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And you're on reddit 24/7 so get a life.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:49 PM
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This sub has always been autistic. Either trolls with stupid questions or guys who claim they fuck 8 different girls a week while making 100k + a year.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:13 PM
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Social media is only okay if you spend a lot of time on it. Post a lot of pictures on it, stay active on it, hit up girls all the time, show everyone how good your life is etc.. If you really have an interesting life and focus on your goals, you should have no time for all that. That is why I find social media fake and boring. Usually the people with the most pictures have the boring lifes. But if you don't care about social media, like myself, then it is a waste of time. My profile was boring a…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:23 AM
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How does she fix this? It hurt so much.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:44 AM
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Yeah, she was wet, even used lube to be sure
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:06 AM
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Yeah, I think she mentioned she had it. That shit hurt hard as fuck man. Have you had it before?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:05 AM
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What the fuck?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:08 PM
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If she was really interested she wouldn't make it hard. When this happens, I just take my loss and focus on other stuff. Basically I just block their number. Not because I'm butthurt but it makes me forget them easier in some way, not sure why?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:46 PM
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Good job. Now increase your SMV like you said so you can focus on other shit and bang hotties instead of chubby girls.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:07 PM
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Princess syndrome.. Remember that you're the prize.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:07 PM
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I only fap once a week and before I go to bed after a heavy workout, makes me sleep well.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:22 PM
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OP, I like the way you think. Girls want what they can't have and I think it might work if you're an absolute chad. But if you ain't, then I have to agree with the guy above... Girls have so many options nowadays, it's sad.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:36 PM
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Not really. I love my friends and accept them the way they are. I'm not perfect, neither are they. I won't drop my friends just because they're beta around girls or have a shitty job, who cares, as long as I enjoy spending time with them and focus on my own goals.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:07 PM
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It's worth using as long as you still approach girls in real life and don't only rely on online apps to get laid.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:24 AM
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You can either respect yourself and next her or desperately wait around for a blowjob/sex. Lmao at the handjob in a condom hahahah, no way this is serious.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:20 AM
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Because I've dated girls who were addicted to it, even some friends are... It's sad to see them glued to their phone. If we're out grabbing a drink, going to a concert, the gym or even a restaurant, all they did was take pictures to show it off to everyone instead of having fun in the moment. This made me realize Instagram is just a pile of crap used to show off everyone's fake lives to impress others while nobody really cares about others their pictures, it's just for validation. I never took p…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:11 AM
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I'm 21 and deleting Instagram was one of the best things I've done this month.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:45 AM
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Depends what your goal is. If you want to get into bodybuilding focus on strength. If you want to look good, focus on size.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:57 PM
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This sounds like an interview and boring.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:53 PM
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I thought about the same thing myself. Honestly, the best option is to break up.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:49 PM
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A lot of people lie. No way it's possible to get laid so much if you have a decent job, work out, have hobbies/goals and spend time with your friends/family. Most people on this sub are college kids who lie. Can't imagine someone with a busy life to have time to approach girls all the time. If they were really as succesful as they said, they wouldn't have to brag about it on a forum. Take it with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:31 AM
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Some do if you pay more, but I haven' t done anal with a hooker.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:12 AM
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Same, when I'm on NoFap I end up texting girls I normally wouldn't bang.. I think about sex 24/7...
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:35 PM
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Why would you waste time on this stupid bitch? Hard next.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:50 PM
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Been there.. I just lose interest myself at that point and move on to another girl ​
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:49 PM
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Don't get disappointed when you see many guys lifting more than you. There are a crapload of ego lifters, including beginners. They take way too much weight, fuck up their reps and don't see any progress. The only one that matters is you. Start with low weight and make sure you can do atleast 12-15 reps. Once you feel comortable with the weight, move up a bit. Try to set goals for yourself and reach them. Eat healthy, look at your protein intake, sleep enough and DONT overtrain. If you're a begi…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:42 PM
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I feel you man. I don't even bother replying anymore. Just block their number and move on to the next bitch.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:50 PM
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Why do you care about some fat girl? Stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:56 AM
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You keep reading all this info but don't apply it. What's the purpose of the side bar if you don't try it out and make mistakes so you can learn from it?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:52 AM
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What an absolute bitch. Actually pisses me off how girls think they can get away with this and insult our intelligence with these shitty excuses. Especially your girl, who's cancelling on a date and posts herself getting drunk on social media, just fucking lol.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:58 AM
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This guy has good advice.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:20 PM
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Based on what you have written it seems that whole your life involves around women. Maybe that's one of the mistakes you're making. As for the learning through experience thing, it's true. Just keep doing your thing, make mistakes and grow as a person. I'm fairly new myself and I feel the same way. There is so much information on the main sub. Take it step by step. I have a long way to go, so do you. But you're throwing yourself out there, that's the most important part. Right at this moment you…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:33 PM
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I've been there, tried out NoFap myself and I still think the sub is a joke. Just quit porn and fap once a week or something.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:33 PM
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I have never paid for a girl's drink. If I'm out on a date and a girl doesn't want to split the bill, I'm out.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:51 PM
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Sadly it is, yes. Haven't met one yet.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:50 PM
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The presents are a good idea. Shows that you thought about them and invested time in it. Just be yourself, make them laugh, have a good time, compliment the mother on her dinner and try to find something you have in common with the father. Goodluck!
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:48 PM
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When I see my family, friends or even strangers having a good time during holidays with their SO, I feel a little bit empty inside. But then I remember all the shit I've been through with women and it's just not worth it. I save a lot of money by being single and spoil myself during holidays.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:44 PM
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Don't reply to it. It's pointless to text. I used to be like you. Answer to every text, even to hey or whats up. It's just a validation tool for women. If you want to chat, invite her over. If she "can't' then you saved yourself a lot of time.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:39 PM
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"I love you"
