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Salt and Peppa were telling guys to “push it good” in 1987 so ... yeah. This ain’t new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:48 AM
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So true. And game / redpill / whatever is strictly for the middle class. It’s useless for the other outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:45 PM
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How does one “get nudes”? I almost never see this as a possibility outside of scammers and can girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:34 AM
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Lol all of which it just so happens can be hamstered into reality at a woman’s convenience. “He made me so emotional labor!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:30 AM
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Besides, the rationalizations and pretty lies women tell themselves and others about why they finally “matured” and learned to appreciate balding billy beta’s qualities, is how much they did the same hamster gymnastics for Chad in the other direction. Chad is dumb as rocks = Chad is down to earth Chad tells knock knock jokes = Chad is hilarious Chad is a smug asshole = Chad is confident Chad dresses like shit = Chad doesn’t have anything to prove Etc etc The people women lie to most of all is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:22 PM
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Lol. I’ve been close to going to a pro a few times now. Haven’t done it but I’m sure it will happen eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 06:07 PM
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You ever watch Mad Men? Don Draper is a confident man Pete Campbell is an asshole
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:20 AM
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Thing is for me, I was a “sensitive” kid. Very skinny, artistic, nerdy and eccentric. My mom and all my sisters thought this was sooo “cute and adorable.” so they encouraged it since I was also the youngest. Yeah. Fuck that. Somebody could have said to me, with love and understanding, “look, I know this is tough but there are a few rules about girls that you need to understand”... It would really have been that simple. I have an ex who I’m still friends with who has a boy and she’s doing the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:45 AM
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Tell me about it. It’s very location dependent. Still, you should be happy knowing your options for dating are simply limited by your location and not by you. Good luck. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:11 AM
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Not to say you haven’t improved in some way but this could simply be due to the new account boost. Every new account gets more attention. Way more. At 27 that also puts you smack in the middle of younger and older women’s search criteria. If your match rate is the same in 3-4 weeks that’s more telling. Also, there are a hell of a lot more people using OLD in 2020 than in 2012 and that roses even higher during COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:44 AM
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What frustrates me in all of this is that, among all the bullshit, the men in my life (dad, uncles, friends) were never 100% upfront about the realities of women, just not to lose face among their own women. But secrety, they all knew. This has got to be #1 for me. The number of men around me that never leveled with me about how repulsive being a little bitch was to girls is what has really angered me as I got older. They all likely did it because they feared what my mom and 3 sisters would “fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:17 PM
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Throw “dumb bitch” and “balding hasbeen” in there too. I’m sure there’s others. Lol this has nothing to do with “dominance” this has to do with me and my partner finding it funny to jokingly say awful shit to each other. The pearl clutching about it comes from precisely the types of women I’d want to kill myself being in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:48 PM
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lol sex itself isn’t “essential” for women. When women find the right partner they love the feeling of being used for pleasure. Not exclusively, but it’s part of the turn on for every single woman I’ve been with. But keep thinking women get wet over being worshipped like beautiful flowers. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:11 PM
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Jesus. No wonder I have such a hard time finding a woman I can stand. If we can’t call each other all manner of vile shit (with love) I’m not interested. Creepy old man, nerd, crater face, all my best partners have called me things like this - because ball busting on the person you love is fun. I’m sure I’ve used Fuck toy, airhead, and “daddy’s little slut”, trophy and arm candy for them. Any woman that can’t get down with this kind of banter is always a PITA in other ways and nexted eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:00 PM
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Because (among other sexual acts) most women like getting dominated and pounded by dick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:51 AM
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Isn’t that a threesome app?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:49 AM
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What do you think the manosphere is? Not real life, and a tiny niche even on the internet? Difference is not nearly as many women do this as men the reverse Lol. Date a lot of women do ya? Just because women say they are not with a man because of the utility and support he gives her doesn’t mean that isn’t the case. Pro tip: Watch how many women become bitchy, unattracted or flat out bail on a man when he has an emotional crisis, shows incompetence or loses a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:40 PM
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Point me to the post that says “women are only good as fuck toys”. Literally nobody on PPD is saying that. They are saying that women need to bring different things to the table in a relationship because, wait for it, men and women tend to want different things in a partner. As far as men not having a shoulder to cry on - they would gladly cry / vent / emote freely - IF women weren’t sexually repulsed by such “male whining”. Unfortunately, instincts and biology win out with men desperately tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:59 AM
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What argument? This is in response to the poster minimizing the extent / severity that women commit this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:29 AM
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TF difference does it make? Women are treating men as fashion accessories constantly. And guess what, men don’t get a shoulder to cry on about women’s “unreasonable expectations” as every woman does. It’s dehumanizing to a man being only valued for utility to that woman. And lol @ “women’s only crime is they want love!” Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:16 AM
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That’s not how human behavior, attraction or sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:55 AM
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It is _____ for the average man to have sex with lots of willing women. It is ____ for the average woman to have sex with lots of willing men. Fill in the blanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:36 AM
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Holy shit. You can’t be serious. Not “using porn for a month” puts me in a state of such sexual tension that literally all I can do is think about how much I want to fuck women when I see them. Only FDS’ers or nofap weirdos think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:27 PM
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Chad? Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:48 PM
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Very good point about some formerly hot / attractive guy not getting any benefit from his “glory days”. I hadn’t thought of that. However, the point here is more about guys that are not Chad but are currently reasonably attractive / average men who are seen as “in demand” with other women. The easiest way to prove one woman that you are worthy of her is by fucking a woman that is hotter than her. They will often suddenly and subconsciously perceive the man as having something attractive. It coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:07 PM
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Literally nobody is claiming that women want a man that will bang other girls behind her back. Women don’t want that subconsciously or otherwise. Women DO get turned on knowing a guy has banged tons of women and could continue to do so but chooses NOT to for them. The reason for this is simple: Pussy is hard to get. Women know this. A man who can get it at will is by definition high value. Conversely, a man sees no such appeal in a woman because dick is cheap and easy to get. A woman having indu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:23 PM
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Contrary to what some believe, women don’t look at a man who is a player and sleeps with lots of women and think wow, he’s husband material This isn’t how it works. Women don’t get turned on by a man because he has slept with lots of women, they are turned on by men that can sleep with lots of women but choose to sleep with them. Example: Some rich slob banging a different prostitute every night has “slept with lots of women” - no man would claim that makes him attractive. An decent looking acto…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:37 PM
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There absolutely is. I don’t really like the idea of Victor’s Justice, but history is not going to be kind to those that openly supported Trump in 2020 and I see many of them being further (and often rightly) ostracized from friends, family and coworkers. Basically, imagine if somebody found out you were a regular poster at Stormfront or some other similar website. 2016 Trump voters can make excuses, 2020 Trump supporters have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:27 PM
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Every time you had sex with a person it could have been a “one night stand” if the person ghosted you the day after, so there’s that. But, in reality most (all?) lays in which you are fucking somebody within hours of knowing them involve alcohol which lowers inhibitions to the point in which 2 people will be doing all manner of crazy shit anyway. It’s part of the adventure. The quality of the sex itself is almost besides the point. In reality sex is almost always awkward and weird the first coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:20 PM
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Then you are bottom 20% and an outlier by definition. No Chad for you. You can still get Billy Beta but probably don’t want him either since he’s “only” in the 50th percentile of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:15 AM
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Then why is it so far you to just simply say “yes, women tend to lie for selfish reasons about their sexual preferences because they don’t want to appear less than virtuous by their peers” Ironically, you don’t want to admit this because it (wait for it) would mean women can be less than virtuous through sheer self interest and selfishness without regard of the broader consequences of their lying and gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:13 AM
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Then these men have not approached many women in the contexts that a normal man would. No man that fucks has can say he has not been straight up dissed by a bitchy woman with a princess complex. I call bullshit. Sorry internet lady. Ask them (if they exist) again if any woman they’ve hung out with acted like a bitch to some random dude and expected the man to back her up and answer for her bitchiness. Once again, every man I know has stories like this. And just lol. I was raised by women. All au…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:07 AM
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Ask a man (if you know any) I guarantee you every. single. one. (outside of perhaps, Chad) will have a story about a girl and her friends straight up humiliating, laughing at or otherwise dissing him to his face for daring to attempt to talk to her while unattractive. I grew up with 3 older sisters and have had tons of female friends over the years. Number of times this type of thing happened to them: ZERO Why is it so hard for you to say, in this context, women are the shittier actors. In many …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:50 AM
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A physician and a Covid denier huh? Sure you are man. Sure you are. Wait, is this Dr Drew? The “physician” who told us a few months ago that “the us will never - NEVER” have 20,000 deaths from Corona.?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:30 AM
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Ohhh lol so your issue is that these non-Chads dare to even have a sex drive much less think they have a chance with you? Bottom line - any of these “nerds” would happily accept you saying “hey, billy, I’m just not comfortable having sex, but we can cuddle” But again, you’re apparently upset they would even have the balls to bring it up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:28 AM
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Lmao. Of all the hamsters, this might be my favorite one: Women: “We lie and cheat because men make us!!!” Can’t make this shit up. On a side note, I’m not even talking about what women tell men about their preferences, it’s what they tell each other (and often themselves) - so there goes your theory that lying about it is some kind of defense mechanism against teh evil mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:24 AM
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Ok, Doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:46 AM
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So let me get this straight. The nerd who has no other options is going to get just as pushy as Chad with 5 hot chicks he can be banging within the hour? Sounds legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:45 AM
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Nobody is against that. If everybody you are around is cool with it, fine. I really hope you avoid taking an ICU bed if it comes to that though. I also hope you aren’t propagating your Infowars Health University knowledge to other dumb people. People are against others being douches that refuse to mask up in enclosed places with strangers and put others at risk because you need to prove what an “independent thinker” you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:43 AM
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Fuck outta here. A.) a guy wouldn’t be rude about it and mock the girl to his friends. B.) the guy wouldn’t lie about the reason for the rejection (she was fat) C.) a woman in the same position will say something to make herself seem less shallow “that guy was weird” or “he was annoying” instead of “he was short” (eg. they lie)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:39 AM
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i see ugly guys scoring like mofo, No. You really don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:36 AM
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Somebody has never been to a bar at 1:45 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:35 AM
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Yes, we can be superficial and hypocritical, but this isn’t exclusive to us? No. But the constant and near pathological lying about it damn sure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:34 AM
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Lol this is abject horse shit. The fact that “you’ve seen” some instance of it means nothing more than one particular girl ran into one particular asshole. Most men will be legit flattered and at worst humor the girl until it’s time for them to slip out. Even for self interest, this is something men will do as being nice to an unattractive woman makes you more attractive to attractive women. Jesus Christ how are women so ignorant to the lives of men? Conversely, rejecting men (often laughing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:29 AM
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The point is women will #metoo ugly men, put them on blast, and otherwise attempt to ruin the lives of men for daring to attempt half of what Chad gets away with. Women are legit insulted just being approached by men they see as “beneath them” Then they go on social media and say things like “men, stop doing X!!!” When they simply mean “stop doing X while not being Chad!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:25 AM
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I was under the impression that it was Asian men and black women that were least selected for. In any case, I’m just saying, as an old white guy who operates in a niche, I’ve lived long enough to know: Black guys have a niche. Try being a short, balding dude from Bengali.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:44 AM
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Last sex was in early January, lock down started in February. It is now July. You were saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:34 AM
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Lol. Many black men are Chad to many girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:32 AM
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I’m sure Chad is really broken up that his position as your FWB was only “temporary” and you were only “using him for sex.” 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:17 AM
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Entitlement because you are asking for simp behavior from an attractive Chad who could be out banging any number of chicks and cuddling them. You seem to not understand that wanting a strictly platonic yet sexually attractive cuddle buddy is similar to a man wanting NSA sex with a hot chick at last call - You are going to have to make concessions. Men go “hogging”, you’ll have to settle for beta Billy if you just want a Netflix on the couch partner. The difference is, women live in a world where…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:17 AM
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Anytime somebody uses the tepid “don’t really care for him” when talking about Trump, you can bet they are indeed a Trump supporter. A.) where tf are you getting 100k “worldwide” deaths? We’re approaching 150k in the US alone. And please don’t link to some conspiracy horseshit about “they’re saying people are dying or Covid even if they died in a car crash!” B.) Seatbelt laws, helmet laws, airplane safety regulations etc. how do you feel about those? No biggie if planes are losing hundreds of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:44 PM
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Like I said, for 80% of women, a guy must check nearly all of their long list of boxes to even get a second chance (height, job, hair, funny, smart, educated, etc). 80% of men don’t have the luxury of instituting such strict criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:39 PM
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You had me until “fake ass disease” and then had to put everything in the frame of some maga douche. Nothing you say can be listened to once you out yourself as a Trump supporter at this point. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:03 PM
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I get what you’re trying to say, women still have to make an effort to meet and see if there is chemistry; but outside of that it is in no way “the same” Women have the dilemma of picking among countless offers and then hoping one of them checks all of her boxes. Men have the dilemma of working their ass off to find even a few options and hoping one of those will he remotely acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:01 PM
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Women can’t even let men share an experience about their unique challenges without chiming in with “well! We women have it worse because some guy told me I was a bitch after I told him he was too ugly for me!” The fact that you use the sjw buzzword “emotional labor” means you were likely condescending to the men’s problems if you yourself thought of them as trivial (ie man can’t get sex and feels like shit about himself) Second, what you are describing is about women turning into raging bitches.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:56 PM
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Yah. I initially thought I lucked out breaking up with my crazy long distance ex before lock down but now I’m not so sure. Cutting off my sex supply when there was no hope to replace it was not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:50 PM
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Yah. That’s kind of my approach. Still, I went through that whole dance with a girl, and even went over to her house and it was a dud of an experience, so I’m weary of even that now. For guys it’s always going to be a numbers game. Fail fast, fail often until you find a girl you click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:40 PM
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It sounds like you have the right approach to it, although I’d say the notion of “lining up options for later” is a waste of time IME. People get bored of pen pals quick. It’s also inaccurate to claim that women who have demonstrated that they will do all manner of degrading and foolish things to ride Chad’s dick, would suddenly stop doing so now. More than a few women I’ve talked to who were complaining about how “bored and lonely” they were in the lockdown, quickly admitted - “oh I still have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:34 PM
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Ah cool. Thanks for sharing. Was just curious if it was a straight up “come over” thing or or you met in public first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:13 PM
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Walk me through your process from start to finish then. Meeting somebody new makes little sense during a quarantine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:02 PM
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Damn. Chad life must be good. Pussy on order.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:31 PM
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Red state or blue state?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:27 PM
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“If Chad doesn’t do it, it doesn’t exist to me”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:26 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen, female entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:25 PM
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Was this straight from an app to “come over and hang out”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:07 PM
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You aren’t a man. You don’t know how men are treated by women when they do what you suggest. Men know what their experiences are and have told you. Believe men. How about you start with your own kind and tell them to treat men with emotional problems better. Let me know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:06 PM
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I need to make a trip out there. Corona sucks, but at the end of the day I’m not gonna let it stop me from partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:50 PM
2

How was Florida?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:42 PM
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Just come out and say it: “Chad doesn’t want to just cuddle” because that’s who you’re talking about. There is an endless supply of nerds and geeks who would be ecstatic for the opportunity to platonically soon with a girl, you just don’t see them as “worthy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:41 PM
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To men - sex is the main course and the relationship is dessert. To women - the relationship is the main course and sex is the dessert. Sure women like sex, but they see it as an abundant and cheap junk food, because to them, it is. To men, sex is like eating a filet mignon after living on stale bread and water for a month. People can “survive” on empty calories found in sugary foods but they won’t be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:38 PM
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Translation: My emotions have never had negative consequences for me but I’m going to claim to have it worse than men because of “safety reasons”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:22 PM
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News flash: Online isn’t real life. Men giving each other shit is a way of breaking the tension, bonding and ironically showing each other that it’s ok to be vulnerable. Watch Once Upon A Time In Hollywood to see how men support each other when they are emotional. Watch how “don’t cry in front of the Mexicans” becomes “you’re Rick Fuckin Dalton, don’t you forget it” That’s how men support each other. Not with fake, passive aggressive “live, laugh, love” platitudes that women use. You don’t under…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:19 PM
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This is so dead on and women just fundamentally cant comprehend this. It’s like trying to explain thirst to a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:04 PM
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Lol Are you serious? You don’t think there is an endless supply of orbiter “cuddle buddies” for women? What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:02 PM
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You’d be right if you were judging about what TRP’ers claim about themselves. If you were asking TRP’ers about their n count, height, dick size or how much they crave female validation you’d get similar bullshit answers. Men and women signal their virtue in different ways. However, this particular question is speaking more to what myself and every man I’ve known TRP or not, has can confirm about a large sample size of women. Women are, on average far, far freakier and kinkier than will ever publ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 06:42 PM
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Threads like this come up once a month and it’s always the best example of selection bias on PPD. PPD: about 10% of women are ok with facefucking, slapping, choking, etc. IRL: It’s about 50% of women that like these things and more. Hell, a good 25% will straight up demand it. Last gf I had was a real “don’t need no man, you better respect me” career woman. Super hot. No shortage of simps around her waiting to buy her flowers. She liked hanging her head over the side of the bed and getting throa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:48 PM
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In short, according to the women in this thread: Women can use their unearned superficial traits to get what they want from men. Men cannot use their earned and developed traits to get what they want from women. Is anybody really surprised with this take at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:26 AM
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Reality is quite salty for a below average man with any mental illness, so yeah. I’m not holding my breath for any understanding from women if that’s what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:40 AM
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Yes women gossip about their men to their friends. What does that have to do with anything. Women are turned off by weak men. Period. Full stop. The reverse is not true. Women lie to everybody as easily as they breathe about their true feelings and that’s if they are even aware of them. And your contention that men can’t talk to their guy friends about their frustrations and insecurities is pure delusion. It’s just that those discussions center around actual solutions rather than virtue signalin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:33 AM
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Google
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:38 PM
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In other words, “it’s a shit test”. TRP agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:26 PM
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I’m 5’11 with a very average dick. I have a strong preference for spinners for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:25 PM
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Flawed question: There is a huge difference between early relationship sex and relationship sex 2-3 years in. Speaking from experience, my ideal situation is a sexually compatible committed bi Gf that is down for an occasional threesome to satiate the variety / newness once I a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:52 PM
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Who is speaking about online? I’m speaking about many years of dating and relationships with many women. How many women have you dated / had relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:48 PM
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Perhaps a better example would be telling a woman who gets fat and finds that men no longer find her sexually attractive need to “pick better men” And you are obfuscating the issue with your both sides argument. Men’s attraction to women is not contingent on their woman being “a rock” in the relationship. In fact, women in distress bring out men’s protective instincts and is in no way a factor in attraction. Men in distress (crying, falling, whatever) is pussy repellant plain and simple. You are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:13 PM
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Sorry, this is one of the few instances that AWALT is mostly true. Women want to see their man as a source of stability and strength. It is damn near universal. “Love” or no love, seeing a man struggle with self worth issues is absolutely unattractive to women. Full stop. As far as to her “pick better girlfriends” shit. Would you tell that to your female friends who just got punched in the face by their boyfriend? No? Thanks for inadvertently proving the point about the empathy gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:33 PM
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Lol at that list. That’s a woman’s list. A man’s list? 1. Don’t be fat. 2. Don’t be a bitch. And even those are flexible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:01 AM
3

Have you heard of twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:59 AM
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Again this is something every man who has made this mistake understands all too well - women (through no fault of their own) are primally repulsed by men showing weakness or vulnerability for anything outside of sympathetic stressors (ie parent died, child is sick, etc) any internal stressor (depression, feeling overwhelmed with work, feeling insecure about something) will be met with a dry pussy and ever increasing shit tests. Recently I made this “‘mistake” with a girl I that wanted me to open…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:50 AM
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If and only if she was expressing clear sexual attraction and affection with escalating intimacy clearly leading to that. Any game playing or coyness and it’s bug bye because you’re getting simped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:55 AM
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Sounds like somebody has a case of the Mondays.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:03 PM
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TBF going full incel / black pill is not realistic either. For average to below guys (like me) it really comes down a a combination of a soul crushing grind of dashed hopes, patience and standards. How much one can compromise on any of those will determine a persons chance at success but ultimately it is a brutal experience versus an average girl or a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:36 PM
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Just lol @ the number of women claiming that it’s not women who complain about not being able to get their Chad to commit to them. This ladies and gentlemen, is what we’ve come to - A majority of women on PPD denying the stark reality that is self evident because they rejected some simp asking to be her boyfriend once. In other news, women don’t cause drama, aren’t emotional and love short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah. It was deleted by the Karen who was already arguing with me and didn’t like the question in the first place. Sure showed me. Guess we’ll keep things limited to FDS rants about how all men are scrotes and rapists instead. Should make for healthy discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:40 AM
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He’s no hero, but Jesus Christ. You’re seriously defending this woman? Calling the cops to tell them she’s being “threatened by a black man”? Telling somebody leash their dog does not constitute being a Karen, calling the cops and going batshit crazy from entitlement is. WTaF. How are women able to argue like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:38 AM
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I have an existing view and I am asking it for to be challenged. Stating that “Karen’s don’t exist” is not a challenge so, yes a rant will be met with a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:49 AM
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Show me where a woman says “you know, women may have developed some unhealthy attitudes in recent times, but we can do better” etc Nope. It’s all “Karen is a myth!” Or “only fat old white women are Karen!” Or “you just call women you don’t like Karen!” You know what the first step in addressing a problem is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:36 AM
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Lol. You do realize you just violate the rules of the sub that you are supposed to be moderating right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:24 AM
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https://youtu.be/sWv_sp0kEvA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:18 AM
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Thanks. I’ll try to get up to 3/10 next time. FWIW - the Karen thing is a uniquely American phenomenon and not exclusive to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:02 AM
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If you’ve “never met a Karen” there’s a distinct possibility that you’re the Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:49 PM
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Never mind it just went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:17 PM
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Social media has made it worse. Markedly worse. Ask a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:58 PM
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Wtf are you even talking about? Cops? Are you in the wrong thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:58 PM
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Again, which of the following is the most true since the advent of social media? A.) Women have become more pleasant, friendly and agreeable. B.) No change C.) Women have become more entitled, impatient and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:51 PM
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I don’t speak SJWese. Can you state this in English? IDGAF if women suburban white woman didn’t get the right brand of salad dressing or if she’s scared or a black guy bird watching. Both of those women are awful people. Add as many buzzwords as you want but you can’t be cunty and expect to not get called cunty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:48 PM
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Being raised by and growing up around nothing but women, 25 years of dating, online and otherwise. Good enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:46 PM
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How old are your brothers? Sounds like they haven’t had a large sample size or have limited experience. I am almost 50. I’ve online dated since 1999. If you are going to try to claim that I haven’t lived long enough to observe this phenomenon, you’re gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:45 PM
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So let me get this straight, you don’t think the steady drip of validation and approval given to women via social media has had any behavioral effect on women at all? Is that your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:42 PM
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Reductio ad absurdum FTL But if you want to play that game: “Like a typical Karen, you would rather go off on straw men rather than analyze your own shitty attitude and privilege. You can’t see that all you give a shit about is having men cater to you and if they aren’t pleasing to your comfortable life, they may as well be dead. You only care about what serves your pussy privilege. You will unapologetically ridicule men for being short, bald or broke - while simultaneously shaming men for not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:40 PM
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Sassy black women are definitely a thing, at the same time - in contrast to white women they are actually routinely shit on by society and thus their bad attitude is not quite as hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:11 PM
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If you understand how mass psychology, social dynamics and internalization of external messaging works your understand this: Women are worse now than before. I implore you ask any man who will level with you about this and not seek your favor. Ask them in the context of women they go on dates with versus Women they decide to date. It might be hard to see for you since you don’t actually date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:09 PM
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As seen throughout this thread sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:45 PM
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There is no human on Earth, of any social-economic or ethic category, that is more entitled, immature, childish, more of a loser in every sense of the word (unaccomplished, disgusting in character and appearance, immoral, useless leech) than an upper-middle class western white feminist woman. QFT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:38 PM
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How about you “believe men” rather than just blanket declaring that this attitude hasn’t become progressively worse in the past 15-20 years? I can tell you without a doubt it has gotten worse. The rise of social media, “men are always wrong” propaganda, “be bossy” messaging, fat acceptance, things like FDS, etc all have absolutely contributed to this. It’s pure delusion to say that there has not been a societal shift in favor of entitled, demanding women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:36 PM
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Oh no doubt about that. I know plenty of women hate the Karen’s more than the men do, so this isn’t some AWALT nonsense. But to ignore that this general attitude has infiltrated the dating scene would be foolish. In fact, part of the point of my post is to see if women will acknowledge the possibility that the Karen phenomenon is indicative in some kind of social / societal shift that could partially explain men’s negative experiences in the modern dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:20 PM
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BANG. Finally a goddamn real post addressing the issue AND discussing the implications. I absolutely agree. This attitude among white Women is probably like 50%. Among pretty white women it is closer to 75%. Not to say the attitude doesn’t exist across all demographics but to see people denied that it is at record highs among white women is baffling. I thought it was self evident. In any case, I agree with you about just avoiding them. I generally won’t date the typical WASPy woman. It’s usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:02 PM
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You’ve never seen an entitled, spoiled or aggressive white woman loudly make unreasonable demands from somebody she saw as “beneath” her? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:58 PM
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Once again, I grew up around women. Nothing but women. I’m almost 50 years old. Your notion that I somehow “don’t see how women really are” is asinine. I am absolutely willing to hear how this Karen thing isn’t actually a thing. How most white Women are altruistic and care about issues that don’t effect them directly (lets say male depression and suicide) but I don’t really see that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:57 PM
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When “sexual assault” includes a man going in for an unwanted kiss after an awkward date or “harassment” being defined as having your clothes complimented it can be hard to tell what to take seriously. Women, white women especially are absolutely notorious for considering the slightest discomfort some kind of PTSD inducing trauma. This isn’t news.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:55 PM
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Do you think you’re making points here or are you just making quips and patting yourself on the back?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:33 PM
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And that is never more evident than when they are asked to actually acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:32 PM
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Your question was does it make a woman a Karen for wanting to be treated right? The answer is No. Does it make a woman a Karen for demanding that the world cater to them and answer to their every grievance while they provide nothing in return? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:31 PM
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Right, because men have never experienced this demanding entitlement, arguing with service people, whining about first world problems and a general attitude of “I’m a queen” IRL. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:21 PM
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Lmao @ this thread proving the point better than any anecdotes and lived experience ever could. Your attitude is exactly the justification good ole Central Park Karen used to call the cops on a “threatening” black bird watcher. Because he dared to ask her to leash her dog. Nobody even bothering to CMV just more fear and entitlement and solipsism further illustrating the root of Karenhood. I would honestly love somebody to make a reasoned analysis of how this attitude has worked it’s way into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:16 PM
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You didn’t know who the Central Park Karen is yet you ask these questions? I’m not going to pull up a list of every single Karen incident. You can look for yourself pretty easily. Edit: here https://twitter.com/sanosbo1/status/1271907567451672577?s=21
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:42 PM
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Who gives a fuck? The point is RP preaches “Be better than what you are!” FDS / etc teaches “Don’t change anything perfect Queen! Make HIM change!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:40 PM
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TF difference does it make? If a man makes himself an attractive man that women want to have sex with that’s one less unattractive man so women benefit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:35 PM
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As I said. Karen’s transcend age. It’s an attitude of entitled white women who are not used to being told no and having their worst impulses ignored or encouraged by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:34 PM
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Lol. No. RP is about making oneself more attractive to women usually at great personal cost and then behaving in such a way that women find attractive. Karening is about getting fat and shaming men for not finding fat women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:30 PM
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A young Karen likely would have been the class snitch, tattling on her classmates to the teacher to get them in trouble. Middle-aged Karen is the one asking to see your manager. And a Karen at the peak of her powers will call the police on someone for a mild inconvenience. Karen’s transcend age. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/04/28/karen-memes-jokes-arent-sexist-or-racist-let-karen-explain/?arc404=true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:28 PM
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Incels and TRP acolytes are more common than actual Karens. JFC. You actually said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:20 PM
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Lol. Well I was raised by nothing but women, have mostly women friends and have dated dozens of them. How many women have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:18 PM
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I can agree with that. Lockdown has made that increasingly difficult. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:18 PM
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Entitlement, arrogance and lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:17 PM
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The Central Park Karen? The most famous case that happened like a month ago? Yet you make claims as above? No offense, but it doesn’t sound like are well versed on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:16 PM
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Lol seriously? I know at least 5 off the top of my head. Anti-vax, speak to the manager types who complain about men constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:15 PM
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We are not talking about “what should” be” we are talking about “what is” and acknowledging that fact. Which many women seem to have a very hard time doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:14 PM
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A.) Karening by bringing up rape because “what about MEEEEE!!!!” B.) Read this then come back to me with your long sense debunked “rape” statistics. https://www.forbes.com/sites/evangerstmann/2019/01/27/the-stat-that-1-in-5-college-women-are-sexually-assaulted-doesnt-mean-what-you-think-it-means/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:13 PM
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Actually you’re correct about this. The Karen phenomenon is definitely limited to White women. However, I’d say the “bad bitch” and “yas queen” attitude are close cousins to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:09 PM
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Except the meme / actual phenomenon has nothing to do with age. How old do you think Amy Cooper was?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:05 PM
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Except TRP and Incels are basically a microscopic online phenomenon on a par with Furries whereas Karenism is rampant IRL. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:04 PM
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The problem is, dating for an average man was already hard enough. With the steady drum beat for women to “be bossy” etc, it has fucked the supply / demand even more. And lol @ bringing the “scary men” argument into this. Trying to claim that rape is as ubiquitous as bitchy entitled women is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:01 PM
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Except, you know that I as a man and all my male friends have similar stories and I see (saw) it every day on dates, at bars, concerts and comedy shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:59 PM
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Seriously? You think Karen is limited to this age group? Have you been paying attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:57 PM
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Lol the rich celebrity, sure? How about if it’s Joe Pesci the manager of a McDonald’s? Yeah. That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:34 AM
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Lmao. You just jumped the shark. Forgetting that you’re talking about a movie, he was portraying a high ranking mobster who for all intents and purposes was a celebrity in the underworld. Are you going to bring up Notorious BIG next? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:30 AM
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I’ve known plenty of dudes as you describe. And you’re right, they are popular with the ladies - AS A FRIEND. These guys are comic relief and break the tension of the actually sexually viable guys. It’s easy for them to talk to a short, fat “fun” dude because they realize how ludicrous the idea of sex between the two of them is on its face. He is a sexual non entity, so there is no tension or awkwardness. Every guy I knew like that was giving those chicks rides home, listening to her complain ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:43 AM
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I’m from reality. You might want to visit it sometime. I just got done saying some short fat dude might get some pity sex thrown at him from another buttergolem once in a blue moon. That’s a far cry from what any sexually functional person would call “doing just fine” in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:20 AM
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would do decently enough in a bar or club, and generally are able to live a life with girlfriends and FWB Lmao. What “clubs” are you going to with these short, fat dudes? A weight watchers club? A barn? I really just don’t get peoples motivation to clinging to this ludicrous story. You think people reading this who have gone to bars and clubs their entire lives with friends that look as you described don’t know the reality? You want the reality? Short, fat men, no matter how affable and jolly, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:00 AM
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I have known short, pudgy dudes who get laid wherever they go. No. No you fucking have not. I’m almost 50 years old, have lived in big cities all my life and I’ve literally never, ever seen this. People really need to stop selling this “Scheodinger’s Chad” myth to men. It’s absolutely gaslighting and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:21 AM
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If there are single men then there are single women. Ladies and gentlemen. Today’s lesson in solipsism. Here is your answer: Chad’s Harem Women prefer to share Chad then date Billy. Your average “single” woman is still banging uncommitted Chad whenever she gets an itch for sex. Along with the other 10 women Chad bangs. Your average single man? Porn. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:48 AM
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That’s a bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:03 AM
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Wait what? My resentment is only directed at women’s refusal to practice self awareness and constantly decry men when their own instincts are just as devoid of virtue. Also, NAWALT. Some women have self awareness. It is exceedingly rare among men or women but I find solipsism, myopia and willful ignorance, self serving humble brags the most contemptible character trait and it seems to be more prevalent among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:02 AM
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Well I guess that’s better than going Elle Rodger and become a supreme gentlewoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:15 AM
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Haha. Well yeah I mean it is in a literal sense predatory because men hunt for pussy with the same drive animals hunt for food. Hence drunken bar fights and other stupid displays. Men who rape / abuse women sexually I would say have other issues such as lack of empathy which is a deeper problem. But your average man is still creeping on any woman with a juicy ass walking in front of him - I don’t care wtf he tells his wife or girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:14 AM
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I happen to agree with you there as well. I will say this, even a half senile Biden with a democratic cabinet and a fully there VP (likely Kamala) would at least be somewhat likely to be held accountable for things such as trade and Chinese aggression. Trump is 100% unaccountable no matter what. He will only do what serves his ego if he screws up will never admit it much less correct it. He has proven that he is utterly incapable of doing anything that requires finesse and nuance. He can cut thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:06 AM
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This is legit my favorite response so far. It’s a great point about men’s biological drive to pursue sex being what makes them so perseverant in the face of near constant rejection. Hopefully it also puts to rest the notion that men are simply “undisciplined creeps” as men have such a different physiological drive that women should at least give men a bit of understanding that their thirsty behavior is indeed borne out biology and not some sociopathic predatory mindset. The only fundamental driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:01 AM
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I can honestly understand disengaging from politics for mental health reasons. I often have to because it becomes a complete burden sometimes, but even being pragmatic all you have to ask is: Are you for getting closer to universal health care or continuing our current system? Do you care about acting on climate change or not? Do you care about Supreme Court picks and abortion / civil rights? Do you care about holding police accountable or maintaining the status quo? Do you want somebody who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:55 AM
2

