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Discussionkopdjernigan/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:56 AM
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I’ve read models too and it really is a philosophy that helped me out in dating and credit it a good bit for why I’m in a good relationship today. I do know he says some cringy advice but I think he is great for an average guy really seeking a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:43 PM
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I’m a bit tidier than my fiancee, can’t stand to see dishes pile up nor dust accumulating. And things need a proper place to be in. But then she’s more organized
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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They definitely are on discord we have some on the servers. The issue is that too many people think femcel=incel when they are more like volcels which are also different to incels. Femcels are just a type of volcel. And this is me talking as a former volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:06 PM
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Hi eastuss! And this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:46 PM
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Hello come have fun with me on discord 😚
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:08 PM
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I only like DoorDash because so many restaurants don’t have easy takeout options online. For delivery tho? Fuck that I’m a hater too 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:58 AM
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Are you looking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:05 PM
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Sometimes it can take a few moments to really appreciate someone’s look. She may not have noticed you initially for one reason or another. You approaching her gives you a chance to make them think about it or not. Make her turn her maybe into a yes or no. If she says no you got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:15 PM
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What as someone who participates there every once as a whole to dissuade black and red pillers I’ve never had this happen to me.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 05:10 PM
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Your dms are off but dm me so I can see if it’s the same one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:19 PM
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115 people? Very active with core group who’s known each other at least a year now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:02 PM
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Hello, I’m in a discord server that needs more woman who want attention from incels 🥹. Will you guys help them help. They just have too much attention to give even the woman make up over half of our active users 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:47 AM
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Red pill is way too cynical imo. Blue pill is way too much la la land.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:15 PM
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Curly fries and their gyros are bomb I used to get it like twice a month. Unfortunately I don’t live near one anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:50 PM
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Man here to rep I agree 100 percent on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:50 PM
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I have the opposite problem. Most of my friends and family live in the other side of the country from me and same for my fiancee well hers live 6 hours away. And we are trying to do it local too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:35 PM
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Depends is where I shit myself in public somewhere I frequent or people may recognize me as the guy who shitted all over himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:28 AM
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Actually prefer that to get my info quick and out of the way so I can get back to shitposting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:26 PM
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Hello how are yall so far on day 3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:05 PM
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Do a half marathon, get married, maybe look into cycling to eventually do a triathlon, stay fit,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:15 PM
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Harassment of woman irl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:19 PM
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Idk I know him from the discord and he is pretty bad and hostile I had to mute him a few times. I havnt seen anything he done on here but Apperently he told a friend he trust the truth about his alts and they exposed him. I got some info from them. While they didn’t tell me exact details he did say some bad stuff and exposed his irl history of doing some bad sfuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:51 PM
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What happened m’queen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:58 PM
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As a 5th grader in 2004-2005, plenty of kids talked about MySpace and were on it. I and plenty of my friends made ours around that time. Facebook got popular a couple years later. My older cousin had a MySpace in 2003
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:21 PM
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I’m 31 and MySpace was huge when I was 11, Facebook was big and I think just ipo when I was 13. Iphone came out when I was 13, popular when I was 16 with iPhone 3s. Some of us early 30 year olds defintely had experience with these things as a middle schooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:49 PM
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Yeah this is not to say all woman. I would say being in shape attracts more woman than being in shape on a volume basis. And you are right I have seen those threads of men saying that, and you are right it’s a fair comparison. Fair points I didn’t think of the second one at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:24 AM
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Now I’m not saying every woman is into it. But in a world where the avg dude doesn’t get a lot of attention to begin with, having something that makes him stand out helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:38 AM
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You don’t need abs, but to say abs don’t matter at all is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:19 AM
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Np.reddit.com/r/stupidquestions/s/Esa6MSTowB How we feeling on this thread. Lots of blue pilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:38 AM
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I guess by strict definition yes you are more “ripped” than me. But the difference isnt much, I guess I value aesthetics than pure bf percentages tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:06 AM
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I used to be a huge mentalcel. Yes I got over it through years of mindfulness and some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:04 AM
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Oh damn bro I thought you were 40 I’m 31
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:19 AM
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That’s fine. I don’t compete and I never found it worthwhile to be lesser body fat percentage than this pic as I have a shirt on 99.9 percent of the time. All I end up feeling is cold and annoyed because I have to no eat good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:24 AM
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<image> Mostly powerlift
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:54 AM
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Idk we have a good bit of gym bros in the discord so I can’t imagine you aren’t anything that different from the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:38 AM
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I Voted you most popular on ppd!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:45 PM
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Yep you want an invite to waste even more of your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:28 PM
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Okay ladies what’s the popular Christmas gift wants this year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 PM
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I havnt a clue what to buy my fiancee for Christmas. Need to start thinking. But I did buy myself a new monitor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:54 PM
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And we are all fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:58 PM
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Fr guys I didn’t buy Apple stock for yall to not buy a new phone every year or two. Anyways I have an iPhone 13 still battery kind of sucks but a portable charger doing the trick to keep it another year. The new phones just don’t have any new features I’m that interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:18 PM
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Easy day of work today for shitposting and lounging
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:45 PM
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Tell him about a stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:03 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:14 PM
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Rock climbing is attractive to woman. Well the back gains you get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:00 AM
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7 year anniversary of when I quit hiding myself and actually try to get out of my incel/blackpill mindset. I’m happy where I ended up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:59 AM
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My gains 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:52 PM
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Someone said ppd irl and I was like huh but they meant the skin test for TB smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:28 PM
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I have a half marathon to train for now in two months 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:45 AM
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Sakura is the representation of why a woman shouldn’t chase a dude. She got left basically a single mom. Naruto asked hinata out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:02 AM
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Who is on your favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:37 PM
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Sure but I see it can help a lot of them. I talk to various ones on discord and they were just like me. Did I say this would help everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:48 PM
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Sure I can’t really reference the number of gymcels I just know that having a hot body while he’s increased the compliments by a lot it didn’t necessarily lead to dates as I was just passively receiving them to scared to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:10 PM
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I was essentially a gymcel at the time. Still didn’t fix my mental woes. But I do think physical activity helps a lot and it helped me but it wasn’t the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:00 PM
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I get it bro I was once like you so I just hope things in your head change. It’s a hard mindset to get out of. It’s easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:55 PM
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Maybe a good spirit because at the time my mental health was shit but I guess mental health isn’t just one thing per say but multi faceted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:26 PM
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Yeah I was looking at my incel diaries from 7 years ago (I was never woman hating type just the low confidence and passive) and it relates to a lot of what I read of current ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:25 PM
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Still of the opinion that therapy and a strong will can save half the incels alone from inceldom. Along with some social skill improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:38 PM
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I was reminded that 7 years ago I was writing basically my mentalcel diaries on my thoughts on Google calendar and now I’m engaged so that’s neat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:37 AM
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So what about when a redpiller brags about all their dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:35 AM
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It’s my monkey and neurotic brain trying to self sabotage and I practice mindfulness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:33 PM
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Then a shot of it to loosen the nerves and let yourself come out and release some inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:30 PM
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No but it certainly gets yall talking when during the interview she was in that always asks about sex if she had any sexual encounters the past 30 days and she said zero because when she has a high work load she has a low libido essentially and then said it might be picking up because she had a orgasm in her sleep. It wasn’t her trying to be woke acting like she the Virgin Mary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:41 AM
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Why aren’t you banned I saw you had an alt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:32 AM
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Someone: do you think so and so is attractive? Comments: mostly no’s and a few yes’s Someone: no one likes so and so quality smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:53 PM
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Notes app, emailing myself, 80 percent of time just remember it in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:27 PM
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Surprisingly my pee does not smell at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:36 PM
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Couldn’t sleep last night 🥹 but at least I had a good meal made by my fiancée 😘 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:23 PM
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He definitely on something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:14 AM
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Hmmmm I’ve been downvoted a lot from blackpilled people as well so for some takes definitely not just bluepilled people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:26 AM
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Who wants an invite to a purple pill discord server(not the official one) for some real time debates and shitflinging
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:38 PM
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I remember for a bit I was getting Trans dating app on TikTok for like a month. This was just like 2-3 months ago. I’ve been in a relationship for years and am straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:20 PM
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Isn’t that what marriedredpill trying to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:19 PM
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I met faze censor at an airport once when he was popular, a little after he broke up with Yanet Garcia
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:47 PM
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My girl been biting my lips recently and now I got canker sores 😰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:29 PM
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It’s teenage stuff that was on Netflix around 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:15 PM
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They say that you regress when you go back to your parents for a bit. I defintely felt that when I was with them for two weeks. Felt the neuroticism coming back in me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:30 PM
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It’s teaching you the skill of cardio and using your muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:16 AM
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And where is that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:26 PM
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Take advice from guys who were in similar position to you before. Problem is the guy who is currently suffering at the moment is going to see something the guy who fixed himself currently has instead of how they were and then go… “well yeah you have…. And I don’t” or they don’t match 100% same problem and same thing goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:05 PM
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Back to normal life again with vacation being over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:25 PM
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But if I go out i might feel a bit uncomfortable unlike my computer chair and vidya games 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:59 AM
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Okay day finally arrived! I gf has evolved to fiancée
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:25 AM
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Finally got some alone time with the gf. Much needed 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:19 PM
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Ehhh plenty of people use steroids with normal looking muscular apperances. It’s like saying to someone who was really flat what got 32 B boob job that ewww I don’t like boob jobs because you think of some big ass boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:58 PM
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Probably more like using steroids for gains
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:02 AM
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No it’s not typical. Do some end up with them sure. But most single childless people date other single childless people. US TFR is supported by immmiganrs. Someone had to date the childless people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:23 AM
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Asking my gf family for their blessing for engagement wasn’t as bad I thought. I am so lucky my gf has a cousin who frequently visits who speaks decent English to help translate. And then I translate it to my family in Spanish. So then plan is set with them for next week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:22 AM
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Okay proposal trip starts in a few hours. Should I drink like a shot before the big moment to ease the nerves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:19 PM
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It’s cultural just like engagement rings are. I get its usefulness for people who are young tho (under 20).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:34 PM
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I think we need to know what he means by special. I think that’s the problem with his logic. What does “special” mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:31 PM
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But wouldn’t dating apps counter that. Seeing that your talking to multiple woman and presumably asking them out. In more traditional societies what you are saying may be more the case but in a western society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:17 PM
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So basically if I asked a girl out at 16-17 and got turned down I should never ask one out again? Even if I down the line grow into a chad of sorts and have woman make themselves open to me hitting on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:13 PM
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One woman told you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:11 PM
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Who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:04 PM
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Okay so this is good? I’m so confused as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:01 PM
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Finally!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:45 PM
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Even if most 50 year old men find woman the age 25 the most physically attractive that doesn’t mean they are typically dating them. There’s more to dating than just physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:39 AM
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Text them when you with them if their phone is out and see how you come up on their phone is a big hint. Just like send a pic for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:30 AM
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And in that case for most men dating younger is more than likely a decade younger not half your age younger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:20 AM
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In a way yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah but it’s not exactly own multiple estates in different countries type money if we are talking about 10-20m range. It’s borderline drop everything to take luxury vacations and still not at personal life assistant managing your social life type level. It definitely luxury life to us but the more rich you get or live the more you are connected with people who are even another tier that make you feel beneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:43 PM
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I saw that if I had to guess she comes from a wealthy family as in multimillionaires, but the billionaire guy is another tier or two above that even.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:25 PM
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That’s been my experience as well. But you are correct it could be a survivorship bias going on. But I highly doubt it’s as low as 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:43 PM
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A lot(60-70 percent) of incels are in terms of looks salvagable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah it’s why it’s in quotes. These dudes refer to themselves as “nice guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:50 PM
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Yeah I’m fucked idk where my parents who speak broken English and don’t speak the local language are going to do besides stick with me and my girl 😭. I guess I can cosplay incel here on daily discussion for two wreks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:14 AM
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Mr lift when you were my age what did you do with Mrs lift that you can advise me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:40 AM
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Well i assume both our conservative parents aren’t going to want us sleeping in the same bed together. Nor are we going to attempt it with them a room away with possibly thin walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:40 AM
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Never been on vacation for a long time with both my gf, and our both parents…. I’m assuming this means no vacation sex. I guess I’ll join yall incels for two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:20 AM
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I do agree most people with a lot of sex partners aren’t chad…. They are typically low standards to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:49 PM
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lol I agree. It will be some niche as topic and the article will be like “online users freaking out over….” And they find 3 tweets in some minor niche subgroup of some subject matter 99 percent of people don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:27 PM
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Ppder talking to woman irl? Get out with this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:01 PM
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Nothing more funny than on the passportbro subreddit critiquing western woman for viewing traveling as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:31 PM
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Well at least all the comments are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:10 PM
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Movie that came out almost 30 years ago. 1.5 gens ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:50 PM
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So basically like Leo in titanic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:30 PM
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As someone who recently got his girls ring picked up. Most couple look at rings together. Honestly if you want your man to get it right make it known you want to go with him to look at it. I’m glad I just told my gf straight up we will make a date out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:20 PM
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Because the dollar is actually decreasing in value. It’s not the market going up it’s the dollar going down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:18 PM
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I’m Kopdjernigan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:16 AM
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Invite?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:07 AM
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Did what in two houes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:41 PM
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They tmessaged me that they were trying to dox me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:29 PM
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The wall barely exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:13 AM
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Twice a week is pretty normal if both partners are pretty busy during the week after years in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:30 PM
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Invite her out for a treat first or a drink to ease the anxiety. Not saying get her drunk but some just a little social warm up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:27 PM
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That sounds even worse tbh. It’s just going to make my water bitter…. What’s wrong with water just being water 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:02 PM
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What is it about adding fruit to water jugs to make that makes it look fancier but at the same time makes it taste worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:04 PM
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Don’t let his gf stop you from dating your future husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:12 AM
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Hope for that 1 perfent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:45 AM
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Cope makes us do some desperate things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:07 PM
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Nothing stopping you from using concealer or skincare products dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:15 PM
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Yeah I choose neither. Both just going to make me insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:14 PM
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I’ve been in both and read similar stuff but yeah shortguys has more bulk of this type of convo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:57 AM
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This sounds like /r/short
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:51 AM
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2.5 years now. Around the same time Taylor and Kelce were a couple 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:02 AM
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Picked up my the engagement ring this past weekend while my girl was asleep. Was sneaky. Hid it well in my computer tower. Came with earrings I’m going to give her at the start of Oct as a hint… but she probably won’t realize the earrings are a hint 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:21 AM
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Yeah I never heard holiday dick besides spaces like this. I do hear vacation hook up or fling but that’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:27 PM
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Yeah same. I’m not going to seek out to be in the middle of the drama but don’t drag me in as some witness to defend you knowing I know all the shit you did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:25 PM
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It’s why I’m with another healthcare worker. Easier to relate and we can talk about all the gross shit we want with little disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:24 PM
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I have access to him but he doesn’t know who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:26 AM
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Dude I don’t know these people, they brought their drama to another side server. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:19 PM
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Yeah Apperently a dude is going crazy because he got e rejected by a girl and scared all the e-men of ppd will find out. Except that we all found out because he brought attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:01 PM
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I wonder what he is thinking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:37 PM
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Bad day today eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:32 PM
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No no no, those guys go to magic the gathering night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:46 PM
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There are plenty of men who have sex who don’t contribute to society at all already. Maybe a minority of those people have a change for the better but I would guess that most stay as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah, I was visiting their Spanish section out of curiosity and they were making it seem like being mestizo was over. This was a dude who looked like a young Mario Lopez 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:08 PM
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Man I visited looksmax.org and it’s very sad how half the pasts are like 14-16 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:58 PM
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Just vti and chill dude. I think r/valueinvesting has decent advice for single stocks tho. But you still have to be weary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:25 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:12 PM
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Gbf to lower guard seems like a style that can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:08 PM
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Ehh can’t comment if this is a creative writer type poster it very well might be but that type of guy describes one of my closest friends and like 80 percent how I operate as well and we both had success with woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:47 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/emotionalintelligence/s/q2jlKwVhOu What do yall think, I can already predict some cope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:27 PM
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Just found a subreddit similar to this one lol. Psycheorsike pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:56 AM
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Idc if it’s shaved. I do expect it to be trimmed neat. A maintained bush is okay. A jungle I’m not into
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:52 PM
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Do it again your so close to striking rich
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:59 PM
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I agree with your wise take. Dating within your socioeconomic class means that it’s not all about your money. And similar age helps that too. I think AFBB is mostly bs but being a rich dude dating mostly broke woman is a guarantee fornit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:19 PM
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Just say that it’s because you look like my ex wife. She was so pretty and work it from there. Hopefully a year later I’m not bawling my eyes out from the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:14 PM
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This is the same guy who complaining about not enough woman at Oktoberfest of all places lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:48 PM