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:14 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:10 PM
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Fuck social media.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:10 PM
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I'm gonna join the military too. Won't be home much, gonna go on missions in other countries in some kind of base far away from everything. I'll just stick to prostitutes and find a plate when I'm at home.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:36 PM
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You have two options. Approach him like a man and talk about it Ditch him
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:50 PM
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I tried it out myself, since I was sceptical about it. Made it to 90 days. Stay away from the NoFap sub, it's full of cringy faggots who think that they will sleep with 9's if they stop fapping and get 'super powers'. You should fap, just not too much. Like once every 7 or 14 days to prevent death grip. Just quit porn, fapping is okay, porn is not.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:04 PM
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My cousin got me into lifting since I was 16. I was this muscular 17 year old and I could pull girls left and right. Then when I was 19 I had broken my hand and could not work out for months. I had lost most of my muscles and suddenly it was way harder to pull girls. I started working out again in January, so 10 months into it now. I look muscled again and pulling girls is easily now. Not that I lift for girls but it works.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:05 PM
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When she's passionate about something. The amount of girls who I met that didn't even have real hobbies. If I ask a girl about her hobbies and she answers with 'Hanging out with friends, Netflix, travelling, food' I cringe. Everyone loves doing that, these are not hobbies. Most girls are fucking boring nowadays.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:50 AM
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Never understood that either. Girls are on their phone all the time, but answering a simple text is too hard. I see this as a sign of disrespect and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:43 AM
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I don't know the context between you and your plate and why she texted that. But the purpose of going NC is so you can focus on yourself instead of worrying about some stupid bitch.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:41 AM
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Been on Tinder for a while now. It's easy to tell which girl wants to meet up or not. Your gut is right... if she was really interested in you, she would accept your offer.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:36 AM
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Never listen to what a girl says. Judge her by her actions. Try to make a move after 10pm.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:34 AM
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Next her.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:32 AM
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This. And not only that.. but hanging around drunk dudes while being sober is so fucking annoying.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:29 AM
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Yeah.. been thinking of doing that. But I don't like giving up so easily. I think I will stay until my training is done and then act accordingly.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:04 AM
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Same.. it's sad.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 12:00 PM
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Why would you date a girl who lives 4 hours away when you have loads of girls close to you?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:54 AM
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Only blue pilled men*
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:52 AM
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Either joining the special forces or becoming a pilot in the army.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:16 PM
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Just lol at trying to rationalize it by saying she cheated. Just accept that you're a shitty person.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:13 PM
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You're a shitty friend. I hope he ditches you. You're pretty thirsty and desperate if you go for your 'friend's' girl.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:47 PM
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Same happened to me. Just soft nexted her and moved on to another girl.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:43 PM
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You sound like the girl in the relationship, man up!
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:46 AM
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This OP, it's the hard truth, I hope this opens your eyes. Don't go out for coffee with her..
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:44 AM
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Dude let me tell you this. When I was 20, i was dating this 18 year old 'virgin' girl. We were dating for 3 months and no sex, only blowjobs... It's one of the reasons why I broke up. Guess what? One month after we broke up, she lost it to someone else. No sex morally is bullshit. if a girl is really into you, she will give it up.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:22 AM
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Dude, it's just a simple text convo. Stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:07 AM
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Yeah, move on to the next one. Good on your friend for telling you. If he's a real bro, he'd ignore her.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:05 AM
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Never date a girl from Tinder.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:04 AM
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Download software that blocks porn websites permanently.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:00 AM
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Yeah, you're right, I should work on my abundance mentality. Yeah, I won't text her. I'll straight up delete her number. If she comes with an excuse after 8pm it's disrespectful and I'll just block her and go NC. Thanks for the answer.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:30 PM
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F U C K W O M E N Edit: i'm tipsy Edit: I A M T I P S Y
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:23 PM
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Same.. When I'm single I get a few IOI's. But when I was out on a date with my ex, girl would literally stare at me from another table and try to maintain eye contact. it's crazy.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:22 PM
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Netflix is easy mode. If she comes over to your place, she is already interested. What I do is browse Netflix, look for some good movies and flirt meanwhile. Next thing I do is put my arm around them and pull them closer to me. Has a 100% succes rate so far. They respond well, move closer and by that time you're cuddling while searching for a movie. 5 minutes later I move in for the kiss and escalate, has always worked so far
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:18 PM
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I know this feeling man.. I just can't put in the effort in a girl I'm not interested in. That's why i'll catch oneitis from time to time with a high SMV girl. Best thing to do is avoid them once you start developing it. Nothing good comes from having oneitis.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:53 PM
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lol at smoking weed
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:51 PM
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Working out 4 days a week Going to work Eating healthy (meal preppin') Netflix Training to join the army, I want to become a pilot
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:29 PM
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20.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 04:37 PM
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I can't exactly say how long because I don't know myself. I started NoFap 1,5 years ago, had streaks between 3-60 days. The 60 day streak though.. I experienced two weeks of flatline which isn't that long compared to others but it felt like eternity. After that I wanted to fuck anything that moved, even ugly chicks. I was getting random boners throughout the day. It made me so happy, getting random erections, but all I think about was sex, that's why I stopped NoFap. Now I bought a fleshlight an…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:17 AM
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I used to watch it everyday when I was 18. Now I'm 21, I want to quit it, but I watch it like once a week and feel much better. The next step is cutting off porn completely but I feel good right now so there's no rush. Porn gave me ED though, it's gone now, but I had it. Deathgrip is no joke, my dick would feel numb.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:40 AM
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I know right, they act like it's something weird. If they do, you know she's not LTR material. Deleting social media was the best decision ever. Goodluck man.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:38 AM
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I'm 21 years old and in whole my life I've maybe met 2-3 girls who were genuinely interesting and funny. Most girls nowadays are boring as fuck, have no hobbies, goals apart from getting likes on social media and are on their phone all the time. Right now, if a girl doesn't workout, she's not appealing to me. If you're not interested. Just ditch them and focus on other stuff it's simple.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:57 AM