Trump is the incumbent. A non vote against him is equivalent to a vote for him. Which means you are a trump voter. At least own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:48 AM
1

Lemme guess, #AllLivesMatter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:43 AM
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Fuck outta her with your both sides. You have 2 choices: Trump and Not Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:38 AM
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I’m a liberal but rabidly anti SJW and anti cancel culture. I feel that those ideologies are a cancer to art. That said, right now there are 2 sides in America: Americans and Trump Supporters. In 2016 you can make the argument that you wanted a shake up, that Trump would “be presidential” and stop tweeting, be a good deal maker and be less overtly divisive and race baiting ... ok I can comprehend that. In 2020 if you still support that man... to paraphrase Don Corleone: Then, I do not forgive. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:36 AM
2

And here you are on the Internet which is derived from ARPANET which was government funded aka ... you guessed it .. “free shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:27 AM
2

Would I prefer it to the constant struggle and soul crushing rejections you must endure as a sub-Chad man? Yes. Yes I would prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:47 AM
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How is that a challenge for me? Ask your fellow women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:32 AM
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Lol. Thanks for proving the point better than any words I can write ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:30 AM
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Are you actually this dense? That’s the point. Women don’t have to do this. I’m asking you to imagine a world where that was required of you to find a partner. This is the world men live in. How would you handle it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:27 AM
4

What does “standards” have to do with getting rejected by people who meet your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:12 AM
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Your arrogant solipsism hurts. This is most men’s reality if they want to get a date much less sex. Women can and do crawl over glass for Chad. Don’t act like women are above all manner or degrading shit when the guy’s SMV is high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:59 AM
2

You missed the part where, to men, persistence doesn’t mean persisting with a single woman after a no, it means persisting in venturing to approach your 100th woman after getting a “no” from the previous 99.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:52 AM
2

Dude supporting Trump in 2020 is an extreme view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:11 AM
3

Lol. The use of “ruffians” reminds me of Eliot Rodger’s manifesto where he continuously referred to smirking jocks as “brutes”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:08 AM
4

Lol girls don’t use the term “tease” for guys that turn down sex with them after friendly conversation. Invariably, women have had the same “insult” for me when I express sexual disinterest in them: “Gay” Funny how this chick’s wokeness gets put on pause once their circuits short out from experiencing the jolting foreign sensation called “sexual rejection”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:43 PM
3

Sorry man but just lol at Bumble First, all that leads to is an endless string of messages saying “hey/hello/hi” and then you’re doing the same song and dance as before. In fact, on Bumble it seems women often have an even shittier attitude as they resent even having to have sent a “hi” in the first place. Second, male thirst goes away by having options, hence TRP’s obsession with “spinning plates.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:25 PM
3

As the ancient Buddhist proverb goes: “You can’t negotiate attraction”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:05 PM
2

It’s not your fault, but you truly don’t know what you’re talking about. Almost every single one of my LTR’s / STR’s started with the girl having a passive attitude. So you think guys get treated like Justin Bieber when they say “hello” to a woman? Lol. Nope It is incumbent on a man to make the girl laugh, be comfortable, feel sexy, feel “heard” etc etc. All while she’s looking around to see if there’s somebody better to talk to. And that’s after you reach the threshold of not being short or los…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:46 PM
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No. Most men have paternal / protective instincts towards women (for better or worse) and children. Women have no such instinct towards men, especially those they see as “weak”. It disgusts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:54 PM
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Thank you for this reply. This is actually great universal advice. It’s odd, in this thread, it seems like women are better able to look at the male experience with some nuance and empathy when they put themselves in the position of the man rather than the context of being the “prey” of men. My opinion is that the exercise ultimate has to acknowledge the following: Men have a much stronger sexual imperative than women which leads to the rejection hitting harder as it feels like a fundamental fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:51 PM
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Grew up with nothing but women - single mom, 3 older sisters, 2 aunts and a grandmother- only male was estranged father who was absent / drunk through my entire childhood. I was also the youngest. Recipe for success right? I’ll tell you what advice you get: None “Be yourself” Shamed for trying to change Shamed for doing anything masculine that doesn’t serve women More insidious than simply not being taught “how to man”, is that by merely growing up with only a female perspective, you internalize…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Correct. I have no interest in “RMV”. If there was going to be a time in my life that I experience a high end escort this would be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:45 AM
1

I am fixing the problem shortly. With a high end escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:09 AM
1

Please tell me in the midst of a pandemic, lockdown and riots am I supposed to just head out and find “commitment” what is between either having a relationship or no hope of finding one? No women on OLD are giving anything but pen pals unless you’re Chad then they’ll gladly break quarantine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:06 AM
0

I’ve got my reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:55 AM
1

I need pussy. It’s pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:55 AM
1

I refuse to masturbate. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:32 AM
2

A poll about sitting down and discussing every sexual act you’ve ever had with every sexual partner before a second date? Sure hon. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:28 AM
2

Wonderful. How is life in the Mormon church these days btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:21 AM
2

Great! This is totally news to me. In my decades of life I’ve never once had a girl say “wait! Before we do this, there’s something you should know ...” but I’m sure you’re doing that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:12 AM
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Ok. You might want encourage all of your girlfriends to let every guy know any anomalies in their sexual histories to a guy right away then. Threesomes, group sex, interracial, girl-girl plenty of guys would have “issues” with those so ... I trust you’ll be just as vociferous in a scolding your sisters for not doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:06 AM
2

Oh? So if I sleep with a girl and she doesn’t tell me “I once fucked an entire basketball team” but then tells me later is that “manipulation”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:01 AM
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And I’m telling you I wouldn’t tell those women until after we had sex, and if they had a problem with it then they can bounce and I’d be happy to see them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:51 AM
1

Douchebag men hung up on what girls do with their own bodies are not my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:47 AM
1

men openly have double standards and judge women aggressively for their sexual history Not this man. Your Puritanism is your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:40 AM
1

Except women do not have the sex drives of men and women can order dick in minutes and many are doing just that. They do not understand what it’s like to have testosterone and feeling like semen is backing up into your brain any more than a man can understand pregnancy. Your pearl clutching is evidence of solipsism and lack of empathy and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:25 AM
1

During a pandemic with no other options? You do a poll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:23 AM
1

Yeah I’m not trying to do any weird shit at all so hopefully that makes things easier for everybody involved. I will say last year, before quarantine I basically got rolled by a couple of pro’s who I had no idea were working. We hung out, did nothing but drink and listen to music and talk shit for a few hours and then basically said “ok, now you need to compensate us for our time”. So yeah, not interested in getting hustled again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:05 AM
1

Absolutely, I fully admit that this is not a route everybody is comfortable with. It obviously makes it hard for me to relate to “squares”. I also know this is a sort of elitism in itself and my therapist calls me out on it, so I’m working on it. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:03 AM
1

This is literally a 1-2 time thing until quarantine ends. I just can’t fucking take another week of no intimate contact. That’s what it boils down to. I broke up just before this all started to go down, and since it started it’s obviously impossible to go through the usual meet, date, sex ritual. And now with daily anger over the shit the cops, Trump and his supporters have been doing and the fact that they never seem to hit bottom; it’s really starting to effect my mental health negatively. I n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:00 AM
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Gotcha. Will stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:57 PM
1

What about hinge or other (non tinder) dating sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:49 PM
1

God Bless You. 🤜🤛
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:48 PM
2

That sounds suspiciously like “most women wouldn’t be with a man that watches porn”. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:16 PM
3

Do you feel like you represent the views of most women or the views of women with an axe to grind?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:04 PM
1

Again you are commenting on it so you apparently are interested enough. You’re free to read another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:02 PM
1

Yah. I understand that thinking. For me personally I like to be an open book and like my partner being that way too. I tend to like crazy stories and find that odd experiences make people more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:56 PM
1

Thanks. I’m glad to know I have your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:53 PM
2

Well considering the fact that I’ve dated everyone from single moms, lawyers and teachers in addition to strippers and ex sex workers I’d say I’m not really judgmental about that. You, on the other hand ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:50 PM
1

Still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:33 PM
1

So posting a passive aggressive non question question isn’t “bad faith”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:32 PM
1

I don’t. This is a straw poll to see what women’s attitudes are about it as if I ever had a relationship with a woman I gave a shit about I’d want to be open about it as I’d want her to be open about her past. What’s the point of a relationship if you have to hide and deny your life experience from your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:50 PM
1

Dear Karen, you are not obliged to shop in our store. There is no need to call the manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:48 PM
1

Why are you commenting on this thread like an attention seeker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:44 PM
0

People also used to crank start cars. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:44 PM
1

I’d make sure not to tell you until after we had sex a few times. If you suddenly feel betrayed after that, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:44 PM
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While I agree with the fact that it isn’t a great feeling to have to pay for physical intimacy, I disagree that it is necessarily any more exploitative than making some dude spin a sign board in 90 degree weather for $6 an hour. Every single argument applies can apply to those men or the people who pick your lettuce. You’ll never convince me otherwise. Women commodified pussy as much as men have. Finally, I’ve got plenty of issues (physical and otherwise) am I not worthy of sex just because wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:43 PM
1

Thank you. That means a lot coming from somebody who believes it is better to have sex with inanimate objects than people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:29 PM
1

Question: Do you believe how people behave in niche Internet communities is the same way they behave in the general public?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:27 PM
1

Well I think it’s clear from my posts that I see this situation as a near emergency for my mental health so, once shit is back to normal and I engage in the normal dance of meeting and dating women, then I don’t see myself ever doing this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:17 PM
1

What if it’s a woman I’ve known for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:16 PM
0

That’s fair. Most men will just masturbate. I refuse to do this right now for personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:07 PM
2

True. I believe I’ve said as much. Just wanted to see what consensus was on this forum among women. It seems about 50/50 provided the escort is verified to not be in a shady situation. This leads me to believe its likely to be closer to 70/30 ok with it IRL due to the preponderance of FDS types on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:06 PM
2

So to get this straight - you do not believe there is any ethical way for a woman with full agency over her body to use her sexuality to make money? Is this your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:58 PM
1

First, I myself and plenty of other guys would not “excoriate” a single woman sleeping around. Don’t think TRP’ers rhetoric is for everybody. Still, in the same breath you seem to be saying that it is ok for a woman to sleep around to satisfy her sexual urges but not for a man to pay a professional. That seems incongruous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:47 PM
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Oh no doubt. About 50 / 50 of my various have been OLD / IRL meetings. OLD was hard enough before - But in quarantine, it’s just not going to happen for a guy unless you are giga Chad. The only light at the end of the tunnel here is indeed the hopeful re-opening is social events but that’s an ever moving target.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:45 PM
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Porn is bad mm Kay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:42 PM
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My guess is you “justify” your way out of: Buying Chinese made shoes Buying smart phones Diamonds Cheap produce Despite the fact that all of those things are produced with exploited labor (or worse) so you can miss me with your attempt at moralizing unless you walk the walk. Spoiler alert - You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:41 PM
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So women are just going to appear at my doorstep because a man meets the threshold of “fuckable”? Is that you’re going with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:36 PM
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FDS has left its stench on too much here for it to not color any shaming language coming from women on PPD unfortunately. And just lol at “read erotica”. Solipsism alert. Just because women flocked to 50 shades doesn’t mean that’s how men’s mind and sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:35 PM
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Thanks. I have my own trauma and trust issues also based around being cheated on so I can absolutely empathize with that. Shit, it was the continuous cheating and lying from women that led time to TRP in the first place. But this situation is unrelated. You are right that it is as much about experiencing a human connection as anything else. I might even consider paying to “hang out” with an escort. Why? Is that super simp mode? Possibly, but I legit like hanging out with off beat people and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:32 PM
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Lol. Well I’m mid 40’s before pandemic I’ve been in LTR’s with women in their 20’s, so under normal circumstances I’m fine. My point is, you are delusional if you think a normal dude is able to pick up the phone and order pussy like dominoes. Look up solipsism, hon. You has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:28 PM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:25 PM
1

If “don’t want to be doing what they’re doing” is the threshold for any job done voluntarily, well - there are A LOT of whores in the world, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:24 PM
2

TF are you talking about? Do you even know how sex works for men? You seem to think guys live the sex lives of Drake or a professional athlete. Fuck outta here with that FDS Queen nonsense. Just because all you have to do is spread your legs and snap your fingers doesn’t mean that’s the world men live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:21 PM
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Oh that’s right. According to FDS you must close your eyes and imagine some non-problematic fantasy like a plus sized model with a monster box chastising you about the patriarchy while you apologize repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:19 PM
1

Respect 🤜🤛 Excellent points - especially the one about promiscuous women being good at sex. Can confirm that is BS. With sex, I come at it from a similar perspective but with a different conclusion. We all have our vices, and enjoying your body / sexuality (responsibly) is probably one of the best of them. Since I have my own weird / intense sexual urges, I am in no place to judge a woman who has her own. I also tend to prefer the company of people who have “been around” more than people that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:17 PM
2

Lol. Did you just compare a woman’s ability to get a “dick appointment” from her gaggle of orbiters to a man getting new pussy to come to his house during a pandemic? Think about that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:13 PM
1

Yeah, like I said in another post - If I did this I would pay for 2 hours. One hour just hanging out, having drinks, talking, watching comedy, listening to music Then, if it’s not feeling utterly creepy and awkward just be physical for an hour after that. By no means do I see this as a “habit”. This is strictly a “break in case of emergency” situation for me. I’m not proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:12 PM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:10 PM
2

Ok cool. This sounds consistent and I honestly admire the sentiment. Do you apply the same criticisms to promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:09 PM
1

God bless ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:04 PM
1

Thanks. Appreciate the help. FWIW - I am not the type of man to want to be in a relationship with a woman that would shame me for anything (I’m also an ex con) as I am not the kind of guy who would shame a woman for sleeping around or even being a sex worker. I actually get along with / prefer the company of “damaged” degenerates, so Karen can keep her starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:03 PM
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My question would be that, if the man admitted to doing this DURING a nationwide lockdown where he literally had no option and no idea if / when he would have an option to obtain sex the “right” way - would that mediate your judgement? Because believe me, I’ve never ever seen myself even considering doing this, but the cracks are happening and it’s fucking with my mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:01 PM
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You are equating your experience as a woman going without sex to a man’s despite not having balls, semen and testosterone to consider. Do you even physiology? It would be me like telling a woman I “understand” how hard it is being pregnant. Empathy. Women don’t has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:59 PM
1

It is causing my major mental health problems and porn is “bad” according to FDS because Sasha Grey and Abella Sanger might be being “trafficked”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:56 PM
1

I’m curious, do you judge fat people who can’t control their appetites for food in the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:55 PM
0

Except one is done out of need and one is done out of greed. There is no equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:52 PM
1

Do you have balls that contain semen? Do you have empathy with people with different lives experiences than you? Do you judge men as if they live the same lives of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:52 PM
1

Well I’m down for a good throat fucking in porn, but half my girlfriends asked me to do that, so how is that “abusive” versus, say, anal (which I’ve not done)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:47 PM
1

Again. It’s no substitute for human to human contact. The male mind starts doing odd things when you don’t have that physical touch. I suppose I don’t expect women to understand what it’s like to live with testosterone and very real sense that your pent up libido is starting to poison your brain, but maybe .... empathy? Oh wait. That’s right. Men don’t get that. Also, it’s been made clear by many women on this sub that using porn is basically as bad or worse than hiring a vetted escort so, I’d b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:45 PM
1

Isn’t that kind of implied in the whole “pay for sexy” bargain?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:40 PM
1

But porn is bad right? Also, how is that a substitute for the need for physical skin-to-skin contact with another human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:40 PM
1

Even in light of the corona lockdowns where there is literally no choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:38 PM
1

Wrong. This is more like a man dying of thirst in the desert drinking his own pee to walk one more mile. Not attractive, but totally understandable. A slut fucking half the town is like a fat person bringing a cake to a birthday party and eating the whole thing themself. Sure, you can find it “unattractive” but you’d be a shit person for judging them equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:37 PM
-1

Oh thanks for letting me off with a warning, Officer. Let me delete the thread then. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:28 PM
3

So what is your advice to a man who has no access to a sexual partner for months or years? Just deal with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:25 PM
2

Thanks for the advice. I’ve been seeing a lot of attractive and seemingly not-trafficked independent escorts on OLD services like hinge. The temptation to contact one goes up daily. My concern is, yeah, don’t use one who is being forced into it by somebody else and that they are reasonably trust worthy as they will presumably be in my apartment. How does one search for escorts on twitter? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:23 PM
1

Would this be similar to how having a high n count effects a woman’s SMV? Also, if my SMV is low enough that I can’t get sex on demand as is, does it really matter if it goes even lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:15 PM
1

problematic, rape culture, mansplaining ... BINGO!!! I GOT BINGO!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:23 AM
1

Incels, have way it easier than hot chicks. I mean. Anything you say before or after this is rendered dog shit with this statement. You realize that don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:21 AM
2

Incels are incels because of mental disorders or because they are flat out ugly and unattractive on a physical genetic level. Their mode of existence is not chosen and generally struggled against vehemently. Insta-Thots and tik tok girls not only choose that route but actively cultivate and profit from it. They get both validation and money from it. The fact that you can even attempt to equate the two is illustrative of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:50 PM
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I think objectively, in terms of getting your basic needs met, there is no “easier” and more privileged existence than that of the pretty, white, western woman. Their shitty attitudes, self importance and solipsism generally reflect this. Subjectively is another matter entirely. Because of neurodiversity, human beings individual definition of what is “easy” or “hard” are meaningless. Many people are utterly happy and fulfilled being near broke, growing their own food, doing back breaking manual …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:44 PM
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Humble brag defected. Also, most remotely attractive women act like men “owe” them rides everywhere, free dinners and shopping while their simp friend holds their purse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:28 PM
2

Maybe they feel compelled to, like their entire identity has been reduced to their looks via external sources, and they bought into it. ... and again. Nothing. Even pure thirst trapping insta-hoe, kardashian hustling behavior is ever, EVER a woman’s fault. If a woman ever acts without virtue it’s because men “made her” do it. Fuck outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:26 PM
2

Women are also generally more afraid than men on a day to day basis Because they are so used to being catered and acquiesced to that anything other than pure simpdom feels “threatening” And this attitude, boys and girls, is how the Central Park Karen was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:23 PM
2

This is admittedly a leap, but just based on your initial attempt at snark disguised as humor, I’d say it’s possible you might have played a part in your previous relationship issues. A person who claims things should “just work” is generally saying “just be my doormat” to their partner. Easy to make a relationship work when you find a partner who just acquiesces you whatever shit you throw at them. And in my experience, a huge amount of women expect this as they are told by just about everybody…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:38 PM
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The thing being missed in this thread is that the trauma caused by the opposite sex almost always involves people you thought “were different” than the rest from the jump. You can have all the bitter defenses in the world, but eventually human beings need intimacy and want love and companionship and will jump at the chance for it when somebody makes them feel safe enough to do so. The flaw in this is that people are not static. Women may start out pleasant, active, cafe free and kind girlfriends…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:43 PM
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I really hope parents of boys are preparing their boys how to navigate the temptations to simpdom. Boys taught the “women are wonderful” message at this point are sitting fucking ducks and will likely end up as Paypigs for these vapid thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:56 AM
2

Lmao. You goddamn FDS’ers really make me laugh. On one hand, no problem to DQ a man for merely watching porn because “muh trafficking” and “only LVM do that!” No insecurities evident to get over for the women there right? Nope. None. Out of the same mouth “any man who doesn’t accept and embrace that I do porn is an LVM and is unsuitable for dating!” You can’t make this shit up. Hamster doesn’t even begin to describe this. 🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:47 AM
1

Be honest and attacked. Like an adult. At least that way you don’t gas light a whole demographic of human beings into wondering why they can’t get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:07 AM
1

The only thing I’d add is that ugly tall dudes do not get the benefit of the doubt either, although they are not labeled in the same lazy demanding way short guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 02:59 AM
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No, but it definitely is shitty to lie to the world about why you are unattracted to that person in order to make yourself look more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 02:48 AM
1

Women want to have sex with men who have value to them. Chad has value by the simple fact that he is objectively hot and desired by many other women in general. It’s exciting for them to feel desired by a desirable man. The “boyfriend” has value through what he provides for that woman in particular. Comfort, humor, support, etc. It is exciting for a woman to be desired by a man who makes them feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:36 PM
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Fat TRP poster: “I want to bang this Stacy” TRP first question: “are you in shape?” TRP poster: “not really” TRP advice: FUCKING LIFT VS ——— Fat FDS poster: “I want to lock down this Chad I like” FDS first question: “Did he buy you an expensive dinner?” FDS poster: “Not really” FDS advice: “QUEEEEN! Fuck that LVM scrote moid! He doesn’t deserve a fa - I mean BRAVE queen like you. Get rid of him!” Your contention that women “already know” not to be fat is contradicted by the fact that so many wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:06 AM
2

Lulz. Riiigjt. And what of men’s desire for sexual variety?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:02 AM
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I only care if he chooses porn over me, which he never would. And you know this, how? Because he “says so”? Fuck outta here. The truth is you don’t know what the fuck he’s beating his meat to when you’re not around. You don’t know what he’s fantasizing about or craving either. Your delusion that him getting to see the same pair tits pussy and ass from a different angle for the thousandth time carries the same sexual excitement as 2 hot (and new) porn chicks eating eachother’s ass is pure delusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:01 AM
4

Also, he talked to them like regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:51 AM
6

Ask yourself this: How easy was it for Ted Bundy to repeatedly lure pretty college girls into his car and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:25 AM
1

That’s fair. I’ve known a few people from African countries and I’ve definitely observed the difference as well. Same with European blacks. I would still say this is a very unique case for a variety of reasons when talking about the US. The fact remains that being “positive”, while it will certainly lead to better outcomes in life, doesn’t change the fact that a smile and hello will be seen as a nuisance by the majority of women if you’re 5’6 and balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:07 PM
1

Ok. This I can agree with. I’ve seen it. Same with British blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:02 PM
8

This is the definition of anecdotal evidence. A black man receiving positivity regardless of gender? Even police? Lmao. That guy must be some kind of savant salesman. Hardly the typical male experience in general and most definitely not the way friendly men are received by most women. This sounds like solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:27 AM
50

If you want to hit on someone make friends and a social group and get to know women. Women do not want random strangers to approach them to chat them up. *except Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:56 AM
20

Are you a woman? Then people smiling at you had zero relevance when it comes to how men are treated by strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:54 AM
2

Case in point; Adele She had the audacity to improve herself and the FDS type buttergolems start crowing about what a traitor she is. The real reason they are pissed? Because a thinner, prettier Adele means she is no longer “one of them” and they can’t hold on to their delusion that fat is OK anymore. Also it’s one more pretty girl they have to compete against for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:05 PM
-3