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This is marriage right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:06 PM
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Because it’s a crab bucket mentality. It feels better when you got other people you can relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:42 PM
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Yeah it will really help your internal game. Sure you can be a looker of a dude but if you can not stop shaking due to anxiety when you are talking to an attractive woman all she will do is lose are attraction at that point. Sure it may not help initial attraction but it will definitely help it from not just going straight to zero asap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:44 PM
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I disagree while it’s not necessarily needed in all cases a lot of average dudes could benefit on working from their anxieties and fear of rejection/intimacy/love. It’s not going to directly benefit but will give you a healthy mindset towards not worrying about a missed text, ghosting, toxic people you encounter and having a backbone for yourself. I talk from my experience of how I was and I do notice that a lot of the men in here suffer a lot from anxieties along with a need to improve themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:28 PM
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At this point just wear air maxes, no one even glances that they give you a nice boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:23 PM
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Make it subtle and no one even going to realize the concealer tbh. I’ve done a bit of touch up concealer to cover up a bad blemish and if I didn’t get the best sleep and have bags. It’s totally doable and not obvious. And nails tidy is definitely normal as far as keeping them short and clean unless you mean something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:18 PM
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Going to get a new set of suits when I go to Vietnam I’m excited!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:50 AM
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With this logic tho sure they both have equal moral standard…. To compared if I were to take two sober people, one with a drinking problem history and one just never drank before….. in your head would you off the bat predict would have a drinking problem in future out of the two? Sure you can say past history shouldn’t matter and people can change but it absolutely does matter to an extent especially in a first impression basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:06 PM
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Are you okay… just chill out man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah I agree lol if everything is equal and I mean everything most people would choose the person who hasn’t cheated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:43 PM
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girl probably thought she in the clear now after cleaning you when you shitted yourself. “If I go through these trials I will get to America land 😤” not realizing she just with a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:28 AM
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Lot of blackpillers commenting rn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:16 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen so many posts say that because his partner was trans that he can’t be conservative and this is some leftist trans plot. But from what I also read, groypers aren’t that far off from being exactly what that guy was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:02 PM
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Happy Monday! Let’s get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:01 PM
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Class is a big variable for why some people believe the things they do here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:25 PM
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Never gotten past 25k steps. And those were days I was a tourist going out and about. Just want to kick my feet up and sleep agyer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:38 AM
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Well originally I was just talking about being a dude who date a decent amount, not fuckboy stuff but just being a nice and cute dude who goes on a couple first dates a year compared to 0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:13 AM
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Yeah I’m not sure if I would gamble wishing to be a fuckboy back then. What if I end up like with a kid at 22. And marrying just some random I wanted to only be casual with but had to step up for the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:44 PM
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I always wonder if I didn’t have the anxiety and shame that was holding me back in my early 20s from dating and socializing how my life would be different today now 10 years later. Now I have a great paying job and moved across the country. Would I have gotten someone accidentally pregnant, gotten married, addiction to drug or alcohol? Life is great now but I wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:15 PM
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I got nothing to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:10 PM
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It was summer got to be clean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:28 PM
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<image> We been on that knowledge 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:18 PM
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I would reccomend you test it out by growing your hair out first and if it doesn’t suit what you are going for then shave it off. You can definitely pull some Viking max with longer hair And maybe you’ll like it, if not then transition to ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:27 PM
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The line of thinking would be “man to provide for her” no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:00 PM
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Dad owns a trucking business that he is slowly selling off as both kids (me and my sister) are independent and have been. My mom used to be a private housemaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:58 PM
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But that level of thinking at least for your exact example isn’t that great because even as a man having feminine eyes could benefit you with some woman who think you have beautiful eyees
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:42 PM
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Most woman’s height requirement is a few inches taller than themselves. You can go blah blah they prefer taller…. But that’s a preference not a dealbreaker. And being shorter 5’5” reduces your options sure but it doesn’t outright delete all of them. I’m 5’6” myself with plenty of short friends. And idk how it works in Europe but in the US it’s not a game ender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:42 PM
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Those subreddits are pathetic tbh, it’s very insecure men blaming all their problems on something they can’t change. When most of the problems come from their mentality towards their height. (At the very least the 5’5” to 5’8” crowd)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:39 AM
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This sounds written by a man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:37 AM
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Anyways being an asshole doesn’t = attractive bad boy. There is a lot more to being a “bad boy” than your average incel can manage to fake over a short time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:58 PM
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Just put on a leather jacket it and you in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:52 PM
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Some people don’t want all that tbh they just want to go about their day and pay the bills and go home and enjoy life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:29 PM
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New balance fresh foams. I’ve learned to embrace the dad shoes. I’m in my 30s either ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:37 AM
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Seeking therapy isn’t any much different than seeking a personal trainer. Except one is for getting into shape or staying and the other is for having a healthier mind or maintaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:26 PM
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Yeah woman are excellent for giving advice on how to maintain a relationship or wooing a girl who is already into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:14 PM
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Typically no, I’ve been more surprised when I get overconfident because I thought I sealed the deal and then nope… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:33 PM
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Someone on the discord has talked about this saying that it’s frame what actually matters. So bigger frame is more attractive but still reaches a point where you too much is not attractive. Being tall is one way to hit the bigger frame mark, another one is having broader shoulders, wider/boxier chest, etc. I can’t exactly spell it out for you like the other user discussed but it made sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:16 PM
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Oh yes totally believable story and definitely how women talked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:04 PM
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“We on the same step now, you might have took a step forward but now you back on my step.” “If you want to go up a step I’m down for dinner tho 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:56 AM
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It’s definitely going to be more costly imo especially in 10 years where at best will be initial starts for commercial use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:31 PM
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Man this probably won’t be fully ready nor that affordable for top 5 percent by the time I’m out of normal parenthood age with a small child (15 years). Guess younger gen z will be able to start to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:46 PM
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Okay what happened. Please give context for the class
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 AM
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Then you don’t know what you want? What are you in there for? For the vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:07 AM
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No I never seen anything close to what you are describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:33 PM
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An I the proposal guy!! It’s coming up I promise!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:34 PM
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2.5 years almost and have lived together 1.33 years and I’m 30 and she is 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:57 AM
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I think they mean act surprised. I guess it wouldn’t be that much different than someone dating interracially and someone commenting negatively on that such as dilating the race or some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:29 AM
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I’m kind of curious myself what’s going to be debated. I’m not sure where my stance is so I’m here to learn. I do believe many people infantilize grown woman as if they can’t make their own decisions. And like OP says it’s not college aged ones at times which I guess I can at least see as they are fresh adults but they do it to older 20 year old woman as well. But it’s mostly on the internet. But a 29 year old irl who is dating a 40 year old will sometimes get a double glance. Edit: According to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:18 AM
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Now that I mostly got the ring out of the way I need to coordinate the proposal plan in a different language with her family. Thankful for Duolingo for teaching me a bit of viet and Gemini for translate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:41 AM
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Brother I taught myself at 17 calm down. You can teach yourself it’s not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:19 PM
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So he was an incel? Where did he say that? I guess I could see that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:04 PM
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Just talked to ChatGPT and it can confirm I’m very solidly purple pilled <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:18 AM
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Condom broke, sex was shitty, cried after I dropped her off because I thought my life was over because I was going to be a teen dad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:24 AM
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Yosemite was great!! Hiked Mist trail, picnicked by El Capitan, and saw giant sequoias! Short vacation but now I want to visit Mt Zion! The gf also got a lot of good pics 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:23 AM
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Well when I was around 12 all the girls were fawning over Jacob and Edward who have nice jawlines. So while I may not have been aware of the exact dimensions of the jawline mattering I did know a nice jaw is attractive to woman. Shit I did know for sure a nice jawline vs chin rolls was attractive or even a smaller jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:43 AM
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Did you not have eyes in middle and high school? I’m nearly 31 and it’s obvious being tall, nice face, nice hair, muscularity was good for attracting woman. One of the biggest reasons teen boys back then and today lift is for attracting woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:20 AM
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Wait I like lemon squares but I’m straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:01 PM
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Believing that looks, game and status matter is red pill sure but there is way more to it than that and many people who don’t subscribe to red pill also a knowledge that beautiful people, charismatic people, and popular people do better when it comes to dating. And while my innate personality might not have changed much my timidness and neuroticism are mostly gone along with other negative traits compared to what I was around 19-24. Idk I guess, even if I was red pill I don’t think I would label…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:54 PM
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Yes I’m purple pill. While I don’t fully agree with the beta alpha talk of red pill nor do I fully agree with redpill It’s typically the easiest way to communicate what I mean without spelling every behavior that’s typically under the beta threshold. Red pill has a lot of faults once you get past the dynamics between the sexes (I still don’t fully agree with those as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:10 PM
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I mean similar happened to me except I was average looking went to good looking but still betaish behavior and then finally fixed my behavior and all the pieces aligned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:00 PM
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Well of course the dude is going to be good looking, where in my post did I say I was going to date an ugly man. I’m not expecting chad mcChad but a nice face and a fit body is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:26 PM
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Yep, especially men who are in my same tax bracket. So I’m a nurse as a man if I were as a nurse as a woman I would be dating engineers or other medical professionals. Defintely be going for nonfuckboys. People with stable relationships such as friends and family even if they havnt had a LTR before me. Maybe I would have had a bit of a casual phase like I did as a dude but it was short and not much and I didn’t find it fun. Even had a lot of woman slide in my DMs but just didn’t find it entertai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:10 PM
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As someone who has dabbled in the community a bit and traveled solo and came across a few of them. While the men are typically considered mid, I find the woman they end up with are above average looking at best. The ones ending up with the model looking girls were doing fine back home. They are defintely doing better with those woman than with woman on their level back in the US for numerous reasons ($$). And how would you suggest a law gets passed? Especially in a country with a lot of immigrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:51 PM
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Neoteny essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:39 PM
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Cute neotenous face that scream innocent always stole my attention. (I only date woman in my age range)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:24 PM
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I wouldn’t say reject but I’ve definitely self sabotaged myself in a situation looking back woman was into me thinking I wasn’t good enough. But I defintely would not have gone that route of “you are too good for me” type shit. This doesn’t seem to like my case tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:07 AM
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Yes I went out on a first date with a girl from hinge and she did all that. I literally thought she was not into me and was about to say no hard feelings text until she told me she got nervous and found me cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:59 PM
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Hmmm as a man I rarely saw that type of shit when I used dating apps, I did see the princess thing a few times but I wouldn’t say it was the standard thing a woman uses on her profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:56 PM
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Ahhh lol, this is why I stopped playing fantasy football, I would spend all my free time on football and assembling the best roster from the waiver wire because drafting is always some luck with injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:54 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:36 PM
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I’m glad someone else notices this too. Those type of woman typically have some mental issue. Ending up in one could be bad luck but multiple is a pattern. I don’t like to victim blame but this is where vetting comes in and those woman tend to be the worst vetters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:14 PM
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Isn’t that more because of his status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:09 AM
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I find it’s like 50 percent to 66%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:47 AM
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Oh great! Invite her to PPD she will fit in perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:48 PM
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What isn’t being shared is the threshold to be considered Chad is lower there because of limited Chad supply. True Chad only has so many hours to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:46 PM
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Yosemite, woke up this morning to wait in line for park permit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:43 PM
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Well has her dating history proved at least herself correct. I totally disagree with her but just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:36 PM
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Just booked a last minute trip to a national park with my gf!!! Labor Day weekend going to be packed but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:34 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:24 AM
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Well sometimes it’s just a horrible combo, and that immutable characteristic on its own isn’t he biggest deal. -signed a shorty who talks to shortcels frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:42 AM
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Type of girl who spawns at your work the last shift you are there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:31 AM
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Who’s alt are you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:34 PM
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PPD IS real life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:33 PM
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You know I’ve never heard a lesbian complain on here either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:02 PM
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I like how the one dude they replying to in this that because he hides his post history he has to be a cuck or dead bedroom lol. Yeah that guy is lost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:00 PM
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I tried it a few months ago it just didn’t hit the same as Overwatch sadly. Played as captain America coming in as a Brigette main
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:46 PM
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I was a very anxious individual with a lot of shame and giving too much fucks about things that didn’t matter. Lots of deep seated insecurities or bad defense mechanisms I built up over the years. Really kept me from being vulnerable and made me numb to my emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:46 AM
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I got therapy for about a dozen sessions and it really me realize what I needed to work on through CBT. It’s more like a coach for your mind and thinking deeply enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:14 AM
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Was discussing this was friends on Saturday. One of them was saying a FAANG company I believe Google is buying a nuclear reactor plant or something to power their AI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:10 PM
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At the gym??? Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:59 PM
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I wouldn’t call it denial but definitely not thinking about it until the moment hits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:50 PM
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Could be a fear of intimacy or anxiety towards romance. I defintely had this going on in my early 20s. Took years to work through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:22 PM
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Looks like Shakira in a different universe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:24 PM
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They do usually settle because they to have social expectations from friends and family of having a partner. The ones who are still fucking around and not seeking a partner only want casual are rarer. But when top men get partnered easily and off the market it does seem like the casual ones are the only chads. Edit: by settle I mean end up in a LTR relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:25 PM
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Compounding interest is wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:58 AM
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I love when Chad goes “it’s chading time” and the he chads all over our woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:42 AM
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Participating in communities with toxic personalities such as this one. But it draws me in…. Do I really need to spend my time arguing with incels….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:24 AM
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Because even then they have to try with those girls and court them… and that leads to possibly rejection….. but then in my head if I have to try with her that means she isn’t a femcel she can reject which means ausinswiisbewjzjs(sperg talking)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:36 PM
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Oh interesting, i guess big car culture heading over there as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:34 PM
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I think this just American culture in general with these big ass trucks for men and big ass suvs for woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:11 PM
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What does that have to do with what you said originally? Even teenage girls prefer you lead. But this is a case of some probably most girls want that for both what you just said and what you said in the main post. I wouldn’t really call teenage love as the truest love tbh tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:36 PM
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It’s a mix, but tbh your face is average. So your height of being tall will make up for an average face, it’s the opposite of me, I have a good face but I’m short. It’s all pieces of the pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:02 AM
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I agree to be polarized by a huge population of people is scary. And you could be a reasonable person as well but you have one stance that differs from another person and all of a sudden they hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:58 PM
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You sound like someone who was banned before, let me get some cops here real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:56 PM
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Yeah it’s like rapping, 99 percent of it is shit with the top 1 percent making whatever money there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:51 PM
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Yeah I’ve stated this before that the people who make it irl don’t typically stay on ppd while the the ones stuck stay here. And then the few guys here who have made it even with initial problem are just harassed off, with a few staying. Idk how to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:38 AM
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Is this part of the baby head size filter on adults thing going around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:37 PM
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Sometimes I do, sometimes I just set on a ledge and time it. At least when I solo travel, most pics someone else I was with took it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:44 PM
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When I was single and after I got over my mental problems I made it a goal to take pics when possible. Came in handy when I started using dating apps. Was like 1-2 good pics every other month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:56 PM
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Geomaxxing, there is a reason they typically go to “poorer” nations like Southeast Asia and South America or carribean. They can be too 1 percenters there being from America, and language barriers(yes even if the girl speaks a bit of English) doesn’t show their lack of social skills as well, the types of girls they are going to be dating aren’t the traditional girl types… can go on about this I’m not even against it if you go in with good intentions but the ones off the subreddit make it seem so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:33 PM
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There is a difference between approaching irl for a convo and making it work from that vs the chad who is like a plan who just sits there and gets his dick sucked that some blackpillers think happen. Your example defintely does happen and that’s where “Chad” benefits I won’t lie. But he still has to have the social sense to escalate and progress from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:33 PM
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Yeah idk who these guys are that just sit there and girls just crawl up to them ready to suck their dick. Even the the chadfishing type dudes think Chad will just walk over to a chicks house, she is just ready bent over only waiting for Chad dick. Like it seems so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:41 PM
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Oh you right I forgot that part! Hot, exciting, dependable and stable!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:24 PM
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Be the hot guy who is also stable and dependable (insert Chad emoji)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:16 PM
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As an “ethnic” no this does not have anything to do with the current discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:54 PM
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I remember in 2016 when trump claimed that 3 million illegal votes where made by illegals immigrants. That shit was such bullshit and the guy who intiallt made the claim said the data would come any time now(it never did). Knowing illegals immigrants they would never do that in large numbers like that. But conservatives maga folks really bought that up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:16 PM
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Bro you got jizz on your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
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Got to be self aware if you got oneitis if so make a move or be fine seeing other girls and hopefully get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:52 AM
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Who says you can’t do both? But tbh I don’t think you should actually be going for the girls in your main circle, should be meeting friends of friends. But do both, don’t get oneitis either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:26 AM
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You know it’s funny, when I read the “5’2”, Indian bald janitor” meme I always remember from my experience that custodian staff was like 80-90 percent Latino and some aound that height and most of those dudes were men with families. But the blackpillers don’t mention those dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:54 AM
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Basically the embodiment of: How I learned to stop worry and embrace the monkey dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:52 AM
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All it shows is girls paying attention to me, that sounds like a w to me. But seriously from the girls I saw who were on there, nothing much to worry about they looked not my type we will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:50 AM
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Sometimes these blackpillers need to look at some Latinos and their charisma/game. Not being afraid to put effort and embarrass themselves. But we come off as romantics 🔥😤🌹🕺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:28 AM
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It’s a part, but so is luck, game, looks, values… so much more to attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah different side of the same coin tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:19 PM
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lol it does appear that way, interesting enough he didn’t talk to any of the pick me types and girls who love male attention. I know plenty of those
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:18 PM
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That’s delusional, I’ve been in spaces like this since 2010 which is pre redpill and more PUA times. Being attractive physically as a man was still important. It was rare to find a claim that woman didn’t care about looks. They’ve always have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:15 PM
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I’ve also seen plenty of average looking men think they are below average as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:34 AM
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If you see rule breaking report it, I’ve seen my fair share of black pilled woe is me type posts in daily discussion that flies by all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:32 AM
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It defintely is a big factor in terms of approachability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:52 PM
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So you wanted to find someone faith oriented or get your dick wet? I mean you can defintely find both with some girls but the way you were describing it earlier in other comments you are asexual? Idk your story seems off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:57 AM
