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In my mind, the more men a woman has slept with, it tells me that there is no reason for me to put in any effort into our relationship. Why would I be the one to take her out on nice dates and woo her, when 20 other dudes got to fuck her in the first night?
/r/askTRP15/04/14 05:56 PM
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Why do you think you can't get into college? I know a lot of people who got their GED, went to community college for 2 years, then moved onto university. It happens all the time.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:46 AM
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Don't stress, you are still very young and you've obviously had some sort of relationship already, so you are ahead of a lot of people your age in that regard. As far as improving your life, I could ramble on for a while, but I'm going to keep it short and simple. The best advice I can give about life is that all you have to do is just show up. Just fake it until you make it. It works in every single aspect of life. You don't like school? Guess what, I didn't either, and I have a masters degree.…
/r/askTRP15/04/14 12:15 AM
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This might be a stupid question but are you actually approaching women? Have you been going on any dates, getting any numbers, etc? If you are in good shape and you are a normal enough person, I promise you it is bound to happen eventually. Don't give up hope. The thing about sex is, it can all change in one day. So for example, if you take the risk and ask some girl out at the local sandwich shop, you might end up hitting it off and fucking her that night. I promise to you it really isn't that …
/r/askTRP13/04/14 11:31 PM
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Sounds like they are just messing with you, but it's hard to tell. It shouldn't be all that hard to figure out. It doesn't really ever happen to me anymore, because I lift weights and dress well. You should lift more and try to get to 150lbs and you might notice people treating you differently...but like I said, the club scene can be rough. I usually just stay away from that sort of stuff, because I am successful in all other aspects of life and I'd rather not compete for women in a club, which …
/r/askTRP13/04/14 01:28 AM
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I'm 5'6 and I've dealt with the same problems. All I can really say, is just focus on the shorter girls and you should have no issues at all. Being short can be a disadvantage as far as the initial approach, but I've noticed if I can get them alone, I manage to fuck them a good amount of the time. So yes, being short makes the initial approach more difficult, but as long as you are lifting weights and taking good care of yourself, it doesn't end up being much of a disadvantage. If you are in the…
/r/askTRP12/04/14 01:40 AM
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The problem is that women don't see flaking for what it truly is - it's fucking rude and disrespectful. When I was a kid, my dad taught me to always follow through with your word, and actually show up to something when you tell someone you are going to be there...because that's what an adult does. So what it really boils down to, is that these women are actually children, and have no respect for other human beings. A girl I've been seeing flaked out on one of our dates last week an hour before i…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:05 PM
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Don't even worry about the reasons why she left. If she is 19, there probably are no reasons other than the fact that she is in the prime of her life and wants to have some fun. I was your age many years ago, trying to establish long term relationships with girls and it was nearly impossible. There just isn't much you can do at that age, because the girls don't even know what they want out of life, and they are being flooded with male attention. Don't let it bother you, keep improving. It happen…
/r/askTRP11/04/14 06:36 PM
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I'm not going to be the one advocating to throw your virginity away on some slut, but it really is a good idea to get some experience. The first few times you have sex it will probably be a little nerve wracking and awkward for you (I remember I had trouble even getting hard). After enough time it really becomes an enjoyable experience, and girls can sense that you are sexually comfortable with yourself and they'll be more willing to give it to you. The more sex you have, your confidence is goin…
/r/askTRP11/04/14 06:24 PM
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What it means is that she is a whore. What you do, is start talking to other women that are going to be LTR material, and just fuck her on the side like the slut she is. Don't even try to make a serious relationship out of it, it's not going to work. Just tell her to come over once a week for an easy fuck and leave it at that. That's the best outcome you can get out of this situation, I've been through the same thing many times.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 12:54 AM
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Just make your intentions clear and ask her out on a date or something. Let it be known that you aren't interested in only having a friendship. If she rejects you, just move on, no big deal.
