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I'm glad I sparked an interest for you. Here are a few tips should you endeavour this path: Language learning is NOT easy. That doesn't mean that it shouldn't be fun. It's good that you have chosen a language that interests you as you are far more likely to succeed. This is why a lot of westerners have become fluent in Japanese and Korean in recent years. But you have to be dedicated and smart about it. Make goals and learn HOW to learn. Realistically, it is possible to reach A2 to B1 level (low…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:24 PM
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Martial arts, Salsa (other Latin dances also), instrument playing and language learning. Others mentioned other activities, but I would focus on ones that increase your SMV that are also enjoyable. No one really mentioned the latter - language learning. This OPENS doors. New career prospects, new connections and networking, also great for the mind. I'm 27, started learning Spanish since New Year and have come to about conversational level right now (could have progressed further but got a new jo…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:41 AM
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Agreed. OP you need to document and report this as this could potentially bite you in the ass in the future. It is breaking the law. You should be aware of your workplace policies and whistle blowing procedures. There are many job opportunities out there for someone of your caliber so don't take this shit and do the right thing.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:02 AM
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I always do it at their place. My home is private. I don't know what the fuss is about seriously
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:22 PM
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Eye contact. Let your eyes do the talking. Just don't be creepy and stare the whole time. Then Lead. Lead, lead, lead. Give plausible deniability, isolate and escalate as you would normally do. Always assume attraction and don't be afraid of losing her. Have abundance mentality. Otherwise she will smell the beta neediness from a mile away.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:02 PM
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Let her sit in some awkward silence. Let her say something Absolutely agree, let that tension build up. It can be a powerful thing.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:21 PM
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“no :) I got to get home and study.” "Sure, I'll drive you back home and teach you some anatomy and physiology." Drive back to her place, say you need to use the toilet, then escalate. If she really needs to study, then next. You need to be more decisive with your decisions. Pre-plan your logistics and lead firmly.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:16 PM
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Well you left a horny chick thirsty for some dick. A chick can have sex whenever she wants. Either someone beat you to the punch or something (dildo) did. Buying temperature is transferable. That being said, there are cases of chicks just losing interest and attraction like a switch. The reason? Could be anything. Buying temperature is also unstable. Learn from your mistake and always carry at least 3 johnnys with you. At all times.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:51 PM
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Go for the kiss and find out.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:12 PM
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I’ve seen her in class since then, braids out her head and all. but what happened? Chad.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:11 PM
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This happens all the time. Unless your SMV is high enough, you're going to get flakes. You just have to keep practicing. Learn from your experience, find your mistakes and correct them. Calibrate it for next time and slowly you will see success. You have to understand from the woman's perspective that a cold approach can be intimidating and creepy. So you need to build a lot of comfort and display a huge amount of value. There are also other reasons for flakes which could simply be personal issu…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:02 AM
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It's a tool. If you want to display your high SMV, it is very easy to do and heard great stuff can come out of it. However, I prefer to remain mysterious and let them find out my SMV the hard way. It's more rewarding and surprising to them. If anything, I find Social Media a waste of time and a slippery slope to procrastination. It tends to feed narcissism rather than self development. I only have instagram for my photography endeavours, which isn't even the best medium for it.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 09:22 AM
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Is it safe to assume she’s actually not interested? Always assume attraction. That situation you described is not enough to determine whether she is interested or not. Look for IOIs instead of signs of disinterest.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:52 PM
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Before you left, you should have planned for the next hangout or at least informed her you want to hangout again and will be in touch with her. Text for logistics and plan it out well (doesn't matter where, as long as it is quite close to your designated potential sexy time location). Escalate on your next date. Read up on escalation articles on the TRP. Don't be too much in your head though and enjoy the date. And finally: lead, lead, lead.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:53 AM
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Why wait until the end? If there is chemistry, you act on it straight away. You don't wait to escalate.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:46 AM
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For me, I only have a scale of: Bangable or Not Bangable. Fuck this rating system shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 05:02 PM
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Solid list. Aventus is King. It's the only scent that has given me crazy reactions and compliments. However it is now too popular and I think they reformulated/substituted one/some of the ingredients, so it is not as good as it used to. I can also vouch for: * Dior home intense EDP * Terre d'Hermes EDP * Thierry Mugler Pure Malt (signature) * Tom Ford Oud wood My go to (don't have to think to reach) is: Davidoff Cool Water. Say what you want, but this is a classic, it's cheap and the rub down on…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 08:18 AM
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The point of the shit test is to pass it. The actions behind it is far more powerful. Sure it is nice and entertaining to see witty lines. But an uncalibrated newbie with no frame will not be able to pull it off. Less is more.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:52 AM
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You lost frame when she called out on you for having other options. Also why is she going through your phone? she still kept calling me most nights for hours having conversations You made yourself too available. Save the conversations in person for next time.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:06 AM
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He kept trying with the kiss and was going nowhere. He just needed to try a different angle or calibrate his actions. He could have kissed/bite/bite/whisper into her neck. He could have lightly traced her stomach/thighs with his fingers. Whilst doing this he could be playing/interlacing with her fingers. I think the biggest problem here was OP was a lack of sexual tension - no comment on the eye contact. He was probably giving needy and uncomfortable vibes also. I'll give the benefit of the doub…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:56 PM
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I've contributed my 2 cents and so did you and we'll let the OP decide what to do with it. So we're good. Bro. Just read a newspaper once in while.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:41 PM
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Of course, there is a certain point when it just isn't worth it anymore and it's time to say: Begone thot. But in this case, I think OP is rather inexperienced and lacking in skills (see my comment below). A lot of guys say they escalate, but in actual fact, they don't know how to do it correctly.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:57 PM
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Maybe my comment lacked enough context for your dumb brain to comprehend. OP's experience and skill with escalation is lacking. From the story presented above, he had good cards in his favour - the chick was into him: This chick puts out (from previous sexual history). She was alone with him in his own bedroom. I can't remember, but there were some good IOIs from the date. His escalation moves are basic. Cuddling? Save that for a dog. Grabbing ass? Is this a night club? - don't get me wrong, it …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:51 PM
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Cuddling, grabbing ass and going for the kiss is not escalation. That barely scratches the surface. I suggest you read more into it and practice.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:26 AM
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You're mostly right, the only exceptions being certifiable crazy chicks who are REALLY into you. Yep, the ones that scratch your back and leaves you hickies all over your neck. Unforgettable nights. Just like fire, it never lasts long though.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:36 AM
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Genital herpes is common in the United States. More than one out of every six people aged 14 to 49 years have genital herpes. Source: https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm More than 3.7 billion people under the age of 50 -- about 67 percent of the global population -- are infected with herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1), according to a new report from the World Health Organization. Source: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/two-thirds-of-the-world-population-has-herpes/ (I know it is from…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 10:57 AM
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Get it through your skull: it's a waste of time and dopamine inducing. It's not like you're getting any results from it anyway. As others mentioned, work on yourself. I suggest going into monk mode for a few months. Forget about getting women altogether and focus on yourself for now. If you can't love yourself, then who would even bother loving you? Read sidebar and shove the red pill down your throat making sure it doesn't leave your ass.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:22 AM
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At the end of the day, you are accountable for your own actions. You have to think for yourself. Get creative with solutions. Try meal prepping - plenty of videos on YouTube Learn how to organise yourself or else the adult world will smack you right into your face.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:23 PM
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she asks me out of the blue if I find her attractive. Look into her eyes, then slowly look down and up her body, then look straight back into her eyes. "parts of you". Playful smirk. she told my that I'm not her type "Your lips says no, but your eyes says yes." saw her smiling at me from through the crowd a couple of times. Watch her actions, not her words. She wanted you so hard to not be predictable (saying "yes" to her question like almost every guy). If I were in your position and thought th…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:09 PM
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Learn to cook?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:55 PM
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I can trust my friends with my life and money, but never with women.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:52 AM
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If that's your frame (no pun intended), then you're not going to get any success at all.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 05:36 PM
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Depends on the occasions and your style. Casual staples: invest in a good leather jacket. Plain Tees (white or black v necks), we'll fitted jeans and chinos, decent boots. Formal staples: 3x 3 piece suits: black, navy and brown or grey. Plain coloured shirts, preferably white. A good decent belt matching shoes. Get brogues to start off with. Look at male fashion blogs/instagram/Pinterest for inspirations. The most important thing is to wear clothes the FIT you perfectly (tailored to your size).