Lol and how exactly does it help the fat toad in question when the rest of the delusional hogs are telling her the reason her “HVM” ghosted her is because he is actually just a “LVM” and not “worthy” of her? Tell me how the fuck that is being “positive”? All that feel good nonsense is utterly transparent and fake as you certainly know. Guys busting balls on each other is good natured bonding. It’s a way to hang a light on trauma and insecurity and remind each other shit isn’t that serious on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:33 AM
6

It doesn’t have to be “a lot” if some chick got dicked down by some dude that she gets wet thinking about, it is a matter of time before something “just happens” again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:19 AM
4

That too. But men are the “sick” ones for busting a nut to vanilla sex porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:18 AM
13

Yep. FDS hens will screech about not wanting to date “porn sick” men who have ever watched porn, yet every single one of them are “dick sick” for Chad’s breathtaking Thunder Cock
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:59 AM
5

Women that are codependent, caring, and nurturing to a fault. Women that sacrifice their own mental well being for somebody else. Women that are overly selfless. Yes those women could do for a dose of self worth and boundaries. By any measure of their words and actions, FDS women are NOT these women. A woman who chased Chad, got pumped and dumped and is salty about it, so she starts complaining about men being cheap, porn and video games instead of looking inward is not the same as the woman put…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:27 AM
4

I’m not operating under any fallacy. I never claimed all women do X. Of course there are plenty of women who give and give and get nothing in return. There are just as many women who are entitled, emotional vampires who use men and then blame the men for their own bad behavior. This is the type of personality that is overrepresented on FDS. Not the “I love too much type”, it’s the “I’m an obnoxious bitch and I’m pissed that he left” type. I see this attitude a lot with strippers and trashy women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:56 AM
3

The TARGET AUDIENCE of FDS is women who have consistently given more in relationships in a way that is not reciprocated. So it makes sense to as Actually it makes at least as much sense to assume these women are being shitty partners which is causing the guys to ghost. The thing they lack is any self awareness whatsoever. The only sin a “queen” can commit and be criticized for is to “pick the wrong guy” and not make a guy jump through enough hoops. You notice you never ever hear them tell each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:07 AM
1

I'm saying to withhold from Chad. Lmao. Yeah right. What is hilarious is even FDS has just straight up condoned fucking “hawt” Chads on the side to get sex while juicing up their provider simps until they commit. Girls will always fuck Chad. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:29 AM
4

Again, the assumption is that these women are already pros at bringing things to the table for the HVM The fact that you (or other FDS’ers) don’t see how utterly flawed and delusional this assumption is says all you need to know about FDS itself. Based on the incredibly cunty attitude of most FDS’ers, to “assume” that these women understand how to behave with social grace, ease and warmth is a ridiculous assumption. Say what you will about TRP, but the overall theme is for men to “get better” an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:11 AM
2

like it better than the manosphere subs because having women here with opposite perspectives helps keep me in check. Exactly. I can't stomach the actually TRP sub or even asktrp. For all its problems (mainly the FDS infestation) the actual honest debate and challenge to TRP ideas is what makes this forum valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:11 PM
0

Ok. Then men should be not only allowed but encouraged to wear lifts and hair pieces because he is “presenting the way women want him to present” right? Another example of women doing shit they can’t defend so the go to response is “‘men made us do it!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:55 PM
1

Ah that’s true actually. But it usually takes a literal gang rape from a pack of feral Chads who subsequently don’t call the girl back for a proper date before she decides to report them. The sometimes it’s just some chick that couldn’t lock down Chad after a drunk bootie call. See: Mattress Girl, Rolling Stone article, etc. With an average / ugly guy he gets #metoo’d for attempting an awkward kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:41 PM
1

Not relevant. My post was in response to the notion that there are women who are “beautiful people” ... those women are beautiful and “yas Queen” until Chad gets eyes for some other “Queen” then it’s “She’s a skanky slut!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:21 AM
1

Wouldn’t this depend on where you live? In CA it seems to be mostly white Bro types that are ignoring masks. Most other ethnicities are wearing them including Asians who are almost at 100% That said, I wonder if it’s different in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:18 AM
1

Hamster Supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:15 AM
1

Not a friend, just some other girl that is in the room that doesn’t even know you. Don’t act like women are above being way more judge mental about women who “think they’re cute” in any situation where they stand to lose the attention of a desirable male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:57 AM
1

As much as I fucking hate her as a celebrity and her little “look back with a pouty face” that she can’t seem to stop doing, I would pick that bitch up and fuck her like an oversized fleshlight. She is just so damn feminine and innocent looking I think I would probably blow a load just watching her get off. The one thing that is heartening is that I know, even with her, the Coolidge effect would eventually set in and I’d get sick of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:04 AM
3

Adam Driver would get labeled as a chincel, long midface freak on any black pill forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:01 AM
2

Months of compulsory military service taking shit for being “too pretty” (which she clearly cultivates) and the rest of her life on “tutorial mode” versus a fucking lifetime of being invisible at best and shit on by everyone frequently as an below average man or disfigured woman. Tough Choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:55 AM
2

Unless a man you are subconsciously competing for is in the vicinity. Then you will turn into a cunt on wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:51 AM
22

If dry pussy had a voice, it would sound like this guy. He reminds me of every annoying know-it-all kid in school telling the teacher she forgot to give us homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:48 AM
2

Maybe. But once they have them, every single woman I know with them also shows them off as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:13 AM
1

Damn that sucks for him. I’ll DM you later. 😋 Seriously, I’ve literally never even heard of it from friends. Shit, Chris Rock even had a bit about how rare it was TWENTY ONE years ago lol https://youtu.be/Z83mDocLRUo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:04 AM
2

I’ve never met a girl with fake boobs who didn’t have a guy they paid for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:56 AM
1

*Purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:55 AM
1

Put it this way, I’ve never met a single woman that didn’t give blowjobs. So on my chart blowjob is considered so common it’s not even listed (100%) So 50% of those women would actively try to go all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:55 AM
2

Yes. Holding it there for several seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:20 PM
1

That’s why they make chocolate and vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:14 PM
2

Ok I’ll try. Basically BJ is the common version of oral sex your see. Deep throat is basically when a girl takes the dick “all the way down”, where her nose is touching the guy’s pelvic bone. Depending on the size of the guy, this can require various levels of effort. This usually involves the girl pushing past her own gag reflex. Throat fucking is a more extreme version of deep throating where the guys is thrusting / fucking the girls mouth / throat. This usually gets messy and produces a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:13 PM
1

Cool. Freaks (like me) make life interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:09 PM
1

While this is true, the real and larger problem is that society provides massive amounts of cover and hamster fuel for shitty women. Even though every man knows how common bat-shit crazy, vindictive and narcissistic women are, they are told to shut up or told that they were the cause of the woman’s behavior in the first place. Society often rewards them for shitty behavior (see: Amber Heard) while men who are merely accused of a transgression are generally crucified and assumed guilty. And then …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:47 PM
1

I guess I wasn’t hot enough or they wanted to play around a bit. Pure simple truth. And not something a man should be condemned (or praised) for, yet every FDS’er would label such aa man as somehow defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:41 PM
1

Damn. Surprised by the high slapping number. Somehow I end up with the oral fixation chicks more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:07 PM
1

There’s a large area between “used as a pump and dump cum dumpster” and “Chad gets on one knee to profess his love” Chad will generally “date around” and doesn’t need to deceive or be an asshole, the girls (all girls) happily share him because they don’t want Billy the orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:04 PM
1

Possibly for commitment. Chad would only wife up a legit Stacy, but for dating and everything else, Chad will not commit to Stacy 1 when there is Stacy 2, 3, 4 and 5 are waiting for a “you up?” Text.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:39 PM
1

Correct. Chad’s are at the very top of the pyramid followed by stacies, followed by average women, followed by fat women. Sub-Chad men, old people, and disfigured or handicapped women make up the rest of the pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:34 PM
1

What part of "trafficking" don't you understand? The part where adult white middle class women who like quick money choose to use their own possession (their body) are trusted by society with their own decisions on how to make that money. And if you must know, I was forced at 18 to perform an act my boyfriend saw in a porn - I needed surgery afterwards. Which I’m very sorry for. That’s fucking horrible to be physically forced (not coerced, not “convinced”, not “paid”) to do something against you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:29 PM
0

Once again, women don’t have “the power to say no” but alcoholics do. You are using a lot of words but just making a fool out of yourself. I’m sorry you hooked your hate wagon to porn. I am indifferent to it. I believe it can be abused and it can be used as an occasional fun and pleasurable indulgence much like alcohol. I don’t believe it relies on exploitation any more than expecting that worker at the Amazon shipping facility is being exploited by having to work during a pandemic. Let’s take a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:36 PM
1

TIL, even porn produced, directed and starred in freely and willingly by women for large profits = “rape” but alcohol isn’t monetizing death, broken families and mental illness and is a matter of “personal responsibility” Put down the women’s studies honey. They’ve turned your mind into a soup of delusion, insecurity and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:22 PM
2

https://media.makeameme.org/created/invisible-lat-syndrome-fa090d28db.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:17 PM
2

They are only as good as the world allows them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:13 PM
1

[gestures to Chad’s harem] You want this, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:12 PM
2

So the countless lives ruined directly ruined by alcohol is not a problem because you and your husband “practice moderation”? Yet somehow a lonely guy with no sexual options beating off to multi millionaire Sasha Grey is evil incarnate. Gotcha. Makes total sense. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:10 PM
2

No idea what the fuck this has to do with the fact that, behind closed doors far far more women than you know or would ever admit to her own friends straight up ask to be choked and slapped and face fucked. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:05 PM
2

The why do you believe you know how common women’s sexual fantasies are better than men who actually fuck women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:48 PM
4

Just curious if those women are “porn sick” and do you scold and lecture them too. I’m also curious your thoughts on dating somebody who “supports” the following industries: Diamonds Sneakers Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:46 PM
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Lol you’re dumb. Women don’t work like men. Women only want the top 20% of men that are available. If you exterminated the entire “bottom 80%” of men, then women would just scrutinize / filter the remaining Chad’s in the same way so the new bottom 80 would have still to fuck fat hogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:43 PM
2

And of the women who watch gangbang porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:40 PM
0

Have you fucked women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:40 PM
1

I've heard this one is good: https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:02 PM
1

I used to laugh at concepts like this, but after this many failed relationships I’m starting to think it’s worth trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:57 PM
1

Honestly, I didn’t say a good girl can’t make your life better. They can. I’m just explaining the primal forces that drive our animal attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:55 PM
2

No. To men the primal frustrating “settling” feeling comes from being unable to fuck every girl that passes the boner test. That feeling is present no matter the quality of the girl he is committed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:53 PM
3

While “hawt” is subjective per demographic, objectively / genetically good looking guys will always win out, always in a group. As an example, I do pretty well out on my own, but when out with my Chad friend my entire game has to change because you can see the stars in the eyes of these chicks as soon as he shows up. Maybe they don’t fuck Chad, but his mere presence automatically makes other guys look worse by comparison. They are suddenly “second best” Likewise, I’ve gone to places with overwei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:29 AM
3

Dark Tri-Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:06 AM
1

Yep. You know all those gang bangs with drunk coeds are all going down in the STEM frats at MIT just like the they are at the LSU football team’s party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:01 AM
3

Chad’s come in every subgenre you dumb. Hipster twink Chad still has a symmetrical face, sharp jawline and “hunter” eyes. He’s just dressed different. Same with Art Chad, guitar Chad, Business Chad or even “Geek culture” Chad. . All the same shit. Women act like they have some complex criteria, but it’s literally “be in my social circle and be hot” - Then they will cheat on mediocre and boring Billy Beta for the exciting new “hawt” Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:55 AM
1

I did love that combination of loose at the bottom and tight on the ass. Wonder if it was a kind of Cankle hiding thing. I remember Kim Lardassian wearing them a lot. I hate the stupid “asymmetrical torn sweater” shit they all do now along with the chunky man watches and “norm core” shows. I mean, it’s insane how quickly women jump on that shit whether it looks good on them or not. Really shows you just how their tastes and interests literally just blow with the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:31 AM
2

Because he’s 🇹🇩🌩🐔.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:24 AM
1

Trust me, I would legit get shredded by any “rate me” much less on this sub. Other than not being short / fat and being white I legit have every strike against me. Big nose, weak chin (hidden by a fair beard thank god), bad skin, shitty asymmetric eyes, small dick, etc. I’m a mess. But I can make girls relax because they feel zero pressure to impress me, so lots of times I get the girls that just want to slum it for a while or give in to their daddy issues. I’ll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:11 AM
1

I mean there are some guys that can lean into it and created a kind of twisted sexy appeal so it happens. See: tony soprano and Patrice O’Neal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:09 AM
1

5’11 so, not tall but not short - I don’t have the #1 disqualified but I’m significantly balding so I have the #2 disqualifier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:29 PM
1

Bingoooo. It’s about being the right kind of ugly in the right scenario. I seem to do well with hot chicks visiting my city who want an escape from their boring midwestern existence even if it means “banging that weird guy from the bar”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:28 PM
16

Wrong question. Correct question: Would women rather fuck a stern, serious Chad or an animated, happy go lucky beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:21 PM
2

Fat girls don’t count. ... for anything. Worse than masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:18 PM
45

Ah yes ... “The Secret” is still going strong. “Just smile bro!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:17 PM
13

I think this is why so many women like to have filthy, degrading sex. Because once all of the set dressing and niceties and comfortable lies they tell themselves and each other are stripped away, they know they are getting away with murder. When they meet a guy they know they can let their facade down with , they immediately want to relax and finally acknowledge what pieces of shit they are most of the time and they can finally be treated as such. It’s like CEO’s that like to be shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:07 PM
1

Winner. 🎰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:20 PM
3

Yeah I don’t really understand the reasoning here. I mean addicts of any kind are encouraged to get help when their addiction is threatening their health and well-being. You wouldn’t pussy foot around somebody to tell them to lay off the booze if they were drinking a pint of vodka every day, even if they were functional in every other way. There’s the argument that “they already know” they are fat but the “healthy at any size” horse shit is legit dangerous delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:34 PM
2

Exactly this. It’s really just the whole atmosphere around her fatness and “yas Queen” shit that is obnoxious. Cases in point her display at the NBA game being cheered on and people attacking the female trainer who dared to say “diabetes isn’t cool” As a human being she seems like a really nice person that I wouldn’t mind having a beer with though. that’s the thing about celebrities really. You are generally choosing whether or not you like their “brand” rather than the actual person because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:49 PM
2

She actually has a cool personality TBH . but what she represents is so fucking hateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:21 PM
0

Any time you ask women “what do you like” you will receive an avalanche of virtue signaling and declarations of what pure flowers they are. It’s like asking women how to attract women and hearing “just be yourself” It’s worse than useless information. Also purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:08 PM
3

You either suck Trump Tower or you leave Trump Tower. It’s called “the art of the deal” people. We’re gonna make very strong very tough deals Okay? Not alotta people know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:00 PM
1

Can you recommend any good scenes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:56 PM
1

Lulz. Typical women only posting about the “loving, nurturing lovemaking” Except, men know that pussy gets the most wet and sloppy when the choking and hair pulling starts. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:55 PM
1

Considering my normal face looks like a catcher’s mitt, I never ever want to see my sex face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:48 PM
3

Came here to post this. I will regularly nail a pretty chick in the face with a load shot pulling out from missionary. With a non-sexy check that shit invariably never passes her stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:43 PM
1

Ugh that one still hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:32 PM
1

Aborigine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:31 PM
1

This is good. Real good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:30 PM
1

Do I have to call Travis?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:29 PM
1

A.) The problem isn’t that “sweet man” the problem is you and your twisted attitudes about sex and commitment (and using sex as a currency to secure it) B.) Purge Week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:26 PM
1

Ah. He just seemed like he wasn’t particularly bothered by it. Although he did acknowledge he had outright hookup offers. Even the edgelords were easily fixable from what I could tell. These guys got in the doc because they could speak relatively well and be watchable for 90 minutes is my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:05 AM
2

They’re not fake if I can touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:59 AM
2

Oh the simp thing was a different event altogether. If anything I was the simp in the married couple story as I had to sit there and watch Chad get fawned over all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:57 AM
1

Any guy who makes that offer is either: Lying Castrated Gay Has no other option Or some combination of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:56 AM
1

Lol good description. You forgot about the lastgymcel (or is that the mentalcel?) But yeah I only really thought the fat philosopher dude was the only candidate for true inceldom and even he said he got female attention occasionally. I do think that it was a decent peek into the life of isolated 4chan troll posters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:54 AM
2

Not really. After stripping down to her underwear and dancing for us, she was still trying to bang my Chad friend, and I finally just left when she started crying (probably came to her senses and realized how fucked up the situation was) and the husband kicked him out shortly after that. Funny thing is they were both talking about how they were launching careers in politics or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:51 AM
1

TIL, not wanting to go without sex for 6 months makes you “depraved and sex-focused” rather than a normal human adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:48 AM
2

Ah the ole trumpet nose. Love those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:46 AM
1

Hey if it’s Reservoir Dogs era Buscemi, that’s bad ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:36 AM
1

So I'm gonna pull down my pants, and then I'm gonna need you to take that pouty mouth of yours and swallow up my balls. Now, they're big and hairy, especially the left one, so you're really gonna have to, I don't know, squish 'em up to get 'em inside there. You're probably gonna have to do one cheek at a time. But then, once they're all warm and snug in there, I want you to repeat your question to me as clearly as you can. Then, and only then, am I willing to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:34 AM
1

If you expect an attractive guy to go dry dicked for you for 6 months or more, you’re definitely going to be going the arranged marriage route.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:31 AM
2

I’m gonna split.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:29 AM
2

I didn’t punch you. You’re not punched. You’re such a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:14 AM
1

In other words you’re holding out for a man that you are both attracted to and yet has no options. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:13 AM
3

Um don’t underestimate the matches you’ll get solely by “accidentally” displaying the John Hamm dickprint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:01 AM
3

In other news: If Chad won’t commit to you , you are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:56 AM
1

Lol yes. Guys will always tell the truth when you ask “what are you looking for?”. Keep using that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:55 AM
2

Lol. No you dumb. Any man below a male model or celebrity has to at least use some kind of game / charm. I can smell your solipsism over the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:51 AM
4

Lmao. OP thought she had an uncontested layup before it got swatted out of her hand from behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:49 AM
27

