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Don’t date a gamer.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/24 05:10 PM
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Cheaters don’t get second chances in my book, at least while dating. I have not yet formed my opinion on cheating during marriage as I am just recently engaged and it is a much more complicated question... but cheating while dating??? GTFO. Don’t live your life with a cheater who are you aren’t even legally/religiously bonded to.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 03:53 PM
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My fiancé (25m) and I (22f) live together and we mostly text for logistics. He’ll text me if he’s working late, I’ll let him know if I picked up groceries on my way home so he won’t stop at the store too, etc. We do send memes now and then. But most days we don’t text at all.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 05:30 PM
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Haha okay thanks, I wonder what this person meant.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 01:51 PM
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What does FTFY mean?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/22 06:42 PM
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Eat less, especially less pasta, bread, deserts, soda, and Starbucks, and move more! Unless you are one of the few people who actually have a hormonal disorder, you are fat because of the accumulation of your choices. So change your choices. You won’t lose the weight overnight— you didn’t put it on overnight either. But choices add up, and the math of calories in - calories out doesn’t lie. Don’t say it doesn’t work for you unless you a) have been diagnosed with a legitimate thyroid imbalance, o…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 09:00 PM
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I’m so sorry to hear this. I pray you can find security and peace.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 04:53 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. Also, value is in the eye of the beholder. A person’s morals should factor strongly into one’s value judgements of potential partners. Even the most “high value” man on paper is repulsive to some small fraction of women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 05:01 PM
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For me, this is grounds for a very swift breakup. Whether or not he has cheated is besides the point; you hold fundamentally different values, and accordingly, you will never fully trust him. Do not try to change him, as it will likely not get you anywhere but will breed bilateral resentment. I just do not see any possible way to reconcile this difference.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 04:58 PM
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Your love for your wife and family is so clear through this comment, how lucky they are to have you! And what you said about your wife’s financial knowledge enabling you to retire early gives me great inspiration because I too (a woman) am the one with more financial understanding and foresight in my relationship, even though we intend for him to be the main provider. It’s good to hear from another couple who have had success with this pairing. Thank you for sharing and happy Valentine’s Day!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 05:36 PM
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That’s part of the budget. And semantics aside, that information should not be hidden from the adult woman he plans to spend his life with and for whom he demands to be the only financial provider. The more you reveal to us about this situation, the more dire it becomes. Whether he has significantly more or less money/assets than you think he does is not the truly important thing here. That question pales in comparison to the striking lack of communication and honestly between the two of you. I …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 04:08 AM
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So he wants you to be entirely financially dependent on him, but you’re not allowed to know the details of the budget???? That’s insane.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 03:18 AM
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If you don’t truly want to submit to him, you cannot force yourself to. Resentment builds and trust dissolves when you are keeping up an act to make someone else happy. Even though we here on this subreddit tend to aim for submission, we recognize that it does not suit every woman, and that each woman has to come to choose this path through her own genuine desire to submit. Do not force yourself into a mold you despise, because eventually things will fall apart when you get tired of pretending e…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 05:15 PM
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The provider/housewife model is ideal IF that is what you BOTH want. But it sounds like you don’t want that. And much more importantly: You write that “He has major trust issues.” This is the root of the problem, as far as I can tell. No financial arrangement will work long-term if you cannot trust each other. Trust either needs to be truly and maturely developed, in both directions, or you need to abandon ship and find someone with whom trust is a two way street. It sounds like you are trying t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 05:11 PM
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I just want to chime in and confirm that these are absolutely rational concerns. I ended a relationship with a (type 1) diabetic in large part because he care for his health and became visibly unwell due to his own self-neglect during our time together. I don’t have much advice because we had only been together a few months, not married with a child, but I just want to let you know that your concerns are valid and this is very serious. I hope you find a way to get through to him about his health…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 06:44 PM
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It seems like he has no desire to fulfill the role of the provider in the family. Now a man doesn’t necessarily have to be the sole earner, or even the higher earner, in order to strive to be a provider. But he does have to be motivated to hustle and improve. If you want your man to act like a provider, it sounds like he’s not the one. But if having a provider is not your priority and you like everything else about him, you can decide to proceed and have a non traditional arrangement. But if you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 04:16 PM
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If you are interested in the full length conversation it can be found on Spotify. Thank you for bringing up this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 03:39 AM
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Yes, I agree that there is some cognitive dissonance there. Abigail Shrier is a journalist who wrote a book on the issue of Rapid Onset Gender Disphoria and the social contagion of it amongst teenage girls. I have not read her book, but her appearance on an episode of The Joe Rogan Experience is a fascinating listen. She is very kind hearted and generous in the way she speaks about others; she is not radical for the purpose of making money or a name for herself, she is simply a concerned observe…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 02:04 AM
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I wish more people knew the statistics about suicide rates after transition. Tragically, transgender behavior is often just another serious symptom of mental illness rather than a solution. And therapists are largely silenced from questioning their patients’ claims of transgenderism, even though they can— and are hired specifically to— try to get at the root of just about any other claim that patients make.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 01:44 AM
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. Unless you are married, you have no obligation to mend the relationship. In fact, you have every reason not to. Have dignity. Don’t stay with someone who betrays you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 09:37 PM
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Yikes these are serious issues. Going out dancing and prohibiting you from joining him? Sleeping at other women’s houses? Open your eyes, girl! He has almost certainly been unfaithful already— a cheater couldn’t resist temptation for three years, and he sounds like a blatant serial cheater. He’s testing how far he can push your limits. Get out of this relationship and next time pick someone more age-appropriate, and more importantly, more trust worthy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 10:34 PM
