How to avoid getting into a relationship

TyroneStitches_ · 2022-07-31T08:12:54+00:00

what can I do to avoid it without hurting their feelings?

By telling them you're not ready for anything serious. They'll understand it if you're honest about it.

koseabjitt · 2022-07-31T10:43:27+00:00

By PLAYFULLY positioning yourself as a non-boyfriend material .

if you straight up tell every woman "listen bitch , i only want sex" even the biggest sluts won't fuck you ,i've tired & had more than enough women ( even promiscuous ones) running away after letting them know there'll be no relationship , seems like deep down they want a minor hope or something that someday you gonna propose relationships.

right now i just let my actions & teases do the job :

-No second date if there's no first date sex

-no talking about our past , the classy "don't ask don't tell"

-Zero act of being excited/caring about her on the approach , on the phone & during the date

-lastly , telling stuff like "your parents are gonna hate me" "I'm a hero & heroes don't just belong to one person" "relationship with me=sadness for eternity , be careful" shit like that aren't bitter but indirectly tell her there'll be no ass-kissing & taking care of you .

Iistendipshit · 2022-07-31T10:06:59+00:00

See, theres nothing wrong with relationships. What probably is wrong, is your perception of a relationship, or as you said “serious relationship”. Don’t see the relationship as a burden you carry around, but as a healthy and fun friendship with a person you like for whatever reason, that should last while you’re having fun. If you’re constantly worried about things like: what if it gets serious, what if it lasts too long, I’m in shackles now, of course it is going to feel like a burden. And that is how you casually date, but maybe what you looking for are one night stands?

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-07-31T10:30:01+00:00

Girls sleep with 2 types of guys. With players or with their boyfriends. if you wanna get into the player or fuckboy category you have to convey that like don't take me seriously I'm not boyfriend material, let's just have fun and see where it goes, be a bit hard to get, and push her away sometimes, tease her and be playful. just a few things that come to my mind and what I do almost every time so you simply gonna be a high-value guy that they wanna sleep with and they can categorize you that fun vibe is what they can expect from you but if you go there with flowers, open the door for her and you start to plan how you gonna introduce her for your parents not surprisingly you gonna fall back to boyfriend category

intelectualycurious · 2022-08-01T04:48:06+00:00

Avoiding a relationship is way different than avoiding human interaction.

Just because a girl is touching on you and showing interest doesn’t mean you have to tell her to F off.

Right now, I think the best thing you can do is work on your mental health.

You’re not in the state of mind where you should be dating anyone.

You’re question is essentially asking, “how do I date without dating?”

Title	How to avoid getting into a relationship
Author	lektikos
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	July 31, 2022 8:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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