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| 1 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsYou sound extraordinarily lonely. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 54 | This. After he cheated on me & ruined our 15 year marriage. I am happy! Happy I got away from you.Men are very superficial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:53 PM |
| -5 | I'm learning how to hold myself outside of the male gazeExactly. Why do people think men lie and say they don't want you to wear makeup, prefer you in sweats, etc.? It's a lie meant to keep you doing the bare minimum so that you are easier to control and feel less confident. When I see a married woman and/or mom that demands her personal time to enjoy her own hobbies, get her hair done, go to the gym, apply her makeup, get facials, get massages, etc., I know that this is a woman who acknowledges her self-worth. Most of FDS does not apply to a woman w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:36 AM |
| 5 | I'm learning how to hold myself outside of the male gazeThat’s 5% from each independent sexual encounter so subsequent encounters increase via exponents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 09:32 PM |
| -6 | I'm learning how to hold myself outside of the male gazeI don’t agree with this philosophy. It sounds more like you are experiencing depression than increased self-esteem. And I certainly don’t understand making yourself unattractive to your husband on PURPOSE. You’re sowing the seeds of marital discord so don’t be surprised if arguments increase, affairs occur, pregnancy happens, etc. You don’t suddenly get a pass to look unattractive because you’re 40. Beauty routines are part of self-care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Ex added up how much money he spent on me. Number should have been higherIt was just a power play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:58 AM |
| 21 | Monica Bellucci, 54, With Boyfriend Nicolas Lefebvre, 36, at the Chanel Fashion ShowVive la Young Dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Do NOT date men who sexualises women/women relationships.Exactly. A man only needs to know you are bisexual if you are planning to be polyamorous with him and date women as well during the relationship. Otherwise, how does it contribute positively to the current relationship? You can assess someone's homophobia without discussing your past sex life, and homophobia is DIFFERENT than not wanting your partner to be bisexual. Our generation has been so overexposed due to social media that we think everybody is supposed to know every damn thing about us. Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 01:24 AM |
| 8 | Do NOT date men who sexualises women/women relationships.You shouldn't even be letting a man know that you are bisexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 9 | What about those of us who don’t want marriage, but still want a long term relationship?Not at all. It's to protect yourself. If your boyfriend passed away, you would have zero say-so in his funeral. You wouldn't be able to make end-of-life decisions in the hospital for him. You would be evicted or be forced to pay his family the cost of the equity in a home if you were to live together. You would miss out on financial incentives such as share health insurance premiums, tax cuts, social security, etc. You would be hard-pressed to find a man that doesn't want marriage that isn't a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 43 | The Female Guide to Friends With BenefitsI'm anti-FWB. It wastes time that could be more valuably spent going to the gym, working on a hobby, working overtime at work to achieve financial goals, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What about those of us who don’t want marriage, but still want a long term relationship?Are you financially independent (e.g. six-figure income)? Being a forever girlfriend only works if you're pretty damn similar to Oprah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Case 1: The biology teacher that "respected" womenWhat country was this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 08:13 PM |
| 9 | Ex added up how much money he spent on me. Number should have been higherYou should've responded "Nobody cares what you like. You'll take what I give you." on the 1st date. It would've set a much different tone for the relationship. 50/50 is for marriages, not dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 07:04 PM |
| 23 | "Men are bullshitting about the amount of sex they're having" - straight from the horse's mouth. If he's bragging about how much he's getting laid, he's BS'ing you to trigger insecurity. Triggering YOUR insecurity/negging is a man's #1 strategy for trying to get laid, ladies. DON'T FALL FOR ITIt’s funny that so many of them have the nerve to be picky when it’s so hard for them to garner romantic interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 14 | For those of you who are still using dating apps, specifically Bumble, avoid any man that has “not sure yet” listed as what he’s looking for."Not sure yet.", "What are you looking for on here?", "Let's be friends first.", etc. type of phrases are used by men who only want electronic penpals or FWBs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 18 | My bf joked "I'm going to punch you in the face" but it's not sitting well with me.Security would've had to pull me off of him. Her dumb ass is dating a former ADDICT and is surprised that he's slapping her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionIf you don't think a connection is easy to form then you possess a false, idealized view of love. It's not the "Notebook". You do not and will never have a soulmate because soulmates do not exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionYou have the wrong mindset. Arranged marriages were the status quo for centuries. The divorce rate among arranged marriages is low - even when they move to western countries (e.g. Indians in the U.S.). Forming a genuine connection will occur naturally over the course of a marriage while you're try to commit your heart and soul to "my friend", "some guy I'm seeing", "XYZ situationship", etc. after only 6 dates. Choose logically. The emotional connection will come later, and (despite what Disney t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:20 AM |
