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| 1 | which will be a better thing to do ?Yeah , but read this blog for your confidence issues & guides : mikemehlman.net | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:17 AM |
| 16 | hair flick behind the ear.Cold approach ain't my game, I need some sort of sign/invitation yea what you need is called "pussy game" , customized for pussies like U . | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:06 PM |
| 678 | hair flick behind the ear.This is a sign made by women in old china that means "stop posting stupid shit on reddit & start approaching women" . You may be wondering how women in old china knew about reddit ? you'll find out the answer when you get off reddit & start saying hi to women. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Where you take tinder girls?Nothing beats cheap coffee shops near your place ( if u have your own ) , for longer dates/post sex dates when you want to enjoy more you can find cheap hookah bars. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate is not your friendthe "2 year dry spell" got me really hard . | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.opener & initial convo doesn't mean jack shit as long as you don't go somewhere aside from the street to approach like a fucking fool & open indirect like an autist . people need to stop being loser & start befriending rejections instead of doing all these indirect bullshit & investing ridiculous amount of effort in order not to hit the streets. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 14 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar."Oh hey, I like your shoes so I had to come over to flirt. I'm bad at this. Do you like tacos?" pathetic. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:35 PM |
| 12 | Tips for cold approaching in collegeOff you go , wing it. there's zero to learn for college/uni game , just be as aggressive & as horny as possible , there'll be absolutely no regrets except from the girls you didn't approach & the ones you were not aggressive with them. don't be shy , my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 10:27 PM |
| -1 | 1- 10 how can the voice increase your value?Anything related to looks & aesthetics concept will barely does shit if it's not on top 1% & i'm being generous , if you asked me like month ago i'd prolly say it's not gonna do a damn thing unless your on top 0.001% . Great face , great physique , seductive voice or phenomenal style, there's ZERO difference between a guy who have one or two of them with a normal guy IF that feature isn't on top 1% , assuming that normal guy isn't deformed or disabled or extremely ugly. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Question about cold approach and agedude you're a dork , forget about daygame . | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Could driving for Uber or Lyft be good for getting dates?You can find those in positive state women walking in the streets , shopping malls & metro stations . extremely weird , stupid & unprofessional to "drive to get laid". needless to say , if you start hitting on them aggressively enough ( which is what you have to do if you want fast hookups ) you gonna be reported & recorded in no time . i have plenty , and literally plenty of girl friends who filed a fucking "rape attempt" after the uber driver tried to hit on em. TDLR: stop the porno logic & … | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Question about cold approach and agelucky for me the country i'm in right now i can hookup with any girl above the age of 9 , however If she looks underage you can simply ask & leave asap without even saying a word if she's actually underage . I had some experience with girls who looked 25+ & turned out to be 15-16 tho , so beware. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Could driving for Uber or Lyft be good for getting dates?Why doing something so unprofessional following the porn movie logic & other drivers memories instead of just approaching girls like other normal people who do cold approach? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 35 | Easiest way to get laidforgot to add 2 more things : -if you have SOLID pictures & no balls to do daygame , tinder may be really good if you're forward enough . like i mostly open with "wanna have drinks & chill?" "how much do you pay to sleep with me?" -some idiots mention approaching ugly girls because she is "easier" , this is completely retarded . almost 99% of the time rejections & harsh moments come from ugly chicks that are down bad because they're full of inner anger & also , they get approached more because… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:39 AM |
| 53 | Easiest way to get laideasiest way is to prepare a one-fit-all/catch-it-all opener ( it makes you stop overthinking stupid shit ) & use it on as many women as possible in the busy streets at rush hour. if you really want it bad enough , go out at rush hour & aim to open 100+ women in a day, if opener is simple as ( hey i'm [insert your name] , thought you're cute had to say hi ) it won't take so long . short answer is : approach a lot . | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Spotting Tinder couples by a PUA OGstop being a loser . | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Spotting Tinder couples by a PUA OGa very average guy can get more than enough lays from dating apps if he's not a low iq loser , however you can try out cold approaching that works wonders but everyone except from whiny losers. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Spotting Tinder couples by a PUA OGStop rambling about some stupid "facts" you pulled straight off your ass . | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Passed a shit test, I got some laughs...she felt rejected?Too much fitxfearless & freshfit . | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio?It depends on the context & the system you got. a dork who never approach women & only find girlfriends using social circle game & warm approach obviously has wayyyy lower rejection rate compared to an active "player" who does 100+ approaches a day I.e mike mehlman or john anthony ( jmulv ) . so it's different , it's better to give yourself time & focus on outcome rather than being focused on rejection . if you can fuck 3 women a week approaching 2 hours a day , who cares if it took you 500 re… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:13 PM |