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Too formal for a first date especially for a coffee date, nothing wrong with look decent but it probably looked like an interview from outside look in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:58 PM
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Don’t think those were homely ltr woman. Those type of woman just probably see through your bullshit and you aren’t attractive enough for the ones wanting short term shit. Tough luck dide
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:52 PM
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As a guy who grew up religious you do realize that the woman of faith tend to have higher standards such as being fear abiding godly man right and not for short term fun but ltr? Given your age it seems like you tried it for a bit and when the results weren’t immediate you tried the opposite, which I won’t lie will work with girls who are thinking more short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:56 PM
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Takes like two hours on YouTube max tbh. Lighting, angles, setting, and then playing around with editing feature after taking 100 photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:04 PM
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That isn’t empathy causing the problem that’s a lack of backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:46 PM
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This is why I roll my eyes when dudes come up with a reason why an unremarkable dude gets a with a baddie who appears above his league use the “he must have a big dick.” Like sure maybe but he had to do something else beforehand to even get to the point of her seeing his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:24 PM
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Good men who are single and attracted to you are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:59 PM
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And not every good man is going to attracted to you as a specific woman nor may you be attracted back to some of those good men. Good men don’t stay on the market long. That’s what dating is about is finding that specific man and seeing if yall like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:33 PM
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Puppies are too energetic and want to play while cat wants to chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:38 PM
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After uploading a bunch of ppd material to Gemini to analyze I broke it. Even ai can’t take this brainrot without malfunctioning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:11 AM
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Since when does masculinity mean lack of fear and anxiety? Isn’t the trait more of not displaying fear and anxiety that makes it masculine? And if you are touch with your anxiety and fear you are able to control your response. Do not see how this correlates with empathy as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:07 PM
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Yeah I saw plenty of “not good looking” dudes on there. Surely it can’t be Chad that is messing with some of the more “not good looking woman” on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:21 PM
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Running, hiking, calisthenics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:35 PM
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I think being boring is more about how you present yourself vs what you actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:34 PM
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You want a mute girl who never reacts to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:26 PM
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Is this still used? I remember it was cool when I was a college freshman in 2014 then it died
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:52 AM
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Might not matter if she still feels like as a woman she is only wanted for her vagina and not for who she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:20 AM
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It’s defintely not in the 20s or 30s at the very least. There’s always people breaking up, getting divorced or partners dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 AM
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What but chaderfish only had to swim by 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:38 PM
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To manage issues he faces, sometimes talking about the root of the problem and how to manage issues that arise from it and healthy coping mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:46 PM
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1-2 of these types of questions usually on the licensure exam
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:31 PM
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The guy needs therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:29 PM
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This reminds of this lol https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t70asNBsZXo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:55 PM
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It’s for fun, just to confirm how people come across. It’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:24 PM
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What you do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:05 PM
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I’ve been using AI (ChatGPT and Gemini) to analyze people’s personality based on chats on discord. And it seems decently accurate. There are some faults with it but you do get the general gist of a person and how they are perceived by others. It’s best when I copy and paste chat dialogues that the target user is heavily involved in rather than just copying and pasting their chat history that is just them alone. The added context is good of course. Anyone have recommendations for a different AI t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:52 PM
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Reading peole? What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:44 PM
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Yeah what’s happening is that you are now way more stable with what you have and know that makes you more confident and less anxious and willing to make moves and be more direct which in turn is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:15 PM
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So I caved, I asked the gf to look at my designs for the ring she wants me to engage her with. If I’m going to spend thousands on this I want to make sure it’s to her exact liking. I had some ideas and concepts but it may be pictured in my head differently than her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
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You can do that during your convo and gauge response to it to ask her out. Granted I used to be more scaredy cat when I was younger about it but at this point at my age I’m more direct with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:39 PM
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Tbh if your first interaction with a woman is going over 5-10 mins with smiles and good body language it’s probably a good idea. I was more under the impression in the planting your seeds approach were the first interaction may be short and maybe a 3rd interaction is longer. But yeah if you are having a good 5-10 min convo doesn’t hurt to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:35 PM
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Yeah obviously you should try and see signs. But as many men know depending on the woman the signs can be different so it’s best to just be direct and make it as for to know that rejection will not make things awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:42 PM
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The option op suggested is called planting seeds and it works but there is a point that you have to escalate and it may be sooner then a lot of men expect. Here is another thing if you let a woman be passive all she wants she will passive herself out of interest. Sometimes it might be worthwhile to see if she is interested or to start thinking if she is interested in you(start seeing you that way or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:25 PM
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It sounds like you cousin doesn’t give a fuck at all about. I don’t see what the discussion/debate is about. He generally doesn’t even seem interested in these topics is all I got to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:13 AM
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Because a relationship requires work and a good bit of effort at the start to let blossom. You can’t just sit back and relax and expect a relationship to fall in your hands especially as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:17 PM
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Yeah dating in your mid 20s is more about potential in terms of resources rather than what do you currently have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:45 PM
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You know I’ve thought of this before, and in my head they are both usually obese and low class, like rednecks imo. So I’m not picturing Chad, I’m picturing like a duck dynasty type dude but poor and kombucha reaction meme girl. I could be wrong just what’s in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:32 PM
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Incels will join this then get turned into steers while Chad gets to be a breeding bull 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:45 AM
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Yeah this post reads really strange to me, I don’t see the point op is trying to make. Especially with the title I thought it was different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:22 AM
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All woman love hello kitty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:49 PM
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You don’t just go straight into back shots, there is warming up, foreplay, positions before back shots, and then after care of course. That can be about an hour if time is taken carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:07 PM
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Was it the Detroit deep dish? I love that one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:59 AM
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Mid iq and mid eq better than low of one and high of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:31 PM
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Never stated he was the problem alone. If he made the girls crazy sure he is the problem, if he constantly had crazy exes even if they were crazy to begin with then he is problem seeking. While first is worse they both are still not good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:10 PM
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Either ways if he isn’t the reason they are crazy he still going after crazy girls. He is the denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:40 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen plenty of college athletes go from 8/10 to 4-5/10 and looking ten years older in 2-3 three years simply from gaining 30-40lbs of fat and losing muscle. Their once sharp face is now looking like a midage chubby dad face. While I’m more in the line that being fit is an amplifier there are gains to be made by being fit. Clothing fits you better is one for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:20 PM
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One crazy ex okay fine I’ll give you benefit of doubt, two-three and I’m sus, four and nah bro you the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:05 PM
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In the US it’s always been like playing ball or ping pong at least since 90s or so. A man would initiate and if the woman is interested she would play ball. So then you have an exchange of man and woman hitting the ball back and forth(flirting,texting, etc) while the man escalates typically. She gives signs that it’s okay to move to the next step. There is rarely a woman who just sits and does nothing. All of this is subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:57 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:50 AM
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Who in particular do you think are larping?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:50 AM
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Hmmmm weird in the pics were personally I think I’m more attractive I come out 6.8-7 but the one pic were I consider myself chubbier and less shape features it gave me a 7.8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:19 AM
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I posted there years ago and damn it got worse. It use to be a meme where only woman would get rated, but it’s even worse now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:29 AM
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It’s called love in the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:33 AM
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Time for some nursemaxxing, let’s just say as a male nurse there’s plenty to learn from the woman I work with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:01 PM
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Well I think soft launch is more of a way to show others your “taken” and more to deter others from attempting to ask you out or something. Now you want to make it known you’re currently taken but…. you don’t want to look stupid if you hard launch and then the relationship doesn’t work out shortly after. At least with the soft launch outside of immediate friend group they don’t know who the guy was. It’s just basically trying to save more embarrassment. Damage control measures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:48 PM
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What my funkopop collectibles are not part of falling into consumerism 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:17 PM
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Yeah same it would be like 2 or 3 kids at most. Same as now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:16 PM
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Yep it was a decent sized deal when those subreddits got banned and many redditors were scared of those people just going to other subreddits. Thats why the mods are semi strict about too much incel or blackpill blabber here to not suffer the same fate, but you can’t catch it all. I’m sure there are more factors but those are the ones that came to mind. I’m sure Covid will play a big factor into many divides we have had lately like politics, wealth, our current topic and so on. Now to say it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:53 PM
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Right now my net worth is pretty high for my age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:48 PM
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Multiple factors imo I think it has to do with incel spaces on reddit being banned compared to back then. So those men spread elsewhere onto other subreddit. I’m sure there are plenty of betas from back then who aren’t beta anymore and I would count me as one of them. But they are less likely to stick around spaces like this vs a beta who turned omega or an always omega but now doesn’t have his incel subreddits anymore and is in this subreddit. Incel and blackpill are also more known terms too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:42 PM
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Yeah as a 30 year old man this has been the experience of me and people I know. Very few people were that serious about their relationships in their teens and around 20 compared to be an adult with a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:20 PM
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Trying to go back to my old hairstyle from right before I met my gf. Damn lot more effort to maintain the hair. But it makes me looker my age instead of 23
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:25 PM
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Trying to connect the dots in this way of thinking and I just cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:24 PM
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<image> At least once a week I read something on ppd related mediums that make me think this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:36 AM
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Damn bro, talk about a subtle reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:31 PM
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I do agree from my time infiltrating the passport bro spaces there is a lot of cope I do agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:05 PM
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I’m not sure you will have to ask the wise passportbros I am for nearly a low life because I love American woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:49 PM
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According to the wise passportbros yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:22 PM
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In the phillipines where woman approach men and jack them off when they act like Chad the Plant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:50 PM
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Assume doggy position
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:25 PM
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Sometimes AI can describe what I’m feeling better than I can and with correct grammar 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:18 AM
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Man I lost my 3 paragraph essay on bad boys as it wasn’t posting. That shit was going to do numbers with 4 upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:53 PM
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Okay so it wasn’t just me where reddit wasn’t working
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:48 PM
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Some animations were just not made to be live adaptions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:18 PM
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OLD is very much like interviewing for jobs in a way from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:16 PM
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Gf and I talked about alternative plans for wedding seeing as we are going to have to compromise for both our parents to be there. I need to get started on buying that ring I’ve seen a few I like so far
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:29 PM
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Depends on the online space she frequents. I say the same thing for men. A lot of social media including reddit, TikTok, insta, fb, etc is so curated these days that you have an interest in a space like this and then all of a sudden your seeing the worst opinions from other people. Your average man or woman isn’t coming on here and spewing their hate towards the opposite sex. But it does make you more aware that there are bad people in the world and to be wary but I think it just causes neurotic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:26 PM
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It’s looking great and healthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:48 PM
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And he had threatened me before publicly in comments before and just did it again via DMs. Then a few hours later “another account” is threatening dox to ruin my life. Claims I always follow him around but I’m just in the daily discussion a lot of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:38 PM
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Yep learning that myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:07 AM
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But god forbid you suggest a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:47 AM
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I read online someone took 4 of those pills and shat all over his partner when he came
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:36 AM
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They spend money like the cash is always going to be flowing in until it doesn’t and it’s quite hard to go from a shit ton of calories to like 2/3 even if you are training they no longer have nor need the intensity they were going at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:28 AM
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I would say physical intimacy is part of romance myself. Also physical intimacy includes hand holding, hugging, cuddling, sex at least to me and I would feel lost people. Really makes you think about how we are really just intelligent animals when you are cuddling naked with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:13 PM
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Only the ones who have to actually carry your genes and suffer pregnancy consequences and all the problems along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:10 PM
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Yep and I prioritize different things in a friendship than a relationship. I can tolerate more indifferences in a friendship than a relationship. You are basically going to spend most of your time with your partner than a friend so it makes sense you have different things you want from them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:39 PM
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I think not having sex the first date or two is fine but you should definitely be upront that you are interested. Woman need desire and if you aren’t giving it to them they will think you are not interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:08 PM
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Probably another case of those who are just borderline incel just making the cut with something like drugs making them less inhibited. I blame internet culture more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:23 AM
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Yeah I don’t mind grabbing groceries or picking up my own food. I guess if time is very limited or I could move on my own it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:18 AM
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I think the internet has made a lot of men more neurotic and fine not being social. I think looks is less a problem especially with most people dating and hooking up with their looks match tiers So I’m sure the less neurotic men and standardcels may benefit and make the cut but your average neurotic and passive incel isn’t going to be considered There were incels back then too but it wasn’t internet community
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:49 AM
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Yep your coccyx
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:50 AM
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Hey man just trying to help. I was once in some their shoes with my mentalcel shit. But it’s easier to blame something else. Your mind is hard to battle against
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:36 AM
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We probably would be having more casual sex sure… but I highly doubt today’s incels would be in the group of high n count casual sex people. Maybe higher chance they aren’t virgins. Imo standard would be lower, maybe at best your standardcels would make the cut but a lot of inceldom is mental and neuroticism. You still have to make moves as a man back then. And another thing guys with n counts typically don’t care about n count as much, especially because they are having sex with woman who also …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:23 AM
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Do you think there is some sort of fearful attachment way of thinking you have? This sounds familiar to me when I was in my early to mid 20s. I had a fear of love and intimacy and any possible romantic talk just made my brain get an ick response to avoid it. As much as people hear shit on it, have you tried talking to a therapist about. I remember bawling about it in their office having that feeling and not wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:17 AM
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Why are you scared per say? And how old are you? I get it tho I used to have that fear as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:07 AM
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He threatened me it’s true what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:04 AM
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Me in preschool when the clock hit 4pm and my mom didn’t pick me up yet as scheduled 😢😭😢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:55 PM
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Him calling me the f word and an asshole essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:41 PM
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Their reaction, you can go through my comments if I’m wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:36 PM
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I’ve never heard that in my life, is this like a ghetto person sayjng?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:50 PM
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I know who lift is, but who is cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:47 PM
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I just got that for the first time this month lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:46 PM
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No wonder the daily discussion is full of blackpillers, you try to be a bit helpful with some and encouraging a bit even if it’s a bit harsh and they threaten you in DMs for not agreeing with them that it’s truly over unless they like surgerymax. Edit: couple hours later a dox threat from “another account”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:18 PM
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Good if she already attracted bad if not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:52 PM
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He is bitter he didn’t get the chad experience. Thats a common incel/blackpill take. They think Chad is like a plant who puts in little effort to get with a lot of woman but it’s far from true for your typical “chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:38 PM
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🎯 He refuses to beleive. All his post have multiple people saying along similar things. At this point he better off just ppbing in phillipines if that’s what he truly wants is casual sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:23 PM
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Yeah I had a dozen therapy sessions, mindfulness, meditation and actively putting my intentions out there. On paper and word it seems easy but it took a lot of commitment and self reflection to make this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:10 PM
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I learned that stallions are kind of like incels, they get sexually frustrated easily especially if they see another stallion getting some with a mare nearby. Also mares need to be socially acclimated to a stallion before mating. You can’t just throw a stallion at one and expect the mare to be fine. She needs to be friends first. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:49 PM
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When I had trouble around 19-24 my problem was neuroticism and anxiety. Each step towards escalating was so trembling I rather just have left mid sentence than continue. And if that’s how individual interaction felt with a woman why bother trying. Well finally had enough of that at 24 and took after in my own hands. I was just way too passive, anxious and neurotic at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:59 AM
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Yeah I’m aware, I wasn’t talking virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:35 AM
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Same and many people tell him this. It’s mostly in his head as much as he likes to argue it’s not. I’ve seen it before. Can’t really help these types of dudes who don’t want to help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:59 PM
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What did you think Edit: see below, OP downvoting towards any post saying “you are fine it’s not your face bro” Like I said these type of dudes rather just sit in their own tears and piss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:43 PM
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Maybe it’s just looks based matching working your favor. The unattractive girls realize it’s not going anywhere and go somewhere else. The attractive girls on your level are at your level and will got a bit more for you. The attractive girls above you never noticed you to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:42 PM
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I would say half of them men, but also half of the woman as well. But the degrees of variance are huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:43 PM
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Trad wife in the private tard wife at target/costco 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:14 PM
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Yeah there was already a lot of fishy things to make me thing it was a larp. But escorts frequently turning down money like that confirmed it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:11 AM
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Semi stereotypical SEC couple. I feel like they would be looksmatched if the dude lost 30-40 lbs. 4/10 looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:11 AM
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Where did someone say that about boys, let me at them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:09 AM
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<image> Tried snail for the first time but they minced it and died grounded beef, it was okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:00 PM
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Me when I talk to my girl in as normie a way as possible about ppd related topics during our aftercare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:00 PM
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I took years man, too many times I thought “oh rejection therapy would help” and I would have to power through it and 95 percent of the time I chickened out and when it was going good just wanted to leave the situation. So I went to actual therapy just to vent about what’s going on in my head, practiced mindfulness, meditation. Took about 2 years of that to really be myself. Mark mansons book “the subtle art of not giving a fuck” seemed to also help my way of thinking. I think another big factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:57 PM
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Idk what you mean by the single mom thing, but you are right if you take care of yourself the wall thing is very overblown. Granted I live in a major city but even if I were single in my 30s it’s like not a big deal for men or woman. Especially if you take care of yourself. Plenty of hot fit single woman in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:04 AM
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Almost time for the weekend! Going to Costco with my girl after work hopefully they got samples on Friday afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:27 PM
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Op as a frugal guy growing up who has saved up quite a bit of money now at 30. This is one of those some woman care some woman don’t. But tbh having a lambo, flash clothes, or newest shit isn’t going to bring you the type of girls you think. Especially if you come from a lower socioeconomic level. Woman and men will go broke and in debt to appear better than the people next to them. There are plenty of woman who see the fascade of someone but shit like that to impress chicks. If you want to driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:18 PM
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I think few are so suprised. I think with these guys they are made with the positive aspect of being a woman. But minimize the problems that woman face. Same thing goes the other way with a few woman but femcels and other of those types of woman seem to stay in their own communities with the stray coming here. It’s just excuse for for thee, real problems for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:23 PM
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Woman are more likely to get the friend or friends to take a lot of pictures just because than men are. And when woman take pics they take like a hundred per occasion and delete all the bad ones and leave only the good ones from my experience. Thats how I learned to take decent pics. But also from following photographer instagrams, its mostly woman booking with them. If its a man there usually its a couple not a solo man. But most of the dating app pics I see can defintely shot with an iPhone, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:01 AM
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Living like lift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:56 PM
