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foreveraloners are extreme neurotics, look at the neurosis and narcissistic self pity in that subreddit, why is this a big suprise?
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:37 AM
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Eh, i've heard that said before but i'd have to say it's like Zen for people who don't want to meditate on obscure metaphors all day, he makes it really easy to understand
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:25 AM
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look up the videos of tyler durden/ owen cook on youtube dude because you're wrong if you actually study this shit, you would realize there is no game, the idea that theirs game is anti-seduction you're going off on uneducated judgements here
/r/seduction28/03/12 04:18 AM
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No, i don't think so, here we are for the most part humble, it's similar to MMA, you can't possibly get a big ego because you get tapped out, nobody here is saying 'oh i just do this and bam it all works perfectly' as the reason we are here is the get rid of old bad habits, getting rid of old habits is much harder then making new ones, and even that is still pretty hard, even top puas do shitty sometimes, look it up there are tonnes of videos of people like 'mystery' making an idiot of himself a…
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:56 PM
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i don't exactly see why you're responding to this post, and i don't think you do either, what is your point? what dick measuring contest am i participating in? you do realize this is a subreddit dedicated to dudes who can't get laid right? me being one of those dudes? seeing a hot girl and acting nervous is purely programming, it's not absolute, it's neuroplasticity neuroplasticity is real, we are not concrete aside from things like pissing shitting etc everything can be changed, if this weren't…
/r/seduction26/03/12 11:04 PM
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if it wasn't true nice guys would be getting fucked left and right and this subreddit wouldn't have 40k subs
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:43 AM
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situation dependent if your self esteem is based on something external ex money (some mediocre businessman who looks down on bums feeling superior, but when confronted by someone richer will feel inferior)
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:37 AM
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i believe in brutal honesty, but not when it comes to telling people how to live, i don't offer advice unless someone asks, or something is on the line (eg friend with mental health problems) i find listening is something to practice, to balance this out, being a good listener will make people listen to you, as they will feel you understand them most people don't listen to well because nobody listens to them, when someone talks alls they can think of is what they want to say, let someone get all…
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:36 AM
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focus on your body and how you feel, i find this makes doing anything 'congruent' and its very unstifling, this is one of the main topics on power of now
/r/seduction21/03/12 01:59 AM
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lol is it really 600$? i'm going to check this out EDIT: ok wow, i guess they have to make money somehow but jesus fucking christ.
/r/seduction21/03/12 01:48 AM
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Yeah i've never understood neediness towards women and come to think of it this is likely the reason. girls are nastier then dudes that's for sure
/r/seduction20/03/12 02:26 AM
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positivity feeds positivity also
/r/seduction13/03/12 07:18 PM
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Don't think i'll try, i would feel like i was insulting the intelligence of the person i was 'cubing' maybe with style in the 90's, but cmon guys, it's 2012 lol, any random asshole who sees this could pull out their smart phone and show everyone.
/r/seduction10/03/12 11:08 PM
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imo self esteem is only one of the couple of things you gotta do to 'love yourself' you have to be compassionate towards yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, like yourself, and feel worthy just google how to '(whatever) yourself' and there are some fine guides out there nothing is instantaneous, nothing will instantly transform your consciousness, you have to make thought patterns habits, and unfortunately getting rid of bad habits is often harder then getting new ones
/r/seduction08/03/12 11:17 PM
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anyone who hasn't read this don't wonder why your not getting anywhere
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:37 PM
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Power of now
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:30 PM
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I have adhd, part of my brain that regulates inhibition and emotional control is smaller and stress can decrease your testosterone levels, cortisol does that (prime stress hormone) i'm an emotional guy i guess, i don't think that will go away, but i find hard exercise and meditating helps me control my emotions read the power of now, if you have adhd like i then your control over your emotions is likely less then the average person, power of now is all about that shit ** EDIT:** haha, that other…
/r/seduction08/03/12 09:54 PM
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Imagine her pooping, getting some poop on her finger by accident and sniffing it out of sheer uninhibited curiosity my auto de-pedestalization mechanism, because everyones done this
/r/seduction07/03/12 01:57 AM
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Don't give compliments on what they aren't in control of, like their face maybe their lipstick (if you go hard) or simply a shirt
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:17 AM
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Advice is tricky, have you ever had someone try give you advice on something you think you have down? in the past i used to just ignore the person while thinking 'omg i know this', if the person asks, then drop knowledge, lead by example
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:57 AM
