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Yes and if you are interested you have to ask her out immediately.
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:52 AM
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It helps to say the right things and it helps to keep eye contact in a calibrated way. That "instead of" should be "in addition to".
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:42 PM
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I'm afraid the only solution is to read up on it on the internet (you'll find the usual stuff about touching arms, cuddling, signals that you can go in for a kiss); pushing yourself to do it; likely get it wrong and embarass yourself the first few times; then slowly start getting it right.
/r/seduction11/11/20 04:28 PM
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It fails almost always... But nothing works reliably in dating. Cold approach allows people to hit on lots of people, fast, and so can get more results than creating a group of circle and hit on a few people, slow. Only some will have the right skills for it but it's definitely suitable for some people.
/r/seduction11/11/20 12:43 PM
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And if you can't pick up people you can't have sex and so you can't have children. So I should quit the human race as my DNA has no place here. Got it.
/r/seduction02/11/20 11:33 PM
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You can be an introvert and get better at socializing. If you're truly an introvert, though, and frequently go to big parties mingling with lots of random people, or if you constantly make efforts to expand and maintain a huge social circle, you'll feel a lot of stress and won't enjoy it that much. You won't have the same positive vibe an extrovert will have in the same circumstances, so it won't work as well for you.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:08 PM
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The point about confirmation bias is right, I don't want to give excuses to people who don't want to do anything. I don't quite agree with the rest though. People should play to their strengths. If they like to mingle at clubs or big parties where they don't know people already, they can find some and go there. If they live in an environment where they can build a good social circle and would like the idea to have one, they can do that. I've done once when I was in uni even if I am an introvert,…
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:42 AM
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Play to your strengths. If you like to mingle at big parties where you don't know people already, find some and go there. If you live in an environment where you can build a good social circle and would like the idea to have one, do that. If you are less not comfortable or somewhere in your life where you can do that, but you like 1-on-1 interaction, focus on that (either finding dates via cold approach, or online dating). You have to do something, but not everyone has to do the same thing. If y…
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:32 AM
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Just start talking to everyone and you’ll start to get comfortable with yourself No that's terrible advice. If you are an introvert, don't follow generic advice like "talk to everyone" or "always say yes to any invitation". It'll drain you, you'll be uncomfortable doing it, people will notice, and it won't work. You won't ever enjoy it. Being a total social outcast is not going to work but you don't have to force yourself to be a socialite.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:16 AM
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Order whatever you want, that doesn't matter. If you are comfortable and it makes sense in that location, don't just go to a place and drink, but suggest you go for a walk after about an hour. You are the man so any change in date setting and progress almost certainly depends on you taking action.
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:14 PM
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I have been doing the sitting across. Not many alternatives. After a drink, you can suggest going for a walk to a park. Works better in daytime and good weather than at night in the cold.
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:11 PM
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Once you get to age 50+, however, having many partners becomes hard, your selection for a long term partner is restricted, and you might as well have another 30-40 years to live. So you don't stick to a long term partner in time, you might be left with little sex and little companionship for a large part of your life.
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:10 PM
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I don't like these posts that just pretend things are not as they are. If you ask for a bus seat and it goes well, you get a bus seat for a few minutes. Great. If you ask someone out and it goes very well, you gain a lifetime of happiness, sex, companionship. We need to deal well with rejection because there's no way around it, but pretending there's no reason to be disappointed is ridiculous.
/r/seduction09/10/20 12:04 PM
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I don't really think I'm qualified to help you as I don't have any of the other issues (ADHD, tourette) you have and don't know much about them, really :(. Im ok with most jobs as long as it's not too physical or fast paced, and there has to be girls that voluntarily talk to me. From this sentence I don't understand if you don't want jobs where girls talk to you, or you only want jobs where they do. The thing is I have very few interests and hobbies As I said above - interests can be cultivated.…
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:50 PM
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> I really don't want them to think I'm interested in them. Why? If you act strange and they think you are into them... It's not a big deal. They'll probably ask you if you are hitting on them, you'll say no and that you are sorry for being a bit awkward sometimes, and next time you'll calibrate better. It wouldn't be bad at all.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:44 PM
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If you have a Nintendo Switch or want to buy one, look into Ring Fit Adventure. It's a fun, nerdy way to start a fitness routine.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:56 PM
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> If a girl asks me about my life out of the blue I'll think she's into me. Twisted thinking FYI this is not Asperger's, this happens to many guys who have very little experience with women and never used to hang out with them. > When I think of asking other people about themselves [...] it just sounds like a waste of time This is Asperger's :P I feel the same way. But you can learn that that's the polite thing to do sometimes, and do it even if you don't really care. You'll still get it wrong a…
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:52 PM
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I have asperger as well so I thought I would give you some advice. Feel free to get in touch by DM as well if you want. Thankfully, I am functional and I never had to take medication. If the medication you take makes it impossible to follow the advice down here and lead a normal life, then I'd say it's not really working. In that case do see a therapist and talk about all this. Until I was 25 (now I'm 31) I had never had relationships with women at all. I'm not really doing great now, but a lot …
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:45 PM
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What is self taught voice therapy? Any guide for that? Where would one look for professional voice therapy? Thanks for the help!
