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kdmo/r/seduction21/07/11 06:33 AM
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kdmo/r/seduction14/07/11 10:22 PM
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OP, wanting to change is the first step. You really need to just step out of your comfort zone. Do things that make you uncomfortable. Even if you feel uncomfortable, you power through and do it. Is there any setting where you do feel comfortable? Maybe talking about your field of interest or work? Can I ask why you are afraid to talk to restaurant staff? Is it a similar reason to why you can't ask for the time of day?
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:21 AM
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Nike man. Just do it.
/r/seduction11/08/11 12:22 AM
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Great mentality and great job! Let me be the first to congratulate you.
/r/seduction02/08/11 06:29 AM
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Yes, it does mean you're thinking. When you're talking and storytelling. You often look away, and kind of relive the moment mentally.
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:56 PM
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Thanks for the post, OP. You bring up some good points. And for the record, I don't judge you for helping her cheat. Her choice. In some ways, might be better (at least to you or her) she cheated with you rather than with some random. But that's all conjecture.
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:52 PM
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Maybe he'll even read your post and learn something. :P
/r/seduction29/07/11 05:43 PM
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Well, if you hook up again, it won't just be a one night stand then. :P
/r/seduction28/07/11 10:46 PM
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A little OT, but try not to touch anyone's back if they're Asian and gambling. It's a superstition for Asian folk. It's good you're trying to build up your kino, just a friendly piece of advice in case you get a bad reaction and wonder why.
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:16 PM
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Thanks for the sentiment on losing weight. It was a lifestyle change for me. I credit dropping fast food and soda for my weight loss. I literally did not exercise the entire time. So if you're still drinking soda or eating fast food, take my advice and drop it; it's shit food anyways. It's funny to say, but I think I can attribute 20-40% of my weight loss to subway too. Cheap, convenient and healthy. Even when I was 250, it still didn't click that I loss that much weight. Sure you'll start to no…
/r/seduction28/07/11 12:03 AM
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Good going man! I'm proud of you. I still haven't had my Aha! moment yet. So still feel like a loser sometimes lol. I'm trying to improve myself though. I know what you mean about feeling good losing weight too. Went from around 350+ to 250. Kept it off for more than a year and now I'm back to 280ish. Working on getting my weight down again. It's funny, when I was losing weight it didn't seem like I was changing much, but now that I've gained some of it back, man.... I can feel a difference. I f…
/r/seduction27/07/11 10:28 PM
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This. I also think he's taking it slow because he's not sure how to proceed. If things are moving THAT slowly, just make the first move. You've already know why he's acting the way he is; he's a shy virgin with low self esteem.
/r/seduction25/07/11 09:13 PM
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You've been friendzoned, my friend. Actually sounded like you had a shot with her week 1, but you didn't go in with any clear intentions. She's not going to want to potentially embarrass herself by making the first move when you're not giving her any clear signals. Auto-friendzone. Right now I would move on and have fun with other people. Show her that you are having a better time without her and make her miss spending time with you because she sees all the fun you are having. Disqualify yoursel…
/r/seduction25/07/11 04:30 PM
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did you kino the 2nd time or just went straight for the kiss.
/r/seduction22/07/11 10:46 PM
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She flaked ;( Do you guys think sunday too soon for reschedule? Ill txt her back when i get back to the office. Her: Sorry can't go tonight I m not feeling good today! Sorry can we change another day?
/r/seduction21/07/11 10:06 PM
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I txt her a couple hours ago to meet at coffee shop at 7. She has yet to respond.
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:28 PM
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I mean ask where doc appt is at so we can meet near her. Or meet at shop near my house
/r/seduction21/07/11 05:30 PM
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Hey brah, should try and find out where she's coming from?
/r/seduction21/07/11 04:20 PM
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Thanks for the tip. I just downloaded reddit app for my phone too. :P "Hey HB :P let's meet at 7 in case your doc appt runs long. Starbucks at XXX street sound good? Should I ask about her logistics? I'm not really sure where she lives or where her doctors appointment is at. I only know where she works, and she's not working that day. ;/
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:31 PM
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Cool. Meet at the coffee shop it is!
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:21 PM
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Texted her last week to setup date. My idea. I also thought it might feel rushed or pushy; and that meeting her there felt most natural.
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:18 PM
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Agreed. I'm still a work in progress. :D
/r/seduction19/07/11 09:52 PM
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GL bro. I think 3rd time'll be the charm.