/r/askTRP30/03/14 07:16 AM
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One of the biggest mistakes I ever made with a girl involved this same thing back in college. She would tell me how I was way too good for her (which I really was)... I was more attractive, more successful, etc. I'd tell her how she was just as good / better than me, so she'd be more comfortable and let me fuck her. She started to believe my bullshit (thinking she was high value), and soon left me to get pumped and dumped by alpha cock. Moral of the story - if she says that shit, it's probably r…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:14 AM
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Well I've been in the industry as an EE for quite a few years now. As far as grades go, they aren't terribly important in CS / engineering unless you are going onto grad school. As long as you get a degree and sound halfway intelligent in your interviews, you will have no problem finding a decent job in those fields. I interview candidates as part of my job and it's more important to me that someone is actually skilled / has experience in a topic compared to just having good grades. For example,…
/r/askTRP29/03/14 09:29 PM
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All you can do is next her and move on. I promise you she is in relationships and possibly fucking these other guys, but she doesn't want to tell you because she knows she will lose an orbiter. Women always try to keep orbiters around to continuously inflate their self esteem, and you seem to be doing a good job of that. Remove her phone number, facebook, etc, and move on. You need to cut your losses and look at it as a learning experience. Next time you get rejected after asking a girl out on a…
/r/askTRP29/03/14 02:24 AM
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Well your first mistake was continuing to talk to her after she found another guy. Any time that happens in the future with a woman, quit talking to her. It is pointless, a waste of time, and it will just make you emotionally miserable and frustrated. If a woman skips over you for another guy, that is your indicator that it's your time to leave, NEVER stick around to orbit, ever again. She has nothing to offer you. ...and in response to this: "Does she not realize that the ONLY reason she was ab…
/r/askTRP26/03/14 11:19 PM
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It's a nice idea, but I think after some more experience you might realize it just isn't possible. As an example, when I was in my early 20's and had just graduated, I had been dating a girl who I was completely infatuated with. I had just graduated from university and was making quite a bit of money, doing well in my career, in good shape, had my own place, etc...basically everything that TRP would advocate. After about 2 years, she wanted to take a break from the relationship. I found out she …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 12:46 AM
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Long distance relationships never work, especially at age 20. I guarantee the first attention she gets from a good looking guy, and she is going to forget all about you.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 01:53 AM
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Yeah just cut all contact with her and move on. We've all been in that situation before and it sucks. She just wants you as an orbiter, don't even give her the satisfaction of having your attention. She sounds like the type of woman that loves stringing along men to improve her self confidence. ...and just a word of advice. If she is already pissing you off and making you upset, it's not going to stop if you decide to continue the friendship with her. I guarantee she will stir up the same emotio…
/r/askTRP19/03/14 04:31 AM
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I'm 5'6, and I used to deal with the same shit. The first thing is, you need to be going to the gym, just make it your goal to get as big as possible. You'd be surprised at how much better you feel after working out. You also need dress well. Lots of short guys I see don't have clothes that fit properly. I tend to buy a lot of clothes online from certain Asian stores, because they tend to run small and slim. You should also get your clothes tailored if anything feels too big. Make sure you are c…
/r/askTRP18/03/14 08:16 PM
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I've always kinda liked seeing swear words when digging through the linux kernel. Sometimes it's comforting to know that even the guy who wrote a complicated section of code refers to it as "confusing bullshit".
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:23 PM
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You just have to get used to being both dominant and submissive when it is needed. I've always felt more sexually submissive, but once you've been with enough women, you tend to get the idea that most of them have weird rape fantasies (I know I'd get downvoted to hell saying this anywhere else, but it's true). I remember my first girlfriend begging me to choke her, and I'd do it, but it felt weird and I'd just be sitting there the whole thinking "what the hell am I doing?"...but it didn't stop w…
/r/askTRP17/03/14 06:27 PM
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Agreed. I find it's easiest to bring it up while acting nonchalant about it, and I've never not had a woman spill the beans...but sometimes it can be difficult deciding what to do with that knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:13 AM
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Was that comment a fucking joke? She literally just expressed how repulsed she was by blue pill behavior.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:54 PM
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I had mild gynecomastia starting around 14/15 and into my early 20's. I eventually got it checked out and it turned out my testosterone levels were fine, I think my levels were around 750-800 at the time. The only thing you can do is get surgery to have it removed, which usually costs around $3k-$5k.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 03:45 PM
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I don't remember the exact reason, but when you take testosterone supplements it has the common side effect of inducing gynecomastia. Edit: Just looked it up... "Gynecomastia is believed to arise from peripheral conversion of testosterone to estradiol via the enzyme aromatase."