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I feel you, man. So much fucking effort in pulling girls nowadays, it's just not worth it. About my game.. it's rubbish. It needs work but I don't care. I set goals for myself which I'm currently working hard for, I have no time for girls. But this mindset also gives me more succes with girls in some weird way. I'm not afraid to get rejected since I don't care, I tease the fuck out of them by making fun of them in a flirty way. It's weird when you stop putting effort into girls, that's when shit…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:53 AM
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Can you elaborate on what kind of orbiters? Just whiteknights liking all her pictures, telling her how pretty she is? Or is she actually hanging out with these dudes claiming they are classmates/friends? Could be anything. Implementing dread game is always good in a LTR. So yes, it's the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:46 AM
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Personally I don't hang out with hipsters or artsy people, they're such a pain in the ass and are fake as fuck. Good on your for trying to initiate a conversation, it's not your fault they were such bitches.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:40 AM
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Don't let stupid bitches be one of the reasons that can trigger your depression. If you're depressed, the best thing to do is work on yourself. Take the shitty job to fill the year, keep lifting and set goals for yourself. What are jobs you're interested in, how will you get there, etc.. I know it's hard, but once you start achieving your goals, you will have no time for girls and that pointless shit. You'll be so busy that you will look more appealing to girls anyways. Once you've reached your …
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:33 AM
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She doesn't even sound like plate material.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:27 AM
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Sex is overrated. Condoms suck, after you orgasm you come to your senses and want to dump the bitch asap, her pussy might stank, she might be horrible at giving blowjobs. All that effort for 15 minutes of overrated sex. Sex is only good raw with someone you care about. I know cliché but it' true.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:26 PM
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Which software? I tried different methods but I can't find a good software
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:24 PM
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Personally I always wanted to become a real estate agent and have my own company. But right now I'm training for special forces.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:42 AM
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Yeah I have.. plenty of times. One girl would cut herself when she was depressed, so I ghosted her. Another girl would cry about her alcoholic father. Other girl told me she was suicidal. No thanks.. I've got my own problems, I have no time for these depressed sluts.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:07 PM
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I disagree with CanYouEvenCount. OP, if you start, work on your form BEFORE you start lifting heavy. The person above said heavy with proper form though, but it's not good for your body to start with heavy weights when you're new to the gym. Work on your form, do plenty of reps, worry about the weights later when you feel more confident.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:50 AM
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I feel you man... I always felt angry too while making pointless homework. A lot of classes are bullshit and they explain things way more difficult than they should be. Some classes are okay and doing homework for them doesn't feel like a pain in the ass but the useless classes u won't need anyways like religion suck ass. I dropped out of college, I was tired of the school system. I do regret not doing my best at school. Try to go for your degree, study hard, even if it's only 30 minutes a day, …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:53 PM
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Don't waste your time on exes. I did and it never turns out well..
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:46 PM
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This is why I hate texting and avoid it..
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:44 PM
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Over analyzing.. as soon as you give no fucks life becomes so much better
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:41 PM
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Yes, you did. I used to have a group of 20 close friends. Now I can count my real friends on 1 hand. You should be able to trust your friends for 100% and a good friend would never hang out with your ex or cockblock you.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:40 PM
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Same.. every girl is interesting at the start, but as soon as you make out with them, they become boring, there's no more challenge..
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:11 PM
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Before I discovered TheRedPill, I think 40 minutes. I deleted Tinder now, but now I'd drive 15 min max.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:20 AM
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Didn't read but the fact that you have to ask this says enough, break up.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:48 AM
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It was alright to be honest
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:52 PM
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I got circumcised when I was 16, best decision of my life.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:19 PM
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I've done 70 days NoFap and I was horny 24/7, I quit it. Why the cold showers though?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:04 PM
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I'm young and I never want kids but if I ever had a daughter I wouldn't spoil her. I see too many spoiled girls and that's one of the reasons of their princess syndrome. I would reward her if her behavior is good and talk about her with anything. If she has problems, she can tell me. If she behaves bad, I'll punish her the same way i'd punish a guy. Teach her respect and make her work hard for a future. I'd put her in some dance class so she doesn't get fat either. If she doesn't want it, that's…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 11:03 AM
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I wouldn't put up with it. We all know how guys think. When they hang out with a girl it's because they're interested in her. This has happened 3 times so far. You might trust your girlfriend but I wouldn't trust her male friend. You've been together for 15 months and you've never seen him? Sounds fishy. If they really were good friends before u two dated, why haven't u seen him then? This has happened 3 times and your girlfriend still does it. Either she is dumb/naive and doesn't realize it's d…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:09 PM
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Fuck yeah, I'll go for it! I'm not doing it for the glory, nor do I do it for women. My goal is to become the best version of myself and I finally have a goal pursuing and I'll do anything it takes to get there. I'll go in as a soldier and let them train me. You're right, thinking what might have been is what makes people depressed. Thanks for the confidence boost mate.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:18 AM
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You're right, I will definitely not underestimate it, thank you for the detailed post by the way. My goal for now is doing tests to join the army and work my way up from there. I love the adventurous aspect of the army. I will strive to become the best and work hard. Obviously that's easier said than done.. But I feel so motivated. The past 3 years I was this kid with no direction in my life, I went into uni without a goal. My goal was to get a degree but I felt like it was not my calling. Now..…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:16 AM
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I won't mind, atleast I will have a goal to work hard towards.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:09 AM
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Yeah. Sometimes I am not in the mood to text, actually I barely am, so do girls. If she didn't reply, she's 90% sure not interested. Would she ignore Chad? But I've had times where the convo was dead because me or the girl weren't in the mood and hit her up a few days later and it worked.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:43 PM
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I have yet to experience it. I'm 22 years old, but I've never been truly in love. I've dated 4 girls, longest one was 5 months. I ended all 4 off the relationships, my heart has never been broken. I think most people need to have their heart broken atleast once before they can stop caring for real. So.. I can't really miss pure and honest love, because I've never had it. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:18 AM
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I feel the same way. I'm 22 as well and the one night stands are a waste of time. All that effort, just for 15 minutes of sex, with a condom, which sucks. Afterwards you leave her place and feel empty inside. I'd rather have a good girlfriend who's fun to hang out with and can have sex on a regular basis with. I haven't found her yet, I'm single, with options. I enjoy the single life but sometimes I wish I had a good girlfriend, but yeah.. AWALT
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:12 AM
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I know right hahaha
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:07 AM
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For me personally: - Online : I'd pull 6-7's MAX - In real life : Pull between 6-9's Fuck online dating, glad I quit it, especially Tinder.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:50 PM
2