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Ask him to teach you! Join him in the kitchen and don’t be afraid to ask questions. There’s no reason to be ashamed that he does the cooking, but you should try to learn from him. Men like to teach and guide their women. My man is much more knowledgeable about cooking meat than I am, so he’s taught me a lot, and he still supervises sometimes when I’m cooking meat. And there things I’ve taught him about cooking, too. Learning from each other in the kitchen has been a wonderful part of our relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 08:54 PM
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“Boink like bunnies” haha I dig it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 01:09 AM
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I wish you the best of luck in finding what you’re looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:32 AM
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I want to point out a discrepancy in what you wrote: you said that if you were to divorce you’d become a low value single mother, but that if you married in your thirties you could find a high value single man. Now, I understand that men and women’s values peak at different times, so it is a bit like comparing apples to oranges. But, all the highest value people tend to stay married. A divorced man still carries plenty of baggage, and the children absolutely will come with unique baggage from be…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:19 AM
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I'm going to spend some time on that Parisian Vibe channel. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 03:19 PM
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Thank you! Nicole Otchy interests me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 03:08 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 03:02 PM
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Details about what happened would make it possible for us to give you specific, personal advice. If you won’t share any details, the best general advice you’ll probably get is to check out the resources in the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWives29/06/21 03:59 PM
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If you follow through, you will be the step-mother to a child who is only 13 years younger than you. That’s the same gap as between you and this man. I think this fact of the arrangement should give you pause. You are smack in the middle of their ages. That concerns me much more than the relationship age gap alone. There will undoubtedly be baggage because of his past. It might be manageable, and it might not be. But do you want to take on a step-mom role for a half-grown child when you are so i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:08 PM
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Your last paragraph about your self esteem issues is very telling. What are you insecure about? Is there a kind of exercise you enjoy or something you’re wanted to try that you could turn into a habit to improve your body? Even before physical results from working out become visible, you will experience incredible psychological benefits from regularly exercising. It’s really one of the best things you can do to improve your self-image and general outlook on life.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:03 PM
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Sounds like a good opportunity to help yourself overcome a fear. You’re too old for high school drama to still have such a strong grip on your social life. You’re an adult now, a decade removed from high school. Time to face some fears. You’ll be amazed how much better life gets when you realize that you have to power to do things that used to terrify you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 01:43 PM
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I think this is good feedback. I also got the sense that OP doesn’t have clear goals and just seems to want whatever attention could possibly come her way. OP, if you know what you want, focus in on that. If you don’t know, figure out what it is you want. As this commenter says, a man choosing you for life is a huge investment of his power, resources, and options into you alone. No good man will invest those things in a woman who is uncertain in her desires or who can’t demonstrate her ability t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 01:39 PM
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OYS: Home: We’re moving (finally!) this weekend after one month of him working at his new job in our new state and seeing each other on the weekends. We are fortunate that it’s not a very long drive. I’ve been working at my full time job here. While he was gone I slacked off hard keeping up the house, and then rushed to put things in order and clean on Saturday mornings before he arrived, or leaving it a mess while I went to see him. This week I’ve decided I need to step it up and get back into …
/r/RedPillWives12/05/21 05:13 PM
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Excellent post. When we started dating, the topic of grudges came up in conversation, and I remember my boyfriend telling me that he’s never been one to hold a grudge. I, on the other hand, make an effort to let go, and I often can, but it’s harder for me. As you write, I absolutely do reflect over all the ways he might misinterpret what I say, or what he might have secretly meant, and I wear myself out doing that. In him, on the other hand, I see clear as day when I watch his reactions that he …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/21 04:07 PM
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Has he given you a valid reason to distrust him, or has your past made you distrustful? If he gives you reasons to not believe him then you might have an issue to contend with. But, if he is visibly faithful and the fear comes only from your past, then it’s time to stop living in the past and live in the present. You should be reacting to present events, not ruminating over past fears.
/r/RedPillWives07/05/21 05:14 PM
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I’m having a bad eczema flare up right now so I’m really itchy, but I need to not itch so that my skin can heal. The other night I was itching furiously in my sleep and he gently woke me up just enough to make me stop. If I’m going to bed earlier than him he always comes to tuck me in and kiss me goodnight. He’s really into cars and very knowledgeable about them, and now he takes care of my car like one of his own, monitoring they fluids, washing it, ordering parts when needed. I love him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 05:58 PM
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I second shopping at Aldi! Grocery trips are cheaper by far there.
/r/RedPillWives23/03/21 12:59 PM
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There’s the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:24 PM
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This is the real question. Your take home pay after major monthly expenses is greater than the median household income in the US. Where is it all going? If you’re not blowing it away frivolously, perhaps you have a distorted, anxious view of your financial situation. The fact of the matter is that you’re both making quite a bit of money. I don’t know your entire situation, but it seems reasonable that most of your current annual income could be going into savings and you’d still be living on a t…
/r/RedPillWives10/03/21 09:35 PM
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I don’t know if it’s a bot or a moderator, but they see on your profile which subs you’ve joined, even if you’re not an active participant in them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 09:08 PM
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That is not the kind of behavior that women here will endorse. I don’t think you’re going to find much help here unless, as the previous commenter said, you are committing to building your life with your husband.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/21 12:05 AM
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Dote on him once you have a some commitment in the relationship. Initially, genuine compliments here and there are fine, and you shouldn’t be aloof, but don’t strike his ego and respect him unconditionally if he hasn’t proven himself worth of such yet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 11:32 PM
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I agree with other folks who said it would look like a BDSM identifier, or just plain slutty. I would find it trashy, and I don’t think that’s your intention.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 12:21 AM
