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3

Stop the pity party. Words mean nothing, only actions matter, don't let yourself be manipulated by words. Block and ignore her. Focus on yourself. Problems solved.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/24 03:01 PM
2

Cruel and they know there are no consequences, they will cry victim to daddy police or government or cucks. But their beauty window is so short and with that their power goes downhill fast after 35... At 45 they're basically invisible...
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 06:53 AM
1

Anger because you owe her more money, how dare you not pay her more?
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 06:51 AM
1

Sue her in small claims, at least it'll inconvenience her, you have the texts of her coming over.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 06:50 AM
2

After the pity party find a new lady to bone and your fairytale ex won't seem like anything special anymore. Go to the phillipines have a vacation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 04:27 AM
19

Why u keep wasting money on therapy when you need to see a divorce lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 02:00 PM
7

Stop playing stupid games and telling your roommate everything. As you see it's a dumb idea that only hurts you. Think before you do things, life isn't an episode of friends.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 01:54 PM
6

She needs a caretaker not a husband.. if you want to be a caretaker go ahead and keep being that.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:14 PM
3

It's hopeless, don't even consider staying with her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 04:14 AM
2

You're just honest enough to admit the non PC things other people feel yet will not admit. Many parents don't like their kids, hate being parents... And many kids neglect their parents when they're old and become a burden... Only today's society is full of hypocrisy so nobody admits the truths due to fear of public shaming.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 01:25 PM
2

Who decides if you're evil? Your ex? Random people on reddit? Or you? Think hard and choose the correct option.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 10:40 AM
3

She has already been planning the divorce and needed an excuse. Now she's happy because it's all "your fault".
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 11:37 AM
13

This is who she always was, shocking how you didn't see it sooner isn't it?
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 09:33 PM
2

It happens a lot, some medication causes it, sometimes age/hormone changes, she could be mentally ill and was hiding/downplaying her disease so the man would marry her. Or she could have just been playing a part and this witch that eventually emerges is her true self all along, so she could extort finances from the man like a leech for years. Men have to be crazy to get married now days.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 07:52 AM
15

She is not the same woman, her brain changed, now she's some other lady and "she's not happy" and it's "your fault". Forget your fantasy about who she is, that's just in your head. The reality is she's a stranger to you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 02:50 AM
3

Leave her it's doomed to fail so better cut ties now and not 5 years from now when you will lose much much more. About finding someone new do you need a wife? What does she give you that you can't get from women without marrying them? Don't you want to live life as you want, without a woman that approves or denies your every desire? And women change, the woman you marry won't be the same in 5 years and that one won't be the same in 10 years, and unfortunately they mostly change for the worse and…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 02:29 AM
3

Your wife has a lawyer instructing her what to do and say, and she hopes to get more money out of you clearly. You should pay a lawyer yourself, they have tips and tricks you won't find yourself since you don't have court experience.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:28 PM
2

You love this woman? Or you love the woman you thought she is? Who you love doesn't exist it was just a fake character she was playing with you. Hopefully you understand. And this new guy will be played and used too, this woman is a leech incapable of any feeling for anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:20 PM
4

If they don't even talk to you what are you crying about? Move on and focus on yourself. You were clearly just an ATM for them and now you see it. Never marry and never support single mothers, you think they'd appreciate you taking them with all their baggage and past mistakes? They won't. They're even more selfish and entitled.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:17 PM
1

Can easily be disputed or called "unfair", depends what judge you get. It's not real protection. Just another way for lawyers to make money. Being safe = never marry.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:14 PM
17

She will just wait a few more years and divorce you, taking more than she could get at this moment. Probably waiting to get lifetime alimony. You changed nothing. Just made it worse for yourself in the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:27 PM
8

It's typical bipolar behavior, she mirrors you, love bombs you with her holes, and then distance and closeness to keep you unbalanced and under her control. Always drama so you don't have time to think clearly. She's a leech, and you were her victim. It's very common.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:13 PM
9

A whore will do anything for money, see her for what she is. You're lucky because if she's willing to cut herself for some money imagine what she'd have done to you if you got sick or disabled at some point. She'd probably slowly poison you, or torture you into killing yourself. Her greed and impatience saved you. About the DV don't worry about it, it's abused by women so much at divorce that everyone knows the "game" and it's not taken as seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 07:22 PM
9

What is there to work out? You want to be married to a prostitute that has sex with different men and comes back home to you? Have some self respect. What kind of example do you give your kids? Do you want them to despise you?
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 02:02 AM
2

