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Red Pill Theorykcpwnsgman/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 09:47 PM
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kcpwnsgman/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:38 AM
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The problem is men are biologically wired to over invest because the risk of failure is generally very little time wasted vs the potential for success, which is a potentially massive family tree with many generations. Having gone through a significant period of my life when I was a young adult and socially fubar, I realized I was really closed off, and would be too nervous accepting advances. For a while after that I thought women were the same way, maybe socially nervous but still wanting me to…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 08:21 PM
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How does one become more disciplined? Improve willpower and emotional resiliency? Self control? Overcome stress and pressure? There are a lot of great motivational posts here about identifying problems, but not a lot of people know what the next step means. Someone here posted a link to the 30 Days of Discipline ebook a while back and I think that's a great first step, helped me get out of a rut.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:51 PM
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I was working a normal 9-5 cubicle job for 40 hrs a week, and by the end of it I was so depressed I would show up late by several hours if at all. At my worst I would be so drained after 2-3 days of work in a week, I'd need the other days off just to not kill myself. As my time there came to an end I decided I need to spend my free time not working being productive, so I started looking for other work and worked out daily, something that I could do to respect myself..The day I got fired I had th…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:33 PM
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Hinge basically by design blurs the line between likes and initiation. When you like a profile it has to be a profile pic or part of the bio. I was under the impression that likes have to be sent with a message, but doesn't appear to be the case. They're still likes, but they frame it as a "initiate with this part of the profile" thing, in an effort to get rid of binge swiping.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 12:47 AM
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This is bullshit, because this is "likes", not initiation. Hinge requires messages to be sent with likes. Just tried it again, I'm retarded.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:46 PM
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Cubicle death. Man was not meant to sit behind a desk without a view past a couple feet for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, running your brain like it's an engine needing an oil change. Maybe for some people the work itself is fuel for them to keep going. Some people I know there love what they're doing because it gives them a means to provide for their family and gives their lives meaning. I'm a single guy who at the time didn't have many options or outlets for sexual relationships. Basically I r…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:28 AM
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Agreed. Still figuring it out. I did plan to become a Marine when I was 21/22, which I don't think was a bad path to take, but I never completely committed to it or signed the contract. Living with my mom for as long as I did around that time didn't help. Even though she was supportive, it wasn't what I needed in my life. I think I realized something was wrong and went to focus on the wrong things to fix. It's like troubleshooting a problem with a car. You think you know the problem but don't pr…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:19 AM
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I went to school for computer science, dropped out because I didn't want to do programming, couldn't find work, started a $9/hr job doing data entry and calls for our door to door sales reps while I lived with my mom for a couple years. When I left my mom's I started working for temp agencies who had technical jobs and grinded through those for a year or two until I found a temp to hire one that started at $12/hr doing VOIP support. I was at that job and learned any and all skills I could, inclu…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 06:40 PM
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wouldn't say I was addicted, but I have sunk a ridiculous amount of time into call of duty and battlefield. Yet that's probably what an addict would say. I just realized one day that games stopped being fun.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:33 PM
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Dude, no kidding. How does someone identify what they're doing that's unattractive? Over the last 10 or so years I've realized how many issues I've had that need to be worked on and I've been all over the place and have gotten about the same lack of success: Down to 200 lbs from 265 at my worst. Started dressing/grooming better. Quit playing video games religiously. Started down a career path in IT that paid well, but it fueled the depression so I abandoned it. Been aloof about my intentions. Be…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:55 AM
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If anyone wants to know what "putting in the effort" looks like, do a sales job, preferably a door to door one with lots of rejection that pays only in commission. You'll quickly realize the kind of effort you need to put into that to be successful will be exactly the same to be successful in anything else. There's going to be a shocking number of people who don't understand this until they go through it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:30 PM
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I like how Gavin McInnes explained it
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 12:06 PM
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my friend told me a story about a leash and collar he bought as gift for a girl once. He intended it to be for her large dog. He was surprised when she put it on herself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:32 PM
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I've been meaning to actually go out and learn how to dance. Any advice for a newbie?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:06 PM
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if you've never done something, why do you expect to be confident doing it? confidence only builds when you have the references behind you to push you forward.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:50 PM
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RSD does their free seminars all over the place, and they'll do like an hour or two of solid, scripted, how-to content, then fill the rest of the time with questions and content you find in videos like this. It's all a pretty good sales tactic to direct people to the bread and butter which is their infield and actionable stuff. Most of their infield stuff is basically a straight "this is how you don't be creepy". stuff you can't really get transcripts of.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:45 PM