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:05 AM
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She says that she is a lesbian, so treat her like one. Be friends with her and get her to introduce you to her friends. Instant options. Also you get a good rep for being friends with her. Get her to wing with you on nights out. Having an attractive lady by your side is an instant boost of status. Have a strong frame and continue being a man with purpose and options. If she is really a lesbian, she wouldn't fall for you.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:08 AM
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Initiate threesome. Should I just continue with both of them and act like nothing of it? Yes. Keep it that way and keep that frame. You're not in a relationship with either of them anyway. They will only find you more desirable. Don't be afraid of losing both. Keep that abundance mentality. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:51 AM
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Jeremy Fragrance on YouTube is quite a good reference to start off with. This can be quite a slippery slope once you delve into this because there are so many scents to try and each scent is unique and what might be effective to one person might not be for another, so you can end up buying a collection. Also they can be categorised in to seasonal or situational occasions. My recommendations: David Off - Cool Water This is relatively cheap. But a classic lady killer. Opening notes are aquatic but…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:35 AM
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No prob then. Just be sure to have other options.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:43 PM
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It did give me good laugh though lol
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:09 AM
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In cases like these, let your eyes and body language do the talking. Not only it is good practice, but it is also a lot easier and faster to build and escalate sexual tension. I've managed to get a lay from a french/Spanish chick and gotten quite far with an Italian chick (logistics didn't favour me at the time) and they both spoke very little, basic English. It's best to be blunt and direct in these sort situations, so you can establish attraction and not waste any of your time. What to do from…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:56 AM
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Not all from TRP, but still relevant. I don't exactly have the sources, so I give credit to where its due. She’s not one in a million, but one OF a million. As with all things for men, it is better to demonstrate than to explicate. A woman will mould a man into someone she despises, but a man will mould a woman into someone he loves. Men want women to be slutty but not sluts. Women want men to be players but they don't want to be played. It is the man's job to persist and the woman's job to resi…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:42 AM
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"So if I come again, do I get a discount?" Cringe. You lost it at that point. For newbies, stick with "text for logistics". If it is your first text interaction, you can start with light conversation to build comfort and for her to get to know you a bit, but keep it short - if there is a high point in the conversation say that you have to go, then plan for a meeting. Be specific with date, time and place. If she agrees, great. But that's just the first hurdle. If you do cold approaches long enou…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:52 AM
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By the way OP, if you are looking for some daily dose of RP dating advice, I'd recommend listening to Patrice O'Neal (R.I.P.), there are a bunch of videos on YouTube. On top of that, the Beige Philip show podcast, by Dante Nero - Patrice's friend is currently continously running. It's funny as fuck but full of RP wisdom. There are concepts/views that I do not agree with, but like I said in the previous comment, take what is useful.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:33 PM
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Always take them with a grain of salt. Even with infield videos, they can be staged. That is the biggest problem with the Internet and media these days. There is so much unfiltered information that you do not know what information to trust. At the end of the day, experience is king. Especially with game. Stick with the TRP side bar, its solid. Treat it like Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune do: take whatever is useful, apply it and discard the rest.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:58 PM
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Potentially. That's quite a statement and a rather over the top campaign (if it is even considered one) to make for a clothing company.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:40 PM
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Is it not a coincidence that in nature, bonobos - although looks very much similar to their chimpanzee counterparts are actually weaker and the females are more dominant in their social hieracy. It is quite interesting seeing the differences based on how the environment influenced their evolution and society.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:08 PM
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What do you do for work? / what do you do for a living? "I make women happy" + deep eye contact and a cocky grin. How much money do you make? Red fucking flag. She just shot herself in the foot. Now we know she's a gold digging whore. "That's personal." Then move on. If she persists later on: "I told you, that's personal. If you really want to know, you have to get personal with me first." Pump her, then never tell her.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:02 PM
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You're taking the right steps, but you're not getting the home run. So somewhere along the line you're fucking up. Only you could dissect the situation and reflect what you are doing right and what you are doing wrong. Only then you can tweak your actions. My take is that you're rushing into it. You're probably going to the tits and crotch too quick. Like I said earlier, you gotta Preheat the oven. If you take off the panties and they are not wet, it means you haven't escalated properly. Don't n…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:01 PM
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This is a difficult concept to teach and a gray area, especially with "rape accusations" being prominent these days. But basically put: watch her actions, not her words. In what way was it clear that she didn't want sex? Did she say a hard "No" backing you off? If so, then she really didn't want it and wanted a place to crash. In that situation, I'd kick her out. She has no other reason to be there. But if she says "I'm not having sex with you tonight", then in womanese it means "I'm thinking ab…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:02 PM
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You answered your own question. You lost her when you didn't seal the deal the first night she stayed over. She promoted you to beta orbiter after that: i picked her up at the airport because she asked (2 hour drive lol). Next her. Learn from your mistakes. Find other options. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:11 PM
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Stick to the basics. Just to piggyback, this applies everywhere in life. You don't have to answer every person's question. Start your own and direct the conversation where you want it to go (as appropriate - I'm talking about the context of business/profession).