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Don’t pretend, be upfront that you are interested. It gets the ones who just want to play around off your case and only keeps the ones who are also interested. Learning to just be direct is a game changer jmo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:51 PM
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Standards for me superficial for thee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:52 PM
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So if I meet wifey material and we fuck on the second date when I first escalated is it a W?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:57 PM
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During the beginning of my lifemaxxing journey around 23-24 I would get stuff like this happening as well but god damn if I didn’t know how to escalate or I would get so nervous attempting to escalate that I had to walk away from situations like that. So personally I had to get out of my head or learn to control my anxiety before I could actually make use of those opportunities. I would say at least half of current incels are somewhat like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:57 PM
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This is why I’m always sure we should recommend incels here to just go to bars lol. There’s a lot easier social levels to accomplish fiest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:27 PM
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I agree it’s flawed as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:31 PM
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So did you ask them out or are you just basing this off Instagram followers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:30 PM
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I mean if you want to be seen as the asshole by all the “nice “ guys why not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:42 PM
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It seems to be the wording more than who is saying it based in the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:39 PM
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Well I did say you are average looking face wise for added context. Granted I’m one of those people who says your overall appearance matters and face, height, vibes, etc are all part of the whole pie. And the second part is just an educated guess based of my past experience while having a good face card and other people I talk to today especially on the discord. I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:13 PM
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You are right, it’s don’t be neurotic 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:07 PM
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But only a small vocal minority of woman do care that much about it? Height is a factor in attraction yes but being 5’6”, there is still plenty of play for yall. Height matters but not to the extent of “im not 5’10” it’s over for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah someone with no experience is going to overthink all of this. I’m sure there’s plenty of us men in here who’s first time involved a good bit of anxiety. I think only having casual sex/ONS (not fwb) style sex like having sex once or twice with a person is not good experience tbh. The best experience comes from LTR situations where you learn the communication aspect of sex verbal and nonverbal where it’s not all about yourself. So the title should be changed to … “Higher N-count does not mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:07 PM
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Yep it’s called nichemaxxing in those cases. Aesthetic and vibes opens doors
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah most of these types don’t tend to socialize in the first place and if they do hang out in their own groups of weirdos. Now there are some men who may internalize some of these weird takes in more mild forms. Those are the ones to watch out for but sometimes they know it’s wrong to say out loud. Most men are normal tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:12 AM
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Why? You can join the discord and I will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:58 PM
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Deload week going great, body needed some resting. July 4th weekend went great with a firework blowing up a few feet in front of my face. And my woman’s home cooked meal <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:46 PM
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Kismet love sounds like something out of a romantic movies. Let’s be honest may it happen irl? Yes but it’s rare, life isn’t a romance movie and they’ll be awkward stuff in between. If you are interested in a woman ask her out and build something from that if she is interested. If you beleive in this kismet thing you are going to be waiting a long time to feel like you found “something”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:26 PM
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And they probably have other matches as well. You can only keep up with so many matches. It’s why if you have one interested get her off the app asap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:11 AM
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Well you can join other purple pill related servers I just don’t think I can post them here because of the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:39 PM
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You left as quickly as came in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:38 PM
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You can join and if you don’t like leave, there is 0 risk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:13 PM
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Join the discord first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:00 PM
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There is a contest on the discord for incels at almost 300 dollars if yall want to take part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:44 PM
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I agree, don’t be a dick about it and you’ll be fjne
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:39 PM
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Imma be honest from what I hear from a lot of woman and my own experiences casual sex such as ONs are probably the worst ways to get an orgasm as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:27 PM
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Sorry, but from my experience dealing with different cultures, the woman dating foreigners don’t tend to be that type of woman. Those type of woman tend to get married young to locals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:55 AM
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Oh yes I’m sure that’s what you will get as a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:42 AM
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That dude is still socially awkward. Sure he may not be a “loser” but he is defintely socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:42 AM
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Yep I say this all the time. Those dudes have good traits that make them attractive and happen to also be shitty, but guess what life is a spectrum in this circumstance. But I do find that woman who tend to get into relationships like that have other problems that cloud their judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:36 PM
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No and those type of men are the type of men that have little play and social experience in the first place. I’m sure there are men who would do this, I’ve seeen Craigslist ads for cheap rooming situations but has to be a woman of a certain age. Those type of men are weirdos and not desirable(yes even average men can be) either ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:32 PM
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And it was! Was small because of last minute coordination but I’ll take it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:39 AM
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Have a small dinner party tonight I’m tired, but the food is looking good rn!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:47 PM
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You’ll have some men who are red pill as fuck who say otherwise that they aren’t insecure or have trouble. I call bullshit, you don’t look for redpill with out some sort of insecurity or missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:31 PM
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You should be living life at 21 hanging with friends and making mistakes. Most of the marriages of people who got married at 18-21 from my cohort are divorced now. I’m 30
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:55 PM
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I was being judgy about something, a man’s reaction to his divorce by what everyone read as a cuck or open relationship situation, and they used it as an insult back along with my high Fe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:51 PM
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I think the psychical attractive part is important and defintely is a deciding factor at first but many here really downplay how having shitty social skills can fuck up any possibility of dating. Good social skills can make your best features even if you aren’t the most attractive more prominent thus making you appear more attractive. The vibe and aura pill need to be made. A 5/10 with vibes and aura will go further than a 7/10 no vibes and aura.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:49 PM
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Today I am reminded I am ESFJ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:42 AM
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Well this is definitely going to be a shit show of a thread imo. I at least respect the man looksmaxxinf and not just moaning online!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:32 AM
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If your goal is to gain a relationship and it keeps failing through dates playing you but at least you had fun isn’t that still fair to complain about. The goal still isn’t being reached If I get a nice steak dinner every other night, am I never allowed to complain about feeling hungry because the starving African kid has got it way worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:21 PM
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Ehh I’m shorter than you and there is enough. The percent of woman who will be attracted to you does go down. But I wouldn’t call at a min 1/4 woman rare. Now granted idk what numbers are like for sure and they differ depending on location. I’m talking US perspective. Rare to me would be like less than 5/100. This is my personal bias who was short but his reason for shitty dating life was not due to my height it was due to neuroticism and anxiety which are way bigger deals and icks to woman than…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:43 PM
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Can you elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:38 PM
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Yep even so called chads strike out. There numbers are better than average sure. But yeah 1/20 for a good looking guy seems about right. Learning to embrace the rejection and move on is the best thing you can do as man to help your game. I think one thing that happens is men get too in their head and hesitate about what to say. Instead of just enjoying the convo and escalating. Granted easier said than done. But that’s why you embrace the rejection, do what you can to either escalate or get reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:31 PM
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Depends on the user. I’ve seen countless time users will get fixated on one disadvantage/problem they have and their entire gig is “I can’t get woman because I’m (insert disadvantage)” and I know there are some disadvantages some people are born with that can be brutal. But having to hear one more heightcel who is 5’6” act like that’s their entire reason for why they can’t find love is annoying to me. It ends being some fixable problem that they don’t want to fix (neurotic, anxious, etc). Sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:22 PM
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Yep and there is so much confirmation bias that goes on. Especially in this subreddit, they will think anything that goes against their beliefs are the exceptions or fake no matter how radical and the ones that help their beliefs are the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 PM
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What do you mean brother you are red pill, just improve some, grind a bit and that can be yours too 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:45 PM
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What is yalls remidy if you have to go to sleep soon but you are just not feeling tired or highly anxious about something? Anything besides melatonin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:17 PM
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I told my gf I need 2 years to make my decision. Once 2 years got near started looking at proposal idea nd rings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:38 PM
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Yeah those groups attract a bunch of people who are bitter about their failures when the original premise is to let go of the negativity. It’s not decentering if you keeping thinking of the opposite sex and your problems with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:20 PM
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Those aren’t fwb men lol there is still the friend part of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:24 AM
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If you invite a few friends to a dinner or whatever and one doesn’t respond back to two messages would you call them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:29 AM
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When you finally lose your virginity on someone’s OF page, and someone comments “Where the rest of it” 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:12 PM
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Since joining the subreddit feel like my terminally online rate went up. Might have to take a few steps back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:30 AM
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I agree especially with how many recipes can be found online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:14 AM
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What hour do you typically go?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:13 AM
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Yeah this is a huge spectrum with so many people in the middle depending on where they are in life. Few people actually do make up the far ends of the spectrum. Even depending on your class you might find more of one side than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:13 AM
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Feel like some people use Chad to describe any man who is slightly attractive at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:41 PM
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lol what, post nut clarity to me I’m just on a nice cloud with nothing going on my head while I cuddle and giver her kisses. Maybe this is different from what most men feel. But all I want is her on my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah that’s why the digital nomad thing a few years back got so popular and then passport bro trend followed right after that. Now both have been things before Covid but Covid really got those groups in front of millions of eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:22 PM
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In this scenario tho we do share hobbies, but also the requirements for a partner are higher than the requirements for a friend to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:56 PM
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A bit smarter than me? Turned on… a good degree smarter than me that we don’t share similar hobbies nor can we have similar level of discussions? Turn off. I prefer a partnership where we are at the same level of smartness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:59 AM
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I agree AI is ruining a lot of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:40 AM
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I would feel betrayed. Because why is my friend fucking me over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:20 AM
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There is a thing as porn addiction. But I wouldnt call the guy who watches it for a few mins at most to get off an addiction. Would the person who is an all day gooner where watching porn interrupts or impedes their life who is an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:45 PM
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Yep a busy work day, some other stresss, little time to think of hobbies. Yep not thinking about sex or relationships at all and probably more about how nice my bed is going to feel when I get home and shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:42 PM
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It’s the casually part. Trying to appear that you are in it for the long term aspect but don’t fault me if this turns into a short term whatever. It’s how I read it…. Didn’t say I was 100 percent correct but I defintely don’t expect much from someone posting that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:51 PM
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That sounds more like being commitmentphobe to me than not appearing desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:28 PM
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So it was just brought out of the blue? Hmmm I feel like I would say “yeah it’s fun and it produces babies!” Idk sounds cringy but it’s what came into my head. Better a bit of cringe then awkward silence What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:09 PM
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Got the car check up on, ate some vermicelli with pork rolls. Grocery shopped for next week dinner party. Got a haircut too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:54 AM
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I was in a very good place when I met my current partner. When I was a teen I had a fwb/situationship just because I had many mental problems when it came to dating and relationships that continued in my 20s. I was anxious and neurotic and slowly took care of that in my mid 20s. I was still dating a tiny bit as I got better but by 28 I was pretty good and dating caused me little anxiety and eventually found my current woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:03 AM
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Nah girl he is defintely daddy and will soon be granddaddy 😋🤤 status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:26 AM
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I would eat all the food listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:24 AM
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What’s it entail to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:31 PM
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The dude was seen as a nonoption from the start because of the being gay part. They are fine with them as a best friend. The bisexual surprise might throw them off, “oh is he truly my friend or his the bisexual part to get closer to me.” Is my guess. I’m a man who comes across zesty and some may have called metrosexual at some point. It’s simply one of those cases were some woman like it and some woman don’t. But don’t be throwing them off. You show it from the start. It’s simply some what woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:21 PM
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Uhhh sorry in the ppd discord some of us use moid/foid as a term of endearment for our partners. It worked its way here on accident. Someone else started it and I started doing it ironically and it stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:32 PM
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I don’t care what anyone says, people are notorious for putting on a fascade that they themselves aren’t desperate. I think this goes doubly so for woman when describing an ideal partner. Woman are already the selective sex, they don’t want to feel like they had to do “worse” than other woman especially in hypothetical scenarios where on paper it does feel like you didn’t hit all what you wanted. But irl, we technically all settle even if we don’t view it as settling. It’s rare for someone for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:06 PM
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My woman decided last minute she wants to throw a July 4th party, inviting people last minute is not my cup of tea 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:40 PM
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Think he only poste the stat of female breadwinner or sole only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:01 PM
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Now will they actually do the work of training to become a firefighter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:15 AM
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Sakura in boruto is what happen when woman chase men. Look what happened, sasuke gone she like a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:22 AM
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It takes like 2 if you are consistent and hit your macros. Depends how fat you are to start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:06 AM
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Mark manson says that men are placed into 3 categories No which you can’t do anything about, Yes that you can only fuck up, and Maybes which is how most woman label most men. The goal should be to forget about the No’s as there is no point, straight yes are rare, and polarize the ones who are Maybe until they are either a no and you get to move on or a yes and you continue dating. Really embraces the rejection side of dating where you try to get rejected early to not waste time and to focus on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:33 AM
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I get that there are differences in dating dynamics between the sexes, but red pill takes it too far and it’s way to generalized. And AMALT/AWALT posts sometimes are more like men/woman are more likely to be like that instead of an entire generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:50 AM
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Yeah I’ve ghosted or stopped talking to someone for stupid reason that I’m glad didn’t lead to date. One I remember was “I’m an art major”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:47 AM
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How short we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:40 AM
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Question for shortcels: if you were 3 inches taller do you think that would do the trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:24 AM
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I know a discorder who was having a house party and his friend was messing with his crush(consensual) and were in discorders bed. He got mad and brandished a gun at them to get out. This was in Norwegian I believe or Sweden. Well they called swat on him, now he stuck having to play day trade for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:17 AM
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I have a feeling she didn’t mention that part before they called him a chad. Probably something he did and she still stayed with and someone goes “see if you are Chad they will do anything for you, no effort…”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:37 PM
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There is a reason many of us are purple pill. You get to deep in red pill and you just get lost in the sauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:26 PM
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He has been cringy for a long time in my opinion but it’s part of his brand. He was on shark tank before he blew up and was a bit cringy then too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:01 PM
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If we are calling the left flat ass then serve me up some breakfast because I’m eating pancakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:53 PM
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We have an alpha m fan I see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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Yep, my fade never looks dry and only bad if I didn’t sleep at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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Nice same. SPF30 in the morning sometimes lazy about the retinoid tho. Idk why that’s the one I’m lazy about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:51 PM
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How many of yall men have a skincare routine that’s more than just water on the face? I think my skincare routine is 7 maybe 8 steps. That and good genes and still looking young at 30z
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:04 PM
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Couldn’t sleep well last night but not tired. Well at least I have all weekend to sleep!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:25 PM
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Oh come on now it was funny you even deleted the comment, I’m laughing don’t be sour like a pickle. But if you want to be airtight that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:35 AM
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I don’t think that type of woman would ever like some doormat type guy. From what I read she was texting someone from his phone and he used his Apple Watch to say that “it’s Lisa using the phone”. I’m not condoning anything she did, but this type of woman would not feel satisfied nor be attracted to a complete doormat. The thrill is probably some guy who is in between and turning them into a doormat Lonely men are neurotic and this is too crazy for them to deal with. Take back a few steps and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:16 AM
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Omg fr this user is some sort of jardigger. This is so unfair in 2025 woman expect us men to buy them jars and to open them? Where do they contribute to this jar society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:58 AM
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According to who? And what are the standards? I was in passport bro telegram for a bit and let’s just say the men in there weren’t exactly winners. I met some irl they were mostly fine but usually had some social difficult that the language barrier helped with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:20 AM
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Hmmm maybe the first sentence needs a “/s” I was being sarcastic. I thought the second sentence would help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:11 AM
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Oh Yes, Ive never seen a western woman dated a non-western man. /s Shit even the obese white woman can find a Mexican man who needs papers. Is it ideal? Probably not the options are there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:46 AM
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Did I read this wrong or a misdemeanor is required to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:08 PM
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How much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah this proposal does not work out, you can’t change society in this way, the only people are going to win are the ones who don’t listen and still approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:22 PM
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Well that certainly is hyperbole, and it doesn’t exactly take a genius to think people get into relationships without some benefit either being emotional, social, enjoying company, physical, etc. If the only thing one person likes about the other is money and the other person likes is getting their orgasm that may be true what you said but relationships are more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:52 PM
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I think men should have lower disgust levels then woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:15 PM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:12 PM
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I just don’t find it manly to not enjoy that is all. But I’ve never been with a woman who didn’t do oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:11 PM
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My dad did not teach me anything about woman besides not to date single moms. Most of what I got from him was work ethic as he was a Hispanic immigrant. I’m purple pill because there isn’t that much wrong with blue pill but some men need more help then others when it comes to dating, or at least need to be more analytical with their approach to social and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:11 PM
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Nothing gives you more sense of control than going down on your woman, and controlling her movements, quivers, moans with your tongue and lips. Idk why dudes are so against this form of treatment for their woman/partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:19 PM
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If it’s consensual and they joined because they wanted to fine do what you want. But im sure we can get in a huge semantics debate on what counts as voluntarily joining vs economics/hardships/noothercareeroptions. There is line and people’s opinion on where the line is different. But I would never date anyone who has been in that industry. Not my jam. My friends aren’t typically sexual deviants, but I don’t see why I wouldn’t be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:18 PM
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Yeah I guess it’s hard to explain algebra to someone who cannot pass the times tables. Maybe one day you will get it. Took me a few years but eventually I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:05 PM
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You should also be exploring things you may enjoy you’ve never done before if possible. Don’t let your comfort zone keep you back from finding out who you are. It’s rare that the only thing you enjoy is play video games. Also pretending to be someone you aren’t only leads to resentment later on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:43 PM
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That’s why you should polarize as much as possible. Gets you quicker to either moving on to the next step or rejection, which is the goal. Don’t waste your time on someone who is probably going to reject you. Might as welll get it done ewrly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:35 PM
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Some sort of accidental castration, not doing this voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:26 PM
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Well I don’t watch hentai for one and that’s where my mind goes when I hear it and because your average woman if they even know what hentaii is going to think tentacles. I just asked a few on the discord and this includes woman highly representing online users outside of normie spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:49 AM
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Look I’m an RN, I’m well aware of the difference between a period and ovulation. Usually 5 days after period ends and then add around 2 weeks is the period of time for ovulation if you want to play it safe. I’m not like talking precision accuracy Again I never said it was smart but my estimates aren’t far off since I’m pretty conservative with my timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 AM
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I don’t want to get all autistic about how many days her cycle is but I’m pretty precise by 2 days or so when her period starts. I didn’t say I get it on the dot but it’s good enough that I know around when her period starts and around when her ovulation is. Yes it’s an educated guess but a decent enough one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:09 AM
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I start off having sex with my LTR partner without a condom and then put one on when I start feeling urges that I might cum soon as crazy as that sound. Yes I know it’s stupid. I do track her ovulation cycle myself and I’m pretty good at it. I even tell her she should be starting her period soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:44 AM
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The guys like OP described might ask woman out but they are red pill and whining for a reason, bitterness about something they are doing wrong or not wanting to do gender traditional things for some reason or another. Like paying for a first date or so. It’s one of those things we’re focus on yourself and improve yourself and youlll be fine. Don’t show bitterness and you’ll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:05 AM
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Edit: sorry was speaking in another thread thought this was the same one, Ultra feminist like support feminism? Or you mean like feminine brained men? I don’t see how that ties into the convo. I’m a feminine brained man but I’m still active and intentional with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:45 AM