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:12 AM
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Nice post. I think a major problem for boys is there is really no hands-on interaction in schools. There is too much theory and not enough development of intuition. I remember when I was in college (for electrical engineering), my classmates and I were just pushing symbols in the electromagnetics courses. We had no idea what the hell we were doing. I don't even think we even touched a transistor more than a couple times in my undergrad studies...but we sure as hell spent years chugging through e…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 10:03 PM
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You need to read the book titled No More Mr. Nice guy. Every behavior you've mentioned, this book covers. There is even one chapter that talks about how people with the nice guy syndrome tend to seek out women that have underlying issues, because they think with their love and support they can rehabilitate them. It sounds like your emotional outbursts are because you are being a nice guy and letting your anger build up when you don't get your way. You need to learn to live for yourself and set e…
/r/askTRP05/03/14 09:33 PM
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Sorry I meant peak attractiveness relative to one's age group. I think around 35 for example, it becomes easier for the average man to find interested women (in his age group), compared to when he is in his early 20's...and I'm talking the average male.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 05:38 AM
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I think with more women being in the work force, it has allowed them the financial freedom to be independent and seek out their sexual desires. In the past, it was imperative for a woman to remain faithful to her husband, as her entire wellbeing was dependent on him. This, combined with the negative stigma of being sexually promiscuous largely curbed any unfaithfulness. In most modern societies, it doesn't really matter one way or the other whether a woman (or the man) is loyal or not. Pretty mu…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:30 AM
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Good point, but I still feel like no sane person would be encouraging a young woman with no children to hookup with a single father and take care of his kids...and the reverse seems to happen with no arguments from anyone.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:26 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but sometimes I feel like there is a sort of disparity between the number of high quality men vs high quality women. I can't tell you how many times people have tried to set me up with these single mothers who think they are high value. I guess what bothers me is that people legitimately think that these types of women should be matched up with fit, responsible men who are going to take care of another man's children. You never see the reverse happening - ie, people trying to…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 01:43 AM
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When schools were segregated, blacks ran their own school districts which were in part paid for by black-owned businesses. The money flowed through the community and blacks supported each other (by shopping at black-owned businesses) and ensured students performed well and their schools met high standards. After integration the whites moved their kids out of the integrated schools and the wealthier blacks also moved out of the black neighborhoods, causing those districts to lose money and plumme…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 09:42 AM
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That's because the modern black community is so mind-bogglingly bad at managing money. In the Pre-Civil-Rights era, blacks actually owned businesses within the community, and did very well for themselves. When someone spent a dollar it passed through the community at least 5x before leaving. Now the average dollar gets spent on Air Jordans or a new Cadillac for the pastor and his family. There are hardly any black owned businesses anymore. The only stores left in these ghettos are Walmart, Korea…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 08:56 AM
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"I mean, why would you honestly promote a sexual preference? And these are the very same people who claim that sexual preference is not a choice. It makes zero sense." Exactly. What we've seen in America with the widely held view of sexuality not being a choice (which I agree with) is only the first step. There was a recent documentary that made it to the front page on TRP about a gender institute that oversaw sexuality and gender relations in a few of the Nordic countries. The difference there …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 09:02 PM
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Well thats what happens when you put an entire culture on welfare and take away the incentive to learn any valuable career skills. Blacks were far better off in the civil-rights era than they are now, and it seems to only be getting worse. Their communities have received over a trillion dollars in government handouts that could have easily been used to strengthen communities and build better schools. Instead they love to throw their money at corrupt pastors and useless organizations like Al Shar…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 05:40 PM
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Don't worry, she will break up with him and he will come running back to you and his other friends. As a man it is your duty to accept him back, but only after he admits what a dumbshit he was. Sometimes you just can't be too angry when a friend gets overwhelmed by pussy, it is a power that has controlled even the strongest of men heheh.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:35 AM
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"I have switched my major to Mechanical Engineering(beta field of study, I know)" Lol, I'm sorry but how is that a beta field of study? When you graduate and the childish dick measuring contests are over, there are no "beta" careers. There are people who are intelligent and make plenty of money for themselves, and those who don't. You can be an alpha and bring those types of qualities to any field of work you decide to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:28 AM
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Well I did the opposite thing and still fucked up. When I was in college I got an internship that paid well and decided to move out with a buddy pretty early into my college career. Well, between schoolwork and being a lazy college student, I just couldn't put in enough hours at work to pay for the expensive "luxury apartment" we had rented. I started taking less credits every semester, to the point where it took me 5 1/2 years to finish my degree (which was in engineering, so not completely red…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:17 PM
