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| 1 | My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.)it's always been like that , men are success/forwardness/status objects & women are beauty objects. what's beauty? virginity , youth & potential to be pretty. of course men who are bold enough will choose a hot 19 y.o virgin over some damaged 35 year old woman who thinks she's superior or smart but her truth is she's been deepthroating cuck in public for ages , been pissed on multiple times & was in countless broken relationships. the more a man approach & meet women , the less fucks he give… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:47 AM |
| 20 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?signs of high bodycount. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | how do you approachHow do you guys approach women at the mall. malls aren't best option for beginners due to lack of proper volume & more tension compared to busy streets & busy metro stations . approach is always the same everywhere. "hi , i'm X i thought you're cute had to say hi" then deregulate , by saying whatever the fuck you want . plan is to try to instadate a girl using anything U can/have because the biggest chance to fuck a girl via daygame is the same day you meet her. again , after delivering the open… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything missing from my game?also , read this article : http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/directapproach/ 5 minutes of studying this guy is better than 10000 hours of listening to reddit losers & caring about their opinions & tutorials. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything missing from my game?Here we go , virgin experts teaching you daygame while posting from mommy's house after rounds of fucking their own hands! from now on , this will be your blueprint : Your only opener : "hey I'm X , i thought you're cute had to say hi" if chick wasn't cute , just say "hey i'm X i just wanted to say hi" then whatever she says ( doesn't matter ) , say this "cool , let's go grab some coffee" try to get instadate asap. your mindset : 1-get instadates 2-approach as many girls as you can 3-don't giv… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Thinking about dating/hooking up so much I’m losing focus on my career goals. Advices?bro this is totally normal & good,you're 22 the fuck you wanna do ? get some paycheck raise? earning 2 grands more ? then do what with that? it's totally normal to be focused more on pussy at this age , you don't wanna start hitting up on girls when you don't have any testosterone left , doesn't matter if you're riding a lambo . * i read the description & now i know your situation ain't good , you chose a wrong way to pussy , inefficient & full of shit. remove the apps & go out to do daygame… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Am i weird?? Need some advice!!Bro u 22 but talking about highschool , enough to realize you're living in past & in ur head just leave your "introvert" mood & start introducing yourself to girls during daytime. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Whats yall opinions on sending memes as a conversation starteranything aside from the " Hi + meetup request " is stupid , specially if you've never met her & it's online dating , that will be incredibly stupid. shows your low self esteem. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Why is it so hard to look at attractive women?Because you've been programmed to be a pussy , your past experiences & wrong women in your life did it to you. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Looks Aren’t My Issue. Texting Is.however I’m doing something wrong during that initial texting which makes girls just disappear. no , ghosting happens it's totally normal . it's not that there's some 190CM ceo or some influencers in her inbox so they prefer them to you , it's just in her biology to ghost/reject. however reducing bounce rate & getting yourself to the point you no longer give a fuck if 9/10 girls you match With them ghost require 2 things : 1) take better pics: not about looks , just take better pics! pics dict… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask for date at the end of the cold approachFocus of daygame should be pushing for instadates , usually a cheap hyper short coffee then trying to pull home. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:09 PM |
| 20 | What's the most profound thing you've learned about dating / seduction? Have you ever had a huge moment of awareness?1-The sexual game doesn't give a fuck . i can be the most handsome sexy young dude but if I don't put myself out there & refuse to say hi to women , i won't get laid . 2-Us males can be choosers & we're polygamous by nature , the reason why most men commit soon as they can or love the idea of "The one" is because they're lazy . put yourself in a position where you can sleep with lots of women & you'll see you don't wanna come back to "the one" 3-Losing frame in relationship or treating a wom… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Don’t Trust Your Gut a Book Review Or The Most Effective Dating Advice You Can Get According To SciencePUA/dating/game books are all trash . | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 6 | FWBWtf do you even mean? FWB is way easier to handle/achieve if you're non-needy by nature . soon as U fuck her once , instead of kissing her ass & telling her love stories only see her again for fucking. call/texts for logistics , never reply to BS & objections . Call/text -> see each other to fuck ->goodbye -> repeat. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:24 PM |
| 35 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?they are , they just forget the hookups & forget to tell U . | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | I’m hesitant to get my ass on dating apps and to update my social mediaI think U should force yourself to go out & interact with women in real life first , just focus on getting your confidence destroyed by harsh rejections & set the goal of something like "getting 5 instadates in 10 days" "getting 3 instadates in a week & converting one of them to lay or blowjob" social media/apps are good to take as a supplement for your real life success. An active daygame practitioner who constantly gets laid using daygame & willingly takes hundreds of rejections per week can r… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:41 PM |
| -2 | How do you guys prevent exhaustion from going out at night?why U complaining? did anybody put a gun on your head to go out & chase pussy? thing is you didn't do shit also , which i'm sure it comes from approach anxiety but let's call it "I WAS HAMMERED BY TIREDNESS" lmao . don't go out at night, whole idea of nightgame is pointless specially if U have a job & for your case that you're a noob. Daygame is far superior . | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.guess how many fucks he may give about the opinion of some anon loser on reddit? | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How do I work on being more funny, or making it part of my personality from the get go?Have a lot of guy friends & be in a lot of different shitty circles filled with different kind of guys. i'm a clown it's never been natural , started when i started hanging out with clowns at 13-14 & those clowns were all surrounded by different kinda men who were legit clowns , that's it. U can't learn to become fun dot com on youtube , books or by mentors . question is why do you wanna be funny? a lot of guys get laid more than me & pull higher quality but they're bitter as shit . | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to meet women in a small town?I live in a small town (around 50,000 people) dude , move the fuck out! | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | It seems height are everything for women in nowadaysanother crybaby , so all these short men who get laid like crazy are in my imaginations right? stop crying about all these stupid stuff, if U don't like it then move out of scandinavia & go to thailand or vietnam , loser. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | what are some of the best ways to seduce a older women?imagine being so desperate that you think "being old" is a woman's advantage & looking for ways to qualify for that, ngmi. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:46 PM |
| -5 | Especially for a beginner its detrimental worrying about maybe girlsLooksmax, Statusmax, Stylemax, Get your IG Profile on point, do everything to increase your chances and then do a solid standard approach dude , you're so gay . | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:12 PM |
| -5 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.best daygamer in the world | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Most of the women I come across have a “he hates me that’s why I love him” kink.It's psychological bias that people in general want they can't have or can't have properly. like if she's in constant fear of losing you & you wrap her brain up around that subject , she totally loses the power of thinking about other stuff ( like thinking : this guy is just abusing me , why am i trying too hard to stay with him ? ) and soon as you shift the focus , she may lose interest in you because now logic comes & take over emotions. But to use these tactics & keep being successful , y… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:26 PM |
| 7 | "Why are you talking to my girlfriend?!"ah , Classics. welcome to the world of cold approaching . all U need to do when these stuff happen is : "hey man,i just told her she's cute didn't know she's taken , good job" & leave. act half-friendly & just leave saying a simple shit . he may be so butthurt that he keeps following you or shit ,just go non-reactive. I know what's on ur mind , but fights or worse scenarios will RARELY happen , usually for guys who do over 1000 approaches in like 10 days. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 01:41 PM |
| -3 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.Fuck all the coaches , books , bootcamps & videos. just read mike mehlman's blog 1-3 times & hit the streets. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 01:37 PM |