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:22 AM
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I wouldn't enter her frame. I'd ignore and start a new conversation: "hey what's up"... "I did this and that" etc... Then cut to logistics for a meet up after - as you should be doing at the end of every text conversation. Bring her into your own frame, lead and let her follow. Girls do this shit all the time. Reverse the role here, what would she say if you asked her that? She'd probably ignore and think your needy as fuck.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:14 AM
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If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:23 AM
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¿De verdad? Mi también. Estoy aprendiendo Español desde años nuevo. You're doing yourself a massive favour. Learning a language is so under-rated. You have literally unlocked communicating the 2nd most spoken language in the world. Giving you access to not only fiesty Spanish girls, but the sexy latinas also. I've been practicing with a lot of native speakers, it really helps with your social skills. Not only do you learn a language but you are stepping into another culture. This makes you more …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:58 PM
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I learnt from a friend in the beginning and that was helpful. But I learnt to play songs on YouTube. Theory can be learnt by yourself also, but even for me I need a teacher to explain some things better. The most important thing is to practice everyday, even if it is 15 minutes. Build that muscle memory.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:51 PM
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Like others have mentioned: guitar or piano. I play both at a decent level. I would recommend guitar because it is more easily accessible and electric guitar becomes more fun. Even if you can't sing well, you can eadily become the life of the party. But you don't have to choose these instruments. I learnt piano at an early age because my parents wanted me to, but I ended up enjoying guitar more. Pick an instrument that interests you. I would love to smash out a Saxophone or bust out a Fiddle. Dr…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:45 PM
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Learn how to play an instrument Learn how to dance (preferably latin style) Learn a new language Learn some form of Martial Arts Learn something creative: Photography/DIY/build something (carpentry or blacksmithing). I've done the first 3 and photography. I like to keep learning new things/skills. It keeps me busy and I've read that it has been shown to increase neurogenesis/plasticity and decrease the likelyhood of Alzheimer's. I never brag about these things either. I prefer to keep it quiet a…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:47 PM
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What is it with this generation and snap chat/social media? Social media is a waste of time and its only in the way of your purpose in life. Some may argue that if you use it correctly, you can get a decent lay count from it. But thats all it is, a tool. To each their own. I just use it to set up a date and for logistics. Thats it. If they want to talk to me and know how my day was, then lets get personal. On a date or in bed. I just find it sad that people feel obligated to do a "snapchat strea…
/r/seduction11/12/17 02:20 AM
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I thought about it a few times while I was with her, but... I didn't want to ruin the feeling that everything was so natural. You have to be bold. If you're thinking about it, she's probably thinking about it too. But the problem is, you're over thinking about it. You're too outcome dependant. Focus on having a good time and the rest will follow. Physical escalation, as with all things comes with practice from experience. First, start with the eyes. Guys always overlook this (no pun intended). I…
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:31 AM
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I understand I need to work out but when I go to the gym, what exercises should I do? I have little experience in this area. I want to build muscle and lose weight. Lose man boobs, build muscle, lose butt, get abs, etc. Working out is always highlighted in TRP but the details are never discussed. Stronglifts 5x5. Search it, research it, do it. Consider Intermittent Fasting. My question is about the latter. How do I go about learning piano? Is there an alternative to spending money on lessons? My…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:17 PM
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Try this: Make a fake profile as a 'female' looking for male. You don't even need a picture. I guarantee you would get a dozen messages from guys saying "DTF?" (or some form of message asking for a hookup) within the next 12 hours. Its a screening thing + ASD.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:02 AM
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Not at all. And I can see why you misinterpreted the way I phrased that. I'm saying that eggs are valuable in that they can be fertilised once at a time. 9 months is a huge sacrifice (not to mention the responsibility of an offspring) . That is why women will screen you: shit test you, judge your actions and your behaviour. She needs to know you're the real deal and could provide the best possible genetic offspring. In that sense, whose the prize? Sperm are cheap because it is easily accessible.…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:48 PM
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Abundance mentality. You should have other options to not give a fuck whether she replies or not. If she doesn't reply. Then she's missing out. On to the next one. Continue to work on your SMV (especially game) - she most likely didn't find you attractive enough. You can always reinitiate after week or a few months, see if they bite. Just don't fuck up when they do. But I can't be arsed for that.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 09:00 AM
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I didn't want to be pushy As a man, it is your job to be "pushy" - persistent. It is a woman's job to resist. Its evolutionary/biological : sperm are cheap and eggs are valuable. She needs to know you're worth the trouble. What you lacked was your intention. Your resolve. Are you just there for company or are you there to fuck? Kino escalate and always be closing. N.B. In regards to persistence and resistance. There is obviously a fine line: "NO" means no. Don't want any rape allegations now.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 08:46 AM
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pick a place where you can change to multiple venues easily. This. The key here is to LEAD. You can take her anywhere: Groceries, arcade, coffee shop, riverside walk, parks, museums... Even if you get lost, you must show that can lead her to somewhere else and make decisive actions. You're bringing her to your frame. Into your world. So long as you keep it fun and always escalating.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 08:15 AM
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You shouldn't see him as a threat. He's your bro. If anything, let go of your ego and pride and learn from him. Clearly he's doing something right. Also, stop comparing yourself to others. You do you and focus on it.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:02 AM
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Personally, I loathe social media. Its a huge waste of my time and doesn't benefit me in any way. However, as you said, social media has its own perks. Utilise it well and it can increase your SMV. Instagram for example, can yield a lot of followers/popularity depending on the work/photos you post. This may also be useful for your buisness. People have also generated money from it: Through sponsorship/affiliate, exposing a product or selling their photos. Social media is a tool, find what's usef…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 09:43 AM
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Could barely keep my erection unless I was generating friction, so once that condom came on I was too soft. Didn't end up fucking. You may also be low on T. Are you lifting, eating a good diet, taking cold showers and doing kegels? Limit your porn binging habits. If you find time to do it every day, then you're life isn't busy as it should be.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 09:22 AM
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Go back to the sidebar and read what does SMV consists of? Looks, assets and game. You've only improved your looks, you still have the other 2 to work on. Especially game. Shit tests are a good thing. It means they potentially like you and want to know if you're the man you project to be. Stop complaining and work on those 2 components.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 06:07 PM
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Like a wild dark horse. Untameable.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:21 PM
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The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, chapter 23 (page 407-408): there's this 18th century player named Valmond, who plays a long push-pull game with the girl of his focus; in the end, she melts in his arms, begging him to make her his fucktoy (kind of sweet, come to think of it). To each their own. If you want to get the thrill from the "chase"/seduction process and milk it for as long as you like, then go for it. The problem with this is, buying temperature/build up of of all these emotions a…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:59 PM
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Thinking that me giving the girl some attention in slow, gradual steps of escalation would make it an enjoyable experience for her. My metaphor for it: fuckies on the 1st date = a 10-minute short movie with packed plot in it. Romancing her = a three-hour theater play (if done well). But as I suspect, theater plays have probably grown out of fashion in this day and age. And who do we have to thank for that? Media. Well, for the most part. They socially conditioned us to believe that in order to "…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 10:10 AM
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Is getting to know her a bit first considered beta? You know... common interests, having something to talk about and/or do together, etc. etc. No, of course its not beta. Its beta if you don't escalate. You're aim is not to become friends, but to be involved in a romantic affair. Therefore, the sooner you have sex, the better. For the both of you. But then, if fucking on the 1st date is the standard, then I'd say such arrangement is regrettable - in a way of reducing myself into a fuckboy and he…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 12:34 AM
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I get that. And I knew someone would point that out (them seeing each other for sometime). And sure it is very unlikely that any form of allegation to come out of this. But in this day and age where rape accusation culture is becoming more common, you have to be careful. Why? Because bitches be crazy. That's all it takes to get kicked out of college or lose your career (references from media).