If you have a high paying job and get sick and want to leave or change to a lower paying job, most prenups incentives the wife to leave you and lock in the high salary as a benchmark for spouse payments.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 11:38 PM
3

Many women marry just to use the man, why would you stay with someone who sees you as nothing but an ATM? If she's so stressed about money she should get a 2nd job.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 03:03 PM
5

It could be mentally illness, thus she doesn't know herself what the reason is... You should focus on your future not dwell on her since she's your past and it's useless waste of energy.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 06:20 AM
22

She isn't acting right because she's afraid you leave, she just wants you to wait so she gets more in the divorce, more of your retirement, more spouse support, more everything. You can never scare her into acting right unless she depends on you completely financially, in the west that's never the case because the court makes your money her money.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 06:21 AM
7

She's trying to manipulate you, you think about everything she put you through she's sorry now? She will change? 😂🤣🤣😂😂 She won't.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:04 AM
13

She didn't love you, she only loves herself, everyone else is just a tool for her to use.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 03:25 AM
13

If this was reversed you'd have him pay you alimony, so why shouldn't he? It's nice to marry for a better life but as soon as he's sick you try leave him or force more stress on him with a baby, very selfish of you. Hopefully he leaves you after he sees who you really are now.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 10:34 AM
7

Mentally illness is unexplainable, she's just a narcissist that used you for kids and child support and now wants to get banged out by random men, marry a millionaire and live on an Island. This is the logic you're dealing with. Don't bother talking to her or asking anything, you'll just get lies and her manipulation.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 09:29 PM
4

So she cheats on you and you allow her to pay half the support she should? Do yourself a favor and go talk to a lawyer because you don't sound like your brain is functioning.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 02:34 PM
1

Learn a trade or remote skill or degree like computer science, that will allow you by 40 a degree and chance to make more money with more freedom, for example work remote while travelling. Use your current stuckness to the utmost.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 08:43 AM
1

She probably kisses the daughter just because she sees how it hurts you, try take a video and record her doing it so you could show your daughter in the future who her mommy was when she has these herpes outbreaks. Your ex wife will probably blame you for it so it's good to have proof.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 05:18 PM
3

Another selfish herpes woman huh? How unsurprising.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 05:17 PM
16

She has been cheating on you and spending time with other men on all her trips. Don't be naive. This is over don't humiliate yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 05:15 PM
17

She doesn't think normally, she is insane, never be alone with her, always record every interaction or the next one arrested will be you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 06:31 AM
6

Go on vacation and have sex with different women to figure out what you like and enjoy being single. Don't fall in the trap of sticking with the next woman or single mother that spreads her legs for you and tells you all the lies you want to hear and heard from your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 07:25 PM
5

You're so dramatic, she hides things from you, goes behind your back, blames you for her unhappiness and you fall on your knees and confess that it's all your fault... Very nice but this isn't a Hollywood movie, your pity party will not help you in life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 04:24 PM
4

Just need sex with other women and snap out of your fantasy that you had about her. She is nothing special, and didn't offer you anything special, just lies and fakery.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 06:12 PM
4

Your kids are watching her have sex with random men and you accepting it. What do you think their future relationships will look like? And how will they see you when they grow up? If you think it'll be as "the hero dad that accepted everything and stayed" you're wrong. They will have no respect for you, same as your wife doesn't. Show them self respect, your wife is not capable of being loyal and never will be until she's too ugly and literally nobody wants her and then she's all yours... That w…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 03:22 PM
3

Women in a relationship that sleeps with random men and goes back to sleep and live with "her man" is a red flag yes. Usually a sign of a cheater or mental illness such as bipolar.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 02:52 PM
7

This woman is mentally ill, don't try to fix her. And for a man it's normal to be repulsed by a woman who has random men have sex with her any day of the week and then coming back to her man at home to lead a roommate type life. It's disgusting and disloyal no matter what lies they use to justify it, and it almost never works long term.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 03:13 AM
1

Thailand or the phillipines.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 05:08 PM
5

You're crazy to marry her, she's already planning her exit, there's a 100% guarantee you will not make it. Good luck 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 05:26 AM
0

Phillipines..
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 01:24 PM
4

If she's offering you 7k it's not because she gives a shit about you, it's because she knows she owes you much more. Stop being a dummy and trying to find answers on the internet, go talk to a lawyer and pay like she did.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 09:10 AM
4