| 6 | hope this helpsTactics gonna work in negative way for men, why? because your mind is very busy thinking "what frame tactic am i gonna use now to escalate 1% more?" | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Which countries could I visit for better results at approaching women?ur home country first , if you can't get laid regularly in your home country i bet my life you can't get laid anywhere in the world unless U hire hookers. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Apologizing to a girl you ghosted?yeah also make sure to cry too , bitch. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 5 | How can I meet any girls when I don't have friends to go out with?U don't need friends to introduce yourself to women in the streets during daytime. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:50 AM |
| 22 | Being rejected messes me upRejection is unavoidable part of having sexual outcomes . trying to minimize rejections = minimizing sex. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:48 AM |
| 10 | Hotter Girls at Clubs and Bars Will NOT give you signals even when they are interestedcry a river , dork. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 31 | Hotter Girls at Clubs and Bars Will NOT give you signals even when they are interestedyou'll remain a dork till you realize "signals" are for losers. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 5 | First Date Topics?best first date is the first date that doesn't give out "oh okay, he's another man here we fucking go" vibes . but it's up to you how you differentiate . you can be the low iq dork who buys her flowers & brings her somewhere 5 star then kiss her forehead & shit Or you can be a piece of shit like me , start teasing & touching her from the car , throw loads of sexual shit then bring her somewhere shitty for a cheap hookah/coffee then ask her to pull 10 minutes into date. i never experienced with… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Best times and locations?For volume : rush hour time , anywhere between 4 to 7 pm is legendary if U move to busy metro stations , busy/central streets or anywhere crowded in your city . so first is rush hour 4-7 PM. for more luck to have sexual intercourses same day : i've had some success finding women in positive state somewhere between 12-2pm (many of my car sex & car blowjobs from instadates come from this period of time) usually women in the streets/stations/malls at like 12:30 pm don't have anything to do & are … | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Is Good Looking Loser's approach anxiety program legit? Anyone tried it?mikemehlman.net i suggest U read this whole blog from page 1 to page 19 at least 3 times then hit the streets , but this blog post is for your case : https://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/the-time-to-hesitate/ | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Is Good Looking Loser's approach anxiety program legit? Anyone tried it?It's good for losers , yeah. bad for people who want to do daygame. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 07:03 PM |
| 13 | Being average looking really been fucking me in the ass in the dating market!!seems like you living in your head & influenced by dating roaches , just go to real life. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:03 PM |
| 3 | how do I keep a conversation going on dating apps? (m)by not having a convo on dating app. opener should be inviting her out/ask her to come over, anything but "OKAY" means goodbye. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 02:32 AM |
| -5 | Man I’m so tired of wimping out on approaches…I wore a decent outfit, hair done, posture on point, reminded me of my daily back-and-forth conversations with mike mehlman when i was a noob like U , lol... i literally saw myself in this shitty line. Once I’m there though I just can’t do it. I’m so frustrated with myself. I’m so worried I’ll be rejected. then go home & cry , daygame isn't for everybody. There was at least 10-15 chances to approach someone. reminded me of myself again LOL , counting all "missed targets" was my job as well. … | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 0 | It's depressing to me that oral is much less performed on women than it's performed on men and not because of male selfishness, but because men don't value female genitalia.It's not always about selfishness , it's i don't know how many men put their dick inside U so i don't wanna put my tongue there, no thanks. plus when the male gets a lot of dates in short period of time , he sees no reason to be in your service. it's simply "Me over everything or goodbye". | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Did she want me to take her back home?Always have this belief & keep repeating when on dates with girls: "I have to get her back home & if i don't manage to pull , chances of meeting her again is low , so let's burn all the bridges intentionally & push as much as i can." if she came back , cool , you won. if she didn't? she can fuck off , she probably wouldn't have come back after many dates as well , so better you didn't waste more time. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:46 AM |
| 3 | what am I missing ?What am I doing wrong/ missing because once I approach a girl or anyone all I can talk about is work or boring stuff. DEREGULATE , increase the number of daily approaches till it get to the point that you find women in "state" who are down to hookup/giving blowjobs at that moment of time, doesn't matter what you say , initial approach doesn't mean jack shit, you can literally open a girl with "hey you're pretty" & whatever she says say "okay , coffee let's go" . it's that simple , deregulate. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Is instagram so important?Ig is a goldmine of unlimited hookups & attention if u can build a top 1% page , anything else is just a pain in the ass. coming from experience , i come from both sides of getting rejected by 30+ girls per day on ig no matter how tight my "game" was & getting dms from 10+ girls a day & managing to get hookups no matter how much of an aggressive asshole i was. a top 10% page can be good as well , but ROI is too fucking low that it becomes exhausted after a while . manage to do daygame first | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach from inside your carAny tips on how to cold approach from inside your vehicle? grab some balls & approach from outside of your car . | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Fat boi game? Overweight fellas get in heresorry brother there's no BBW for men ,get your fat ass to the gym & start a keto diet , hard keto with a huge calorie deficit, it's not really about girls , it's for your fucking health. but yeah , being fat/bald/broke/ugly/short should never make any man believe he's incapable of getting hookups , it's your brain that keeps you from interacting with women , try to kill your inner sounds. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 6 | I like a girl but my body and bank are not where I’m taking them at the moment.U can fight behind the keyboard but U think you don't deserve girls because you haven't maximized money & physique yet ? this is the definition of a loser. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:05 PM |
| 0 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?https://mikemehlman.net/2021/07/03/behavior-state-untethering-bsu/ read it | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?read this article & you'll understand these rejections : https://mikemehlman.net/2021/07/03/behavior-state-untethering-bsu/ | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 0 | I like a girl but my body and bank are not where I’m taking them at the moment.dork | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:01 PM |
| -3 | “Let’s keep talking a bit more and see how it goes…”LOL! cool tinder exists that a 29 year old woman can still feel young & play games,shame on all the pathetic lads like U | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:57 PM |
| 25 | Talking about body count???I am a 29F it's high , doesn't need any discussion | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Met girl on social media, got her number, she seemed interested and flirted, fast forward texted something one bubble and got back “Lol k” and then she leaves me on read and unfollows mewhat's the reason behind not asking for a date straight up after getting her number? to make her feel more interested? cool , you got what you deserved. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Who has inspired you to do or want to do cold-approach?1- Mike Mehlman. i went from a suicidal depressed piece of shit thinking about ending my life everyday to now living my dream sexual life in like 6> months , if it wasn't because of him & his articles i'd be dead by now. 2- my 12+ month dryspell , you know it's hard to go from 30-31 laycount at 20 years old to literally not even a hug till 21 , it makes your whole life dark as fuck. it had more than emotional damages from lack of sex tho , i was ashamed of myself as well so it made me more hun… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 8 | How to find one night stands while travelingbut the logistics are completely different when turning a girl into fuckbuddy/fwb she always knows you may leave after first time fucking & it's no different than local girls who know you'll leave their city/country no matter what . girls who are interested don't give a shit about not being able to meet you again & girls who aren't inerested, simply refuse to fuck by bringing the "you're only here to travel so i don't wanna have sex like that , i'm not that kinda girl." exact same thing happen… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 6 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?It's called positive BSU , on surface level U think she's interested but in reality she's rejecting you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | 10 tips for cold approach and freeing yourself from approach anxietyPeople with AA shouldn't be looking for any cure or how to get over it , it's like looking for a cure for not having motivation to hit the gym . gym is for passionate guys , people who make it never needed some youtube videos to get their ass in the gym, daygame/cold approach is the same , if you're looking for tips to get over AA you NGMI. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Is Money Worth the Wait?How much is your net worth right now & what are you doing exactly with your money? since you mentioned you don't even have your own place . everyone who follows me here knows my whole world is pussy & i'm extremely successful getting it , but if U give me "3 years no sex & you'll end up a multi millionaire before 25" i take it for sure . if you tell me "quit doing daygame & spending time doing what you want so you may be able to buy a house when you're 40" i'd say fuck off. what future is ahea… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | where to beginhttps://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/the-direct-approach/ | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:05 PM |