Just read the title but she wouldn't say that to Chad.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:59 PM
44

I deleted Tinder, Instagram and Snapchat this week. Used Insta to see what kind of girl I was dealing with. I still use Facebook though. Group chats with my friends are useful and it's nice to check events. I agree, deleting social media is the best decision ever made.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:38 PM
1

It's your choice man. If I set up a date with a girl and she flakes the same day I'd drop her. But in your case she said she was busy and wanted to reschedule for next week. Your response was good. It's up to her now to offer another date since she was the one who flaked. If she doesn't do this, she's not interested. You can always send her a text on tuesday night but I still think if she was really interested that would atleast offer a date herself.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:22 PM
1

Well she rescheduled atleast. Your response was good. The ball is in her court now to text you her schedule. But it's Tinder.. don't get your hopes up, a lot of flaking going on there. Don't take it personal. Goodluck though, I hope she texts you.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:36 PM
1

I deleted Tinder 2 weeks ago, best decision I've ever made.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:34 PM
3

I bumped into Nofap, one year ago. I was having ED at the age of 20... Decided to read through the sub and thought it was a joke. I still tried it out, had streaks between 5-70days. It did cure my ED. My dick felt numb because I fapped too much and stopping to masturbate cured that. I had more energy, when I woke up in the morning I didn't have that foggy feeling in my head. Those were the positive traits. The negative ones though.. I was ALWAYS horny. When I was working out in the gym and saw s…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:32 PM
1