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The problem is that the military has been faced with the reoccurring issue of women wanting all of the benefits in society but none of the responsibilities. Women are given far greater privileges when it comes to military service, draft-exemption being one example and also leniency when it comes to avoiding combat professions. When the military needs to fill the combat positions, it is the men who are forced to do so. This means that women are assigned the more desirable, technical jobs, in whic…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:57 PM
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Thanks for responding. Reading about you and your wife made me think of all the strange feelings I was dealing with in that relationship. There is always this question in my mind what it would have been like to stay with that girl long-term, so sorry if I side-tracked your thread. I totally respect your decision, because I recognize that after dating plenty of women, a lot of them are dense as hell and I'm probably never going to find a partner who I connect with on that intellectual level. So i…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:20 PM
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I dated an asexual girl years ago, and the whole thing left a bitter taste in my mouth. We had a pretty serious relationship and were definitely best friends at the time, I've still never connected to a girl as well as I did with her. I tried to make it work, but she was just so unwilling to attempt any kind of sexual activity. I remember telling her the same thing - I dress up and go to work every day, I don't see why you can't dress up in something sexy once in a while and blow me (lol). Event…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:06 PM
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Or not calling me me'lady all the time. I laughed way too hard when I read that. You know this dude is one of those fedora wearers who makes fun of TRP and goes around thinking he is one of the elite who knows how to treat a woman right. I hope at the very least, after he has his heart broken, he realizes how much of a dipshit he is for walking around tipping his hat and calling women m'lady.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:23 PM
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She said this in the comments: "He says I have to give him a BJ on his birthday but when I get mad he said he's just kidding, but he keeps talking about it so idk" God I feel so bad for this dude. You can tell she is so repulsed by him that she won't even blow him, and then he plays it off like he was just kidding and didn't even want one. This is the worst kind of nice-guy behavior, the kind of guy that eventually is going to murder people because he is too passive to get what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:15 PM
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I agree somewhat, but I've always felt like texting doesn't naturally lead into actual socialization like talking over the phone does. I think there is some value in being able to have a comfortable conversation with a girl over the phone, that texting doesn't provide.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:50 PM
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I think it's extremely important for men as well, but the one advantage men have is that I don't think being overweight is necessarily a deal breaker. If a woman is fat, it doesn't really matter how nice she is or what she has to say, men simply won't give a shit about her. Now if a man is fat, I've noticed from observation that women will still be receptive to him if he maintains an alpha frame and has some good words to say. Just my two cents.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:34 AM
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Lol, you want to be exclusive with her after she is treating her boyfriend this way? Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP14/02/14 07:22 PM
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I remember when I first made serious attempts to pick-up women and this was always the strangest thing to me. I couldn't figure out why one day these women would be practically begging to fuck me and the next day they couldn't care less about me....and then the day after that they'd be back to wanting to fuck me. It was so confusing to me that I eventually had to confirm with other guys that they experience the same thing. The old wives' tales about women going through constant mood swings...tha…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:29 AM
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Jesus christ...I see a new one of these stories on here everyday, but this one made me feel sick to my stomach. As much as it was this dude's fault, I think every man on here who just read that story felt a unanimous cringe of pain. God damn, after 4 years she tells him to gtfo while she fucks Mr. Alpha on Valentine's Day, that is fuckin cruel.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 12:23 AM
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I'm more inclined to teach them that their needs are important. My favorite aspect of TRP to me is that men go out and get what they want, and they have no shame in doing so. I think one of the primary reasons I was miserable up into my early 20s, was that I played the nice guy role where I pretended to have no needs. My parents taught me that opportunities come to those who passively behave a certain way (among those opportunities being women). It has been a long time since I've learned to acce…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 06:16 AM
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I'm only 5'6-5'7 and I've had to live with being just about the shortest male my entire life - as a toddler to adulthood. Every short guy is constantly aware and reminded of the implications of being short. How I would describe it, is it's kinda like being looked upon as a fat-ass, but there is no amount of work you can put in to change it. So eventually you just learn to live with it, and accept that in every woman's mind they will always see it as a major deficiency in you (status, protection,…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 11:35 PM
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What I would say is that at age 18, you are very young and rather than taking anybody's word for it based on faith, you should go out and observe things for yourself. I'm guessing you don't have enough experience with women to actually be able to make a reasonable decision about TRP philosophies. Start befriending women, tell them your emotions, wait on them hand and foot, see where it gets you. As a former blue pill, it was always hard for me to objectively look at how I was treated by women. T…
/r/askTRP11/02/14 02:36 AM
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I think a lot of it stems from a weird phenomenon I've witnessed in first world countries where people have the time and freedom to sit in their ivory towers and find issues in every aspect of society and human behavior. As an example, it is now politically incorrect in most first world countries to suggest that boys and girls are inherently different in any way, other than the fact that one has a penis and the other a vagina. To state that they are biologically inclined to behave in one way or …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:33 AM