| -15 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?this sub is just cuckland , i enjoy making cucks burn | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:18 PM |
| -21 | Can a person’s job be either a turn-on, or turn-off to you?cuck opinion | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | My insecurity makes me feel like I’m not worthy of loveCool, please don't even consider getting into dating scene. cause i'm sure someone like you with this dog-shit confidence will easily commit suicide after first couple rejections or breakups . stay away from women until you realize your insecurities are just funny & irrelevant | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:34 PM |
| -20 | Can a person’s job be either a turn-on, or turn-off to you?U never tell the girl your job , doesn't matter if you own a billion dollar company or you're a gigolo or a drug dealer. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Where can I learn the social skills to be an attractive mansocial/pickup skills don't have fundamentals or lessons so you don't learn them , you either master it through hundreds of consistent interactions or you master it all through first few serious interactions. basically , when the male realize people ain't shit & no one matters but himself , is when he becomes socially skilled. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What PUA sources would you recommend in 2022?No one but mike mehlman | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How could you date for the first time ?Do you even have the damn date planned ? | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Having sex with a girl at work?only good if you're working a shitty minimum wage job. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Tell me suggestions about which books to referur mom , she left me blue balled . | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Tell me suggestions about which books to referMike mehlman's blog . one post of him is better than all pickup/dating books combined. & don't fucking ask for books , pickup is not an academic science , authors are either soft pussies telling obvious like mark manson or scumbags like mystery . | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Did I Ask Her Out Too Soon?best time to ask a girl out on the dating apps is the opener , my opener has been "wanna have drinks & chill?" & "are you free tonight? let's go for a hookah" for so long & it brought me more lays than everyone who writes online dating guides here. U did a good job , she would've rejected anyway . move on & find more girls who are down to meet you fast , on dating apps your pictures do most of the job , your opener should be asking her out. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do some cultures don’t accept the male partner being the older one in the couple?Yes they are , it depends on how bold , confident & direct the man is and if they met at right time in right place . A 19 year old hot model looking girl MIGHT reject a 45 y.o Bold & direct man if she's hanging out with bunch of friends & is not in "state" but she may fuck the exact same man another day when she's feeling like hooking up & the man says hi at right time . in addition , aside from relationships that are made on instagram/tinder/bumble in most real life cases , men who are above … | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend says i talk too much on useless topics.When a girl insults you , best way to deal with it is to kick her in the ass & dump her ( assuming you've fucked her at least once ) | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Why do some cultures don’t accept the male partner being the older one in the couple?This is every society's re-action to the male being the chooser & refusing to settle down with bottom shit, it exists everywhere , but how men deal with it is different. some men became losers & believe they have to go with women at the same age or even older , some are not losers, they choose to be with 19-20 year old hot girls at the age of 40 instead of marrying some damaged female . don't let some losers tell you how to live , people don't want you to be the chooser. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Best book on texting in 2022Depends on your Text-game education level right now, harvard has a lot of great books but they're for advanced levels & are already niched down; like " harvards bumble texting guide " or "HBR's 10 must read on texting the bitches " if you're not at that level, just refer to oxford university books & also bootcamps if you're down to spend like 20/000+ pounds. if you're still not good with it , cambridge has alot of scientific text-game books made by professors & i recommend them as well . … | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:38 PM |
| 5 | RecoveryNever happened to me but even if it does , i'd rather go through 499 rejections in a row in like 7 days & finally get a lay instead of staying at home & crying or thinking "what did i do wrong" or "it's my looks" . | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Recoveryincrease the number of interactions instead of being a bitch . I damn guarantee you don't have any volume , but even if you do , sometimes it happens to high volume daygame practitioners as well. many of mike mehlman's practitioners go many days of 50+ approaches in a row without even one blow job | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Being Needy / Clingy Worked For Me Not Once, But Three Times.It works , definitely . you just met/dated different women than i meet , just same as "self improvement" bullshit , a guy who likes to walk the streets & pickup girls wearing jeans & t-shirt will fuck girls who are interested in that category , the try-hard who spends thousands of dollars on building a solid tinder & wear tailored suits fucks the women who are interested in that kind of man. Some girls love the romantic provider like you & hate my non-needy behavior , some think of you as a fe… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Who should be the one to ask for exclusivity?A man should never propose for relationship slash exclusivity . | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | if she asks “do you do this to every girl”, what’s the best answer to give?kinda safe : "Only to pretty ones" More playful : "that's my daily job , yes" | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 04:31 PM |
| -3 | What can I do to make a very introverted and inexperienced girl open up faster?Being introverted & nerdy has nothing to do with hooking up . in fact the shy nerdy girls are hornier & easier to get laid. you're just afraid of escalation , it happens to me on a regular basis dating a girl who doesn't talk that much , turns red when i say some sexual shit & has a super low voice but 15 minutes later she's riding my dick in car . | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:44 PM |
| -1 | Should I commit to a girl in college?this is the mindset of lonely unexperienced losers & it's not even your fault , it's because of the people around you. how to know it's the mindset of losers? hit the 30 laycount. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 7 | How do you know if you’re good looking?How to know ? you constantly get complimented from people other than your mom & people use you & your beauty as examples. no need to make it complicated , vast majority of you lonely losers are looking for some excuse not to approach "i look bad so it's already over , i should not approach." or some quick mental masturbation to know "oh okay i'm kinda good looking , let's keep not approaching." | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:40 PM |
| 5 | How to react after a BAD or RUDE rejection?Who gives a fuck about random whores , there's 3 billions of her out there | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Would I be stupid to go out with her again?Go for meeting her again but ask for straight house meetup ( yours or hers ) or if she refuses after pushing a couple rounds , just pick her up & try to do it in your car. no more bowling & useless food/drink dates. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | should i remind hernothing wrong with a quick confirmation . in fact if the girl doesn't call & text all day to see if i'm still down to meet , i always make a quick 20 second call to confirm . "hey X , just wanted to check if ur cool with our 8pm date tonight." | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Should I commit to a girl in college?have a lay count of 2 no , the answer is no . you should not commit ( at least for now ) & you should not stop chasing women, why? you may get the answer when you hit 30+ lays . | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 11:52 AM |
| -2 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesI don't work so yea , but i know plenty of people who DO have a job but switched to remote working so they can chase women 5+ hours a day without any problem. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 11:40 AM |
| 69 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesgreat job if you're not lying , i did 5 before the gym today & now i'm getting prepared to hit the streets for 20+ sets in 2 hours. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 0 | Are cashiers even worth it?fuck going slow , you can literally get yourself 2 hot fuck buddies by the end of next week , U can start going out and saying hi to women next morning | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Best chic drinks to stock in my fridge for maximum comfort when she comes over?U don't need any drinks/food to maximize logistics,you're not in her service. but one thing i realized in years of experience : girls love vodka & wine , HATE beer. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Are cashiers even worth it?Guys who live in hollywood movies & youtube dreams can't handle number closing cashiers & girls at work , i understand. motherfuckers want to lock eyes , flirt for 10 minutes & do dumb shit like it's bumble. picking up girls at work is a fast game & it's only for hyper confident men ( the daygame practitioners ,not online dating ladyboys ) , it should take you literally 5 seconds to go from hi to let me have your number , otherwise the momentum is killed & game is done. why? because women are no… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 08:17 PM |