It's not "going after her" it's "making sure you don't end up living under a bridge". Go to trade school, counting on a woman will never end well for you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 08:57 AM
5

Go see a lawyer, don't accept her offers because she's lowballing you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 08:39 AM
3

If you keep getting shit on and take it why are you surprised that's how your life looks like? Learn to say enough is enough and leave. There's no trophy for wasting your life with a mentally ill child woman. And if you have a stroke she will abuse you, same as those dogs she abused.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 07:00 AM
6

Go overseas, leave the desperate entitled princesses to watch their Oprah and Wendy Williams and getting drunk on cheap wine.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 06:55 AM
19

She has been planning this for years, that's why it's easy for her. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and talk to a lawyer. You hope she changes her mind and take her back? You're clearly insane if you think this way. She drove you crazy so she could take the maximum possessions from you. Don't "think" for yourself since you're clearly impaired. Talk to a good lawyer and do exactly what he tells you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 03:00 PM
6

Focus on yourself, she's not your wife anymore, she never will be. You'll be a fool to take her back after what she did to you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 07:42 PM
10

Go to the phillipines and you won't have any problems.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 02:24 AM
14

Why would you want to waste your life with a woman that doesn't want to be with you?
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 04:37 PM
6

She and her mommy had it all planned, she went behind his back, left and will now file in court to extort as much as possible from him. But of course it's all his fault, and she's depressed because Reddit user diagnosed her 😂😂 so it's all his fault... How convenient and delusional... Let me guess.. you're a woman? 🤔🙄
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 02:52 PM
10

"she's not happy" so you're the closest one so it's your fault. The woman she was before was just an act to get a kid and financial support from you. It's really easy for women to say the right things, men ask for so little. Now she thinks she can get more, and is making her play. Cut ties with her, better yourself. This is the best thing for you, so many men get stuck being a nanny for their deadbeat wife for decades, losing their retirement and house and everything. Never get married again. En…
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 02:46 PM
2

Courts and culture destroyed family, single mothers make shit sons.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 05:58 PM
9

Most men will accept any behavior from a woman as long as she has sex with them. The result is delusional women using that and ending up alone with their delusions and no options as their beauty window is about 30 years shorter than they think it is.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 12:58 PM
15

Go on vacation, meet other women and have sex with them. All the "magic" you have with your wife is special to you because you didn't experience what's out there. Why would you want to stay in a dead marriage anyway? You have one life don't waste it on her anymore than you already have.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 02:29 AM
4

If it turns you on to come back to a woman after she had sex with other men and sucked some new genitelia (even though she won't do it to you) then a break is a great idea.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 12:57 PM
4

Sounds like she wants you to fight him or attack him just so you get in trouble, don't show her you care. Be happy to see her leave... Let him store the garbage.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 12:41 PM
9

She knows she can take more from you when you're emotionally weak. Don't give a cent more than you legally have to. Talk to a lawyer, don't take her back when she comes back after her crush dumps her in a few months.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 04:04 AM
19

Her new man dumped her so she's looking for a way to manipulate you back into your life, until she can find the next man to cling to like the leech she is. You shouldn't have sent her anything, and you shouldn't talk to her about anything that isn't related directly to your daughter and even then only in mags she can't manipulate.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 05:28 AM
10

You need to grow a pair of balls and not ignore women mistreating you. Once the disrespectful behavior starts and you accept it, it leads to this and worse. She just used you as an ATM. You need to be ready to leave as soon as any women starts games or disrespectful, don't ask her why or talk because lying comes naturally to women. Just see how they act, that's the only real sign.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 04:33 PM
6

You have a cancer in your toe, if you don't cut the toe in time it will spread to the leg and will have to cut the leg, if not it will keep spreading. Non action is not a solution.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:39 PM
1

How could you have no idea what happened to her?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 09:24 PM
6

Get a lawyer, get as much out of her as you can. This pathetic routine of you blaming yourself for everything isn't cute and will just make everyone cut ties with you. Grow a pair of balls and get as much as u can from her so you don't end up living under a bridge.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:23 PM
3

She is probably mentally ill, and you're confusing bipolar love bombing with her seeing you as a star or something. When she's manic she'll fuck 10 guys a week same as she did you, especially when she's cheating on her husband. She's just looking for a new sucker to take care of her mentally ill ass instead of the husband who probably can't handle her illness yet. But nice fantasy 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 06:48 PM
2