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:04 PM
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I don't see anything you've done wrong. You handled it well. You held frame and avoided sex with a drunk chick (potential rape allegation always - even though she said she wanted to fuck you multiple times, she's not in the right state of mind). Accept the apology and move on. Don't bring the subject up again or make a big thing out of it. I'm sure she's embarrassed and that it was a one-off due to her mental state at the time and hopefully she'd learn her lesson. Now, reschedule that birthday s…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:09 PM
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If it helps get a response, I don't see why not. But from that point, you have to play it cool and close ASAP. Personally, I can't invest my time with that. I'd rather go for someone who is genuinely interested. Its smooth sailing from there.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:50 PM
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This was a potential plate If so, why do you care? Its not like its an LTR. Red flag for sure, but if its just sex you're looking for, you really shouldn't give a damn.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:42 PM
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Chilled with my oneitis for a 3rd time That's what you're doing wrong. Forget this pussy, because you're never going to get it at this moment in time. Change your mindset to abundance mentality and work on your game. I tried a couple of moves and she seems to pull back instantly. It's leading me to think I'm not as smooth as I'd want to be. At some points I felt like she was totally about it but now I don't even know. Maybe she is playing games with me or I'm autistic lol curious what your opini…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:54 AM
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Cut out all the bullshit in your life: games, TV, junk food, social media etc. The things you WANT to do the LEAST are often the things you NEED to do the MOST. Use that as a compass to guide you. Make a daily + weekly routine + make priorities on goals. Stick to it. Review and track your progress regularly. Checkout The art of manliness blog for guides. Meditate. Read books on stoicism daily. Preferably: The Obstacle is the way by Ryan Holiday.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:41 AM
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On tinder I get quite a few matches that go nowhere, while my white friends who don't lift and I consider 6s who are as short as me get more dates than me. I defo live in a conservative state and I've seen their txts so it's not my text game. I see guys who I consider beneath me who work dead end jobs, etc. do better than me on a daily. Stop comparing yourself to others. You do you. Fuck everyone else. Your only enemy is you. Tinder/online game should only be used as a tool (to cast a wider net)…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:24 AM
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You could open with anything then calibrate it after. You're on the right path, that canned opener is enough to pique their interest. first I told her this ( miss can I talk to you for just one minute . she sad no. then I sad just one minute. she sad no ) then I moved on What did you learn from this? Be more commanding. Don't ask like little Oliver asking for another bowl of porridge. Set a false time constraint if she ain't biting: "I got to go somewhere in a few mins"; "My friend's coming... "…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:52 PM
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stare in her eyes and reach out and pretend to adjust her chin, while doing this steal a quick glance at her lips, then move your hand behind her neck and pull her in for the kiss. You devious fucker. Haha. Its slick. Kinda my style, gonna try this sometime.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:15 AM
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I haven't used it to solely meet women. But there are 'meet ups' groups you could join. Good for socialising and learning. It is a good, worthwhile (but expensive) hobby. Women and most people in general love their photos get taken and it also brings everyone together. They also go bat shit crazy with polaroids. In relation to TRP, it sets up the frame (pun not intended) that you're in control and you're always leading. Even better when you're passionate about your craft (your mission is more im…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:11 AM
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Have you banged her in either (or both) those dates? If not, that answers your question. If so, give it a week. Re-engage. And if still no cigar, next and work on your sex game. It shouldn't be a problem if you have other dates/plates spinning.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:43 AM
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There was a study (I think done by OKcupid, so definitely questionable) that guys looking away from the camera seemed more attractive to women. My advice: experiment. First look at modelling photos/magazines for inspiration. I also had a posing app on my old phone when I was learning portrait photography (can't seem to find it on the app store now, but there are some alternatives that seem to be ok). Then emulate those poses. You can practice by yourself with a camera mounted on a tripod + remot…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:32 AM
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Should I continue pursuing this or does she already see me as a lamp. Yes go for it. She initiated. And seems DTF. Just escalate better the next time you meet. How can I escalate from random grinding? Do I just turn around and make out with her? Like with any dance: LEAD. Grab her hand, turn her around, pull her towards you and go for the make out. If she rejects, don't fret, re-escalate, reevaluate her IOIs/body language and try again later. I like to think dance as the physical form of 'push-p…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:00 AM
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People lie all the time to get laid. TRP is amoral. So if it benefits you in a sexual strategic point of view, then sure, go ahead. But as others mentioned, its often not a good idea because you can keep digging a hole too deep to get out of. Just be aware of the consequences. However, your method is heavily flawed, as pointed out by Ranger_mitch. As an alternative, I suggest going for mysterious/enigmatic profile. Ignore/deflect/provide minimal/ambiguous answers to personal questions. Far more …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 08:47 AM
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Work with what you got. Its unfair, but thats life. Accept it. Remember one of the first things in the sidebar that matters? SMV = Looks, assets and game. You've got two other components to work with.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:03 AM
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But she wrote her name on a paper and said to message her on Facebook. So I did and I set up the date, but now she sent me a friend request... I kind of don't want to reveal my entire life to her, but it is it seen as beta to not accept the friend request? or do I just put her on limited profile for now? No its not beta for accepting a friend request. But you should have asked for her number instead if you want to be secretive with your personal life. Also, its always better to get the number an…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:54 AM
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Gay or not, the only guy who should be sleeping with her is you. As said above, lines are crossed. Don't tolerate such disrespect from her. Its inappropriate. Ghost + demote to plate if you want to her around, otherwise next. Personally I can't LTR a chick with a guy best friend/many guy friends (gay or not).