| 41 | Is approaching girls even worth it?no it's not . just get blackpilled & leave these stuff to people like me. leave the planet as well , please. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Women ALWAYS want to split the billasking girls to pay the bill or at least splitting it has been a huuuuuuge fucking deal for me for so long , still to this day i feel nervous when i'm bout to ask a girl to cover up half of the bill despite the fact that i get so many dates. but , if you only need ONE thing to know about it is : no woman on the earth goes to reject sex because you made her pay ( wether total bill or half of it ) . there's no such thing as "oh this guy made me pay for my shit so i won't fuck him." if she thinks… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:57 PM |
| -1 | Which type of women are attracted to beta males? This is a serious questionHigh laycount girls , old & high laycount women , emotionally damaged old women. TBH there's plenty of these women exist & i can say confidently most men who are "into milf/old females" are actually beta cucks based on my experience. so yeah , whoever you are you can pair with a woman if you approach. some loser said about "options" i tell you what , it's never the matter of her options . she'd rather go 3 years without sex but NEVER ever date a guy she doesn't find attractive ( personality … | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | reply for the age questionyoung girls don't have any problem with ur age if you're confident & know that your age is actually your winning card , not something to be insecure about. plenty of girl friends at my age (21) who've told me how they're turned on when a 45 year old something man tries to have a convo with them. only time they hate it is when the male is weird or insecure. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:12 AM |
| 2 | FWB: How to maintain it / General Advicebest way to keep all the plates is to treat them like shit & always be willing to walk away. no , beating the fuck out of her or verbally abusing her isn't what i meant , what i mean is be fully detached , put yourself as one & only priority and have the robotic manner . that's exactly what an fwb wants , sure she'll never agree but it's the truth. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:08 AM |
| 2 | 7 Things 'Nice Guys' Don't Understand About WomenI hate these "fitxfearless" kinda posts with these stupid catchy headlines , motherfucker you're not practicing copywriting here. fuck off. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | what clothes are for attraction?i know this is important it's not important , but if it makes you feel good/confident ( which i'm sure you'll be looking for other excuses after setting up your wardrobe) here : assuming the goal is dressing for daygame & dates , choose one of the following : either Pick up 2-3 male models you can re-create some of their styles based on what you own or what you can get easily, like you find some famous male model who dress well fitted leather jackets , skinny jeans & minimalistic sneakers . you … | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I need help , I think I'm never gonna aproach womenhttps://mikemehlman.net/approaching-and-meeting-girls/ read every single article here. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 3 | will withdrawing from touch be beneficial?she won't even notice let alone caring & trying to pull . if a girl is dtf or interested in you , she'll MAKE YOU touch her more , if not then she doesn't even care. i've tried what you've asked on about 200-300 women at least. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What are some others good Subs that are «Masculinity and Personal Development» related?I'm looking to surround myself with as much "positive masculinity" content as possible. to become one of million internet alpha males who don't have any girls? dude , 1-2 posts in total about pua/game is plenty , just leave the house & approach. all "tutorials" you need about game , masculinity & pua is less than 30 minutes . game isn't an academic science , you don't need daily content. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 11 | The girl I like is going out on a vacation with a guy (kindof Boyfriend)wrong sub bud , go to r/cuck . | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do women settle at a specific time, no matter with who?first & foremost : women who get back to their old partners while being married are whores , not normal human beings . it's not accepted to be in touch or even worse , fuck other men when you're married. next , yea they always do it & they always marry some man who is 1000 levels below what they (women) want on paper unless they're extremely lucky to find a rich handsome guy who wants to marry them . you wanna know why? you're no longer 21 y.o & marriage is not hookup/casual sex game. every … | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Is Mode One/direct approach legit, considering buying the book.https://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/the-direct-approach/ U can start here. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Mode One/direct approach legit, considering buying the book.are you getting laid & approaching girls right now on a regular basis? do you have any approach anxiety? Alan roger & david X methods are only for men who are doing crazy shit on a regular basis . loads of approaches , rejections & sex becuz going up to a female and say " hey , i noticed you're walking with the most beautiful ass i've ever seen , you have no idea how hard i wanna fuck it." is not what beginners can/will do. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Approach techniquesNow with the rise of feminist ideologies, and women being more fearful of random guys on the street, I wonder if it’s still a valid technique? The best way to deal with it is the ability to EJECT. here in my country , thots post everything on twitter to chasing attention. one of my big fears starting out was getting recorded by one of these twitter whores while playing the numbers game ( e.g approaching 5 girls in 60 seconds in the same venue ) but then i found out 2 things : 1-most people are e… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I just found out girls won't date me because I don't have an iPhone.I think they found out you're a weak loser . | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:46 PM |