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I was talking to my sister who deals with creepy 'nice guys' (guys who just act like friends then one day awkwardly admit they like them) and she told me that if a girl ever hugs you with a pat on the back you lost, and i told her 'i'd just tell her i'm glad we're just friends', and without even explaining what i meant she automatically knew and admitted it would probably work but it makes sense, they definitely take a bit of pride in thinking 'this guy isn't good enough for me' and when they th…
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:54 AM
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i've read something like this, that it changes how the brain works allowing you to see everything as if it were new, and this makes sense, although i experience this sober as well (if it weren't for my ability to think rationally i'd likely be depressed, anxious, no emotional control, and mildy schizophrenic, well actually i was like this a few years ago so perhaps i've just manged to contain this 'energy') when i used to smoke pot as a kid i just got all fucked up, but after i started thinking …
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:09 AM
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k well i'm truly humbled as to how i got that many upvotes for some on the spot ramblings but Fuck yes, pot tends to make me a genius, mind you i wasn't an idiot before i started smoking pot, i don't think this happens to many people though. i've only met one person in my life who has had similar experiences my sister smokes pot and is a narcissistic sociopath Joe Rogan had a good analogy for this it went something like if you give a car rocketfuel nothing will really change (or high octane fuel…
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:55 AM
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i often 'work' on ideas, and it takes me some time to 'digest' them, so i am currently brainstorming/researching, i was formerly a very timid person socially, and am experimenting regularly with different attitudes/mindsets and such, so hopefully this has merit, i've been very into this idea in regards to my musical hobbies for some time now, but have never really thought to apply it to other improvisational creative processes (in this case social behavior)
/r/seduction28/02/12 01:06 AM
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i understand now charisma is a creative output, social behavior is when you play guitar you don't identify with your guitar playing, if you did you would feel offended if people criticized your skill, if you do this, you feel pressure playing in front of people because you perceive your soul being on the line, or you can lie to yourself and tell yourself you're good, but then you wouldn't be able to improve because it would hurt to be self critical, better guitar plays make you feel bad, shitty …
/r/seduction27/02/12 11:03 PM
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Yeah, instead of giving in and getting more awkward because you're in your head dwelling on a mistake you just let go and keep going
/r/seduction25/02/12 04:10 PM
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if you don't love her don't say it, getting into a relationship with someone is a pretty big deal, if your plan is to meet many girls then do a lot of searching, instead of doing the what the commonman does, taking anything that's thrown at them
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:22 PM
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Totally goes with improvising on an instrument 'there are no wrong notes'
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:15 PM
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Is it?
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:15 PM
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if they make negative comments on your change in behavior they aren't friends, me personally i encourage and compliment change if it's positive, and am honest if it's negative, but there are definitely people who don't want to see you grow, whatever you do, let your actions don't speak, don't go telling people you've changed
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:04 PM
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I find I get this way when I start placing people on pedestals because there is potential for friendship, it's like pre-oneitis, when it's someone I know I prob won't see again I'm all socially pro, just gotta override old habits dude
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:24 AM
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oh, i was busting on my buddy because he had been dating some chick for a month and it seriously surprised me that he wasn't fucking her, as i wouldn't date a chick unless we we're already fucking for a while (weeks) i personally think fucking a chick and dating a chick are two different things, i'll fuck a hot chick, but i'll only date a girl if i like her as a person (imo fucking is no big deal). but after i just admitted who i am to talk as i haven't even been talking to girls lately, but wit…
/r/seduction15/02/12 06:48 PM
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weird thing about being honest is a lot of people have ego's they try to uphold and lie to themselves, and whenever say in a conversation i'll throw some ball busting humor, nothing personal or offensive, definitely positive intent (old buddy listened to nickelback for example), as i know i could handle it, and they'll retaliate by attacking me, but non-jokingly and i can tell they're trying to put me down, and it's always awkward weird thing is i project my mental state onto others, and when th…
/r/seduction15/02/12 05:15 AM
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protip: smoking pot alone = introspective humiliating ego crushing honesty, if you rationalize shit you do a lot, like 'i was late because my cat blah blah', pot will freak you the fuck out, but the brutal honesty you experience can be habituated, obviously it won't be as clear, but it's better then lying to yourself all day i found that after i started thinking honestly, being honest in conversation was a lot easier, more comfortable, in fact more comfortable then being dishonest, i feel uncomf…
/r/seduction13/02/12 05:18 AM
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They actually scare me now, like it fucking freaks me out.. feral people?? like wow these people should be dealt with...i mean they obviously need to be institutionalized or rehabilitated or something... it's actually pretty sad.. man what the fuck.