| -1 | Stop rating women! There is no such thing as a 10! rantUsing these "scales" are totally needy & delusional, my 9 may be someone else's 3 & someone's dreamy 10 may be my basic 2. this is just a shitty form of evaluating women based on stupid factors ( fake tits , fake lips & fake hair ) promoted by scumbags like tate brothers & youtube dating roaches | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 08:13 PM |
| 10 | I feel most men have p**sy fall on their lap and don’t really try as opposed to us who have to learn all of this for a fraction of their successmost guys who have the dating life that I want rarely ever seem like they had to struggle to get there, yes it's because they never tell you anything about endless rejections & shitty moments , struggles & lonely nights unless you're observing dicaprio & ronaldo's life . and even those top 0.001% men still struggle at some point , take a quick look at countless leaked screenshots of celebrities, fuckups of famous people , billionaires losing a shit ton of money for pussy etc. no man on the ear… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 03:55 PM |
| 6 | dating a girl, but we are not having sexdating without sex is just sponsoring , you're the girl's sponsor if you don't smash after 1-2 dates tops. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Is Social Status Not As Important or A Requirement? Which Idea Below is Correct in Your View?"you can change your looks a lot after college but you can't set your social status much absolute non-sense , 99.99% of men become uglier & less attractive as they grow old , test levels start to crash , they're balding , skin's aging etc. status? i've rarelly seen people building status at very young age ( aside from tiktok stars ) all men BECOME somebody in mid/late 20s , 30s & 40s . 1.) "Life is a competition. If you win, you get all the women. If you don't, you get none" you need to leave … | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:25 PM |
| 31 | girl trying to suggest fancy dinner for first date of tinder?Flip the script & suggest to meetup at your place for drinks or a dirt cheap cafe , nothing else you're not anyone's free meal ticket | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 14 | What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?she means "i'm exactly that type of girl" , act by totally ignoring it like U didn't even hear anything said by her. ask her to meetup/come over few days later & try to fuck ;) | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?I’m only really attracted to about 1 in 30 women you're either coping just like %99.99 of other men who are struggling with crippling approach anxiety & hide behind the "no she's not hot enough" "no she's not my type" excuses or you gonna have really really hard time doing daygame everywhere in the world, if a guy only finds 1 girl attractive in 30 girls , it's extremely hard for him to do daygame . and yes , i'm addicted to daygame cause it's the only thing that took me from a suicidal depr… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?best way to get most of sex specially from daygame is to move like a pinball & hit on every woman you can during an specific time of the day ( like 4pm to 7 pm). my smv is 1000 times higher than anyone who gives dating advice here & my close rate for some reason is very higher than average , but i still do exact same thing , from one woman to another like it's my job. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Are You "Representing" Your Parents or Not?this sub is cuckland , but i enjoy pissing you off | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:18 AM |
| -2 | Are You "Representing" Your Parents or Not?do girls open up about their real sexual experiences in past? does she tell you about 5 gangbangs & the drugie who used to cum into her every week? did she explain how she fucked 100 men in her "hoe phase" ? what's that? no? so why do you ever need to tell her naything personal ? U should never open up about anything personal to any girl , doesn't matter if she's your 5 y.o girl or just a one night stand . the more close she is , the more you meet her , the less she has to know . what's the ob… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | How to pinpoint exactly why you are unsuccessful with women?"What is wrong with me exactly? this & "what did i do wrong , guys?" are the most toxic & by far the worst mindsets for every practitioner , most of male's problems in today's dating market is summed up in these 2 : 1-not playing in right platforms 2-not having enough volume fix these two & don't worry about how better you could be if you were 10cm taller or had sharper eyebrows or more chiseled jaw . | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 25 | How's this for a pick up line?cringe | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 07:54 AM |
| 0 | Current Reddit seduction coach scammed me, looking for a new one or program to enroll in, that preferably has weekly video calls?loooooooooooool | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 5 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Fuck outta here with your stupid ass conclusions & blackpill theories, just go hire a hooker U loser | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 12 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Motherfuckers are down to humiliate themselves to the point that they want to pay a hooker & are asking for tutorials but are not down to go somewhere busy at rush hour & say hi to 50 women to get free & amazing meaningful sex. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 09:53 PM |
| 9 | How do you guys stay motivated?pussy itself is the best source of motivation , if you love pussy you'd approach no matter what | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Girls give just about 20 seconds to react. Be fast.is it andrew tate by any chance ? seems like some post that a copywriter would write to promote his course or a mental masturbation to feel good. use an interesting title , tell some story where you go from a-z real quick then give a conclusion. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:56 PM |
| -2 | What are you guys thoughts about the outcome?U miss %100 of the shots you don't shoot, why not saying her "yes , we gonna have some friend to friend time only" & bringing her to a dirt cheap coffee date & then trying to pull? pull for you highschoolers can be simple as pulling down your pants somewhere & asking her to give you a blowjob, that's what i used to do in high school , it's still a fat W. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | ConfidenceYes , the cure is to " go out & try to get destroyed , literally let women/businesses treat you like an absolute trash , then results will come . " there are multiple bullshit temporary fixes tho : drink some beer , take baby steps , hit the gym etc . none of them even comes close to harsh rejections from women , none. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Cold approachHow about saying " hey guys , i have crippling approach anxiety & i also don't know how i can make girls stop on the street " instead of telling a bunch of lies then asking your question to make it look like you're not a total beginner ? "no trust me bro my case is different" it's just the crippling approach anxiety that guys on stage 0 get . | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | girl loosing feelingsThis is what happens when the Male isn't forward & fast enough and position himself as a boyfriend , simply investing more & more & more than her instead of letting the female invest. suck it up , U can now invite her over & try to fuck her but i see a very minimal chance it happens , better choice would be move on & find more girls. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:05 PM |
| 3 | First date in 5 yearsI'm happy for U brother . . I've been single for about 4 years now but I haven't had much luck getting a date until now. Any advice? nothing , anything people say will make you "over excited" and you may fuck up your chances to get laid only thing to do is : DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING ABOUT THIS 4-5 YEAR , let her think you constantly date & shit . that's all & yea , try to pull her home at the end if possible. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Why Don't More Guys Follow This Process Below? Or Do Many?because they're not dumb fucks like you . Mr.looksmaxxxing | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Is this giving away too much validation?Fuck no . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Is this giving away too much validation?too much beating around the bush will lead to ghosting %99 of the time , motherfucker it's not the "who can lick her pussy in more creative way" competition , it's a numbers game based on rapid escalation . U don't need none of that bullshit & all these fancy creative ways of opening some TRASH . "U down for drinks X day?" "wanna have drinks & chill?" here , go with these 2 examples for next matches & don't add any other shit. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replytime to put our persian seeds in all these bitchezzzz bro | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | My first cold approachvery good brother . Any tips to keep the conversation flowing ? wing your convos . deregulation is best way for daygame practitioners bonus: I checked your profile & saw you're a drugie , quitting drug would be your best bet for now in order to succeed in daygame . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a coach/program to enroll in at a reasonable price, that provides accountability, cold approach practice, flirting and escalation practicesYou can buy my course for $4999.99 , it's the best. also you can join my 3-day weekend bootcamp where we do approach girls & i charge you only $7999.99 for it , also only 2 spots left. & here is my free ebook , enter your email to receive " 66 signs she belongs to the streets " | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:48 PM |
| -4 | “What are you looking for?”"sex" "nothing serious" be honest with her , do you think other men have balls to say that shit right in her eyes? no they don't , be honest. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:46 PM |
