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keiy_solo/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:08 AM
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keiy_solo/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:39 PM
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I'm speaking from the perspective of a person that lost a spouse to red pill. Please do not spend much time trying to "understand" this new behavior versus deciding if you can accept whether you can live with his new beliefs and how he's treating you. Trying to understand will continue to keep you in proximity to him and the toxic things he's taking in. I do not care how smart, kind, or empathetic anyone believes themselves to be, it's best to get some distance from your current environment if p…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 11:21 PM
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Each time I hear a complaint of women having life easier or getting more attention, I wonder if people consider that: Regarding attention - we may receive what some see as a higher quantity of attention, but they don't account for the "quality" of attention we receive. It's not all positive or good natured. Trust. Regarding an easier life, I won't beat a dead horse but there are plenty of conversations in this sub that soundly put that misconception to rest. Life is not "easy" for any of us. Tha…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 06:03 PM
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Exhausting is definitely the key word. Whew! I had no idea how burned out I was until I got out. The first month away I slept so much and so deeply; I felt like a brand new person. I did not realize the impact being in an environment where you are constantly on edge was having on me. My heart would literally race when he got home because I had no idea what was going to be on the day's bullshit menu. And oh of course, I'd be provoked to anger and then recorded as if I was the aggressive one. Good…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 01:58 PM
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OP you are not alone. I've been separated from my spouse for over a year due to him following RP. The separation has been devastating but I also appreciate the time it has allowed me to get back into a safe space in my body and mind. No one should have to fight the battle of the sexes every day at home. In my experience, the constant back and forth about RP talking points, the new level of hostility, and the lack of respect was extremely dysregulating. Please do what's best and what's necessary …
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 11:02 PM
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Pushing self-improvement as a means to an end instead of an ends to a means. Self-improvement is meant to be just that: improvement of self for self versus improvement of self for the purpose of getting more chances/results with women. I see people quote that self improvement bit as one good thing from RP and I just don't see it that way. It is still trying to sell a guaranteed formula for men to follow to get a result. The self improvement fluff is just another way RP displays its lack of genui…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 05:03 PM
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What is your understanding of feminism? Based on what you've shared, you seem to think there is a separation of sexes in the movement where there is none. Feminism is for men too. It is not a 'women only' club or movement. I invite you to research more on what feminism really stands for. You may find out you're a feminist too.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 01:48 PM
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As my spouse descended into RP he often rambled on about having to follow his "purpose" more; that it was the most important thing for him to do as a man and his his new coldness and distance from me and others was justified by it. I could never really explain how wrong that was. To be honest I am a terrible debater. However, I was really happy to come across this video that explains it much better than I can. The creator isn't a RP/ anti-RP channel but this content directly addresses one of the…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:39 PM
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They don't understand that in RP both women and men are dehumanized. There is no winning here. Reducing individuals to such superficial means while also limiting one's own humanity and ability to empathize or truly connect/express one's self leads to damage on both sides. I'm giving up this fight though and it feels like tons have been lifted from my shoulders. I hope those who are lost find their way back.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:31 PM
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If there's anything I could hope for, it would be that. Thank you for your words of support. I hope many more wake up before they lose everything.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:14 PM
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This really put into words what I have been feeling but could not quite explain. I feel truly devalued and destabilized and was 100% threatened with replacement. Sadly my law firm is familiar with the manosphere/red pill issue so that let's me know many more families before mine have been destroyed by this garbage.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:13 PM
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I am happy she was able to get out before she was seriously affected by his behavior. I probably should have left before now. However, I am sorry that you both lost someone who meant a lot to you at one point.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:09 PM
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Thank you!
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:08 PM
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I can't really answer that since I don't have many answers from him but he adopted a lot of RP beliefs based on the thought that all men are under attack these days.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:08 PM
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I have never been able to get all the answers from my spouse but he did initially seem more drawn to the RP content that alleged manhood/masculinity were under attack; that society does not appreciate or honor men; and the call for a return to traditional values and family structures.. From the earliest I can remember him engaging with the content, friends on social media sent him links to Fresh n Fit and Kevin Samuels videos. They were intended for entertainment and laughs (which he did at firs…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 11:05 PM
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I appreciate that!
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:56 PM
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I am so sorry you went through that. The arguments I have with my spouse really make my head hurt. We get nowhere and there are zero original thoughts or "facts" being shared on his side. I will say at the height of things I actually disassociated for a bit and that was my cue to seriously put some distance between us. It was extremely scary.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:56 PM
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Thank you! I think this is spot on. I was absolutely willing to fight as much as possible but seeing the years go by with no change and only further deterioration was truly disheartening. It actually seemed to get worse the harder I tried. I'm at the point where I have to do what's best for me regardless of how I feel. I am sorry you have also had to go through this with losing a friend. I know that was very hard. By any chance is your friend doing better?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:52 PM
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It's horrifying. I hate I stumbled across it in my research on RP but I needed to see that to know what I was up against.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:48 PM
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I can't wait for the day people are more aware and willing to act against the ways they are influenced by algorithms smh
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:46 PM
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I really appreciate that. There's nothing to add here. You've clearly stated the truth.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:45 PM
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Understood. It is a harsh truth to accept but your advice is spot on with all other advice I've received. This is my new reality and until my spouse decides this is a bad road for him there's nothing I can really do. Separation has not helped. It has only reinforced his belief that women tear apart families for trivial reasons.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:44 PM
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Add to that, most "nice" guys aren't kind.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 02:57 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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