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The way I look at it is you might be feeling like you're hitting the imposter syndrome. My advice will probably run counter to others here, but I don't think she wants to keep seeing you as a friend, but rather out of sexual interest. See her again, and do something more fun and out of the public eye, like a short hike if you're both into it. She was born with her looks, and have had to deal with that her entire life in one way or another, so her issues are going to be more substantial (like how…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:32 PM
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This post actually introduced me to it. Decided to get it, start today, right now and I'm going through and doing everything in the list.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 07:37 PM
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I'm wondering if for a lot of virgins it's because of the unknown, or a comfort thing. When I was young I was always anxious to kiss a girl. When I found someone I was comfortable being around, there was still the awkwardness of trying to initiate it, but once I started going through the process it as felt as right and natural as breathing. The thing with an escort is the guy will have to find someone he's comfortable with, that doesn't intimidate him. He should spend some time going through and…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 05:23 PM
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people too beta to reproduce are also to beta to be criminals?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:26 AM
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pretty much anywhere where there's minimal races clashing, Japan is 98.5% Japanese and also has a low crime rate.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:06 PM
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The people that sleep in until 10 and be successful usually still have a routine at 10, have something to do during their daily life around 1, and go to bed at generally the same time
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:43 PM
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I remember one of the first times I was put meeting people in clubs, I met up with a friend who was having a birthday party with a girl that just turned 21. We went to a club with an open dance floor and the age range of everyone here was from 20's to 40+. Within an hour I was dancing with a girl that was rubbing her butt on my dick. It was completely flaccid, and I was so confused, I couldn't think straight and only thing running in my mind was "this isn't how I was taught to deal with women! W…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 12:38 PM
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Florida makes sense. It's like pre-wall California
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:59 PM
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instructions unclear, stopped gaming; trash still not taking itself out
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 04:22 PM
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the best case scenario is to learn from it, and neither of you are on each other's minds.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:31 PM
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A lot of the advice here is for older people who've had a decade plus of their life socially wired wrong, and therefore developed bad habits in dealing with women. My advice is you probably should be careful not to follow advice like dread game blindly, instead follow the advice like lifting to improve yourself and make you the best man you can be. You might find yourself in a situation that sucks and realize "oh, this is what that dread game strategy is for, I really let myself get into shit sh…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:48 PM
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speaking about the "creepy vibe", over the last week or two, I've neglected my diet, started bloated a bit, haven't done anything with my facial hair, and was up late to cook dinner last night for the week, so I didn't shower. I wake up late, look at myself in the mirror and cringe. Decide to go to the gym, sit down at the row machine as a warm up, and proceeded to drive both women to the left and right immediately away. I'm there to lift not make friends, but holy shit, is it easy to be creepy.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 03:27 AM
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One of my favorite times of the work week is the hour or so I step away from my desk for lunch. I use it to mentally reboot/refocus. I'll make steak and chop it up, and microwave it at 30% power for about 9 minutes. I'll spend the rest of the hour eating it in the conference room by myself and occasionally reading articles (a lot of TRP was read in this manner). I'll use the entire hour to finish my meal, makes it so much more enjoyable. I will also use this time to go for a walk if I'm feeling …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 04:34 AM
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I bet shit like this is why we have mass murders in the US.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 11:52 PM
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I don't think articles like this are posted as a pro or anti Islam. Rather how one culture with a stronger frame will override or clash an other
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:21 PM
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As a general rule, if a woman ever uses the term "mansplaining" then you get up and leave in silence and hard next her. Then if she asks why you're leaving, tell her you don't want to mansplain it to her.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 11:54 PM
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When the Red Pill says Treat Women Like Children everyone flips the fuck out. However at the same time they have absolutely zero problem completely denying agency to Women like a child. Something just clicked in my brain reading this; several notable examples of failure on my part come to my mind.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:14 AM
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He literally tried to ignore her in the video.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:51 AM
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skip to 7:15 to see the hamster wheel spinning
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 04:28 PM
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I'm almost 30. When I was 18-21, it seemed like women were much more interested in having sex with me, women may age and older, and they seemed more attractive. Somewhere over the years, this changed. Women seem to have gotten far less attractive, interesting, and more abusive and closed minded.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 03:29 AM