| -2 | What’s the best way to stop another guy from interrupting your conversation with a girl?act like the guy doesn't even exist & keep doing what you were doing. i actually learned it from approaching groups of girls in the street when i'm alone , i literally go to the one particular girl i'm interested in & start talking like she's alone & others don't exist , whatever they do or say i just don't hear it . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyshe gave U all slut defence , logistics problems , shit test etc in many messages in a row, she's the " i wanna fuck you but i also don't wanna look like an slut and i also only fuck if U R bold enough " kinda girl , happens a lot . just ask for her location like you're blind & didn't read her messages , U got this. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:53 PM |
| -2 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyU did a great job , actually U did it too late ( 3 dates! ) https://i.imgur.com/kmRoqNO.jpg she's a crazy bitch , U have to be hyper-robotic with crazy bitches , like saying same sentence over & over & over until you either get what U want or eject & block her. also seems like she's living in a shitty condition & is ashamed of it. Just reply with this "alright , send me your location & i'll meet you there" U can add some shit like " i grab beer/drink/wine/dinner " to make it clear you're gon… | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce older women?How to seduce older women? approach older women instead of young ones Should I have lied? no , that 25 y.o would've rejected you no matter what , in fact old women ( 30+ to be specific ) are proud to have young bfs/studs , age rejection & age shit tests only happen if U express yourself as a nerd or show some weakness , also "age rejection" is also a rejection & it's not really about age , just like the fake & classy " I have a boyfriend " rejection. bottom line : U don't have to qualify yours… | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:39 PM |
| 7 | Please help me create a game plan for sexwanted to have a dominant game plan "force me to beg for you dick/shout that i want it" "put my panties in my mouth while you're pumping" "hold my hands tight from behind when fucking me doggy-style" "bite my nipples" "whisper into my ears that i have a tight & wet pussy that cures you" "slap me in the face" "put your dick in my ass then right into my mouth" these are just some phrases i remember hearing from girls during sex when they were most horny in past 6 months , hope this list helps. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 3 | girl in an open relationship?you mistake cuck with confident . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?you're just a keyboard warrior , stop it & get mike's dick out of your mouth . noobs should own the fact that they're noobs , own it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 0 | How to tell if a girl who has a lot of guy friends and is outgoing is flirting, or just being friendlyif it's just a girl who i'm interested in her , i act like i'm an open minded guy who is totally okay with girls having alot of guy friends & doing anything they want , then i aim for instasex ( rapid sex ) & when i'm done , i never reply to her again. if she's my girlfriend , i force her to simply burn her identity , phone number apps etc . all of them should be gone or i'm gonna go . how to know ? just let her open up for you on first date , it's very easy to identify them. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 01:17 PM |
| 10 | girl in an open relationship?Her boyfriend is a cuck , in my experience it's very easy to steal from a cuck but it ain't worth it since the cost is usually an STD . “talk and flirt with other guys but not have sex” what she really means is "i have sex with whoever i want" . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 12:49 PM |
| -1 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?Yeah , funny how mike has an article describing U & that other loser who replied me , the article is " whiny , loser guys " read it & you gonna see who U are , works like a damn mirror bro. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 12:46 PM |
| -2 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?it's true , he even explains how "mature men" are in fact just lazy beta men. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 12:19 PM |
| -2 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?get his dick out of your mouth , maybe then you can take a breath & calm down anon rat. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 12:18 PM |
| -1 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?mikemehlman.net read his blog from page 1 to 20 as many times as U can then begin hitting the streets , this is the only source a man needs in his whole life on game & making his sexual dreams come true in a week or even few days . | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?mine was 31 like 6 months ago all coming from instagram & bumble , began doing daygame & i hit 90 saturday ( could be over 100-120 if i didn't half ass , i only approached properly for 3 months ) . all from daygame & never ever come back to installing ig or dating apps again . keep in mind i was in a 12 month dry-spell before beginning daygame so my confidence was dog-shit when starting out | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Did it go better after your first approach?I remember doing my second ever daygame approach ( 6 months ago ), i approached a girl from behind who was wayyyyyyyyy below me in terms of SMV , i was literally 10X sexier in terms of looks & style, i said hi & introduced myself , she gave a super disgusted look , shook her head & literally changed her direction , i was in shock & felt literally suicidal , discussed it with mike mehlman & instead of doing like 10 more approaches that day , i went home & got prepared to meet guy friends ( big mi… | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:33 AM |
| -10 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?every man has to master cold approach (specially daygame) first , get his laycount to at least 30+ , get good with rejections & be able to handle it , understand male-female dynamics , get himself some plates & then use OLD as a supplement . it's like getting strong in the gym first & mastering compounds then going for some cardio & shit , if you do it vice versa the experience is gonna be shit. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 2 | I can literally grind for 12 hours a date about seduction techniques, self-improvement, etc. but when it comes to actually approaching women or messaging them, I can't just do it. any advice?it's like business , my marketing professors in uni could give you marketing speech for 100+ hours but none of them could make $1 or build a business , in fact they all became professors to teach what they never made it work . same with dating coaches on youtube & most of people here , that's why i believe it should be simple as fuck not to get overwhelmed & have unlimited choices. just go out & introduce yourself to women. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips?%90 of my dates are instadates from daygame & the %10 rest from daygame girls i number closed. i never do second dates if first date doesn't lead to sex, so technically all my sex come from first date sex. here , learn something : 1-act fast , plan to meetup fast & if U meet a girl somewhere ( daygame , party , school etc ) instadate her , most of your luck for fucking a girl is first minutes/hours of meeting her 2-Cheap as fuck : pick 5-star restaurants for your guy friends , keep long date… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:48 PM |
| -3 | Update to the Post: “How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a loner”provide some proof that it isn't just a fantasy story. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:34 PM |
| -8 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Please don't listen to this guy What a girly way of getting butthurt. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | She Unfollowed Me On IG… But Didn’t Block Me…U can happily discuss these stuff on "gay" & "cringe" subreddits. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 31 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?don't be afraid of being boring , game is extremely boring . all "dialogues" U have to say to get laid are boring af , you can be "outlaw" in your own way when you have more options but at the end of the day game is boring . however , there are some boring subjects that simply kills all the attraction asap: 1-anything related to your fav sport teams & matches 2-politics , all of em. 3-talking about success of other men , or anything that signals you're jealous 4-talking shit about girls who do… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Chatting with a girl who send Heart emojis, does she likes me ?bruh U have some emotional problems | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 04:12 PM |
| -7 | Book, video, content , etc. recommendations for flirting, conversation, making moves, etc.?U guys need to stop asking for books , pickup is not a fucking academic science . the best author is U , best mentor is you . saying hi to 5 women on the streets is better than reading 5 books on game. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 5 | People watchingOWN IT . if u die today , those surrounding audience won't raise a finger for you. it's only hard in the beginning , within 5-10 first "risky/dangerous" approaches you gon' realize what other people think & say matter zero . "who gives a fuck what they're thinking" -david X | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:55 PM |
| 4 | How to build attraction on the phone?There’s this girl I‘m talking to and she doesn’t wanna meet yet because she finds it creepy meeting people from social media without getting to know them a little tell her to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle rejection?By knowing for every girl who rejects me , there's another hotter tighter girl who wants to suck the shit out of my dick but i can never find her if i stop saying hi to girls. aim for alot of rejections . | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | how to unlock your maximum potential ?U have to hit the street ( or anywhere else ) with the mindset of an absolute loser . if U feel like you have anything to lose , you're already fucked & can never make your extreme sexual desires come true . guys are always scared of losing something so they never become a savage PUA , ever. most find a boring gf & are afraid of fucking other girls not to lose her , are afraid of asking her to bring a friend for threesome some have a "safe" shitty job that covers bills & one shitty travel per ye… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop thinking about being a kissless virgin around women?if i were you, i'd read whole blog of mike mehlman from page 1 to 20 for like 3 times , then start hitting the streets like there's no tomorrow . but it's your life your choice. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 11:43 AM |
