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| 1 | Bar approach advice please!Openers don't matter. However the fact that you think that your opener is creepy and aren't being confident with what you're saying is the problem. | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 08:13 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/23/13A follow up comment from tonight, I found that girls were a lot more receptive at the bar. I spent the first portion of the night doing some dancefloor game, and although I didn't get many good sets, the best ones did come from whatever felt most natural for me at the time as opposed to what I observed others do well with. The second portion of the night was mainly focused on sets at the bar. Didn't really get a momentum going initially because I was out by myself and thus far haven't put enough… | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 06:40 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/23/13If you start grinding with a random girl on the dance floor you're going to be judged no matter what, it's all about how you react to that judgement. If you show no shame and project confidence of your intentions through your body language and vibe when you approach a girl while, she will be much more attracted to you. However, the dancefloor is a big numbers game. All those guys you see hooking up with girls on the dancefloor probably approached 5-10+ girls before finding the right one. You hav… | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 10:28 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/23/13A follow up to your answers: If I'm by myself in the set with a group of girls, and they are moving around the venue. To what degree should I try to take the lead, and to what degree should I follow the group. It should be noted that I follow a sort of hyperfocused style described/used by rsd julien, and I am working on incorporating the group as a whole. The 2 main venues I go to for night game is mostly dance focused, one of the venue is a dance club, with no real bar to speak of. My point of … | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 10:25 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/23/132 Questions: I'm getting better at opening sets now during night game, but when should I start investing in a set, time-wise? When I approach on the dancefloor, I notice that almost all of the girls that end up hooking up with guys on the dancefloor start by being grinded. When I do it though, I still feel like I'm being judged. How can I get in a more self-amusing, free from outcome state of mind in this kind of scenario | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 09:42 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/15/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Good answer. Are there any advice/tips I should know about heading into one of those venues? | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 11:29 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/15/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I have been following RSD Brad's guide to approaching on the dancefloor at clubs http://www.bradbranson.com/how-to-talk-to-women-on-the-dance-floor/ (medium low lighting, not necessarily a "true" dance club), and it's going pretty well. But will the same thing work in a dance club environment, like an EDM club? | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 11:07 PM |
| 0 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!Damn, you really got me considering hitting bars on a more regular basis. What is your split between day game and night game? | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:14 PM |
| 1 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!I find myself relying on day game a lot more over night game. For me personally, I find it a lot easier to open a girl when she's by herself, such is usually the case during day game, whereas I tend to have a lot of trouble opening groups. As well, I like to follow an overarching "script" while improvising the small details so when I adopted day game model by Mark Mason, I found it to be right up my alley. However, what I'm wondering is that I tend to think of my reliance on day game (girls by t… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 07:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 30 seconds from approach to k-closeTry RSD, there's a video explanation on it | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 08:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] College student - k-closed HB9 on the dance floorSo what about on the dance floor at a club? One of my main sticking points is that i really don't know how to open on the dance floor. People say the whole "try to catch the girl's attention" bit but that never really works. it almost seems like the only way to open a girl on the dance floor is to go up and grind them. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 03:42 AM |
| 3 | [FR] College student - k-closed HB9 on the dance floorDon't think of this as I'd judging or anything, but is it a good idea to open a girl on the dance floor by coming up to them, grabbing them and start grinding? How well does it work? | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 06:51 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Do you guys at rsd specifically daygame? How do you compare the girls you meet on daygame vs nightgame? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Since writing our top post on relationships, “My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the Girl,” I’ve helped a lot of Sedditors via PM. I’m now a professional dating coach specializing in relationships. AMA!Wanna give a huge props, your original post was super useful to me, I would definitely read more of your material. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 10:12 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)"Excuse me." (grab her attention first) "Who are you?/What's your name?" I've used that so many times at parties, clubs or even on the streets, and only once or twice did I get a negative response. It works almost all the time as an opener during night game | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 07:35 AM |