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This is what I always tell dudes in here complaining and given up. Typically they are average looking dudes who don’t try to improve or ask woman out. Just by trying to improve yourself and actually being intentional in dating you are going to beat out 20 percent of dudes. Nonetheless whatever quality traits you already possess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:35 AM
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Yeah one of the things many guys got wrong who I assume have social problems is assuming the dude who got girls is an asshole. He may or may not have been but for sure he had a backbone and was decisive, qualities that are attractive. But if girls had to choose they would choose the guy who is nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:32 AM
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Controversial with some people in PPD: Being nice and kind is an attractive quality to have when you are appropriately able to stop being nice and kind, for example someone about to take advantage of your kindness or cause you harm. The trait is attractive as long as you have a backbone not to be taken advantage of and stand up for your values. “Nice guys” aren’t nice they are passive and have no backbone typically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:19 AM
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Your argument in the title isn’t, “men too were shamed or repressed.” I too suffered from sexual shame early in my adulthood and teens. Your argument is “no evidence of woman being more repressed…” when all the evidence, you even include it in your OP post, says other wise. Men still suffered from it and they still do today as well as woman. But historically woman were given less leeway like you said, and any fuck up from sex they are usually left with the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:05 AM
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Let’s be honest anyone who isn’t some online shut in is going to say regular person porn. At least it indicates you are a human who you know gets off regular sex vs fucking tentacles. Idc what anyone says watching hentaii is weirder in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:01 AM
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So then having a bit of a feminine face is good for a man rofht
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:51 PM
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Dont give the incels here hope. You going have them saying “it’s all luck”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:51 PM
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Are you a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:48 PM
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You have to be in her sexual radar to even be lusted for. Most woman are reactive vs proactive when it comes to sexual relationships. You have to present yourself first as an option and then she decides to proceed or not. If you pass that then you will feel the lust. Especially during ovulation, woman will have a similar desire that men have. Trust me man I’m 5’6”, I’ve been desired before multiple times and my woman always tries to seduce me. You can be desired for many things despite your heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:17 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the rest says if your title is “there is no real evidence” then proceed to present evidence that they were indeed more repressed in your opening paragraph. It’s a horrible execution of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:21 PM
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You know you literally countered your own statement in the first paragraph right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:45 PM
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I work with kids in a hospital setting and to calm them down we put in YouTube clips of their favorite show and I can’t use that on the hospital computer nor on my phone. It’s only 11 a minth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:43 PM
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I pay for it (insert Chad emoji)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:34 PM
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I don’t think you actually have to have sexual and dating success to be perceived as higher status. As long as the perception is there that you do have success then it will build upon itself, (ex: popular high schooler who doesnt date but woman like and desire him and THINK he dating other woman but is humble about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:33 PM
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Yeah this is one of those the problem feeds itself kind of things. Those woman or men tend to already have a negative view for one reason or skother and constantly end up with people who confirm their views and ignore everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:29 PM
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There are woman manipulators out there for sure that aren’t on onlyfans but to constantly being meeting them and dating them? That typically signifies a vetting issue on OPs part. What’s the average male PPDers wage? Like 70k? No one gold digging is going after your average wage. Not saying manipulators don’t exist but if you are confusing them with gold diggers idk what to tell you. It’s a vetting problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:26 PM
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Sex can be a resource one can exchange for money. Yes that’s prostitution and some people have morals against it. Love on the other hand, maybe money can at best influence it but you can’t buy love. You can use money to make your self attractive and what not and maybe indirectly buy it but you can’t outright pay someone for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:37 PM
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Well it’s called a “delulu” list for a reason. I know couple of these girls who made lists like these. I think one actually ended up with a dude taller than that the rest were average height dudes. It’s a preference, I’ve always said people have all these requirements when dating someone but when they meet the right person that person can break many rules and still get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:54 PM
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I mean he has been a lot of acting roles that he has done really good in. He is popular for a reason and keeps coming back. He stood out in his break out role in Game of thrones. He was so memorable I think he is a great example of being close average looking but having aura and vibe that raises your attractiveness. Another example is bad bunny. Yeah say this is status also you want but no one is giving sexy awards to Ed Sheeran nor to Jay z
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:40 PM
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I used to be like “why would I do that she doesn’t need to know where I’m at” before getting into a ltr . But one of us shared our location(want to say her first), for one reason then the other did it as well. And now we been sharing our location for about a year. I check it to see when she gets home when I’m at work and stuff like that not really that involved with the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:36 PM
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The guest has a likeable personality least it gets you through the front door. Honestly I don’t think there is anything wrong with going the sweet innocent approach it works for some people if you have a good job and your life is in order but probably not going to work in your 30s .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:22 AM
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I think beta bux does exists but it’s not common. And it’s not some woman who is in her late 20s still hot marrying a scrub with money. I’ve said it before but the only instance I commonly see beta bux enough to not call it an exception is hot single moms dating dudes they wouldn’t have dated if they didn’t have kids. I’m sure we’ve all seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:10 AM
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I’m a dude who has hit on woman. If a woman you are hitting/convoing on whatever, says no to whatever form of contact you are asking for and gives not other alternative it means she isn’t Interested 99.9 percent of the time. I’ve defintely got a, “oh I’m not on Instagram but here is my snap,number, etc.” before
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:42 AM
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I do like the ASBB better than AFBB I agree that way more. From my life on earth the only place I’ve seen AFBB be more than just exceptions, maybe not the standard but happening commonly enough, is hot single moms dating some dude she wouldn’t be with if she didn’t have kids. Everything else has been so few in numbers it’s the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:57 AM
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Ahh yes you too can have the “Chad Experience” TM just be willing to live life in a whole new nation, trick woman, and use your American status as bait on a fishing pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:51 AM
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God, that in order to get what you want your going to have to active about. Sometimes you have to ask awkward questions or statements to get what you want or have some failures. And that’s okay failures teach us lessons and help us learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:48 AM
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Oh lol, typically I think high school sweethearts marry young like 20. And yeah our vacation is probably going to cost 10k or so as well when we go. So this is like a 13-15k trip
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:46 AM
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Well you probably got married young. She is lates 27 and im 30 so you know can afford better vs younger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:30 AM
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He is like a 3.5-4
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:27 AM
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Ooh I’m seeing it now, some look eccentric but some look perfect!! Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:19 PM
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Yeah this is a woman trying to be nice and doesn’t mind the convo but doesn’t want anything out of it. It’s like small talk with the cashier essentially at a grocery store. And some people too awkward to end the convo properly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:13 PM
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Lol he probably in the 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:11 PM
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I have 4 months to get an engagement ring before my trip to Vietnam. Any ladies want to help me find somewhere I can get a ring with two round gems in the band one on each side. Budget probably around 3-5k nothing too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:07 PM
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Wait is he fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:03 PM
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This body not hard to find in California at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 PM
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You aren’t American at all are tou
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 PM
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I agree with you. Someone in the emotional labor thread said we should be helping our family members. But if you are having mental health problems multiple times a week or severe crisises and you don’t even want to seek help besides burdening your loved ones with it then you aren’t even helping yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:14 PM
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Mfer went ppb route then suprised he is footing the bill. But mondo is mostly correct, most woman want you to pay for everything. You need to stand up for yourself, but with the income disparity between the two I can see why she wants you to pay for everythjng
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:58 PM
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I agree, there is a thread recently posted about “strategically bitching,” but I find it more that woman have to nag with most men in order for things to get done or their way of communication. The woman who don’t nag? Passive and unsatisfied and can’t communicate what they want to set boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:49 PM
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Yeah this is one of those ones where I think it’s fine if she it’s standard pic she just happens to be with and you crop her out. Shit I even had two shirtless selfies and did fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:45 PM
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She isn’t as strong and popular anymore because they have added a lot of new supports recently. She is hard to kill. But she does get banned semi frequently on competitive due to people not liking mercy olayser 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:25 PM
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Raw sexual attraction I think I can agree, willing-fullness to commit increases imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:34 AM
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I think it’s better than ever now. After getting use to 5v5 I think they made more improvements due to have to compete with marvel rivals. They unlaunched new game modes but they aren’t my favorite. Regular comp is a lot faster than Overwatch 1 which had a lot of shields.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:33 AM
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After years of being hard stuck platinum with a few stints of gold I have finally reach diamond in Overwatch in ranked role queue. Except for season 1 where I was rank 60 before converting to metal ranks. Now I can finally play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:07 AM
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Depends on the man I see plenty of chubby chasers in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:40 AM
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16 and already has more wisdom than many poster in their 20s in this subreddit. But dude get off this place, probably not the best for teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:06 AM
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No because we all know McDonald girls end with up with upper class men who only care about looks and introduce them to his parents. Parents going to be defintely proud that she has a min wage job at McDonald’s because “she has a cute face”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:50 AM
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Could you not have stated it more like if woman don’t want men to be promiscuous then they won’t sleep with him until he shows some sort of commitment? I don’t see how the rape thing ties into promiscuity shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:48 AM
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So you have not one good thing about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:45 AM
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lol no. So many regular looking dudes here blaming their looks when it’s their neuroticism and/or passitivity fucking them over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:23 AM
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Do you have any hobbies? Even free ones like running?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 AM
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No I think they just got him 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:57 AM
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Damn the mods really didn’t like how much truth and conspiracy he was dead on about. It’s so serious they didn’t even let it on for 2 mins. He really has it going on the point about what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:35 AM
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Did they fix or shred of the meniscus? Either ways lcl repairs makes your recovery long af 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:45 AM
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Nothing wrong with spoiling my girl she deserves it I also get benefits😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:39 AM
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Work and lifting, my gf working 48 hours this week so won’t really see her much until Friday. I finished my work portfolio for promotion was 60 something pages I will turn in after I get my signatures. Probably going to be a quiet weekend. Probably find something bigger to do on July 4th weekend. Spent 300 on a date two weekends ago and 150 this past weekend on another date so I can use a cheap weekend 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:32 AM
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Oh yeah sometimes my woman will be screaming and I’m like damn I want what she having. Then I be thinking “oh that means I want to dick myself down huh”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:58 PM
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What do you call him tho? Is he an average looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:58 PM
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So essentially woman’s peak is highest, but in average their libido is lower than a man’s. On average over the course of a month the man’s libido is at a 6-7 while for a woman it’s at around a 4 until she is ovulating then it’s a 9-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:53 PM
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I’m telling you it’s anxiety around escalating and intimate convos involving having to escalate. I get it, that was once me. His friends tell him that is all but confirmation his looks aren’t his problem. I have plenty of friends who look just like him(Mexican-American that look like him are common) and they do fine. It’s a confidence anxiety thing. There is no stakes when he is talking to coworkers or friends with no intentions of trying to flirt or escalate, that’s why he does fine there. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:49 PM
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<image> Here is one, he looks a bit tall but let’s be honest none of yall would call him Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:46 PM
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Well yeah superficially you have no problem. It’s the escalations and trying to show interest that you have trouble with. People telling you what you just said proves that physically you are fine. Essentially trying to have intimate convos is wheee it falls apart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:37 PM
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Yep, one thing that got me better about that is working at hospital, realizing they aren’t any cleaner than I am. I don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:32 PM
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Yeah if people are telling you this irl then yes your looks aren’t the problem lol. He definitely has some sort of anxiety when talking to chicks 1 on 1. I was the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:26 PM
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What do they want then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:23 PM
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That sounds like intensity of orgasm rather than libido. When someone says they have lower libido I typically think their sex drive over a period of a week is like maybe having sex or master bating once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:18 PM
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This is one of those takes that only people who spend their time online typically say. Most people are well aware men have higher sex drives on average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:49 PM
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I work with a lot of female doctors. It’s pretty rare to meet one who is single unless they are in residency but yeah they typically married to other doctors. I have met a few married to lawyers, nurses, mid levels, tech workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:15 PM
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The more traits you have that OP has the more attractive your personality is to woman for a LTR and the easier it is to get into a happy relationship. I think the one thing you really can’t be as the standard(sure there are exceptions) is being passive and neurotic. You have those traits? The amount of woman youll will be with or meet is very little. They’re countless examples of men with negative traits who still get into relationships. But the rare ones are those who never make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:10 PM
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Yeah there is something else OP isn’t telling us with that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:32 PM
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I think you can survive 6 months off if you have 5 years saved. The only thing is the market I feel is going to be chaotic this year but it’s the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:27 PM
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Yeah I’m similar but idk how I will feel in35 years time, life gets in the way sometimes. But that’s good it means you don’t dread work. Better that than burning out constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:17 PM
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I think it’s less about traveling and more about not having to work when your are old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:12 PM
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You never made a move on these woman until months into meeting off a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:56 PM
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I live in a tech area city and it’s because of the stereotype that tech workers have of being socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:13 AM
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Most stupid thing I’ve heard from this space is someone saying that his knowledge of social interactions, dilemmas, treatments by the sexes is above people who actually interact socially irl as he is free from bias…. Where does he get his information from? Reddit, TikTok, Instagram…. Does he socially interact with anyone irl? No really I wish I was making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:26 AM
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Cool but if you aren’t tall might as well have a good build. I’m the same height as you so you can do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:03 AM
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A man with a good dating history and two beach pics on dating app profile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:56 PM
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Liar, a lot of woman do. Example: me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:55 PM
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Realize your rejection rate will be higher but not zero but the more attractive you are the better your chances. Better to be a good looking short man than ugly looking short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:45 PM
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I’m a 5’6” dude who lookedmaxxed since 20, at 23-24 realized I was too passive/neurotic as well and fixed that. Your height isn’t that bad, sure some woman will disqualify you solely based on that but there’s plenty of woman who height requirement is “be a few inches taller than me”. If you can improve your attractiveness do it. But realize that you also need to improve your qualities such as passiveness if you have that. Being active as a man dating is what will really improve your dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:36 PM
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Oh okay I can see that working but I already reached my limit for 4 hours 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:12 PM
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Weird how did you do that I just tried it myself and it wouldn’t give me a number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:58 PM
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Even then when you start a relationship with someone they don’t really show their true colors until months in. Sure you might get a clean version of their colors at first but we aren’t showing everything right away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:07 PM
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Well that’s why you approach a “get to know this person” manner not a “I love you based on how I assume you are” manner I’m basing what I’m saying on you thinking it’s love. It’s a crush at best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:54 PM
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Some things sure. But I could be wrong about my assumptions. If you are in love with them, you are more in love with the idea of them not who they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:35 PM
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Maybe you are confused with the English language but loving the way someone looks or dresses is not equal to “loving someone”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:26 PM
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Hey now I got it easily and have known it for years. I just need to TLDR it the dummies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:46 PM
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Ahhh what is your song of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:49 AM
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How was the pillow fight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:44 AM
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Sorry sorry I meant that I saw unattractive woman with normal looking guys and unattractive guys with normal looking girls but they aren’t the standard. But the typical couple is looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:14 AM
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Beer of choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:03 AM
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Saw one dude who looks just like you just a bit shorter and longer hair. Holding hands with a baby doll faced gueritta slim thick too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:49 AM
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I saw it went both ways, love is complex but typically most couples looks matched. There’s typically some catch or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:48 AM
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At my the county fair and again just stepping out I see couples of different shapes and sizes holding hands like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:44 AM
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This is one of those things that when it works it works but when it doesn’t it doesn’t. Some people do mind but others don’t. Can’t read minds and perfect scenarios to ask for a number rarely are there. Up to you really. Got to just make it as casual as possible and that there are no hard feelings about rejection or make it as open as possible that a no is okay. I would say headphone in tho is a bad call.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:16 PM
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This is more about self control really, your average man might view a few mins of porn at most a day and it doesn’t interfere with any of his daily activities or way of living. The ones fucked by it have little self control and have addicted to dopamine from it like any other addiction. Essentially the difference between someone who does drugs recreationally vs an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:48 PM
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Overwatch competitive drive this weekend, my woman saw me playing for 2 hours and needed her attention. I love her but sometimes I just want to rot for a day and have an 8 hour session of annoyances and being so close to diamond 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:03 PM
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Someone was tough on me when I was like him in my early 20s. Eventually I got out of it after a few years of get the mentalcel shit out of my head and I thank them for it, if I stayed passive like that I would be just like him today. Too many of us have the internet as a comfort zone and it makes us too scared to get out of it. Should we coddle them like every other black piller with their bucket in a crab mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:14 PM
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I guess depends what you consider it then. Is missionary only under the covers lights off count? I don’t think so but I would garner a majority of couples are in pound town. Young not religious people for sure… do you have a crush on anyone? If so she been to pound town already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:49 PM
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Depends what your major is, if it’s not stem and more health science or liberal arts then pre-calc sounds right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:46 PM
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He doesn’t want to initiate is the thing he already failed before he started
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:44 PM
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That’s everyone who is married essentially… that old cute couple you see sometimes? You bet that dude took Granny to pound town
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:43 PM
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Pre calc easy. Don’t sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
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Except Brian Scalabrine is closer to LeBron than any of us will ever be to Brian scalbrine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:42 PM
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I don’t get the abused dog part. This is more like me walking by the homeless guy asking for change when he is capable of working a job on my way to buy a newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:15 PM
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Is this just going to be your life, doom posting everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:10 PM
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What works for one group of woman isn’t going to work on another. It’s simply reading the room and accepting that if you get it wrong you get it wrong sometimes. I tell my girl that part of being a man is making a decision and accepting when it doesn’t pan out. If you just overthink all this you’ll never make a decision and just be passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:42 PM
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It’s kind of hard to say, I already have a flirty tone to the way I talk and I work in a field with mostly woman. So it could just about everyday but none of it is serious at least from my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:34 PM
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No I’m the 5’6 dude who doesn’t have trouble once I figured it out with the ladies and he is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:42 PM
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OP I’m being kind of serious but no one is stopping you from not being heterosexual if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:35 AM
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I think it’s more of a confidence thing. It’s one less thing to worry about, sure if you are super cool with your roommate you don’t worry but now imagine if you just didn’t have one? It’s never even in your mind that your roommate is sitting on the couch when you walk in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:33 AM
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Yep I assume you’re reading and following the thread. I havnt been broke for a while and I’m older but there was always a way and time especially when you are a young dude without kids or a partner. While food has increased in price due to inflation I won’t deny that, gym memberships havnt really gone that up much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:27 AM
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You are literally making excuses. If you are lazy I can’t help you. I made calisthenics work with water bottles, my backpack, textbooks and whatever else I could manage. I’m not disagreeing that you need to get your money up. But I refuse to believe the people making excuses in here don’t have any free time to commit to a basic routine even if it’s not at a gym. Especially if you are single without kids. I’ve done it while working 60-70 hour weeks and still making time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:24 AM
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Bro you are a dude making min wage and saying that a gym membership is “hella money” dude everything is hella money to you. This isn’t exclusive to gym membership at this point for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:15 AM
