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Generalkhaosten/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:18 AM
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Conversationkhaosten/r/seduction23/09/20 01:38 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationkhaosten/r/seduction28/07/20 04:21 AM
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Fundamentalskhaosten/r/seduction28/09/20 12:41 PM
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Why are people comparing trauma like there’s a prize for going through the worst.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 02:11 PM
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They have a horrid way of delivering a message, in reality everyone should be cautious while they are out alone at night, but making enemies out of a generalization that doesn’t even have statistical accuracy creates prejudice beyond caution.
/r/MensRights26/09/21 07:01 AM
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I honestly hate that prejudices are generated everywhere in society. Just because you noticed a coloration in the men you dated or any other pattern doesn’t mean there is any actual validity or causation.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 03:05 PM
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Yeah I have somewhat ambivalent feelings on the topic as my gf is one to say “I hate all men” when she means that she’s suspicious of all me. It’s one thing to notice a pattern and be careful versus openly sexist and treat people with hate.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 12:37 PM
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Can you elaborate on how cargo shorts are a red flag? If she’s advising her friends to stay away it seems like a red flag and not a preference type deal. At any rate I’m probably doing a shit ton of unattractive things and I’m not sure I give enough fucks to stop.
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:41 AM
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I still feel like women on dating apps are mostly people I have no interest in when I’m swiping because I’m a more calm individual, some people say I’m boring, but I’d rather go scuba diving in the Caribbean than party in Europe and I feel that’s where the disconnect lies. I really want someone who’s also goal oriented and civil and I’ve had much more luck just participating in hobbies. So I say even if I match the quality of matches are just as low as what a women receives.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:52 AM
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It’s more that people don’t want to spread it around, my mom has lung problems due to cancer treatment so I don’t want to give it to her when I head over to see my parents. Anyways the only reason COVID hasn’t stopped me is that I had a situation where someone I was already close to I started dating and now we are exclusive as of yesterday and that helps.
/r/seduction19/11/20 04:08 PM
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The only time I got a good relationship out of a dating app was when I texted a girl who put her number in her bio and I acted sensible and pretty forward about eventually wanting a relationship. She fell for me pretty hard, and I haven’t been able to really replicate it since. Anyways I’m dating a new girl who I think likes me a lot, but for some reason she things I’m friend zoning her because I don’t want to get freaky until we are at a minimum exclusive because even though I’ve ducked on the …
/r/seduction15/11/20 03:58 PM
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I mean first thing On my first date with an ex was kiss, she just saw me and went up and kissed me. We didn’t know each other we had two or three conversations before that and the last one I asked her out because she seemed like someone I’d like.
/r/seduction08/11/20 08:51 PM
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Then your fine, your acting as if it’s on your mind still and it’s a focus on your interaction. Quit that shit.
/r/seduction08/11/20 05:38 PM
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Wait so you don’t want pussy and the girls you talk to just want to continue talking, I don’t see the issue here.
/r/seduction08/11/20 05:24 PM
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Me with my missing attractiveness and charisma.
/r/seduction31/10/20 04:28 AM
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I was a girls first, though she didn’t like me afterwards and told everyone we didn’t do anything so I guess that means I haven’t been a girls first.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:23 PM
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For me it’s whether I spend the 25 minutes in the morning styling my hair the right way so it looks messy and spiked at the same time. I look like a 2/10 without doing it up nice, but a 5/10 if I do it well.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:48 AM
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Yeah it would work. But honestly I don’t have the personality to pull that off, too introverted, shy, and non assertive. Usually I fake things quite a bit when I’m dating around.
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:03 PM
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I feel like this would work if you were with someone in your friend group. If you go on dates or anything or find people online typically I would have what I want in the back of my mind and make sure I’m sorta clear with it in case they aren’t as serious. Maybe if you just met someone offhandedly and then kinda sparked something where you just wanted to have fun it would work, but it seems very situational.
/r/seduction26/10/20 10:27 PM
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Was the girl in the same league as you looks wise? That’s probably most important is that your chasing people in your league and not 8/10 or better.
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:41 PM
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mhm, I usually don't eat enough, and have been struggling to eat more.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:57 PM
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I hope so because I’ve been doing my body weight 30 minute routine for a year now with just about 0 results. ..
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:51 PM
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Yeah, I'm 18, but my first steps should be working on myself and building muscle because I'm a literal twig, but somehow I got a date and went out with her 2 days ago and she seems to like me. I guess Ill multi-task with a focus on improving myself and see where it goes from here. We will be going to a roller rink tomorrow because we both skate, at least this time we are doing something I really love so I won't be as anxious lol.