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I love that these threads are here, I think discussions on how to be sexual with women, and in general, how to have good sex, are very important especially on a forum about sexual strategy. Especially because there's such a lack of this information elsewhere. Case and point, the pickup industry. It's also important to note that I never would have thought I'd enjoy taking the more dominant role. There's just something so right about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:25 AM
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it's just like trying to eat healthy. You'll find yourself in a Wendy's parking lot in your car with baconator cheese fries realizing "shit, I have this gooey mess to deal with now, this is not what I want". Eventually that goes from a daily event to weekly. Then monthly. Then rarely. Relapse happens for most people. Enjoy the process, and work on making it to your next PR, just like weight lifting. I'm in that week long relapse phase, and it's really helping just to get that far. My problem is …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 07:04 AM
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Third bubble is going to be education I think.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 07:15 PM
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emotional incest That's a good way to put it. I couldn't figure out how to describe how wrong it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 07:03 PM
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My father is engaged to a woman who has also has a single child, but a girl who's approximately 28 with a child (8 or 9 I think), who lives two doors down. I started spending a lot of time with my dad, going over and having dinner. I've noticed her kid will hang out after dinner for an hour or two, watch football or whatever else we're watching on TV, or discussing. This kid seems like he's actually in a good position to throw out the blue pill early, he plays contact football and already has qu…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 07:02 PM
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I would watch a show where a feminist mother raises a kid, and that kid, at age 6, realizes it's bullshit and does the red pill thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 06:39 PM
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The whole "don't immediately text her" rule is bullshit once you get your life together. The idea is don't be a needy guy, constantly saying things and trying to get a positive response from her and being butt hurt when she doesn't respond in 30 min. She's clearly into you and eager to meet up. You're doing well. Don't brush her off, but don't change your life to talk to her.
/r/seduction10/12/15 06:57 PM
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Honestly I think the benifits of lifting come in the form of increased energy, therefore having more energy in any interaction. If I am not taking care of myself, I am a miserable person to be around. I bet women find fit men attractive not because "they're vain" but because their biology is wired in such a way as to identify signals of a physically healthy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:06 PM
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Women have control who they sleep with. They are the gate keepers of sex. Men control who they have relationships with. They are the gate keepers of commitment. Advice given from women to men will have the bias of getting them to commit. Advice given from men to women is equally biased. Most of TRP will respond to RPW and women's point of view the same way. Unhelpful for sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/15 09:45 PM
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I'm the same way. Stopped playing a year or two ago. Only thing I play now days is Arma 3, with a friend who moved out of country. We use it as a tool to keep close, learn tactics, and grow together. Small groups, 3 to 10 people, one acting as a "dungeon master". It's a good hobby that you can use to develop leadership and communication skills, etc. But it's only a 2 to 3 hour session a week for me. Exercise moderation, and only keep/do what's useful for real life and you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:36 PM
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Interestingly enough, some women at some ages seem to like virgin guys (easy validation) as long as the guys don't have the issues typically associated with virginity. One way you can push through it is take home women you're not into but that are clearly into you. See if you get aroused by the situation and fuck her if you are. If not keep doing this until you find someone that does it for you. The abondance of even poor mates as a virgin will help in knocking the pedistal down in your mind.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:26 PM
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Having been in his boat, it's not that easy. It's hard to tell sometimes if you're genuinely not interested in having sex with someone or just scared, until you run into someone you're incredibly attracted to. Then, it seems like women you're into aren't into you and you're not into the women who are. If you even get that attention in the first place.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:16 PM
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I wonder if biologically that's the intent. If a girl "marks" a guy and other women are suddenly into him, then that means she's with a man who is high value. Therefore increasing her own. If women are attracted to men who have abundance, then giving him more perceived abundance by marking makes him more attractive to her.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:44 PM
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A grocery cart can tell a lot about a person.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:28 PM
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Learning to "read" other players is a very useful skill. I would however recommend learning live musical instruments, and incorporate that into your electronic music. It'd help you improve the quality of that and give you something to share with the public. Honestly hobbies aren't to be taken to use for picking up women, unless it's something like dancing where there's a natural male to female interaction. You should use it as something to bring people into your life and create a bit of depth of…
/r/seduction28/09/15 06:10 PM
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True, that is the goal. I was (and still am) struggling with online sites, so I tested AF profiles. Basically I found that you have to trigger sexual arousal somehow, and if people are on a forum to discuss sexual strategy, it's likely not going to be their looks that does it. Yet. The profile pics that were linked in the original post show this. The unsuccessful ones are just slightly "off". Yet it's clear there's no sexual attraction. All im saying is if the profile pic won't give her tingles,…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:58 PM
