koochkooch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Clear intent vs neediness	koochkooch	/r/seduction	12/05/13 12:37 PM
11	What is the one tip on kino you have found to be most effective?	koochkooch	/r/seduction	12/05/13 06:35 AM
4	Difficulty connecting with women	koochkooch	/r/seduction	26/04/13 04:37 AM
3	The importance of failure and developing a backbone	koochkooch	/r/seduction	01/04/13 02:07 AM
1	Surefire Kino Escalation Tips: 6 Types Of Kino Touching That Will Turn Women On Super Fast	koochkooch	/r/seduction	04/05/13 06:28 AM
1	Resources for cultivating humor skills	koochkooch	/r/seduction	07/05/13 08:57 AM
0	A sudden realisation	koochkooch	/r/seduction	15/05/13 03:34 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Disappointed at my first try, failed miserably... Little successes like making the effort to go out and approach will eventually lead to a habit and that habit will get you where you want to be. Consistency is key	/r/seduction	25/01/14 07:56 AM
2	Non-neediness is a very important attribute to have and to convey. buys its better to BE something than to be NOT something. What is a synonym for non-needy? I think being desireless is both unhealthy and ineffective. If you were truly desireless, then you would not be attracted to women, and thus you would be going against your own intrinsic masculine nature. Second, expressing desire to women in a non-needy way is the most attractive thing you can do. It is what women crave. "The biggest aphrodisiac in the world is someone who likes you and isn’t afraid to show it."- Mark Manson. Read this	/r/seduction	25/01/14 04:45 AM
13	Need some help with this "needy" vibe I feel I have. Realise why you're trying to be non-needy. Is it because you are investing more in the opinions of others about you, rather than the your opinions about you? Is it because you feel that beautiful women are inherently more valuable than you? Is it because you feel that your own thoughts, feelings and opinions are not worthy enough to be respected by others? Is it because you feel that you are inherently less worthy of respect and admiration than others? Think about these questions carefully. You …	/r/seduction	25/01/14 04:40 AM
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] Agree with the point on focusing on your weakness. Unhappy = focus on inner game. Lacking social interaction skills = focus on outer game.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:24 AM
1	If you could give 5 tips on being more outcome independent what would be the highest ones on the list. The whole idea of qualifying revolves around 5 words: "I wonder what she's like?" You are essentially asking her questions to see whether she fits your standards. You are making her prove herself to you. Examples of qualifying questions would be "do you cook?" "what are you most passionate about?" "Why did you decide to do that profession?" The key is to challenge her on her statements. Make her work to prove herself to you. For example, You: "what do you do?" Her: "I'm a dentist." You: "Why did…	/r/seduction	16/05/13 03:06 AM
24	Serious question - men who cleaned up their life and became awesome, what were the biggest things that helped you? Being more present in conversations/life and not resisting my emotions - see r/meditation Doing things I'm genuinely proud of e.g. exercise, yoga, ice hockey, studying to become a doctor, socializing on a regular basis, listening to trance and drum n bass, calling my mother to ask how her day has been, having a balanced lifestyle, reading seddit etc. Being more assertive - asserting my needs. Saying 'no' when I don't want something, and not being afraid or feeling guilty asking for something tha…	/r/seduction	14/05/13 08:52 AM
3	The key to mastering the game in five words Express intent and be present	/r/seduction	14/05/13 05:49 AM
2	How do you keep girls hooked on your conversation Be excited about what you're talking about.	/r/seduction	13/05/13 10:45 AM
11	If you could give 5 tips to anyway about seduction and inner game what would be the 5 highest ones on the list I fucking love this thread! What an awesome idea! There's just too many on my mind so I'm going to add more than 5 Fucking trust yourself - don't be afraid of failing, getting rejected, looking like an idiot or anything else. Trust your mental capcity, trust your ability to achieve the goals you set for yourself, dare to completely trust yourself. Love yourself - this is probably the most important statement in the history of mankind. Have a fucking life - pursue hobbies that fucking interest yo…	/r/seduction	13/05/13 08:04 AM
3	[FR] First night out after mutual breakup F-close x2 interesting style of kino for sure. I would've thought something that simple would backfire e.g. "why are you squeezing my hands?"	/r/seduction	12/05/13 05:59 AM
1	Becoming a better communicator I think its largely to do with a lack of presence. That is such an important word. Seriously. Being present with another person, really listening to them (I mean REALLY listening to them) is one of the keys to feeling that sense of connection. The thing about technology is that it affects the way we focus our attention - there is so much information coming from so many different sources that our minds become primed to always wander and not focus on one thing at a time. The good news? There is a …	/r/seduction	12/05/13 05:56 AM
15	Becoming a better communicator I think the problem you're experiencing is a struggle to connect with people. Its good to avoid interview-type questions and delve into emotional topics such as the other persons passions, interests and hopes etc. Also, you should set the frame of the conversation by talking about what you're passionate about, what interests you and what your ideal future would look like. By making yourself vulnerable first, you give the other person a chance to relate to you and to open themselves up a little.	/r/seduction	12/05/13 02:41 AM
1	My problem with Seddit is everything is over thought. This is the best and only advice you will ever need Movies do not always reflect reality. Its not just a matter of "going up and talking to her" - there are a lot of subtle complexities in between. You need to understand who you are as a person, you need to feel complete as a person without a woman in your life, you need to have a lifestyle that makes you feel happy/fulfilled, and you need to understand the importance of expressing your intent clearly and immediately. In other words, you need to be completely authentic - if you're attracted to a …	/r/seduction	11/05/13 01:42 AM
3	How to get over talking to women in front of people? Isolate isolate isolate.	/r/seduction	11/05/13 12:28 AM
15	New Stanford research on speed dating examines what makes couples 'click' in four minutes tldr; to increase liklihood of connecting with women: use appreciative language ("That's awesome" or "Good for you") and sympathy ("That must be tough on you"). interrupt her occassionally and demonstrate understanding by finishing a sentence or adding to it Make her the focus of the conversation don't ask a lot of questions - instead show understanding by listening to her and giving your opinion about her situation if she tells you a story, share a similar experience you had show enthusiasm by …	/r/seduction	07/05/13 08:45 AM
2	How do you remove neediness from your life? Your problem is social comparison. Focus on your own experience and you will reduce the insecurity.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 12:06 PM
4	Podcasts/Audiobooks For inner game stuff: Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden [Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon-Kabat Zinn] (http://www.amazon.com/Wherever-You-There-Are-Mindfulness/dp/1593976216/ref=tmm_abk_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1365506864&sr=1-1). The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida Daring Greatly - How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead The Power of Habit And a TEDTalk playlist entitled "A better you" Also +1 for pickup podcast - here is their 'bes…	/r/seduction	09/04/13 11:44 AM
1	Useful seduction facts. re: point 2 - what if she's smart AND pretty?	/r/seduction	29/01/13 07:21 AM