/r/seduction19/07/11 06:06 PM
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she seems genuinely interested in you. it sounds more like you're hesitating too much and holding yourself back. you even admit this is how you failed. now lesson learned, just do it. if you get blown out, just say ok and continue as if nothing awkward happened. this is a hard concept I'm trying to grasp right now as well; it's only awkward if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction19/07/11 04:53 PM
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I feel that doctor's appointment is throwing me a logistics curveball too. :P Should I try to meet her at the coffee shop or try to pick her up? Thanks for the pro tip. I'll try to avoid using double questions. "Hey hb, starbucks at 6:30? lemme know if your doc appt. is running long!" better? though i've read some posts about texting that tell me i need to include some type of 'consideration' in my message. should i add something?
/r/seduction19/07/11 04:34 PM
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I think you still have a good shot at closing if she was being as possessive as you made her out to be.
/r/seduction19/07/11 03:59 PM
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so pretty much all the guy has to do tomorrow night is not fuck up too badly? since you mentioned conversational threading, here's an article i found on threadcutting. you might find this useful. threadcutting
/r/seduction19/07/11 07:20 AM
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thinking i shouldn't text her anymore. should i just text her the day of to confirm? i plan to text her thurs morning to meet me at a coffee shop at 6:30. just keep it simple. i was going to turn this into a dinner date because of the later hour, but have been reading that you shouldn't do that for first date. "hey hb, still on for coffee? meet at starbucks 6:30?"
/r/seduction19/07/11 02:37 AM
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Listen to this man. She expected you to kiss her, OP. You have a 2nd chance now, so do it. Try the triangle gazing technique. stare at her left eye for a couple seconds, right eye, then mouth. rinse and repeat. When you notice her doing the same thing, that's your cue.
/r/seduction18/07/11 10:47 PM
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+1 Like Lanko said, maybe you could just own your style. Maybe you're only creepy because you're awkward about it. If you own your style and do everything like it's the most natural occurring thing in the world, others will accept it. Are you holding a lot of yourself back? Sounds like you may be forcing yourself to act a certain way and your friends are picking up on that. ie you seem weird/not genuine/awkward. If you don't want to post info about yourself online. Find a trusted friend and have…
/r/seduction18/07/11 09:03 PM
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Thanks man, you were right. I just needed to man up and do it.
/r/seduction18/07/11 12:41 AM
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What's wrong with self improvement? If someone isn't happy with a part of their life; be it lacking social skills or confidence and want to change it, is that wrong? I think you're attaching too much negative connotation to 'seduction.' Feels like you're telling him there is no need to learn the rules, to just go be himself and attempt to blindly meet women and hope they are as 'authentic' and 'responsive.' No thought has been placed on whether OP has good social skills or not, etc. What if OP t…
/r/seduction15/07/11 08:48 PM
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I want to try and do that.
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:17 PM
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Thanks for helping. I wasn't shopping though; my mom ordered some crap months ago and I was just there to pick it up. Macys ran out of the 'gifts' that came with it so HB7.5 said she'll give me more shit next time and told me to text her in August to remind her. My problem is that I can't think of a good excuse to open her with. We only talked for like 5-10 mins so not much rapport; think I need to face as if it were still a cold approach. How should I built rapport/comfort (a lot of posts say t…
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:16 PM
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Does everyone know your time constraints? Maybe your project is due soon. Your job is ultimately to do your job first; not someone else's work. Since no one here knows your exact position and environment, we can't really tell you what excuse to use; especially if you're looking for a situation based excuse. It's also best to have grains of truth in your excuse. So again, my advice is to think of what more important work you need to do first. Stuff you're being paid to do. Also, if you can't thin…
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:04 PM
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Just think of something you rather be doing with your time and say that. In your OP you said: I honestly really didn't want to help him as I had my own project couldn't you have just told him you were busy with your own project?
/r/seduction14/07/11 10:28 PM
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At the very least you made a friend, got a wing woman and met a bunch of her girlfriends.
/r/seduction29/06/11 12:54 AM
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First thing I gather from your post is that she's coming over again to hook up again. She's giving you LMRs because she doesn't want to seem easy. From your report, I'm guessing when you met up with her last week, it was the first time you've seen her in years. Anyways, just think about it, she gave in last week, why wouldn't a repeat happen this week? She knows what'll happen when she goes to your house to "hang out;" no, she's coming over to hook up as long as you don't blatantly F things up.
/r/seduction27/06/11 11:44 PM
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I'm new but from what I've read so far if you amplify and agree at the end, you might have a better shot at getting past LMR. Maybe you should preempt them in saying "no sex tonight."
/r/seduction14/06/11 10:51 PM
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