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I'm a white dude about your height, so I can say that just the height aspect is going to make it more difficult to approach a lot of women with any success. I also agree that a lot of westernized white women unfortunately aren't going to be very interested in Asian men unless you are in really good shape (or tall)...but I've seen it done before. One of best buddies pulls more women than anyone else I've ever known, and he is a short Asian dude. They are mostly all Asian women, but if that's okay…
/r/askTRP08/02/14 08:08 PM
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I've tried some online dating in the past, just to supplement what I was doing out in the real world. I'm gonna have to agree with some of the other posters here and say it is more or less a waste of time. I'm a pretty good looking guy and in good shape, and I find it hard to get messages from attractive women...and out in the real world, I have absolutely no problem at all. I've also noticed that even when I do get messages, I'll try to throw out some funny small talk and it just never seems to…
/r/askTRP31/01/14 07:54 PM
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This is so true...when I was in my beta stages I fucked up a few relationships by spilling all of my emotional baggage onto the girl. The worst part is society and women themselves will tell you they want an emotional parter than shares everything with them. I can tell you from experience that they might think they want that, but the minute you give it to them, their vagina will turn into the Sahara desert within a split second. A lot of guys don't believe this either. I would encourage everyone…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:16 PM
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Lol...that was pretty clever, made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:54 PM
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Yep, exactly.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:21 AM
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I've made a few attempts at "lesbians" and even had success with one, but it took me an extremely long time. I actually wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It's strange because I actually tend to find them somewhat more attractive personality-wise than the typical straight female. I think it's because they usually have the wittiness and humor of a man, where they are more comfortable talking shit to you, and in some way it kinda turns me on. The problem is, they will never let any of their friends …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 12:27 AM
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I'll try to throw a little advice your way since I was in the same situation as you. I majored in electrical engineering (also did some programming) in college and was admittedly a virgin until age 22. I read that you are also in a similar field of study, so your observation that - "half of these people have had sex in the last week" is hilariously inaccurate, and I think you probably know that. The poster above me "9051" mentioned a really good point, and that is that you need to be focusing on…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 09:24 PM
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Most women that complain about being used as "sex objects" are looking for men who are "success objects". That is, they only want a man who is highly respected, successful and of course sexually attractive as well. I'm not saying that with any malicious intent, because all humans want the best they can get when it comes to sexual parters, careers, status, etc...but it really annoys me when I see women who aren't intelligent enough to even see their own hypocrisy.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 07:44 PM
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So on one hand, she is a human being and being lonely is one of the most awful feelings ever. I lived it and was forced to embrace the experience of loneliness every day through my teens and early 20's. I do feel some pity and remorse for her. The problem for me is I have no doubt this chick was probably riding a new cock every year, fully embracing the easy life of being a young and attractive woman. While she was out having fun and passing over hardworking but timid betas such as myself at tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:22 AM
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I've always thought Thomas Sowell had some very insightful things to say about the gender gap myth and also affirmative action. It really is a load of bullshit, and all statistics support this fact. Sometimes I can't blame women too much though, men love women so much they are just willing to nod their heads in agreement to the feminist bullshit that they profess, as long as they get their monthly allotment of blow jobs. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_pQ7KXv0o0
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:58 AM
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I was raised in a family of horse loving women. Stay far away. They are probably fine for short-term relationships, but anything long term you will be expected to dish out money non-stop to pay for their horses. You think owning dogs are expensive? One horse is probably the equivalent of 5-10 dogs just in feed...and that doesn't even begin to take into account the fact that most of these women will be going to horse shows. Then you have to add in the cost of the trailer, the saddles and tack, ex…
/r/askTRP19/01/14 03:29 AM
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I would start by telling my personal story. I’ve been in that same mindset, and it really pains me to see other men stuck in similar situations. When I was younger, nobody taught me how to be a man. Nobody told me the importance of taking responsibility for your own actions. It’s much easier to play victim and blame your shortcomings on everyone else. When you look at the current society, you can see that the majority of the population is plagued with problems that are a direct result of this at…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:44 AM
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One of the best books I've ever read was "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrell. This was before finding TRP, and I really think of it as the first time I began to see relationship and power dynamics as they really exist. Both sexes are slaves to each other in different ways, but the feminist movement told women that power was whoever earned more in the workplace. What they didn't realize, was that the extra income was a result of working more hours, working more dangerous jobs, and men sacr…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 09:15 PM
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