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:41 AM
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I've thought about a couple things such as boxing & volunteering. I'm just not sure what's open with my limited resources. Boxing or any other martial art is always recommended here. My recommendation: Learn to dance (preferably latin styles) Learn an instrument (preferably guitar) Any other sport (rockclimbing, basketball, tennis etc.) Art/photography if thats your jam (a lot of chicks into that)
/r/askTRP01/04/17 08:28 AM
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Wouldn't being Indian kinda negate the tall and handsome part since women not being into that ethnic look? Where the fuck did you get this idea? Every now and again I see a shit post like this: "Bla bla I'm indian/asian I can't get white girls waa waa waa" I don't care how handsome or tall you are, you're worse than a beta for thinking your race is some kind of deformity. You can rely on looks all you want, but if your game is shit, you ain't getting any pussy.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:15 PM
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Maybe because your life is boring? Do more interesting shit. Find new hobbies. Travel more. Put yourself in more interesting/exciting situations. That's the basis of your storytelling content. Learn how to small talk (FORD method: Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams). Find commonality with them and every now and then disagree for polarity (makes the conversation more interesting). Read more, listen to podcasts, watch stand up comedies. i just find the wrong things interesting and feel like a …
/r/askTRP30/03/17 08:17 AM
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I mean move onto the next girl. What do you mean by plate her? How do you do it? Unless she's showing any signs of red flags there's no need to next her straight away. There's plenty of information of plate theory in the sidebar. But basically: FWB, no commitments/relationship. Just sex. No fuss. You can "spin" more than one plate at a time. If they start showing red flags or giving you shit, then you could drop/next them. If they're deemed worthy, you can upgrade them to LTR if you want. Salsa?…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:32 AM
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One is into me and I like her but TRP teaches us to move on. So I'm feeling a bit guilty because she is a nice person. What do you mean by move on? Why don't you plate her? I have used dating apps like tinder etc with limited success. You need high SMV to be successful with online. See Omlala's post via sidebar for more info. How do you guys meet girls? Do you do the London Daygame Model? Should I go to bars (don't have people to go with me)? Rather than focusing on constantly finding HBs like s…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:56 AM
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+1 on Joe Rogan. Because of him, I found out about Joey (Coco) Diaz Not really RP, but hilarious as fuck. Great story teller. The Beige/Black Philip is a staple. I'd like to add Bill Burr on that list. I'll check out the others you posted. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 07:03 AM
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Last time I checked, game is an essential part of trp. Pickup is the basis of it. Fundamentals. RSD has quality content and I'm not here to promote their stuff. They sometimes go too deep or often go into a lot of paradoxes which can be confusing. But their content on game is usually on point (personally field tested myself with success). Pick up here gets a lot of flak due to its history. With NLP, Mystery and Niel Strauss (Style) exposing the typical gimmicky tactics and techniques that are no…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:54 AM
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While escalating, she says "she has to work the next day" and then I realize I do too so I tend to just back off calmly and let her go. I've even had instances where she said "text me" and doesn't reply later when I do. You're stepping into her frame. Lead. Bring her to your frame. Always be closing. If work is a priority for you, then just don't bother wasting time having dates in the week days (if anything, you could use it as reference experiences to practice game). But a same night lay doesn…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:43 AM
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My coworker, on the other hand, acts as a lone wolf. He doesn't have many friends nor does he try to get them. He's very good at his job and it shows, but he's socially a loner. This guy gets ostracized by women, socially speaking. For example, the women we work with like him and look up to him but won't give him the social value he needs to be the real deal. Or so you think. This is in a professional environment. He may be acting differently than in a social environment (not shitting where he e…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 04:45 AM
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Why? This is putting them on the pedestal. This is you going into their frame. Why are you trying receive a reaction/validation from them? Are you their clown? Their entertainer/comedian? Are they paying you for this? That's your thought pattern with women, you feel that you have to 'impress' them to get their attention. Your thought pattern should be like how you are with your friends - not really giving a fuck about what they think of what you say. Bring them to your frame. They should be the …
/r/askTRP18/03/17 07:09 PM
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So say you have looks and potentially some assets. Anything else missing? Check the sidebar: Game. The most important part of your SMV. Work on it.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 09:17 AM
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Prioritise. Set goals: daily and weekly. Map out what needs to be done. How do you prioritise? Think about the LEAST thing you WANT to do. That often means the thing you NEED to do. Resistance points to true north. Start a routine Put your working out on hiatus for now or do exercises that are less intensive. Eat well and get enough sleep. Delete social media apps and turn off your phone when studying. Reward yourself when you deserve it. You are 100% accountable for your thoughts, emotions and …
/r/askTRP18/03/17 01:15 AM
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And HOW did he do it? He got shit done If you notice the list, he had many mentors/teachers. If he didn't know something, he would seek out to these people and learn from them. Constantly curious. Constantly improving his knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:48 PM
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"If you're the smartest person in the room, then you're in the wrong room." "Birds of a feather flock together" "Tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are"
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:31 AM
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I don't get it. I'm seeing a lot of posts similar to this. Why are you guys introducing your 'plates' to your friends? They obviously know its not a LTR then they will most likely hit on your plate. Then when things go sour, you guys become salty. You know what that means? You're invested in that relationship. You see her more than a plate. If she really is your plate, you shouldn't care what her sex life is because she is not yours. Its not a LTR relationship. It really is down to you if you wa…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:41 PM
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but I feel like if I did that at college it would affect my chances with the other. Nah. Everyone is fucking each other in college. Where's your abundance mentality? Go for either one and who cares what the other thinks? If they see you as alpha, it wouldn't affect your chances. Or even better: forget these two and look for others. and end up with nothing. Your mind is still in a state of scarcity and if I didn't know any better, you're looking for an answer that will agree with you to go for gi…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:41 AM
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There is an old proverb of something along the lines of: "If speaking is silver, then silence is golden" So embrace it. The one who is more invested is the one who speaks more, because they are trying to get the other's reaction/attention. Take slow deep breaths, maintain good eye contact and take your time answering back. There are always these silent lulls in conversation, no matter how deep/interesting it goes. Therefore take this opportunity to direct the conversation on where you want it to…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 07:27 AM
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Makes sense. And valid point.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 12:04 AM
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Life is fucking garbage if you're ugly. Nah, you're just playing it in hard mode. Stoicism. Practice that shit. The only thing you're in control of are your thoughts. Thoughts affect your emotions and your emotions affect your actions. There are people out there who have it worse than you. And yet they don't use it as an excuse and still get results. Your excuse is probably someone's joke right now. Everyone has weakneses. But you've just got to work on what you've got and capitalise on it. Go m…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:59 PM
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Not to mention an improvement with mood + attitude. Is that you in the link? Props.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:47 PM
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Why are you annoyed? we spend a lot of time together Sounds more than a plate to me. And seems like you're jealous that she may have a potential branch to swing (or already has) and keeping you as a safety net. If she really is a plate, you shouldn't really care. Its down to you whether you decide to keep fucking her or to drop her completely.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:15 PM
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You can only go so far with books. So start challenging yourself more often. Apply theory into practice as soon as you can. The Obstacle is the way by Ryan Holiday is my bedside book. It has helped twice through hard times. It has anecdotes of famous people as examples for displaying the stoic principles. Highly recommended. The Daily Stoic by the same author is the book I'm currently reading. You read a page daily for the whole year. I read it in the morning and reflect on it and try to apply d…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:53 PM
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People here advocate meditation for a reason. Practice stoicism. Put yourself and get used to tough situations. It makes you resilient. - Or 'anti-fragile' as Nassim Taleb puts it.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:44 PM
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• My goal was to get her home with me. Should I have never mentioned coming back to my place and just leave as the 2-date technique suggests? No. Always be closing. Your intentions were clear. But the problem is (as with most guys) persistence. Make excuses to get her back to your place. It has to give her a reason to go back there. Remember: the act of sex happening cannot be "her fault". Another alternative is to walk her back to her place (if logistics are plausible). But the obstacle of her …
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:57 AM
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Uncle Vasya casually dropping his wisdom! Rather enlightening, thanks
/r/askTRP05/03/17 07:47 PM
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This is coming from my friends' observations - an outside lens to my views and behaviour. Do I agree with them? To an extent, yes. You made a fair point and its an interesting view, but I think TRP advocates and integrates Stoicism rather than optimism as a whole. "I am the prize" and abundance mentality can be seen as tools (change of perception) to overcome the obstacle of oneitis for example. TRP is about sexual strategy after all. However, I wouldn't disregard optimism as a whole, its fundam…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 04:44 PM
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It opened my eyes. My friends were telling me how my views changed recently, that how I used to be an "optimist". Now I'm more of a "realist".