You're right, I could be the problem. Just talking from my experience. Girls who aren't virgins just give better blowjobs, know what they like better, feel less insecure about their vagina and know how to work that dick. Virgin girls usually give bad blowjobs, don't want to get fingered/licked because they are insecure about their body. It's my experience with virgin girls compared to other girls.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:31 AM
2

This is so cringe, how old are you?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:22 AM
2

Why would you be friends with a girl who you liked? That stuff never ends well. I'd understand if you felt this way after being rejected and seeing her with your friend after 1-2 weeks but it's been years? I don't want to sound rude, but that's pathetic. How can you still feel this way after years? As for your progress, well done man. The best way to get over her is by improving yourself. You'll meet a better girl and completely forget about her. I know because I got rejected too and it sucks bu…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:20 AM
2

I do. I'm young (21), I'm shredded, dress well, in the army soon. I can pull girls but usually I don't want to put in the effort. I don't have social media so I meet girls at bars etc. The problem is that I live in a small town where everyone knows each other. The bigger cities are a 30 minute drive so it's harder to bring girls home. I've met plenty of cute girls in bigger cities but most of the time both of us don't want to drive that distance. So yeah, I use prostitutes. I'd say I fuck an ave…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:12 AM
3

Sucks when you can't get hard. Stop watching porn and reduce fapping to once a week. You'll be hard in no time. Also cut smoking. Goodluck man.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:02 AM
1

I don't get the hype about virgin girls. I've dated two virgin girls (I'm 21) and it was fucking boring. Sure.. you're the first one to hit them sugar walls but it's overrated. She feels so much pain, you have to teach her everything. Then when you break up she is not a virgin anymore and she fucks a couple of other dudes in a few months. From my experience virgin girls are just sluts who haven't met the right guy yet. Once they lose their virginity they'll just be like other girls, AWALT.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:58 AM
6

lol at cancelling on a friend for a chick
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:51 PM
14

Most girls dress like sluts in a club. I'd say atleast 80% are sluts in there, the other 20% just want to have 'fun' with their other female friends.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:11 PM
4

Just act normal.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:08 PM
2

She was laying on my bed and I was getting drinks downstairs. When I got back into my room she was calling on the bed with someone. I didn't really ask who she was calling but she was sighing. I asked her what's up and she told me she forgot her bra over at his place that day and had to go back to get it. I'm not that desperate to still hit it after knowing that.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:06 PM
6

Bro.. I've been on Tinder when I was single and none of the dates went well, I'm glad I deleted that shit. This girl... holy fuck LOL. I came over to her place and I see some drunk ass chubby dude sitting on the couch. Apparently it was her dad. So I greet him and shake his hand. The girl walks upstairs and I ask him if I should take my shoes off. You know what he said? "Might as well take your pants off too, you won't need it upstairs anyways". I was 17 back then, holy fuck that was awkward. Th…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:01 AM
7

I agree. So you've got the perfect girl but are interested in tinder sluts and one night stands? What the fuck? You sound desperate tbh.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 11:02 PM
3

If she doesn't respond to a message she's either sucking other dick or playing dumb mind games because she commented on you for not texting her. Definitely not more than plate material.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 11:00 PM
6

I agree on the studying part, it's too late for me now, don't make the same mistake OP.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:16 PM
3

I lost my virginity to one when I was 18. Same experience... she looked worse irl, decided to go with it because it was a 1hour drive. I've banged 25 hookers now and if I show up and they're ugly, I just tell them I'm not interested. But don't end up like me... you might get addicted too, it's an easy way out. I still pull girls but I am just addicted to hookers because I love fake tits and can't be bothered by females their drama. How to move on from here? Lift, stop watching porn, stop seeing …
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:19 PM
1

I had encounters with girls and couldn't get my dick up, that's when I bumped into Nofap. I fap 1-2 times a week now, with porn.. It's true, after watching porn I feel drained and foggy, usually puts me in a bad mood. I know porn is bad but sometimes I'm too horny and almost text this 5/10 girl to come over or call a prostitute. I'm done with women their bullshit for now, so that's why I don't have plates, hence the fapping sometimes. Porn is bad, I wish I could quit it. I had streaks from 60 da…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:15 PM
7

I think it's normal. The more you approach girls, the less special it gets. You don't care anymore, there is no more thrill. You realize how overrated most girls are and deep down you're losing interest, that's why those human interactions seem pointless to you. ​
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:10 PM
6

Never heard of it, decided to google it. Is it this one? https://www.reddit.com/r/CringeAnarchy/comments/6slvz8/incels_post_a_child_rapist_tinder_experiment_the/ This is just sad, deleting Tinder right now, holy shit.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:50 PM
31

To be honest... it doesn't. There are countless of threads about what to say to a girl on Tinder. I actually saw a thread once where some dude used pictures from a high SMV guy and it didn't matter what he said, girls were all over him. Then he used his own profile and said the exact same things, suddenly he was a 'creep'. So yeah, it doesn't matter what you say, if a girl is interested, she will make it easy. If she thinks you're not handsome enough, it will go nowhere 90% of the time. Being fu…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:17 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. Being angry won't fix these issues. All I can do is work on myself but it does weigh me down and make me depressed.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:38 PM
1

