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| 41 | To those raised by guardians in an age gap relationship, what did you observe?My parents are 11 years apart. They were abusive towards each other and to us. I don't talk to them anymore. The met when she was 17, so that shit was normalized to us. My mother had to work, rund the household and give all her money to the "shared" bank account. The weirdest thing is how old he is now. I guess the difference between 40 and 50 wasn't so stark... But now she is an active woman in her 50s and he is an old fuck whose body is falling apart, because he never took care of himself. I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 06:14 AM |
| 22 | This Queen 👸 glowed up after leaving her LVM and is a solid example of the better life that awaits youThank goodness that you are rid of him! He sounds terrible! 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 22 | This Queen 👸 glowed up after leaving her LVM and is a solid example of the better life that awaits youI'm sorry, if this is a rude question, but why couldn't you dry your dishes before? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 517 | Never beg a man to marry youThe thing she is missing is the other girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 16 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.If he works so hard, why can't he pay for a cleaning service? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:46 PM |
| 13 | How do you establish financial independence?An emergency fund with 6 months worth of your expenses. That you can only touch in case of an emergency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Dr Ramani has our back on setting boundaries and dodging scrotes. She calls it what it is, people enabling others by insisting on giving the 'benefit of the doubt'. Keep on raising your standards!!!Wasn't she a guest recently? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?I just say " if he wants to feel needed, he should make himself useful" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | "WIFE 💍"Oh God that's me I did that 🤦♀️ The only thing in my bio now is my cats and a sentence about how people should post more cat pics 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 19 | Rory Gilmore is a pickme & a bad example to young girls (spoiler alert)Gilmore Girls was my favorite show when I was a teen... I can't watch it anymore. The romantic relationships are terrible and most characters are toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:54 AM |
| 3 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....It would be, if it were on a rod 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | I don't like women with stretchmarks!Western Europe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 22 | I don't like women with stretchmarks!Where I'm from guys shave their armpits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 21 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Sterling is absolutely beautiful, but I would not use it for jewelry that goes on your hands. It's too soft... I'm still heart broken over my silver bracelet that's full of scratches now 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 349 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…God damn it, there are cheaper options in engagement rings that are absolutely stunning: Vintage Rings, rings on etsy you by from artists directly, synthetic diamonds, birth stone rings.... There is literally no excuse to propose with a ring this shitty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 15 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!I got 0.12... Wow men must be like radioactive trash in the US 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:49 AM |
| 17 | Don't help your man find a job. And don't help women who ask you to help theirsI write really well (not in English but in my native languages) so I have a great cover letter it's really good. So I was applying for jobs once and my bf at the time said: "I know what cover letter I'll use, when I start applying for jobs!" He didn't even ask, he just assumed he could use my work as his own... I hate that stuff 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Part of vetting is seeing if he can grocery shop and cook without being spoon fed like a toddler.I used to send my ex grocery shopping and he checked in the kitchen what we still had and just bought what was missing... So turns out that was very exceptional. The bar really is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InI wanted to thank you guys for something dating unrelated... Since I started reading this sub my apartment is so much cleaner. I struggled with cleaning and tidying when I didn't have anyone coming over a lot. However now I love making the space nice for myself, because I deserve a nice comfy apartment ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:02 PM |
| 30 | Truly embarrassingOh no! My God I'm so sorry! What's wrong with men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:35 AM |
| 175 | Truly embarrassingPlease just tell me that doesn't happen... Just lie to me I don't care 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?break up with my boyfriend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 36 | Remember, abuse starts slowly and grows.I'm so happy you made it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:03 PM |
| 6 | She speaks our gospelSomebody here once recommended to write all those paragraphs that you want to text him into your notes app. I have been doing that for a week and realised that the cathartic thing for me is writing them and not sending them. It does give me closure i don't need him for that. He never had anything interesting to add anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 45 | It makes me genuinely sad when I think about the crumbs I used to settle for.Since I stopped gushing over the bare minimum a man literally told me that he doesn't like my new confidence. Like in those words exactly... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 19 | OopsMy ex literally said that he didn't like how confident my dresses made me. Like in those exact words! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 8 | Quiz: A man calls you dudeWell the bonus option could be "waste of time“ 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:08 PM |
| 15 | Quiz: A man calls you dudeWhy are there more options than "trash" on any poll concerning men... 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI got fired today... What would you guys do next? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay.It is possible to push a cart and buy her flowers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Happy International Women’s Day 💋I posted some appreciation stiries about women in my life. I would have never thought about this, if it wasn't for this reddit. So this is an appreciation post for all of you. Thank you for helping me see what a gift my girlfriends are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:02 PM |