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:50 PM
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Sure it has elements of self-improvement and self-actualisation among other things. But to what end are you doing it for? If its to get pussy and manage relationships (lets face it, pretty much what every guy is here for), then its a sexual strategy. If not, then its most likely MGTOW.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:31 PM
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This. Its sounds like a justified/rationalised way for 'cheating'. But if you're still 'plugged in', you really have no idea. Cheating is everywhere. And mostly inevitable. Things happen at closed doors all the time. So I have recently come to conclude that humans (like most mammals) weren't designed for monogamy and that marriage/pair bonding was designed by society (mainly by BP men) to create fairness and equal opportunity (otherwise AF would have all the bitches). In that end, I decide to ha…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:47 AM
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TRP is about sexual strategy. Its amoral. The individual is accountable to their own feelings, decisions and actions.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:16 AM
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"Yeah, if you want in on this, you've got to wait in line." "Yeah, only with submissive hotties." "Yeah, but you have to wine and dine me first." Its a shit test and you failed. Go back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:07 AM
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You don't just blankly stare. You 'eye-fuck' her. Its subtle, intense and seductive. The best way to describe it is like Tyra Bank's 'smizing' or Ian Somerhalder's 'Damon eye thing'. Call it stupid, but try it first before criticising it. Field tested and use it all the time, brought me nothing but good results. Its powerful stuff.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:35 AM
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The moment she started contacting you was when she started seeking for validation: Asks me if I still like her And it doesn't matter what you say (insulting her). She knows its playful and can read your actions/intentions like a book. Women can sense this better than men. Its good that you recognised your mistakes and taking note of it. Its how you get better. You seem to understand the TRP concepts, just act out on it. You'll look back at this and laugh at it one day.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 10:54 AM
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The good old Triangular gaze. Lietruth has given solid advice. Don't forget to smirk (not smile), keep it intense but playful. For me, once the buying temperature is high, I make my move. At this point, we'd be close and holding hands/fingers interlacing. I do the triangular gaze, then boom. There are variations, sometimes I ask her what she's thinking about at the present moment (doesn't matter what she says), she will usually ask me the same question. Which is a cue to go to whisper in her ear…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:54 AM
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This is coming from my experiences and observations: No matter how logical my advice is, they will NEVER listen. Later, they will ask their sister/girlfriends/mother for the same advice. And they will fucking follow their advice EVEN though it was the same/similar to mine. OR they will completely ignore my advice and when they fuck up they come back saying how they fucked up and ask for further advice. And the cycle repeats. I just remind myself that women are driven by their emotional state of …
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:13 AM
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Persistence man. I don't think its LMR. It's more of a reassurance that she's 'safe'. I mean she is planning to go home with a stranger (potential rapist/psychopath etc.). So she needs to let someone know where she is going in case anything happens OR she wants to know if her friends are safe too. This behavior is not uncommon. Therefore it is your job to reassure her that everything is fine and safe. You need to have solid frame and lead her constantly. Bring her to your frame: You're the prize…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:45 AM
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This girl is my ex. Let me stop you right there. Don't bother re-kindling with this past relationship. Your turn is over. Go find other pussy to slay. Completely cut off contact with her. You're still BP with oneitis. You're failing her shit-tests and you're just feeding her need for validation.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 01:43 AM
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I'm hosting a bonfire and they asked me for a ride. Maybe you should go and make them tea and do their laundry too while you're at it. If they like you. They will FIND a way to hang out with you. Don't be their chauffer. Do it enough times it becomes an obligation = beta-orbiter. To isolate is easy: "Come, I want to show you something". Grab her hand and lead hed to somewhere private. Escalating kino takes practice. There's lots of guides out there. But heres some tips: Strong eye contact. Get c…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:58 AM
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I love these translations. Its like the closest thing to a dictionary for chickanese
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:45 AM
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Yep its a typical ASD. Remember: it can never be her fault.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:41 AM
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"but I'm not hooking up with you." And yet... She's going to meet up in Vegas with you despite having a bf AND she sent you a pic of her in her new bathing suit. Listen to her actions, not words. These seem like really strong IOIs and she sounds DTF. However, beware: she may potentially have you beta-orbiting her seeking for that typical validation. Treat it as a shit test. Game hard and escalate.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:07 AM
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I'm trying to talk to more girls Then actually go out and do it. Wtf is up with this snapchat bullshit. Read what you texted, process it and tell me what purpose did it serve. So you "negged" Now what? Where do you go from there? See this is the problem with noobies using PUA techniques. They copy and paste it, not knowing how to fully utilise it, ignoring the core principles of game. Read the sidebar. Internalise it. Delete your social media apps and go out. Text only for logistics because your…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 03:37 AM
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Find a new hobby. At the very least 1. And master it. Seriously, starting a new hobby is exciting and makes you put more time into learning/improving it. I usually aim to find a new hobby every year. For me, last year was caligraphy (my penmanship sucked and I wanted to start journaling). After hours upon hours of practising, my penmanship has vastly improved. The year before that, I got a new DSLR camera and started learning how to take professional photos. There is plenty to learn and I ended …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 12:44 AM
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If you frame it so. If you frame it in a way that you're open-minded and a keen learner for everything, it should not be a problem. I've come across these 'Leonardo Da Vinci' types and they often make interesting acquaintances with much character. I get what you mean though, it feels like it puts them in a higher position ~ 'more valuable'. In that case: equal exchange. Teach her something too. Preferably in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:19 PM
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Dude its only day 2. What do you expect? Don't over work your body. Listen to it. If it needs rest. Rest it a bit more. Don't be discouraged, it will take a while until your body gets conditioned into it. Glutamine + BCAAs are usually recommended to aid the muscle recovery process.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:41 PM
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Damn I cannot be that invested with a cocktease giving me that much blueballs. LMR is a pain and a delicate subject to get into (potential "rape claims" if not handled correctly). For LMR, you have to be persistent. Engage and escalate (and it seems that you are doing that) but when she tells you stop, you disengage (as you should), but you don't give up. You stop, then re-engage and escalate again. Rinse and repeat this cycle until she's horny enough to bang you. Always calibrate and gauge her …
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:29 PM
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Currently there is one girl whom I have had dates with at my place, it has been a few weeks since i first met her, seen her five times, no sex yet. The problem in my eyes is that I have to be the first to msg her/make conversation or make plans. That's not the problem. The problem is that you haven't fucked her yet. 5 dates at your place and no cigar? Are you committing friendzone to yourself? Fuck her now and do it good. Then she'll be contacting you first whenever she feels horny. Is this an a…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 03:49 PM
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Thanks for your point but i still dont get one thing - how do i set my rules and tell her that things HAVE to be this way without it sounding ultimative? Attack is the secret of defense; defense is the planning of an attack ~ Sun Tzu You have to set up boundaries early on in the relationship. She's young, and most likely doesn't know how to act appropriately in a relationship. You need to be the captain and lead the direction. A lack of direction leads to inveitable self-destruction. So how do y…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 09:34 AM