Thanks man, did you cut bonds with your toxic parents then?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:37 PM
3

Same to be honest.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:19 PM
3

Damn, that's so true.. but I have to be attracted to the person. Maybe that's why I always find girls but not for a LTR. Thanks though.
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:37 PM
0

- A sweet and loyal girl - Someone who doesn't have too much social media - Doesn't drink much - Has her own life/hobbies/friends - Must love sex - Nice personality ofcourse - Good family
/r/seduction09/09/18 12:43 PM
0

I'm into older women who are older. Personally I like women between the age of 28-40
/r/seduction09/09/18 12:42 PM
16

Tease her about the hair. I mean it's only 1/3'd. Blue hair is still ugly tho. If I had a LTR who did that, I'd tease her everyday until she changes it. Breaking up seems unncessessary since other than the hair color she is a good girl.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 09:47 AM
2

Don't take it personal dude. It's Tinder, most girls use it for validation. The amount of times where I got a girls number on Tinder and where she agreed to go on a date afterwards, resulting into a flake is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:48 AM
3

So you have a LTR who's good for you and she sees you dm'ing a plate, a girl you have sex with (hence a plate). She gets offended and you act like a little bitch and ignore her. Are you autistic? If your gf was a plate the thing you're doing would be alright but she's your LTR. People on this sub are a joke holy shit hahahaha
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:42 AM
2

Dude, she's your LTR. Just give her a hug, slap her ass and tell her you shouldn't have overreacted and blame it on being tired from the gym. This was your fault, you got angry for no fucking reason. It's your birthday, you have no time for this drama. Laughing at all these 'men' who would rather avoid the problem and pretend nothing happened. It's not a plate, it's your girlfriend...
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:22 PM
1

Dating a social media 'slut' never ends well.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:39 PM
3

Why the fuck do you still consider her your LTR?? Demote her to a plate and game other girls.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:36 PM
1

Hahaha same. The ugly and fat girls won't leave me alone. If I pull a pretty girl, she's psycho. Pretty girls who aren't crazy are hard to find now.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:34 PM
1

Do it for yourself, not for your friends. I have a friend and he's doing great lately. He has been studying well, eating healthy started reading, etc. But everytime he does something he takes a picture of it and posts it in the group chat. I'm happy for him but nobody cares if he reads a book, it looks like he just wants everyone to know he is reading a book. We're happy for him but your progress should be for yourself. Imagine if I would send progress pictures of me topless in the group chat, n…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:32 PM
1

Same thing happening to me. Don't take it personal, girls are on Tinder for validation or she met someone else on the app. Tinder is shit.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:24 PM
-9

I had a friend who was 23 and was fucking a 17 year old. Everyone in our group of friends laughed about it. Personally I don't care. But here on TRP I see a lot of 28+ year old guys going for 18 years old and that's disgusting IMO
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:54 AM
1

The moment you breakup once, the relationship is pretty much dead IMO. There's no trust, she will always think about that one time where you 'cheated' and other bullshit. Best to look for another girl.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:05 AM
2

I'd next her. The thoughts of her giving you STD's should be enough.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:04 AM
1

Having oneitis sucks. Writing this down is a good step for yourself. Next time when you experience it again, read this post and think to yourself 'fuck this girl, I'll go get 5 others'. Good job on improving.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:55 AM
1

I love this reply, thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:45 AM
1

I guess you didn't read the part where I explained it. Here in Belgium houses are expensive as fuck. Even renting super expensive so moving out is not an option right now. I'm still a college kid pretty much
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:04 PM
0

I had a Tinder date once. She told me that her friend had her own place where we could sleep. Plan was to watch a movie and get drinks. 2 hours before the date she texted me saying that her friends were gonna party and that I could come along. I felt like cancelling but thought to myself.. what's the worst that could happen? So I went there, had some drinks, flirted her, talked to her friends and by the end of the night we had sex. If you don't want to meet her friends, don't. If you don't care,…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:35 PM
3

I don't have specific topics. It's just whatever comes up in my mind. I remember being at a party once and I saw this cute blonde girl who looked nothing like Megan fox. I walked up to her and said 'Damnn, you look like Megan Fox'. She laughed pretty hard and said I was silly. It honestly sounds retarded but just be confident and you can say anything. You can ask for her name after that. At parties you shouldn't talk too much. Make her laugh, dance with her, grind on her, make out, escalate. Tha…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:28 PM
1

Stop fapping, stop watching porn, workout, eat healthy, sleep enough. Sex is fun with the right person. After you've had sex once you'll realize it's not a big deal. Not saying sex is overrated but when I was a virgin I expected more out of it.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:22 PM
2

Just dropped out of highschool, I'm not poor, but shit, I wish I was rich. Probably gonna join the army or work abroad so I can earn 100k a month in the oil industry.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:17 PM
1