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Some of this guide conflicts drastically with my experiences. Example, opening with "Hi" has never gotten a response, ever. Then again, I don't have a shirtless pic, or anything high SMV either. I suspect if you're successful with that profile pic you can open with anything "boring" and atill get a positive (any) response.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 06:17 PM
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I neglected to explain my thought process in my previous post, but your reply leads me to the same point. You're right. Which is why if I'm in a rough part of town, carrying a gun as a force equalizer in the event I'm assaulted makes a lot of sense. Firearms are supposed to be, ideally, used by those who have a strong mental frame, who don't let emotions control, let alone impact, their lives.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:59 AM
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Is learning a martial art where you can kill someone any different? Most people don't know how to fight in this world, with or without firearms. Someone you could kill with ease with a little applied knowledge of firearms you could also kill with very little applied knowledge of martial arts. Someone who carries a firearm for self defense of life will always end up reacting. Being in that position would be the most critical time to have, as you say, the power to take a life with a single click
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 01:44 PM
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I stopped giving a fuck during my 20's (I'm 27, almost 28) and my results are getting worse the more I go to the gym, focus on my career, and develop more hobbies. It's fucking rough. Your emotional health bleeds through somehow. Don't do any of this as an escape from women or sexual frustration. It will only lead to more pain and anger. However, if you are doing anything for the wrong reason and it's a positive step in the right direction, it's a hell of a lot better to do it than to sit around…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:43 PM
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this is single handedly the most important piece of advice that will improve 80%+ of the results most men struggle with.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:02 PM
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Californication. Just ignore him chasing for Karen. Dude needs to let go.
/r/seduction11/08/15 11:34 AM
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The girl's self aware, high school story really does hammer in how painful it can be to be a sexless man. She's trying to point out that she ignored some options so that must mean guys are too. I get that. But when I was at my lowest point, I had one, maybe two women at most as options to attempt for a relationship in 2 to 3 year period.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:54 PM
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There's a lot of "the grass is always greener" type posts, both men and women think the other sex has it easier in various parts of life. Honestly, my opinion is as a whole, women are typically more social and emotionally engaged and motivated, with men being more mechanical and logical. This would lead to more men being in STEM. This also explains why women typically lean towards more social and empathetic roles in society where you're not seeing many men in, like teaching and RNs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:51 AM
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Yeah. Me too. Ball is love
/r/seduction01/06/15 12:03 AM
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I have similar issues and the reason why is because I don't feel the sexual desire when that happens. Only my need for validation for it to go well. What helps me is to think of everything in your interactions that you legitimately find sexually attractive and let your arousal and tenson build. Spend some time to sit and think what you are attracted to. Then embellish and indulge a bit on the healthy ones. See a florescent bra strap that is showing to the side of a girls' shirt? Maybe it's the w…
/r/seduction01/06/15 12:00 AM
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Our CTO quit and one of us asked him if he had just one piece of advice for us, what would it be? He said not to worry about taking a paycut if you have an opportunity to so something you are passionate about. If he stuck with the career he was in when he changed over, he'd still be making the low end of five figures. People say follow your passion, but I'm sure a lot of us understand that's a fallacy to an extent. We can have the passion to want women in our lives and that will take us down the…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 05:56 PM
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it hits everyone close to home, it's why it's such a good comic.
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:37 PM
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I don't think the jumping-out-the-window-technique is a very effective one. I hear the lay-rate is about 0%
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:36 PM
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I think this comic is more about exposing the flaw and general problem of using canned routines, or just reading about a single technique online and thinking it's going to be the solution to all life's problems. It's really an examination of the PUA scene cira 2005
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:35 PM
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if you must text, bring something to the table like "I was looking at [x], here are my thoughts on it", just start talking about something you like or want to talk about, or share pictures of cats or something. Texting is best used to organise a day two/date , or meet up of some sort, not for conversations.
/r/seduction24/04/15 06:16 PM
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The real reason? So you can physically lift a woman and toss her on your bed with minimal effort. Manly. As. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:19 AM
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It got bleak fast
/r/askTRP18/04/15 07:15 AM
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I shit you not, I saw 3 male ducks rape a female duck in front of my truck. It was the most surreal thing to happen in my life
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:05 AM
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I know a lot of guys that fall for women who, like the original story, are incredibly promiscuous, and not honest about it or in other cases, just bad matches. I think these guys dont have a lot of choices in their life surrounding the type of women they can fuck or enter relationships with, leading them to believe every girl is "the one". The real takeaway from these types of posts that most guys can benifits from is that there are women out there who aren't suitable to marry for them and that …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:07 PM
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I love my beater 4runner. But it is expensive to maintain. about the cost of a nicer car payment
