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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 32 | I don't think I can hang on any longer | kor_hookmaster | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 05:34 AM |
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| 5 | Getting the snipI'm 42 going through a nasty acrimonious divorce involving a custody battle over my 7 year old son. I've already reached out to my family doc for a referral for getting a vasectomy. I genuinely don't see starting another relationship anytime soon and I honestly don't see starting another family. I'm having a casual thing with a younger woman (which has been fantastic), but neither one of us is looking for something long term. My son is going to need my full attention going forward based on how m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/22 05:14 PM |
| 7 | She wants a divorceHey man. Sorry about all this. Genuinely sorry. I was you, nine months ago. I know the feeling of overwhelming despair that feels like a trapdoor opened beneath your soul. The feeling like someone has carved out your insides and used what they took against you. The hammering realization that you feel like everything is over and it'll never go back to what it was. The lie you tell yourself that your children would somehow, insanely, be better off without you in their lives. I've sat and planned, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 2 | I don't think I can hang on any longerbut she literally hit me with so much bullsh!t at once, I crumbled. How someone could do that, and feel no remorse still baffles me. Straight up lie and really not care if it pushes someone over the edge, just to get your way. This is what hits me the hardest too, and what just saps all my will to keep going. I've just never experienced this level of betrayal. I've been cheated on by girlfriends in the past, but this is orders of magnitude worse. Twenty years. Our entire adult lives. We were eac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/21 06:31 PM |
| 6 | I don't think I can hang on any longerAgreed, although I don't think there's a political will to enact those changes. Men's rights don't exactly rank all that high in today's cultural and political climate. My career is potentially over as well, or at least severely impacted. If I have to plead guilty and/or end up with a criminal record, I won't really be able to be hired in my field. Every job I've applied for or gotten in the last 15 years required a criminal background check. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I can hang on any longerI see your point, and trust me the feeling of wanting to get even and sabotage her future relationships is very real. It feels wrong to just let her think she can get away with this without consequence. But she's still the mother of my son, and barring me getting full custody (a literal impossibility at this point) he's going to be spending a considerable amount of time with her for years. Me making her miserable will just end up with her treating him like shit since she's always had trouble fil… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I don't think I can hang on any longerShe wanted out way before the sleeve pull This has become painfully clear to me now, in retrospect. Over the past decade, I worked like a dog and supported us while her income varied from half of mine, to absolutely zero. She took leaves of absences and unpaid internships and such all over while I ground out mortgage payments. But as soon as she became the primary earner and our economic survival relied on her, she just resented me for it. I see it now, comments and statements she said, both to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 06:01 PM |
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