Hahaha, my ex girlfriend did the same. She thought it was a good idea to keep on talking while it was 1am and I wanted to sleep or kept talking during movies, so annoying. Sometimes I'd just tell her to shut up. Once she started crying and the next day everything was fine and she gave me a blowjob, funny how things go. She called me everyday as well and thought I was mad when I didn't text back within 30 minutes. See it as a sign that she loves you. Just talk with her about it. She's your LTR af…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:10 PM
0

Sucks to hear that. And if it changes anything? I don't know, it depends on what you look for in a LTR. Personally I dated a girl who did the same, it drove me crazy. I'm not telling you to breakup, but having an insecure girlfriend who cries all the time sounds like a pain in the ass. Maybe she has something going on in her life that makes her cry? Talk with her about it and try to comfort her, it's not a plate, it's your LTR after all. If it bothers you, breakup.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:16 AM
1

She never showed this behavior before you decided to promote her to LTR?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:06 AM
1

I can't dance for shit, but if a girl thinks you're attractive it's a piece of cake. Just spin her around a few times and grind her, it's easy.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:52 AM
1

You try way too hard, this is definitely a troll post. Or you're either autistic.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:31 AM
2

No, I know a dude who did this. Bought this girl who rejected him a gift. It was 60 euros perfume. I actually know the girl and she told me it made him look desperate.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:29 AM
1

I think a lot of guys on asktrp lie about it yeah.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:21 AM
9

Sounds great congrats! One your ago (20) I dated a girl (18). She was a virgin too but a social media slut too. Sad how things turn out haha.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:53 PM
1

It's not odd, it's what alcohol does.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:35 PM
1

- Must stay away from all that social media bullshit - No contact with exes or hangout with guy 'friends' 1 on 1 - Must not drink too much alcohol - No drama about stupid stuff - Needs to give me personal space, I don't like clingy girlfriends - If she gets chubby, she's out There are more, I'm really picky when it comes to relationships.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:33 PM
0

Just bang a prostitute if sex is so important to you.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:24 PM
2

Who cares, just fuck them both, try to have a threesome. If they start drama, move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:24 PM
4

are u gay
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:48 AM
1

I know right. Some girls on there ask for my Insta. They have 200+ pictures, more than 1000 followers and when they see my Insta page with 10 pictures and 300 followers they think I'm uninteresting even though I have a great life and don't feel the need to take pictures of everything. It's not the kind of girls I would want to hookup with anways.. girls and social media.. it's sad nowadays.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:55 AM
1

I'm 21 myself and only have Facebook, Tinder and Instagram. I only use Facebook messenger for some group chats, Tinder sometimes when I'm bored and Insta is just there.. I barely use it though. I'm glad I don't have Twitter/Snapchat.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:53 AM
4

One of my best friends has a 5+ successful LTR. They are both confident, have sex often and don't spend 24/7 together. She has her own friends and so does he. They see each other 3-4 times a week but other than that my friend has stuff going on. His job, hanging out with friends, hobbies. They both have their own life, I think that's important.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:50 AM
1

I failed 3 years basically. Yeah you're right, I studied 'hogeschool'. I used uni though because I thought they used that term in English haha. The first year I studied Marketing, at that time I was 18 and didn't know what to study so I just picked what I thought was interesting. Ended up quitting it around February but there was a misunderstanding and I basically lost 40 of 60 studiepoints that year because there was a problem with the signing out apparently. After that I lost motivation becaus…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:15 AM
1

Here you need a degree for 3 years and a BIV number which takes another 6 months.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:01 AM
1

Degrees range between 3-8 years here. There are some apprenticeships, but it's usually in jobs with a high demand and low supply, I think it's called bottleneck jobs in English. There's a crapload of demand in IT here.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:00 AM
2

Who cares it's just an ex.. This dude sounds like a little kid though. Best to cut him off.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:51 PM
5

I always use the same technique and it's been working for me. 1) Make some witty comment about their pictures/bio 2) They'll laugh and then you can ask what they got planned for this weekend 3) They'll say what they have planned and ask what you have planned 4) Answer 'I'm quite busy. First I'm gonna hangout with friends, then workout and afterwards those drinks with you..' 5) Most of the girls answer 'Hahaha smooth' 6) Then get their number and setup the date. It's been working for me.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:49 PM
69

NoFap has it's benefits. I quit it though... being horny all day long and having sex with 5-6/10's because of it made me realize I had to fap. I fap once a week now, without porn and I feel better than I was on my 60 day streak.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:47 PM
1

Yeah, just a comment on her story where she was working.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:35 AM
3

As long as you don't pay for her food and enjoy it yourself it's not too bad though.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:27 PM
1

Definitely a troll post.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:24 PM
6

Sounds creepy.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:15 PM
1

It sounds lame. I use a lame method too but weirdly it works.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:25 PM
2

My ex did this. That's one of the reasons why she's my ex. Look for a girl who isn't a baby.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:23 PM
1

Just came here to say that I love your reddit name.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:08 AM
1

