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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
53	6 years later - it gets better		knight2e5	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 05:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	She just changed overnight You can't fix it because she doesn't want to. Usually, that's because she has someone different in mind, or already at her side. Sorry, dude, it really sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/26 02:11 AM
1	I've come to the realization that marriage and divorce are all about the woman in life and in courts. This "she shouldn't have worn that skirt" logic.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/26 09:16 PM
1	How to manage the post birth control storm? Is it really over? (Venting, seeking hope) Agreed.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 10:05 PM
13	How to manage the post birth control storm? Is it really over? (Venting, seeking hope) There is already someone else. There probably was before she got off the BC. There is a 99.99% chance. She isn't giving you another chance. She's just still in the process of setting up her exit strategy and wouldn't mind having someone else cover at least a portion of her expenses in the interim. I know it hurts. I've been there. The best advice I csn give is to move on and live a happy and fulfilling life with a person who actually values you (yourself). From there you may just attract a bette…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 06:29 AM
3	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? We co-parent really well now. It took several years but we got there. But coparenting is all it'll ever be.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 05:14 PM
19	Leaving my pregnant wife First, this does NOT make you a piece of shit. You got rug-pulled. Being upset about that or not on board with that is normal. TBH, her behavior and the decisions made (from an outside perspective) scream that she is cheating or at least checked out. It's not a dick move to put your foot down and expect her to honor the original deal. If she can't meet you halfway on such major issues after you've been giving things up for her, you're right to want a divorce. Don't sacrifice your happiness. Just…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 03:30 PM
16	Examples of ways you feel disrespected by your wife over the years Me opening up about some of the trauma experienced in Afghanistan and how it's impacted my life all the way into the present. She just coldly looks at me and says, "I don't want to hear this. I don't want you to talk to me about this. Talk to someone else about it." Not in like a 'please see a therapist' way, either. Just a 'don't have emotions' kind of way. For the record, I do have a therapist, and we have now been divorced for 6+ years. In my current relationship, I don't have these issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/24 06:21 PM
2	6 years later - it gets better Her apology definitely helped our co-parenting relationship quite a bit. She spent most of the divorce period openly saying she wasn't doing anything wrong. That made me extremely angry and just... disgusted. I don't think we'd have ever been great co-parents without that apology.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 07:57 PM
1	6 years later - it gets better My ex and her AP broke up before the divorce was even finalized. My disapproval of him being around our child may have helped with that. My family was 99% of our support structure as hers lives out of state. My family was also against AP being around, so I think some of it may have been that to get the support every single parent needs she had to drop him. I don't know the full reason as it's not something she is willing to talk about. Which is fine, I'm just glad that creep isn't around anymore…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 07:54 PM
2	6 years later - it gets better Sorry for delay. Basically, I just can't see myself trusting someone in that way again. I also have, over the years, cone to believe it's not necessary for a healthy and happy relationship. I guess I'm just in the "I don't need the government in my relationship" camp nowadays. There are definitely still trust issues, but mostly I just don't believe marriage is all that it's held up to be anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 07:51 PM
21	Ex reached out after almost 2 years I know this has been said here but it can't be stressed enough. It was never the Police that told you to leave her alone. That was someone she knows, maybe a new romance. Absolutely do not reach out to her unless it's to get your stuff back. You do it on a recording, and the first thing you say is "I am returning your call from [Date and Time of her call to you]. May I ask why you are reaching out after all this time?" Be prepared to hang up. Something seems fishy.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 07:41 PM
4	Separated rules Depends on your jurisdiction/State. You're legally separated, it's a non issue. Adultery is still technically illegal in some States. That said, it's not going to matter much if at all to a judge if she's on a dating site. My suggestion to you is to just not, unless your lawyer thinks it'll help in your specific case.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 05:57 PM
1	Am I a pos… You gotta go on and get, brother. Been there; it is not worth the pain of holding on too tight. Don't try to change her, or convince yourself it's fine. Just let enough be enough and start to heal. Sorry about this happening to you. Stay strong and do the right thing for yourself long term.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/23 10:12 AM