| 9 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?She belongs to the streets. jk | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 5 | how do you get more matches on tinderQuestion is extremely wide , either narrow it down or give details of U. but the general way is : find one or two micro influencers on instagram that you know they SLAY that are similar to you ( physique & face ) and try to re-create 5 of their well-performing pictures . this is the fastest & easiest. -why micro influencers? because they aren't rich yet , you can basically remake most of their pictures with very little cost , it costs you much more if you're trying to be like a gangster with… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:10 PM |
| 19 | A quick rant about Reddit’s views on cold approaches, and a word of encouragementHow weak can someone be to stop approaching women because some anons on reddit say "it's creepy" lmao your existence is creepy. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?You're so lost . | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 38 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?As a 26 year old kissless virgin, I can't help but to be nervous around women, bro just stfu forget about anything & start approaching like a maniac , like a machine. why the hell do you even care about anything about anyone at the slightest when you're a 26 y.o kissless virgin? just start hitting up on any woman you see and forget about being creepy. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:41 PM |
| 3 | About “If it’s not hell yes!, then it’s hell no! “ sayingThe thing about the times we face "no/hell no girls" is when we get rejected , we can never convince ourselves that no amount of game or physical/financial improvement could turn it into a yes situation & it's impossible for us to accept rejection . e.g the girl on the street doesn't stop to talk to you & you always feel it has something to do with you . "maybe if i was taller or more handsome..." "maybe if i was wearing designer clothes..." & when we turn a "no girl" into a yes ( getting laid… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Girl i talked to keeps sending snaps of another guy. What should i do?You know what you gotta do , don't ask. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Don’t forget to eat pussyEating pussy is no different than sucking stranger males dicks , don't do it brothers . | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 0 | hard to getI remind myself for every time she wants to play there was one or plenty guys ugly af , broke & got zero game who fucked the shit out of her & dumped her like trash and she could handle it . now she wants me to do hard things for her i also remind myself for any girl who refuse to do what i want , there's 10 better girls out there i can find if i leave her & say hi to them so i do it . | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Ideas to bet something with the girl and get a date with herHow about just saying hi & telling her you thought she's attractive so you said hi & want to meet her? instead of being a loser who goes indirect . what about when she's pale af? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | I cant approach women(tips)Maybe give this article a read : http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/directapproach/ then everything on this category : https://mikemehlman.net/approaching-and-meeting-girls/ | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 15 | Asking for feedback from ex datesInstead of being needy , you can give your dating script to more experienced guys & ask for quick feedbacks OR simply memorize one tested method that can be applied on hyper-short dates & go with that. women will never tell you the truth & will never give you the advice that gets you laid more. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 0 | would quitting porn help me in getting out of my approach anxiety?Why do you ask ? to keep jerking off if someone says no? avoid porn/jerking off for 90 days & see the results. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any recommendations/reviews for dating coaches in Japan? That speak English of course.read his blog , main treasure is there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of women have an horrible behaviour against men ?stop whining | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | anyone here been practicing removing their “filter”? if so hows it been so far.Shy/introvert guys usually have the fear of "what happens if i say XYZ?" i'm a shy introvert by nature but the moment i told myself "whatever , what's gonna happen next? girl gets uninterested and leave? good , males may get offended and start the fight? alright we gonna fight." it's that simple , it's the worst EVER scenario that may happen . you tell something (whatever) and the person you're talking to ( men or women ) just become disinterested as fuck & they move . | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Good in opening - screw up in keeping the interestYou are lying , with all the respect! a male who's good at opening knows he can open any girl ( regardless of blowouts ) thus he always wings his interactions like an autist . i don't mind if after saying hi to a girl i just tell her "let's go get coffee" "i wanna smoke some hookah you wanna come?" or simply saying the most irrelevant to her because you always know you can move on to next & open her up. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with regretI only feel regret if i see a girl who is hot in my opinion OR looks like she's willing to bang & i don't say hi. aside from that i have no regrets in dating at all . and how do i deal with the regret of not saying hi enough times is by saying hi more the next day. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 14 | College in a month double text now?Double-texting in general is what i (personally) never ever do & i think no man should do it. it comes to your mindset , knowing that everytime any kind of girl in any kind of situation who isn't willing to meetup/talk can be forgotten after you go out & make 20-30 approaches gives me power not to double-text ever. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?and I guarantee I get laid more than you stopped reading after this ,good luck rockstar. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any recommendations/reviews for dating coaches in Japan? That speak English of course.Does it even need to be asked? Mike mehlman for 100000000% . | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?https://mikemehlman.net/2022/07/31/why-women-will-decline-the-contact-exchange-but-happily-ask-for-your-instagram/ this article is for autists like you , read it . | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:52 AM |
| -1 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?https://mikemehlman.net/2022/07/31/why-women-will-decline-the-contact-exchange-but-happily-ask-for-your-instagram/ this article made for autists like you. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:52 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid getting into a relationshipBy PLAYFULLY positioning yourself as a non-boyfriend material . if you straight up tell every woman "listen bitch , i only want sex" even the biggest sluts won't fuck you ,i've tired & had more than enough women ( even promiscuous ones) running away after letting them know there'll be no relationship , seems like deep down they want a minor hope or something that someday you gonna propose relationships. right now i just let my actions & teases do the job : -No second date if there's no first d… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Does game beat anything?yeah i have an ugly friend with bitch tits riding a $200 bike (his bike is basically his net worth ) who regularly bang his boss's beautiful wife , the boss wears custom $10000 suits , ride a porsche & is kinda good looking as well. i didn't believe him until he started recording himself & the wife and showed me the tapes every time. what's rational about women ? it's not a surprise. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:26 PM |
| -3 | Help me heal guys!!Last week i had a woman who rejected me in the street , i opened a much better chick in front of her & she was receptive , soon as that woman saw me she came up & started insulting my mother & trying to hit me. female nature brutha... | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Help me heal guys!!These stuff happen all the time , if you can't handle it then cold approach isn't for you. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Are Women attracted to men with a mysterious/bad or even criminal past ?girls i've seen who are obsessed from head to toes with criminals/dangerous men are either dating pimps or super rich criminals (drug dealers or border smugglers ) not some heroine addict in the corner of the park who also sells drugs & call himself "gangsta" . | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 16 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?Never collect instagram/fb/sc , if you ask for number & the girl offers you instagram then move the fuck away , she's collecting fans. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | What are curretnly the biggest and most popular pickup communites, facebook groups etc.Be a lonewolf & stay away from communities & personalities , this way you're sure you'll never pay a dime to all these scum bags & your brain forces you to go out & get the shit done. i can say 99% of people who are inside these communities or have PUA role models actually never approach & have horrible dating life. there's a reason PUA is a huge business , ultimate goal is ripping you off or making you think you can't get the shit done on your own. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?There's no medication that gives you balls , however i take cialis & a shit ton of coffee pre-workout & my session usually begins 2-3 hour post workout , based on my experience i'm always more pumped & SLIGHTLY more horny/decisive because of those 2. both are harmless if U don't have any illness. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:46 PM |
| -1 | Is there a secret to enjoying bars and clubs?bars & clubs and overall whole night scene is trash , absolute trash. i can guarantee you 99% of males there neither enjoy the idea of wasting themselves nor enjoy the moments there , they're just there mindlessly drinking & fighting their own approach anxiety to possibly approach some girls. only a very small part of people really like night game BS , just go out during daytime alone & do daygame. much better and more productive. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:10 AM |
| 2 | I (19m) get approached by girls and get looks and told I’m very attractive, but I can’t approach themI get approached sometimes by girls and get a lot of looks i think it's all in your head bruv. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 6 | How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive?just approached a chick on my way back from the gym while smelling like i ran a marathon & looking like a piece of shit wearing fake nike shorts & some stupid sweaty t-shirt. may sound like a lie but literally all the time, the more dangerous/creepy the situation the more i love to punish myself & get rejected by them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:03 PM |
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