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In this case, I'd like to think what 7 year old you would do in this situation. Women are just grown up children. Treat them like so.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:03 PM
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I fell for a girl online, didn't meet for months but built this stupid online relationship. I really thought she was the unicorn I'd been looking for but she lived in another country. We eventually met and hung out for a couple of weeks. Upon meeting my feelings for her escalated immediately. She was my idea of perfection. The day we met, immediately after i ate her pussy, she tells me all the things she said to me no longer applied. I have a similar story: Had an online relationship 'penpal' fo…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:34 PM
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Too many weak-minded men are treating 6's like they are 9's and avoiding 9's out of pure fear. If this keeps up the 6's will think they are 9's. This is it. Most guys settle for less and as a result, the 6s are getting all the attention.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:11 AM
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Whats tragic? A conversation? You could literally talk about anything. You have years and years full of life experiences and you can't find something to talk about? You could start being direct and intentional. Tell her you find her attractive. That'll grab her attention. If she likes you back, you'll know. If not, or says she has a boyfriend, you can persist if you like and see how far you can go, or save time and approach another girl. Do the same thing you did the last time, except don't do t…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:08 AM
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How can I improve? There are a lot of good advice in here. And there is even more of an abundance of information everywhere now, so there really is no excuse of not becoming good. From guides, to books and there is even a plethora of infield videos out there that I'd die for back when I first started almost a decade ago. At the end of the day it comes down to one thing: experience/practice. Like all things in life, to get good, you must practice consistently. Evaluate your progress and work on y…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:51 PM
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I see a girl and don't know to say. Start with "Hi".
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:18 PM
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Oh yeah, thats what I meant when I said "obvious". Should have worded it better.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:02 PM
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Generally it's seen as the black belt of cock sucking. Lmao at the black belt. Never really came across this trend, but I always thought it was a subtle sign of submissiveness. Even more so obvious in the BDSM world.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 10:34 PM
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How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
/r/askTRP19/02/17 04:22 PM
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Emotions are never static. They are are always fluctuating depending on the situation/circumstances. Sure you can be neutral, but its always going to be leaning to one way. Its what makes us human. So how do you control your emotions? From your thoughts: You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength Marcus Aurelius So how can you be self-amused? Game the wall Think of it as amplifying the 'Id' in Freudian terms: Being impulsive to one's desires. Chil…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 04:17 PM
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Its sounds to me that you actually do give a fuck. If you actually don't give a fuck and be self amused, people will magnetically be drawn to you. Why? Energy transference. If you're excited and happy, it will rub off on people. They would even like to join in the fun (attract). If you're sad and depressed, people will notice and would usually avoid being around you (repel). Its ironic isn't it? The best way to please people is to please yourself first. Edit: You may possess Dark Triad traits
/r/askTRP19/02/17 05:20 AM
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The reason for oneities is that she is really a beautiful, smart chick with high aspirations and a rare find. Yep, a unicorn that doesn't exist, as you guys say. I just don't want to lose such a great potential life partner. She's inexperience with sex, 'beautiful' and young = She is going to branch swing all the way to the fucking Amazon the moment she meets Ricardo (South American version of Chad). And she confessed that she does not know what she wants and she just started exploring She even …
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:15 AM
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Yes. % of flaking can be high especially if SMV isn't high enough. Abundance mentality always.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:48 PM
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It can be even more simpler than that, my friend: "Coffee this Sunday? Lets meet @ 13:00pm" This gives her room to reply back "where?" For future reference, establish a plan for the 'date' during the 'pick up'. It makes texting plans a lot easier. That means finding what day she's free and determining what activities you're both going to do.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:46 PM
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My favourite is the last one from the second vid. The accidental flash from a woman in a burka (from a very conservative culture) . You can't make this up. This just solidifies AWALT. Women are perverts too.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:34 AM
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Boner Translation = I'm attracted to her Duh. That's nature. It means you want to spread your seeds and pass down your genes. Think of it as an indicator: you want to talk to a hot chick and your dick confirms it. Embrace it and use it to amp up your masculinity. Edit: The thirst is REAL
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:36 AM
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Loled @ the Gordon Ramsey too. I think negs are too advanced for noobs starting out. This is why PUA gets a lot of flak. My recommendation to your request is this: Be polarising now and then, disagree with the person you're talking to. This adds variance and spontaneity of the conversation (rather than being a typical "yes" man). Her: "I love bananas." You: "Eww I hate bananas." Her: "Omg I hate you" etc. Stupid example, but you get the idea. I'm not saying to start a debate per se, just show th…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:04 AM
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Solve your problems. Fix your life. That's your only focus for the next months/years. Agreed. Forget the party. You're mindset and frame is not in the right place. If I were in your position OP, I'd dive straight into hardcore monk mode. After 6 months passes by, she'll be itching to crawl back. And thats when you reject her hard.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:44 AM
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Strange indeed. Personally, I would let this one slide. There is no need to confront her, cause drama and get mad about something petty like this. Continue to observe her actions and make note of this red flag. Later, set boundaries and standards to her in an indirect manner: Tell an anecdote about how a friend's gf disrespected him by taking something away from him without him knowing etc. Then openly say how you will not tolerate this kind of behaviour. This way, she will know not to disrespec…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:14 AM
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This kind of stops everything however for the rest of the time that I'm there, we are joking and laughing with each other while kissing intermittently. I eventually take off back home and she texts me before she goes to bed Some ovens take longer to pre-heat than others. You give up too easily. You need to be more bold and persistent. Work more on your push-pull. If she says no*. That's fine, back off a bit, then a few minutes later re-engage. This cycle may repeat for a few more times. So keep …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:11 PM
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it was there I found a cologne scent strip I got for free with a recent purchase. I had it lying around. Petty I know, these things cost less than a $1. Oh come on now, I think you're just getting paranoid. Its a just scent strip ffs. If anything, she probably just likes the way you smell and wanted to keep it as a way of remembering/thinking about you. That's adorable. But if you still have your doubts, just keep an eye on her for the mean time.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:47 PM
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IGNORE the bf thing. Just dismiss it and never bring it up. She's potentially looking to branch swing and seeing other options ('escape hatch' as referred to earlier in this thread). She will be continually assessing your SMV. So you better be on point with your game. As for the next text. Keep it minimal. Just text logistics: date, time and meeting place.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:30 PM
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Victoria's Secret. Think of it as a gift for yourself.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:16 PM
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Unless you're already fucking her on a consistent basis, then you shouldn't even be considering whether to plate her or not.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:57 AM