| 20 | 😬😬😬😬This is why I always tell 21 year old girls not to date these older men. He's almost 30 and is acting this immature. I also pray that I never have a daughter that is as weak as this girl. All of this stress for a FWB. I got secondhand embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:02 AM |
| 30 | Maintain your hobbies throughout a relationship.FDS welcomes you back. Stay strong. Never give up your hobbies. Even when you are married, 60 years old, and have 5 kids - get a massage, go the gym, dance at the club, etc. You lost your identity, and we'll help you find it again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:01 AM |
| 16 | Should I leave him?You have to talk to him first. Give him instructions during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Should I leave him?Have you talked to him about those issues? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:53 PM |
| 28 | These are the men who only chase after the "purest" and "chastiest" women. Did it ever occur to some men that the types of girls who remain sexually pure throughout their lives are simply not that into sex??? Men only chase after women who are clearly asexual then act surprised when there's no sex..Many of these women just have not had high quality, woman-centered sex. Who would want to give blowjobs 24/7 to some unattractive, balding man who can't give you an orgasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 26 | "Worthless unemployed misogynistic male who is almost 50 seeking women in their 30s to "start a family with", wants to leave his menopausal GF for them." I hope women in their 30s destroy his pathetic ego. Please also NEVER allow yourselves to fall for a dude like this.She's nearing retirement age and instead of stacking her savings, investing, preparing her children's college fund - this dumb bitch decides to be a stay-at-home girlfriend. She even involved their kids in this bullshit. And an unemployed, broke 50 year old really thinks a 30 year old woman is going to be interested in him. This explains the OLD messages I get from broke old men. Their delusions are rampant. At the age of 50, temporary unemployment should not drive you to bankruptcy. They can't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 19 | Male Trolls Are Pretending to Be BatShit Crazy Women Who (Poorly) Implemented FDS Advice and FailedThis was clearly an inexperienced man who wrote this. No follower of FDS would be living with some man unmarried at the young age of 24. She would either be engaged or be dating multiple men until a relationship is headed towards marriage. If she followed our rules, she would never post a photo of a man who wasn't her husband on social media. And she certainly wouldn't announce relationship drama to the world thereby negatively influencing the opinion of future men she could date. We have never … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 24 | TRP tactic “Compliance Test” is just coercion and emotional blackmail.I say "no" only once. After that, the person gets "punished" so that they learn "no" is the endpoint with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:05 PM |
| 33 | TRP tactic “Compliance Test” is just coercion and emotional blackmail.This post should be a sticky. "Do the bare minimum of explaining." - This is the key to interacting with people who don't respect boundaries. No explanations. "No" is a complete answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 25 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”I’ve experienced being bumped into on an uncrowded street. I’m glad to know it’s a confirmed thing these fuglies do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:38 AM |
| 17 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedThe only time that I’m grateful to have a very arrogant, narcissistic mother is when it comes to dealing with men because she rubbed off on me only as it pertains to them. I’ve always viewed them as second class citizens whose only purpose is to protect me and provide income so I am quite immune to PUA tactics. I discovered this because I met a guy on OLD who was insane - obsessed with knowing how many men I’d had sex with, accused me of hitting a “wall” because I was 2 years older than him, acc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Reveal sexual past or not??This can't be overemphasized. I actually had men lose interest because my past was "too little". You can't win with them. They want a non-virgin who has never been with a man but who knows how to deep throat and ride a dick like the Kentucky Derby. The math doesn't work out. Be vague - not only with your sexual past but (even more importantly) - your EMOTIONAL past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 03:49 AM |
| 19 | Always an occasion to treat yourselfFor 5 years? When are you getting married?... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 68 | Every time you think about downplaying your accomplishments.... DON'TThe way I just cackled, ma'am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Another woman who initiated, was more invested, and paid for his shit is treated like garbage and dumped. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men...She's an idiot. Buying love during a ONE month long relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Thanks to TRP and FDS, I deleted all of my OLD profilesTRP I think it's The Red Pill, but I'm not sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:14 PM |