Even in this FDS fever dream, Elliot Rodger is still creeping in from the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:38 AM
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The second story gets worse as me and my friend ended up back at their expensive hotel room which was decorated in rose petals with 2 bottles of champagne. It was fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:26 AM
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Probably. It was a play on words and it’s late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:25 AM
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Nah. You qualify as PAWG status from that angle. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:11 AM
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Chadly as in how is their behavior influence by Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:10 AM
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Watch the show “The Boys”. You’ll flap to the popclaw scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:43 AM
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Is there a reason these pics are all taken from above your stomach? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:42 AM
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Yes. Correct. Low value men don’t care about shitty personalities. Hence, FDS women will end up with those men. sane men will find the notion of an FDS woman having an attractive personality fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:51 AM
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Dude. No. Just no. Women talk mad shit about short guys IRL all the fucking time. Long live the prophet Bagel Boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:42 AM
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Settle down Beavis. It’s purge week. Racists gonna ... race.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:40 AM
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Except at least TRP has a very strong element of self improvement to go along with its toxic circle jerk. FDS has ... free dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:22 AM
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But I also think some of it has been ingrained into us by society, women are hyper self conscious about their looks, and feel like they have to be as small as possible, especially when next to their man, lest they be judged harshly. I take their criticism as a reflection of their own internal struggle. And the “women are wonderful” hamster on full display right here. Do you women hear yourselves when you say shit like this? And then you wonder why men “don’t take you seriously” Because even when…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:20 AM
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Yet your sisters will gleefully shred men in every way for being under 5’10. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:15 AM
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We already know that having a great personality and taking care of ourselves does the job. Wait wha- I mean - hah - you cant be seri- hahaha - FDS? hahaha - great HAH pers-bahaha Ahahahaha haha. Fuck. BWAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:10 AM
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Panorama mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:02 AM
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Highly unlikely anybody but a fictional Disney character gets through FDS vetting, but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:51 AM
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Find a guy that makes you feel safe enough that you *want* to be a slut for him. That should be your goal. Not swearing off dirty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:43 AM
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See, hon, this is what is called "hamstering" you either liked it or you didn't. You don't get to play the "I liked it cause they did" card. That's what children do. You are (presumably) an adult woman. Example, if I eat a girl's pussy, I say I like to eat pussy. I don't say "I do it because she wanted me to, so I felt pressured into it" - That's kiddie shit. Them 'liking it' is an inherant part of the act. Same with fucking. If the girl doesn't like being fucked by me, I don't want to engage in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:26 AM
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Well hell, there you go. If it doesn’t turn you on, of course don’t do it! I’m confused as to why you would choose (on your own) to watch “abusive porn” if you weren’t into it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:39 AM
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But do you want to be doing those things. That is the question. Simply not “wanting to want” something is another matter entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:30 AM
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If you were letting dudes throat fuck you and do anal on day 1 you got bigger problems than some cult like FDS can solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:01 AM
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Lol that sounds kind of hot. Really though, I would hope you aren’t doing things like that with somebody you don’t feel safe with (emotionally and physically) if you were doing that, you were putting yourself in dangerous situations and should indeed stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:54 AM
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Lol, if getting slapped, choked and throatfucked gets you wet, I got some bad news, that ain’t gonna just go away. In fact, you are making it even more of a risk by declaring it “forbidden” which will only up the kink factor. Trying to self impose some arbitrary moral code on your own sexuality doesn’t usually end well. Just ask the Catholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:48 AM
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I’m talking about your bizarre attitudes and guilt you obviously feel about the sex you like in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:28 AM
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Except you are so extreme in your values it’s not enough for you to simply avoid porn because it’s a problem for you you demand that anybody you date does so as well. That is the definition of judgmental and extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:27 AM
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You sound exactly like a religious bigot against gay marriage because “anal sex is unnatural”. And also “it’s Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve” etc. How do you not realize that you are the one with the warped outlook here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:25 AM
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Lol. You sound like a gay preacher trying to pray his gay away. Sexuality does not work like that honey. You like what you like. If you got hurt (emotionally) you can learn from that experience and take steps to avoid that in the future. What does that has to do with the way you like to fuck? And yes, no doubt many sex workers come from abuse. You know who else does? Comedians. They go out and stand (emotionally) naked in front of a crowd every time they perform for money. They are literally mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:14 AM
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Yes. It is indeed ok because their health is looked after during scenes. It’s ok because stars can opt out and still get a “kill fee”, it’s ok because women in porn can generally pick their costars. I don’t know what kind of underground snuff films you’ve been watching but anything from Brazzers, Bang Bro’s et al is going to be pretty damn on the level. And “ethical porn” lmao. Yeah I’m sure that’s real hot. Kind of like Tig Notaro’s comedy is “funny”. After all, if any group is known for their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:09 AM
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In my experience, unless you have the “love having his dick inside you while making eye contact” kind of trust first, you don’t even make it to the slapping, spitting, choking sex. That kind of sex requires a next level connection. Maybe you’re different and that’s fine. And, again, you’re bringing up fucking Child porn? Lmao. Well, very brave if you to take a stand against kiddie porn. Hats off. Do you know what reductio ad absurdum is? Let’s take Sasha Grey, one of the filthiest most degenerat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:03 AM
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The point is, your definition of “it” is flawed. It would be like saying you won’t watch movies because Harvey Weinstein existed. Do you see how ridiculous that is? Porn CAN be exploitative just like many other industries can. You know what you do? Make sure those industries aren’t breaking the law. For example, by all accounts the porn industry has stringent STD testing in place. They aren’t fucking street walkers, it’s a legitimate industry at this point. Will some in porn take advantage of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:54 AM
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Look if you felt like you were going down some rabbit hole of legitimately fetishizing abuse, then, that is indeed a problem but it is YOUR problem and not something you should broad brush others with. Again, the porn stars are not consenting? It does indeed sound like you were watching “facial abuse” type stuff where girls are forced to puke on cocks and then drink it back. So you watching some scene of a girl being abused is the same as a vanilla threesome video Chad watches to get a nut off? …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:49 AM
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Lol. “Very wrong”? What kind of porn are you watching? Eastern European glory hole massacres? Facial abuse? Max Hardcore? Why would deny yourself the pleasure of rubbing one out to a good scene that gets you off, especially during quarantine? It makes zero sense and is indicative of you having some deeper sexual dysfunction IMO (ie it is possible for porn to become a destructive force in people’s lives) Can you describe the last scene you masturbated to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:37 AM
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You may not want to be judgmental and hyperbolic but you indeed are being that way. Those ridiculous arguments are the same as saying “alcohol contributes to domestic violence” and “buying weed supports cartel killings” or “iPhones are made in sweatshops” I’m guessing you don’t give a flying fuck if your perspective boyfriend drinks, smokes weed or owns a pair of nikes do you? You wouldn’t be dumping your man for buying that “blood diamond” in the engagement ring either. At least be honest - You…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:30 AM
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Ok, but FDS is pretty straightforward and explicit in their list of demands. For a man to even make it past step 3 he has to have passed all manner of crazy tests (doesn’t watch porn is a favorite) that they will get nobody but liars, nofap freaks or religious nuts. Also, if FDS’ers are getting guys always wanting to jump from 1 to 7 it is indicative of them being Chad chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:42 PM
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Elections always favor the more “enthusiastic” support not the “most” support... and nobody is more enthusiastic than the Trump Nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:16 PM
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Lol stop. What “odds” is FDS willing to put up with? A 102% chance of getting wifed up because Chad French kissed you? Most well adjusted human beings go through a similar process: 1 - attracted to person 2 - meet person 3 - decide if you want to go on date with person 4 - decide if you like person 5 - decide if you want to continue dating person 6 - decide whether or not to have sex with person 7 - decide if you want to commit to person for a long term relationship FDS thinks they can flip 6 an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:14 PM
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The thing is, FDS’ers don’t seem to understand the difference between “open to a relationship” which is most guys and “determined to find a relationship” which is most FDS’ers. FDS game playing and shit tests are repellent to any healthy minded man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:15 PM
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Cue Tywin Lannister ... 🤴🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:12 PM
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A.) Sometimes people start relationships with one feeling and end them with another. B.) Maybe the girl reeeeeally sucked at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:14 PM
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Lol. Telly from the movie “Kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:13 PM
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This is literally like saying “just because sally was nice to you and said you a girl would be lucky to have you doesn’t mean she wants sex!” Reading anything short of affirmative and enthusiastic consent to a committed, exclusive relationship is NOT fucking “breadcrumbing” or whatever made up SJW word of the week you want to use. It’s a girl hamstering so she doesn’t have to feel guilty for fucking a guy without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:10 PM
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At this point, the fact that you can support a patent idiot like Trump with a straight face and not see how dumb it makes you look speaks for itself. What remains of Trump’s support are basically the equivalent of the Branch Davidian’s huddling together as the compound begins to burn. You all know you fucked up, but you’ve come too far on the trump train that you can’t jump off without your entire reality crashing down around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:57 PM
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I could give a fuck what a trans person wants to be addressed as. I will respect their decision and address them however they want, but the PC crowd really screwed up with this “gender” terminology as most people think of it the same way as biological sex at birth and that will never, ever change. This isn’t like marriage where it’s literally a social construct, it’s fucking basic science. If the word used was “sexual identity” then these stupid “huhuh 2 genders” memes would not be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:55 PM
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Waking up with a fat chick with skank so bad it lingers for days is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:50 PM
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Lol. Right. Trump is a regular Warren Buffet or Bill Gates. Real meaningful contributions to the world he made with Trump Steaks and Ivanka’s jewelry line. Gonna guess you’re the kind of genius who defended Trumps “inject the disinfectant” brainstorm too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:48 PM
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If hating somebody is rent-free occupancy, than Hillary has been squatting in Republicans heads for generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:46 PM
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Lmao. The only thing funnier than this post are the reactions from the FDS’ers on this thread. This clearly hit home with them. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:43 PM
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I will say I’ve seen a (precious) few light bulbs / “now I can understand” moments happen in the more reasoned debates where effort was made to communicate in ways the other party can relate to. Basically, there are some very fine people on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:49 AM
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As did I - well, more than usual at least. Look, I agree with just about every word you wrote here about being self aware about your biases and how your life experience colors your perception of people, groups, characteristics, etc. No argument there. My argument in discussions like this is, and always will be based around the 'empathy gap'. Is it whining? Maybe. But, again - I'm on a debate forum to debate. Arguing on the internet is by definition toxic and pointless in and of itself, but, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:52 AM
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A.) you are aware this forum is called “purple pill debate” right? There is no benefit to arguing with strangers on the Internet other than killing time. I agree. Yet, here we (both) are. At best, hearing peoples perspectives allows me to navigate the world understanding a bit better knowing how people see themselves. B.) I know nobody gives a fuck. While I likely haven’t had to feel the pain and recover from what you experienced, I’ve been through my share of shit. Jail, watching family die, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:41 AM
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Well truly, you are one of the very few women who basically lives the life of an average man. Where dating and romance is a constant uphill climb if not an outright exhausting battle. And for the last time, this isn’t about “whining” about the ways it is, it’s about not letting dumb Karen’s crow about how they have it hard because Chad didn’t wife them up after their 3 month fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:01 AM
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A.) what is your definition of “pump and dump” then? Is it any hook up? Is it when a girl fucks a dude and wants more? Is it when the guy lies? Because in my experience it very often means “I fucked this guy because I was horny but now I’m going to claim he deceived me / somehow non-verbally implied commitment to create plausible deniability against being the type of girl who sport fucks out of simple physical attraction, but I’ll still run my clit thinking about it later”. Even the worst of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:56 AM
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Erm. No the difference is having to absorb the fact that you are so fundamentally undesirable that you literally have to pay somebody to bottle their disgust long enough to give the illusion of physical intimacy versus having a meaningless, primal fling that at least superficially affirms your value as a human being (you are desired) even if at a very basic level. Women are mad that they don’t get the free desert with the free dinner because food is so abundant to them. Men are mad they don’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:16 AM
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All I’m hearing from your hamstering is “women don’t like sex outside of a committed relationship” which, due to solipsism likely means that’s how you feel. People who actually fuck women know better. No idea the relevance of your humble brag of having orbiters. Is that supposed to mean something? As I said, you scoff at the idea that “dick is cheap”. Wait until the day you can’t get dick at all. You’ll be singing a different tune as literally every woman does when they face the loss of their se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:13 AM
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So temporary intimacy vs no intimacy whatsoever. Hmmm. What would most people choose? Help me out here. And you are being obtuse here. First, the Fry cook won’t even let the starving man in the restaurant. Second, the fry cook is fucking Gordon Ramsey and this believes they deserve no less. Why do women have this delusion that men are demanding porn stars and models? Most guys would be perfectly content with a sub average woman (aka fry cook). The problem is those sub average women don’t want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:03 AM
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I’m fully aware about those ridiculous “I’m such a virtuous woman” dating ideas. They were called “the rules” the author of which has since been divorced multiple times, and and before that they were spouted by other disingenuous assholes like “Dr.” Laura who herself engaged in the very shit she scolds women for. It’s nothing new. Women can’t accept they are the same shallow pieces of shit that men are because self awareness and brutal honest isn’t comfortable. So they live in the comfortable fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:05 AM
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Nope. Nice try but not even close. First “zero emotional payoff for most women” except, you know, engaging in the basic human function of authentic physical intimacy and being desired. Your contention that having sex with a willing partner has no “payoff” is laughable. Also, have you noticed how the equivalent of a woman’s experience is not one which involves her also paying for sex, but one in which she finds it “worthless” since she doesn’t get commitment out of it? Women like sex. Women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:00 AM
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Lol you just spouted FDS talking points and you’re gonna talk about “whiners”. Stop it. Here’s a hint - just about every woman will claim the dude that pumped and dumped her was a “sociopath• as you just implied. It’s women’s favorite get out of jail free card when they can’t just admit they wanted to fuck Chad at any cost. And lol @ the whole “vetting” thing. Another piece FDS horseshit which is an end around to transfer the blame and focus away from ones own low value. “He didn’t refuse to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:53 AM
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Lol it only gives “no payoff” because most women’s dopamine systems are fucking fried to a crisp with the steady stream of likes, orbiters, and DM’s even if they never leave the house. When out of the house, any woman that is above a morbidly obese hambeast will get asked out at some point just by fucking existing. Your claim that being seen as sexually attractive is of no value to women is laughably and demonstrably false. Simply look at how women react to the loss of that power after once havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:45 AM
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Good. Then dismiss any hamster’s complaint about getting lied to, and pumped and dumped by Chad and tell them that they simply aren’t hot enough to impose FDS rules on any man with options. Because that is also “what is”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:38 AM
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You sound like you are equating casual sex with prostitution. They are not in the same fucking planet. Also.. now women don’t like sex for its own sake? Ever? Fascinating. It totally conflicts with my many years of dating them and seeing their behavior when a “hawt” guy shows up. Hint, they aren’t crying and taking rape showers after getting dicked down by Chad. Only when they “make a mistake” and get drunk enough to bang a non Chad. Also, if being sexually desired is of such little value to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:34 AM
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The “low N count” requirement is LARPing nonsense. Most guys would give any semi-cute girl a chance. I’m not “mad” at the market, I’m annoyed at the seemingly endless amounts of women who continue to deny their unearned privilege in it and dismiss those living in emotional poverty as whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:31 AM
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Wrong. There are zero emotional nutrients in paying for sex with a partner that doesn’t even want to be there. That is emotional poison IMO. Say what you will about a string of drunk hookups but you will at least get the basic human experience of flirting, willing human contact and voluntary affection. The difference here is “I know I can have sexual intimacy at will but I want more than that!” Vs “I can’t even get a someone to willingly kiss / desire me in any way” It’s not in the same universe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:25 AM
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Lol TIL not “growing old with someone” = literally be deemed unworthy of physical affection. Again. Telling the starving man you know how he feels because your steak was overcooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:23 AM
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This 100%. There is no fucking equivalent being fat vs short. None. I’m not even short but the hypocrisy of women in this regard is undeniable. One is fucking clearly fixable the other is purely generic. A great illustration of this is watching a woman with huge fake tits make fun of a guy for having a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:59 PM
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What “work” does a non fat woman have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:52 PM
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Ok genius. Assuming you are a human being, I’ll give you one chance to guess what the psychological difference is between these two.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:51 PM
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The person with a full plate of food complaining because “it’s not steak!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:50 PM
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Lol. Horse shit. As much ridiculousness as TRP espouses there are a few nuggets that are true to the point of near universality. One of those is: women would rather share an alpha (ie guy she is attracted to) than get commitment from a beta (ie ugly guy) A woman (even an ugly one) may settle for an ugly dude that is offering commitment (aka resources, stability and servitude to make up for the fact that she doesn’t truly want to fuck him) but she will always resent him for it and always know tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:41 PM
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Wrong. Case in point - hot women who become ugly incessantly complaining about becoming “invisible” which is hamster for “guys are no longer bending over backwards trying to fuck me by being excessively nice” If you are seriously going to argue that ugly women have it harder to find physical intimacy than men ... well ...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:23 PM
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Because you see 2 fat fucks at Walmart doesn’t tell you shit. You have no idea what either of them looked like at the beginning and if they have kids they are likely paired up only due to obligation. The real truth is in looking at the situation for single ugly people. Single ugly women can get dates and laid at will. Single ugly men are assumed to be rapists for making eye contact. The issue isn’t with delusional men demanding women out of their league, the issue is men that are average to belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:21 PM
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Lulz. The difference is simple. Ugly women can still have an active sex life in which they aren’t starved for human contact. Ugly men? Basically, ugly women have options and ugly men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:12 PM
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This sounds like something you’d hear at a Trump press conference. Jesus. “And there’s strong evidence - I’m hearing - when you hear about semen - it’s a thing of life and tremendous energy - maybe there’s a way we can... you know ... make more of it internally.. and make your life very strong and you can become tough like me” And lmao @ “it helps you concentrate” Yeah man. Because one thing that helps me focus on complex mental tasks is being so horny my dick is constantly hard and my mind cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:53 PM
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Sorry I realized I phrased that weird. I meant to say that the lack of those things are often symptoms of depression. For example, if getting out of bed to face life is a monumental struggle, you are likely not to have your career in order. Cause, clinical depression, symptom your work suffers. Cause clinical depression, symptom - no social life because nobody wants to be around you. Etc.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:45 PM
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It’s the age-old cliché of loving yourself. From there, the momentum should build and you figure out the rest on your own. On a similar note, negative self talk is hugely prevalent in people with depression, anxiety and obsessive thoughts in general. A way to put it in check (for me) is to try to ask “is the shit I’m telling myself about myself shit i would tell one of my good friends that was suffering in a similar situation. If not, why do i not deserve at least the same treatment I would give…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:26 AM
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Shit’s hard man because we can’t really know what another persons mind feels and how their specific brain processes things like fear, trauma, anxiety, sadness, etc. this makes it’s impossible to not only totally relate to another persons depression but also leads to people doubting it even exists because they have no frame of reference. It’s not like say, breaking your arm. If 2 different people went through the process, the pain, the healing, the rehab they would have very similar stories in co…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:17 AM
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Good luck man. You’re not alone in this obviously as I can relate to pretty much every word of this. The important thing I try to remind myself is to not take on the “hopeless victim” identity (it doesn’t sound like you have) and to some extent reach a place of peace with having a brain that is my adversary more often than not. At a certain point, make peace that an existence with constant struggle and moments of happiness is still better than non-existence.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:50 AM
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Just added it to my dwindling quarantine movie list. Will definitely check it out. Thanks man. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:20 AM
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Definitely agree there. But he also doesn’t account for how not being able to get your shit together enough to get 1 and 2 is sometimes not totally in your control if you suffer from an addiction or mental illness. Case in point: Peterson himself.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:46 AM
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Thanks for the well thought out responses. Gave me some good perspective on these things. I guess I was more responding to the sentiment I’ve seen on TRP forums many times before (not from you) that “if you’re not banging 9’s at will, just lift bro!” As far as working “hard” and “smart”, I do see that as a recipe for frustration for many guys because there’s no point in working hard on something that has no ROI. For example, lifting until you look good in a t-shirt makes a ton of sense, but it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:44 AM
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It’s fair to blame men who do not attempt to maximize their attractiveness, but posts like this imply that people are born with no ceiling and any guy can reach the top 20% with enough “effort”. Attraction doesn’t fucking work like that. This isn’t like learning how to cook, be a mechanic or a good dancer. This is more like saying “any guy can be a top 20% basketball athlete!” No they fucking can’t. It’s a comfortable fantasy, but the fact is you are dealing with mostly things that are out of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:47 AM
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Insert Hans Landa quote here.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:59 PM
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People spend 8 hours a day in front of screens, eat terribly, don't exercise, drink/do drugs, and then are surprised they feel like shit mentally. Underrated comment. However, some people live like this and are all happy-go-lucky which honestly confuses the hell out of me.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:39 PM
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Sorry this is dead wrong. You just listed things that are more often than not symptoms of clinical depression rather than causes. No doubt having those things in order leads to a more healthy and balanced life, but by no means does having them make you immune to depression and anxiety.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:34 PM
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Totally ageee. No doubt about that. Although even some life events (whole family killed in a car crash or something) could warrant medication for a totally neurotypical person for a period. But yes, I do believe the deification of victimhood among women can and does lead to over prescriptions. Like, if you are sad because you got called “fat”, it could be because you legit have mental health issues or it could be because, you know, you are ashamed of being fucking fat.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:05 PM
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How exactly does one know the difference between “life is hard” depression and “nothing in this world makes me feel life is worth living” clinical depression?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:43 PM
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young women would rather suck Chad's covid laced dick than respond to Billy betas tinder messages. Brutal and true. I know a few girls that quietly broke quarantine in order to hook up with one type of dude. Hint: They didn’t break it for Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:50 PM
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For somebody who really struggles with being productive on a good day (still trying to kill this fucking anxiety / depression / adhd shit) I love the term non-zero day. And when I look at it that way I usually achieve something Thanks for introducing me to this term. I am also another fellow member of the purple dumbbell club. Jazzer-size crew checking in.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:14 PM
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Bullshit. Women get sympathy from all other women unless they were super close to the guy in question, and they get sympathy white knights / orbiters. The guy basically has his mom and “his boys” giving him any sympathy here. Case in point: Amber Heard is made UN ambassador on women’s issues while Johnny Depp loses his Disney contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:06 PM
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Good thing to know women never throw tantrums and whine over trivial shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:17 PM
1