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So focus on your body. I’ve seen some women at the gym with pretty mediocre faces but strong, proportional bodies, and they are quite attractive, even though the same face on a pudgy unfit body would be bland at best. Also, caring for your skin and hair so that they look healthy goes a long way. Effort and neat grooming make everyone more attractive. Focus on what you can control.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/21 01:07 AM
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I hope you don’t take this the wrong way, I don’t mean to crush your dream, but I don’t think it’s wise to try to be a “life coach” when you are so young and not really established in life. This isn’t a value judgement on your intelligence, the fact of the matter is that you just don’t have very much life experience yet. I agree with the person who suggested the real estate path. That would be much more respectable than being an influencer of sorts on social media. I personally find that to be q…
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 10:45 PM
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I’m not sure what I think about your question on promiscuity, but I figured give my two cents about this aspect of my relationship, for what it’s worth. I almost never masturbate while in a relationship. I did when my boyfriend and I were long distance, but now that we live together I actively choose to abstain from any kind of masturbation. Because our relationship has been established for some time and has progressed to the point of being sexual, I want to share my sexuality with him, and leav…
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 10:34 PM
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Try taking your hair out of the braid and instead pinning it back out of your face or doing half-up-half-down. Or get a haircut that is more interesting, like bangs or layers. Braids are wonderful and incredibly practical while you’re sleeping or working out, but they can look childish.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 10:22 PM
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This sounds to me like a very extreme situation with a particular individual who had a lot of other issues going on beneath the surface. I hope that this hasn't been your experience with masculine women in general, and I caution anyone against extrapolating this situation to unrelated interactions with women who don't express themselves femininely but don't have any animosity toward those who do. That being said, I'm really sorry this happened, and good on your dad for being loyal to you rather …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 11:52 PM
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Red Pill, at least as this sub views it, is not necessarily meant to be an identity. It's a tool box. Takes what serves you and what improves your life and happiness. Leave the rest. You don't need pick one mold or the other.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 11:47 PM
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"Basically married" is NOT married. It lacks the commitment. Don't let the fact that your lives are intertwined make you think that you're stuck with him forever, no matter what happens. He could be married to you already, but instead he's unattached and saying that he has all the privilege of marriage.
/r/RedPillWives28/11/20 12:13 AM
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Sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:41 PM
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Just my upper lip. I think it evens out the look of my skin tone around my mouth. I’ve got a bit of soft “sideburns” but I don’t bother with them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 03:27 PM
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I’m sorry someone downvoted you, that seems awfully disrespectful to me. I’m glad to hear you’re happy :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 03:41 PM
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Awesome. I just thought to add, the sub’s wiki is the best place to go for information of creating a routine. The individual posts are often quite specific so scrolling through isn’t the most efficient way to make use of the sub. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWives20/10/20 09:39 PM
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I’ll leave the makeup and hair advice to others, but my two cents is this: Prioritize your skincare. Your skin doesn’t need to be perfectly unblemished or wrinkle-free, but it should look healthy and moisturized. Makeup will look better when it’s a complement to well-cared for skin than when it’s used to cover up neglected skin issues. If you’re new to skincare there are some good resources in the sub r/skincareaddiction . Start with the basics: cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen. If you choos…
/r/RedPillWives20/10/20 07:00 PM
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If you’re using retinoids it’s super important to wear sunscreen every day. They increase your skin’s sensitivity to the sun, which doesn’t just mean more suntan/burning, but also can mean more wrinkles and aging in the future. Not wearing sunscreen basically cancelling out the benefits of using them, or worse. I think it’s really wonderful for the body and mind to spend time outside every day, but sunscreen is a valuable tool for long term beauty, and critical if you’re using any retinol produc…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 07:50 PM
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You could focus on building muscle rather than losing weight. That might mean you stay the same weight or even gain a few pounds, but it will show as “toning” on your arms, shoulders, hips, and legs, and make you generally look healthier and stronger. This way you won’t lose the fat that keeps your face plump, but you’ll still get the benefits of exercise. Not to mention, lifting weights is excellent for joint and bone health into older age. There’s much more to exercise than weight loss. Even i…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 05:08 PM
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Exactly. If a name change is out of your budget so is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 02:59 PM
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Real life is not high school. Asking about “popularity” makes me think that you are not mature enough to be getting into a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 08:18 PM
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Very good point. A man of marriageable character wont go after a taken woman, so don’t stick around in dead end relationships saying you’ll leave when someone better comes along.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 08:14 PM
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I think they meant that you should make it clear that you want the father of your children to be involved with the hands-on parts of caring for an infant.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 08:10 PM
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Mimbos lol I dig it. Like metrosexuals. Blech. I love my rough upper Midwest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:53 PM
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I agree that effort to improve the self and the relationship are much more important than just being pure. Sex is huge in relationships, but there are so many other factors too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 01:10 PM
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My two cents: my current boyfriend, who I believe will become my husband, is the 11th person I’ve had sex with. We have no trouble bonding, and I’m still crazy excited about sex with him and even a little nervous sometimes. Our bond is incredibly beautiful, on a higher level than any bond I’ve experienced before. I’m definitely not jaded or used up, as some would assume. He knows I was a bit more promiscuous in the past but he’s not interested in the details, and I don’t ask about his details. I…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 01:07 PM
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If you’re feeling a bit unpolished or frazzled but you just have a few minutes, brush and floss your teeth, and then apply chapstick. It’s a small thing, but fresh breath feels great, and it’s wonderful for your long term health. Plus, regular flossing makes your teeth look whiter than brushing alone.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:55 AM