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Have you tried calisthenics, running, kettlebell workouts, I’m sure I could keep going? You know there was this thing called covid 5 years ago in a lot of areas gyms closed for months to up to a year and a lot of gym regulars managed. And im sorry but if you can’t afford a 40 dollar monthly membership nor you want to do any of the other activities that don’t require a membership and are cheaper idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:12 AM
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I will call that survivorship bias haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:07 AM
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We need foreign pill at this point because tired of arguing with dudes who are not western trying to talk about western dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:05 AM
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I don’t remember the convo but I think we were just talking to pass the time as we worked front desk at a hotel. There was no attempt to insult me there imo just her attempt at banter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:04 AM
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Oh perfect get a Costco membership and your protein just got extremely cheap for 60 bucks a year you can get 2 rotisserie chickens for 10 bucks total and that will mostly hit your protein requirement for most of the week. Rice, sweet potato’s are cheap. They seek rice you can just microwave and frozen veggies you can microwave as well. I lived for 16 months without access to cooking besides a microwave. Also Trader Joe’s sells chicken breast that is already precooked, doesn’t taste the best but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:02 AM
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You can get a planet fitness membership for 15 a month. Are you guys like dead broke or just not making a very good salary? A decent diet just requires mostly upping your protein requirement. Gym memberships especially basic ones are pretty cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:58 AM
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Rotisserie chicken for dinner. They are cheap and full of protein and every supermarket sells them. I used to be a travel worker with only a microwave. Frozen veggies that can be microwaved. Chicken isn’t that expensive…. Protein shakes are cheap. I literally built muscles as a broke teen and so do every other teen. Do you think they are living in money? But before I keep going on are you American….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:56 AM
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Yeah and unless you are like some charismatic specimen of a man a girl isn’t going to pursue a man who her close friend has a crush on. Especially if he hasn’t made a move on that guel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:51 AM
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I remember when I was 21 during my “-cel era” a girl asked me if I were to go on a date where I would go. I said to the trampoline park. She laughed and said it was innocent but cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:47 AM
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Muscles don’t take money just decent diet and a gym routine. Tattoos not sure about, a lot of poor people have them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:44 AM
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The real pill is not having to penny pinch, having your own spot without having to worry about roommates or parents getting in the way of any fun, and being more independent imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:43 AM
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And pre selection isn’t a guarantee that other girls will like you. Just increases your chances of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:41 AM
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What? No way it’s billions of other people’s fault. They should change, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:19 AM
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Yeah those frat boys seems to do fine with the ladies. Seems like one of those things that have their own group of people that prefer one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:00 AM
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Probably just be smith-Jones. Yeah my partner doesn’t have a hyphenated last names. It seems to be one of those things that neither of us are that strong about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:55 PM
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Yep my jam, a bit upscale cocktail with dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:51 PM
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Do you have any preplanned topics you would discuss or an idea of where exactly you are walking too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:24 PM
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For those who have never gone on a date, say you have someone willing to go on one with you. Where would you take that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:06 PM
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They don’t date extremely up either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:42 PM
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Idc if my girlfriend wants to take my last name. My parents did not, my last name is hyphenated. I want our kids at least to have hyphenated last names. Thing is we come from two different cultures and I wouldn’t like losing that sense of culture myself. I’m a bit unique yere
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:40 PM
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My gf doesn’t work today and had to go to downtown and is going to get lunch there and pick up an entree for my dinner after I come home from the work and gym 😁 let’s go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:36 PM
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They don’t date extremely up as well I’m not arguing g that they don’t date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:33 PM
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Yeah used to be a thing when woman didn’t really have much financial options back in the day. Not as much these days especially since both partners work at least in the US. Typically in marriages where the man has most of the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:02 PM
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I would view not paying child support as morally wrong. But either ways OP says I’m being too technically but generally anyone gambling for this money would be typically doing so legally or receiving a bonus would be a work bonus put on your w2 and/or 1099. I’m sure there are numerous exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:57 PM
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I would view it as wrong. Why are you hiding something like that? But I’m someone who believes in financial transparency. I assume most people here are American.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:55 PM
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Because if you divorce, your marriage partner is entitled to half of any assets. You can hide it all you want but you have to claim it on your taxes, not doing so is tax fraud. So there is a paper trail somewhere if someone wants to dig
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:40 PM
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Not saying they are making much money off of it more like a side thing. You know for the betterment of woman or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:15 AM
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Similar to my experience from the man’s side when I’ve been having a bad day or hear some bad news or face an anxiety. Many people take being “emotional” as being a crying baby who breaks down at the sign of any resistance or fear. I’m just in tune with my emotions. When I’m happy I’m smiling laughing really good mood, sad I’m stating why I’m sad, angry I’m stating I’m angry not punching walls, annoyed maybe my face is a bit annoyed looking but I’m not doing anything stupid to make it obvious. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:02 AM
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I’m pretty sure there are plenty of niche dating coaches like this for woman. I doubt they are getting as much bites as rage bait videos like redpilled ones are getting. Edit: Matthew Hussey exists, my gf listens to him, I always heard her listening to someone thought he was more niche but he has over 1 million YouTube subscribers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:53 PM
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I notice with a lot of incel/blackpill posters there’s this idea where if a woman doesn’t only desire you when you put in as min effort then it’s not real as someone else probably didn’t need to do that. But it’s all cope at the end of the day to justify why they are what they
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:50 PM
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IMO that’s not how it works, you still have to have the sense of it reality tracking. If some hot dude is hitting up a very unattractive girl there would be some sense of “what’s the catch?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:14 PM
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I’m a man and same. Me and my woman have no problem stating if someone is attractive or not to each other. There is a bit of jealousy at time but it’s more banter because we are both adults and looks isn’t everything at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:33 PM
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The only place I hear these level of standards are TikTok/insta reel compilations for rage bait views.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:51 PM
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Could be something off with the dudes vibe. Vibes are very important when persuing anyone. You make the vibe seem like you are way better than her and it turns the woman off for example
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:31 PM
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Let me guess all the men that are not that are in relationships with woman…. She doesn’t truly desire them… Such a black pill cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:19 PM
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Sounds like they aren’t your friend, your just a pair of ears to them tbh. If that’s literally the only thing they speak to you about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:48 PM
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So this is multiple woman who do this? I don’t know what you are doing to end up in that situation. At most I get are my woman friends talking about a date or to vet a guy but never anything in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:03 AM
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I mean nothing wrong with shooting your shot if you think there is something there. But don’t get highly upset if it doesn’t turn out how you expect. It’s okay to be a bit bummed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:44 AM
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Doesn’t sound like she your friend if that’s what you are to her only and you gain no benefit from her. Don’t know what to tell you. I’ve seen plenty of dudes I wouldn’t call good looking who have woman friends like I do and it’s easy way to meet other woman that they date. Don’t know what to tell you, but if she telling you about her fuck buddy boy toy you went in too homosexual pilled and your one of the girls. And this is coming from someone who is a bit woman brained myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:38 AM
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Yes, there is nothing wrong with having woman friends. Guess who has good ideas that other woman enjoy? Yes woman! Guess who gives you social proof that you interact with woman so you may not be a total weirdo? You guessed it. Guess who can give you a different perspective on situations your guy friends might not?…. Look I’m not here to say this is going to solve all your issues but there are benefits many don’t see. I’m even one who says don’t get too much dating advice on how to date woman fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:12 AM
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Oh I’ve seen the US version but never the UK. So I can’t compare the two
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:07 AM
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I know the show I’m just not sure what it has to do with the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:00 AM
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I’m sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:22 AM
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I’ll name a non-physical one the ability to banter I just cannot live without banter and I’ve gone on dates with women who cannot banter and it’s not something I want to do again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:16 AM
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Looks at post history Yes bro whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:40 AM
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I love when my woman pays for my meal 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:17 AM
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I don’t dislike you for that more pity you for it. I dislike you because who your favorite user tho it reinforces some of my beliefs about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:57 AM
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This is the answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:35 AM
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Thinks their height is the reason for the celibacy. Found in men of up to average heights
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:34 AM
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This seems to be some foreign take because this doesn’t happen with most American woman. I’m a Latino and totally live up for Latino lover stereotype and giving her pleasure is part of the game and keeps the ladies cumming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:33 AM
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Wait are the heightcels wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:08 AM
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I have not met this person yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:53 PM
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I agree passion is sexy no matter what you do!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:53 PM
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Yep in my experience a lot of kisses and enthusiasm does the trick. Looking in your partners eyes, heavy breathing…. Listening to be receptive to moans and whimpers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:48 PM
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Okay I got in trouble for the last one! Let’s spread positivity! Who is your favorite ppd user?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:44 PM
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So essentially being good is being receptive, paying attention to partner, and enthusiasm!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:43 PM
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This is one of those things that’s a definite power thing. Essentially saying look I’m such high status or whatever that I can get girls without trying to look good. We have a guy in ppd here who does it with poor Filipinas even tho he is 300lbs close to and on disability. But it’s US disability but he in phillipines so he is essentially rich over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:01 PM
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Did your sidekick die after saving your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:41 PM
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Yeah Komodo seems like the easiest to evade out of the other 3, maybe if I can keep the rhino in one room I can hide in the other room as I doubt it can fit through the doorframe and it doesn’t have a running start. The ape and cat are gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:06 PM
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Wow what a chad already has girls throwing themselves at him. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:55 PM
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Maximizing one’s life through growth, learning, and embracing life in general with your loved ones to the best of your ability 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:29 PM
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The more I lifemax the better quality woman I have as a partner 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:42 PM
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Something has been wrong with the Reddit as well the last two days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:54 PM
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Most people are regular people, yes even regular people have sex and get into relationships is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:29 PM
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Could be two different groups of people tbf, woman not talking praise about their partners for example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:36 PM
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Just getting to a relationship means your chad to a few people here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:32 PM
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They would excel in sales and marketing. Edit: I’ll also add in the medical field. Good beside manners can greatly increase your patient’s satisfaction and also makeup for lesser clinical skills to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:22 PM
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Brother was committed to the gooning. Kind of sad sounds like a porn addiction there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:12 PM
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No, stuff like this seems to be directed at a crush the person currently has or their current romantic partner. But no desired and having my desire for her reciprocated. I’ve had a woman from the other side of the country somehow get my phone number, Snapchat, insta from a TikTok video that had none of those that I posted that she got obsessed with me for like two weeks and was calling me. Let’s just say after the first day I was done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:26 PM
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Yess I’m aware of that but there is some anonymity here that I would hope bring some responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:01 AM
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I would argue many on this sub are terrible daters. Some of it may not be their fault tho. I don’t think you end up on this space without having some sort of social difficulty. People in this space are what imagine a group of people who have difficulty with the nuances of escalating and progressing social relationships whether romantic or friendly. I’ll leave it at romantic as I would it’s harder from a social standpoint to form a romantic relationship than a friendly one especially with courtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:50 AM
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Oh I misread that as Ex bf and not that she is your ex friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:46 AM
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How much do you pay for this type of content
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:31 AM
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How much are we talking on a monthly basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:06 AM
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Hmmm I did not think about that, I would imagine there is still porn being produced on the free sites maybe not of the same quality it once was now with onlyfans. Would you say the quality of onlyfans is dollar per dollar than say a subscription to one of the paid sites that give you a collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:06 AM
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Interesting was the cause of the relationship to end or at least one of the reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:04 AM
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Is lore Olympus smut? I just quickly googled it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:03 AM
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Tell me about this app? How did you find out about it, and is it mostly like an AI voice and text thing or does it have more video features as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:02 AM
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Case is in point ^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:45 PM
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I agree a lot of men don’t even try to pursue these days. They got rejected in their teens at worst and then made it their whole schtick that why even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:31 PM
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I’ve hardly seen people that proclaim being leftist also be the same people who love traveling. Maybe 1 or 2 from my recollection. But those two things are two different types of woman. I went on dates with multiple woman who traveled a lot. Wasn’t going to work with my schedule so it wasn’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:24 PM
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Yeah I’m not a huge black pill fan but there are some men who will be unluckily born with defects or deformity. But there is a sizable amount (at least half) of them that can absolutely improve their profile, looks, value, etc. to get matches and messages and even dates. Granted they would have to learn the song and dance part of acquiring the date but a lot of us have learned it as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:26 PM
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It’s a multiplier, like think a rpg, improves your whatever state by like 10-20 percent, obviously imif your match or message back rate is low or zero at all it’s not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:19 PM
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A good and witty bio can have woman messaging you first more likely to message you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:34 PM
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Thank you. I have a very similar experience as you. I will add that another area where I see this happen is with single moms, if they end up dating a man without kids he is usually someone they would not have looked at if she didn’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:37 PM
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Most men are normal and get rejected then move on to the next woman. I’m sure there is one or two that took your rejection to heart that made then jaded tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:37 AM
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It’s kind of weird he is doing this in front of his wife. Like I get it attractive people are out there and it’s hard to not see them…. But does he really have to stare at his daughter’s friends and look at pics of them in front of his wife? But I will add something, older woman do make inappropriate comments towards younger men as well. I work in healthcare so a majority of my coworkers are woman. Let’s just say I’ve heard some stuff towards others and me and have been touched inappropriately. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:33 AM
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Basically it’s “I still want to see you but I also want to see others as well” in a nicer way it’s not a flat out rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:23 AM
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Ehhh I will say as someone who barely dated in high school went on a date and got a fwb on first try then proceeded to fuck it up due to many reasons of my own accord I thought the same until I had to date as an adult. You’ll find you have different lifestyles and standards that aren’t compatible with most people and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:21 AM
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Yeah I can see individual woman say this although not common but this isn’t a AWALT thing. This is just something that people who don’t want commitment say to make the rejection to be exclusive not as bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:15 AM
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Which pornhub vid you got loaded up my man!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:11 AM
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Imma be honest bro to bro she is telling you straight up she doesn’t want commitment. You can stay and accept being a side piece at this point but you are only going to get hurt if you think you can get commitment. And sure you could end up making her commit but it’s not going to come without some bumps and hurts. Her form of healing is seeming like to gain as much attention from different people as she can. It’s not worth it don’t save her she don’t want to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:06 AM
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So one reason it’s recommended to meet irl asap or within a week is because when you are strictly communicating with someone through text you create an ideation of this person with your preferred personality of what they are like. The longer you don’t meet the more that ideation is created. And let’s be honest most of us will shatter that ideation upon meeting and it’s not really fair. A lot of us don’t act online how we act in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:05 AM
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Oh god I can’t watch that it’s cringe af. Any woman telling you she on a healing journey like that OP pls don’t stick around unless you ready for her “healing” to be at your expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:57 PM
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What did she say? And how did yall reach this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:53 PM
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I agree but many blackpillers think looks solves all the issues, they make the initiation easier. There is so much more to attraction than looks alone and it’s hard to explain to those blackpillers because they are set in their ways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:50 PM
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What woman is calling sleeping around healing? I’ve never heard a woman say that in my life online nor irl. I have heard finding themselves or seeing what’s out there but tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:47 PM
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Twitch plays smut writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:28 PM
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How will you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:28 PM
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Was it hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:49 PM
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Yep you are right two days later from this and she attempted to badly dox me and use some tracer to find me. According to her I’m apparently a banned south Asian man in Nepal(only thing correct is that I’m a man. And deleted her account shortly after
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:49 PM
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Yep they always got another one in the messages ready. Might as well go for it early before someone else does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:18 PM
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Got to be less than 10 percent. Like the older celebrities we hear about that go for 18-20 year olds is already somewhere around there and we hear about them all the time (Leo, red hotchili peppers lead singer, etc. now we are going 4 more years down the line. The number defintely isn’t getting bigger but I can’t say how many are private about getting within 18-20 year olds vs the public ones that I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:10 PM
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And what are you going to do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:06 PM
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Nice wheee you going
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:45 PM
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I always think that on Monday, but I’m trying to save for 3 big trips over the course of this and next year
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:17 PM
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For what sir
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:16 PM
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My VTI is VTIing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:16 PM
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How is everyone’s Monday going? Could use another hour of sleep but we got to grind 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:03 PM
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Cool I speak from experience and share my thoughts. Just because it hurts your feelings doesn’t mean I’m pandering to anyone. I have a partner that already satisfies my needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:02 PM
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That may be top tier attractive men like models but it’s not your typical good looking guy. I would say attractive wise I’m in top 30 percent with the only negative about me is my height. But even then top tier guys arent autistic level personality mooching off of woman. There is more going on to the than just looks. There is a lot more going on than you think in the background. But you seem to not want to listen and already have some sort of blackpillish mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:01 PM
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Yeah not sure what she had against me. She accused me of being a red pill conservative too. If you ask any of the discord members I’m none of that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:00 PM
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You need be able to balance being a bit hot and cold imo. It’s a delicate balance. But tbh it’s mostly getting into short term relationships with woman with most of them leaving if it’s not leading to a committed relationship after a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:26 PM
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She deleted her account after saying she has a tracer bot or something that scan photos and text. Coincidentally when people said she reached too far as the video of the Indian man looked nothing like the pics I posted. Yeah it’s stupid the reaching people will do with something easily verifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:56 PM
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Yes, I recently started being active in the subreddit the past week or two and she has been accusing me of things I’m not. I guess she thought I was larping about a cherry picking date when we were debating something else after she scouted my profile history. Needless to say it was a shitty witch-hunt because that’s the stupidest things to larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:48 PM
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Essentially, she also has some shitty algorithm or something that can Apperently trace people’s history based off text and photo she accused me of being a banned user (I’m not). she tried to dox me as some south asian man in Nepal or that I’m stealing his videos and pics depending on how crazy she turned. But im a Latino man in California. Multiple people saw the video she tried to accuse me of being or stealing from when nothing added up. I’m pretty active in the discord that she was not aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:39 PM
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I can’t apparently I’m lying about having gone cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:27 AM
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We tried not to pick the sourest ones. I think they said the smaller darker ones were sour. There is a hint of tart but I like it and so does my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:21 AM
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Yes but they are good! Idk what the other user has going wrong with their head
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:19 AM
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<image> Down to 7lbs now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:17 AM
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Damn there are some crazies in here. More than I thought not very sharp people. We need to teach them some social engineering to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:42 AM
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Because text game is another facet, this is why it’s typically advised to meet your dating app partner sooner rather than later to see if you actually vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:23 AM
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What’s the script
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:22 AM
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No because men who think like that can’t fathom that woman’s way of becoming attracted isn’t the same as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:21 AM
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What’s not okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:20 AM