STOP TEXTING SO DAMN MUCH. You and this girl have been talking around a year now? And you recently got her number? I bet you haven't even made a move on her yet, didn't even kiss her, had sex with her, etc.. Ask this girl out and if she doesn't want to, delete her number, but I bet you won't do this. You need to stop wasting your time, holy shit, texting for over a year. Make a move on her and other girls in general.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:04 AM
1

Texting her a couple hours later = bad move. Double texting her after she didn't reply = horrible move. Honestly, I had the same thing happen to myself, well not the same, but kind of. Just move on with your life and call her next tuesday. Tell her you're going to XYZ around '' PM and she can join you for drinks. That's what I'm gonna do. If it doesn't work out with the call, just delete her number then and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:56 AM
3

Been using it on and off for a couple of years, went out with like 5 girls using this app. Probably had hundreds of matches but I only hooked up with 5 so my Tinder girl to lay ratio is pretty low. Tinder is fun if you're on the toilet/bus/train or whatever but it shouldn't be your main goal for finding girls. Girls on Tinder don't need to put in effort because they legit have hundreds of whiteknights messaging them. I've got 100+ numbers from Tinder but a lot of them flake, have no personality,…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:32 AM
1

Can't remember honestly. Started last year, had streaks ranging between 4-60 days. I barely watch porn anymore and I'm getting random boners again. Not getting morning wood though. Well, I get it sometimes. Most guys hate it, but I love it, makes me feel healthy. So yeah, fap once a week and quit porn and u should feel it
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:27 PM
1

Do it then, there's always Cialis/Kamagra.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:46 PM
5

If she flakes once, atleast 24 hours before the date I'm like 'Okay, no problem'. When she flakes more than once OR last minute I just read her message and delete her number. Calling her out will indeed make you seem butthurt, if she really wanted to see you, she wouldn't cancel anyways, that's why I either ignore or send the first message written above.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:36 PM
2

I've had whiskydick and eretyle dysfunction 2 years ago too, I was 19 back then. I know how he feels. Finally getting that sexy girl in your bed and not being able to fuck her, makes you feel insecure. As for you, OP. I suggest not making porn video games. I tried NoFap and it definitely cures ED but I think making porn games won't do you any good.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:31 PM
6

Sucks man, don't be too available, she ain't giving you anything so don't reward her. 3 Weeks without seeing her is long though so I guess one date should be fine. You can atleast try to get a blowjob from her during those 3 weeks.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:28 PM
1

I'd never date a woman who has fucked black men.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:26 PM
2

I did, no reply. Been 20 hours now, is she playing mindgames? Guess I'll move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:07 PM
2

I laughed so hard, I agree.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:33 AM
1

Do what this guy says.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:14 AM
2

Should have said 'I'm not that easy' with a smirk on your face.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:09 AM
4

It's great. Me and my brother have always been close, he's 2 years older than me. We used to play in the same baseball team and have had the same group of friends for the past 4 years. It's a group of 20 friends. Everyone is close and we do a lot of activities together. I can talk about anything but girls to my brother. He's 22 and a bit chubby. If he would get fit he could pull a crapload of girls. He has never done anything with a girl. He likes videogames too much. Other than that our relatio…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:03 AM
8

I think you did great, the girl is just a cocktease. As far as I could tell she was showing interest by cuddlin', leaning on your chest and all that stuff. Maybe you failed a bit of shit tests but who cares. I think you've learned a lot from these dates. You either win or learn and in this case you've definitely gained experience now. I agree with yamseveryday though, when she asked you to do something the next day you should have made yourself less available. Only reward a girl's good behavior.…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:52 AM
21

1) She is looking for attention 2) You're her emotional tampon 3) You're her second choice No matter how I see it, I would next her.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 06:22 AM
2

This reply is perfect, upvoted.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:48 AM
2

Good job on raising your SMV! Honestly, she sounds like a pain in the ass. Just keep working on yourself like you're doing now and find other girls who don't give you a head-ache.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:46 AM
1

This convo sounds cringe. Sarcasm over text is always a bad idea. Don't overthink it, just ignore it for now and tell her you're going somewhere next week and that she is welcome to join you.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:44 AM
27

I'm sure she has banged in the past 3 weeks though, only not with you.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:40 AM
5

That you're the prize and that she has to win you over, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:39 AM
4

Nothing worse than a social media slut. Seeking for validation means she's insecure. Personally I would only LTR girls who barely use social media.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:05 AM
2

Dude, chill, it's just a follow on Instagram. I don't want to be mean but holy shit you seem desperate.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:15 PM
8

A teacher of mine once told me the best way to get over a death in family is by having a proper goodbye. I remember when my grandfather died on my birthday and it made me depressed as fuck. But during his funeral I read a letter I wrote. There were around 200 people in the church and I was crying in front of everyone, I was 16 years old back then. But honestly.. it was a proper goodbye and I'm glad I did it, made me feel relieved. After the funeral I haven't cried once when I thought about him. …
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:20 AM
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