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I am not religious, wasn’t raised with religion, and I doubt I’ll ever be interested in it. But my family values are still very “traditional” and mirror Christian values. I think that a nuclear family with proper gender roles is the best way to raise children, and well-raised children are good for the future of society. You don’t need the structure of religion in order to hold such values.
/r/RedPillWives04/09/20 02:14 PM
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If either of you are not willing to commit to each other you shouldn’t be having kids.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 08:35 PM
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This is a wonderful question! I think it’s really important to know your neighbors, especially when you own a home. I see that you’re in Australia, and I’m not sure what the situation is like currently with COVID there, but when I read your question it made me think about how I would introduce myself to new neighbors here in the US during this time. I like the idea of leaving a letter as others said, but if I were to knock on someone’s door I would definitely wear a mask and step back a bit from…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 03:13 PM
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Seven years after they broke up and he’s still hung up on her?? Bad news. Get out, seems like a dead end relationship to me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:36 PM
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We’re both against it and choose not to consume any type of porn.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:28 PM
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Kids!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/20 02:40 PM
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My boyfriend is aware of the red pill too, but exclusively the male side. He didn’t know there was such a thing as RPW until I mentioned it. He’s certainly not a devotee to the ideology, especially not the pickup artist stuff, but he has made positive changes in his life inspired in part by RP theory. We were both aware for at least a year before we ever met. My impression is that he doesn’t pay much attention to the RP community these days, although we don’t monitor each other’s internet habits…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 02:32 PM
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There should be a dating app for single parents
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:46 PM
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I’m really sorry that’s happening, it sounds terribly frustrating. I hope someone else could chime in with some advice for you because I don’t have the mental bandwidth today, unfortunately. But I do just want to say for the OP and anyone else with similar worries, that although this situation does happen sometimes, it’s certainly not guaranteed. Just because you’ve had sex with multiple people before your husband does not necessarily mean you’ll struggle to bond with him, and I caution you not …
/r/RedPillWives28/08/20 04:42 PM
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I read that as “3 rugrats tattoos” .. I wouldn’t be surprised if someone on this sub had those
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 12:48 AM
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Self-fulfilling prophecies do have real implications! And we can certainly send off-putting signals without realizing what we’re saying. This is a great response worth reading and re-reading.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:34 AM
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Having sex with two people is vastly different from jumping from man to man dozens of times. I understand the arguments about pair bonding, and virginity being a gift to your husband, and there is some merit there, but it’s not all black and white. Having been with just two or three people will not render you jaded. You have not lost the butterflies in your stomach that come from a kissing a new partner for the first time. You haven’t played out all the excitement. You are not damaged goods. I’m…
/r/RedPillWives27/08/20 04:26 PM
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I like it when quality reading material is linked here. I don’t want this sub to be spammed with every blog post someone makes, but I appreciate the occasional, well-selected article/blog post.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 04:10 AM
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If you use Differin or any other retinol product, daily sunscreen application and reapplication, even if you are indoors, is essential. As was already said, you need to do your own research, don’t just copy someone else’s routine and expect it to give you the same results. Start with the basic routine at r/skincareaddiction and then consider slowly adding additional products one at a time. Skincare is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 04:03 AM
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I’m far from feminist and I know most ladies here are too, but come on, anyone who believes that grown adults, who take part in the workforce and are affected by political happenings, should not even have the OPTION to vote is frightening, frankly. He seems to want the traditional woman without being a traditional man himself. If he cannot be a traditional man (you mention disability and I’m sympathetic to that) then he should accept that your relationship cannot fall into perfect traditional ro…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:39 PM
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Yeah no kidding. I bet they’re fighting over the iPad in the other room and the teenagers are out getting into the kind of trouble that only the children of sluts can get into.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 06:56 PM
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Well statistically, the daughters of teenage mothers are more likely to become teenage mothers themselves. Personal anecdote: a childhood neighbor of mine was an adoptee from an unfit young family, adopted as an infant. Raised in a Christian home with two happily married parents. Her older siblings (biological and adopted) avoided teen pregnancy, one is already married. This friend is now a high schooler with a baby. Fortunately the father seems to be involved and they are still in a relationshi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 06:51 PM
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Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:52 PM
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I think it is very unwise to get married while in or fresh out of high school. I know there are people who have done so and are still happily married, but I don’t accept those anecdotes as sound enough reason to follow their footsteps. In the next few years you are about to change immensely. I graduated high school three years ago and while I’m still the same core person in many ways, I have changed my tune significantly in relationship dynamics, who I’m looking for, and how I want to “settle do…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 12:44 AM
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If you have to ask questions like the one you posed in the title, usually the answer is YES.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 07:37 PM
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Fitness is a sign that someone values their health. I understand there are extenuating circumstances that make it hard to be in shape, but if there’s anywhere in life where you should be picky, your potential spouse is it. Looking for health and fitness is a good, natural instinct. Don’t worry, you’re not being materialistic.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 11:48 PM
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I went down a rabbit hole recently that included this article: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/qjdzwb/sophie-lewis-feminist-abolishing-the-family-full-surrogacy-now Her theory isn’t QUITE as extreme as the title makes it out to be — it’s definitely a click-bait title — but it sure is sad to know that there are people with no faith in the value of the nuclear family. Happy reading, or not, if you prefer to skip over it and do something more pleasant with your evening!
/r/RedPillWives15/08/20 11:55 PM
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I haven’t taken this class, but I can imagine that it might feel like information overload and a lot of new stimulus. If I was in your situation I would choose to break it up so that I can decompress and process the new knowledge between classes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:03 PM
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Looks fade, dumb grows dumber
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:07 PM
12