/r/seduction11/02/12 06:04 AM
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just considering not doing it fucks it up i read a study that showed people when buying things when they over thought what item they bought (eg should they buy it, what brand is better) they were less happier with the item I've also noticed when i really consider buying something rather then impulse buying it I'm always reminded of how i felt and i feels a bit of regret, even if the item is great i think this applies to this as well, just outright talking to someone is always way easier because …
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:29 AM
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i have magic bullets, is it really worth the read?
/r/seduction11/02/12 12:39 AM
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Ayn Rand ayn rand is just awful
/r/seduction11/02/12 12:05 AM
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i never talk to homeless people anymore, there's a reason they're homeless, it's because they're fucking crazy well here the homeless population is small, so 99% of them are literally insane i live in canada
/r/seduction10/02/12 11:57 PM
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i find the less considering whether or not you'll do it makes it easier to ride the momentum, the self doubt you experience when considering often disrupts the momentum flow because you're still not fully trusting yourself
/r/seduction10/02/12 11:56 PM
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Focus on being more assertive, and talk about things you want to talk about, at first you might go to the extreme and end up looking kind of arrogant, but you have to experiment, you can only learn from failure in this situation, but the plus side is the more mindful and conscientious you are the faster you learn. perception of learning is key, you can reflect on the situation and think about how awkward it was and what the other person was thinking, or you can think about what you did wrong, co…
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:46 PM
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Amen, lately Ive been trying to speak clearer and louder, and be more assertive and sometimes i stop giving a fuck to the point where it can be perceived as douchey, so i completely understand what you're saying, I'm still trying to find balance, you guys have to try change it up until you find the sweetspot.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:44 PM
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Clothes aren't that expensive if you shop online for deals with coupon codes if you're spending over 50$ on shirts you're getting ripped off hard here in Canada free shipping deals from the US are a gift from god
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:28 PM
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read the inner game tab, if you're feeling pain over rejection that means your ego is getting in the way, read the power of now, it will break down how to disassociate your ego from you're pursuits
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:39 AM
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i deleted my post nvm guess not, fuck it i'll leave it upbecause i don't feel i have the authority to say shit because i'm still a virgin, but hey i can actually talk to girls and people now with outcome independence (most of the time) inner game is just thought habits, change your negative thoughts to positive thoughts, it feels fake at first but it works.. whenever a negative thought comes up, replace it with a positive thought, soon positive thoughts start coming up instead, also meditate (gi…
/r/seduction09/02/12 01:53 AM
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i'm curious as to why how you've been here for a year and haven't yet considered inner game might be your problem? that was the first thing i started dealing with, it's only been about a month and my inner state has increased tenfold read the power of now.. i'm not old enough to get into bars, and i'm only 18, so i'm in a tricky situation, though i don't believe this makes it impossible for me to get laid, but every 20+ year old i've talked to get's surprised when i tell them i'm 18, pretty shit…
/r/seduction09/02/12 01:36 AM
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what i meant, you can make everything seem boring or you can make it seem insane, it's all how you feel about it, you can make skydiving boring fuck
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:08 PM
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so crazy how they just babble nonsense and get them all wired up, it's all self belief, what you say means shit
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:00 AM
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if you really think about it are others peoples lives not boring? seriously, most people live pretty boring mediocre lives
/r/seduction26/01/12 02:53 AM
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could be iron deficiency
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:12 AM
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Meditating is great, even when i only have 10 minutes to get ready for something i turn on some Wu and relax while doing my shit, and i'm usually in panic mode
/r/seduction23/01/12 09:33 PM
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lol? being narcissistic is the opposite of becoming vulnerable and showing your personality
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:39 PM
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How much does a polar bear weigh? enough to break the ice.