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:07 PM
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You don't buy a Benz. You lease it. That's when leases make sense, MB depreciates much faster than anything else.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:05 PM
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I once saw three male ducks rape and gangbang a female duck while I was letting my car warm up. It was not pretty. Two would pin the female down while the third took her from behind. They all took turns and were orderly until one took too long for his turn. At one point the male ducks all started fighting and the female ran off. That just reinforced what I thought about MMF threesomes
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:59 PM
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I definitely think there's an availability heuristic at play with that thread. However, is it possible that living/working in the sex industry removes the novelty of it? I live in a religious red state (I'm an atheist), and yet I'm visiting Las Vegas for the weekend and I'm not sure what to think. It's almost an information overload.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:42 PM
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It's the man's role to set boundaries. Generally women hate to make decisions. People (male and female) let their emotions make decisions unless they take the pill. She is likely okay with you going to strip clubs because you're a man and in control of yourself, you have personal boundaries you will not cross. She might go to one and break her rules because she's letting emotions run her wheel.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:34 PM
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The only way you should "use" any of that is to learn from it.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 12:43 AM
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The concept you're explaining is an availability heuristic. Basically your mind sees a few examples that might actually be limited and vice versa. Example: you hear about school shootings every time one happens so you think they're happening every week when in fact they are incredibly rare. A twist on this is gang violence is common but because you never hear of it, you think it doesn't happen, or care about it. Another example that's more suited to this subreddit would be an SJW/white knight/AF…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:36 PM
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It's alright, I don't attract anyone.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 05:51 PM
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I got buried 100 points and called "an armchair idiot" because I suggested that it's possible to end a marriage without lawyers. That's what my parents did. Signed the devorce papers in 2012. Granted it's one of the only devorces I have experience with, possibly an outlier, but I stand what I see in life. Not surprised at the negative karma, and I won't run away and delete it. Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 06:11 PM
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I've been wanting to pick up a martial art for a while. What are your thoughts for someone who's neglected his body for the first 27 years of his life? I only started watching my health and going to the gym over the last 5-6 months, do you think/see people who are out of shape get injured with Jiu Jitsu, specifically because of their fitness?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:59 AM
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It's hard to explain, it's something I've noticed between the good people at jobs that know what they're doing and get things done, vs those that don't. It might be that you're just naturally good at it, or in a profession where it could get you killed/injured if things aren't done right, and there's no in-between.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:52 AM
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The post before your original one made reference to both speaking and moving slowly. My post still fits the example of physical labor and moving your body. Two good furniture movers are going to pick up and move stuff quickly, with what looks like little effort, and any single action they take will be a smooth, relaxed, stoic action. However, they will hustle and move with a purpose, being efficient, not sitting around or stopping, until the job is done.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:39 AM
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There's a difference between a nervous, anxious quickness and actually acting with a sense of urgency, yet have a slower, more deliberate speech pattern. I can sit down and slow down my speech, and maintain my frame on a phone call and not "be rushed" on a 5 minute call and get more done than someone who talks quickly and tries to do a dozen different things on a call that lasts 25 minutes. Works on more things than you'd think. Pretend you work at a movie theater concession stand, and the perso…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:17 AM
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I feel like a nazism > feminism extension would be much more entertaining
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 05:32 PM
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This is also an important reason to date many women, so you can see this frequently and learn how to deal with it in the relationships you want to make last.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 03:23 AM
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First off, your ego isn't your friend, it doesn't want you to become a better person. It wants you to remain where you are. Do you think your thought process is any different than a stereotypical, fedora wearing, awkward neckbeard that stays in and watches anime all night? Second, your friend's advice isn't helpful in the long run. When you meet up with women, they'll see that you're not the person that sends :P and xD all the time, and you'll be back to square one. Do you have difficulty gettin…
/r/seduction21/03/15 06:12 PM
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I see what you did there. But I then thought of an 18 year old dating a 13 year old and cringed.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:28 PM
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People told me the loans I got for college was a bad idea when I was younger. I knew they weren't wrong, but I was a special snowflake. I was going to be the exception. There are people who "get it" that still spin the hamster wheel, because any good advice they get is running contrary to what's going on in their life at the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:20 PM
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When I was 17-22 (about 5-10 years ago), I did this. I had girls around my age that'd I'd talk to, and as soon as they'd express interest, I'd think they were a slut and completely shut them down. I didn't do it because I was more attractive or successful, I was at the butt-hurt "no one love me" stage of life.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:12 PM
8