As a general rule, it is, but yes there are exceptions.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 03:04 PM
2

There are some gorgeous vintage lingerie collections on Etsy, and while there is a wide range of prices, I’ve found some real gems that are quite reasonably priced. You could always find cheaper from fast fashion sites, sure, but I haven’t found any new, high-quality, and sustainable lingerie brands within my budget that have the charm and wonder of vintage. And it feels very special to know that no one could go to the mall and find my chiffon nightie! Edit: I’ve had good luck with the search “v…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 01:56 AM
6

Dolly Parton! Also, I know most of you are suggesting female artists, but I must say that the album AM by Arctic Monkeys makes me feel feminine and sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 12:51 AM
2

Good for you! About the stitches and the man :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 04:50 PM
2

Yes! I actually just wrote a love letter to my boyfriend and one of the things I told him is that I love how he’s never been boastful about the things he know, he just demonstrates his competence each time it’s needed. Confident yet humble.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 04:50 PM
2

Because I expected to see answers about direct changes to the dating process, while you suggested a fundamental change to how we educate children as a society. I was just saying your idea is really interesting to think about. I don’t think that boys shouldn’t go to school, but I do think we could structure school in ways that benefit boys and girls as future men and women who will do meaningful things, rather than as future rote memorization machines. I also think we need to present non-universi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:27 PM
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I like the idea of limiting matches online, although I would suggest a higher number than five. I think it would encourage people to take it more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:21 PM
3

Interesting, this is definitely not the kind of answer I expected to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:18 PM
4

Maybe, but pussy plus emotional connection is pretty valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:14 PM
5

I would avoid talking about the red pill, or at least until you’re in a more committed phase of the relationship. Many men who read red pill content are focused on the pick up artist stuff and intend to practice it on you. Some men who don’t read RP content might write you off as an extremist because of the negative connotation often attached to the term. Walk the walk, don’t just talk the talk. You can demonstrate your values without crediting them to an online community that means lots of diff…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:18 AM
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Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate reading a well thought-out and relevant male perspective on this sub. It’s nice to hear about people who have swung radically into an ideology and then leveled out and are now able to look at things with a somewhat balanced perspective. I wish you and your woman the best.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:54 PM
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Outward Bound is such an incredible program. OP, a wilderness course might sound insane and be completely out of your realm, but Outward Bound offers programs designed for adults at any point in their lives to jump in regardless of outdoor experience. They are incredibly selective with their guides— no one will make you feel like a child at summer camp. The personal growth and discovery that the wilderness brings really can’t be conveyed through text. If you have some money saved and feel stuck,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 03:08 PM
5

I agree with what you said about enjoying the changes throughout the cycle. It does make me feel womanly, and I’ve really enjoyed using a copper IUD (hormone free) the past couple years after getting off the pill. But I think that if you have a medical condition that’s negatively affecting your life, it’s probably worth trying to manage it. If you decide that hormones aren’t worthwhile for you, you can always stop taking the pill and within a few cycles things will get back to normal. Also, diff…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 01:08 AM
5

But how bout a 4 or 5? More to love!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 04:54 PM
2

Does he watch porn and/or masturbate? A lot of male sex drive issues are caused my those habits. If he’s abstaining from sex for the purpose of rebuilding drive, he ought to abstain from any sort of self-pleasure too.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/20 09:56 PM
3

It’s up to you, the individual, to draw the line for yourself. Keep in mind that others may draw the line elsewhere, which might mean that they find the way your present yourself to be deceptive. This also means that some men will be more attracted, and some will be less attracted, at each level of enhancement/deception. There’s no single right answer, instead you have to weight the costs and benefits for yourself personally, and consider what sort of man might be attracted at each level. For me…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 06:32 PM
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Just something that your explanation made me think: people might see our tactics as “plate school” because we talk about submitting and letting the man lead the way, but they forget the crucial fact that first, we vet him to see if he’s worthy of our submission. We think critically about whether he actually has our best interest at heart. We don’t just blindly follow every man who shows interest in us!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 06:11 PM
2

Well I hope your marriage has been better than you implied in your other comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:48 PM
5

Damn I’m sad for anyone who holds these sentiments. I hope you experience a quality LTR one day. If it’s one bad relationship after another, remember, you’re the common denominator in all your relationships..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:39 PM
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I like your point of view. Seems like a healthy interpretation of TRP that guys ought to remind themselves of from time to time. You shouldn’t let any community/ideology on the internet tell you what you want out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:37 PM
7

Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:53 AM
2

What does 304 mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/20 11:11 PM
5

I wouldn’t make that generalization myself— I previously dated a porn-addicted man who was quite emotionally open and caring. Porn was a very bad element in the relationship, but emotional openness wasn’t the issue. That being said, I also strongly discourage any sort of relationship with a man who watches porn.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 08:25 PM
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Does he ask you questions about who you are— like what your dreams are, what your opinions are on different topics, how you grew up? And does he ask one question and then change the topic, like he’s meeting a quota? Or does he respond to something you said to get you to open up more, and to share similar experiences/opinions he has? Conversation should be reciprocal. Naturally there will be times where one of you is the focus, but it should about balance out I’ve time. Never being open about him…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 08:20 PM
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I don’t have anything useful to add really, I just want to say that I hope you can find some like-minded people to let your guard down around. I know that RPW has been one of those places for me, and brought a great deal of peace and contentment to my life. I’m sure it’s even harder to find that sort of community if you’re black and not mainstream politically, but it’s got to be out there— there’s a community for everything online. And maybe even in your area in real life, who knows. Best of luc…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 08:13 PM
1

Wow! Do you have a picture of her dress by chance?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 03:31 PM
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The fact that he takes time to come up with meaningful questions for you while half a world away is very promising. He’s showing genuine interest in you, and not just pushing you to strip for him over FaceTime! I hope that once you’re reunited you’ll continue to fall for each other. Make sure you keep up on your self, your health and fitness, and your life outside of the relationship while he’s away. Keeping busy will pass the time quicker and will benefit both of you when you finally meet. Also…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 02:32 PM
1