| 16 | How to talk to girls sitting down?Go front of them while standing and pull your dick out , they'll handle the rest for ya. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 0 | What's the correct/best answer for "I'm sorry I speak too much"?Women can't shut up when they have some interest in a man , it's the man's duty to decide if he's okay with hearing or no. if i don't feel like listening to BS of my daily instadates i try to pull for movie in like 10 minutes, if i enjoy , i let her finish rambling about stuff & then i propose for full. guess which one has more conversion rate? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Did I miss this?wether she tried to flirt or not , you didn't do anything so now U can suck my dick & feel bad for your "near miss" . | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Is cold approaching considered to be chasing?yea it's a waste of time , leave to me & stay home. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Why is it so hard to find a middle ground between complete openness and shutting down?Who the fuck says women want an obsessed vulnerable man? is it something U learned from lovely dating coaches of reddit ? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | What should I do when girls do this?70% positive BSU : honestly most shitty form of rejection next to the deflections ,when the girl acts super interested while in reality she's rejectin you , surprisingly! https://mikemehlman.net/2021/07/03/behavior-state-untethering-bsu/ read this super informative article about . %30 she requires U to be more pushy try to spam the approach a bit , not the shitty hey , hey girl , hey hi hey don't be rude etc , spam like a robot but not in an idiotic way . she can keep laughing and you can keep… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Moving to place with no attractive womenCOPE COPE COPE | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 11:40 AM |
| 5 | is this a thing or am I delusional?Men don't have balls to approach so do it yourself | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl texts me she's getting over her boyfriend after first dateDid U fuck her? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Trouble picking up choosing signalsfor "choosing signals" you can use "gay" & "cringe" subs . | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars?not good for beginners due to lack of enough volume . | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Physical contact and Anxiety(huge ears). girls don't care if U have huge ears , girls care if you have huge approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 27 | Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars?"why am i not the only guy in DMs of girls?" because it's how the world works , if you don't like it , U should increase the number of interactions to the point that numbers & unfair truths don't bother you anymore (EX: a guy who hits 100 laycount no longer cares about the bodycount of girls he sleeps with Or a guy like mike mehlman who opens 200 girls on metro-stations daily don't care about rejections ) or play when odds are not against you . that's why i chose daygame over OLD & party & caf… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Should I (16M) be asking for numbers or Instagram/Snapchat?Stick with numbers | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Should I (16M) be asking for numbers or Instagram/Snapchat?Number unless you have top 1% instagram presence which i'm sure U don't. number only. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 21 | What have you done that improve your overall success with women?I'm 30, looking obviously for hot girls between 20 - 28, have a decent paying job, I practice skateboarding, I play guitar, and drums and am also a musician, I also draw quite decently and I have been non-stop learning with books about social stuff, money, science, psychology, etc If the target is 20 year old girls , none of the shit you mentioned matters to them at the slightest , they don't give a flying fuck about a 30 year old man interested in books , psychology & science . can you provide … | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:37 AM |
| 7 | kissing skilljust buy my "kiss da bitch" course bro , it's only $3999.99 for today. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Lack of volume in approachingbrother , stop trying to fight over stupid stuff . you're a beginner , own it . it's not "logistics" it's that if you do low volume , you become needy & you'll take rejections personally . if you do 100 a day , you get laid enough & pick enough numbers to realize how sexual game works. again , i'm sure you've never done daygame , so leave reddit & try to face your AA in real life . | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | I have a girl I'm talking to that I feel like I turn off and on. Has anyone experienced something similar, and have they been able to swing it back in their favor and make it work, or should I just write her off?The way you're needy just turned me off too , i'm sure it turned her off as well. just lost my boner , bro. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:22 PM |
| -3 | Lack of volume in approachingU need more confidence , chicken . | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Lack of volume in approachingU can never truly beat AA by 5 a day! that's why i'm sure if i hit 100 even one day before i turn 22 , life is gonna be heaven cause if someone make 100 sets in a row & without giving up , nothing will stop him anymore. approaching 30-50 girls a day do you sit at the same location or do you walk around? i walk but i don't change the area like a dumb fuck , most PUAs! hit some spot for 20 mins then drive for 2 hours to go somewhere else . i'll never ever make that much investment . if the chose… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:10 PM |
| -8 | Lack of volume in approachinganything below 30 a day-specially if you don't have plates-isn't worth it , to make daygame worth going out you should go to metro stations or main streets of big cities at rush hour & aim for 100+ approaches a day , someone like mike mehlman does 200 something per day but he's a legend , i'm not. *if you don't have plates or you're in a dryspell or you're a total noob , 30 is pretty low , you should aim for 100+ . my highest is 35 women a day which is still pretty low , extremely low but sinc… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 9 | Hamzas (youtuber) advice to just go for the makeout and try to pull literally within minutes in the clubyes but hamza is so fucking weird | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 108 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?She has a lot of guy friends and "commitment issues" now U have the answer. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 9 | How to handle a constant liar?U can never change a girl who's a liar | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:00 PM |
| 14 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?-Game is always quantity over quality -looks don't matter for daygame hookups -all girls are the same , there's no such thing as "different girls" who needs you to behave different to fuck her. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Travelling -best locations for nightlife and meeting girlsiraq & iran . | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Taking a break from cold approaching, how quickly do you “lose it”?https://mikemehlman.net/2021/02/28/why-most-guys-who-seem-promising-stop-approaching-women/ read this article. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:41 AM |
| -1 | Anyone here who overcame Social Anxiety?Daygame cures it , at least it cured mine . not saying i became the rockstar of greatest social circles neither saying i was a nerd before daygame , but it 100X'd my confidence in groups & made me significantly better at being a communication god everywhere . also made me understand businesses & getting motivated doing stuff , i burst out laughing when i say people can't get a job cause they're afraid of sending portfolio & getting rejected , or they don't make sales cause they're afraid of sa… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:03 AM |
| 69 | When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking?You have clear signs of autism. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Is she down to clown or am I just a friend now?she may be interested in messing around since she still wants to go on another date with me? you never get what you don't ask for ! ask her. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:13 AM |
| 2 | I (23M) want to learn from an older ladyI know they have experience that I don’t have so I want to learn more. it's just a psychological bias made by old/damaged women to make guys believe things like "good in bed" exist , it's just marketing my son. just like "got milk" that made people buy milk like crazy thinking it's good for their health, so don't buy these lies , pussy is pussy & it's better to be fresh not old . but if you're interested in milf/older category just like me , it's something else. how to get them? same as othe… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:34 PM |
| 18 | Should I tell her that I’m a virgin while hanging out? She seems to like meU should fuck her & then tell her "i'm no longer a virgin , baby" . | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 5 | If You Turn Her Off Via Text By Being Too Clingy/Pushy/Simpy/Needy/Texting Too Much, Then There’s No Recovery Right?Via text/phone ? the answer is no , most of the time . because she has plenty of time to think , observe & analyze and needless to say , every girl has endless options thanks to men who don't have balls to approach in real life & hide behind the phone. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 6 | I suck at textingby leaving tinder & doing daygame | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | girl said she thought I was boring at firstwhen i used to do alot of OLD , girls thought i'm angry af, now i'm doing daygame all the time , girls mostly think i'm creepy , boring & autistic . thing is , you can still pull . always remember this : "The initalal interaction doesn't mean jack" -mike mehlman | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:07 PM |