This is over your head, you need to talk to a good lawyer, mistakes you make now will cost you much more than the lawyer fee. Everything she does is for a reason, because a lawyer advised her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 11:42 AM
1

She's a retarded child, it will only get worse not better, don't waste your life with her, if you're disabled she'll torture you and neglect you. Cut ties before it's too late for you. You can comfortably live in the phillipines on your money if the US is too expensive, and hire a home helper that will cook clean and do everything your wife will never do. Drop the leech.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 11:29 AM
0

Say no, don't give it to extortion or it will never end. If she takes you to court fight it to make it cost as much as possible for her. That's the only way this stops.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 01:49 PM
17

She's a leech. She waited to get what she wanted- kids (giving her a financial stream for 15+ years and social validation) and now she wants to be single again and try find someone more rich and get plowed. She's a delusional child. You should focus on yourself, you're lucky this happened when you're young, many women play the long game and bail with 20+ years of work the man put in.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 12:53 PM
5

You can work off the books and make a lot of money she'll never be able to touch. more than 50% of men get divorce raped but they find out they still can live comfortably because the leech wife isn't there to spend everything.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 03:35 PM
12

Only your mommy "likes you for you". Women like power, money, what you do for her... It's not a Disney movie you need to grow up and be realistic.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:48 PM
6

Record her admitting she fake the protection order, in case she has false claims against you in the future or brings it up again. Never be alone with her without recording.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 06:08 PM
16

You must be mentally ill if you want to stay with this woman... Enjoy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 02:22 PM
-5

She has sex and talks same as she does to you, with many many other men. Her body count is probably hundreds, see her realistically. You're desperate because you had bad luck with women, don't buy into a fantasy, protect yourself and stay realistic.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 12:16 PM
-2

She probably planned it near her period so there's a little blood. Sad how some men are so dumb and naive...
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 12:13 PM
14

Women change, some lose their minds. You're lucky she's the other guys problem now, imagine having that woman as she ages and becomes more nutty... You're lucky.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 03:39 AM
-1

If she's a liar what makes you think she lost her virginity to you? Just another lie... If you don't want to be betrayed be less trusting and protect yourself and your assets.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 08:51 PM
6

Your wife doesn't leave because she doesn't find anyone to monkey branch to. Sure she cheats on you but nobody wants to take her. So she stays with you for money and in the end when she leaves you'll just lose more of your wealth and retirement, plus maybe lifetime alimony for her. Good luck never being able to retire.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 07:33 PM
20

Women can turn on the charm when they want something from you, most often your money.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 09:53 PM
15

Sounds like you're making exactly the same mistake again. Your new girlfriend might change same as the old one. You need to protect yourself. Don't adopt her son (although if he lives with you for a few years you might be on the hook for child support for a kid who isn't even yours), don't buy a house or assets this woman could take from you in the future. This is the honeymoon phase and she needs you, be carful having kids with her. if you don't protect yourself you might be stuck for 20 more y…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 12:41 PM
6

These are all red flags you're ignoring now, this leads to false police reports about abuse, and worse. Leave while you can. This type of women never changes for the better. BPD.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 11:36 AM
1

So you want to wait 2 more years so you can pay her an extra year of spouse support? 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 11:32 AM
8

She's trying to stretch out 2 more years for lifetime alimony, stealing from you, and finding other ways to ruin your life before you leave her.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 08:40 PM
1

Teaching his son to be a doormat like papa.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:26 PM
10

You sound really stupid. And you're teaching your son what a weak man their father is, very bad role model example. Great way to have them lose respect for you. Nobody respects a man who doesn't respect himself.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:24 PM
13

Old lady complaining online is something nobody cares about. You should be happy that she's unhappy without you and instead of moving on she's realized her value to men out there is zero, so she's looking for someone other than herself to blame... So of course it's you to blame. Enjoy seeing her embarrass herself online. If she asks you for anything tell her to make a video online about it, so her viewers can help her.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:22 PM
7

So she will wait until you have more money in your retirement and then file for divorce to take more from you. And you think this is a good idea? Haha. I'm sure if she's sick and about to die she'll make sure to destroy the house or get into so much debt that they take the house anyway. Just out of hate for you... Leave now don't be dumb enough to follow her advice. She's not your friend.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 11:44 AM
1

Research on youtube
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:47 AM
8

Trying to control you. If you give in she'll push the boundaries to see how far she can go. You've married a spoiled child. Unfortunately not uncommon for women at all. They're only "grown ups" when it suits them and they pretend.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 07:11 PM
6