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:54 PM
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"Dont forget, there are dozens of girls, do not fall in love." Yeah I know people keep saying this, but I find it to be simply not true. There are dozens of girls to interact with if you actually go around hunting for them and having the idea of asking them out from the beginning like PUAs say. I think very few people do so and I am not particularly interested in being one of them. If you don't look for them a lot, there aren't dozens of women. There are just a few who for the most part are inco…
/r/seduction06/02/14 03:11 AM
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I did a lot of eye contact. She was the one breaking eye contact virtually every time. What does "Do not take no for an answer" mean? "No" is "no". I am not going to screw up my social circle by forcing an hard rejection if there's no reason to do so.
/r/seduction06/02/14 02:45 AM
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how the hell does she talk?
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:58 PM
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Nice story but I think you were not only good but also very lucky. The girl was clearly trying to get an hook up with anyone. The actions of her and her friend had 99% of chance to lead her to hook up with your wingman and only a very unlikely event (i.e. wingman shifting everything towards you) lead her to hook up with you. Her behaviour implied that she was quite desperate to be picked up by someone and it happened to be you. You did a good job carrying it to the end but when her friend asked …
/r/seduction04/02/14 11:58 AM
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If you focus, read what you wrote again, think about it, maybe you'll realize that "the reason she got flaky" is that she's a terrible person. She has done a lot of awfully rude things and realizing this might help you see her as a person who doesn't deserve your one-itis.
/r/seduction02/02/14 11:29 PM
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Does anyone believe the story about a virgin getting laid with 5 different girls in a week, all of a sudden? That must have been a very, very, very particular conference. Was it in Amsterdam?
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:47 PM
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I agree with all you said. It's interesting the answer I got the other day, which managed to play around this "forcing an answer" strategy. At first "Oh... I'm sorry, I don't do dates, I have a lot of male friends, I don't do this kind of things... Never been interested..." Then, a few hours later, she called me back to her place: "You can't ask someone out that way, it's cowardish, it forces an immediate answer I can't give, you have to ask me to go for a coffee or do stuff in the next few days…
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:04 AM
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Other users certainly have more experience than I do. If the movie put her into the right mood, you might try to kiss her right away. Otherwise, you might try to escalate with physical touching starting from the beginning, but that's difficult.
/r/seduction17/01/14 07:05 PM
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You should realize it's not a date as you describe it now, and if you want the mood to shift from friendly to romantic you will have to do something ballsy, which has nothing to do with the many questions you asked, like "who pays?" and "should i go pick her up?".
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:22 PM
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If approach = start talking to a random person, I don't know, maybe a couple of weeks. If approach = asking out, roughly two months.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:47 AM
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But, the usual basic advice on dates should still be given! Don't do the very standard dinner-at-restaurant-then-dunno date. Go do something together (walking, shopping...); something that gives you time to know each other and talk but without the pressure of being in one place without moving for 2 hours and having to speak all the time. Possibly go to more than one single venue.
/r/seduction12/01/14 09:01 PM
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I see! Thank you I just find it irritating when I want to draw the attention of a girl and see her flirting with her friend. Completely ruins my mood.
/r/seduction12/01/14 08:52 PM
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Doesn't it signal interest? I'd find it difficult to flirt with someone I'm not interested in.
/r/seduction12/01/14 07:50 PM
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Have you been explicitly friend-zoned, or didn't she ever acknowledge it? If you have, just tell her how you feel, without making big drama. "In this period, I don't enjoy seeing you as you date someone else, so we should see each other less frequently."
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:12 PM
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Constructive answers please.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:54 PM
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