| 4 | First ever cold approachBOOM , time to hit the streets | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:15 PM |
| 8 | Moving conversation from casual to flirty 20MU have the mindset of "what if i look creepy?" "what if i make girls uncomfortable?" this is what keeps you from being direct & escalate rapidly . nothing happens till you eliminate it from your life | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Running into same girl you've been rejected by before?U shouldn't care , keep approaching. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Have some Newbie questions that I’m hoping can be answered.U have approach anxiety , say nothing & try to face it then come back to reddit | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 18 | What do women expect from a man who is 24?15 , 17 , 19 , 23 & 45 it's the same : "women expect you as much as you let them do" that's it , if i higher the expectation of my "girlfriend" that she deserves the world & i have to work my ass off to make her a better life , she may tell me "hey , why don't you own a supercar yet? " while a 10X hotter girl may be pulled to a cafe by me , made to split the bills & then fuck on same exact day & fall in love with me , why? because this is how much of me that she's allowed to have . U decide … | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 0 | I’m not in any position to even try seduction am i... if you are mentally ill you’re basically fucked right?" I don’t think “positive vibes” matter either. In other words, if the male feels shitty about himself and goes out and gets rejected incessantly, I view this as merely a function of the numbers game and women being in the negative micro state. His rejections aren’t because he projects his negativity / “poor vibes” outwardly and women don’t like that. The male will by all means pick up on days he’s aggressive, “angry,” or “feeling like shit,” and then get steamrolled with non-stop rejection when… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Did she tried approaching me or there is nothing to worry about it?I'm a man that struggle to understand possible women signals and that is not having great success with women in general. it's because "signals" don't exist , it's just a made up shit by pussy ass dating coaches & redpillers to justify their laziness & feel good about not having balls to approach the girls they want . "no bro she didn't send choosing signals" haha . she stood on the back of my head. Which is it quite unusual. no it's not unusual , stop overthinking . if you want a girl , go a… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Can social media be used as a resume?Make sure to attach a small pdf while you want to send your resume to girls , they don't really have time to go through your whole resume . social media ONLY if you can show a top 1% life or top 1% looks : this way it brings you some effortless lays when you can't approach in real life at 3 a.m OR if you really have a shitty life & shitty looks with dog-shit confidence but you are a pro at faking stuff : this way it brings you some result , some social circles and may help you get laid. … | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Social Media/Showing InterestSocial media is haram . | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming the easy mentalityit's better if casually women approach me instead of me approaching them" and even when I think of approaching someone I get stuck with "who should I approach?" LOL | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Even though my intentions are genuine, I have this fear of asking women out because I'm afraid I will develop the reputation of the guy who asks everyone out?Search "jonathan" in UCF subreddit here . Men who get laid a lot care zero about what women think ;) | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:01 AM |
| -2 | What is the purpose of a first date?To fuck ! you're referring to shitty "raport dates" that are all a huge waste of time in my opinion , great for soft men tho. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 05:59 AM |
| 3 | PUA advice vs developing your own styleNo more youtube PUAs , no more Game books , no more how to get girls videos & posts. go out & try it on your own , go your own way . pickup is not an academic science , you don't need a mentor , you have to be self taught & no , there's no such thing as a course/book that gets you from beginner to advanced . ONLY way to learn & become a beast is to put the phone down & approach. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:44 PM |
| -1 | Fear of rejectionbruh about to get heart attacks from talking to some random girl . world's becoming pathetic | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 5 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkIf we start living a life true to ourselves , we'll see life's gonna get much better & happier in general . 90% of guys i know who are killing themselves in this self improvement path don't really NEED any of that, large muscles money etc you name it they don't need it but working their ass off for it because to them it SEEMS like it helps them get girls . bro just move out US/UK & go do daygame in some south asian country i promise your life will change for 1000x better with 1/10 of budget . | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | If She Specifically Says You Two Are Friends, Then It’s All Lost, Right?i've fucked a lot of "friends" also fucked a lot of "no,we won't have sex" girls the exact same night. PUSH PUSH PUSH until it's time to eject , but never ever go the "alright let's listen to her & try to grab her trust or build attraction slowly" route . | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | From My Experience Game Doesn't Matter.Huge loser vibes , you're exactly what we don't need here , go away man. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | I need advice on a girl who's constantly shit/compliance testing me...Makes me throw up to see men not being able to dump a bitch who can't go a day without playing all the games in the world , have some self respect & move on. shit tests/games are only good when they are thrown at you once or 2-3 times max before sex , you win them like it's your job & have sex asap , anything after sex should lead into dumping her . | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | I think the “bachelor” life gets oldThese stuff are always said by men who have very few or no options or they're just too lazy to approach frequently , you're in the business of making excuses , cool , get yourself a girlfriend & retire . | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?You're not obsessed with game . lebron james is not afraid of failing 5000 attempts every year front of thousands of people , why should a player worry about getting rejected by random girls then? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:30 AM |
| 8 | Texting GameTexting for logistics only , anything but that shows your value is down in toilet . -When R U free? -Meet me at X pm in Y location -Soup it's X , when R U free ? this is it , no fucking around no questions about what music she likes or how old she is or shit like that , no making her fun no differentiation . it's called soup texting Soup texting is the only way to go . | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Infidelity: why you should never go for people who cheat on their spousesProblem with fucking someone else's wife/girlfriend is you may think it's a power move or you enjoy doing the "forbidden" but the truth is you just reduced your self worth to fuck some whore who wanted to fuck other men anyway , it's like eating out of trash & thinking "oh man i got free food like a boss" | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Having never done Daygame before what should my expectations be set at?By decent I mean converting talks during the day into actual dates or hookups? it can happen in your first day daygaming , or second day . Say hi -> ask if she's down for a coffee RIGHT AWAY & try to instadate her -> at the cafe , ask if she's down to meet movie together at your place -> 1/3 of those women you pull to cafe will say yes -> most women who come to your place will fuck . expectations? ZERO , because no woman owes you jack fucking shit , the more women you try to introduce yourself… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 16 | What's the best way to practice banter/responding to shit tests?Whenver any girl asks you something or tell you something , have the mindset of "would i say what i'm about to say if i had multiple options & i constantly approached women? if not , don't say it | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you be an asshole without being an asshole?https://mikemehlman.net/2021/09/09/relationships-as-a-polygamous-male/ read this article , all U need. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Pro tip: ask for her instagram instead of her numberI hope it's a parody . | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?The only key to outstand & maintain a girl is to treat her like garbage | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:56 PM |
| -2 | a questionyes ,everywhere with every woman (unless you wanna flirt with some arab's wife front of his husband in a rural area of iraq , then you'll get your head cut ) . my friends complain when they see me doing it . "bro people are watching" "bro you may make her uncomfortable" "bro you behave like an animal" who cares , i see it as a training . people can go fuck themselves & if the woman i'm flirting with feels uncomfortable , she can leave , i never chase further . like just in past week i number c… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Looking for some fitness advice for getting leaner. 6'4" and feel lack of facial aesthetics are DESTROYING my confidence and perception from women.1-This photo is angled & posed af , you're not gonna show up to girls in the street like this , so take better pics if you need physique feedback & advice 2-stop overthinking these stuff , focus on big picture . 10% better physique or 5lb leaner body barely does shit if you don't introduce yourself to enough women. general advice on fitness/gym is : always put shoulders & arms over everything , then upper chest then upper back , legs matter zero & try to stay sub 12% body fat , less carbs … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I balance showing interest and not look needy when talking to a girl in person and texting.Problem is when men don't make it very clear what they want in the beginning "because it's inappropriate bro" & they constantly compliment without getting/asking anything in return. like : when the daygame practitioner open a girl by "sup you're cute , where are you going ? down to grab a coffee." it's simply a guy who shows interest & compliments the girl but instantly tries to date the girl, now : these gay ass simps in every girl's dms who keep sending emojis to her & replying to her stories … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:23 PM |