you could almost say it was.. JustWanderful
/r/seduction14/03/15 05:11 PM
1

Utah's law is interesting. Age of consent is 18, except where a 16 or 17 year old can fuck anyone up to 10 years older than them. Example, a 27 year old and a 17 year old.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 04:51 PM
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I know a stripper that also sells herself on reddit, earning $1500 a night isn't uncommon. That being said, it's like any vain career like modeling, or winning the lottery, if you go out and spend the money on a lotto ticket everyday instead of saving it, then if/when you finally get the big payout, you're going to go bankrupt because you don't know how to save/invest the money and you'll be back at square one in 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:37 AM
3

It's sitting right next to your motivation.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:29 PM
2

The idea behind pickup is when you meet that "quality woman that is your type" you would be better prepared and a more attractive man, because you are good with women in general instead of panicing and orbiting the one or two girls in your social circle. My favorite activities are building and maintaining computers, guns & shooting, and off roading. I work tech support at a phone company. How many quality, available women do you think I run into in a month? Not many, not saying they aren't out t…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:49 AM
0

The truly racist argument is the statement that they're too stupid to use birth control...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:53 AM
1

Yeah I know what you mean , I'm only into Tens
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:10 AM
0

who think you should stuff all your money into mattresses or the Iraqi dinar I do know a site where you can buy 1 million dinar and have it shipped to you for about $1000 I always thought it was weird.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 09:12 AM
3

It's kind of ridiculous, there's a lot of BP guys that are on it and therefore auto rejected by women, because the semi attractive ones get almost everyone swiping right to them. Creating a fake female profile and auto accepting everyone will show you what kind of bullshit and validation comes from very little effort. The thing is it's a time/effort issue. Add female emotion to it and you have to "stand out" to get attention. So many guys join it and just expect pussy to be thrown at them, a man…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:40 AM
2