You mean a man who goes to the gym regularly would like to be seen as nearly as able to obtain sex and love as a morbidly obese woman? Yeah that’s about right. You can’t see how that might be frustrating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:16 PM
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This post and it’s upvotes is the most pure example of solipsism without a drop of self awareness. Lol. You like twinks like Bieber and BTS? Good for you. You sound like a “tween”. But your conclusion that I like that, therefore “no girls” like a more masculine type is exactly the kind of nauseating tunnel vision so many girls on PPD have it’s only damaging to your point. Nobody with any life experience whatsoever talks or thinks like that. Girls will fuck and be attracted to all manner of weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:16 PM
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Wait what? In breath it’s “eewwww why are these olds even talking to me?!?!” in the next it’s “old guys are good for a fuck but not a relationship” You see the disconnect here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:28 AM
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Which stage has the highest gdp with nearly twice that of the next 2? Hmm. Which one is it? Oh right! Kentucky? Alabama? Georgia? Somebody rwmind me about that conservative bastion of economic output and innovation!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:31 AM
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Edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:20 AM
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Women are not incentivized to be self aware. Plausible deniability is literally a social survival mechanism for most women. There is no social currency in fessing up to less than virtuous behavior because “women good, men bad” Women are told that even when they do shitty things it’s men’s fault (“I am forced by men to sexualize myself!”) Virtue signaling. Ironically claiming you are above validation seeking is a form of validation seeking in itself. Solipsism. You can see no other perspective of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:54 PM
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Women’s words On PPD: “No! Nope! Never!” Women’s actions literally everywhere else on the internet: “Look at MEEEEE!!! Like MEEEEE!! Tell me I’m pretty!!!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:49 PM
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Ahhh the anonymity of the internet allows me to answer this with the ugly truth: About 80-90% of my self worth and sense of fulfillment in life rides on whether an attractive woman (or women) wants to fuck me / is fucking me. It’s literally night and day. No women want me - depression. Can’t think about anything except how to get a woman to want me. Women do want me? I’m pretty much content, mentally and then it really just comes down to quality of sex. This is all born out of very low self este…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:12 PM
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That’s great to hear man. I’m a couple years away from 50 and am struggling to just get my body fat down to a point where I can even see a 4 pack. Also while I do that, I have to restrict calories so I get weaker in general. Do you use HGH / TRT at all? Just curious because it’s so rare for a guy to be that low BF over 50 without some help. In any case thanks for the tips on your work out. That sounds like a great way to hit abs. Might steal it 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:06 PM
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Do you still have those abs in your 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:00 PM
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+1 Especially fun watching the girls that used to complain about being “harassed” constantly flailing on social media trying to get that attention fix while on lock down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:38 PM
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Men that use the word “hubbies”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:26 AM
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Posts like this will never give you a representative sample size or accurate view of the “average” porn viewer (which is wager is a majority of men and a large portion of women) Similar to asking “do women like rough sex?”, you are only going to hear from the side that sees moral currency in their answer. In one case it is “porn is teh devil!” And “porn is for beta losers!” Types and the other is “I only like respectful lovemaking” types. In the case of porn, many many “normal” men partake in it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:25 AM
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Her lying on her back with her head hanging over the edge of the bed. Me standing. You get the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:59 PM
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Lmao. This has to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:58 PM
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I guess 99% of men and women engage in “really poor sexual practice” Outside of the “kink community” types, most adults understand body language and sexual cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:45 PM
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Hand gently around throat = strangling? Got it. How about oral? Not everybody likes that. How about light hair pulling? How about light spanking? Which of these require a sit-down beforehand? Please help me out so I don’t go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:18 PM
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Do you discuss a list of “do’s and dont’s” before every sexual encounter with a new partner, or do you expect your partner to practice common sense? Because neither me nor any man or woman I’ve talked to has engaged in such unsexy autistic behavior before fucking. It’s understood that functioning adults can gauge each other’s pleasure in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:56 PM
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I think feminists have issues. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:17 PM
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You are trying to use shaming language ("they have issues") to insinuate these women are somehow defective / more damaged than others (you). It's like saying "Among lesbians that like horror movies, rap music and pineapple on pizza, some have issues" How about you let people like stuff and you mind your business without trying to make their tastes 'problematic'? Don't play dumb. Everybody sees what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:57 PM
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Some guy on the internet saying "all bitches" like it? That doesn't sound very scientific. I've *have* seen posts claiming that more women like it than will readily admit publicly. (based on their actual experiences) Do you dispute that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:06 PM
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The anti-porn crusaders / FDS'ers are the ones making this black and white. The claim is that the mere existence of porn and any consumption of it is toxic. I've repeatedly said that actual porn addiction is a real problem. If it's happening at the expense of having sex with your partner, or if you are staying in all day looking for ever increasing highs from porn rather than engaging in life, that's a problem. You can also do that with food, video games and social media and actual real life sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:45 PM
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Sure. There's a time and a place for talk like that. 9/10 times that's not how sex goes down, and 9/10 that's not how women want the experience to go down as it takes them out of the moment. If you have a modicum of emotional intelligence, you can tell what your partner likes based on incremental escalation of certain things. You all are acting like a dude is just gonna slap a girl in the face out of the blue. You know that's not what I'm talking about. Example: A girl I was with responded posit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:42 PM
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Relax, it was pointing out a truism that all men have experienced. I supposed you're gonna tell me that I should be taking my advice on sex from feminists? I did that for the first 25 years of my life. Didn't work out too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:39 PM
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No, it's really not a "terrible" way, if you understand the nonverbal ways women communicate during sex. Bill Burr has a great routine on slowly finding out a woman likes to be choked. Women want men to 'just get it', most of all during sex. Source: People who have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:13 PM
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LMAO. Let's see, "The Daily Mail" or The World Health Organization . Which source should I trust? Hmmm... (jeopardy music) I'm honestly surprised you replied, though to open with that statement rather than a simple "I stand corrected" was pretty damn amusing. As for the rest of your cherry picked rubbish, it's the same horseshit we heard back at 9/11 that buying weed was funding terrorism, heavy metal makes kids worship the devil and harry potter is witchcraft. I bet you can find *tons* of artic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:49 AM
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Go read FDS, and witness the many PPD posters here claiming that a guy enjoying a good sloppy throat fucking is now akin to busting a girl in the face with brass knuckles. And ah yes, the old "You are defending porn! you have some emotional attachment to it! Truth be told, I haven't watched a fucking porn clip in months! I just hate morality police of every stripe. They are literally the shittiest of the shitty human beings. Trying to make sure people don't enjoy their bodies in ways that they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:24 AM
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Lmao Britain has higher rates of obesity but okay. You can go ahead and start your next post (if you make one) with "I was wrong" https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/rankorder/2228rank.html https://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/most-obese-countries/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_body_mass_index Porn however is something that ruins lives, unlike video games, at higher rates, it normalized violence, unlike video games, and like anger, drinking, se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:15 AM
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2 links to the same report? Ok. Please define kink and masochism. Is it giving a blowjob? Is it getting spanked? Is it deepthroating? Is it anal? I'd really like to know. And again, bringing up "women in pain"? WTF is it with you crusaders? We are *not* talking about whipping / beating / cutting women. We're talking about spitting / slapping / choking and It's **WOMEN** asking for this shit as much as men wanting it! Lemme guess "internalized misogyny!111!11" It's "muh annecdote" but the women I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:01 AM
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No idea why you felt the need to throw in the state run healthcare, since we're the only western country without it, yet the most fat country *with* national health care is 33rd in fat population. Want to guess which country is #1? So you're telling me that any occasional indulgence can turn into a vice if you do it to a ridiculous degree? You mean like: - eating - video games - social media - spending - sex - drinking - anger - conspiracy theories - porn Now take a wild guess which of those tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:28 AM
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You're right. Obesity actually kills people and is a drag on our healthcare system. Watching porn means you get off and go about your day. Can't have that. The strawman here is the mythical 'pornsick' man. Nearly every time I've heard stories of this man, it amounts to "he wanted to do something I didn't like in the bedroom, and he thinks I'm fat after gaining 50lbs"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:05 AM
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Great. Do you demonize obesity with the same zeal you do porn? Do you point out how wrong it is for people to think that type of body is 'normal' and that they are food addicts? You seem to be very willing to do that when it comes to porn, so I'm just curious if you're consistent. Also, do you believe bugs bunny and road runner cartoons are responsible for kids hitting each other with hammers and running off cliffs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:56 AM
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TIL, you either 'sit down beforehand and have a discussion about what you do and don't like' or you rape. Do you also choreograph every dance move when dancing with a partner? Sounds like a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:51 AM
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Again, who the fuck 'discusses' sex prior to having it? What world do you people live in where this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:44 AM
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How do you feel about normalizing obesity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:43 AM
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I can't help but LOL whenever I hear some woman on the internet talk about "discussions" and "ask for consent" about shit like this. Like, have you ever actually had sex? *nobody* does that shit outside of fat feminist fan fiction. You can get a pretty damn good idea of what your partner likes by reading their body language as things get heated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:37 AM
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Here's the thing - you don't get to decide what's a "kink" and what's within the bounds of normality. You don't get to decide what is a result of "childhood experiences" and what is a result of the complexities of human preference. You don't get to claim that women are expected to 'look like porn stars' when 50% of Americans are obese or overweight. You don't get to use your anecdotal experience from having chose to fuck some immature douche who thinks that movies are real life and you had to te…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:32 AM
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Ok, is kissing "learned" is anal sex (which is the primary method of gay men having sex) "learned? Left to instinct alone, human beings would be unlikely to be giving each other oral sex. Does that make it a "kink"? And your contention that feminists of any kind only have a problem with "the most extreme" porn is ludicrous. Porn is demonized by feminists (here on PPD very often) as simply creating 'unrealistic body standards' (whatever the fuck that means) and that a man desiring anything beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:27 AM
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I'm trying to unlearn that, because I realize that I was not naturally attracted to it, it was ingrained in me once I was exposed to porn and predators Good luck with that. Maybe you can help some people "pray the gay away" while you're at it. ​ Also, bringing up being stabbed / cut / electrocuted? Really? Literally NOBODY here is talking about that shit. TF is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:35 AM
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He’ll cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:45 AM
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Oh. So now it’s “quickly in an interaction?” Lol. So I’m guessing you are doing this exclusively in bars where you can just drop that sex shit within minutes? If a guy is good looking enough to pull this off with any kind of consistency, all he has to do is not shit his pants and he’s getting laid. The rest of the 95% of us mortals actual have to use charm and subtlety Also, this shit ain’t working on any non fat / non prostitute / non blackout drunk woman unless (as I said) you are giga-chad yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:04 AM
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Yes. Let women demand commitment from a man that they made perform like a monkey for 3 months, before he knows if they are even sexually compatible. Let me know how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:25 AM
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Lol. Well, I’m guessing - no I’m hoping to dear god - that you are black based on what you wrote. If what you are saying is that the black community is red pilled ... yeah. We know. Doesn’t change the situation for Mr. Whitefolks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:21 AM
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Great. And where in those statements are you implying “and commitment is not on the table, so don’t think that this is anything more than just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:16 AM
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Exactly. This fantasy world they live in where some guy seductively says “let’s use each other for sex” does not exist for 99.9% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:21 AM
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Wrong. Those women were assuming (or pretending to assume) a man is implying commitment by having sex with her and then getting butthurt when Chad won’t commit at which time they call him a “lying fuckboy” because she let her hamster write a rom com starring her and him. You are not entitled to a relationship just because you had sex. Th
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:07 AM
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Once again, Please tell me exactly what you would “softly whisper” in her ear that would properly convey “I want to have sex with you once and never see you again”. Still waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:03 AM
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Ok, Mystery. Why don’t you share how you tell a woman that you explicitly want sex and nothing else without being crude or being called “misleading” I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:26 PM
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You just need to be upfront and honest about your intentions. No, you really don't. Just don't say anything about it. This whole notion of saying "Hey, I just want to fuck, you cool with that?" is ludicrous unless you're a celebrity / giga-chad. Women want / need *plausible deniability* in these cases. Their hamsters have to believe that they aren't "sluts" and "it just happened". The minute you put your "I just want to fuck you" cards on the table, she loses that. That doesn't mean you pull som…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:05 PM
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>They get the kind of messages that encourage chivalry (you should protect girls) and that being more like them is a good thing. ​ Hits SO damn close to home. Zero male role models in my life that would call out women on bullshit. Nothing but women talking about how bad men are. Until about 21, I legit thought that being passive and considerate was attractive to girls and would make them feel "safe" enough to give me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:00 PM
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No, you haven't, and if you did it was an insignificant amount of outliers. I grew up around nothing but women and never once heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:54 PM
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Has nobody read Pimp by iceberg slim? I’m pretty damn sure it was in a that and that takes place in the 50’s. In rap, It’s pimp slang that Too Short has been using since the early 80’s. It just means a chump playing himself for pussy.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:51 AM
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The fictional character with the most universal alpha appeal that I’ve seen is Don Draper. The very good looking, smart, creative, tall, big dicked, wounded, but masculine patriarch with demons, and womanizing tendencies, but deep down has a heart of gold. Never met one woman who didn’t at least shrug and say “yeah, I’d fuck him”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:23 PM
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Much like men attempting to comprehend and sympathize with things like having menstrual cycles wreak havoc with your hormonal levels and physiology, it is nearly impossible for a woman to understand how much havoc sexlessness can wreak on the male psyche. This is why you hear the common refrains about "stop whining" and "learn to control yourself" and "You're not entitled to sex!" (all true to some extent btw) They see it (understandably) through the lens of their own sexuality - which essential…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:41 PM
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Yet you can bring yourself to care about what 2 straight people do (neither of which are you) in their bedroom. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:03 AM
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So, you don’t have anal sex in heterosexual relationships - but feel comfortable calling it “gross” You don’t have anal sex in gay relationships - but don’t have an opinion on that Let me help you out, You actually feel that gay anal sex is also “gross” but don’t want to say that because it would reveal what a judgmental prick you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:25 PM
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Do you engage in anal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:12 PM
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You just called anal sex in hereto couples “gross”. Care to explain why you will not apply that same label to gay men having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:02 PM
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Nope. In their world, porn only leads to “problematic” behavior in men. They willingly ignore the endless stories from men about women truly getting off on, asking for or insisting on these things or they think its a LARP. This is one of those quintessential what they say / what they do examples in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:00 PM
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Your opinion on gay men having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:02 PM
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A. Men are not women. B. Lust is not the same as love C. Plenty of women in relationships openly state sexual interest in celebrities like Jason Momoa, etc. men aren’t having nervous breakdowns about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:27 AM
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With the attitude and opinions you’ve expressed in this thread, it would appear the future holds a few possibilities for you 1 - become a nun and swear off romantic relationships altogether 2 - get used to being hurt repeatedly as men repeatedly leave you because of your psycho preoccupation with their involuntary attractions 3 - cats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:14 AM
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Have you ever heard about a doctor/lawyer or affluent man dating a lower class woman (janitress, cashier...)? Seriously Lol yes. How many examples of celebrity men do you want (for starters) marrying waitresses, failed artists, insta-hoes, etc? all I see in real life is that men care about a woman’s career as much as women do with the opposite gender, FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. You can’t possibly believe this. Yes, a woman’s “status” may play a part in a marriage or living together situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:48 AM
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lol @ using gay men as a sexual barometer for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:28 PM
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>“I can’t respect something I want to stick my dick in.” Lol. Stop living on the internet. You've never heard somebody say that in real life, you trolled some part of the manosphere and fed your outrage because it made you feel something in your boring ass life. I'm am absolute piece of shit. I hang out with other pieces of shit. We talk shit about everyone and everything, and acknowledge we are sexual deviants. I've never, ever heard a guy, drunk or otherwise say some stupid shit like "I can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:17 PM
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Lol. You must not live in a major city, or just know some old lesbian couples. In the Bay Area there are a ton of "girl parties" complete with strippers / go-go dancers, all kinds of sexualized 'gaze' shit going on. Lesbians hook up all the fucking time, and sometimes with men believe it or not. Lesbians obviously don't hold a candle to gay dudes (neither to straight people for that matter) and there's a reason the 'U-Haul' joke exists for them, but to say they don't objectify and sport fuck is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:11 PM
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The one thing that I hate is that if I get drunk and willingly fuck a fat chick (drunk or not) that I otherwise wouldn’t, it’s just “bad judgement” on my part. If a woman gets drunk enough to find me (also drunk) attractive and willingly has sex with me, I’ve “taken advantage of her” and potentially raped her because she “couldn’t truly consent” I’ll never understand how the fuck that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:02 PM
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I’m pro TRP and I still think this is very accurate. It’s highly unlikely that your average Terper is neurotypical (I’m certainly not). Whereas a bloop is far more likely to be. That said, I’ve found I reach basically what is a close to NT state after about 3 drinks. One of the reasons I’m so dependent on the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:56 PM
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Much inspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:46 PM
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All good points. The only thing you can do is take advantage of a natural opportunity to engage if it presents itself. Any attempt to chat up a girl out of the blue in public is likely gonna end in an “eww” unless you’re Chad T himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:55 AM
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Do these guys just start doing this stuff with no input from you? Maybe I’m in a bubble, but I can’t imagine doing some crazy shit like choking without easing into it super slow and continue to read the woman’s body language the whole way. The thing that should be evident by this thread is that men are often encouraged to do these things if not outright asked by women. Some guy spitting or delivering a surprise slap with zero warning or indication you are into it is a piece of shit point blank. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:51 AM
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Thanks. I appreciate the advice. Oddly, this is an area in which I think women can give men useful dating advice. Not necessarily how to "seduce", but how to engage in the initial friendly conversation, in an awkward setting from the get-go to without coming off as a douchey creep before then moving on to the flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:54 AM
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Thanks. I was hoping an opportunity like this would present itself (some shared observation to start some light conversation) but it didn't. There was some woman talking loudly on the phone yelling at her co-worker for not covering her shift, and I almost commenting to the girl about it - but I felt like that would be kind of douchey. Basically, in a case like that (captive audience, girl on bus) I'm going to wait for some kind of clear signal to open (smile, her making a comment, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:30 AM
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Gah. Same here. Bars and booze are really the only context I’m going to cold approach. I’ll make friendly conversation in public, but getting flirty is rough in most instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:18 AM
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Honestly, I’d be very weary of giving a woman my business card in that context for fear of getting #metoo’d / called out as a creep on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:16 AM
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Let’s see Paul Allen’s card.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:09 AM
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Lol. I’m saying a kink is a kink. But, actually you’re correct about girls sexuality being reactive to the man’s energy. But not in the way you want to be. I’ve been both a skinny frail timid goth boy and a later a bearded, built man wearing flannel. Guess which version of me had girls calling me daddy and asking to get spanked and choked?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:35 AM
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Can’t argue that dating and relationships have dramatically changed, but we are talking what people like behind closed doors. The shame around kinks has also diminished for a wide variety of reasons. Shit, there were probably many times more closeted gay people at that time too. What does that tell you? You think your BFF’s back then we’re gonna confide in you that they were into some depraved behavior in the sack? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:30 AM
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Wtf are you bringing up your “belt” story? That was a story of the guy pushing to do some weird shit. We’re discussing when the girl enjoys the domination and encourages the man to engage in her kinks. I’m gonna need some citations on the ludicrous theory that they would not ask for this from a “truly dominant man” If a girl likes a hand around her throat she likes a hand around her throat. Full stop. Doesn’t matter if the dude is a lumberjack or a twink. The blowjob comparison is precisely the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:16 AM
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“A truly dominant man doesn’t need to resort to that to satisfy his woman” Lol. I’m not losing sleep over it, but we are on a debate forum. You’re gonna get called out on PPD when you say shit that silly. I’d expect to get the same shit if I said “any truly hot woman doesn’t need to resort to sucking dick to satisfy her man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:03 AM
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You engaged in some pseudo-psych horse shit implying “you’re just a weakling if a girl wants you to do it! It you were manly she wouldn’t need it cause male energy!!1” You were clearly implying that a “masculine” man doesn’t need to go the extra mile to indulge the girls kink cause he was already such a dominant alpha gorilla, he could just vanilla sex her and that would be enough. Your passive aggression is transparent. Then you’re gonna tell me to cool it when I point that out? Lol. Fuck outta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:41 AM
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Lmao yeah kind of like a “real” woman can just starfish and doesn’t need to give head because she’s already “hot” enough for the guy? Come on. Control your hamster. Some girls like it. You don’t. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:32 AM
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“God bless you, mami”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:25 AM
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If only I had realized that 5 years ago when I started using it. It’s also a play on the Zelda character “king of red dragons”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:57 AM
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For the last goddamn time my username is meant to be ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:54 AM
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Right. That is kind of the line I draw. Putting somebody in the position of having to potentially having to reject you, tell you they are taken, or even acknowledge they are being hit on and then remaining on the bus sitting next to you is pretty bad. I think it could have worked if there was some plausible reason to briefly communicate and then she kept the conversation going, but just turning to some chick on the bus and saying “Hi, what’s your name?” Is not something I’m gonna do. In a bar, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:31 AM
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I wonder how much the judgmental, angry and prudish attitudes of some women publicly only make the taboo of doing all this shit in private all that much more exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:37 AM
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Keep in mind many of your “nice, timid” friends who clutch their pearls at the mere discussion of blowjobs can be into the most extreme, filthy shit behind closed doors. Dated plenty of girls like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:32 AM
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Dead on about the trust. I’ve never had a woman want full “max hardcore” shit until that comfort was there. Once the comfort and trust were there - look out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:31 AM
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How many women were you fucking 10 years ago that would give you accurate data that “nobody was doing this” back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:28 AM
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Lol. Translation: Chad gets to fuck throats. Billy gets begrudging postage stamp licks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:21 AM
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Thanks. Now I can spit in your mouth. 💦
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:18 AM
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Who is talking about what a guy “needs” to do? We are talking about what a girl wants the guy to do to her. Lol at that lame shaming attempt: “A real man should ...”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:15 AM
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Yep. I’ve had women run the gamut from softcore Cinemax porn, all the way to that Angel Smalls anal train video style degradation. That one is rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:13 AM
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IF AND ONLY IF, I observed him treating her badly, and she seemed unhappy but reluctant to say something, I'd talk to her and ask if she was oaky. But I'd do that even without an age gap, or with the genders reversed or whatever. This is the only’correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:40 AM
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If her ass is closed to you, so is her heart Lmao. Gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:51 PM
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Have you seen what most women on PPD say about such relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:27 PM
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Note that I never said the women posting are here are lying, only that they only speak for themselves and that they are among a group that obviously has some level of preoccupation with “gender politics” otherwise they wouldn’t be posting on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:18 PM
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The responses to this article display the phenomenon which, to my mind, proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that it is utterly useless to ask women on a forum like this about these subjects. It would be like going on TRP and asking if guys like to cuddle with their women after sex. I guarantee you plenty, even most do (it’s like a fucking natural human reaction) but most guys on TRP will claim “nah! I don’t do that gay shit! She doesn’t even stay over!” Etc. Similarly, women on PPD generally live …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:08 PM
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This is definitely me. Not gonna a lie. I gave up my commitment so damn easily in my late teens and throughout my 20’s that I was essentially in a relationship (and married once) non stop from 18 to 30. Basically, I was a commitment-slut (or “time ho” as Patrice would say) All of these were borne out of insecurity and lack of belief that I could or ever would do better than the woman that bestowed attention on me. In my 30’s I was still relationship guy, but was able to walk away more consistent…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:46 AM
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Buffalo Bill lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:17 AM
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I agree we all have our blind spots. It helps if you’re able to acknowledge that they are there though. Especially in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:16 AM
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Certainly not universally, but hot guys (hot people really) can get away with all manner of shit and still get taken back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:52 PM
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Awesome. A relationship of mine just ended and I couldn’t really explain why. The girl was very stoic and aloof acting (except when criticizing), but still wanted me to be super expressive and affectionate all the time. The dynamic just didn’t work for me. It made me feel like I was trying to give love to a wall. I guess I need a little more of that expressive cheerleading to feel seen / appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:49 PM
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That’s a great way to describe it! I never thought of it that way, but damn if that’s been the formula for the relationships I’ve been happiest with. I can see how being the cheerleader can be just as exhausting and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:36 PM
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Lol @ that long ass list. I mean, half of what you covered has zero to do with stereotypical “daddy issues” In any case, I’ve dated plenty of women with self stated daddy issues. They manifest in totally different ways depending on the person. To some it just makes them like an older guy and to feel like they are with a mentor of sorts, to others it means they are psychotically terrified of abandonment and others still will just like the sexual dynamic. Most girls that I’ve know that had these i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:12 AM
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Not saying this is you but, Most women I’ve met / dated that say shit like this generally mean “you shouldn’t react to problems or have emotions because it’s lame and I’ll lose respect and attraction toward you ... but you should deal with my random emotional outbursts and drama starting, otherwise you don’t deserve me at my best.” Like women don’t realize how much “emotional labor” it is dealing with your average woman’s emotional fragility and roller coasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:55 AM
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Please point out to me where I stated that I believe women “should” want to date unattractive guys? Everything else you said, I 100% agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:06 PM
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Re: Cheating How hot a man is (to the woman) is the difference between “unacceptable” vs “I believe he made a mistake and learned from it” This is how the hamster works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:04 PM
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Oh well shit. That settles it then! Women on a PPD thread represent society and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:15 PM
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Ok, Chad. Congrats on being in the top 5% of men that can be that discriminating (lol @ saying now to dating a hot woman who is ‘low educated) fuck outta here And for the last goddamn time, this isn’t lamenting that women HAVE standards / are shallow - it’s the blanket denial by them (and to some extent society and media) that they even ARE that basic and superficial. I could give a fuck what they want. Just be fucking honest about it instead of hamstering that you are a virtuous saint all the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:49 PM
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Nice way to (again) ignore the fundamental point. At what point did I say it’s “unacceptable” to want an attractive partner? I said it’s pathetic to fucking LIE about it (or at least deny it) and then turn around and crow about how men are doing what you yourself do. It makes it hard to #believewomen or take them seriously when they can so easily hamster away their prioritization for hotness above all else and then publicly claim that “hotness doesn’t matter much” Here’s the truth that I’ve rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:45 PM
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Lol, yep the “women are just people” line. Never gets old. They only “ree” you are hearing is disgust at disingenuous people denying some of the less flattering elements of their nature. This is rampant among women when it comes to their attraction cues / sexuality. Your example about some men liking blondes / brunettes is laughable because no man will outright reject a woman for being one or the other, whereas a woman will pull out any manner of shit to reject a guy outright. You seriously thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:15 PM
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Saying “I see plenty of women with ugly men” means jack shit. That’s like saying “I saw some relatively attractive guy with a land whale, so guys don’t care about women being fat” We’re talking about the SMP here. Women are far more shallow about far more idiosyncratic things than men are. Men are shallow about, well, pretty much ONE thing - Don’t be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:07 PM
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Really? You’re going with the whole “wOmEn arE juSt Peopl!1!” Yeah, women operate and communicate just like men when it comes to dating and their sexual desires. Sure. We’re not talking about understood reality, we’re on a TRP related sub for Christ’s sake. Of course we know. We’re talking about women’s open fucking denial of that reality. When a woman says “I want a caring man who is willing to settle down” do you automatically think she means “I want a 6’2 male model who I can show off to my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:01 PM
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Once again, you’re being obtuse. I’m genuinely curious, do you realize that you are engaging in the exact kind of denial and equivocation that is being discussed here (aka hamstering)? It’s like you, as a woman have to defend “team woman” instinctively. You can’t possibly fathom a scenario in which women, en masse are less virtuous than men, but I bet you can come up with the opposite scenarios very easily. Doesn’t that seem strange to you? The truth is AVERAGE women will come up with ALL MANNER…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:52 PM
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Add too short, thinning hair, various ethnicities, bad skin, crooked teeth, the wrong shoes, weak chin and too skinny to that list of reasons women will deem a man undateable and you’ll be getting closer. And lol at “implying that ugly fat dudes need not apply” is a far cry from crowing about how they’re “attracted to intelligence and empathy above all!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:17 PM
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Pretty much. It creates a culture of fear for women. They generally can’t engage int he brutal honesty that men do (in public) without fear of judgement and possible scolding from their peers. This leads to them saying things like “I like smart / funny guys” rather than saying “I like when a hot guy is smart and funny, but if’s he’s not that smart and funny, I’ll still take it”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:00 PM
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Well said. When you live in scarcity, your life is crippled because the preoccupation (subconsciously or otherwise) that you don’t have access to a basic human need should you need it.. It’s why we store food, save money, etc With abundance you can relax and make more future oriented plans in life simply because you know the basics are always on-hand. Average women live in this state in regards to sex and dating, and it shows any time they try to give an average man advice. They simply can’t con…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:57 PM
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If it wasn’t for this phenomenon, I’d never have been laid or had a girlfriend. Of course, as a guy relying on this means a constant life as a dancing monkey to get 1/10 of the results Chad (or women) get just by showing up. Shit can wear you down after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:01 PM
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Refreshing to hear and would be nice if more women would just come out and say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:00 PM
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Unlike men, women lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:59 PM
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and by blunt you mean being honest when asked rather than hamstering their decisions so they seem more virtuous than those of lowly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:58 PM
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I’ve literally never called anyone a cuck before now. But goddamn if you aren’t bending over backwards to ignore women’s bad traits, their privileges and their use of those on men without consequence. That sounds “cucky”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:53 PM
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You left out the fat women in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:46 AM
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Yes. Good thing fat women are a rarity in online dating. 🙄 And to top it off fat women do all that horse shit you listed above. You think “good lighting and makeup” suddenly makes you not lazy? If you’re fat you’re fucking failing job #1 as a woman and you are by definition lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:44 AM
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“I need a girl with huge tits. It makes me feel safe and protected.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:40 AM
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How the fuck after all the thorough explanations on PPD do you not understand what Hypergamy means? It means in a room full of 7’s and 8’s and one 9, a woman will only sexually desire the one 9. A man will sexually desire all 7’s, 8’s and 9’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:33 AM
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Adam Driver the celebrity and great actor gets women wet. They project a fantasy onto him. A nobody that looked exactly like Adam Driver trying to talk to you in a bar would get an “ewww creep!” from most these same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:29 AM
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Wrong. He was a regular on the old “PUAHate / Shitty Advice” forum which is largely credited with popularizing the term Incel in its modern form (along with looksmaxxing, Chad, etc) That forum could be funny sometimes but was a cesspool or black pill fatalism and a circle jerk of mental illness. PUAHate lambasted TRP as just another snake oil cope as did Rodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:25 AM
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Let’s be real - in any of those subcultures the following man is going to win: In shape (not roided out, but not scrawny, not fat) Good skin (no acne) Good height (at least over 5’10) Good facial bone structure (good jawline, good teeth, attractive eyes) Dress that guy up however you want. Leather jacket and facial hair, cardigan and horn rimmed glasses, long hair and band t-shirt, crew cut and a sports jersey, flannel shirt, jeans and boots - and suddenly he appeals to a new “marketplace’ It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:25 AM
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Ok, Vanilla Stick to making love to your beloved after you discuss the importance of respect and active consent in the context of the patriarchy and rape culture over a cup of coffee. I’m sure that’s gonna be hot. I mean, just look at the porn women watch, it’s all about respect and honor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:12 PM
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No. Your metric was “having a sexy discussion beforehand” (yech) My metric is how adults actually have sex. That is, in the moment they decide if they are into it and they let you know with body language. So, if my dick is out and the girl thrusts her pussy up toward it, she didn’t actually say “yes you may insert your penis” but that’s commonly understood as consent to do so. If the girl pulls her underwear back up, yeah that’s a “no” If you put your hand softly on her neck and she starts pushi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:58 PM
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Lol. How exactly am I supposed to “catch a case”? Like you think I’m just gonna rear up and slap some chick or try to pound her ass without her expressing desire for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:22 PM
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Ok, after that rambling response talking about capitalism, tinder and secret handshakes, I’m not sure we’re even speaking the same language. I don’t feel the need to engage with you any further. You are fervently holding on to the notion that women are hard done by in the dating world, and that they play on an even playing field with men when it comes to having their needs met and I guess then something to the effect of “heyyyy relax mannnn... we’re all on our own trip” Basically, you’re denying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:15 PM