| 4 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I'm at 350-400 total approaches range , started mid january . outcome & quality of your approaches have nothing to do with number of your lifetime approaches tho , if you can be bold & confidence doing your first ever approach , you're ahead of the man who does 5000 approaches every year but do them like a chicken . | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Am i doing something wrong on Tinder or getting unlucky? No dates but a decent amount of chatsSuch a timewaster , know your target platform before anything else. tinder has always been a rapid escalation place , the goal is to date her or grab her number by only exchanging 2-3 texts , that's all . | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | can someone let me know what this means for future reference? i stopped talking to the girl but i still wanna knowU just asked for snap , not anything important . even i as a guy would be totally happy to give my number out to bunch of useless people & enjoy the increase in number of unread messages in my phone or simply having people try to "get me" . you're doing bunch of bottom feeding shit one by one & U ask feedback on it? smh | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Splitting the bill didn’t hurt me.Benjamin effect , if she invests in the relationship ( even something little as one coffee,one beer) she'll be more likely to come back or submit . | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Splitting the bill didn’t hurt me.honestly i've had plenty of U22-23 girls paying for whole shit but never in my entire life i had a 30-35 year old woman paying for anything . even though i mostly date milf/cougar women i don't know what's wrong with this world | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 219 | Cold Approach is BrutalWelcome to the daygame , you have to preapre for more if you want to up from easy mode ( from college/uni daygame to streets ) & 10X more awkward moments and yeah of course , 100x more approach anxiety . but it is what it is , you can never pull women you pull during daygame via tinder/ig & another things is , if it was easy , every man would do it. daygame is not for everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Splitting the bill didn’t hurt me."I'm not gonna sleep with this guy because he made me pay for my coffee/hookah" -says no girl ever. brothers , if you're a broke boy in ur early 20s & pussy is your main inspiration for life just like me , be like me & split the bills . | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:00 AM |
| -5 | How can an average female date an attractive male? Someone “out of my league”?This is the same exact way every unattractive woman i know is killing it : Build a solid instagram by retouching your photos like crazy & uploading "high value" story posts , photos can be taken by a shitty phone in shitty location , color grading & retouch matter more than anything 6 pictures as main posts & some highlights will do the job, buy 2000-5000 followers as well . bonus : for poses on photos , learn from ig thots then re-create them. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is push the absence of pull?Nagging & push pull when meeting girls for first time is highly overrated , you can always get away without it if you're in right place at right time ( EX: meeting a hot girl day after some man broke her heart & she's feeling like she has to get laid with some new man no matter what and her confidence is at her lowest ) the reason why i hate all these push pull nagging teasing bullshit is because you make it very hard for yourself by setting rules & trying to commit to a routine while opening … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Bad advice you’ll get on reddit can be detrimental.No bro you cannot get laid unless you ride a lambo in miami & having millions in crypto & cash with a big instagram following , if you don't have these stuff dating game is over bro | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:49 PM |
| -1 | How do introverts get girls?Social circle warm approach , they get girls by passage of time being around them , same hot girl who fucks the introvert loser at work may reject the fuckboy daygame practitioner on the street if she doesn't feel good that day. 45 year old bankrupt fat dude who fucks a hot woman because that woman is friends with one of his friends & they hangout a lot , may reject a hot male on instagram because "he was too muscular ". | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Cold approached a waitress. Didn't go as bad as I thoughtwhy overthinking about that one particular girl ? If you're lonely at the time you should increase the number of approaches ( through every channel you like , maybe bars & clubs maybe streets maybe dating apps ) focusing on one girl will fuck your mental health up if you fail | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:54 PM |
| 15 | So twice now I've gotten women to drive me home but I can't find an excuse to get them back inside, what's best to say here?The fact that you made them drive you home but you couldn't tell them some super simple things like "Come inside to grab some coffee" "do you like tea?let's drink some in my house then you go home" "park here & let's watch a movie" makes me think you're lying . because it's like being able to overhead press 100 KG in the gym but not being able to pull your backpack from the ground , weird. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | The hottest girl I’ve ever been with is now the least attractive girl I’ve ever been with2 years ago i had a girlfriend who i was in love with her head to toe . she was a chubby slut , cougar/pornstar looks , the polarizing type of girl that is hated by 90% of men and loved by 10% . anyway , after couple months of fucking her all the time , traveling with her and experiencing craziest shit , things turned black , she was no longer "hot" to me , she was just a fat slut who is very old ( i was 19 she was 27 at the time ) with a fucked up past & brought nothing to the table but her b… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:46 PM |
| 15 | get to know to the game my self, any advicework on stuff like your physique , fashion & making money while approaching girls daily , they may make your results better & may not , but if you delay approaching to first work on yourself it will lead to loneliness & having no sex will not let you really improve your life . if i don't have some girls to fuck , i cannot build a business or hit the gym with maximum potential . don't neglect approaching even if you're fat , broke & depressed . | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:23 AM |
| 11 | get to know to the game my self, any adviceno , this will lead to loneliness & dry-spell. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | AlcoholDepends , it may make you invincible at a house party held by your friends but it won't do shit for your daygame approach anxiety , so don't really see it as a help . when i first started out trying to open total stranger women in the street AKA daygame ( 4 months ago ) , i thought i can see alcohol as a secret sauce , went out drunk few days in a row & only change was that i walked like an alcoholic didn't solve my AA | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:07 AM |
| 24 | get to know to the game my self, any advicego out & try to face your approach anxiety , handle this & you're superior to 99.99% of men who read & learn about game | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Recently gotten in better shape and have noticed more women looking at me. Have no idea what to do about it…Did the same exact thing,got the same exact result & it lead me to a long af dryspell!!! it killed my game because those women never approach , they stare , they keep staring & sometimes smiling but never approach you no matter what | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Any help with hookup sites profile pictures?go to instagram or pinterest for inspiration , find 2-3 guys with similar looks to you & see if you can re-create ( steal ) their pics or not? this is what i've been doing for a long time & i got great results . unfortunately , i cannot re-create a man traveling the world in 5 star places & riding supercars but i can re-create models dressing in trendy way & taking pictures in the middle of the streets & use lightroom & photoshop to edit like them . see what you got & start playing according t… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 0 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?Olympic lifting , not the gym . 30 mins olympic lifting ( specially overhead presses ) gonna kill your approach anxiety & fear of talking to women , if you don't like lifting , some martial arts may do the job . but becoming a drug addict to be able to talk to girls? forget about it | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:36 AM |
| 28 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsi'm sure there'll be guys here telling you had a bad approach to lay ratio or your numbers are very bad but i'm telling you , these people haven't even been seen doing one lifetime approach , they don't even hit the streets . just downgrading other men's results.. anyway , how long did it take you to complete 500 ? & was it all daygame ? i'm shooting for 30-50 daily approaches normally around 3-6 pm , hopefully i can complete 50 in 2> hours . if i can make 500 in 10 days i'll be more than ha… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:19 PM |
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