of what it looks like, because in reality she should know better than to tease me in the first place, and she should know better than to have put on weight / think she’s put on weight. Why does she get to take her insecurities out on me and waste my time that I could be spending on somethi… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 6 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?People don’t get fired for inviting co workers to events, dipshit. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?As in attributing characteristics to people based on other things you know / think about them? Like Ted Bundy and his ‘attractiveness’ making it hard for people to think he was evil? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?Probably not romantically but stranger things have been known to happen. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?This is it. At the end of the day I think it’s very fucked up to disregard / discount people based on their looks. If they’re a fat fuck and an asshole too, then by all means. But to not give someone a chance or make an assumption based on their size / looks / a disability / ??? anything else physical, that ain’t it. Fuck anyone that didn’t give you the time of day before. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?Only if you’ve been conditioned to be a shallow fuck IMO. And fair enough but maybe when you can, get out | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?Because people are still people no matter what they look like and all people deserve some level of friendship/companionship no matter what. What you look like does not define who you are, your ideas, beliefs, etc. Don’t but TOO much into the TRP ideology. On a side note maybe it’s time to get out the small town. Broaden your horizons. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Gotten ripped after a lifetime of obesity, is getting social media back to show off my new life worth it?This was my exact situation too, honestly. Went from 120kg - 80kg at 6’3 in under a year smoking weed and going to the gym every day and to be honest the constant validating comments I now get from people who knew me when I was a fat fuck make me sick. It just shows how shallow people are. By all means use social media but I wouldn’t go anywhere near people who only want to know you now you’re slim, alarm bells should be going off in your head. No need to reconnect with people who were too stupi… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I made a mistake and now I don’t know how to get over my exI am very confused | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I made a mistake and now I don’t know how to get over my exOne of the most interesting points is that I was responsible for our sex life going to shit through lack of interest tbh. Not sure if I got exhausted of her or if I was much more reliant / interested in the emotional validation but regardless your overarching point still stands | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I made a mistake and now I don’t know how to get over my ex<3 | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:12 AM |
| -1 | I made a mistake and now I don’t know how to get over my exNot really viable for me I’m very out of the loop when it comes to meeting new women because I haven’t needed to do that in so long | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed that environment is becoming more hostile to cold approaching?Yeah by no means do they deserve to have such high standards, but I personally can’t argue that they do. It’s just how it is sometimes bro. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Have you noticed that environment is becoming more hostile to cold approaching?I don't think there's any problem with London, it's just a different challenge. The women here are high maintenance. They are mostly boujee as fuck. It's one of the richest cities in Europe AFAIK and I've lived here my whole life, so ;). All this means they are used to a more abundant number of examples of successful, or at least semi-successful men, and men like you (current you) are 10 a penny in their perception - meaning no disrespect, quite the opposite. This is an opportunity for growth: Y… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Forward women on tinderSolid. Thanks, I needed the reminder re logistics. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderAppreciated. Feeling blunt so I think I’ll go w #1 | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderHow comes, are you ugly? If I could be arsed to get the train up to Ldn more I’d definitely be using a load of cold approach over tinder. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderI needed this. On it | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:40 AM |
| 5 | Forward women on tinderI’m ngl yeah I’m in North West Kent and it’s all just fat bitches and 4s and shit from LDN. Not very impressed with my £3.99 investment. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderI think that’s the plan. Scary shit! | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Forward women on tinderThat’s half the problem fuck knows what I’d have said | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderAt least where I am in the UK, the ladyboys are rather honest to give them their due. Haven’t run into any cock thus far, or bots for that matter. Fingers crossed. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Forward women on tinderPlease read edit homie. I’ll get to digging and make more edits to OP as appropriate. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:23 AM |
| 10 | Forward women on tinderFor fucks sake. Seriously is this what we’re doing this morning 🙄 EDIT: This is an expression of my distaste for such people, not your reply. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Someone experienced explain this to me pleaseI guess it's particularly tough because my approach worked for a long while, but I guess women see through it eventually no matter what? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Someone experienced explain this to me pleaseTo be fair to this one, she did tell difficult truths about quite touchy subjects including my sexual performance and its massive deterioration over our time together. I was very much getting the vibe that she was honest and I could learn a lot from her feedback but perhaps I was very mistaken. What's the deal with no dating advice from women? Is there not an argument for being able to learn a lot from them as long as they are being genuine with their advice / answers to your questions? I'm gues… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Someone experienced explain this to me pleaseWhy choose to dismiss ex's feedback, if I may ask? Not that I think you're entirely wrong. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Someone experienced explain this to me pleaseI think you're right. I've definitely been abusing this frame and in all honesty I feel completely numb and like I have lost any fun that was in me. I need to get back in touch with that before I can move forward with women, I feel. Thank you for this I needed this -kb | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Someone experienced explain this to me pleasePart of moving on for me is learning from the bad. I find it more healing than looking back in anger or trying to pretend it didn't happen. After all every loss is a mistake and mistakes are for learning. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:13 PM |
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