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:25 AM
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I think of myself as clingy, but every time I get into a relationship they feel as if I’m not putting enough effort and time into it when we’ll be together for 3 hours a day or more. I’m really busy sometimes, for example last week I had tons of midterms, whiles others I don’t have a ton going on. But also since I am a freelance worker sometimes I can get super busy because a bunch of people order my service especially over the summer.
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:40 AM
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I was in a decent relationship before corona, but we were about an hour drives from each other and my family has some people who've had a compromised immune system from having survived cancer. So after a month of only being able to facetime each other we started to lose the emotional connection we had and it stressed our relationship, she moved to Florida with her dad so he could be with his ex wife and we broke it off.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:05 PM
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start surfing and do it because you like surfing. Also be 6'2" with long hair and a decent job, it helps.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:57 PM
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I usually consider we’re dating after a few dates and it’s going well, but that in no way means a relationship or official. I’ve never been a fan of pet names and wouldn’t even feel comfortable using them with someone I’m dating and most of my friends think that way as well. Idk you’ve met clingy people or something.
/r/seduction28/09/20 12:32 PM
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I felt as if I missed out on having that experience where your both clueless and trying to figure things out, I wanted to learn so I decided to figure thoughts out by doing, yeah I won’t have an experience where my partner is clueless but that’s part of the pain when starting later and I eventually just said “fuck it” and asked out a guy I though I could get with the next day (I’m pan). Well that wasn’t the move because 1 month into our relationship he was getting nailed by other dudes already, …
/r/seduction28/09/20 12:22 PM
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Maybe I’ll make a judgement call next time. I had two successful dates so I should hold off for a bit.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:58 AM
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I think I got you, I should have never started dating the second person. But I would like to add that I was the one who was being pursued and they asked me out first and I didn’t feel like I had a reason to reject since I wasn’t exclusive with the first person.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:57 AM
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I don’t know how people don’t date multiple people at once though, I understand that because I decided to become official with someone else she decided to date someone new. But like if I’m dating only 1 person at once it’s hard to sort through people to find the one. And it makes it a lot easier to move on to just go to someone else after you find ur not compatible. I feel like garbage rn because me and the first girl were compatible and I decided to throw that away.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:46 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:41 AM
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Umm, tbh I don’t like hearing idk, if I hear that or anything other than a explicit yes, I’m out.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:43 PM
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Eh. Unless she text you back something happened or was busy just move on. Don’t put you effort in where people don’t appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:04 AM
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Bro, my social anxiety is through the roof atm, I really need to start talking to people, but I can’t because people in my home don’t have the greatest immune systems.
/r/seduction07/09/20 02:23 PM
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I’ve heard this before, but I’m pan and really don’t like the way people who are older treat me during dates and the way the look kinda turns me off. I’ve gotten the same thing from others I know as well so we’re are these people who are peaking in 35?
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:40 PM
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Hmm I feel this kinda hard, I was dating a dominant woman for a bit, at 2 weeks was an absolute high, we were infatuated with each other and we had so many hobbies and we hung out with each other 2-3 times a week and called an hour a day. She was really dominant, in the bedroom, in life in general, and she knew that, she wasn’t the type to become submissive when someone took charge, she made that very clear. But since I was following along too much and not leading things and just being more of a…
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:47 PM
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Dude, I’m the opposite I get awkward like 1-3 months in after I run out of things to talk about
/r/seduction22/08/20 04:49 PM
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Same here, but I have a partner, I just get really exhausted after a few hours of talking and need time to myself. It sucks. Dates sometimes hurt to go on. And I want to know how I can change this.
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:57 PM
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Yeah I experience this quite often, I’ve only ever dated subs, so this advice does hold true, but my dream would be a bit different.
/r/seduction14/08/20 06:28 PM
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I really don’t think I’m into a lot of girls who like bold guys, yeah I’d probably be happy with one, but the types of girls that I find perfect are the 6’3” doms who want a househusband. Edit: I also like guys that way too, so I kinda have a type.
/r/seduction14/08/20 06:04 PM
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I mean a lot of the people I date don’t know how to have a conversation, so I usually just ask a lot of questions until a few of them have something to get the ball rolling with you know and that usually gets rid of the awkwardness.
/r/seduction02/08/20 05:24 AM
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