Yes, unfortunately. I hope you can learn from this and move on to a better, more genuine relationship in the future. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 02:25 PM
3

I’m terribly sorry to read this. Your first comment made my heart happy, and I’m sad to know that she’s no longer with you. I hope that you are able to find brightness and joy in your world even after she’s gone. Thank you for sharing that lovely anecdote with us.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:09 PM
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You mentioned this is the second time you’ve come here for advice on problems with this boyfriend. The fact that your five month old relationship is already suffering two major issues is a red flag of its own. Is the first ever am months are (mostly) blissful and good, how can you expect the first several years to be good? I looked back at your other post, in which you say that he doesn’t ask you about yourself/ your interests, etc.. He seems uninterested in you. It seems like he’s in it for the…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:02 PM
2

I agree with this. I hope it’s not so, but it does seem like he’s hiding something.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 01:56 PM
7

So many of these profiles use “an” instead of “and.” Is this a cool trendy thing I’m not aware of? Or do they just not know there’s another letter in the word?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 06:41 PM
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I thing that women also have a biological need for the care and provisions of men, but that it doesn’t kick as strongly until they are pregnant/ have children. It would make sense that men’s drive for female acceptance is relatively constant throughout life because they don’t go through the massive biological change that is pregnancy. Both sexes are wired for what each other provides because that’s an essential componente of any successful species — if we did have that, we wouldn’t be reproducin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:29 PM
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I’m not OP, but I agree with him. I think that while women are more able to be content without the opposite sex, they require more socializing in general to be happy. So if both sex’s platonic interactions were severely limited AND they were entirely deprived of opposite-sex contact, I think the males generally would better use their their time for engaging in fulfilling solo activities, while the females generally would struggle to do meaningful things and become severely depressed. Although I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:20 PM
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Evolution implies a continuous lineage, necessitating partnership. Individual males might adapt to be more content, but because they’re not reproducing biological evolution is out of the question. Cultural evolution, though, starting as a small radical movement, could happen over time. I would say that MGTOW is creating that sort of evolution in a small group of men currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Aside from incel, is there a term for this kind of male?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:04 PM
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I’m inspired by your tactic of discussing your relationship as if you were a different couple. Seems like that would take away some of the sting of “you do/say...” statements. I’m glad that you two have found a way to work through things! You said that you had both realized things that were not shared in your post. From my perspective as an outsider knowing only what you’ve wrote, here’s something I hope you’ve considered: It seems like you take charge of every new venture and get it rolling. I …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 11:26 PM
4

As one commenter already said, weight loss really does come down to diet. If you are consuming less calories than your body burns, you will lose weight, even if you never exercise. If you’re serious about loosing some weight, it seems like the CICO (calories in calories out) subreddit is helpful. Also, consider counting weekly calories rather than daily calories— one big cheat day could outweigh the six other days of calorie deficit, and leave you frustrated thinking that dieting doesn’t work. A…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 02:32 PM
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You make a good point. I don’t think we have enough information to know one way or the other, but I hope that this gets OP to look back on her previous relationships/experiences to get to the bottom of it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 05:31 PM
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I agree with this assessment. Why do you dislike how open he is about his attraction to you? Are you accustomed to men who don’t value you and make you chase then, always having to guess how they feel about you? If you’re just not attracted to him, say so. But it sounds like you are. It’s normal for people to fall for each other at different paces. I think that it’s worth another date to see how you feel. But if you’re still on the fence then, it’s probably time to get off. The longer you drag o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 04:21 PM
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For me personally, there’s not a chance I’d accept such an arrangement. I do not want to share my man’s love or the resources he will provide to our family (not married yet).
/r/RedPillWives29/06/20 02:09 PM
2

The red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 02:34 PM
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I think this is a clever and confident idea. But I would like to point out that trying to meet up with someone at a bar, late at night, is likely to send an initial signal that you’re looking for a ONS, and I don’t think that’s a good way to portray yourself if you’re looking for a serious relationship. The commenter did talk about how you can show you’re girlfriend material rather that ONS material by not going home with him, and I think that’s true to an extent. But OP, he might get the wrong …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 04:04 PM
2

He was moving all day! That’s a great reason to space off plans. Sure, he could have scheduled better, but that seems like a very normal human mistake to make. Moving is exhausting! And sometimes you have to move on a certain day, perhaps he had to get out of the old place sooner than expected. The fact that he apologized in a voice message seems like a sign he genuinely feels bad. Give him another shot!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 03:48 PM
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You should both respect each other as individual human beings first. You should be in a relationship long enough to really know and trust each other before you introduce such a dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 03:44 PM
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Yes I have, but the beautiful thing is that you can change, find better friends, and attract high quality men into your life. To anyone who is ashamed of their “cool girl” past: look at what you’re doing now. See how far you’ve come. Hold yourself accountable when you ought to but don’t beat yourself up over the mistakes you made as a teen/young adult.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 05:54 AM
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I’ve been with a porn addict too, and I want to say I’m really sorry that you ended up in that situation. I know how frustrating and insulting it feels.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 05:44 AM
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Hey, I am not religious, I live in the USA, and I’m twenty years old. Personally, I believe that cohabitating should be saved for engagement/marriage, but I’m about to break that rule myself when my boyfriend and I move to a new state this fall, because living together makes sense logistically and financially in this situation. I am okay with this because, we are on track to engagement and share each other’s views on marriage and family, despite having been together only a few months. I feel hap…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 06:48 PM
1

I agree that a little bit of red pill knowledge would go a long way towards helping men, and subsequently women, find satisfying relationships. What it boils down to is self improvement, and that changes lives.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 05:02 PM
1