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What? You’re the one that came out with that line of “pornsick men”nonsense. Talking about “in porn guys just pound away and don’t even go down on the girl! That’s why men suck in bed!” You just got done talking about how porn kinks DO NOT mean that’s what actual sex is like. So which is it? Are men porn sick losers who don’t want their woman to get off and can’t figure out that you actually have to get a woman turned on first, or are the different genres of porn that show weird shit that isn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:47 PM
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Wait, who the fuck is talking about “the real world” We are talking about dating and sexual relationships. If you believe that is “stacked against women” then you are not worth talking to. I have zero love for “the manosphere” or any dogma. But people like you who equivocate and make excuses for women or use the old line “Well it’s just that PEOPLE can be shitty!” Are the problem I’m talking about. It’s that inability to understand that women are A.) Shitty in unique ways and B.) Those ways are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:38 PM
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What you are talking about are degradation and humiliation fantasies. So? Do I need to remind you what women's #1 *fantasy* is? Women also like the "free use" genre. Does that mean some dude is gonna invite his buddies over to run a train on her? Stop. When you meet a partner that's down for crazy rough sex, you fucking know it.. If you have to "ask" it's a no in my experience. While I'd never attempt this shit without a clear green light, I'm just gonna flat out tell you that some girls want yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:13 PM
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Who said they were a “monolith”? I said that women like you that don’t like things like being slapped or choked will crow about it loudly because it’s seen as you having “self respect”. Of course, the subtle message is that women who do like those things don’t have any. So yeah, the countless women who do like that shit stay silent. And lol and “going straight to pounding”. Wtf are you watching? That sounds like some hastily made porn from the 80’s / 90’s. Any porn outside of that which is clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:13 PM
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I can’t believe the notion that women en masse don’t like these things still survives on PPD. Do you all think men are just making this shit up? Of course the women who like these things aren’t going to admit it online for fear of their sexuality being seen as “problematic” by their sex police sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:52 PM
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In other news, having your basic needs as a human met doesn’t guarantee you happiness. No shit. Money, food and water are similar. When you don’t have it, it’s all you can fucking think about. Once you get it, you may very well find other shit to be depressed about. So? I will say this - IF you were certain that this lack of casual sex was the sole cause of your existential angst, you are indeed in for a massive slap in the face. You may very well be even worse off having reached the end of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:36 AM
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Lol. So sex is simply about the mechanics of “it feels good” to you? Do you work in a massage parlor? If it was just “this makes my penis feel good” then it would just be missionary sex every time. Why even switch it up? Why talk dirty? Hell just use a dildo or a flesh light. The best sex is filthy crazy sex. If you aren’t giving that to your man, somebody else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:09 AM
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Yes lots of women get off on crazy sex. Lots of men get off on eating their girls pussy until they cum. Some guys like eating ass. Some girls love anal. It’s all part of what people that actually like sex get excited by. The girls I fuck get wet gagging on my dick and getting spanked. It makes them feel like good submissive little sluts. I get hard when they have shaking orgasms when I give them oral. It’s reciprocal The way you talk about sex just reeks of some boring ass lay with massive hang …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:00 AM
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Just be confident bro? Sell that shit somewhere else. Nice try at the class-bashing too. Lol. Yes, only good stock like you comes from the leave it to beaver “loving” households.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:58 AM
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You are being deliberately obtuse. The point is that ubiquity of the “women are wonderful” messaging pounded into young boys heads often has real consequences in that they aren’t prepared for how uniquely fucked up and duplicitous women can be. Iol “social white lies”. Gtfo. Saying “be yourself” is not the same as saying “I just want nice romantic guy” and then wanting the exact opposite. And are you actually denying the mass acceptance of women as perpetual victims of men’s evil? What do you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:53 AM
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Ok. Thats a good example. I take back that no man had ever complained about it. I was assuming they understood the ramifications of being in the fuck zone of a woman. But you’re definitely right men can suddenly get territorial even when it’s supposed to be “casual”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:46 AM
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It sounds like you just don’t like being fucked by men. It’s fine. It’s a thing. Women that like (really like) fucking men can enjoy ALL facets of heterosexual sexual dynamics. That includes getting pounded from behind, throat fucked, picked up and all manner of things you’d probably call “uncomfortable” I’ve heard this type of talk from lots of FDS types. They talk about sex with men like they are taking the fucking trash out. If fucking your man is that much of a chore then just be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:44 AM
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If the men you are fucking don't know about stimulating your clit, you need to fuck better men. That shit is taught to boys by the time they are 12 nowadays. We aren't talking about that, we are talking how often men are berated for being "bad in bed" even when it is the woman who is shit in bed. Like (ahem) women complaining that they "can't be a starfish" and have to endure "uncomfortable sex positions" Oh the horror of having to do some actual work in bed! Jesus Christ. You must be a demon in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:11 AM
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Great. Women aren't entitled to be taught that Chad might not be gentleman he appeared to be after he gives her HSV and fucks all her friends. Correct? Maybe fathers should start teaching their daughters that she should always believe in the best in Chad. You know, he's just misunderstood. Give your heart to him and Chad will love you back! Just be yourself, honey! I swear Chad will cherish you someday! Start telling her that from the first time she's old enough to understand and then give her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:24 AM
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Well, at least your consistent - so I commend you for taking responsibility for your partner's lack of blowing a load. Most women would never be so magnanimous. It's an open joke among women and society that if a guy fails to 'perform' there is something defective with him. And by 'perform' it means basically do everything the girl wants while she lays there. Women get credit just for showing up. If the guy doesn't cum, it's on him. It's not because the woman sucked in bed or anything like that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:21 AM
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Lol. Do you honestly think people (much less women) *ever* say anything like "She couldn't even make him hard!"?? No. They say "Fucking loser couldn't even get it up. What a chump." I mean, if you gave your man a hand / blowjob and couldn't make him cum would consider that your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:46 AM
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Dude get off your high fucking horse. For me, and many others - it *was* women lying. Men just didn't say shit most of the time. Women were not only lying about what it is they wanted (because it would make them look less virtuous) they also constantly cried and moaned that they hate men for being "shallow" etc. You do realize the whole reason TRP even *exists* is because countless boys slipped through the cracks for these very reasons and had to learn later in life the harsh truth that they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:40 AM
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Huh? What does understanding that good looking people get benefits in life have to do with women outright lying about what it is makes them desire a man? How does it then follow that a 12 year old boy indoctrinated by the feminine imperative is supposed to know not to take what adult women tell him is the truth? He's fucking 12 years old. He isn't living in a frat house. Even if a young boy does lament that "the cute girl in school went with the popular boy instead of me" you'll get the old "Wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:55 AM
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That’s not getting friend-zoned, that’s getting fuck-zoned, and I’ve never heard a single man complain about being fuck-zoned ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:01 AM
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Lol. Yep. So once again, it’s the man’s fault. JFC Let’s review: Can’t get hard? Man’s fault (pornsick) Girl doesn’t get wet? Man’s fault (not enough foreplay) Woman having horrendous, painful sex? Man’s fault (not “reading cues”) Woman didn’t cum? Man’s fault (he couldn’t fuck her right) Did I miss anything? Remember men, women have agency - yet they also are mute fuck dolls who are incapable of expressing their desires or even when sex is physically damaging their insides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:59 PM
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“Tub ring” != “if you’re losing your hair, shave it all off!” There’s a big difference between widows peak balding (Nicholson / Gandolfini) and tub ring (costanza / Larry David)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:30 PM
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Do you have google? Again. “Shave your head bro!” Is horseshit because you don’t know who the fuck you’re talking to. Not everybody wants to look like some UFC douche or Moby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:50 PM
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Lol. Ok man - so basically somebody with a male model tier face is the only one you can say ‘should’shave it. Then, you say HL is a toss up. Doesn’t really validate the universal “just shave it all off, bro”advice now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:37 PM
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Well yeah, absolutely - It goes without saying you need to improve as much as you can (lift, diet, lifestyle, fashion), but the reality is most of us have a ceiling to how much we can improve (in terms of looks) The rest is playing the cards your dealt, which for most of us means using every Jedi mind trick in the book to generate or maintain attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:35 PM
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I’ll go on record as saying I generally “hate” Chad but for far different reasons. Basically, many (not all) Chad’s are just douchebags. Any fratty-chad induces a visceral hate because I find their manner of speaking, loudness and general basic-ness enraging. The fact that hot girls bang him is just icing on the cake, but my distaste for Chad is more on a human level (I find many types of obnoxious people annoying) However, one thing Chad never did to me: Lie. Chad will straight up say what he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:31 PM
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Holy shit. This is some diabolically effective advice. Take heed, readers - this is what the red pill is actually about. Brutal fucking honesty and zero moral equivocation. Not the politics, not the woman bashing, not incel rage - but distilling the pure unadulterated mechanics of female attraction. Machiavelli would be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:06 PM
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Yes. For me it takes about 3-6 months for the initial excitement to wear off and 1-2 years for it to potentially reach “I don’t want to do this” level. depending on exposure to the woman. Will burn out on live-in girlfriend faster than one I only see on the weekend. How hot she is has very little to do with whether this happens or how fast. It seems to have far more to do with other things she does that make her more / less appealing. Constant complaining and soul draining drama? That’s gonna ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:58 PM
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In my specific case being able to grow a good (enough) beard saved me from having to get that medieval orthognathic jaw surgery. I have that utterly bucked lower face (like Adam Driver or Michael Cera) The beard was like growing a fucking lower third of my face. I’ll die before I shave it. Fuck the Coronavirus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:46 PM
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Which of these balding men would (or would have) look better if they just “shaved it” Hugh Laurie Jack Nicholson James Gandolfini Jude Law Sometimes a groomed “balding” look is better than being yet another penis head especially over age 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:43 PM
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Oh I should have mentioned, although I didn’t use it during the threesomes, I’ve used it in other instances where my mind wouldn’t cooperate (overthinking etc) and it still didn’t work. It works amazingly well when it’s a matter of being too tired or physically run down, but it doesn’t create a boner out of thin air if you’re already experiencing anxiety.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:52 PM
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Man. The 2 threesomes I’ve had in life went like this. My dream scenario with 2 hot girls and I literally started trembling like a bitch, even though I’d fucked regularly for weeks before that. Like an idiot I thought drinking more would “cut my nerves”. Nope. Pure limp dick. Nothing more humiliating than watching one girl go down on another while your cold soft dick is in a girls mouth and can’t respond. Because of this I’ve given up on threesomes until I sort this anxiety out. I think for me i…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:40 PM
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This is about discussing redpill. Which is... You guessed it... about male sexual strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:57 AM
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Not saying most of what you wrote is wrong, but why is it every woman's instinct to immediately say "Women aren't shitty! *People* are shitty!" or whatever nonsense is required to explain away how each gender is shitty in unique ways. The difference? Men's shiftiness is well documented and a collective guilt for being "dogs" and "scrubs" is gleefully assigned to them for the most minor of transgressions. Meanwhile, I can promise you that *every* man has at least one or more examples of a woman p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:38 AM
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I don’t doubt there are some guys that just have some variation of BDD that are in their own way, but it’s fantasy to say that 95% incels just need to “be confident bro” because “I know of this one short guy that’s a slayer!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:56 AM
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It’s not specifying you in particular but this kind of “I’m too virtuous / sapiosexual to care much about Chad” line or talk is not something that most men ever see play out in real life. Your statement sounds like what every woman would say while they chase Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:53 AM
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Other words: A guy can turn a yes into a no with any number of infractions large or small. That’s not news. It’s the guys who can never turn a no into a yes we are obviously talking about. Telling those guys to not have boogers and blackheads is fucking silly since it is to be assumed these guys are not mentally disabled and have mirrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:28 AM
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Yes because sometimes you just want to bang a filthy slut. Sometimes you want to bang a small Asian chick and sometimes an amazon blonde. Sometimes you want a hot mess and sometimes you want a church girl. Men are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:26 AM
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Not saying this is the case for you, but yeah this whole post can be read as sour grapes. Basically “I can’t lock down Chad, so I’m going to talk about how he sucks in bed because of his arrogance” You hear this a lot about guys with big dicks. “He doesn’t think he has to do anything!” Yet Susie and all her friends will line up to “try him out” once they hear about is 8 inch meat hammer from their other friends. I’ve seen this shit happen too many times for it to be denied by any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:23 AM
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Lol. Tf outta here. Yes things like blackheads and nasty long dirty nails can he deal breakers but you’re talking about them like they are the barrier to entry. They are not. You can have immaculate skin and hands as a guy but if you’ve the jawline of a beekeeper helmet you’re fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:10 AM
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Good point. Forgot bout that one. Michael Douglas didn’t forget though.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:13 PM
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The “cancer” discussed with HPV is cervical cancer. So, unless you have a pussy you won’t get it. And if you have an n count in double digits, and you haven’t had the vaccine the chances are you already have it or had it and cleared it. For men, the warts are really the only symptom. They are annoying enough to not want to deal with, though. Also, unless you are so anger stage that you don’t GAF about transmitting the kind that can cause Cervical cancer - get the vaccine so you’re not giving som…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 05:36 PM
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You forgot about Elon https://nyppagesix.files.wordpress.com/2018/07/elon.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=1236&h=820&crop=1
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:32 PM
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(PS: A fucking amazing seduction tip for guys —— if you notice loud men dominating a room or trying too hard to be alpha, make eye contact with a girl, look pointedly at the guy(s) for half a second, look back at her, and eye roll. She'll get it, and know that YOU get it, and practically fall in love with you for just that.) I think the reason this works is *not* because of the "I'm going to be the virtuous white knight!" angle, but rather it's the "haha look at these idiots circle jerking - and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:04 PM
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Soldier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:46 AM
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Woosh The point is, you and most women will twist and turn what you consider unhygienic and racist depending on the Chaddiness of the guy. The lower your SMV, the more likely you'll accuse a dude of being unhygienic for wearing the same shirt twice in a week and laughing at a Dave Chappelle joke. Meanwhile, Chad can get his onion smelling balls sucked right out of his game of pick up basketball while delivering the punchline "so they don't bite their fingers when eating tootsie rolls"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:44 AM
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Just be confident, Bro https://i.imgur.com/OQMAIqP.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:33 AM
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Lol cue all the supposedly woke PPD women squawking about how 'disgusting' The Daddy/Baby dynamic is without a second thought. Do you also declare how 'gross' you find men fucking each other in the ass or women rubbing their clams together? The Bulldyke / Lipstick lesbian dynamic? The Bear / Twink dynamic? Oh no. You'd *never* have a problem with that. The big bad patriarchal straight men's sexual proclivities are thoroughly 'problematic' though lol This is just another cases of the sample bias …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:23 AM
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Lol. I’m 6’0 so I’m not projecting. My dick isn’t big though, so maybe you could go with that. The point was your “list” came off as ridiculously entitled and was basically a catch-all for any man that isn’t some bitch doormat who would never dare say something offensive in your presence. You use vague terms like sexism, when most men know exactly what that means. It’s used as women’s get-out-of jail free card to act like the aggrieved party. “He said Lizzo is fat? HE’S SEXIST AND RACIST!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:00 AM
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Exactly. These women will point to things like “mansplaining” and “misgendering” as evidence you are a klansman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:44 AM
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You are doing the guy a favor. Eternally aggrieved / offended women looming for reasons to finger wag are insufferable to any man with a modicum of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:43 AM
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Lol. Lemme show you how ridiculous your list sounds to any man reading it. Example A: Girl talks shit about short men, broke guys or jokes about small dicks. Example B: Girl doesn’t keep her pussy shaved and sometimes it smells. She’s also rude to girls that she sees as hotter than her. Example C: Girl is whiny, passive aggressive or is just plain bitchy. So yeah. Just ruled out about 95% of women right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:40 AM
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Riiiiight. https://melmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Screen-Shot-2019-06-24-at-2.30.10-PM.png
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:34 AM
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That’s a new one. Isn’t the opposite the common narrative? I sure as shit love tossing a petite fuck-munchkin around in bed. Also, women posting on PPD or FDS are generally not going to be the best representation of how women feel about sex with men en large. You very often hear phrases like “it’s just a performance”, “I don’t even really like sex” and “vaginas don’t really feel pleasure” etc. That’s not even bringing up the constant lamenting of age gaps and the demonization of “porn sex” which…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:07 AM
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I absolutely do. AWALT and “The Wall” are horseshit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 03:07 AM
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Lol right. If your bone structure, nose and facial symmetry are shit that ain’t gonna matter man. https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcRIWDYGLuw8Pn1HYNb2o9OiwiJtUbaRnlok2oV5UTsBbJyffUjK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:37 AM
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Yes. I’m aware of that. That was mostly a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:14 AM
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Hate all you want. You'd *still* fuck this boogieman if he were Chad. Also, the lack of self awareness is strong here. Lol at "the views expressed by them online". Repeat after me: "The internet is *not* real life." It would be like me judging all women based on how catty women are on twitter, how vapid they are on Instagram and how cunty they are on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:09 AM
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Welp. At the risk of getting myself Doxx'ed, let's just say we're practically neighbors. Definitely a large population of young people. I mean, I'm a creative in tech and I'm a dinosaur compared to the rest of my office. Never heard of seeking.com, but will check it ou. And again, that's a brilliant set up with the van and driver. I mean, nobody has to worry about drinking and you can basically keep partying in the car. If I could drop $65k on a Sprinter I would. Maybe a Sienna or Town and Count…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:57 AM
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Lol genius. Love hearing tips from a fellow predator. Fuck Chris Hansen. Seriously though, I need to get my shit together and be more social. I live in a big west coast city but not LA so the women aren’t great to begin with. The job grind takes a lot out of me and my 3 heavy lifting days at the gym takes out the rest. My energy level doesn’t bounce back like it used to. I feel like I’m always either working, lifting, eating and the rest of the time I’m sleeping from exhaustion from the previous…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:50 AM
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Actually it’s accurate to say I don’t get out much these days. Being a 60+ hour a week office drone has done that. My social life consists of bars in my neighborhood, which puts me more around either people in their 40’s who still party or groups of kids in their 20’s who don’t really mix with older people in that setting. I’ve dated plenty of younger women (last one was 24 while I was 46). She was a waitress that I met through an ex. I think I just need to expand my social circle and not rely o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:49 PM
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Where do you find your 24 year olds at 41? Only place I know to consistently interact with those as a 40 something is a strip club lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:23 PM
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Umm. No. No amount of weight loss will grow me a chin or make my nose smaller or my eyes symmetric.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:13 PM
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Because women say they “need” a guy to be A, B and C, but will fuck Chad within minutes even though he exhibits the polar opposite of A, B and C. A, B and C are generally some virtue signaling high-minded horse shit like being “sapiosexual” or wanting a “down to earth guy” etc It’s the complete inability to just say “I’ll be a filthy fuck slut for Chad and he doesn’t have to do anything but exist and hopefully not beat me up. Yes. Chad is my kryptonite”. Men will very often straight up say thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:10 AM
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Lol. This is poetry. “Widening your throat” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:35 AM
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Goddamn. Fellow single mom and 3 (older) sisters survivor here. That shit was like being force fed blue pull shit for the first 18 years of my life. I didn’t really unlearn that shit until my 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:56 AM
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How old are you? Did you grow up in the pre-internet era? Yes, there were rumor mills. There always have been. They were generally limited to communities and whisper campaigns at most. Outside of things like Ärea 51, the rest came and went quickly. The media has sensationalized shit forever. Shark attacks, D&D killing people and Satanic Cults were always talked about. You know where they appeared? Weekly World News and The National Enquirer. They were fucking novelty stories that only people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:00 AM
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Lol. Those are just urban legends that KIDS believe. They existed when I was growing up in the 70’s / 80’s and always will. That’s a damn sight from adults going to pizza parlors with a gun or an actual “society” believing in a flat earth. Come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:54 PM
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I think we’re arguing the same thing. Lol. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:19 AM
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You’ve never seen a Chad turn a square / nice girl who has rejected countless simps trying to get at her go home with Chad to bang within 10 minutes? You haven’t hung out with Chad enough then. Seen this shit countless times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:13 AM
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80% of women posting on PPD/FDS: Men are pornsick losers! Stop wanting uncomfortable sex acts and be a loving partner! No girls actually like that porn shit! 80% of women IRL after the door closes: Choke me, slap me, gag me with your cock daddy! And people wonder why they say “watch what they do” The ASD is strong with these ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:10 AM
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That’s redundant. Chad doesn’t need to seduce “those women”, but everybody else does. PS - women who don’t need to be seduced by Chad are comprised mostly of women claiming they are the type that need to be seduced. Any guy with 1 or more Chad friends has seen this shit ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:33 AM
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I’d say it’s more the middle aged women that got burned by some dude, became single, realized she’s not physically desired by Chad as much and thus is disgusted by men in general now. See: All the shaming of men for dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:29 AM
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Uh. No. They know there are guys that don’t have the same shitty experience as them. Do you even Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:26 AM
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Not really. This is what Chad is. Chad doesn’t need to “seduce” or rely on any “reactive” nonsense. Girls want to fuck Chad because he’s Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:13 AM
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You see this plenty. The buttoned down lawyer or marketing professional woman in love with with the “no good” bad boy that plays in a band or fixes motorcycles and gives her tingles. This notion that it is about money / career is far too narrow a view of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:59 AM
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Thanks. Yeah. I’m way too old for them, but I like what I like. Drunk threesomes, doing coke off each other, filthy rough sex, etc. Spent enough time married to squares, I’ll take a fellow freak any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:51 AM
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Lol. Upvote for honesty. I do the same thing. Shits exhausting. 4-life for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:47 AM
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“Sluttiest bimbo who does hard drugs” fan checking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:45 AM
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Reminds me the Anthony Jeselnik joke. I just found out my blood type is O-Negative. It means I’m even cooler than I thought. It means I can can donate blood to anybody in the world.... that also has AIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:42 AM
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I’m guessing you’re young and don’t actually remember the 90’s that well because you couldn’t be more wrong. Weird fringe beliefs like flat earth, and pizza gate are products of modern social media period. Creationism was always just a religion thing and still is a thing, aliens are no less believed, and the Santanism scare was in the 80’s and perpetuated by the media and last about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:38 AM
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Ok. I will commend you for being consistent. If you are willing to assign blame to victims in all the cases I listed, I think you are just a person lacking empathy. Not a hypocrite, just cold hearted. Probably from some eastern bloc country would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:16 AM
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Again. You are fucking lying. Maybe you have more in common with Amber than you think. Proof that he “hit her back”? I’ll wait And the fact that “hitting somebody back” that is in the process of hitting you is a somehow evidence of being a shitty person is fucking ridiculous. He “had it coming” because he dared to marry a younger woman. Lmao. That’s like saying a woman “had that broken jaw coming” because she married a UFC fighter. Did Rihanna “have it coming?” Do women who get raped after going…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:55 AM
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Same. I don’t mind a bimbo at all. As long as she’s fun, easy going and adventurous and fucks well, i’d definitely LTR her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:46 AM
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You are stating things as fact without any evidence while simultaneously ignoring easily proven facts to the absolute contrary. That’s not an opinion, it’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:13 AM
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No dumb ass, the girl who works at an art gallery and does hair on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:58 AM
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You again? Let's add you to the likes of LilithOfBabylon as one of those deliberately obtuse posters that will ignore any and all facts in order to justify your preconceived notions. You're holding on too tight. You keep chiming in without knowing wtf you are talking about. You're trying to assign culpability to him, why? Because he did other bad stuff in his private life? Because he went for a younger woman? Because he cheated? None of that has ANY bearing on him defending himself against her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:53 AM
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You sound like an FDS'er Most men will gladly take an agreeable, warm and intellectually curious barista with an art degree over a cunty career woman any day. Not saying all career women are cunty, but they do tend to be more on the "Karen" side of things. Some abrasive white trash Wal-mart clerk isn't going to cut it either. The point is, an agreeable, warm woman is of more value to most men's life than some bitchy ladder climber. I'd say good examples of this is the wife in America Beauty or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:50 AM
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Do some research before talking about how he “just wants it to go away”. He’s suing her for 50m for defamation and the trial starts in a few months. He publicly supports various people who have pointed out the inconsistencies / lies in the accusations towards him since he can’t make those claims himself. I don’t know what your obsession with him feeling “shame” about dealing with a crazy bitch is, but there is no shame in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:01 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say You cannot negotiate attraction Abundance Uber Alles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:20 AM
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Actually that’s a good one. But again, he’s more dorky than Chaddy. Also effeminate. I mean Jesus, there was a long period in which “Is Daniel Tosh ...” would auto complete as “gay”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:48 PM
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Mulaney has zero edge. He is also vaguely effeminate and looks like he got bullied in school. Not an ex-jock Chad. I find it totally ironic that the actual ex-jock comedian is Gary Gulman who is a clinically depressed hyper sensitive dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:35 PM
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As an example I’ve never heard a “funny” woman point blank say “I’m fat, I have to be funny.” I’ve heard plenty of men say something similar. This type of brutal insight and ability to admit the ugly truth is super rare in women and far more common in men. One of the very few “brutal truth” bits I heard from a female comedian was from Whitney Cummings when she admitted seeing her boyfriend trip over a curb triggered a primal disgust and reduced her attraction to him. What passes for insightful f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:17 PM
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I’d put Chris Delia in this category but not really Jeselnik. Jeselnik is an interesting case. His conventional good looks are actually part of his act. His whole sociopath persona wouldn’t work if he wasn’t good looking. But his brand of humor would never take off (ie get a sitcom or some shit) regardless of what he looked like. I think Mark Normand has the right balance of goofy and good looking to hit but he hasn’t for some reason. Dane Cook in his heyday is the closest I’ve seen to a “Chad” …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:05 PM
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Lol. You are not a person capable of reasonable discussion. You are clearly a deep state conspiracy theorist Alex Jones style cultist. You are the right’s reflection of an SJW. The same paranoia and rage run through your veins, you just root for a different team. Why would anybody listen to you or try to talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:21 PM
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Ok. I don’t disagree with any of what you just said, but I think the larger point was to point put that society in general will scream very loud at just about any accusation against a man, but say virtually nothing when a man has clearly been victimized by a woman. The reason for that is part of the “woke” dogma right now is that men (especially straight, white men) are to be assumed guilty by default. As far as encouraging Depp to not see himself as a pitiable victim, I totally agree. I hope yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:24 AM
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Saying the his drug use and the fact that he dared to date a woman younger than him means he “deserves no sympathy” for being abused, blackmailed and canceled, is similar to saying a woman who fucks a lot of guys deserves no sympathy because she “put herself in danger”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:06 AM
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Respect Patrice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:04 AM
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This is real shit. Thanks for the reminder. The internet is not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:02 AM
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Trump is a piece of shit and so is Amber. The “women are always the victim” narrative has nothing to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:01 AM
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Yep. Amber’s behavior on those recordings and her brand of crazy are far more common than women want you to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:59 AM
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Lol. Why was everybody so concerned about the endless list of wannabe starlets screamed about how bad it was when they chose to fuck a fat troll for a movie part? And what if there were no tapes? Yeah that’s right. People would call for him to never work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:58 AM
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Good for you. Now acknowledge how the world came to a stand still because b-list has beens like Alyssa Milano and Rose McGowan screeched about shit which led to an army of women taking to social media to make it sound like they had to take a rape shower because their boss complimented their dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:51 AM
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I’m sure you say the same thing for all the crazy and dysfunctional women who knowingly choose to be in relationships with violent men and subsequently get punched in the face. No sympathy for the drug addict woman right with a history of being a bitch right? It’s just a “mutually toxic” situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:47 AM
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She was promiscuous, so she can’t be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:39 AM
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Rose McGowan is also a crack head. Should all her screaming be disregarded as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:36 AM
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It’s not fair Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:50 PM
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Good list but ... Why have none of the posts included “self awareness” / “aware of my faults” and “can control my crazy”? Those have typically been the deal breakers with women even if they have the other boxes checked off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:49 PM
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You are looking for some kind of rational and reasonable argument as to why people like certain sex acts. That in itself is telling. Look, there’s “making love” and there’s “fucking” Nothing wrong with making love, but men (and women) often also just want to fuck in depraved ways. Maybe your man just really doesn’t have side in him. But if he does ....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:36 PM
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Sex isn’t a transaction of act for act. Men and women get off on different things. Many women get wet just from giving deep throat blow jobs because the submission aspect turns them on so much. Again. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:22 PM
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TIL, oral sex is “nasty porn like” things. Again, good luck with your man being a-ok with that type of inhibited sex being the end of his sexual experience as the months and years drag on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:14 PM
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Didn’t say he’d stop. Just said in my long life experience, people (especially men) tend to develop a taste for freaky, nasty women when stuck in a relationship with a prude for long enough. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:03 PM
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Hey, if sugar free vanilla sex and begrudging blow jobs are enough for you and your beloved, more power to you. To me, it sounds like like an absolute dead bedroom waiting to happen and a one way ticket to getting cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:51 PM
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Lol. You know nothing. My 3 sisters, grandmother who I took care of for 1 year, 2 aunts and mother who I took care of for 2 years might differ with your conclusion. I recognize toxic female behavior when I see it, and FDS is toxic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:39 AM
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Reality check for the Feminist Delusion Society members in this thread: - The Sub DOES gleefully circle jerk in man hate, plot manipulation and exploitation. You can present it as "tee hee, this is just girl's humor!" but the words speak for themselves. It's clearly deep seated rage borne out of pain inflicted on them in previous relationships. It's fine. But don't try to sell it as some high comedy. Ranting about 'scores' and 'couch creatures' is no different than TRP anger stage ranting about …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:21 PM
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That’s not evidence. Her point blank saying “I was hitting you” and “I can’t promise I won’t get physical with you again” is evidence. Who gives a fuck if they are “both assholes”. Only one got gleefully publicly crucified, while the other got endorsement deals, sympathy, praise and was made the fucking ACLU spokesperson for “domestic abuse” There was no “both sides” talk back then was there?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:00 AM
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Man, the excuses and equivocating on this thread are hilarious. What I find especially funny is that so many of the fat women posting here will also jump on men who talk about how much work he has to do to merely be fuckable, saying shit like "Oh Boo Hoo! You have to work for it? (job, fitness, confidence, hair, height, etc) Tough shit! Man up!" etc. More than half of the posters here that are fat, I've seen lambasting men for all manner of weakness of character / behavior. Yet, when it comes ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:11 PM
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Yes. And that epidemic of people dying in the gutter cause the porn they OD’d on tainted porn. TF outta here with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:43 AM
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Dude. You are delusional if you think that chick is anything but hot. Is she a super model? No. Is she a little trashy looking? Sure. But that “stomach pouch” is well within the healthy / sexy range on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:39 AM
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lol wtf did I just watch? That was like a cross between Spring Breakers and Hostel. I was waiting for an invitation to a party in Slovakia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:36 AM
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What exactly is the point of that link? It’s 2+ years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:03 AM
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Are you saying that your post was meant to be about the mainstream reaction to the Amber/Johnny situation not about the abuse itself Yes. ​ If so why did you say "The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievances" instead of "The public's reaction to the Amber Heard audio is typical of our culture's apathy towards male victims of domestic abuse?" ​ Simple. Because, unlike men, women are uniquely portrayed as empathetic and compassionate. And they are; Towards animals, children…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:28 AM
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Evidence? We have her flat out admitting attacking him repeatedly. He may have very well “put hands” on her. The question was, was he just physically lashing out at her for no reason or was he defending himself? If woman is throwing shit, hitting and attacking a man and he pushes her off him, is that “abuse”? It (at the very least) means her entire narrative of being a “victim” is absolute bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:35 PM
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The difference with the dude wanting to bang the hot crazy chick is simple. Men’s nature to do all manner of depraved shit is drilled into girls from before they get their first period. Unless a boy has a father or close relative that is basically RP’d, he’s shit out of luck because neither his family nor society is going to prepare him to navigate women’s unique brand of shittiness. In fact, they will tell very often imply or even outright teach him the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:26 AM
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She had already dropped those lawsuits, after she was caught repeatedly lying (and faking injuries). She continued to push the narrative that Depp was an abuser (causing him to be dropped by Disney) Depp is counter-suing her for defamation. Rather than acknowledge her obvious insanity in the audio, her lawyer released a statement saying "just because she 'fought back' doesn't mean she wasn't abused" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:56 AM
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So, wait, if in a normal conversation, a woman says "No mother wants to see her children hurt!" You would seriously stand up and say "STOP! STOP! What about Casey Anthony! What about Susan Smith!!" If so, you might be an autist. And as for your need for absolute specificity even in colloquial English: Why did you not say "2 men"? Why did you not say "Some men"? Why did you not "Most men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:49 AM
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I'll give you that my username is unfortunate, and makes it hard to see my posts as objective, but believe me, I am. The username was created years ago, as a burner account to post on what was then a somewhat 'sane' version of TheRedPill. It is a play on a character from the Zelda Game, Wind Waker "The King Of Red Dragons". It's a sarcastic piss-take on TRP more than anything. I posted enough with it that I didn't make a new one. I disdain that sub as much as FDS for the most part. >Johnny Depp …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:40 AM
