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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Not here for almost relationships or situationships🙅Cosigned. I'm sorry that you were coerced into doing that. My history is also extremely limited, but I still would not share it because, as women, you cannot win regardless of of being a virgin, having a limited experience, moderate experience, or abundant experience. They will judge heavy-handedly, try to manipulate you, and/or push your boundaries no matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:58 PM |
| 12 | FDS has saved me time and energy.Look at all the scrotes getting angry at their manipulative tactics being exposed, women learning to just avoid them and, thereby, choosing to go another route, and, thus, down-voting this post. They're feeling threatened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ?This. My mind always thinks others act and think with the same positive intentions I have. Men being dishonest to me and disrespectful of my boundaries even after I've clearly stated them has been an eye-opener. Becoming heavy-handed at blocking immediately after the first red flag addresses this well. My head, heart, and patience will not tolerate it anymore. It's exhausting and undeserving of my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:48 PM |
| 6 | I wish ill-will on the man that blew up negging as a pick-up technique.It was that Roosh V guy and his forum dedicated to PUA and LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women, you are NOT a fucking play thing.Yeap - probably his mom. I bet he is of south Asian descent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:31 AM |
| 6 | "He sold my kidney because my family couldn't meet his demand for dowry."Female infanticide rates are the highest and M:F ratios are the most skewed in the provinces of Punjab and Haryana. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 28 | This is why I’ll never marry a man who doesn’t cook or clean. Not only do they need to be taken care of like a child, they will actively undermine your efforts to raise your sons to be better.Right. Anything to keep the privilege of lessened responsibilities going even if it comes at a greater cost to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:50 PM |
| 40 | Watch how he ‘play fights’ with you, I just saw this tweet where the guy is extremely violent while ‘playing’She came online to defend him, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | NYT: "Nearly Half of Men Say They Do Most of the Home Schooling. 3 Percent of Women Agree."Look at all these scrotes in denial and downvoting the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:59 AM |
| 13 | The Wall and why it’s realI know a high profile film director who was bothered by his wife giving her agency-signed model friend, aged 35, support dating a 25 YO man. The model was the one questioning proceeding and the younger man was the one pursuing, but this tw*t was actually said, "why would he go for older when he can have younger?". Not surprising since seen his 70+ YO ass was lusting after a 25 YO woman friend of mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 20 | Reminder that what you really want and need is respect and to feel valued. There’s nothing wrong with that.Same. Had a guy who wanted me to fly around with him for his business like a puppy dog following its owner without giving a shit about my goals and glossing over all of my academic achievements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Reminder that what you really want and need is respect and to feel valued. There’s nothing wrong with that.Eloquently articulated. Thank you so much. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 10 | If a guy won't move for you, don't move for him.True. Once, I had to beg this guy to visit me in my town after having visited his city twice and met in the middle somewhere twice, as well. Yes, I agreed with him that my town is smaller and less exciting than the other two locations, but shouldn't I be the main focus? Complete turn off. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 53 | If these #NotAllMen types were genuine, they would attack the MRA/MGTOW/Incel/Pro-Male/Etc. subs instead of harassing feminist subs with their gaslighting tactics. But they do not want to stop toxic masculinity - they just want to stop us from talking about toxic masculinity!If they really cared, these men would call the bigotry out IRL when they’re amongst the incels/pro-males. They don’t. In fact, they probably keke along with them in private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 07:35 PM |
| 7 | Comment QUEENS 👸 roast Ed from 90 day fiancé 😂😂😂Isn't he the one demanding her to get an STD test on their first meeting/date? Then gaslights her because she becomes upset about it. People have their guards up during the initial stages, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're deliberately trying to hide information. Give it 2-3 dates. He should be glad she's even considering spending time with him; but in true scrote form, he's highly delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Websites with quality affordable clothing?Joie, Equipment, Mango, LOFT, Theory, Modern Citizen, Oak + Fort, COS, Olive, Cuyana, Everlane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:16 PM |