If we all improve individually, our society will improve tenfold!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:57 PM
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I was thinking primarily of the children: more stability at home leads them to do better at school and later on at work, reduces their risk of mental illness and detrimental habits, and makes them more stable potential partners once they grow up. Of course, unmarried/divorced/windowed/single people can raise wonderful children too, but having a healthy marriage at the center of a family gives kids a huge head start.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:56 PM
1

What specific changes do you think would need to be made for that to happen?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:52 PM
1

Haha I hope not, I’m not exactly looking forward to the things I projected! I suppose time will tell.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:51 PM
1

It’s definitely a catch-22. Things like the Me Too movement are condemning and preventing the worst outcomes of powerful men: sexual assault and harassment. Which is a good thing. But these social movements are also making men hesitant to do a lot of the good things that powerful men do in relationships, such as making the first move and being dominant over their partners in the way that women tend to find attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 10:54 PM
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You’re exactly right about polarization. I agree that the outcomes are usually better in traditional relationships, and I do believe that data will continue to support that. But we humans love instant satisfaction and power, and I think that’s the common thread through the social justice movements that are taking us farther from traditional values. So people will disregard the facts about better outcomes in favor of having what they want, when they want it, exactly their way.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 05:22 PM
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I think that the divide between people who choose traditional relationships and those who find them to be oppressive will become ever more pronounced. I’d like to think that there will be some resurgence of traditional values, though, much to the disdain of social justice warriors, who will be the most vocal group. I think that the forever-live-in-girlfriend will become even more common as both genders fear the commitment of marriage but want the closeness of cohabitating. I think this casual vi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 03:50 PM
2

This is a good system, thanks for sharing it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 09:06 PM
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I am gardening and I plan to can much of the harvest for my man and I to enjoy throughout the winter! That’s my big project currently. I am also starting to read some of the books recommended here, beginning with Fascinating Womanhood and The Surrendered Wife. I’ve gained so much from this and similar subs, and from book summaries, but I’m ready to soak up even more from the source.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 05:23 PM
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I second this advice. Be the first one to be friendly. Reach out, initiate the friendship. Also, don’t get in your head too much thinking of all the reasons why a given person couldn’t possibly be your best, most close confidant. You’re not vetting friends like you vet potential men. They don’t need to be perfect, and not every friend will be a super deep connection. Just start by doing things you like together and getting to know them. Keep it light, and maybe you’ll click and become best frien…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 05:20 PM
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I am grateful to have found a strong, intelligent man who, before we met, discovered TRP and completely transformed his life with their resources. He is level-headed enough to weed through the pick-up artist content and focus on bettering himself for his own sake and for the sake of everyone around him. I am grateful that he has been commitment-oriented from the beginning. We are long distance for a few months, but rather than feeling the uncertainty and loneliness I felt in a previous long dist…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 05:00 PM
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I’m sure that there are things you could do to improve, because all of us have room to improve. But I’d also like to remind you that you simply won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, nor will every man that you go out with light your fire. Perfect behavior won’t create chemistry that just isn’t there. I’d guess that you just haven’t found someone who you fit really well with yet, and you should keep your head high and keep working on yourself while looking for him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 02:00 AM
1

Yes, good advice!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:08 PM
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This is a good point. Men who are looking for sex will approach women who seem like they will offer sex. I don’t necessarily mean slutty women, some people just give off a more sexually-available vibe than others for numerous reasons that men probably couldn’t name, but do pick up on.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:36 AM
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Curling your eyelashes will make you look lively and pretty, whether you use mascara or not! Whatever you apply, don’t do it with a heavy hand. Apply less than you think you need. Makeup won’t hide unhealthy skin. I think the best thing you can do for your natural beauty, as far as the face goes, is to eat and hydrate well, get plenty of sleep, and develop a good skincare routine! The Wiki at r/skincareaddiction is a good place to start.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:30 AM
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I watched this video of Liv Tyler doing her makeup a while back, and I remember her voice stood out to me as graceful and nurturing. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=T_4DhyYzHr8
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:26 AM
5

It is so true that when you meet someone you respect you can naturally become submissive. And what a beautiful truth that is.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 11:41 PM
1

It’s heartening to know that laying clear intentions from the outset of a relationship is the norm in the poly community. I am sure that this has prevented a lot of people — both monogamous and polyamorous — from getting hurt. Thanks for sharing that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 07:13 PM
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This is excellent! I think this article would apply well in situations with friends or at work too, it’s solid advice all around.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 06:56 PM
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If you have to ask whether a partner’s bad behavior is abusive, it probably is. And in this case it certainly is. We women have care and grace and service to give, but we mustn’t give those things to men who are not deserving of them. A man must be worthy of your love. He is not entitled to it, and you are not required to be his doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 06:01 PM
3

This is a thoughtful reply.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 04:01 AM
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Look for how well he maintains things. Look at the whole scope of his life: his body and physical health, his emotional stability, the cleanliness of his home, the condition of his car, the quality of his work ethic and relationships at his job... Be wary of laziness and apathy. If he can’t hold his own life together in times of peace, how can you expect him to hold together a marriage and a family in times of crisis?
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 03:48 PM
1

Congratulations! I wish you two the best
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 09:13 PM
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I love a good romantic story in the morning ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:16 PM
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Five months isn't necessarily a short time to have been together and to start sharing deep things. It really depends on how you date, how often you see each other, how well you knew each other before dating... but there are relationships where those hard conversations will flow naturally within the first few weeks. Only you can decide what's right for you, I just want to discourage you from setting some arbitrary date on which you can start to open up.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 06:22 PM
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Geez sounds like you’re in an awful relationship. This is not normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:39 PM
1

What is party girl voice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:54 AM
1

