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Wow what a horrible person. I’m glad you got out of that friendship, it just shows the type of person she is when it comes to men. I’m sorry you went through that as well and I hope you have found some wonderful HVW friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:59 PM
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There was a friend I had who jumps from relationship to relationship the last time she was single was probably grade 9 and we are 23 now. Every time I talked to her the topic would always be about her boyfriend at the time and if I tried to bring up what’s going on with me she would relate it back to her bf. If we wanted a girls night it would be us plus her bf. Anywhere we went just know if you invite her then you are also inviting her bf too. Every single Instagram post or Snapchat story will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:34 AM
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Yes exactly ugh my ex put on his profile that he was 5’11 (I’m 5’6) btw and he is easily 5’8 not very much taller than me. I remember one time when we were talking he said “you probably don’t like me because I’m short” and I subconsciously said yes (I’m not shallow but don’t lie about your height?) and he was like “wtf? I’m not short I’m average” I don’t understand why men lie about their physical features and then get mad when someone doesn’t accept it lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:22 PM
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I wish I was joking too 😫😫I was so caught off guard that day I was like wait a minute did this guy just do this and say that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:15 PM
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Don’t read this comment if it might trigger you but I’ll never forget when I went on a second date with a guy and when we kissed he choked me and said “I just want to see how freaky you are” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:33 PM
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This is an awesome list, thank you :)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:45 PM
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Yes I understand that for sure, I’m not completely against dinner dates and you are absolutely right if we are compatible it shouldn’t be awkward at all anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:16 PM
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That’s true I didn’t think of it like that. You are right I think a phone call would be better. And just to reiterate what the other commenter said but what do you usually talk about on the phone when you are vetting? Or do you just go with the flow? I don’t want it to seem like a phone interview (even though technically it is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:14 PM
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Aw man that’s a really good idea! I love escape rooms except in my area it seems like escape rooms are minimum 4 people :/ but I will keep that in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:47 AM
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What are some activity dates that you’ve done? And yes I’ve had a bar arcade date as well wasn’t as fun as I thought it would be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:37 AM
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Lmaoo such low effort 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:22 AM
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Would you recommend video call (to make sure he actually looks like how he portrays himself online) or phone call is good enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:11 AM
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You are absolutely right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:42 AM
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That’s a good idea thank you and I think this will also make me feel more comfortable on going on a dinner date with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:41 AM
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Thank you this makes a lot of sense :)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:51 AM
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“I’m just honest” another way of saying “I’m an asshole”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:05 PM
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Yes once my dad basically encouraged me for months to get back with that guy I knew my dad was full of shit and didn’t care about my well-being just as long as I had a boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:29 PM
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Thank you everyone for the advice and concerns! I know my dads behaviour is not normal. I am planning on moving out next year, I’m not financially dependent on him besides being able to live at home everything else I pay for myself. I just have to save up my money so I can get a place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:28 PM
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He did the same to my mom as well. She bought a car and he took it she ended up having to take the bus for two years before being able to afford a new one. I have tried the not paying the insurance route and he harassed me everyday till I gave in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:27 PM
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Thank you for the advice I will probably go with the healthy one because the unhealthy advice he would just end up nagging me to meet the guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:25 PM
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Yeah trust me all my friends have told me it’s not normal. Right from when I turned 18 it’s like a switch happened he was asking me to get a prom date in the 12th grade saying I have to have one…I ended up going with my friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:25 PM
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Thank you I will check these subs out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:23 PM
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Yeah I don’t know why he’s so obsessed all my friends have said it’s not normal. When I got into grad school my dad said “congrats and I expect you to have a boyfriend too by the time you graduate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:23 PM
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It’s very ironic right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:44 PM
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Yes when he said that I knew my dad was full of shit my mom was proud of me for leaving that guy but my dad was disappointed. Honestly that’s a good idea I may start doing that once I move out, my dad will probably be hearing less from me and seeing less of me once I do move out if he continues to keep acting this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:52 PM
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Hi no I’m not from a culture or religion that expects women to marry young. I have a lot of aunts who are still not married. Arranged marriages are not a thing in my culture and no my dad doesn’t have any friends who’s daughters are married that he’s competing with in fact some of his friends daughters are at least 5 years older than me and still single No he hasn’t pressured me to move out because he wants me to start paying rent as soon as I graduate because he can’t afford the mortgage. In fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:26 PM
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Lol now that you’ve mentioned that, that might the case cause he is pretty homophobic. So my city usually has a pride parade and my best friend is a lesbian and my dad forbidden me to go to with her until I had a boyfriend because the “LGTBQ community could turn you gay and by having a boyfriend he wouldn’t lead you astray” again I couldn’t believe what I was hearing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:25 PM
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I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he does have a cluster b personality disorder because for example for me he’s always nagging me about a boyfriend but to my younger brother he’s always nagging him for money. My dad doesn’t know how to talk to us about anything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:45 PM
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Yes I’ve asked him multiple times and would always tell him to leave me alone and his response would be “no I’m not leaving you alone, you can’t be this old and still not in a relationship” or “you need to be in a relationship so you can get married” It’s very annoying when I can’t even have a conversation with my dad because that’s the only thing he brings up to me like somehow every convo we have he would relate it back to me having a boyfriend. For example, before I bought my car (that my dad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:43 PM