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Sure but a more interesting profile, better pics, better prompts, etc keeps them intrigued with you. Remember create a narritive keeps them hooked to want to meet you which is the next step of process which is getting the number and date. But I do say this as a man who believes woman aren’t any better pursuing other woman than men are if they too were a man. But the narrative falls short because dating app success and texting game isn’t much of indication of in person personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:11 AM
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Yeah but it’s not typically something you are not, it’s putting on your best face and making a first good impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:56 AM
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Ehh I would disagree, one thing I’ve talked to other users in the discord about is that woman want a narrative of you with your profiles. Your texts should be an extension of the narritive. The narritive should be an extension of you irl. Pics can defintely show case what kind of like you live which is part of your personality. Woman don’t like still men, they like men in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:53 AM
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Your typical good looking guy(not model like genes but conventionally attractive) isn’t getting past a a date or two if he has a shit personality (timid, neurotic, anxious, harmful,no vibes). Looks attract first but personality keeps you there. I say this as a dude who had a glow up in his mid 20s but still had the no vibe shitty personality and wondered why my dates went nowhere. And I’m not sure what you mean by “on”. Anyone having to keep it “on” is faking it. And this imo is where people get…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:43 AM
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I’m curious if we are allowed to use different pics for this. I’m a dude and you can’t believe some of the pics I’ve seen other dudes use and then wonder why they don’t get matches. Anything more than that seems like effort or trying and they want to not try hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:36 AM
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While I’m not disagreeing that on its own fixing your personality will magically get you woman. Common sentiment in dating subreddits is that you can only show so much of your personality on dating apps. Dating apps are primarily going to be looks based with your prompts maybe helping or hurting you a bit, but most people don’t even read the prompts if they don’t like how you look already. Dating subreddits typically recommend that if you really want to win with your personality vs looks then yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:31 AM
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You are correct, this is why I cant subscribe to any of the pills. There is so much misinformation passed along by members of each. And blue pill is too “if it’s meant to happen it will happen” To get the best out life you need work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:13 AM
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Hmmm I want to say not a dealbreaker. Depends how long ago it was and other factors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:01 AM
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Sometimes there is wisdom to the older people here, a lot of us have been in the shoes of younger people here and you see what happens to the ones who choose to do nothing vs ones who choose to better their life. Granted then the cope of, see they weren’t a “true-whatever” all this time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:58 PM
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It is mostly social media and I will give some credit a few of these men may have had a bad rejection in their teens that they overreacted into who they are today and the combo of social media doesn’t help. Getting accused of sexual harassment for asking a woman out and leaving it alone is nonsense. There is always more to the picture. Now not saying this has never happened but it’s not these daily occurances. They are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:00 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised if a face lift was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:33 PM
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A lot of them who say this havnt actually ever expressed interest in woman to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:06 PM
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She said she had a bf or didn’t actually want to meet by flaking or ghosting. Once interest is shown to not be there move on and you are good. My most embarrassing one was when I was texting a girl I was overconfident about because she was all up on me when drunk. She mentioned she had a bf before she was all up on me. I thought it was a joke after she was all up on me and I got her number. Anyways I’m asking her out and she keeps making excuses and I’m thinking to myself the excuses are legit b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:41 PM
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Where are the PPD daddies at
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:08 PM
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If you don’t care about the job a weeks notice is fine. Not like you will need that laundromat job and there aren’t plenty around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:00 PM
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<image> Dessert of course! It was like a fried banana pastry. And in the background is a rum vanilla and mango ice cream that’s on fire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:57 PM
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Hmmmm I guess sex can prolong or start a new honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:23 PM
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What pill do you subscribe to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:14 PM
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So dinner date was a cocktail pairing 5 course meal. Let’s just say I feel a bit like shit this morning from he drinks. I don’t drink much these days compared to my alcoholic weekends of my mid 20s. Didn’t even finish most of my drinks. Was good and my woman loved ir
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:13 PM
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Oh yes dancing, I’m not a good 1 on 1 dancer but at the club with a few drinks I’m down for a boogie. People see you are having fun and the vibes hit. It’s really underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:04 PM
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When did I state that I don’t state what I like. I just don’t say shit like “I’m better than single moms, fat woman, high n count woman” I say what I like and no one has shamed me for it. There’s a huge difference saying what you like vs shaming individuals for something you dislike and why you truene them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:03 PM
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Bro it’s not that bad calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:50 AM
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Thank you! And Yep these are just contengency plans but one thing I’ve learned about being a man is to prepare the best you can!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:21 AM
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Sorry I should have clarified I was okay dating students of medical professions that also start at six figures. My gf was at the end of finishing graduate nursing school when started dating . I’m okay with the potential to be over six figs as well. But I did turn down an art major I met on a dating app when I found out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:48 AM
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I’ve lived in 3 different locations and have never encountered it, rural GA, Atlanta, and Bay Area California. Maybe it happens but I have a good mix of US locations and never encountered it. And sure those online people exist online but they don’t make up the majority of people irl. Most people irl won’t give you shit if you don’t want to date a trans person but im sure I can find a community of people online who will
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:41 AM
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What does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:30 AM
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Took my gf on a wonderful cherry picking date. Can’t wait to enjoy them, then a busy time at Costco and in a bit getting ready for a fancy 7 course dinner date. Let’s just say ladies if he wanted to he would 🍷🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:29 AM
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I want to be financially independent. It comes from the anxiety of my dad losing his job during the 2008 recession and the only thing that saved us was that the house was paid off for due to selling an extremely overpriced home in the northeast and buying a relatively cheap one in the south. I make a bit over 200k, also if we have kids and for some reason I die I want to be able to know that my wife can stay afloat even if it’s working part time to keep the savings for kids college. I have a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:26 AM
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Yeah I’m not sure what there is to get offended by. I’m not telling anyone off for being attracted to me. I’m good looking man, I just wear it with pride
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:58 AM
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Which post? Trying to claim I’m ugly because fat woman like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:48 AM
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Well I’m not a 10/10 I’m a short dude(5’6”) who has been compared to looking like a combo young Charlie sheen/James Rodriguez mix. Not a model but definitely have a nice looking face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:22 AM
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Where did I complain? I simply stated that no one has given me flack before for not wanting to date fat woman. In those scenarios I just say “not my type” and leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:19 AM
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I assume if I attract fit woman, then there are fat woman who like fit guys as well? I’m not sure what you mean by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:14 AM
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Okay sure you can make a prediction but that’s currently not the norm right now which is the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:33 PM
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No and I’ve never been called fatphobic for not dating fat woman, most of my peers are pretty understanding of single people without kids not wanting to date others with kids, no one has ever shamed me for not wanting to date a lady known to get around. I’m not out here shaming others and saying harmful things. I just say “not my type” or “I don’t find her attractive” or “I don’t want to deal with kids” and move on. All this shame shit for this stuff I hear is mostly online rhetorics. Maybe the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:14 PM
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Maybe the most liberal of the most liberal are challenging that. But I live in one of the most liberal areas of the US (Bay Area California) and your typical liberal woman while they typically don’t believe gender roles SHOULD be strict they still mostly follow them as it’s a choice and they want to the freedom to choose, it just happens most choose to follow the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:11 PM
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Yeah I when you initiate with a woman as a man it’s more along the lines of like throwing a ball at her and seeing if she throws the ball back. If she doesn’t? You move on she ain’t interested. You want to engage with woman who want to play ball with you. It’s going to be back and forth with you initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:00 PM
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Yeah I agree, there are biological reasons why this is happening. And while it’s not exactly fair for a lot of men that’s life. You can either choose to accept it and play the game or just not play at all. But these men are typically passive and fear the approach , so they aren’t exactly going to be martyrs about this, just going to whine and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:48 PM
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Yes I don’t get why people don’t understand the biology of it. Men produce a shit ton of sperm, there is very little biological repercussions to a man spray and praying his semen. Woman produce one egg a month and can only produce a limited number of offspring. And that process can wreck a woman’s body, leave her vulnerable, etc. This leads to woman be the chooser of who she reproduces with(if given the choice). Now I’m not against woman approaching men but I see why they don’t. They already get…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:38 PM
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Where is this idea that most rejections are public humilatjons coming from? I’ll admit when I was a neurotic and passive man that was my worst fear but it is rare to begin with, most rejections don’t even feel like rejections. They are typically ghosting and flakes which they sting a bit but they aren’t out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:16 PM
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I follow the discussion thread not you in general, you just post a lot like me And if it makes you feel better I just hate to see someone similar with decent potential to me be so down on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:23 PM
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Long hair and skinny is pretty feminine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:29 PM
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So you think acting more out of desperation will make you more invested into the relationship? I never said do not put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:23 PM
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It’s called being able to pick yourself back. Lots of people understand it will sting. But the last part of the grieving process is acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:16 PM
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What’s usually discussed in here? I just recently joined the subreddit last week. I’m assuming we rate others or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:11 PM
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Yes, I’m not saying to view your partner as replaceable but you need to stop acting like you are replaceable. It’s going to make you come off as needy and overbearing. You need more of a mentality of I will put effort to make this relationship work but if for one reason or another it doesn’t work I will be okay. Now I’m not saying you aren’t going to feel bad but that you’ll be able to pick yourself up. I had to change my mindset to have that outcome independence back when I had my fear of rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:05 PM
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Jesus Chris would this have been me if I didn’t change my mindset about dancing monkey and other people just got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:52 PM
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Man some of yall have to change the mindset. If you got one girl into a relationship with you then given some time there is nothing stopping you from finding another one. You are giving woman this power over you because you are showing desperation and that is not attractive. Like a hungry dog about to lose his chewing bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:48 PM
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Some of us have active shit going in the following day and A hangover will ruin that. I can take one or two drinks at most but I’m terrible at babysitting a drink. So it just ends up looking like I don’t drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:38 PM
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Yes instead you will complain to us on reddit on why even try because Chad doesn’t yadda yadda. I bet you download chispa now get two-theee decent pics uploaded and you have some torta willing to go on a date with you in the next two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:26 AM
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Well at least you have good vibes in a group. But it’s a bit different when it comes to one on one. I used to have trouble with that. But luckily if you can do one you can most definitely do the other Most people daring aren’t celebrity levels of charisma Chill and goes with the flows just means you don’t take chances
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:19 AM
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I’m Latino as well granted from the south, and Latinos are the kings of being charismatic. We don’t be shorties while still getting woman without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:13 AM
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No game, zero vibes, neuroticism will do that to a mfer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:57 AM
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I have some similarities to you… but do you not considered yourself purple pill now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:29 AM
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Does bringing her a treat like a dessert count as a gift even if it’s not a cheap dessert? If so I could see it happening on a second date. If not and it’s flowers a 3-4th date earliest. But anything other than that she would be my gf first. I say this as a sit down restaurant for first date that I don’t mind paying for kind of guy. Edit: yeah the way asked in the video is a big turnoff. At first it was okayish and depending how well the first date went I can see myself bringing a dessert type g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:01 AM
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Well if someone says they are busy that week, that usually implies let’s try the following week, still under two weeks if anything where is it implied their waited weeks? yes they used to do it and advice against it now, I’ve been saying it’s anxious woman and typically those woman aren’t ever going to put with you. No one is advising others to do this. And in two of the links you posted they are dudes. None of them are Making them wait over weeks just for times sake to vet him real well, they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:40 AM
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You never responded to the fact you read a thread wrong about advising woman to wait weeks to go on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:13 AM
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Yo can I ask you a question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:08 AM
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And did that help you attract woman? I will admit back in my teens and early 20s I dabbled in some PUA/light red pill, I could never really commit that it was mostly right just a few things, and it made me realize that a big problem that men struggling(me at he time included) have is escalating. They get stuck in this neutral area and are afraid to leave it. I had to learn to embrace that in order to succeed with woman you are going to fail with a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:40 AM
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What answer did you receive? I also notice you have ex redpill. How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:35 AM
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Essentially me 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:25 AM
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For the red pillers in here, why did you initially seek red pill or if you found it on accident why did you proclaim yourself as red pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:45 PM
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The algorithm knows you best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:48 PM
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They aren’t doing roofing nor are high schoolers with no experience fixing other peoples shoddy work. They are at best doing the basic labor like cleaning, painting, moving heavy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:45 PM
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Menial labor isn’t fixing or repairing shoddy construction work, that would be maybe retail, warehouse, maybe at best basic construction work. This just seems more on the lines that OPs premise went a different direction than he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:41 PM
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You go paddle boarding while raining?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:36 PM
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Happy Friday! I have a nice planned with my woman tomorrow, cherry-picking, Costco shopping then a fancy date chef choice with cocktails walking distance from our place. The only caveat is she is on her period, so no after date sex to finish off. Well maybe….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:01 PM
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If you are going to throw numbers that are easily verifiable at least be correct <image> This is just proving to me you are just throwing random nonsense around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:19 PM
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You do see where it says at the bottom right. It only counts people 16 or older
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:33 PM
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Sure buddy you’re telling me 18 year old white high schoolers are doing roof jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:30 PM
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Can we look at this data pls, I am a Hispanic child of immigrants. I grew up in a big Latino community even with a lot of illegal immigrants. What you are saying is pretty far off. The only thing I can believe is the booze part to an extent but the deadbeat dad isn’t really a thing with immigrant Hispanic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:26 PM
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So then Latino immigrants who work the fields are the most masculine men of the US is what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:04 PM
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What do you count as monkey dance? I see this a lot from incel blackpillers like yourself, call me blue pill all you want but even when I was at my lowest i said similarly but also I understood it’s just part of the game that I came to have glory in. But they will call any little thing a man does monkey dancing. And yeah there are fat chads, because Chad is more mindset than is given credit than just looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:25 PM
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You’re mid looking out of choice tbh, you can easily be above average but you choose laziness and complain instead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:05 PM
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Woman like to flirt in a not serious way. You know how when your group of all dude friends fuck around vocally saying any random shit? Yeah woman do that too maybe not as vulgar but similarly. They even like to do it with the opposite sex. But it’s not serious, at least with a taken dude they are more relaxed that he isn’t going to “confess” some shit like a single dude. Granted there are some woman who are serious but those are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:04 PM
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The biggest things are, assuming we already are physically attracted to each other, do we share similar goals in life, do we mesh well vibe wise(many black pillers think this is just looks, no it’s not there are many good looking people who do not mesh well together), do we we have similar views on life, are we looking for the same thing. This list could go on tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:01 PM
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I’ll answer for my woman. She met me on hinge. We went on a date and then 3 weeks later I asked for her hand in being my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:56 PM
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My financial goals are going great. If I don’t have kids I would be able to retire in my early 40s with a fat portfolio. Why do kids have to be so expensive 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:05 PM
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Property and sales tax now go through the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:04 PM
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No I’m saying that it doesn’t matter as much to be misogynistic if you are willing to approach, especially since they are more than willling to push boundaries. A passive neurotic man isn’t moving along the process of courting if they are even in the game at all by approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:55 PM
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I feel like unless there was some confirmation that I wouldn’t never know if who I am ever with was that true soulmate. Or maybe I believe that person is that soulmate and the soulmate was whoever I connected the best with that I tried my hardest to love
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:27 PM
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No, I’m preferably a 2-3 times a week guy. I can be fine doing it once a week. There is just that connection that you get in sex that is so satisfying. But not at all? No I’m good I can find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:57 PM
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You didn’t read the op at all did you. It’s just simply stating that if men were to actually give a shit early in terms of whatevermaxxing the average man’s peak is around 25-29 not over 30. Stop waiting until you are old to date woman start earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:41 PM
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Yeah I’ve thought about it for a while but a lot of men who are truly bisexual usually claim either being gay or straight. There is very little benefit to claiming to be bisexual if you mostly want to date woman, and if you mostly want to date men you go with gay. Sort of a bi erasure going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:56 AM
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I love fruit salad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:54 AM
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No need for name calling now just because you weren’t innately born with high dominance male genes. It’s okay I think you can change if if you are still in your 20s before you scare all the woman away with beta neuroticism of having to pick the left side of the bed just for sakes of it being the left side
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:07 AM
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Yes way lower virginity rates because they have been of sexual age a lot longer than a 20 year old man…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:47 AM
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Yeah don’t try to cope out of this one buddy we caught you lacking. It’s okay I’ll let you off with a warning. You should be on the side closest to the door and facing the door. Don’t think you were born with the proper male dna protocol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:37 AM
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Thank you this is the correct answer. Picking a side for no other reason than laterality is a bit feminine imo. Sorry /u/babazuki turn your man card in now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:09 AM
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The OP is trying to go against the advice of “it’s okay bro it’ll get better when you are older” It doesn’t just magically get better when your turn 30 or whatever number. You go through your trials and error He is saying hey maybe don’t listen to others saying to just grind and not worry about getting woman. And i sort of agree as someone who didn’t date seriously until I was stable with my career. The time to see what works for you is best in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:48 AM
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When do you start your lifemaxxing turnaround
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:40 AM
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Okay idk if English is your second language so I’ll be nice but the first one is saying they will wait a week and see if they are pushy about meeting up sooner. The second one is someone who use to wait a few days and up to a few weeks but now skips convos through text to meet asap. This person is advising against waiting too long to go on a date. None of the links you are posting say wait weeks to meet up. I used to constantly lurk dating app subreddits and no one has ever advised to wait weeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:19 AM
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https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Dyhj-wyUYAAFPEb.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:27 AM
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Where in that chain are they even giving advice to wait weeks? Most are saying to meet within days or a little over a week? There is a big difference between meeting up within a day or two vs about a week. I think a week is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:20 AM
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If I were to take a good crack at it, it’s because a lot of red pill and lifemaxxing types make it seem like once you do whatever the advice that later in life around 30 we will say you’ll have success with the 18-25 crowd that you weren’t doing hot with when you were 21. But at that’s typically not the case. The trope that 21 year old college students want 30 plus year old men is rare. A 21 year old dating older is dating a man in his late 20s typically. That 30 year olds typical dating range i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:41 AM
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Where are woman waiting weeks to go on dates? On dating app subreddits it’s pretty common for people to say meet within a week or two even if it’s a short first date. At least see if you vibe in person before spending time messaging someone and getting some idealization of who they actually are. Only woman really making guys wait weeks are just woman who aren’t interested to begin with or have anxiety issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:28 AM
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I will agree with that your premise is more along the lines of the “average man’s peak is around 25-29.” I can defintely believe that, some men will peak earlier in high school and college such as athelrtes and others around 30 such as people who went to school or lengthy job trainjning(doctors). OP be prepared for a lot of people to claim the average man peaks around 30. Online spaces such as this one is more filled with people who didn’t do that well in college and figured it out a bit later. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:53 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:01 PM
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Is there any other 30 year old man who used to be neurotic af and passive and had trouble with woman early on until he decided to change his mindset and had success dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:36 PM
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There is no way a 41 year old man is taking a 16 year old to a work party and everyone is thinking they are a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:17 PM
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Yeah the more attractive you are physically and character wise(having leadership qualities shit like that) the more misogynistic you can be and still be okay. And yes if you are misogynistic, have no redeeming qualities look or character wise what is there to like? But the men who cannot change their neurotic and passive ways are very few imo. I’m not saying it’s an easy process and it can take years but it’s basically reversing any brainwashing you brain got over the years to keep you in your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:02 PM
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If the forever alone subreddits are still like how they were a decade ago when I visited it’s full of college aged people so might not be far off from what regular normie girls like as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:10 PM
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Idk there are plenty of woman that would date timothee chalamet and tom holland types. But idk if you are meaning even more feminine pretty boy than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:06 PM
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Are these the best pics you got of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:55 PM
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You may have had small ones, but it could easily be something like a loved one (parent, child, close relative) dies. That’s considered a rough patch, getting fired and having a hard time finding a job. Sacrifice could be moving away from family, turning down a big job somewhere far due to partner. Stuff like that, I’ve defintely had sacrifices like that but it was way more worth it to be with how my life is now with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:54 PM