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Why do you guys feels the need to distance yourselves from one another? Why would I separate the term "men" from thugs and criminals? Why do women need to "distance" themselves from Casey Anthony, Lorena Bobbitt, Diane Wuornos? They're part of "women" right? Ok, I guess I should include Ted Bundy and Hitler in any further frame of reference if I say "Men don't walk around trying to rape and murder women or commit genocide" A quick scroll through your comment history shows you stating "Men want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:23 AM
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Thugs or criminals say these things. Basically, people that don’t fear jail. Just say that instead. One might say “paraplegics don’t commit robberies.” which is understood, despite there being stories of people in wheel chairs shoplifting. In english parlance, when we say “no person would X” it is commonly understood to mean that no right thinking, average person, who cares about consequences would do X” I’m guessing you might be on the spectrum? Not being mean, but it truly sounds that way. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:49 AM
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You can’t be this dumb. You just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:11 AM
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No offense, but I'm guessing you live in some kind of impoverished low-class, low education area. (white trash, ghetto, bario, whatever) where men don't understand or fear the dire consequences of the legal system should they strike a woman under any circumstances. Or maybe you're a teenager? Only people with nothing to lose think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:04 AM
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I'll give you one more: You could also say: "Nobody would shoot someone in broad daylight in a busy intersection" But it happens. Does it then follow that people think they have the go-ahead to do that without consequences? No. No it doesn't. No try to pay attention, Diamond: A woman hits a man, there are most likely no consequences FOR HER because the man understands he faces jail if he retaliates. Now that woman understands she has the go ahead to be physical whenever she is feeling angry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:00 AM
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Filthy animal? I'm not the one shitting on / minimizing the experience of victims. If you've taken a course in self defense, they teach you to walk away from a potentially dangerous situation. Wait, what? I addressed this. Amber (like many women) was specifically upset that he walked away "when things got physical" you think she is ALONE in this? lol Because all billions of men on Earth have been abused by women. What does the audio have to do with billions of men? Billions of men? What - You kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:57 AM
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How TF are you this dense? The fact that those men are IN JAIL is evidence that society does punish men for laying a hand on a woman (even in self defense) which is exactly why men sit and take physical attacks from women 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:53 AM
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Damn, you're real creative. You should write a blog with that kind of wit. Your claim was it was MEN who give MEN other shit for getting hit by women. Women give men shit in a much more (typical) passive aggressive way. The rest of your copy/past doesn't even make any sense. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:52 AM
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A lot of men will hit a woman in self defense. Where are you getting the opposite from? WTF are you ta- Oh.. you again. Yes, they hit back in WorldStar land. Out here in sane world, no man risks jail for such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:47 AM
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Has it really? With audio evidence like this? Link please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:43 AM
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Good for you. I've never raped a woman either. Guess it's not a real problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:42 AM
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You don't know how to walk away? Aaaand another point in the dismissive cunt column. Ask any man to be honest, and he will tell you stories of women who pull, punch, throw shit and stand in front of a fucking door because the guy is "not taking her seriously" Listen to the fucking audio: AH**: I’m not going to get into the details of that fight. You and I both know that you split when there is no physical violence involved and that you do it… like at the very beginning of fights these days. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:38 AM
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TF are you talking about? Do you live in a Worldstar Video? You clueless women just can't help yourselves huh? Proving this fucking dismissive attitude over and over and over again. Now it's MEN who do the shaming. Nevermind, I would guess EVERY man has heard many times in his life the kind of belittling AH vomits out while "living her truth". "I did not punch you! Stop being a baby! YOU'RE SUCH A FUCKING BABY!!" No man has EVER said "You are such a PUSSY for letting that bitch hit you!" because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:29 AM
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Ah, if it ain’t ol’ Tedious & Obtuse. Please move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:34 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:09 PM
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I am sincerely thankful to see a post like this. I know that there are other women out there like you, because I’ve met them. Trust me, self-aware, humble empathetic women and are greatly appreciated by men (and society). Though we really need to show it more. Unfortunately, Society (and men) will continue to allow hot thots to get away with this shit, solely because they are hot. We are in an era right now that not only encourages but glorified behavior like Amber Heard’s: “Yaaas Queen! You a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:42 PM
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You’re all over the place here. No clue what your contribution is other than “I don’t care” ? Good for you. The audio just came out yesterday btw so. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:38 PM
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I’ll be waiting for your campaign to turn back the recent dominant narrative that most if not all men are sexual harassers, power abusers and potential rapists. Take care of that one first please. Oh and I’ll go out on a limb and say just as many men have had experiences reminiscent of what is discussed on the audio as women have been “sexually assaulted.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:29 PM
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Maybe you’ve been off the internet for the past 3 or so years, but there’s this thing that happened called #MeToo that has turned into a bit of a shit show. You may need to catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:26 PM
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Lol. Ok so you’re talking feminists nobody has heard of being cannibalized by other feminists for not being feminist enough. Not really the same thing as a public figure being threatened with boycotts and having to do an apology tour because they said maybe we should start focusing on due process a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:24 PM
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Name one woman who lost a job or even got serious shit for questioning a #metoo charge. I’ll wait. I can name 5 men off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:18 PM
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Erm because men are fucking terrified to be seen as going against #believewomen Women can do so without getting cancelled. A few did including comedian (and friend) Doug Stanhope. He wrote an article about the shit he saw her do to him. She threatened a lawsuit then backed down,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:12 PM
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Um this kind of shit is absolutely commonplace. Shit, at least 4 of my 6 LTR’s used the exact same language / emotions / words that she did in this audio. (Don’t walk away from a fight, you need to argue to show you care, I should be able to throw things at you, etc) Of course reddit / YouTube commenters are going to say they aren’t like that and what a “crazy bitch” Heard is. Right. Here’s an idea: #believemen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:42 PM
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I’m not talking about the fringes. I’m talking about mainstream attitudes towards psychological abuse of men and the #believewomen bullshit painting any accused man as a monster. This (audio)is the part that people don’t see and if they do, they (women) tell the man to “grow up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:37 PM
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This isn’t about “attacking genders” as much as it is attacking prevalent attitudes among them. A majority of my past long term girlfriends have engaged in very similar shit (or worse) I’d wager that many men reading this have had similar experiences. IME, this isn’t “two spoiled” celebrities talking. This is a an emotionally exhausted man trying to negotiate some kind of peace with a woman who is addicted to drama and (physical) is conflict. Don’t kid yourself that this shit isn’t commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:32 PM
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It’s also pretty likely just in, you know, the common course of life. I hope you are shown as much empathy for your blind spots as you show others. Oh but, of course, you don’t have any, right? Love has never made anyone blind ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:16 PM
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Yep. Good thing you’re infallible and won’t ever get surprised by a psycho or con artist. Let’s see how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:07 PM
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Jeeze. It’s good you’re not calling her an angel. Just a little misunderstood maybe? Those articles are from months ago. Did you even listen to the audio? Have you ever tried to kick doors down or block your man from leaving with your own body because he wouldn’t “stay and fight”? “You’d mock him too” for daring to call you out for hitting him in the face? You sound like a real peach. My condolences to any man who has the misfortune of dating you. This is what it’s come to, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:55 AM
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Ok. Fair enough. I believe you’d be called a victim blamer by most people then, but you are consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:49 AM
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I do. Various, diverse circles of friends, family, and acquaintances. It’s real. The men in these situations are often patted on the back Lol. Oh yeah? How is the weather in Saudi Arabia today anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:26 AM
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when you choose a partner DECADES younger then you and they they act LESS MATURE" She was 30 years old when this happened. Ok, reading the rest of your post I can see you are one of those FDS/2X'ers with the co-morbid age-gap hysteria, so not sure how much will be gained from engaging you, but your whole diatribe is really no different than saying: "If you are a woman, and get raped by a man in the hotel room, sucks... but maybe you shouldn't have gone up. You had bad judgement" or "If your man …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:20 AM
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Again. Where the *fuck* are you meeting guys IRL that say this shit? I have not met a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:55 AM
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I'm confused, so you are on board with "the abused is culpable for their own abuse by virtue of "picking the abuser"? Just want to get that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:53 AM
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Again. Too much time on reddit. No man would say "she got what she deserved" if the new husband started beating her. What fucking men are you talking to? Internet people, I'd guess. FDS'ers would defend Lorena Bobbitt and Diane Wuornos, but you don't hear that much in public either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:30 AM
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You are spending too much time on the internet. What "men" are saying that shit outside of MRA/Incel/MGTOW types? Yeah, that's what I thought. Even if "men" said that (they don't) society collectively "feels sorry" for women in those situations to the extent there are national ad campaigns, hash tags, male feminists and women's marches and shelters about it. Men literally get told "Stop being a fucking BABY!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:05 AM
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How is it the posts here are missing the chicken and egg here? The point is hot women are crazy in the first place. They get away with the crazy *because* they are hot. A crazy average chick is getting jack shit. Women mistake lack of drama for lack of interest. Women like attention, so when they create drama, they feel like they are being given that attention and thus "the relationship is working" and "he treats me like a queen" He's actually just walking on egg-shells because you are hot, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:55 AM
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Are you about a size 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:20 PM
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I think the hot / crazy ratio is applicable not just in the sense of how crazy somebody is relative to how hot they are, but more importantly it correlates with how much crazy / douchiness will be put up with in exchange for their hotness. https://miro.medium.com/max/1136/1*79nRWhJ2hYzpHfXnSGc5hQ.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:19 PM
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Fucking this. With out fail, no matter what they say, if you dare reveal fear. weakness or self doubt, they’ll pat you on the head, but then, soon, the bitchiness starts and attraction stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:10 PM
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And the bitter old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:58 PM
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Lena Dunham and up, I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:07 PM
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Lmao. Right. No women have rape fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:02 PM
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Yech. you just made dominant / rough sex sound like a grocery store romance novel. Do you use candles and aromatics too? “Respect” has nothing to do with it IMO. IME the best sex is sex without dignity. “respect and explore my body!” Lol thats Some 50 shades shit. “I felt like a queen when He touched me down there!” IME, When women want to be dominated they tell you to use them as their fuck toy. They want to gag on your cock until they are tearing up. Maybe you don’t like that but I assure you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:54 PM
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Yech. you just made dominant / rough sex sound like a grocery store romance novel. Do you use candles and aromatics too? “Respect” has nothing to do with it IMO. IME the best sex is sex without dignity. “respect and explore my body!” Lol thats Some 50 shades shit. “I felt like a queen when He touched me down there!” IME, When women want to be dominated they tell you to use them as their fuck toy. They want to gag on your cock until they are tearing up. Maybe you don’t like that but I assure you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:53 PM
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And no matter what proof is shown or points made, SunflowerBurst and her sisters will ignore them so they can be cunty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:42 AM
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I don't know that you are a misandrist, but I know you are a troll. It means jack shit that SJW's dislike you. It probably means you just gratuitously stir shit on on other subs too. Your posts indicate that you get off on being contrarian in general and get a troll boner by stirring shit up. Your behavior is typical of ideologues who desperately cling to their pet issues and only see in black and white about them. Similar to Incels, ironically. It's annoying on a sub that is supposed to be a me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:37 AM
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Was the subject under discussion "What is the reason that women's issues are given attention, and men's issues aren't?" NO. That was NOT the subject. You know that was not the subject. Hence you are moving the fucking goal posts(for like the 3rd time). JFC@ every woman on this thread demonstrating all the stereotypes of how women argue. Make a point and then they bring up some other shit that has nothing to do with what is being talked about. If you want to have the discussion over *why* men's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:29 AM
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You are entitled to your own opinions. You are not entitled to your own facts. When presented with facts, you and others on this thread move the goalposts. You are simply engaging in that practice so you don’t need to stop and think about new information that may go against your arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:58 PM
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Your mind, as well as a few others in this thread are made up and are incapable of seeing new perspectives. Your need to deflect, change the subjects or feign ignorance is highly indicative of somebody who understands the truth, but also lacks the ability to say “I never considered that perspective” on subjects like this. When dealing with people like that (ie debating in bad faith) it is only practical to argue to the readers / listeners and reveal your hypocrisy for them to see for themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:52 PM
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You have been called out on this in this thread repeatedly, but it’s obvious that you will continue to move the goal posts of your argument and refuse to acknowledge the obvious. The fact that you’ll equate a fringe reddit sub with the most popular / watched women’s talk show on earth speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:23 PM
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You are talking in circles and being deliberately obtuse because you don’t want to acknowledge the fundamental point. I’m done trying to get you to admit what you know is the truth and will leave it to any impartial readers to decide which argument has actual merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:17 PM
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This isn’t “whataboutism” , this is literally addressing the CMV. We are discussing society / women’s attitude at large, not somebody whose dad got prostate cancer. Those aren’t the same fucking thing. Any women’s issue above breaking a finger nail is turned into a national emergency. Why? Because women complain. Women love complaining. You know what else women love complaining about? Men who complain about their actual issues. (“Stop being entitled! Stop whining! Stop derailing!”, “stop manspla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:58 PM
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“The view” is wildly popular. It represents women’s sensibilities more than MGTOW represents men’s. You also keep harping on what was one single comment about Roman Polanski from one single host rather than the entire panel and audience hooting and hollering over an extended segment. The view is the fucking panel on which men have to go do their apology tours. (See: Norm Macdonald). There’s a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:53 PM
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Openly and without repercussions for the person saying said shitty thing? No. No, I don’t. Oh the other hand ... https://time.com/3837979/beach-body-ready-protest-advertisements/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/01/09/jillian-michaels-lizzo-fat-shaming/ https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5d7b6a61e4b077dcbd5c4fda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:46 PM
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Rather you like it or not, they are still men. You dont get to pretend someone's not a guy just because they embarrass you. Did you read your responses / rebuttals to that "View" video? This is literally exactly what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:06 PM
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Is that right? So you don't believe men are commonly shamed / ridiculed for just discussing their confusion and frustration about being sexually unsuccessful? You've never heard the term "neckbeard", "incel", or "creep" to refer to a man who was legitimately struggling to understand his own lack of success regardless of his attitude toward women? I'll help you. You just did that 2 posts up. Imagine saying "Some fat bitch, self medicating with food because she's too weak willed to hit the gym doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:58 PM
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My life has been affected by both prostate cancer and breast cancer. I care. You are again saying this right after I made clear this has nothing to do with those "directly effected". You'd also likely care about Native American alcoholism if you were on a reservation. That doesn't mean "society" gives a fuck. This is about observing and acknowledging reality as it stands and how it got that way. Your argument is "men didn't complain enough!" lmao You miss the point where any "fight for awareness…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:50 PM
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Again, does society ask those questions? That is the fucking point. I'm no SJW, but the questions society should ask (and rightfully so) are these: You didn't finish highschool? You sold drugs? Why did that happen? What were the circumstances that led you down that path? How can we address those? Do you have any marketable skills? No? Why not? What were you told would work / wouldn't work and by who? You need to have a 'professional' attitude, but you find yourself simultaneously criticized for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:26 PM
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What the fuck is your thing with jumping from "don't be a cunt" to "You expect me to have unwanted sex with a neckbeard"!? And you really think the whole "fat pride" bullshit is limited to lizzo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:19 PM
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what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:16 PM
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Are you implying that unless I personally become an activist for prostate cancer right now that I don’t care? The OP is about "women in society in general" It's clear women in society in general don't give a flying fuck about men's issues, but men are expected to care about women's issues (and show it goddamn it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:15 PM
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I think it can be difficult to properly express those feelings as a man without coming off as entitled or whiny or blaming other In other words, men have to take getting shit on by women who themselves get all of society catering to their ever increasingly ridiculous list of grievances. Herein lies the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:02 PM
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lol - and what better way to encourage them to get that help other than than shaming them by calling them incels, entitled, losers, creepy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:00 PM
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We actually understand this better than the men suffering from it. "Men's problem is that they don't understand how bad women's problems are." LMAO@ Inadvertently demonstrating the problem with each of your solipsistic posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:58 PM
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How does it help girls when society coddles and pities them when Chad breaks their heart in high school because he ended up dating some Stacy after taking the "nice girl's" virginity? It's called basic human empathy. It's known to actually help people pull out of a psychological nose dive, and prepare for more obstacles ahead. Or so I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:54 PM
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Ok, let's try this: People will stop being racists when black people stop blaming their failures on society. Does that put what you are saying in perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:47 PM
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How are you this blind? It's patently seen as OK to laugh at all manner of men's plights and call them petty or pathetic (or just say they are the fault of the man himself) Baldness, dick size, lack of sexual success, being short - these are all MAINSTREAM butts of jokes, and nobody loves to joke about these things in a more mean spirited way than women. Meanwhile, somebody says Lizzo might possibly be unhealthy and there's a fucking shitstorm of women jumping all over her for body shaming a stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:43 PM
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Women do not demonize men for being “sexual failures.” And there we have it, gentlemen. This is the kind of utter failures of self-awareness we are dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:40 PM
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Every guy has a story of a woman who was bitchy and stand-offish who was riding his dick later that night. Ever hear of “shit tests”? They’re a very real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:18 PM
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Lol so you start a whole thread telling men not to approach women because you’re “irritated” about how much men want to date women. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:12 PM
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Lol ok you’re a size queen nm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:04 PM
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How would penis size matter if the actual vagina is without pleasure sensitivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:03 PM
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Lol. Stop it. If men waited for women to do what you describe, most men would die virgins. The reeks of the “enthusiastic consent” fairytale. Women are coy. Women play games. Women are not self aware when it comes to flirting / showing sexual interest because they don’t have to be. The burden is on men. Ask any man and he will have countless stories of some woman who basically behaved completely indifferent to him and later hearing “she was totally in to you! She wanted you to make a move!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:55 PM
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Let’s recap the OP shall we: OP Claims “men” equate divorce and blue balls to rape and child abuse. It’s shown that only MGTOWs and Incels make such a claim. Result: FALSE / TROLL OP Claims Women care about men’s issues like war and one anecdotal story of a child being made trans. It’s shown that these issues are not “Men’s” issues, but issues of maternal / familial sympathy for children / brothers and of moral objection. Result: INACCURATE OP castigates men as insufferable whiners(as OP has an …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:42 PM
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This sounds like you have an issue with friends being crass / joking around each other I'm guessing you don't have much experience being funny or crafting jokes. I hear men laughing about fucking teens and babies Dark Humor? >making rape jokes, I'm guessing you've never laughed at a racial joke, a sexist joke, a joke about homeless people, a joke about murder right? Here's a couple you might like: "I used to date hispanic guys, but now I prefer consensual" "I was raped by a doctor. Which is so b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:55 AM
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my sympathy might go up. A. I don't think anybody actually gives a fuck about the sympathy of a committed ideologue. The goal is to cut through your bullshit in case some fence sitter might be actually starting to buy it. Your posts are almost all anti-male trolling and not at all interested in actual discourse or learning new perspectives. It's just a bunch of venting some of some clearly deep seated issues with men. You aren't fooling anybody. B. Nobody outside of people who feverishly follow …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:46 AM
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Proof or it doesn't happen. https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/chosrq/hosts_of_the_talk_joke_about_a_man_whos_penis_was/ Go ahead and start your hamstering (oh they were joking! not all women would say those things!). Common sense will tell you the attitude exhibited in that video is the norm among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:58 AM
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Women: "We care about men's issues too!!!" Men: "Here's a real issue. Prostate cancer. There's not enough funding" Women: "Tough shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:50 AM
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Actual footage of women being sympathetic to a man’s issue https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/chosrq/hosts_of_the_talk_joke_about_a_man_whos_penis_was/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:23 AM
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Ever watch Foot Ball / Baseball during breast cancer awareness month? Meanwhile, I don’t recall seeing Megan Rapinoe wearing any prostate cancer awareness gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:06 AM
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The fuck are you even talking about at this point? Lol. Wow some guy’s family member dragged him to a therapist? Welp. All is in balance now. Never mind societal attitudes at large that enable and forgive nearly all psycho women like the abuser under the guise of “You go queen! Show them men who’s boss!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:56 AM
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If there were a post (and I think there was one during purge) of the tip 5 most disingenuous trolling FDS posters we all know who would be included. People read this shit you know? It’s not news who shit posts “men are dumb entitled whiners!1!1” shit every other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:42 AM
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Me; Raises legitimate issue that effects men (and men of color the most) You: Thats whining! Me: Raises issue of systemic sexism on the governmental level You: I have a crazy uncle! Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:37 AM
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In other words you DGAF about actual men’s issues and couldn’t be bothered to even do basic research in the midst of the man hating circle jerk. Thanks for proving the point. I’m sure that pointing out that you are ignorant about this shit is going to be called “whining” https://prostate.org.nz/2014/01/men-die-earlier-womens-health-gets-four-times-funding/ https://www.cor-law.com/blog/women-get-child-custody-90-percent-cases-isnt-gender-discrimination.html/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:31 AM
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Dude. You are the clear as day man hating troll on PPD. You are an FDS’er in spirit even if you probably use a different account to post there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:16 AM
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Those aren’t “men’s” issues as you well know. How about prostate cancer, child custody and prison reform? Yeah. Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:08 AM
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This is just an FDS troll and not a legit CMV imo. But LO fucking L at the shit you listed. No men outside of a few radical Incels would claim Blue Balls and the like is some issue that deserves some candle light vigil. Meanwhile women will make national fucking emergencies out of: Fat “shaming” Manspreading Mansplaining Jokes told by comedians Guy’s not texting them back fast enough Ugly guys trying to flirt with them A guy attempting a kiss on a date Fictional depictions of women in TV, movies…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:00 AM
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I was shocked to realize that nothing had really changed. I still had romantic options, I was still pursued Women’s advantage in the dating game continues until you are literally unfuckable. For a man, you have to work. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 11:33 PM
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Totally get it. And I wasn’t implying anything about vaginal orgasms as a response to Chad, just that women would get more ‘turned on’ and mentally there to have a clitoral orgasm for Chad them for Creepy McSausagefingers. And yes, my point is that variances of g-spot / clit sensitivity need to be accounted for. Not that some women have magical vaginas that get massive pleasure passed the first couple of inches. Another thing that this whole discussion has illuminated is why women can show avers…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 11:28 PM
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Again, not invalidating your experience but your description of moaning and shaking simply being some pantomime to “set the mood” does not sound universal. This is the equivalent to saying “women don’t get much out of a big dick” when clearly some do. It’s already been established that PIV sex can in and of itself be very pleasurable when the right spots are hit on the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:48 PM
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Totally makes sense. However, I would imagine clit stimulation would give an orgasm in the presence of high attraction (ie Chad)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:43 PM
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I’m also curious how size queens factor into this. Is this pretty much saying that, for size queens, the need for a monster dick is almost purely psychological and visual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:23 PM
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It sounds like you just may just not enjoy the “act” of PIV sex itself in general. It happens. But NAWALT. Based on responses in this thread it would sound like there are some legitimate anatomical differences in women that may affect the pleasure sensation during PIV in various positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:07 PM
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Right. And “getting sunlight, exercise and healthy food” is “pussy shit too right? I mean, you won’t DIE without it. So, just be content living a half complete life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:51 AM
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I’ll say this. A good 90% of women in my family, that I’ve met or had relationships were in in no way what I would consider authentic. Women are well known for bullshitting themselves and others (especially other women) in order to not hurt feelings (I.e. “you are stunning and brave, Lizzie! You’re beautiful!”) They will often shy away from “mean” humor which is generally just harsh truths. They often say things like “it just happened” instead of “I was horny and drunk” Online it’s a bit more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:57 AM
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Ahh. Thanks. Another one of life’s mysteries solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:39 AM
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Being cunty and gossipy Not appreciating dark humor Describing others as “weird” or “losers” Moral superiority of any kind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:30 AM
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Nah. I didn’t intend to be passive aggressive, but I’ve seen too many women have the mentality (especially with sex) where they basically say “if I don’t like X. I’ll tell you women don’t like X. And women that say they like X are just pretending or giving in to the man’s desire!” All that said, your response made complete sense. There was likely some g-spot / etc stim in those situations (TMI, but I have an upward curve which apparently helps with this in certain positions) In any case, your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:44 PM
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Now this one I’m confused on. I’ve had many (not all) women shaking and whimpering when I’d slowly fuck them in doggy style. Like literally every inch of movement was ecstatic to them. There was no clit stimulation involved. They’d often be saying (softly to themselves) “Jesus that feels good” Now, are they lying? Just trying to stroke my ego while this is simply no different from rubbing a finger? Ive also has plenty of times where, after lots of clit stimulation I’ll tease too much and she’s l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:10 PM
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Lol stop. No women can “manage” whether they feel sexy 100% of the time. And TRP doesn’t ever say “make her feel sexy”. If she doesn’t want sex. What are you smoking? It says to NEXT her or apply dread because she’s losing tingles. Comfort is like 5% max of TRP philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:45 PM
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Exactly. The part about needing to “feel sexy” something I was already aware of, but after OD’ing on TRP, I literally just take it personally if my gf doesn’t want to fuck / isn’t horny when I am. Like “uh oh, she’s lost the tingles! I’m fucked” Ironically, It’s a really solipsistic perspective on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:32 PM
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Once in a while PPD has a post that legitimately offers a helpful perspective without blame or anger. It just serves to give somebody information that may give them some empathy and understanding toward “the other side” This is one of those. Thanks for posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:14 PM
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I’ve had a similar experience but something to keep in mind is that your demographic changed when you went from 1 to 2. The type of women that really like a muscular build are far more likely to be sexually outgoing and less afraid to show lust. Your whole demeanor also likely changed with lifting (just the change in posture alone attracts different women) When you were the twink, you probably had more girls lusting after you than you thought, but these were the nerdy, cute shy girls who would j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:48 PM
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This is a good response and something that isn’t discussed enough in TRP. It’s true that most women find most men unattractive. What is also true is that most women don’t find the same men attractive. They are just idiosyncratic as hell and that can include weird shit like big noses and “nice hands”. Now, the universal black pill in all this is that a handsome, chiseled, symmetric face wins the day among all “types”. But you can still have your Adam Driver outlier that is able to overcome it wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:36 PM
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Physical: Petite (under 5’3) skinny with a small waist, bubbly ass, small to medium tits, cute girly face Likes dressing girly, doing her hair, nails etc. Race doesn’t matter. Cute spinner with an ass and I’m set. Personality: Feminine, nurturing, silly, curious, avoids drama but can stand up for herself, sexually filthy and freaky (down for theresomes and likes checking out girls). Bitchiness, chip on shoulder, masculine demeanor, Hang ups about sex / porn / feminism are generally major turn of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:15 AM
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Dude with all due respect, shut the fuck up and let this woman live her sex life as she sees fit. Maybe she likes eating pussy once in a while, maybe she likes watching her man fuck another girl. None of your damn business yet you’ve written paragraphs trying to tell her why she’s wrong for doing so. And as far as “equal” are you the kind of guy that says a guy should have to get fucked with a strap on before a girl agrees to anal (even if she likes it?) This girl is legit the kind of girl I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:41 AM
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You just described exactly what brought me to TRP. Guard doesn’t get dropped for anybody ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:29 AM
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Lol. Didn’t say you were. The point is that if it is such “common sense” that women should make themselves attractive, then there wouldn’t be so many dumpy women around. Every guy knows that 4 that thinks she’s an 8 because she managed to bang some attractive guys. Women do this all the time. FDS never, ever gut checks a woman and has her take a hard look at if she’s bitchy, boring, sexy, prudish or anything. Nope. It’s just blame, blame, blame those evil men for not loving you for “who you are”…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:24 AM
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I’ve heard this nonsense from FDS’ers before “we already know we need to be feminine and attractive so we don’t talk about it!” Meanwhile the average American woman is nearly 170, and are more often than not unpleasant Karens, so yeah apparently women do need to be reminded of this reality. I’d wager the average FDS’er thinks she’s attractive because Chad banged her in the Denny’s bathroom once. Her sister queens will tell her she doesn’t have to do shit except “be more picky” lol. Meanwhile, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:17 AM
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none of your statements about FDS in this post were accurate. Encourages careers and education? Not relevant to dating. And only done to further done so you can get away with being the unpleasant harpy your already were. Fine. But has zero to do with becoming more attractive. “Ignoring red flags” is not advice on how to be a better woman, it’s again simply more ways to passively judge men unworthy of a “queen” The fact that you are compelled to compare FDS to a group who literally swears off the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:23 AM
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Lol man try his one hurts. Every time I’ve devolved into mate guarding / jealousy type shit this exact phenomenon showed up. I wonder what is behind it in a primal sense. Like, maybe a male freaking out in the presence of a rival indicates a bad protector / father?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:25 PM
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Yeah. Can relate to that. At that age. It just takes one moment or one comment and you are stuck with it for life. In my case I had really bad acne around the same age. Somebody who was basically a teen Chad decided it would be funny to invite me to meet this group of girls he knew at the mall. Instead of introducing me he pointed at me and said “Hey, look at his face! There’s shit growing on it” I later came to realize this guy had major mental issues of his own (and he attempted suicide later …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:18 PM
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You contradicted yourself by saying “you find all men 30+ gross” and then saying “the only ones over 35 I fancy still look 25” If you are fucking a 30 year old with grey hair, nose hair and a limp dick you simply fucked somebody with bad genetics, poor diet and grooming. There’s nothing wrong with your preference, but it sounds like your preference is more for healthy men rather than “young” men. Also, most men will not fuck a nasty ugly 21 year old over a hot ass 31 year old. That’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:11 PM
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Most of the time yes, which is one of the reasons I find the 90 day thing shitty. I feel like physically bonding with somebody you like sooner rather than later sets you up for less game playing / more warm feelings up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:57 AM
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That’s a valid theory and would make sense in the context that I’m afraid it’s “too good to be true” so I give myself reasons why it’s not so good after all. Another possibility is that I have a huge aversion to any kind of confinement. Not just physical confinement, but like I get super anxious if I even commit to go visit somebody or book a flight. I think there’s some claustrophobia at play where I feel like “oh no! Now there’s no way out of this!” So I start looking for an escape route just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:55 AM
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Totally agree. But what’s weird is that this is kind of a panic response. It lasts a few days and then reality comes back and I’m very much into the girl from that point on. But there’s like this fear of success thing that happens and it takes me a little while to get through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:40 AM
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You need to look good to get laid by top men is the fucking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:35 AM
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The Wall concept is almost always used by younger incel types. Anybody who has lived long enough knows that there are plenty of examples of women who looked like shit in their teens and 20’s, then got their ass in shape in their 30‘s and became hot. Men on average can get away with more signs of aging, but there are plenty of health conscious / fit women that actually become hotter over time. IMO, while most Americans look like utter shit at around 35, the wall is really only insurmountable at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:27 AM
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Lol. Men also claim they hate fake tits. Ever hear of “watch what they do not what they say?” Your claim was that women can look as shitty as they want and still get pursued for sex by Chad, not that they would simply “get sex from someone”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:22 AM
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You claimed women (as in any woman) could get laid (by Chad) in a potato sack. Does that include fat women? You seem to think you’d get chased by men with options even if you looked like shit which is patent bullshit, as you certainly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:14 AM
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Fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:10 AM
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Not from Chad. With that Kardashian style “contouring” shit, women are quite literally changing their apparent bone structure. Yet, men will get utterly and openly crucified for wearing shoe lifts and a toupee. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:51 AM
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Truth potato approves 🥔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:06 AM
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Despite lots of bullshit and hate and over generalizations, this is one of the first “click” moments I had with RP. As I thought back to all the times girls wanted me (rather than me chasing them) pre selection was always involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:29 AM
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Oh another one, although this is probably connected to my OP and is more indicative of some personal issue rather than an RP/BP idea ... But.. as soon as I know a girl wants me, I start to lose attraction for her for a short amount of time (like a few days) I have no fucking clue what this is. I’m guessing it’s a “you can’t be that great if you want me”. But it goes so far as me starting to invent or exaggerate faults with the girl ... “oh yeah, her nose is kind of big... she has a stupid laugh …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:25 AM
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Men definitely experience “the one that got away”. It’s a fucked up part of that primal drive for variety yeah you will get bored or a girl no matter how great she is. You will also not know how good she was a until you end up with a string of women nowhere near that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:15 AM
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Yeah my chasing of women’s validation has come at the expense of many many things in my life. Re: Dopamine. I’ll never forget there was a time where my current gf, a former fling and a girl I was lusting after all happened to show up at the bar I was at at the same time. It had been a long time, and they all were super happy to see me, and were being super touchy with me (and each other for that matter) while we hung out in a booth all night. The feeling of their attention affection and sexual e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:01 AM
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Same. Though I am / would be interested in it. It’s been really hard for me to get over watching other people be happy while I got bullied, made fun of and ostracized. I know it’s self pity, but I liken it to rappers chasing / flaunting money. That’s how female attention is for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:54 AM