If she doesn't have sex with you she doesn't love you. Leave before it's too late and you're too old, or she stops working and screws you in support you'll have to pay. Better for you to leave while she's out earning you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 06:37 PM
11

Pathetic how a few words (lies) make you think she means it and how insecure you are. You really need to work on your self esteem... She has no guilt or remorse, she's just sorry she can't use up her dumb ATM anymore that she can manipulate with lies and money comes out.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 04:50 PM
3

Learn to have fun alone, this is your chance. Thailand or the phillipines.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 04:13 PM
3

Go on vacation, have sex with women, you will forget all about her.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 10:16 AM
1

She will baby trap you and then you will be screwed.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 08:35 PM
7

Your life is about you. You have to do what makes you feel better. Her talking to you will always have her control and power over the dynamic so it's a bad idea for you. This setup isn't good her coming over, film/record her stay there so she can't make fake complaints about you later or twist anything said or done.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 02:31 AM
10

She is either stealing money from you or cheating on you, nothing else she would be hiding. If you stay it's all downhill from here. Have some self respect and leave...
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 02:26 PM
3

The more you wait the worse it will be. She'll get locked up due to a DUI or other drunk stuff, lose the job etc. the longer you wait more she takes from your savings and you lose your own time. You can't buy time back, you don't want to waste 10 more years of your life. The kids won't leave anywhere at 18, the way she's enabling then they have no incentive to be independent. You have no say in the house, they'll probably want to keep living at home until 30+, get out before it becomes a shit sh…
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 12:49 PM
3

What other option do you have? If you stay with her you're basically just wasting your life away in misery. Money can't buy you back your time.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 11:19 AM
5

You should thank him. Your wife is at an age where her looks and health will just go downhill, it's all going to be his problem now .. you're free of the cancer that was holding you back. Be happy and think about how you'll be the best you can be for yourself, start planning your vacation, learn new skills, read books. This is your time to shine. LOL leave that guy your leftovers and wish him best of luck 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 12:28 AM
4

You're not losing it, it's the price you pay to remove the cancer from your life. Small price to pay. Imagine being with this beast for more years and having to pay lifetime alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:47 PM
11

You need to have sex with other women, then you won't have this "love" towards her. You'll realize she's nothing special, never was and never will be. You were just desperate and she used it to manipulate you with words and pussy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 04:37 AM
6

You don't have much life left, why don't you use it to enjoy and stop being a little boy with his angry mommy, she is not a wife just a mother at this point, only without the love of a mother just criticism and control. Terrible role model to your kids, if it were reversed and you were a man treating your wife like she treats you it would be called "abuse".
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 07:25 PM
1

If you don't want lawyers don't get married, if you don't want doctors don't get sick.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 03:59 AM
3

She kicked you out and will try get as much as possible from you. It's working, you're delusional and think she's "taking it easy on you" LOL WAKE UP DUDE. stop doing stupid stuff "you think" are correct. anything you give her now may fuck you later when she shows you have a lot of income, you'll get stuck with increased child support.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 02:05 AM
8

You need lawyer advice not reddit advice
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 07:34 PM
2

Better for you worse for her. She'll find out her attractiveness for men sums up to being a hole they can dump into. It's doubtful anyone will commit to her again. She'll be miserable in 10 years. Work on yourself so you'll thrive in 10 years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:59 PM
7

Probably her being an entitled, spoiled, dumb deceitful narcissist who thinks she can have her cake and eat it too. You probably know the type...
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 06:30 PM
1

She'll probably end up saying you're abusing your child or murder you before she self harms. Don't be stupid. Get out now before it's too late. Can't fix crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 03:07 PM
6

You're not a millionaire, she thinks she can find one. No matter how good you are a woman's delusional mind thinks this way. Why keep being married when you can be single and enjoy your life stress free? Without a leech that has half your income and retirement and more hostage? Btw even if you were a millionaire she would hear from a lawyer she's entitled to half your shit thus she's a millionaire herself and will think she can get a billionaire. The delusion of women is illogical, much like all…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 11:24 PM
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Great advice
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 06:24 PM
16

She talked to a lawyer and he told her the more she stalls the more she'll get from you. If she can wait a few more years you'll owe spouse support and she'll probably start stealing money secretly until then, making debt, and all kinds of shit. Usually when women talk shit about the men, it's to justify their own cheating on him. In her mind you're a bad guy so she's justified cheating on you. RUN. This is hopeless. Be smart or in a few years you will regret staying.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 06:19 PM
1