I know guys like what you've described, who overly embellish stories, wouldn't surprise me if the story was fake, but I've known equally implausible stories to happen
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:09 AM
1

I need to force myself to go out alone at night. I've never done it, however everytime I go to a concert or event or anything during the day solo, I always enjoy myself and have a great time. I tend to "break my frame" when I go out with friends unless I'm out, high energy, and just in a fun mood already when the night starts. From a social group point of view (and even in a work environment) I need to work on my leadership skills, and step up when no one else will, or when current leadership ne…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:46 AM
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I'm a typical white dude, and felt the same way about tinder and okcupid. I thought it was the weight. I used to be overweight, lost the weight, then gained it all back again, and can tell you that it didn't matter. I think your mind is looking for an explanation, and latches on to race, when your lack of success online could be due to other reasons. Anyway, that's just how I look at it through my eyes.
/r/seduction15/12/14 03:32 AM
1

I'm not great at this, but when I've tried to push for meeting at their place, it usually still results with meeting in public then heading back to one of our places later anyway. I say push for the public meeting because it'll bring more people that are "on the fence" but still intrigued. If you fail at the "date" then you would have failed if you were at her place anyway.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:32 AM
8

Bad report? Sounds like a good one to me if you learned from it
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:45 AM
1

I just got off work and I'm at the gym now, otherwise I'd find it for you, search for deathsquad podcast and Lexi belle. The podcast is with a dude named redban and some random chick. NSFW, but you should already know that.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:43 AM
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It's one of the only reasons I'm on reddit anymore
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 04:31 AM
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Only exception is you become the type of person that is legitimately attractive enough to have the options and abundance to not let it become a problem. Has to be open from the start.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 03:25 AM
14

Pornstar Lexi Belle basically said this on a podcast once. She said she wasn't really a dirty person, and considered herself more uptight than most, but got into porn because of the attention.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 03:19 AM
7

This is why the politics rule is there. We'll just end up arguing about flaws of logic in the other "side's" position. What I hear when someone says "talking politics and world issues" with someone, is they're really looking to get in an argument or find someone to confirm their biases.
/r/seduction17/11/14 12:35 AM
9

If your brain didn't get in the way you wouldn't be here.
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:40 AM
5

I spent a decade of my life trying to find passion in programming and computers. You know what I found out? The world is built on top of shitty software. The good developers are the ones either designing or maintaining massive complex projects that span years. And are typically healthy as well. And social. So many people nowadays want to pick something like software engineering or networking because they won't have to talk to people. If you're legitimately an introvert thats fine, but I feel lik…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:45 AM
2

Try "tossing a softball" to him, be semi direct, and give him an opportunity to take you out. Giving women advice is kind of difficult, some guys will say they want girls to be direct and take action, or be more dominant, when I think those same guy wouldn't bite. Even looking at my advice, the guy could be like me, have some kind of deeper anxiety that doesn't let him easily take action even if he wants
/r/seduction24/10/14 05:05 AM
1

Hank Williams III, Clutch, and Fink
/r/MGTOW17/10/14 04:41 AM
1

well look at it this way, what if you were in your old mindset now? it could end very poorly
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:37 AM
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Eh, you're assuming no one worth value goes out to bars. There are plenty of high quality men and women who go out to bars and clubs. You're also assuming that women would just sleep with anyone that has them. Both men and women can go out, be very selective with who they fuck, and find a LOT of high quality partners and have a very fulfilling sex life.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:07 AM
1

I don't know how you could address it without sounding incredibly needy.
/r/seduction27/07/14 10:01 AM
4

I think it depends on who the guy is and how they approach, and in general just being socially well calibrated. I've seen a friend of mine approach a woman and her father (who had a EGA and other Marine tattoos, who was clearly takes-no-bullshit type). He approached and was direct but respectful "Hey my name's X, I saw you and thought I'd introduce myself", he turns to the father and says "do you mind if I sit down?". He sits down chats to both of them for a few minutes, gets a number and leaves…
/r/seduction31/05/14 10:55 PM
6

go to venues playing loud, live music to start with. When you're at a concert do you care if anyone is wearing ear plugs?
/r/seduction14/05/14 07:22 AM
1