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The thing is the only thing I depend on my dad for is the roof over my head everything else I pay for myself and even the car I bought for myself he took it and now drives it meanwhile I still have to pay the insurance for it. He’s always asking me to pay bills and pay for anything that concerns me myself so it’s not necessarily finances for him he’s literally freeloading off of me. Whenever I ask him why is he so bothered about my love life and he should leave me alone he says “you can’t be thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:34 PM
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Alright thank you for the advice :)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:50 AM
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Yes I wish I was joking and he even would ask my sister almost every other day last year if I got back with the guy yet or if I’m still talking to him and if I wasn’t to encourage me to give him another chance. When I tell my friends this they all say it’s not normal for a dad to act like this most dads act so overprotective with their daughters dating but not my dad. Also just to add the reason he keeps bringing up me getting a boyfriend is that to him it’ll will lead to marriage so it’s anothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:22 AM
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Yes I think if I am able to move out it would make it easier for me to brush what he’s saying off because I wouldn’t be hearing about it everyday. I will continue to build my finances so I can move out, the only thing that I depend on him for is the roof over my head everything else I pay for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:12 AM
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I was just about to write a post about my LVM misogynistic father as well until I saw your post. Me and you are the same age I’m almost 23. My dad is the exact same as your sperm-donor and it’s pretty annoying having these men basically have a set plan and dictate everything in our lives. My dad basically asks everyday when am I getting a boyfriend and he said by next year I need to have one. Like first of all sir we are in a freaking pandemic. Last year when my situationship and I ended I was s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:32 AM
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I’m not completely against OLD just cause all my friends I know who have been on OLD have success stories. However, when I did go on it there were so many shady men with ulterior motives so now I will focus my attention on meeting guys in person. One guy I met on OLD guy told me the classic he was new in town and needed a tour guide BS and was starting school in the fall. Which was code for he wanted to hookup before going back to his home city. Luckily I never hooked up with him and cut him off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:26 PM
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Yes for sure he was trying to make me jealous because later that day he went to an event he was trying to force me to go with him and posted videos of three girls grinding on him, all it did was make me feel better about my decision to end things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:39 PM
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Yeah me and this guy are still friends as well and we talk every two days. I’ll never go back to him but I am glad we are still friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:42 PM
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Yup exactly just cause you met his family and friends doesn’t mean anything. I had a classmate in my undergrad who said how she met her boyfriend at the times family. She would go over to his house all the time and his mom didn’t think anything of it. 5 months later he got married and blocked her. Turns out his mom didn’t say anything because she thought she was just a female friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:13 PM
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In my experience when I was seeing someone when I was cuddling with him/watching Netflix he usually just offered to do it. I never asked him but he was just someone who enjoyed giving head and not expecting anything in return. This is a rare case though and he wasn’t HVM. So I don’t know if there is a way to know whether he will give oral without expecting sex but usually if they offer/love giving head then that’s how you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:03 PM
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I’m not sure where you live but it’s on Netflix in Canada
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:07 PM
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Hey I just messaged you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:46 PM
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Yeah I realize this now that he didn’t ask for consent and only asked if I was okay after the fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:59 PM
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You’re right that’s good advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:58 PM
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Not sure why I’m just seeing this now. But I’m proud of you for getting out of that situation as well. We both deserve someone better and we will both get a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:49 PM
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You are 100% right. I will take that advice with me for the future. It’s not like we were married and getting a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:23 PM
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Exactly then when he finally asked me to be his girlfriend it was only because I tried to leave THREE times this week. Before he finally gave up and let me go. I know there’s someone better out there for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:58 PM
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I know but I guess he meant penetrative sex. So after he said that all I could think of was that he was playing me and was only after sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:29 PM
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I posted what happened on my other Reddit account on this thread but I’ll just say it here too. I met him on bumble we instantly clicked he was really smooth with his words so I didn’t really want to fall for him. Long story short we were in a long distance for 5 months of the 10 months and because of quarantine I got tired of not knowing where we stood. So I asked him and he said he didn’t think we were exclusive because we didn’t sleep together yet. So he said he still talked to other women bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:15 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:54 PM
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Our friendship will probably fade away anyways even though I don’t want it to. I don’t know he was basically my best friend I really don’t want him out of my life. He’s the first out of all the guys I’ve been in a relationship with to really get and understand me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:58 PM
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Yeah I’m going to try to move on. Him and I ended on good terms were still friends but now that I’m thinking about it I don’t know if staying friends is a good idea. Maybe it’ll be better later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:40 PM
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Yeah for sure. I don’t care what my friends say about us not being together, to me he was an ex. We were dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:39 PM
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My friends begged me to leave this guy it took awhile because I wanted it to work with this guy so badly. We were so compatible. I thought he was HVM throughout the whole situationship but after my friends and I did a pros and cons list. My friends and I realized the things that made him HVM were actually things any guy should be doing anyways and he actually has more cons making him LVM. I couldn’t start a relationship with no trust so I had to let it go. I’ve been crying for 4 hours now lol. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:41 AM
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Thank you and that’s a good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:34 AM
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I mean he did ask me to be his girlfriend yesterday but I decided I had to remove myself from the situation because of what we’ve been through and I didn’t want to start a relationship based on lack of trust. I realized he was LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:25 AM
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