| 2 | How to approach in noisy and packed clubs?A lot of people, including pua's, shy away from the dancefloor, opt to approach girls in the bar/lounge area. I found if I'm not finding much success on getting eye contact with girls, I can approach them at another area later. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 03:54 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I don't mean intentionally making someone feel bad. I mean if say I'm upset with a girl, should I let her know how I feel, creating negative emotions. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 09:29 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)A lot of pua suggests that making a girl feel emotions is the best way to keep them. Does this apply only to positive emotions, or any emotions? | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/21/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I guess the natural follow up to this is how do you try to establish eye contact, especially on the dance floor? I still feel like i should have a way of getting her attention first. | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 06:06 PM |
| 13 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/21/13 (please upvote - zero karma)A lot of people seem to suggest the best way to approach a girl on the dance floor is make eye contact with her first. I really feel like the chances of her proactively making eye contact with you in a club is low as hell, factor in the dim lighting and that whole routine is next to impossible. I feel like the best way to go about this is to (of course, you must be dancing and having fun first, instead of just walking up to her like a stalker) make physical contact with her first (I tend to go w… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I've recognized the problem but I honestly don't know how to act. Zero confidence is plaguing my life.This might not be some profound, eye opening tactic that will change your life, but look at the traits/characteristics of confident individuals successful in the game and adopt those characteristics in your life. In other words, who cares if you have no confidence, fake it. Trust me when I say this, it's not about faking it until you make it, it's about faking it until you BECOME it (heard this phrase from a ted talk on body language on this subreddit. One of the truest sayings I've heard). Adop… | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Closing/escalating on Gigs/concertsIf you met her early on in the night, get her number and set up for something later in the night or for a date. There isn't much you can do beyond that early on in the night. Like you said, the girls are there for the show, don't make them feel like they have to choose. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 06:01 PM |
| 2 | I am Arash Dibazar - Master PUA and Coach of the Year for 2012. AMAWhat are your thoughts on starting kino with a handshake vs a hug when you first meet a girl? Also, I don't know if you do daygame or not, but very often people (myself included) will have a handshake as the only part of kino interaction. Do you think that's enough? | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Finding it hard/impossible to k/f close.sure, why not? | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Finding it hard/impossible to k/f close.Something I do that yields great results for me is I ask them if they trust me, then tell them to close their eyes and kiss them. It works very well both as seeing how open she is, as well as playing with her emotions a bit. But otherwise, the fundamental is this: escalate, gauge her reaction, and adapt. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Avoid Any “Awkward Silence” With This 1 Bizarre Trickhas potential. Besides, I always like to remain fun and playing games with girls. I might try this out on my next date. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Night game openers"Hey, what's your name?" and "You look fun, how's it going?". Honestly, I feel like almost anything works. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Is there a right/wrong way to go for #-close to up the chances of seeing her again? Also a k-close trick that's worked well for me.If you want to take everything so seriously and assume the worst of every situation with women, this might not be for you | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there a right/wrong way to go for #-close to up the chances of seeing her again? Also a k-close trick that's worked well for me.Well, I like to go by the adage of "always assume attraction", so if the girl hasn't walked away from me, I'll assume that she's not ready for a kiss yet. If this happens, I try to poke fun, say something like "You're just like my 6th grade girlfriend" or something. You want to show her that you're not taking her rejection so seriously, and if you're me, you assume it's going to happen sooner or later anyways, so it really doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so difficult to stay on top of my game when in an actual relationship?Keep going out, don't k-close or f-close (that's my suggestion, you can do whatever you want), but keep going out and gaming. It helps keep your game up, so you don't fall into that "well I got a girl now, time to give up" mentality, and you are still constantly striving towards improving your game. Also, don't forget: the GF is still a lady, and you must keep seducing her. | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Is there a right/wrong way to go for #-close to up the chances of seeing her again? Also a k-close trick that's worked well for me.Oh a note related to texting and setting up a date, is this a good guidline? http://www.bradbranson.com/an-easy-text-message-method-for-setting-up-the-first-date/ | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Daygame: Three Opener Scenarios in CollegeNegging is so... outdated. Teasing a girl shows that you're playful and fun, while a neg just seems mean-spirited. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 04:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: Warm up sets are amazing, do them. 2 K-closes.Yep | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 09:50 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/26/2012What are some good ways of isolating on the dance floor? Generally how long should I dance for before isolating? | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 06:02 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012This might be more of an opinion question: but what do you guys feel are the best scenes for sarging in terms of daygame, parties and clubs? I try to do all three, but due to a busy schedule, often times I have to choose only one. So which should I pick to make the most out of my limited time? | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I make a better approach on the dance floor?I think one of my problems when I starting going to clubs is that I never realized that approaching on the dance floor was completely different than approaches off it, so it was clear that I was pretty unsuccessful at it. To get better, I did a lot of digging around, on this subreddit as well as other boards, and what I found really helped me. First of all, start dancing. If you see a girl you like, make your way towards her, all the while dancing and having fun. When you're where she can see yo… | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:00 PM |
| 6 | 2 questions: how to approach in loud club, and how to approach at a house partyIf you're approaching on the dance floor, you don't really need to say anything: If you're approaching someone who isn't looking at you, give a light tap on the arm, then hold out your hand/reach for their hand for a dance, you'll know she's interested. If she is looking at you, just do the same thing. As for off the dance floor, I've never really had a problem with this, just close the gap between you two. And for parties, I think opening normally is fine. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Girl I met on okcupid is already telling me that she "misses me".Just tell her? So much of this subreddit is about being confident, and direct with your feelings, why don't you try that? | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find A LOT of PUA video content? I learn best from watching, not reading.Sasha Daygame is probably my favorite | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Best way to go for a k-close?Funny thing is, I used to just go for it, I don't know why things have changed, but thank you for the advice. To follow up on this, what are some ways to "recover" if the girl does not return the gesture? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?"ill show you a magic trick, gimme your hand" You can frame this in a number of ways: i like doing something like I'm jokingly trying to impress them. Something like: "I'm not trying to impress you, but I'm a magician." | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What is your favorite outer-game technique?Palm reading. I did a post on this a little bit back, and in my experience it has worked well, mainly in day game/date settings. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 07:25 PM |
| 2 | A fun game that you can play. Could use some testersSo far, yes. However, keep in mind I only came up with this last night, and only used on 2 girls on my way to a local hangout with friends. Also, im in 1st year univeristy, so the demographic is probably skewed. That's why I'm encouraging other sedditors to try this and post their results | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Funny Stories in Pickup - Here's mine. Tell me yoursA girl told me she was engaged to an Australian cricket player. Damn shame, she was cute too. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Cologne for a 21 year old college guy who does not know what is good out thereBoss selection is super awesome. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Some general advice to guys just starting with this stuff from a "Veteran"On the subject of the girlfriend thing, someone posted a great video by RSD Tyler on the subject and how to deal with it a while back. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | New Upcoming Workshop TorontoThat shit ain't healthy. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Some thoughts on #close.Exactly. While having her ask for your number is a sure IOI, at the end of the day, what matters is if there's enough attraction for her to want to see you again, who asked for the number isn't as important. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Small talk. How do I master it?This might sound silly, but there are some topics on Askreddit that could make for great conversational topics. For example, there was a thread yesterday that asked what outrageous thing you would do if you were obscenely rich. Generally, I personally try to talk about a) situational topics that might be interesting or relevant to their interests, i.e. "That bear just totally set fire to that orphanage" or b) topics that tells me something about the person I'm talking to, while giving me opportu… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Truth or dare, one of my favorites. Guarantee some fun, plus teasing if her questions/dares are weaksauce. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Can't get over my raceIf you dont think its a problem, then there is no problem. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Are white knights overwhelming Seddit?The way I look at it is this: this subreddit gives you the power to pickup women, but it's your choice how you wish to use that power. Everyone might have different opinions on what to do in a certain situation, but the important thing is to focus on the act of the pickup itself, not some ethical/moral dilemmas that surrounds it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 02:56 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] We are not spamming you.Does anyone know what that website was? | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How do I Kino? [Tried the sidebar, link is dead] and Other Fun Questions.http://www.filestube.com/4cIbCz5njugXf0HCMqvSR4/DiCarlo-Escalation-Ladder-Vindicarlo.html It has a preview, so you can kinda read off that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I Kino? [Tried the sidebar, link is dead] and Other Fun Questions.http://www.filestube.com/4cIbCz5njugXf0HCMqvSR4/DiCarlo-Escalation-Ladder-Vindicarlo.html | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Some tips for beginnersOne thing I would suggest is to go a bit further on the first and second day, something like "My name is Tofutofu, nice to meet you." and a smile. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Use this technique to reduce approach anxiety before going out!Oh c'mon man, it's a simple mistake. Give it a west wil ya? | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Use this technique to reduce approach anxiety before going out!I was feeling shitty after making a stupid mistake on a test. After watching your video I actually do feel a lot more at east, thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 08:15 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First night out; Pool party - Truth or Dare - Threesome (long)+1 for the direct opener, I've so far only used the in day game, and I've been yearning to try it in a party type situation. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 07:09 PM |
| 17 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.Bow ties are cool. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Something everyone should know about approaching: It's not very hard at all. A simple [FR].I'm pretty sure the show's entire demographic would jump his bone given the chance. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Something everyone should know about approaching: It's not very hard at all. A simple [FR].Oh stop it you :) I feel it's not about the looks, it's more about how you carry yourself. To give you a comparison, before I discovered Seddit I would have NEVER done what I did yesterday. Maybe it it won't be the same as me, but by just being confident, you can bet that girls will be more responsive towards you, and you WILL be more attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 01:35 AM |
| 23 | Do women find intelligence attractive?If you are passionate about it, it is very powerful. An example I would use is Neil deGrasse Tyson: I personally have never thought astrophysics to be something that I would be personally interested in, but after hearing Mr. Tyson talk about it with such passion, I found that I was beginning to be drawn towards it as well. So yes, intelligence is attractive, but you can't be showing off your intelligence for the sake of impressing a woman, but rather be genuinely passionate about the topics you … | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Day game?watching sasha's day game helped me a lot when I first started day game. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Making a moveRead that comment, then the name. Oh god. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite cologne?I use Hugo Boss Selection: it's got a very musky, mysterious smell that goes well for night game. I also use Armani Sport cologne during the day, it's very casual smell. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Changed my "job," got a great response.Are you also a backup for the blue man group? | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 12:56 PM |
| 5 | As some one with pretty low self-esteem. How do I know what girls are " in my league "This is all that needs to be said. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 01:30 AM |
| -1 | My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough?I would say my way of opening is very similar to yours. Say if I see a girl I'm interested in at a library studying, I will usually go up to her and introduce myself or say hi, then I'll make a comment, ask questions on what she's doing there, and try to get a conversation going and see how things go from there. From some of the comment, it seems that I see this type of situational openers as more of a transition or topic of conversation, not an actual opener. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 12:38 AM |
| -8 | My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough?I do love situational openers as well, it seems more like a topic of conversation to me, not an opener per se. But yeah, I almost forgot that one, thanks for reminding me. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 12:24 AM |
| -11 | My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough?Well, from my perspective, it's more of a "this is the only thing I do" kinda deal so I can't really compare it to any other types of openers. But I suppose it works well enough for me, I just can't compare to anything else. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 12:19 AM |
| -3 | My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough?I can't attest to anything based on the fact that I haven't tried anything else, so I can't really give an unbiased answer. But that's why I'm asking, to get some opinions from other people :) | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 11:36 PM |
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