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"I'm flatered by the invitation, it would be great but i hope there are no ulterior motives :) . Except for a new friendship" "I've got enough friends." Heyy Manny Friendship is the best kind of ulterior motive. For Her. This is an application for a beta orbiter position. I agree with lietruth. You can either treat it like a shit test and see whatever comes out of it. Or just go with it: Omlala's "I think I can handle that." And follow up with asking for her number. If you ever do end up seeing …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:18 AM
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But you're still lifting. It doesn't matter whether you like it or not. The point is, you're doing it consistently. "You often find that the things you want to do the least are the things you need to do the most." (Source: I think Jeff from RSD). So use that feeling of resistance to your advantage.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:22 AM
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Discipline > motivation Build the habit. Its well known that it takes 28 days to build a habit. So don't give up. And keep doing it until it is cemented into your daily routine. When I used to run (for endurance), I treated it like meditation. No music. Just absolute concentration on my breathing. I've recently started jump roping. I prefer it now than running because of the rhythm and learning the tricks looks fun and makes me feel like a pro boxer. For motivation, I normally go to youtube and …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:42 AM
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She is studying or walking to her destination in street. No eye contact before opening. How do you open her? Can I get your comment for these? I'm NOT a good looking guy. A bit above average. The same way I open them when they are "relaxed": " Hi". Then I usually go direct: "I thought you were really cute, so I had to stop you and say hi." Or if I'm feeling creative, I open with something situational: looking at her pocket mirror while doing her make up "Trust me, you look good as it is. You don…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:46 AM
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Yes. If you fucked her good. She will contact you first. It could take a few days to a week. Don't get caught up thinking about it. Find other girls to fuck to put your mind off it (as you should be doing anyway).
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:29 AM
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Exactly this. There shouldn't really be a problem once you've escalated correctly. At the end of the date, I usually insist on 'walking them home'. They nearly always comply. Be persistent and have the frame of assuming that sex is definitely going to happen tonight. Once outside their door, use that tension and initiate make out like your life depends on it (grab ass and press your body towards her so she can feel your dick). And if it wasn't obvious enough (doesn't invite you in for some reaso…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:06 PM
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'hey I thought you were cute' and go that route. I tried direct approaches before and that shit just doesn't work for me because I choke and sound like a little bitch when I make my intentions known. You need more practice. You're giving up too easily on something you can improve upon. Learn from your mistakes and calibrate. Talk slower and take notes on your body language. Watch PUA infield videos and learn from them (preferably: RSD direct day game, street attraction and good looking loser). C…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:03 AM
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Not necessarily. Even just being WILLING to walk away is enough. The one who is willing to walk away is the one who has the most power in the relationship. The other is the one who is most invested. Archwinger goes into better detail with this.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:34 PM
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Don't talk about your past affairs with other women. It comes off as needy and validation seeking. Approach more, get dates more and fuck more. Immerse yourself with women and you'll eventually build that abundance mentality. And that is being WILLING to walk away from the relationship at anytime, because you can find others/ have others waiting in line. Read up more on plate theory.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:54 PM
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Lol at the comments. Read up more on shit tests.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:14 AM
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Immerse yourself with women more. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:09 AM
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The Beige Philip show hosted by Dante Nero is as red pill as you can get and its funny as fuck. Honourable mentions to Bill Burr, Joe Rogan, the art of manliness, Dan Carlin.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:01 AM
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It is good advice. I don't see why you need validation from us. You should be getting it from your dick. Does she make you hard? Good. Then fuck her. She doesn't get you hard? Then she can fuck off. Simple as that. People have different tastes. At the end of the day, you're the man and its ultimately your decision. Who cares about what other people think? You don't have to tell them. This is for you. And if it makes you happy, then go for it. Regarding practising: you should be practising game a…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 09:52 AM
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Next her. Delete that number and move on. She still sees you as a beta orbiter and just seeking for validation from you. Not worth your time. +1 on abundance mentality. Remember that you're the prize. Keep up with your self-improvement.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:25 AM
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Due to the mixed traits, you have the problem of identifying yourself. From the sound of things, it seems like you have Sigma male tendencies/traits. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 11:57 PM
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Put it this way, I have numerous stretch marks across my body. Never had a woman complain about it to me. I guess there are procedures to get rid of it, or get a tattoo, but I've learnt to embrace over the years, and it doesn't phase me now.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:38 PM
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This is true, cannot emphasise this enough: LEAD. You're bringing her into YOUR life. I've been told many times from my dates that they their date with me was one of the best/best they've had (not to humble brag). Simply because I like to lead them to as much venues as possible, so it feels that we've spent more time together e.g. Restaurant for lunch, café for dessert, arcade (to play pool/bowling/something fun and active), walk along the riverside (you see where this is going). On the flip sid…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:27 PM
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Basically, the longer it takes for you to open, the harder it is for you to open because you're over rationalising the situation. The voices in your head are your own worst enemy. Hence, old school PUAs would advocate the 3 second rule: Approach and open within 3 secs or you've lost that set. So, you have to act before you think. You could literally open with anything (best to have canned lines eg. "Hey, I know this is random, but I thought you look absolutely stunning, that I just had to talk t…
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:36 AM
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Ah, the typical 'Tsundere' character development personality type.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:24 AM
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I was going through a shit phase and 'The Obstacle Is The Way' by Ryan Holiday set me straight. It got me into the whole stoic philosophy, changing my perspective and mindset on a lot of things. I've read it a few times since and tend to keep it by my bedside. Highly recommended.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 09:23 PM
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Don't think too much about it. I had mine when I was around 14 and never looked back. I actually prefer it now than it was. It's cleaner, looks better imo and sometimes get compliments from women. I come from a culture (Philippines) where circumcision is so highly valued to the point where you get teased/bullied if you are not. I would even go as far to say it can be seen as a rite of passage to become a man for us. I had mine done with only local anaesthetic. Took less than an hour. Only pain I…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 03:43 AM
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Funny thing, I first got into it because RSD started making their own awhile back I listen to it on the go, usually before/during my workouts. Really gets you PUMPED UP in a 'winner' mentality state
/r/seduction22/09/16 09:21 AM
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My go to Whenever I feel like I'm getting rusty, I always go back to these fundamentals. I don't have to overthink anything else. Also, tell them not to expect to pull at the early part of the night. Just have fun and not to be too outcome attached , otherwise they'll get too needy.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:01 PM
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Piggybacking on this, have your own damn standards, go for the one that ticks the boxes on what you're looking for in a woman.
/r/seduction05/09/16 08:36 AM
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