/r/seduction22/01/12 06:02 AM
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don't take it too seriously, most dudes an there do it to the extreme so you'll stand out
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:32 AM
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Visualize Success if You Want to Fail For many years we've heard that visualizing our success is key to attaining it--but an intriguing study conducted in 2011 indicates otherwise. Researcher published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology suggests that not only is positive visualization ineffective, it's counterproductive. A practice proffered to help us succeed may do just the opposite. During the course of four experiments, researchers demonstrated that conjuring positive fantasies…
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:49 AM
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by visualizing failure you should be able to see that it's no big deal because it really isn't http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/thinking-about-kids/201201/why-do-daydreamers-fail i have ADHD, and am very experienced in the art of procrastination, and mental masturbation, i mentally masturbate with everything, not as much as i used to, but when i get homework i imagine myself getting great marks and diligently dedicating time to it, 100% of the time i end up saving it for the last minute and s…
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:39 AM
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visualizing success tricks your brain into thinking you did it, leaving you satisfied, i read a study on this recently, stop it, don't ever imagine yourself doing anything if you saw a pair of skates and you hadn't skated before would you read about it then imagine yourself doing it while being scared of trying it? no the only way to get results is to go out an approach, if you're inner game is in shape, and you know you can handle rejection, go for it, it will be awkward if you go in thinking '…
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:17 AM
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check out rsdnation, it kind of digs into figuring out how to be yourself more, and how to be more relaxed, and how to ease into that non anxious state where conversation flows and you make everyone comfortable, that's what you should focus on
/r/seduction19/01/12 01:23 AM
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Twas
/r/seduction18/01/12 01:23 AM
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you can die any time
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:31 PM
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mindful meditation helps facilitate the process of ridding anxious thoughts for all you readers, being consciously aware that you're thoughts are just thoughts is amazing because it stops you're uncontrollable thoughts from controlling your emotions
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:23 PM
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so much blame is put on the men for one night stands, fuck this culturally influenced mentality, a women expecting a relationship out of a one night stand is rude a guy pretending to date a girl and kissing her on the third date banging her and leaving her is also rude nobody is at fault, most people have the social skills to understand what someone wants
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:05 PM
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do you have an ipod touch? or e reader? google 'no more mr nice guy epub' find a download link then import it to the stanza app on your ipod/e reader voila free books 80% of books are on the internet in pdf or epub, if its in pdf you can convert it with calibre
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:46 PM
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imo the deadline is death
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:17 PM
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when 'interviewing' throw in your own bullshit when the time comes, like they'll answer the question, then just say something that happened to and make it funny 1'what school do you go to" 2'derp high' 1'oh shit i heard that school was blah blah, im currently going to blah blah, how do you like it?' get it? don't just ask questions, make sure you know your opinions matter, when you're truly interested in someone you forget about 'i'm getting to know this person' you just get absorbed into the co…
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:59 PM
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depends on what kind of people you want in your life if you want boring people, act boring if you want exciting happy funny people you get it
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:50 PM
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to be interesting you have to be interested
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:46 PM
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i find foul bachelorrete frog does the trick well.
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:48 AM
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kind if an obscure study to find, when i find it i'll be sure to reply, i'm constantly reading psychology articles (i smoke pot) so it'll turn up soon this is actually bothering me quite a bit if you find it post it here, anyone, fuck
/r/seduction16/01/12 02:34 PM
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i read some study that said feelings of connection are established by how much you think someone knows you rather than how much you know someone, makes sense though if you think about it
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:34 AM
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the bible is full of mad wisdom, i'm looking for king james og just to read that shit for pleasure, mind you i'm athiest/agnostic
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:25 AM
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get an ipod touch 8gb, they're cheap now, can find one used for 150, foxconn is having problems they will likely not get cheaper get stanza, and DOWNLOAD ALL THE BOOKS you miss out on the ego trip of having a book, but it's worth it.
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:19 AM
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whenever you find your inner monologue yapping a lot, practice mindful meditation (basically just resolving thoughts) it stops you from unconsciously thinking about shit it's extremely underrated, and it makes you more present, i enjoy music more, enjoy food more, enjoy talking more
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:57 AM
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This. think working out, muscles tear and get stronger when they heal
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:48 AM
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what podcast pal?
/r/seduction10/01/12 03:59 AM
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