And what stops her from making 10 new credit cards same as before? LOL
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 05:14 PM
3

Very dumb to wait another year, she will just destroy you with more debt and maybe you'll owe alimony on top (10 year mark). Sounds like you make very stupid choices, so you should ask a lawyer what to do, and only do what he tells you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 05:13 PM
7

This woman has been holding you down for years. Financially, emotionally, mentally. You're almost free of her. Only way is up from here, enjoy yourself and your life as a single man and don't jump into another relationship for a few years. Start planning your vacation to a different country now, learn some skill or trade. Workout. You'll feel and be better than you ever were.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 12:32 PM
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They know they're wrong but emotion is the only way they "win". Because emotion makes them always right and never wrong. A free ticket to do and say anything and get away with it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 10:30 AM
9

If they live with a woman a few years the court will force itself on them anyway, because your sons are an easy source of money.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 10:29 AM
10

Nothing you would have done with a nutter would help. You can do no right. You're always wrong and always to blame. The only "winning" is getting away from it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 07:22 PM
3

Lawyer and divorce, the more you wait the more she'll take from you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 04:35 PM
2

If they're older (15+) maybe, but if the kids are young and you cohabitate a few years you'll be seen as their r father and on the hook for child support for kids that aren't even yours. You will indeed bend when she takes you to court and they'll give you a gift you won't soon forget 🤣😆
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 04:45 PM
8

Never date single mothers, never adopt their kids, if she talks badly about her ex run (you will be next).
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 01:09 PM
1

You wouldn't object if she changes her mind about the divorce? Huh? Don't be pathetic.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 05:24 PM
1

Sounds like you've never been to the phillipines so your fear is talking you out of things. Why don't you go on vacation there and then see if you want to keep dating women from the west. Don't try rationalize or overthink, do some YouTube research about Cebu and just try it. Can try Thailand too.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 01:46 AM
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Well do you want to be treated better than you ever have been treated? To the point you don't believe it's real? Or do you want a "strong independent woman" who stays with you because she "wants you entirely (LOL)" until she decided she doesn't, and then you lose your house, retirement, and have to pay alimony for some fat ex that hates you? Because if she doesn't NEED you, why the hell would she stay with you? Lol
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 03:25 PM
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Go to the phillipines where the woman depends on you and there are 100 others to take her place at any moment. In the west they live in an illusion that they're queens so you could never trust them. They know at any moment they can leave with half your stuff because the court encourages and supports them.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 02:18 PM
5

The root of this is men with guns protecting women and enslaving men in court at threat of arrest and prison. Why? Because otherwise the state would have to fund tens of millions of useless freeloaders with spending addiction and half a brain. Good for the system.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 12:36 AM
1

So be happy you have no financial rape, now you'll be able to do everything you were missing out on. Go to SEA on vacation and have fun.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:09 PM
1

If your son had a cunt of a wife what advice would you give him? Are you that desperate for her hole?
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:27 PM
1

Saying things like "I don't care about money" is just going to get you extortion... Use your brain a little.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:12 PM
5

You're not getting respect, it's just a game to get you to like her so she can scam you out of money or something else in the future. These old hags don't magically change. Like a dog gets a pet on the head you already wiggle your tail and forget about all the beatings... Don't be so naive.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:08 PM
0

Watch Paul elum on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 11:13 AM
2

In this case whatever the price is it's worth it to leave. LOL you suggest staying with a crazy vindictive woman just out of fear of divorce? Very silly.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 11:12 AM
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Don't be a sucker, get her to pay you child support. She deserves no kindness and if she could she'd completely financially destroy you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 11:23 AM
2

So why not go to Thailand and be who you want to be for a few weeks or months? Be treated like a rockstar. It will give you a confidence boost
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 06:06 PM
3

Tell her if she doesn't stop you will start taking screenshots and posting it online where all her family and friends will see it. Women love to shame but deathly afraid of people seeing them for the scum some of them are.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 02:48 PM
1

So you're saving money on a lawyer, screwing yourself over, and you decide to be your own lawyer and pay off her debt because??? And if she sees you paying off her debt what stops her from creating more dead or making more credit cards?? 🤣😂 You should really think logically about what you're doing here because you make no sense.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 10:13 AM
2

Now? Or always. She just let him see it now because couldn't hide it any longer.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 08:48 AM
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