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Reee why do I have to learn how to not be passive and why don’t woman just approach me instead. Thats the real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:51 PM
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I think we are picturing two different scenarios. Yours seems to be forcing a rough patch or sacrifice vs mine that is rough patches or sacrifices that need to be made due to circumstances of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:42 PM
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I always say woman should approach more but I do understand why need to when non passive men already approach first and make first moves. Woman do approach, it’s more rare and woman are more subtle on their approaches. They typically give IOI to potential men and make it easy on them to make “first move.” Woman are typically more reactive in the dating game. It’s one of those things you accept especially myself as a man who was once passive/neurotic who got myself out of it and then had success …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:31 PM
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I would say a lot of dudes especially ones not dating don’t even give it a chance to begin with. I asked men in a daily discussion post if they don’t date why. Most of them were along the lines of being passive and not trying for one reason or another. They’ve rejected themselves to courting even giving woman a chance to make a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:26 PM
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I don’t think a relationship NEEDS rough patches or sacrifices to be made in order to work. But I definitely do view a relationship way more stable/good foundation wise if it overcame any rough patches and sacrifices were made to preserve the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:07 PM
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The approach is just the initial problem that is separating this misogynistic men that are actually hurting woman vs the misogynistic men that don’t really interact with them to begin with. It’s a lot more complicated once the initial approach is done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:54 PM
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No because even a good looking guy needs to move the relationship along from approach to date or sex or whatever. You can say “chad” was always given positive reinforcement to always progress the initiation by a woman but the average woman isn’t typically going to put in all the work while Chad just sits back. Only scenarios I do see that actually happening are groupies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:53 PM
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If I was a woman I would selective as fuck six figures, at least 5 inches taller than me, good looking face, nice hair, more than one language, college degree, stabled dude with two parent household, etc I’m mot fucking with some bum I have to persue myself if I were a woman. I would be looking for someone who would care for me when pregnant and vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:44 PM
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Where the heck do you live that it’s common for men to believe this. And even common enough to state it in person because as a lot of people know lot of these dudes aren’t confident dudes to begin with. I’m going to call bullshit that you talked to men irl about this and more than few shared that they wanted most of what you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:29 PM
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Yeah they have men like a lot of blackpillers thinking it’s something attractive to woman to strive for when it’s not. Fresh n fit has shown before they aren’t even what men should be by messing with only fan woman to begin with. But a lot of those guys probably don’t care to begin with. They just think this is the best way to have sex with girls they already think have high n counts and not worth getting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:19 PM
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Seems like you aren’t getting the point. It can be both, it’s not attractive qualities to have and they aren’t even showing themselves to woman to begin with. Either ways coming off as disinterested is unattractive to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:53 AM
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Maybe I should have put and/or for the neurotic and passive. If you are high on both those attributes it’s bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:01 AM
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Sorry meant to put another ding like a bell! That you are correct it comes across like disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:10 AM
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Ding ding, and woman tend to be more reactive sex in terms of courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:39 AM
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Sometimes they’ve deduced wrongly, so many average men on here they aren’t good enough, it doesn’t help that social media makes it seem like top tier men don’t face any rejection. That isn’t what happens, sure their rejection rate may be lower due to being more attractive or whatever but your average man is typically getting rejected on an approach. Once you get too comfortable not making moves your mind gets too used to being in its safe space where rejection doesn’t matter. Life is full of rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:18 AM
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Both can be true. Neuroticism and passiveness aren’t attractive traits to have especially as a man. Those traits also throw you out of the game. You can be a physically attractive looking guy and be passive/neurotic and you might get some attention here and there from woman initially that they quickly lose talking to you and of course you aren’t approaching or making any moves so you never really even take chances nor make use of any opportunities you do get. How do I know? That was once me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:14 AM
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“Supposed resistances” yeah the misogynistic man succeeding is less worried about crossing boundaries over a misogynistic man who overthinks everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:51 AM
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Because as many in that thread had claimed you can be many things that woman don’t like such as misogynistic, but the worst thing you can be is neurotic or passive. If you are a misogynistic man who doesn’t care about approaching eventually you’ll get a girl. You can put a lot of negative traits in place of misogynistic. But you can’t put a passive or a neurotic man in place there because they aren’t approaching or persuing woman to begin with. Woman rarely approach and so by not approaching or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:25 AM
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At that point why not seek others. If you knew girls who had partners would date you if they were single wouldn’t be that hard to find a single girl who would date you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:19 AM
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Can’t you say there are many little things you miss by only observing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:32 AM
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What do you not enjoy? The dance of courting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:29 AM
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As in you develop a crush on a person and then you find out they have a partner through other means rather than being turned down due to having a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:28 AM
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What do you do for work bro I’ll respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:08 AM
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What do you do inside your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:26 AM
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But why did you never try?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:25 AM
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When the thought of inputting your nonchadgenes.txt into Uterus folder the brain/CPu processes as malware(an ick) Sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:14 AM
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Q4M: For those who havnt ever dated What’s your reason for why you can’t secure a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:10 AM
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What is it insisting, was this dude going out on dates with the dudes he matched with? I’ve rarely heard any woman complain about the lack of “securing a date” on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:49 PM
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You are correct and their is different levels to being a passive person and who has the final decision on a tied matter. Men just don’t value assertiveness to the extent woman do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:41 PM
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Woman are more allowed to be like this because less men care about that than woman care about it. It’s just a standard that woman don’t have to follow as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:25 PM
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Maybe it’s personal bias but I think the stigma is essentially over or at least close to it. It’s accepted as part of the game, shit I’m willing to bet a lot of men think it’s preferred by woman over cold approaching. At the very least the stigma is nowhere near what it was 20 years with “online dating” If someone says their dating around it’s usually assumed their is apps involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:24 PM
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I think you are confusing the difference of someone being respected as a husband vs respected as a coworker. Someone could be a great coworker but a terrible husband who cheats and avoids their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:53 PM
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Yep being passive with no opinion of your own is not sexy nor attractive to woman. Woman typically like assertive men, doesn’t necessarily mean they are dominant but dominant falls under assertive. If I was a woman I rather date a confident guy. I’ve been the passive non assertive man before and let’s just say you don’t get far with woman that way. Better to take risks and fail than to never take your shot to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:47 PM
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Be more inclined to talk to her, but is there anything else about her? Is she cute or my type of woman? What if she some random 250lb woman that isn’t my type? Might just make small talk and thank her for the taco
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:31 PM
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Sorry bro she ain’t going to cheat on her husband with you. Be a good incel and back tot he basement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:39 PM
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Water. Hydro homies stand up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:18 PM
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Low confidence and neuroticism are way bigger culprits to men not having mates than being misogynistic, short or poor. Plenty of broke fuckers be fucking, plenty of short dudes be fucking because we keeping making short people, same with misogynistic ones. I don’t hear much about the neurotic or low confident men having good success with woman frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:28 PM
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Look there is nothing wrong with passport broing in general. The subreddit and groups are terrible fuckers who just want a space to hate on woman, lots of these guys just fear rejection so you get a lot of “which country is the easiest for….”. So many examples of them being bad people in general. They don’t want to learn the language, learn the culture, integrate into the new society, etc. they want to just feel like Chad and get their dicks as wet as possible. Those are sex tourists. It wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:08 PM
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Basically the hot to crazy scale but for men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:07 PM
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This goes back to what I always say, the worst thing you can be as a man is passive and neurotic. Those are the massive turnoffs to woman that the shitins have. You can be misogynistic and get laid but if you are passive and misogynistic you better be a top 1 percent specimen or it’s to the basement with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:00 PM
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My bad meant it more as a follow up and thought I put “Yeah..” initially. I’m saying your typical very hot woman is usually marrying a man in her socioeconomic circle. A few might at best move to the next tier by marrying but rare. Don’t get the dudes started on thinking a waitress is getting picked up for marriage by a multimillionaire frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:14 PM
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People typically marry in their socioeconomic circle. Even the very good loooking girls, usually at best they move up one tier in the socioeconomic game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:00 PM
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Turns out having both parents involved helps us form healthy attachments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:20 AM
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It’s all in your head bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:19 AM
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Might as well start now, I’m sure there are plenty of 25 year olds single moms who are still hot and only on one kids. Better get them before they have two baby daddies and 2-3 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:33 AM
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It’s changeable, I did it myself, it’s just the OP is asking them to run before they can walk kind of scenario. Most people don’t end up without friends in the first place without and underlying reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:33 AM
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Don’t worry in 30 years that willl be you thinking your hot shit as some 25 year olds teaches you how to import your head to the cpu to do a quick email.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:53 AM
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I got a solution let’s have the incel marry single moms. They can provide and then get their monthly handjob back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:22 AM
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Yeah woman tend to do group fitness classes so that’s where you are going to find them. Either ways it’s not like most men workout either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:15 AM
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Oh so this just another example you tend to seek what you are. Op is low quality to men so the men she does find tend to be lower quality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:41 AM
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Board game nights doesn’t need alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:37 PM
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I’m 30 how have you not seen spongbeob
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:59 PM
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I agree if you can’t maintain a friendship there is no way you can maintain a more intimate and effortful relationship in a satisfactory way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:36 PM
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You aren’t wrong there I agree with that. I think they should seek therapy way before they attempt to make friends with people hosting parties. This is learning to run before walking. It’s obvious from many posts there is little interaction from some people with the opposite sex besides social media rage baits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:17 PM
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How so, board game nights are perfect with interacting with other people especially with a drink or two in your system.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:07 PM
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Oh that wasn’t in the OP tho, I can’t say I did not assume some things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:03 PM
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This is essentially how I got invited to parties in early 20s. I was ambivert but very social anxious and passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:44 PM
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Yeah OP is assuming that there are friends to begin with. Thats why I states it’s fine for the more normie like people who have friends but just have dating troubles. Some people need way more help than just this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:43 PM
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Shit you can even host events at parks or public spaces. Just to chill and eat some food
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:31 PM
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I think you are really underplaying how much social anxiety and social issues younger people this days have. I’m 30 and still get invited to parties a few times a year, used to be a lot when I was younger. I’m sure younger people still are holding parties but your typical “incel” “blackpilled” poster in here doesn’t end up that way in a bubble. They were never really good socially to begin with. Your advice is fine for more normie like folks in here with friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:28 PM
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https://i.redd.it/l0sd2tqu7lle1.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:13 PM
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What does OP even mean by approach? Like walk up to a woman out of the blue and ask for their number? I would imagine a lot of men who included in this “stat” could have gf they start talking as friends in a social group and it blossomed from there, does that count as approaching? They certainly ain’t passive but they are going up right away to ask out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:09 PM
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And would you say those girls were more likely to actually go on a date with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:33 PM
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Not as low as you think. Do this over dating apps as well. It gets rid of the girls who already weary of you in the first place. Usually a waste of time trying to even convince them to meet. The ones willing to message you first when you give them your number are usually willing to meet within a week. It’s one of those things we’re I’m willing to get rejected early to find more quality woman who already more on the interested side to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:36 PM
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No I went in a date with a woman who was like that for a few dates thought I would be fine. Turns out yes I need an actively loving woman who does cute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:10 PM
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Yeah this is why I say embrace the rejection right away and that she isn’t wasting your time. If she says she has a bf even if she is lying she is just lightly rejecting you in a way that it doesn’t even seem to be your fault. Isn’t that what people want? Do we want them to make the rejection a big deals state why she is rejecting you out loud and publicly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:32 PM
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Yep I see many dudes online state to do shit like that to make sure the woman isn’t giving them a fake number. Alright dude I’m sure after you call her out she is going to go out with you. And I do the giver her number thing because it filters out passive woman which I don’t want. Girls who do text after I give them my numbers is a higher rate of actually taking out in a date and having a convo. She knows I’m interested and her texting me when I gave her my number signals to me she is interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:23 PM
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Needs to be done by college?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:22 PM
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This is where dating apps are best. To match with more compatible people especially political.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:00 PM
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Yeah I’m new to the subreddit. I’m on the discord tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:38 AM
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Based off the downvote on my last post, someone didn’t like that being short isn’t their whole problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:22 AM
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Same my gf had to say we can save a bit on insurance and maintenance by selling it. I finally caved but it’s been fine. Can’t hurt to be walking more even if I do get 10k plus steps already a day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:21 AM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:51 AM
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Female Christian bale! Let’s go!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:49 AM
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Mazda. Very base car and a few dents in it from over the years of city parking lol. That thing got me everywhere 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:44 AM
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I live in the US 5’9” is the same average height. And as man a tad bit taller than 5’5” it is not midget height. Especially if you are going for woman a few inches shorter than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:34 AM
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3k for a 11 year old car, kbb said 4.5k but whatever sold it to carmax . Was a cheap car I got in college. I was mostly just moving it in street parking since my gf moved in with me. She got me to sell my car. Now I’m a dude without a car with a girl, take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:11 AM
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You said it pretty good. Narcissistic with low self esteem, it’s reminds soft of the term temporarily embarrassed millionaires. I also make it a point when talking to people. You can’t make everyone like you. You only need one girl. Might as well be a quality one you vibe with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:58 PM
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That’s the thing. So many people make excuses for the internal shortcomings by using an external factor they can hardly change for why even try such as height. I’m. 5’6” man and everytime another similar height guy says it’s the reason he is an incel I roll my eyes. I get it tho because I used to be a passive and low confidence man. But being passive is way worse than short
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:44 PM
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Yes a lot of posters here can’t look beyond their own issues and minimize everyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:33 PM
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I sold my car two weekends ago and finally getting used to having one car in the household, so when my girl is using her car I have to rely on public transport. It’s not as bad as I thought I have a lot of options where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:32 PM
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Yeah it’s one of those things were if you are not tall than it’a height that’s why you can’t get girls, if you have an average face than it’s your face why you can get girls. When a lot of the issues are more internal rather than external
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:25 PM
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I usually find a lot of them complaining at the 5’5”-5’8” height which is still not that short tbh. I’m a short man myself. I always roll my eyes seeing a 5’7” man complaining that he is too short to date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:24 PM
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But you are over 6 foot tall, all the incels say you should be megachad on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:53 PM
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Damn shortcels are going to hate this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:51 PM
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I never thought about it like this but you are correct. Should work in your general looks to appeal and use maybe fashion, accessories and hobbies to appeal more to your niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:47 PM
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Were you also the guy who always hanged backed? And wasn’t initiating anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:02 PM
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This sounds like you are saying Nichemaxxing is king. I’ve always agreed that you can’t get everyone to like you. It’s more energy efficient to focus on the ones more likely to like you. You have to figure out who you are as a person and see if you fit that niche and the woman in that niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:16 PM
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Idk how often are you around totally drunk woman? I used to go drinking with friends every weekend in my mid 20s, sometimes it’s just volume and I was just standing there it feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:14 PM
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Sorry, I use foid as a term of endearment in the discord and it carried over it here. In the discord I’ll call my gf my foid and some other woman will call their man their moid. We started doing it as irony at first and it stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:12 PM
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I mean is it attention? Yeah but it’s sloppy attention especially if the recipient is sober. I’ve been hit on by woman while they were drunk and I’m sober and let’s just say it’s icky. But sometimes I have hit on a woman while drunk I was attracted to that I was a bit inhibited by at first before the liquid courage hit. But then I feel shameful when I sober up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:43 PM
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Some men will say yes but as a reasonable one I say no. Drunk men hit on other men as well even if straight. And I will say I’ve hit on unattractive foids while blacked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:19 PM
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Romantic relationship default is contract is being exclusive. Idk what point you are trying to make. It’s early on he can choose to leave if he doesn’t like the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:28 PM
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It’s one of those things you can do but if she does nothing back for you then you need to reevaluate. In a healthy loving relationships this is fine. I don’t really cook for my gf as she is way better but she cooks for me and does nice little things and I send her lovely texts and compliment her all day. So there is reciprocation when I do those nice little things that you mention. If I didn’t have any and it is all me I would definitely reevaluate if she even likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:22 PM
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Sounds like a man who just started initiating pursuing you. Is he an actual orbitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:15 PM
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Reminds me of plastic surgery. You only notice too much or botched surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:13 PM
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Yes and I’m saying that height isn’t the only thing they are measuring you by. For some dudes height is what stands out, if that’s not your thing you need something else to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:09 PM
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As a guy who has done it before, you wouldn’t if he is okay at it, you would only notice the ones who are bad at faking it until they make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:32 PM
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Lol, as another short dude the amount of woman who require the dude to be over 6 foot is the minority. Most woman just want a dude at least a few inches taller than themselves. Even some of the woman who want guys over 6 foot don’t have it as a strict requirement. The argument of plenty of men under 6 foot are married and dating being countered with they just settled is the biggest cope. As if height is the only indicator of success with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:31 PM
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This reminds me of that icarly episode where she can never get a word in because the dude is a yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:27 PM
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Oh yes a few hundred woman at best out of millions in the US. Surely Superman is the standard now. As a guy who has been different levels of fit. Being anime levels shredded doesn’t matter as much as being lean with some muscles. You wear a shirt most of the time. No one is going to see those abs with a shirt on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:58 PM
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Yeah I agree you have to be open to dating woman of that niche. And to me niche can be even more broad than just hobbies. Say you are a guy trying to date redneck girls. Well then you better pick up redneck hobbies and be good at them. And the fit the part fashion and style wise. Like me for example I’m a short dude. I accept that a lot of woman will reject me for that. No point wasting time trying to convince them I’m attractive. I’m going to maximize my good traits to compensate easy looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:17 AM
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Not a woman, but I’ve done this usually better plans came up or you weren’t that interested by then as thought
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:50 AM
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While the TikTok poster is cringy af he isn’t wrong. Nichemaxxing is king. There woman who love this shit… shit he might like that sub feeling too. All power to him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:14 AM
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Yeah I’m not to sure how it’s going to go with our parents. Hers don’t speak English, my parents English is decent for immigrants but my girl knows way more Spanish than I know Vietnamese(Duolingo and some basic phrases).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:12 AM
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I was the same when my gf met my parents last fall. And I think it will go fine. Kind of hard to mess up at this point. My parents are coming with me and gf to visit them. All excitrd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:47 AM
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No she came to the US with her aunt when she was a kid. And yes she sees them once a year but I wasn’t able to make time the first year. And I meant later this year in 4 months I’ll see them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:37 AM
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2 years now. Will visit her parents next year in person in SEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:20 AM
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Yeah I find the only ones usually complaining about high n count are men with lack of success. Literally is I’m not mad because you are doing it I’m mad because I’m not one of the ones your doing with. People can be low n for religious reasons but they’ll seek someone in the same religion who is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:50 AM
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I found a pic of her when they got married(couldn’t find many pics of her young, surprised to find few seeing as they met as kids) she was a beautiful woman looking at the one pic I found. She seems to be ageing a bit worse than him but they are both in their 60s so yes looks matched. I’m not saying you should just give up but to most men “average looking” woman are still good looking. It’s going to be rough to find a 10/10 who you match with personality wise, who also likes you back. It’s like …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:28 PM
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Met my girlfriend’s great aunt(I’m her culture she still calls her grandma). She approves of me especially after I took them on a drive over a very curvy mountainside and didn’t drive like a typical young man and was talking to her like a normal person. Talking about wedding plans… so suffice to say got her approval
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:08 PM
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