Joke about it, say you're 35 and shrug it off
/r/seduction06/04/14 09:47 PM
4

I, too, hold my cock as a fetish.
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:39 PM
1

But there's always going to be someone else better than you at everything you do. Worrying about it isn't going to do you any favors
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:37 PM
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/r/shittyadvicewithaheartofgold
/r/seduction17/03/14 06:16 AM
4

I look at it this way, you have a fetish that you think is more expansive and engulfing of your personality than it really is. Sure you're submissive, and sure you enjoy a confident, strong woman. But you're thinking of this like all "needy" guys are thinking about sex. A lot of guys over think sex and over idolize it. They're too dependant on outcome and to worried about it. Sure sex is great. But realize this, there's literally nothing different between you being uncomfortable with your sexual…
/r/seduction17/03/14 06:01 AM
10

Assume they are. Introduce yourself. Tell her you saw her giving you the "look" then flirt a bit with her when she playfully tells you she wasn't. If she tells you to fuck off then you'll know she's not a fun and happy person to hang out with.
/r/seduction09/02/14 08:01 PM
2

it's why Mark Manson rebranded and overhauled his blog; there's actually a lot to take from his writing if you're male OR female
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:12 AM
1

I worded it weird, but basically what I was trying to get at.
/r/seduction04/02/13 11:27 PM
22

Unless they're in the mood. That's the important part. No one who has the balls to send dick pics have the brain to know when to send dick pics
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:48 AM
2

better than looking at pictures of cats and memes, eh?
/r/seduction25/01/13 03:22 AM
7

I never thought a Disney song would be so applicable to a serious discussion about seduction.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:26 AM
0

posts like this are why I visit this subreddit
/r/seduction21/12/12 11:01 AM
3

what is this place turning into, /r/coldshowers?
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:57 AM
1

holy shit, I love your site. I can't really think of anything to ask you now but I'd love to pick your brain sometime
/r/seduction07/11/12 09:02 AM
1

this isn't /r/shittyseduction edit: ... I didn't realize that was a real subreddit
/r/seduction10/09/12 09:31 AM
4

90% guys are never approached in this matter unless its a flirty female sales rep trying to sell them something. You could ask the guys yourself, but I'm sure you'll find out most guys like the attention. Regardless if you're male or female most people (at least in my city) very frequently display quiet/shy/introverted/social anxiety behaviors while alone. Displaying confidence works on both sexes. Excluding the whole "I'm a dominant person and want a passive partner who I can make choices for" …
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:34 AM
2

the moment you start thinking of excuses, you've already convinced yourself not to
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:46 AM
8

Katy -> Katie -> Caitie -> Katey -> KT -> Kaytee you'd be surprised how many ways someone will spell a name, you could also joke about how you know someone that spelled their name with a Q learning to think on your feet and be funny is a very useful talent that everyone should develop
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:12 AM
0

and handkerchief masks. Otherwise you might see the other party smile and stay erect.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:43 PM
1

oh... well that's a good clarification, I was worried I'd have to cut down on my alone time
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:17 AM
3

even me being an average 5'10" I'll frequently run into women who are 5'9" who insist on men that are taller than them in heels
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:15 AM
2

no, you're the Om Nom, sometimes I get that confused too
/r/seduction14/04/12 03:49 AM
4

at least I understood what you were talking about
/r/seduction20/11/11 10:04 PM
2

I knew a girl at school who was always told that she was intimidating. Figure out what she means by intimidating, maybe she means you're different and more challenging than most guys she is with; non submissive. I'd say she meant it in a good way.
/r/seduction30/06/11 01:52 AM
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you can use the books she's looking at/section she's in to figure out a good conversation starter too. at least better than the "oh I see you have a banana in your shopping cart" opener
/r/seduction26/06/11 05:14 PM
4

hey hjsdfhdfjklsahfjklas, do you know hjsfjahldfsjfdkklahs? he was a good friend of mine in high school. not asdfxcvbghkjasdf though, hes a dick.
/r/seduction24/06/11 03:29 AM
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