| 12 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!I made us some pancakes for breakfast and he brought me beautiful flowers. We took a walk together to a church nearby. Then I relaxed in the bathtub with a cocktail while he cooked a three course dinner for us. He tried some new recipes and it was so so so delicious! My gift didn't arrive on time, but all in all it was a lovely day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 26 | Ladies, what's the sweetest thing a HVM had done for you to show that he cares?Well it's not one thing, but because he gets flowers so often the employees at the florist's all know him by now. It's because he asks so many questions about the flowers in order to get the right ones. So now the flowers are beautiful, in my favorite colors and last for ages! Right now I have two bouquets because the older one is still kicking 😊 Side note: any tips on how to keep roses alive longer? I love how they look, but they they always die on me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 59 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏That's how i found it. Wanted to see this toxic reddit for my self and happened to agree with every post 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)I will change my name because I have a difficult relationship with my parents and I want to have different name than them. Getting married is a convenient way of doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Let's break this cycle.Recently my dad told me he had no idea how to turn on any appliances at home. This guy had two children and doesn't know how to do laundry... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 5 | Just a quick reminder...I used to have a friend that asked me if I had my boyfriend's permission to cut my hair everytime I went to the hairdresser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 75 | This is the energy!My sister's boyfriend once said that I'm not a feminist, because my fiance carried out luggage into our Airbnb on holiday, while my sister helped carrying theirs. I told him that my partner likes doing these things for me to make my life easier. That obviously never even crossed this guy's mind... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:48 AM |
| 3 | My self love stackThat looks really cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍This man is an idiot. An engagement ring is a reflection of the man that bought it. Now everyone knows that he is... Well a reflection of whatever that is supposed to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 7 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪It will be much more fun to buy your own favorite wine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 13 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪On the plus side: this Valentine's can only get better than the last one. And clearly this fool didn't see and appreciate what he had with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 10 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪I don't know if men even want that... All the men I know either ignore Valentine's or go all out. None of them ever told me about the gifts they got, only about what they did or didn't do "on principle". For both kinds of men gifts seem to be a waste of time... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | In case you ladies were in need of a good laughter on this lovely Sunday morningWhy would he propose if he wasn't able to pay for the ring. Weddings aren't cheap, houses aren't cheap, children aren't cheap... If you can't afford a ring you can't afford a wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 5 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!If someone declines a proposal the relationship should be over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:01 AM |
| 25 | The Holidays are Coming: You dont need to buy him a Gift or show up with himTotally! I once visited a client for work (she was a crafter that made cute things out of wood) and she let me pick a free piece. I picked a wooden heart that said "thank you for beeing there for me" and gave it to my boyfriend. He was soooo happy! He hung it on the wall and thanked me a thousand times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 11 | You deserve to be cherished! If he wanted to, be would.Even if they don't use it regularly, they can put you in the profile picture... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Start your marriage off right by settling 🙂That's so depressing. After I got engaged everybody asked about the story and I was so happy that I could tell a cute story and a lovely ring to show. If that had been the story I would've been to embarrassed to tell people about the engagement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.Came here to say this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020That's terrible I am so sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020A happy story: I burnt my oven mitts. They were really pretty and had owls on them. I was a bit sad but didn't replace them. A few weeks later a package from Amazon arrived with new mitts. My fiance bought them, he said he had to order them online because he looked in every store and couldn't find the right ones for me. The new ones are perfect they have cats on them and I call them "kitten mittens". I think that says a lot about how perceptive men are. If they don't do something for you it's no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 9 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.I got engaged in January with a white gold moissanite ring. And it's still just the way it was on the first day. And it sparkles like a star! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:21 AM |
| 19 | Not sure if this has been here posted yetMy fiance's parents tried to give us house this way as a wedding present. Yay best gift ever... New landlords. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | What do you do about pubic hair? How does it affect your dating life?Started to do whatever I want with it. I have a very positive fiancée when it comes to my body I genuinely think that he thinks I'm beautiful no matter what I do to my hair. When a man really loves you you will always look wonderful and sexy to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:39 PM |
| 4 | V-Day PlansWe are going to one of the fanciest restaurants in our city and afterwards we'll go and practice our dance moves. He is really good with special occasions so I always have something lovely to look forward to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:00 PM |
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