| 10 | Thanks to TRP and FDS, I deleted all of my OLD profilesYou are at the crossroads of an IMMENSE breakthrough in your life. I can tell by the emotions in your writing. You are ready for change and success! Have your surgery, lose the weight, go to therapy, and love yourself. You'll come back from your dating break in a year READY to conquer that shit. YOU GOT THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:12 PM |
| 14 | Another woman who initiated, was more invested, and paid for his shit is treated like garbage and dumped. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men..."They wear their shitty past relationships as a badge of pride. It's an endless source of victimizing themselves, listing off all the bad shit that happened to them." YES! They love to play the martyr so they will weasel themselves into the victim role and then pretend to be confused as to the end results. They aren't "nice" people. They are enablers who love to control others via "charity". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:09 PM |
| 11 | Moid wrote me a long, angry message lolHe's a loser. In 2019, plenty of women are choosing not to have children so why does he think child-shaming or age-shaming is going to work on anyone? Women have no problem getting male attention whether they be in their 20s or in their 70s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | [18F] Just had my first grown up date, not sure what to think.Also - get your scars removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | [18F] Just had my first grown up date, not sure what to think.You need to date men who are closer to your age, and you also need to shield your mental health issues (e.g. scars, BDSM, etc.) until you're in a relationship. Play coy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 9 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateHow did he respond? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 05:03 AM |
| 29 | Men who go after younger women chase them for a reason....be careful young ones. I used to make these mistakes when I was in the 25 and under club.She Venmo'd him the cost of concealer? Her parents need to be imprisoned for raising such a weak sack of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 22 | That great guy I texted about? I just deleted him from my life.Girl, never talk to a man about another man. Never hold a "where is this going" convo via text. It should be asked VERY indirectly and in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Tinder, The Graduate University of DatingThanks for clarifying. How does one differentiate between future faking and actual intent to commit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Tinder, The Graduate University of DatingWhat is "future faking"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 10:43 PM |
| 25 | Men use your dating/sexual past against you. Yes, even platonic male friends. Don't share your boy problems with them.Never reveal your vulnerabilities to a man unless you're headed towards marriage or already married. I was reading a post the other day where somebody was complaining that somebody played her after she told him on the FIRST DATE that all of her ex-boyfriends had played her and that she had been raped. Stop listening to stupid advice that your man should be your best friend. He's not - your best friend is your best friend. So stop trying to make these dicks into bosom buddies. It's not possible w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I (26F) Dumped my BF (M30) this morning. I re-activated OkCupid and have 855 + likes on there (not paying to see them). 19 new messages to respond to, and I've been online less than 1 hour.I'm not on Tinder. I was on OKC maybe a year or two ago. I'm not that picky about physical appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 7 | I (26F) Dumped my BF (M30) this morning. I re-activated OkCupid and have 855 + likes on there (not paying to see them). 19 new messages to respond to, and I've been online less than 1 hour.I'm impressed. I either get catfish scammers or men with G.E.D.s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Sexual assault chargesYou're an incel that doesn't understand basic female anatomy. Go take a shower. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:05 PM |
| 21 | Don't automatically trust men who say they're feministsMale feminists are financially unsuccessful men who encourage emotionally damaged women to be promiscuous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Sexual assault chargesYou think that most women want a penis that can pass through their cervix to puncture their uterus? You do realize this is impossible, right? The cervix is CLOSED. And the posterior fornix is part of the vagina, you idiot. You are definitely delusional and making up sexual encounters. I strongly doubt you've ever had sex. You are too inexperienced with female anatomy. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 08:36 PM |
| -1 | Sexual assault chargesThis never happened. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Comparing women to your exFix your teeth, bruv. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted after sex... best way to re-initiate contact weeks laterYou should start with sending an apology for not giving her an orgasm and then a promise that you've since learned how to perform oral sex properly. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Where was this sub when I was single??Not if you're near or over the age of 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Thot wanted me to pay her for sexLOL | /r/MGTOW | 18/07/18 04:58 AM |
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