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Hey, first I just want to say I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. It takes a lot of honesty and courage to reflect on your identity and talk openly about it, so please don’t be too hard on yourself. A lot of people go through phases of figuring themselves out, and it doesn’t make your experience any less valid or real. Since you mentioned wanting to feel more feminine again, I’ll share a few styling tips that might help a bit day-to-day. These aren’t rules or expectations, just small ideas…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 04:33 PM
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I did the big chop in 2021 and felt boyish so I made sure to put on earrings, hair accessories, head bands/ scarves, etc plus a bit of makeup adds a feminine look
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 03:04 AM
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Oh very much so. I like a fool tired to help him but he doesn't want help. He's confused about his sexuality but from what everything he has told me he always liked women. Either way he needs to figure that out himself while I heal from the pain that he's caused
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 06:09 PM
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The thing was wild was he said even though our relationship was great and we loved each other he needed a rush to get off. He asked me to do things with others in front of him, he's not a long term stable person to be in relationship with let alone married as clearly he has a sex addiction in my opinion. I'm glad this happened now before we would have gotten married and found out 5 years in. I will update my progress in a while but I need some time to grief
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:03 PM
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It was the fact I did those things for him that hurts and it still wasn't good enough, but that's his problem. I'm not going to attach his issues on to me. I'm still going to apply everything I've learned from here am very appreciative because I have grown alot. I might have to edit my post a bit tho lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 07:32 PM
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He has a terrible porn problem and think that it did something to him however that's his problem, not mind. He masterbating habits got bad and I noticed a while back. I was trying to help him due to my own personal battle but I don't think he was going to change it
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 07:24 PM
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I know. I can admit I'm bi however I don't cheat, plus I want a husband
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 06:39 PM
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Oh I'm not going back to him. That just is asking for trouble right there
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 06:30 PM
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Mutual friends. Yes I met and loved his family but he didn't have friends which was weird to me but he told me how friends played him and how women cheated and left, I just thought he was jaded. We talked about everything but I slowed down the conversation after a while because I needed to focus on school right (lost a few jobs a couple months back, caused a bit of depression). We did do gifts but not for all occasions, mostly cooked nice dinner or homemade cards because I can draw. We lived wit…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 06:28 PM
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Non everything was really good actually and was feeling on cloud 9 that night. My old phone looks like his new phone and I grabbed because I have old artwork on there I wanted to view. Opened it to find dating apps😒 heart fell in my gut. I confronted him and he admitted to everything, everything went down hill from there on out
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 06:01 PM
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He explained that is bi and loves the look of women but the penis is a bonus. This feels like a bad romcom lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 05:56 PM
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I'm not but I wished he told me this because I never knew until a few days ago. I do know it's a him thing not me but it's still embarrassing to know I fell in love with a gay man lol the thing is he keeps saying he's not gay because it's with transgender women however they are bio men my guy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 05:52 PM
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Yeah I'm beginning to see this but I'm going to take it day by day 😁
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 04:35 PM
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I have depression from time to time however the birth control really put me in a really, really dark place. You are right however, I can't blame everything on it and have to choose how to behave. The thing is this has been really a new thing as far as my mood, I've been really good at dealing with my mood and distancing myself if necessary to not be a grumpy person to him yet I have been randomly more annoyed. Actually writing this it seems like Im just needed a self adjustment
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 07:16 AM
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Wow I needed to see this thread. I just got off the mini pill due to really bad depression and dark thoughts, 17 days without it has been rough but pushing thru
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 07:34 AM
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I actually like to wear skirts (gym skirts with built in shorts, pockets) to feel more girly lol. But in this weather mostly cute gym leggings with cute designs, long sleeve tops with gloves and tees. The only problem I have is most of my gym clothes are black, gray, I need more color
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 10:03 PM
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I know for me I was a very independent woman because of how my father did my mother and family. I found out that day my father left all men were not leaders....well I kinda thought all men, plus every woman in my family telling me men weren't trustworthy and cheaters didn't help. I learned that these women just picked terrible men and had children with them so it was them making silly decisions. I think a lot of women have had similar things happen where from a young age they are taught to not s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 03:22 PM
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?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 06:04 PM
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Mostly, yes
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 05:37 PM
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It is unfortunately however that was a very smart decision. I have been off Instagram for over a year now so I honestly might just take the plunge and get rid of everything for now.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 03:47 PM
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This! I met alot of these said people years ago in my rebel days anyways, I have grown from that person and am a more healthy version of myself so it would be for the best to do a mass purge of friends or just get rid of social media it's self. Luckily my close personal friends I hang out with are very similar thinking to me and have always supported me so I honestly shouldn't be taking the social media stuff to heart, honestly tho It does suck in a way because I really liked some of these peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 06:08 AM
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This ain't it my guy😂
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:41 AM
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I don't think it's anything wrong with sleeping in separate rooms. Me and my partner do for the fact that we get better rest to be able to be productive. A full night's rest is important
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 01:09 AM
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Not a fan. Tired to listen to a few of her videos however I saw a few videos and it seems more criticizes women a lot and pointing the finger yet never no push back when it comes to the men no matter what they say. Honestly she makes it seem like if you're over 30, have a kid, tattoos, etc it's too late for you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 11:04 PM
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Damn ....you know I really needed to hear this. I'm going to kinda fall back and do my best to support him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 04:22 AM
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Well it's his end and life related to my understanding. We have been in a good place lately too but he's been getting hit with all types of bills, work related issues and now car trouble on top of lack of sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 07:55 PM
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Your not afraid of catching anything? The possibility of him catching feelings for another woman? Unwanted children? I'm not being funny but these are genuine concerns
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:55 PM
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That makes sense however I'm noticing alot of average men on his platforms telling women to share men in general, it's not even the 20%. Another thing I want to point out (and if I'm wrong for saying this I will take full responsibility) but I'm a African American woman, I'm noticing that alot of my race of men are increasingly saying that women should allow their men to get some on the side, become poly or get a sister wife but most of these men really are lower level and possibly just want the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:13 AM
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That makes sense. The thing I've noticed is a lot of Toyota/honda men in the comments agreeing on men having multiple women. I definitely agree with the HV/ Lambo man will be most likely to ' exercise his options' but lots these guys believe they are HV for some odd reason
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 01:13 AM
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Understandable. We've talked since that and I firmly yet femininity explained how I felt, how his behavior made me feel, he apologized for his behavior and owned it as a man. We are in a better headspace now :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 04:40 AM
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No you are right, I was taken back by this. I will talk to him about this once he is back from his families home, should have done it then and there however we both had a lot going on yesterday
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 07:11 PM
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Well he's a rushy person, when he's ready to go he is literally ready to go. So I've learned to be ready early because of this. I admit that I was taken back by his response tho
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 05:20 PM
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