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To some extent although, it’s more of an ego / status thing for men (I got this hot piece of ass that everybody wants) But, sexually, no. A man would be perfectly happy having a woman who had no options as long as she was actually hot (to him Burkas / Hijabs should prove this well enough. That said, all women have dread “built in” to their identity in that every man knows his woman could go out and fuck at a moments notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:17 AM
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Plenty of dead bedrooms started with a passionate start / high attraction. IME, once a guy is seen as the “safe / familiar” guy, the hot sex stops and the headaches / bitchiness starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:53 AM
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Ahh ok. I can appreciate that. It’s not the norm, but I can’t say I don’t understand the feeling. Like I generally dislike having sex unless I’ve showered relatively recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:30 AM
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Oddly, it’s hard to remember a specific “session” but certain moments - and for some reason they always involve wetness lol 1 - Got home after both of us wanting to fuck all night, but kept getting held up. Finally got home, and went straight to the couch. She was riding me, while I was sitting on the couch. I remember looking down and realizing she was so wet, my whole crotch was soaking and her juice was streaming on down each of my hips. 2 - Made an ex squirt for the first time, and she was b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:34 PM
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You can’t negotiate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:19 PM
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IMO. Yes absolutely. The more a woman feels like you are “locked down” the less nasty / desire filled she will be in bed IME. Now, obviously comfort has to reach a level that sex in general doesn’t feel dangerous or awkward, but after a certain point, too much comfort will create sex that feels perfunctory and boring to her, and her body will respond accordingly. This is one of those things I find TRP to be 100% right about. Remain aloof, and apply soft dread to keep her comfort just off balance…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:42 PM
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Lol. Is your vagina juice that nasty that you can’t get a round 2 without a wash up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:40 PM
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First, unless you are hot enough to be valued solely for your body / looks as a man (very rare) then you are going to have to be attractive in other ways to a woman. This usually includes being able to pay for shit on dates. Knowing 100% that you would never actively date a girl, who clearly wants you to LTR her back is (to me) wrong, BUT... For me, it’s rarely this cut and dried. Most girls fall in the “let’s see how this goes” zone, and it takes some experience with a girl (including sex) to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:35 PM
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Lol cue colonel Kurtz speech. “The genius of that. And that’s when I realized that they were stronger. “
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:44 AM
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It sounds like the phrase you were looking for was “he shouldn’t try to fuck her” which is much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:21 AM
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Unlike FDS, where the women are totally well adjusted and have a balanced, pragmatic view of men and relationships by approaching them like strippers trying to extract money out of a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:47 AM
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Lol because men see your mythical “good girls” break their own rules and fuck guys on the same night if he gets her wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:46 AM
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Waiting to FDS hamsters to explain this away. Hey
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:35 AM
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Lol. I’d argue FDS’ers are the ones with major and obvious mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:24 AM
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What do you think “attracted to other women” means? It means he wants to have sex with them. Whether he does or doesn’t is a matter of willpower and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:20 AM
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Lol exactly. If it’s the kind of thing that makes your heart skip a beat like a teeny bopper seeing her favorite boy band member, you’d probably do some shameful shit to hit that. For me, I’ve legit had to stop and collect myself / take a breath when a tiny woman with a small waist and round ass walked by. Not to rub it in, by my current GF (who is quite tall) has the most amazing, sleek and smooth pedicured feet, complete with one little toe ring on each. I’m not even a foot guy but am damn imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:21 AM
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I don’t believe there is an equivalent. I would theorize that the rise in popularity of these kind of domination / degradation fetishes in women is precisely because they are expected to be “strong, confident respected women” in public and in the professional world, while they often still have a fundamental desire to submit, be infantilized, treated as a sex object and sometimes even be degraded on a sexual level. Obviously there are degrees and it’s in the confines of absolute comfort and safet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:15 AM
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Yah I don’t doubt that it may be overstated as a sort of shit test, but I know there are some girls that just love the feeling of being dominated / borderline punished by a giant cock. It’s just their thing. Some girls really love getting choked and slapped, but that just requires the guy to have hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:11 AM
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Haha. Well to be fair this is a niche. It’s like any kind of “fan boy”. They are basically just “big dick nerds” There a girls that like big, fat teddy bear looking guys too. I find that just as odd. Or guys with a foot fetish that spot the hottest feet they’ve ever seen. I mean, I’ve seen plenty of girls with bodies that made me go “I don’t really care, thats so exactly my type, I will do anything to fuck that”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:09 AM
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Lol. Gotcha. I’m sure it’s something similar to having a fetish for small girls or big asses. It’s not just the “PiV” sensation that sells the experience but the whole visual / tactile experience of the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:04 AM
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Lol. Item #1 checking in. Sucks being a financially stable but somewhat aimless creative degenerate. Gets me pumped and dumped more than an alcoholic sorority girl. But damn do those wine moms love to take a ride when they visit the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:51 AM
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size queens are such a specific demo, they probably have all manner of methods to figure this out. Went to a strip club with a baby armed friend of mine, one dancer got him hard during a lap dance apparently and felt it rubbing on her ass. She basically stopped, told him “I’ll be right back” and came back with some other dancer who was a size queen and she took over. After her shift, He ended up going back to her (apparently very nice) house and had depraved sex with her. Moral: size queens will…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:46 AM
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I’m curious, is it solely about the physical sensation or more about the visual of being pounded by a monster dick? Also, do you like gagging? Cause I’m assuming that’s a pretty common place thing when trying to throat a Pringle’s can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:43 AM
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On behalf of all average dicked dudes, God bless you and god bless America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:38 AM
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FDS is leaking again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:29 AM
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Wrong. It became publicly known after Eliot Rodger, but had existed as a term on the old PUAHate message board from at least 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:06 AM
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I remember “PUA hate” using the term in like 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:03 AM
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I’d actually theorize that the main reason you got that advice from women to “sexualize” on this sub is precisely from the RP influence. Women are not known to give men “sound” advice on courting women, and for good reason - solipsism and lack of self awareness. They will often apply their world view and idealized representation of how they think the world should be when advising men on other women. Why? Because that’s “how they would want to be treated” Many women here have been forced to accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:59 AM
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This sounds more like the “Models” approach than Mark Manson talks about. It’s my preferred version of RP style principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:51 AM
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We’re all not quite there, no matter how “red” some people act online. In any case congrats on your journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:58 PM
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Then the guy can stop SIMPing Stacy. This is what Im talking about. Correct. This is exactly what TRP tells men to do, so who are you arguing with on PPD? ​ Then find some nerdy girls who will care. But let me guess "But they're really ugly"? Also correct. To which TRP would say, "Stop playing Magic, lift and get good at a high status skill" What do you think women would tell Billy? Most likely "Stacy isn't worth it! You don't have to change a thing. Besides, women aren't trophies! Don't change …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:55 PM
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That’s the blue pill talking. Women like sex for sex’s sake if you are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:46 PM
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Except Stacy says to everyone who asks, she “likes guys that work hard for a talent and are passionate. That’s hot” when that’s simply not true. Stacy doesn’t give a fuck if Billy is the best magic the gathering player or won an overwatch tournament even if he worked 10x as hard as chad. What she really means is “I like chad / chaz because they are hot and have high status” She won’t say that though because “I’m not shallow!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:42 PM
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That’s still not entitlement. Entitlement is like “I paid into social security so I am entitled to it!” I’d like somebody to point out a single post or even online statement that actually states “Women should fuck me because...” No. What you actually see is “I’m frustrated that women don’t want to fuck me, because...” It’s like expressing frustration about not getting a job. Does that mean you feel they “owed” you the job? No. It still sucks not to get it, and you’re likely to try to figure out …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:36 PM
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There was a moratorium on FDS posts one weekend, and then a policy stated that basically prohibited FDS troll posts. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:59 PM
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IME, "Entitled" is just a shaming word used by SJW's and feminists against any 'prevelidged person' who dares express frustration with a lack of success in any regard. Of course, there is no more entitled animal than the UMC white female as well all know. Right, Karen? They also skip the part that the most *truly* entitled guys are the guys that are actually succesful with women. Chad the QB and Chaz the guitar player assume they are worthy of pussy wherever they go. The only reason they don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:48 PM
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My issue was likely one bad male role model (alcoholic, mostly absent father) and nothing but older females raising me. Growing up I was the youngest and only boy with: 1 Single mom 3 Older sisters 1 Grandmother 2 Aunts 0 Brothers 0 Uncles Basically growing up, I saw nothing but the female perspective on just about everything. I saw the consequences of boys being mean to them, and men hurting my mom (emotionally). I never saw a man dealing with duplicitous women, behaving in ways that consistent…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:04 PM
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In concept, CE is not worse than HG. In practice, men feel the burden of HG far more. First, there's societal recognition of the 2 phenomenons. With CE, Men "catting around" and "womanizing" has been called out and demonized for decades if not more. It's a well understood concept. With HG, no such narrative is told (and no, gold digging is not equivalent). Women are generally presented to be virtuous and selfless by nature, rather than opportunistic provider seekers. This message gets absorbed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:47 PM
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No worries about the limp dick comment, I didn’t take it as an attempt to insult. In fact, it’s close enough to the truth, but I needed to clarify that this wasn’t a plumbing issue. And I am also a cunt. Your bf is lucky to have somebody that understands, acknowledges and even accommodates that struggle. If everything else is good with you guys, I’m sure things will continue to work. Also good that you don’t minimize the potential impact of a threesome can have in terms of bringing up negative e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:01 AM
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Your advice about dressing up is good for sure. Not sure my current gf will be in to that though, which may be its own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:53 AM
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Thanks. There is no "best" girl in my experience. I've had many relationships, and some have been bad and some have been great. At least 3 of the girls were people I still care about to this day and there is nothing about them that I would consider 'settling'. I really don't think it's about the girl, I think it's about the desire for variety that is the problem. And, like I said, I don't have a problem with porn. If I have to go more than 2 weeks without seeing my girl, you better believe I'm p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:44 AM
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I can see why you’d say that, and I’m sure that is often the case, but I’ve had enough relationships where I’ve adored and admired my partner and this still was the case. It kind of goes to the whole “your masters degree doesn’t get my dick hard” thing. It is important in my respecting a partner but has fuck all to do with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:32 AM
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I really should have made this a Q4A , since ultimately I'd be just as interested to hear how women were able to handle these kinds of situations. To be clear, this isn't a situation where my "dick doesn't work" for my GF. She's still hot to me, and once things get going it's fine, but there's a part of me that is eventually strongly craving the excitement of fucking a "new" girl. Despite it sounding BP, I do believe you can "love" a person a lot but still crave sexual adventures outside of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:20 AM
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Nope. I’m not against using porn, but avoid it when I’m dating. Also, it generally takes about 3 months for things to really start to fizzle sexually. That’s the point at which I start thinking “we did everything” and I start imagining what fucking other girls would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:31 AM
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Yeah. That’s the sad truth and probably one that society should grapple with more openly. I mean my boxes are small waist, petite (under 5’3) with a round ass and feminine. Not easy to just go out and conjure that up with what is considered “average” in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:54 AM
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Guilty. 👨🏻‍⚖️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:50 AM
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Both items make a lot of sense. I have never really be obsessed with racking up numbers but I think sexual adventurism has to some extent acted as a surrogate activity replacing others exciting activities that I’m not pursuing. And you’re definitely right about the physical type thing. I think that’s a better route to maintaining sexual interest over time. But what does “at the deepest physical level” mean? Stay single until some girl that checks every single one of your physical boxes shows up?…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:21 AM
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Ah ok. Sounds basically like the female version of the beer bellied “peaked in high school” guy with his Budweiser and corvette.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:13 AM
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Lol well to be fair, I know a lot of single moms who drink lots of wine and post “go girl” memes a lot so i can see where it came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:44 AM
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Lol well that’s boring. I thought it was like a woman who drinks wine all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:23 AM
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Lol - upvote for honesty. Guilt aside, cheating is a lot of work IME. Not saying I’m above it, but I’d like to explore options that don’t require choosing between a relationship and lying constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:02 AM
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You know what, experienced or not, this is actually brilliant. I absolutely think of sex as a sort of 'performance' and that alone has caused me to fail to get it up (during threesomes even) Performance anxiety I have can often be overcome by taking it easy and just 'being sexual' without consciously telling myself "ok, time to fuck" I'm going to try to let go of the "let's have awesome sex" script in my head and replace it with something more neutral. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:44 AM
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Not a bad idea. Unfortunately, though she's super hot, she's not really a "dress up in outfits" type. Guess I'll have to come up with a subtle way to bring that idea up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:50 AM
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Yeah, I really need to get back into cooking. I get fomo staying home by myself, but that might be because I'm not really occupying myself with anything interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:49 AM
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Yeah, it's not physical (as in dick doesn't work) and Viagra has limited effectiveness since it's a mental thing - It's some kind of weird mental thing. My theory is that it's a combination of a legitimate physical instinct for variety, a self esteem issue with devaluing somebody who values me and a psychological need to feel desired by somebody "new" to affirm my worth. I'm fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:03 AM
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She is absolutely hot. Out of my league even. It really doesn't seem to matter much. Shit, I'd probably get tired of Emily Ratjakowski after 6 months of nonstop banging.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:58 AM
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Yeah man, It honestly surprises me too. I credit it to lifting and better information about diet. I didn't have kids either, so I'm sure that plays a part. But, take care of yourself, stay healthy and you can be a very young 40+ man. Horniness doesn't really change, what really changes is the refractory period, mega hangovers and ability to recover from heavy lifting workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:56 AM
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Thanks, son. You know - I really don't do anything that satisfies my need for novelty outside of (pursuing) sex with new women. The lack of that outlet can't be helping. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:53 AM
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Virtually none for this very reason. I have a hard enough time getting excited for the same partner for the 100th time, so I try not to waste my sexual energy on porn when I'm in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:52 AM
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This thread requires me to quote Norm Macdonald: "Hey! Here's something you never hear: He made love to me in the ass."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:48 AM
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so much this... It's not even the thought that I wish I was banging some new chick, it's the knowledge that I'll get sick of banging that new chick too. And the fomo that comes from a chick that you wanted a shot at, finally giving you a shot after you are in a relationship is brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:45 AM
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I'm getting older and I can't keep doing that grind to spin plates / seek out new pussy. I want to be with a woman long term, but want to learn how to avoid this issue from getting in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:42 AM
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Best advice so far. Thanks. I try to do both of those actually (plus my current is LDR, so it's not difficult to 'build tension') - Still, I really wish I could just be physically happy with the one girl I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:41 AM
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Just posted elsewhere, I'm nearing 50. Nothing to do with age. I've been in love at least twice, so that's not it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:40 AM
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Unfortunately, I'm not a young man at all. I'm closing in on 50 years old, though I do stay in shape, so I still have a high sex drive - it's just that it is all about novelty, which I fucking hate dealing with as I get older. It's not a lifestyle that I can (or even want to) sustain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:39 AM
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Lol I’ve heard this “wine mom” term. What is the lid archetype?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:22 AM
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This. I don’t see same night sex as a deal breaker (or maker) in and of itself. But if you had enough of a spark to feel comfortable enough to want to fuck each other right away, and the sex was good, why not explore further? I don’t get that. Good people and sex aren’t that easy to find, so why dump a perfectly good prospect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:49 PM
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It’s worse than this. There’s the part where even if the guy says “Good idea! Let’s get pizza!” The girl starts thinking “What? You prefer some shitty pizza to my meatloaf? Asshole!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:42 PM
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Can't argue with this. It does seem like a recipe for cuckoldry sooner or later unless one of us moves. The only thing we have going for us is the relative ease and affordability of flying to see each other (under $100 r/t usually), but that doesn't account for "I had a bad day" situations. Definitely won't be doing this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:33 AM
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I’m also one who absolutely worships a nice round ass (especially on a petite woman), but my impulse is more to imagine how it would feel when fucking a girl doggy style / her riding and me while grabbing it rather than wanting to fuck her actual ass. That said, I’m open to it. I’ve had at least 2 girlfriends who openly stated loving it and I never went there. Kind of regret that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:45 AM
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Absolutely. If a girl is a starfish, moans like a chew toy, or is like “ewww blow jobs are gross!” I’d like to know that sooner than later as I will not be sexually compatible with somebody like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:41 AM
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Lol. Didn’t see this reply coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:54 AM
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Marked increase in emotional fragility, fear of abandonment, paranoia etc all consistently related to her periods. She herself acknowledges this. this isn’t just some stupid “are you on the rag?” guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:11 AM
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Same state. 400 miles away. Every other weekend. Not the stripper. Much different personality. Much younger than me but has her shit together more than people 10 years older. We communicate every day and talk 2-3 times a week between seeing each other. We are both trying to be proactive about communicating since this was an issue for us last time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:09 AM
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Thanks. I agree about not worrying, but disagree that TRP isn't applicable to an LTR Principles like staying attractive, holding your frame when she has emotional outbursts, understanding women's dual sexual nature, and making sure soft dread exists are all applicable and most of those aren't covered very explicitly with normal BP advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:27 PM
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Our previous problems centered around her essentially being paranoid about the possibility of me cheating / deceiving / manipulating her She went to therapy and has improved dramatically on that front, so we're giving it another chance. The issue now is that I'm seeing her texting a lot, suddenly being too "sick" for sex and being otherwise distant. I realize that it's very likely me being paranoid (hence my post title) but it looks / smells enough like the behavior my exes exhibited when they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:47 PM
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Again, you are making the erroneous assumption that I'm not being "vulnerable" when I'm simply being hyper-vigilant in the face of the vulnerability I've already shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:44 PM
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You've made an insane amount of assumptions in regards to my behavior, which I did not describe at all. I only described her behavior. During this whole episode, I was nothing but supportive for her while she was sick. Shopping for her, making her food, getting her favorite shows on her laptop so she could watch from bed etc. In short, you are not being helpful as long as you just jump to conclusions because I have concerns about the subtle changes in her behavior that transcend her episode of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:42 PM
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To assume all men want something is, in my humble opinion, denying they have a brain to think for themselves or that each one is unique in his own way. Sure, some men are gay, some men have a cuckhold fetish, some men like fat chicks. Those are niches that are clearly not what we are talking about. The Coolidge Effect is well studied. You can delude yourself that it's not a thing, but that doesn't stop it from being a thing. I know men in my life that while having the sexual drive, they only say…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:58 PM
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She's much younger than me (early 30's) and is generally hyper sexual. Any talk of menopause is not applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:51 PM
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TF are you on about? My concern was more about her emotional disconnectedness and sudden change in any affectionate behavior. I cited her sex drive because she's usually hyper-sexual and will overcome just about any obstacle to get off. I wasn't the least bit concerned about my own pleasure. This questions was for Purple Pill (as in a combination of Blue and Red), so RP principles still apply to an extent. Perhaps you'd be more comfortable over at FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:50 PM
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Ok. You agree that all men have an inbuilt desire to fuck multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:02 PM
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So who is this mythical guy that doesn’t crave pussy variety? The male feminist? The monk? The tradcon? You are delusional if you think that every healthy male doesn’t have strong instinct to desire this. Men aren’t women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:49 PM
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True. The really screwed up thing is I started off the weekend kind of “blah” about seeing her, but then felt better as soon as I saw her. But then it turned out it was her who was kind or checked out and my “is she cheating?” antenna goes up. I hate my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:45 PM
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I get what you’re saying and there’s a lot of truth to it, but ... To me the utility of abundance / options is not about avoiding closeness / vulnerability with the person you are interested, but to simply know you are not solely dependent on them for sex. Women generally can’t even comprehend this because a. Their sex drive doesn’t work like mens and b. Sex is generally readily available to any reasonably attractive woman at a moments notice. IME, I’m a much better partner when I know I’m not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:27 PM
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My favorite answer so far. Thank you. I’m in the process of finding a good (for me) therapist, so hopefully that will help with things. Ironically, the first time we broke up was because of her trust issues. She worked on those in therapy and has been much better as a result. You’re right about the resilience, which is one of those things I do believe TRP is correct in. Abundance is the best path to not being needy / paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:05 PM
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It is possible to find validity in many elements of TRP without dogmatically following all of it. Hence PurplePill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:01 PM
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Explain celebrities with endless options who routinely get caught fucking strange pussy. You think they’re making that move out of simple “boredom” or something more primal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:52 PM
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Really the main thing that just felt “wrong” was the lack of emotional connection. It’s hard to describe in one single moment, and it’s not at all related to simply not having sex, but she just had a vibe or zero attraction or affection toward me, while being perfectly fine just “hanging out” with me on her couch. The last time I felt that vibe was in the presence of a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:50 PM
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We are compatible in many other ways and have known each other for a long time. We decided to try and it has worked well. We take lots of vacations / road trips together and have lots of sex. This weekend it felt like something was off with our emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:48 PM
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Men wanting a variety of pussy is literally a feature and not a bug of human evolution. And yes, just look at every successful, exciting and interesting man. None of them are known for cheating / running through multiple hot women right? fuckouttahere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:46 PM
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We are about 80% she visits me 20% I visit her. So it’s close.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:17 AM
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Men get very tired of fucking the same chick for months on end. A man with endless options of women willing to have sex with him is the ideal that men strive for (whether he uses those options or not). Any student of recent history can easily see established men will risk everything for new pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:05 AM
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You’re pretty accurate with all your statements except for the sperginess. I took care of her as much as possible and have her zero grief about her being immobile / sick. It was really her apathetic disposition in general that raised the antenna for me. However it’s quite possible that her physical state was such that she didn’t even really want to be close because she couldn’t follow through on anything sexual anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:02 AM
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No incel content in this sub please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:26 AM
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Well it’s still a step in the right direction. I did zero subconscious / passive aggressive stuff as a result of my suspicions, because I consciously realized it was just a “feelings borne out or insecurity / paranoia partially fueled by all the AWALT stories I’ve ingested over the years. In any case, the subconscious stuff could very well have come through. I was supportive of her, took care of her and didn’t give her any grief for acting distant, but it was a clear difference from the last tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:29 AM
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No I’m not remotely new. I’m soliciting purple advice, I know the red advice. Red advice would essentially be “she’s cheating bro. Why aren’t you already fucking your other plates?” My job and gym schedule generally limits my ability to create new leads with women, so I’m currently at only a couple of lukewarm leads. The time I spend talking to , visiting her could be spent cultivating other possibilities. Being without a reliable backup girl is an issue that leads me to overthink shit like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:21 AM
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Lol. Yes I obviously understand about somebody not feeling sexy / sexual when their physical / mental state is not in a good place, but she was distant in general. Not being verbally or physically affectionate at all. I get that this can all be chalked up to her being sick, and I prefaced by post by labeling this as paranoia. As an example, when I came back and she was crying on her bed with her phone in her hand, my mind immediately jumped into “she probably got into a fight / had some drama wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:55 AM
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News flash. Men and women’s attraction do not work the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:06 AM
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This is actually prescient. A lot of our previous problems were centered around her cycle. Oddly, she has been having some major hormonal disruptions which have caused her to kiss her period for a couple of months in a row (no she’s not knocked up) It’s possible there’s just some weird shit going on with her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:03 AM
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Same. I have to beat it back with a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:01 AM
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Thanks. It’s odd. I had broken it off with her months ago, but she reached out and wanted to give it another shot. The issues we had were indeed fixed, and things have been nice but I feel like the comfort that developed as a result of the lack of drama may have ironically reduced her attraction. I think you’re right. I need to put the ball in her court while I start preparing for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:01 AM
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Size queens tend to be disloyal as they value a guy with a big dick above all which is in itself a fetish. A girl that is obsessed enough with dick size that she would DQ an average guy would also likely jump on some dude with an even bigger dick than her partner. Nothing wrong with it at all, but people that are particular with a fetish’s (same with tit obsessed guys) they will be more likely to be made weak by somebody who appeals to that fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:57 AM
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Thanks. I think you’re right in terms of finding a way of making sure things are ok without sounding paranoid, but ... In terms of dread, of course you need to maintain yourself and stay attractive (ie don’t be fat and ungroomed) however, it’s not enough for a girl to “think” her partner is attractive to her, she has to “KNOW” he is attractive to other women. Women want to know they have a partner that other women want as well. The guy doesn’t have to be a Chad / Celebrity but a woman needs to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:44 AM
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Interesting take and I don’t disagree, but I’m not sure what I can do in terms of “solving” this outside of “ok I’ll trust you when you say you wouldn’t fuck around on me and we’re just so sick that you didn’t feel like being affectionate” She could easily lie about those things if she wants so I’m not sure how that makes me look competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:39 AM
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Yeah. At the end of the day, I have no choice but to spin plates here as I have no way of knowing if she’s bullshitting me or not. I’ve given women the benefit of the doubt before (she’d never do that! that’s too shitty”) and got burned most of the times I’ve done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:35 AM
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Same. It sucks but it’s better than getting burned and wasting time and feeling like a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:31 AM
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Yeah. I just can’t find it in myself to trust a woman again. Every time I’ve done it I’ve got burned. The down side is, I feel like the TRP idea of “don’t show weakness” is also correct. And asking her “what is up with you? Is everything ok?” Feels like an utterly pussy drying, needy beta move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:30 AM
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Prob right about the long distance thing. I disagree that RP is garbage for an LTR in the sense that I do (and will always believe) “dread” (other women demonstrably want you) is essential to keep a woman’s attraction in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:25 AM
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This is directly related to RP/BP as its an RP man (me) trying to gauge how much of RP (awalt) to apply vs BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:23 AM
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This is one of the best and most honest expressions of the subtle hurt and consequences that can be felt by a girl whose partner over indulgences in porn I’ve read. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:03 AM
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How about chinc*l?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:47 PM
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Minoxidil can have some success and hair transplants fail as often as they succeed. You seem hellbent on trying to equate a woman’s inability to not be a fat pig which is 100% reversible at any time, with a man dealing with unchangeable genetic traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:48 PM
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Wrong. To some women it is the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:17 PM
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Put simply - You don’t know what you’re talking about. You’re talking about finasteride which is chemical castration. I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:16 PM
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Big boobs and butt aren’t the barrier of entry for sex / relationships. It’s simply icing on the cake of the already insane amount of options for sex and dating that a non fat woman has. Short of being a burn victim / deformed, being fat is literally the only deal breaker that a woman can have and it’s completely in their control unlike height, hair loss or dick size. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:06 AM
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Ask yourself this: if a men could diet and exercise his way into regrowing his lost hair, becoming taller or growing a bigger dick, what do you think men would do? Would you be forgiving of balding / short men if it was of their own doing via poor diet and exercise? There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:56 AM
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Oh yah? https://www.filmofilia.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/fast_and_furious_5_m.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:52 AM
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Ah, The mark of the incel. It’s true a strong jaw can make up for a whole myriad or other problems. I am one of the chinless untermensch (with the companion big nose) but am lucky enough to be able to grow a decent beard that fills in the missing jaw / chin area. Since I’ve had the beard my luck with women has improved dramatically. As far as celebrities. A strong chin is pretty much a requirement for any leading man. However, It may be Chincel cope, but there are occasional celebs that have shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:51 AM
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Lol @ the 90 day fiancé call out. Larissa 4EVA. Who is against the queen will die. And you’re absolutely right in those cases which is why I find TRP’s idea of “the wall” utterly ridiculous and gen z solipsism for the most part. Same goes for these sorority stacy’s saying “ewwww! Wrinkles!” So in your examples of course I take JLo and Gisele. Duh. Now, the difference comes in the personality traits that you find at different ages and how those appeal to you. Personally, this whole stereotype of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:52 PM
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That’s half of women period. In fact I’d say 20 somethings are the main ones doing that “contouring” bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:49 PM
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I’m kind of a goofy looking motherfucker, so it’s rare that I’ll bang a girl that is objectively “below me” I’m pretty sure I’ve been “the ugly one”in most of my relationships. Women aren’t bragging about how hot I am to their friends. If I can make a girl laugh, catch her on a horny night I can get girls well above my league. Shit, I had a threesome with my (at the time) stripper girlfriend and her BFF (also a stripper) who were both 20 years younger than me. All their friends back at the club …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:41 PM
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Yep. This is shit behavior. Had a friend trying to bang one of my exes and he’s no longer my friend (constantly inviting her to parties so he could try to get at her It’s really the principle that is fucked. You are swooping in like a vulture at the expense of making your friend feel awkward or potentially worse. It shows you don’t respect / really give much of a shit about your “friend”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:25 PM
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A better question for women: A. What is YOUR age? B. Justin Bieber (25) Or Chris Evans (35) C. Post Malone (26) or Henry Cavill (36) I’d also argue that women’s individual attraction cues are so idiosyncratic to the point of rendering things like age far less significant than for a man (i.e. Girls that love Frat Bro’s vs Daddy Issues girls, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:09 PM
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Fair enough. I realize it wasn’t exhaustive, but it was certainly not much other than “know your worth” And, I’d say that the current climate has most men being told they are predatory, lazy pieces of shit who need to “get better”to get a woman, while women are praised for existing, and bodies like Lizzo’s are celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:50 PM
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First, I freely admit I have an axe to grind and am somewhat reactionary because this sub has now become an FDS debate sub rather than a RedPill / BluePill debate sub. ​ How does that list imply that the woman doesn't have to do anything herself? Because it's using vague hamster language for the only item that actually requires effort. "Be feminine" can mean anything from wearing a dress to not calling guys "bro" - It should be specified. DO not be fat. Hit the gym if you have too. Smell nice. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:21 PM
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Lucky I don't identify with FDS. Your entire list is basically summed up by "Don't do nothing for no man, Queen! You are already perfect. Make him do the work!". That's as FDS as it gets. Even your lip service to attractiveness is tellingly described as "currency" rather than "don't be a fat PoS because guys like hot women, and you want to be pleasing to men to attract them" Contrast that with what a similar list would look like for men (even via TRP advice) and it would be at least 60% "get you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:27 PM
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Lol. The FDS manifesto. Every item is centered on what gives the woman some kind of manipulative advantage, and it all reeks of some chick who got fucked over by Chad trying to protect herself (not be a better partner) There’s one single line about “doesn’t add value to a mans life”, which to an FDS’er means existing and providing occasional duty sex. Not one item about “don’t be a bitch” or “be sexually adventurous because the default setting with women like this are to be cunty and use sex as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:03 PM
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Because they get told (mostly by women) that looks don’t matter as long as you are warm and caring. Also, this sounds like a LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:55 PM
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Why aren’t you doing anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:19 AM
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I get what you were trying to do, but I think the general sentiment being expressed was about people that generally give too much of a shit about politics. The behavior which was ironically being demonstrated by how much of a shit you gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:28 AM
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TBH your posts sounds like exactly the pussy drying political geekery that is being referred to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:47 AM
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Do you know anybody that’s actually done time? “Prison Rape” is 99% Hollywood horse shit. It’s absurdly overblown. There’s such a thing as “gay for the stay” etc in prison, but even that is basically a choice. The thing people don’t realize is that there are actually plenty of trans / legit gay dudes in prison who willingly do this stuff. Some straight dude ‘dropping the soap’ is a fiction. Even lifers in prison generally don’t want to be thought of as gay, much less gay rapists. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:36 AM
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There’s a difference between “sad loser feelings” and well adjusted normal, emotions. TBH, people that crow about how much they DGAF and putting on such a tough facade are usually crying on the inside. I’m sure you’re different though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:03 AM
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Based on your posts, It honestly doesn’t sound like you feel much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:58 AM
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Well you know what. All of those things fucking suck. You can say “that’s life” but I can’t believe you think it’s ok or that it just “is what it is”. I certainly don’t. Whoever did that to you is an utter piece of shit and should be called out as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:52 PM
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