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Nope. I started running every day and talking to new women instead.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:54 AM
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So funny story, I've been completely not talking to her, and she texts me today thanking me for everything I've done for her and hopes my graduate school finals are going well. What is this about?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:50 PM
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So any communication...not even to tell her I know her breakup line was a lie...I know I'm beating a dead horse, but in your experience, nothing to say whatsoever to gain any ground?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:56 PM
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I like your cognitive conditioning therapy idea. I don't hate her, because as you said, she did show me the right way.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:38 PM
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Oh my god. THIS. So This. and I predicted this situation, and yet still fed her little ego. I confronted her and told her I felt like I was getting pushed away, and then this is pretty much the exact conversation we had. You're right, she didn't deserve any amount of my time, and I guess that's why I was seeking validation, so I could prove I wasn't the person she thought. Yea, I know she loved me trying to talk to her. Man I feel used haha.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:37 PM
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you are right, I am not over it, and that's why I am here. I already realize that my post was some sort of search for validation, and the resounding opinion is move on. why waste that energy on someone, as you said, already thinks low of me.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:36 PM
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If I break it down, I'm still searching for some sort of validation from her which is classic beta. I suppose I asked this question because I wanted to flip the situation to one where she was the one interested in me. Clearly my beta behavior has caused that ship to sail, and any additional effort in trying to one up and or validate myself based on her opinion of me is a complete waste. I just need to work on an attitude change. It's over, she's gone. I clearly want her to want me, in whatever w…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:33 PM
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Thank you for your response. You're right, the feeling I'm still looking for is some sort of validation from her, whether I'm in a relationship with her or not. So that is already a bunch of bullshit for me to worry about. Definitely some time will come in handy, and I think you're right, once I've gotten over the hump, thinking about spending any additional energy on her to one up her or otherwise will feel like a waste. I'm really happy I haven't tried talking to her and giving her more attent…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:27 PM
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Wow, thank you for responding so quickly. Yea, it's mindblowing when you realize whatever line they fed you to break up with you is a line of shit. She did own my beta ass, and you're right the only healthy and valid use of my time is to work on my own life. Getting her out of my life is a hard step, because...oneitis. But I am very proud that I haven't contacted her since. Haha, and you're right the only repair is to do something extreme, but that's unlikely to solve a damn thing. Thanks again …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 09:25 PM
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