How do you know they have higher testosterone levels? I’m not asking this to attack your point, I’m just curious what signifies that in your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:06 AM
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Honestly, sometimes a sexual encounter with an attractive man that is fun but doesn’t make me orgasm, is more satisfying than a solo orgasm (or several). Sure, some women can’t be satisfied without the orgasm, but that’s not always true for me. Lack of orgasm does not necessarily indicate bad sex. I think that what has been forgotten in a lot of these comments is that sex with another person is a social experience that can be enjoyable and valuable to a lot of people for that reason alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:04 AM
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Look into retinol instead. You can find good information in r/tretinoin and r/skincareaddiction If you go this route, you NEED to wear sunscreen, otherwise you will undo all the work of the retinol!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 03:43 PM
1

I think that having hobbies together other than TV and basic activities of daily living is critical to enjoying each other’s company long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:54 AM
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Your post history is mainly about being in love with an actor. Are you his wife Ruth Kearney? If not, idolizing him in this creepy way is very much not RPW behavior. I understand that my criticism of you is not going to look good to the mods and may put my membership to this sub at risk. But it feels worth calling out spam posters to preserve the community we have here. This sub is valuable because real women share their real life experiences here. If you want to parade as someone you’re not and…
/r/RedPillWives31/03/20 04:48 AM
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I think that the idea of virginity, at least as discussed here, is more about the emotional and social experience of having sex for the first time rather than the physical notion of the hymen. It’s about being completely naked and vulnerable with someone of the opposite sex for the first time, and talking on all the emotions and the risks, both physical (pregnancy, stds) and social (shame, unrequited love, confusion) that come with the act.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 04:22 AM
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Oh but I bet there are people who believe in that.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 04:19 AM
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Ha yeah I don’t know how literally I believe OPs claims but she did spark an interesting discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 04:17 AM
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That’s a really interesting take on it. When I wrote that I was thinking about it on a small scale, like gossiping about a person because you don’t have anything else to talk about with your buddies. But I think you bring up some valid points about how others’ sexual behavior really does matter to society on a large scale, especially when children are the outcome of that behavior and thus require resources from the community.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 04:15 AM
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Yeah! I totally get it if people feel that losing their virginity or saving their virginity or whatever other sexual choice they made benefited their life and they want to share that with others. I see no issue in talking about your experience and why you think it would be good for others too — if sharing about sex is your thing. It ain’t mine but I certainly have learned about myself because others chose to share, and I’m grateful for them! But that is very different from pushing your beliefs o…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:59 PM
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The people who care so deeply about the sex lives of people with whom they aren’t having sex must live such boring lives.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:50 PM
1

What’s the orange pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:04 AM
5

I’m curious how many people actually know the parents of their friend’s significant other. Especially at a young age, where relationships are new and often short-lived, and particularly in college, where many students live states away from their families. I guess you should always act respectably in front of people’s parents, but that goes without saying. I don’t see the point of this post.
/r/RedPillWives26/03/20 09:11 PM
2

If you do this, you gotta use SPF! It’s a great help but it’s a serious product, not to be taken lightly. r/skincareaddiction for resources.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/20 03:57 AM
6

That’s up to you. See how you feel after they show you how they feel about your boundaries. If you’re put at ease and want to continue the date the go ahead, but you can’t make that hypothetical call in advance.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 02:46 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 04:59 AM
2

You’re a good person, u/teaandtalk
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 04:53 AM
6

Not nail things, but going off the title about low budget beauty... An eyelash curler is the quickest way to make yourself look more awake and pretty. Can be found for a couple bucks at the dollar store. Follow it with mascara if you’d like, or just curl and go. When you moisturizer your skin each night, rub an tiny amount of moisturizer between your finger and thumb, and gently coat your eyelashes (top and bottom lashes!) with the moisturizer. For optimal hydration, make sure you’re doing this …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 04:10 AM
3

Don’t try to plan too much now for your future relationships. Spend time investing in yourself as your interests in the next few years. Put yourself first while you’re so young.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 05:07 PM
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You should express to him what you’ve just expressed to us. This is not a STFU situation. Try to help him understand what you’ve told us, and see if you can guide him into a more dominant role. Yes, we must compromise on some things and accept some faults in our partners. But lack of sexual fulfillment is not a good place to settle. If you feel this way now, that feeling of lack will only grow unless you do something about it. It will turn into resentment and threaten your relationship. Not only…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 03:05 AM
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I don’t have any specific advice, but I will caution you not to draw comparisons between yourself and other women in order to highlight your qualities. If you’re familiar with the “I’m not like other girls” trope/meme... yeah. That. Putting others down, or even just separating yourself from others in that way, is not a good way to go about it. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 02:58 AM
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Thanks for shouting out to us "lefty tree huggers." Glad to know I'm not the only one here!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 03:31 AM
2

He totally wants you. It’s so obvious. If you’re into him too, then there ya go!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 08:44 PM
1

I don’t think you’re ready to be married. You are so young, you will only benefit from waiting a couple more years. Work though your PTSD to the point where you aren’t so afraid of commitment. A man worth marrying will see that you are not ready and will be willing to wait a couple years.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 07:42 AM
3

You say you hope people will see your lazy appearance and think “she must have better things to do than worry about how she looks.” (Not any exact quote I realize, idk how to do that on mobile.) But have you ever looked at a person in a boring, unflattering outfit and thought to yourself, “wow, I bet they’re super interesting to talk to, I’d like to get to know them?” No. That’s not what runs though our heads when we see another plain looking person who blends in with every other guy on a colleg…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 07:16 AM
1

It sounds like your values and the general red pill values don’t mix so well. If you’re interested in fundamentally changing the way you act in relationships, stick around here. If not, you can find advice from more like-minded people on other subs. I’m sure there’s something in between this and the female dating strategy sub...
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 07:03 AM
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