| 11 | I bet he thinks he's being soo cute being this uselessInstant oatmeal is the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 12 | Even Living Alone in Siberia, Women Get Harassed by Men (The Story of Agafia)Erefoy was a part of a group of geologists who visited the Lykovs decades ago. As outsiders, they infected Agafia's siblings with disease and that is how they died. After he decided to live there, he tried to bed her twice (once even while she was sick). Agafia references the story of Susanna from the Old Testament in regards to the other time. I really hope he didn't rape her. He's dead now, though. I do love how Old Slavic has been preserved through her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 05:48 PM |
| 316 | Indian men are so embarrassingWomen in India: Spends many millennia treated as burdens - from birth, throughout childhood, entering a marriage (dowry), being condemned for wanting to work after a marriage, enduring domestic abuse at the hands of the in-laws and husband. Basically second class citizens. Women in India: Get granted some financial security in the case of a divorce and so she doesn't starve/become homeless (because she didn't inherit shit from her family like her husband did) and/or become completely ostracized … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 7 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 day minimum.Can we eliminate this notion for having a concrete number of 90 days? It should happen when you're most comfortable enough to share your body with him. Given, this tends to happen around that period, but you should not feel bad if it takes longer (or even slightly less under vigorous vetting). It will just encourage scrotes to tough it out until the 90 day mark. Another hurdle for, say, just that new notch on his belt if he is determined enough. Also - don't ever let him onto what you're thinkin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 31 | Porn has convinced men that violent sex is OK. It ISN'T. A man who wants to strangle during sex has paired sex and violence.There are enough women out there who tell these disrespectful, porn-sick NVMs they "like" this so these guys are convinced they just have to search around to find their cool girl who will participate. This was my experience with a guy who wanted to choke me during sex. In reality, these girls are Pickmeishas without self-worth or faux-empowered LibFems. To the Pickmeishas - You won't be validated and accepted even after putting up with the abuse. So don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise. Fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:10 PM |
| 15 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity I did some work on a set once and will support all your claims. The amount of sleaze the women had to endure (unwillingly or "willingly" as a part of the game) put me off forever. I saw all of that plus a BIG named director (in his 70s) hardcore lusting/obsessing over a girl young enough to be his granddaughter. I was through after just a quick dip in that pond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 11 | “Let’s just see where this goes”Saw her post and thought about FDS. Also thought about re-directing her here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 47 | Wife does all of the house work and childcare alone on top of a full-time job. Husband makes almost 4x more than she does but he insists on splitting the housing costs evenly. He railroaded her into living in a more expensive location and now she can’t save money.She can't save any money to put toward a house, and he has proven he won't invest any money into his family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 3 | It’s basic stuff reallyMy HVM does this and also has his iPhone's "Find my Friends" enabled for me. It was his idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 8 | I Was The Best WomanIt be like that when an LVM calls you that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 26 | My exes Dad died, and he emailed me looking for support.Just ask yourself if he would do the same for you. Hardly any guy I've seen on a long-term basis inquired more about my dad's passing. I'm not want to voluntarily unload my traumas on people, but it's weird when they don't show any interest in an event that shaped who I am today but expect me to listen to shit their siblings, nieces, and uncles/aunts are doing. Most men DGAF about getting to know you on a deep level. Just offer your condolences to him and keep it moving. Save your empathy for so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 5 | “Because men want” vs “because women deserve” and why it made the difference for me.You tell 'em, sis. Welcome to FDS. [= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 27 | When Porn in Life: Driver Was Watching Porn Before Fatal Crash that Killed AnotherAgreed but, in this case, the driver (guy watching the porn) came out alive but ended someone else’s life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 39 | "Does she expect you to read her mind?" Yep, next questionThoughtlessness is a common theme with LVM and is why a lot of women end up dissatisfied in their relationships - whether it be with personal details or life tasks. It's offensive AF to realize that, over time, details about you as a person aren't being kept on mental record when a partner, of all people in the world, is by association someone who should thrive to do this. Wtf else is the point? A lot of women find joy in doing this, themselves, and