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knight2e5/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 05:51 PM
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Stranger To Me Now by Mama's Pride
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/26 07:08 AM
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No. But you do have to be an adult for the kids. At first, we really did not talk. Over time our relationship improved. Then she got back together with the guy she cheated with. I don't need that prick in my orbit, for my own sake. Now, I am only available to her in any way if it pertains to our kid. It works fine. You don't have to be friends, you just can't be enemies.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 02:23 AM
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You can't fix it because she doesn't want to. Usually, that's because she has someone different in mind, or already at her side. Sorry, dude, it really sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 02:11 AM
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This "she shouldn't have worn that skirt" logic.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/26 09:16 PM
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Agreed.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:05 PM
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There is already someone else. There probably was before she got off the BC. There is a 99.99% chance. She isn't giving you another chance. She's just still in the process of setting up her exit strategy and wouldn't mind having someone else cover at least a portion of her expenses in the interim. I know it hurts. I've been there. The best advice I csn give is to move on and live a happy and fulfilling life with a person who actually values you (yourself). From there you may just attract a bette…
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 06:29 AM
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No she's not. She's lied to you for 14 years about something incredibly important.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 01:19 PM
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The only way to proceed here is to leave her. She's lied to you for 14 years. She's taken from you, gaslit you into thinking your gut feeling was wrong, and taken advantage of you. Good people don't do what She's done. They especially don't do it to people they care about at all. Don't waste any more time on a woman who would do this to you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 01:16 PM
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We co-parent really well now. It took several years but we got there. But coparenting is all it'll ever be.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 05:14 PM
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First, this does NOT make you a piece of shit. You got rug-pulled. Being upset about that or not on board with that is normal. TBH, her behavior and the decisions made (from an outside perspective) scream that she is cheating or at least checked out. It's not a dick move to put your foot down and expect her to honor the original deal. If she can't meet you halfway on such major issues after you've been giving things up for her, you're right to want a divorce. Don't sacrifice your happiness. Just…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 03:30 PM
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Me opening up about some of the trauma experienced in Afghanistan and how it's impacted my life all the way into the present. She just coldly looks at me and says, "I don't want to hear this. I don't want you to talk to me about this. Talk to someone else about it." Not in like a 'please see a therapist' way, either. Just a 'don't have emotions' kind of way. For the record, I do have a therapist, and we have now been divorced for 6+ years. In my current relationship, I don't have these issues.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 06:21 PM
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Her apology definitely helped our co-parenting relationship quite a bit. She spent most of the divorce period openly saying she wasn't doing anything wrong. That made me extremely angry and just... disgusted. I don't think we'd have ever been great co-parents without that apology.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 07:57 PM
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My ex and her AP broke up before the divorce was even finalized. My disapproval of him being around our child may have helped with that. My family was 99% of our support structure as hers lives out of state. My family was also against AP being around, so I think some of it may have been that to get the support every single parent needs she had to drop him. I don't know the full reason as it's not something she is willing to talk about. Which is fine, I'm just glad that creep isn't around anymore…
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 07:54 PM
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Sorry for delay. Basically, I just can't see myself trusting someone in that way again. I also have, over the years, cone to believe it's not necessary for a healthy and happy relationship. I guess I'm just in the "I don't need the government in my relationship" camp nowadays. There are definitely still trust issues, but mostly I just don't believe marriage is all that it's held up to be anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 07:51 PM
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I know this has been said here but it can't be stressed enough. It was never the Police that told you to leave her alone. That was someone she knows, maybe a new romance. Absolutely do not reach out to her unless it's to get your stuff back. You do it on a recording, and the first thing you say is "I am returning your call from [Date and Time of her call to you]. May I ask why you are reaching out after all this time?" Be prepared to hang up. Something seems fishy.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 07:41 PM
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Depends on your jurisdiction/State. You're legally separated, it's a non issue. Adultery is still technically illegal in some States. That said, it's not going to matter much if at all to a judge if she's on a dating site. My suggestion to you is to just not, unless your lawyer thinks it'll help in your specific case.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 05:57 PM
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You gotta go on and get, brother. Been there; it is not worth the pain of holding on too tight. Don't try to change her, or convince yourself it's fine. Just let enough be enough and start to heal. Sorry about this happening to you. Stay strong and do the right thing for yourself long term.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 10:12 AM
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