an HVM will too. My partner and I still get gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 27 | When men talk about equality I truly wanna laugh.In my Pickmeisha days, I once dated a guy who became upset with me for saying that even though I'm one for willing to work through any difficulties in marriage, abuse (physical or otherwise) is one thing that would warrant a divorce. Domestic abuse is rampant within that community so I thought I would lay it out in the beginning because I'm not a part of our mothers' generation that will tolerate intolerant and unloving, immature spouses by just "sucking it up" simply because I'm not as destitut… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 44 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡I remember watching some episodes of SATC (especially the wedding one) and thinking, even as a young teen, how painfully cringe Carrie was behaving. It’s just not natural to pine so hard for a person. It’s so lop-sided and unnatural, and it’s clear they don’t want you like that. At the very least, they should meet you half-way. Mr. Big or whatever never seemed to be interested in enough to do that, but Carrie was always doing the most for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Is it really “MGTOW” if you lurk in a female only forum to send unsolicited messages to women you don’t know? Hmmm... you’re not really going your own way are you?Men kid themselves with MGTOW. They burst at the seams trying to do so. It’s why they have been knocking women down all throughout history so that they can seize some of the power we have on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:49 AM |
| 2 | LVM proposalsSame here. The mothers encourage it, and everyone gangs up on the DIL once he brings a wife home and if she ever sticks up for herself since the son can never do wrong. Girl’s mother/father will brush it off and tell their daughter it’s how life after marriage is and because of the internalized misogyny. Then she literally can’t leave because she is fighting for equality not just from him but his entire tubbar [clan]. They won’t let her leave because it will “ruin their reputations”. Why get mar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you vet a man for his political views?You must be from Spokane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:40 AM |
| 4 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.Yeap that's a good one right there. Congrats, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Financial independence is one of the keys to FDSEndless benefits. Not a con in sight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else experience this??? 🙋🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️A friend of mine from Vancouver, who is an emergency dispatcher, said that something like 3/4 of the domestic violence calls are from brown households. I've just let it go and go where I'm hated less for being a women (away from brown people). LMK if you ever want someone with whom to commiserate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:11 AM |
| 37 | Anyone else experience this??? 🙋🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️I see you received a lot of upvotes for this, which means there are a lot of Punjabi/Urdu speaking ladies here. We need to start another FDS for Punjabi men because the misogyny and patriarchy within that community is on a whole different level and needs to be tackled with Poseidon's raging, iron trident. Everything from the female infanticide to the trivializing of women's very existences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMThe debate over proactively doing household chores is one of the top reasons why couples divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Just let go of a possible HVM...I once turned down a HVM who was in med school because there wasn't any chemistry. I repeatedly questioned myself to be double, triple, and quadruple sure. Ultimately, I decided that there was still that little something missing, and I couldn't do it. No regrets. He has found someone nice then, and I'm happy for him. I'm still happy I made the decision I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 11:14 PM |
| 18 | Not sure how to feel about this comment.This is my exact tactic. When you're in the initial stages, why debate over behaviors with them? Mentally keeping note of all the red flags and then promptly deleting/blocking after having kept your poker face for the duration of the date. Indicating to them in any way that you disapprove of something they have said or done will likely cause them to cover their true selves up until later in the game. Be grateful that their true colors are showing, make a mental note, make a judgment call, and ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 16 | Why do men think this shit is okay?I had a guy spring the "I like choking in the bedroom" on me a few weeks into talking. Then he the audacity to say that I would need to be into this in order to be with him because, in his experience, not a lot of girls are and that it's important. No woman likes it, you sadistic sicko, regardless of how hard they try to make it seem to you otherwise. He pulled my hair while making out once, and I thought it was SO disrespectful and wanted to punch him so badly. Of course, I was a Pickmeisha bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:26 AM |
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