kriirk_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Should very specific advice even be shared?	Outer Game	kriirk_	/r/seduction	05/11/20 06:40 PM
3	Maybe it is because flirting tends to have a 'messing with people' component to it; ..for each known 'dating rule', there seems to be some person out there thriving, by breaking that very rule.	Fundamentals	kriirk_	/r/seduction	19/11/20 09:07 AM
1	When they say things like where they work/study, try a very surprised "Really!?" Not sure how, but seems to add energy and longer time to talk. (Person I know does similar. I think maybe I started doing it from being around them.)	Conversation	kriirk_	/r/seduction	31/01/21 06:55 PM

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0	Pro tip I learned from a natural Nice idea. Curious - is it just me, or is there always a nay-sayer in replies, when suggestions are very specific/pin-pointed? If so, why?	/r/seduction	21/04/21 07:40 AM
1	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene Yes, Nighthawk! Rest of you, why bottom feed from singles pool only? Also, why not be more like "I am married, but would join your fan club you are amazing."	/r/seduction	21/03/21 06:34 AM
4	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene This negativity does not rhyme with my experience. Id say these 'laser focused' people only make up 5% of grocery shoppers.	/r/seduction	21/03/21 06:20 AM
4	appear high status Nice. My favorite from the above: unhindered, and those synonymous to it (playful, carefree, sexual etc..)	/r/seduction	21/03/21 06:08 AM
1	What benefits do you get from being in your head vs. out of your head? How do you shift from one to the other on a daily basis? Yes, (here) it refers only to those 'wrong times' where fluid action/attention is required. And note that the advice by those 'gurus' is misguided too; You get out of your head by actually diving in. It is not something you can reliably prepare in advance, and having such hopes tend to exacerbate the issue. So expect it to happen, and try to dive in anyways.	/r/seduction	31/01/21 07:32 AM
1	Maybe it is because flirting tends to have a 'messing with people' component to it; ..for each known 'dating rule', there seems to be some person out there thriving, by breaking that very rule. Exxxcellent point.	/r/seduction	20/11/20 05:09 PM
1	As a lifelong lethargic introvert, this really has helped me. It sounds dumb but...caffeine! Nice share! May account for the sociability boost I get on alcohol, since I always binge coffee with it.	/r/seduction	12/11/20 10:35 AM
1	Should very specific advice even be shared? Thanks! I used to think detail-sharing was the best, but my sort of 'growing objection' with it, is it will only help those who are already self-helped. (ref. what WAP said) Putting ones own experiences in writing, in great detail, may hold immense value for the writer themselves. I just question value for would-be readers.	/r/seduction	06/11/20 06:40 PM
8	Shit test you get as an out of shape guy This is common and nothing to worry about. If anything, Id say it means they actually like you. 😃	/r/seduction	27/10/20 10:57 AM
14	10 Simple Lines to Introduce Flirting and Teasing Thanks for finally some practical advice, unlike 99% here!! 🏃🏻‍♀️👍🏻 8 seem bulletproof! (The 2 I'd be cautious with are "Is it weird that that turns me on a little?" & "I think I just fell in love." Maybe if reworded as more spontaneously?)	/r/seduction	27/10/20 10:34 AM
1	How to talk to anyone (part 2): courtesies & stacking I clicked because title said "stacking", which refers to a practical actionable thing in the old lingo. Hopefully you will put something more actionable in future installments. Maybe if you elaborated on these courtesises you refer to.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 05:18 AM
2	How do I learn to put 100% of my personality on the line from the very beginning? With time and practice, both the fake feeling and the nervous feeling will go away. You cant shortcut that, so I say embrace it but keep trying (to flirt).	/r/seduction	12/10/20 04:48 AM
2	How to do eye contact properly? Having a motivation/intent. Try to imagine looking at someone with curiosity or surprise or a sense of wonder. It is easier to do than it sounds.	/r/seduction	11/10/20 04:23 AM
1	Public Service Announcement: STOP THINKING!! I do agree with your underlying sentiment 🤗 Interacting with the world around you, is only way to stop overthinking 🦅🤾🏻‍♂️ (There is no 'just stop'. )	/r/seduction	07/10/20 05:48 AM
1	I need an actionable guide I am curious, are you saying there is a lack of easy to find practical guides here?	/r/seduction	04/10/20 11:14 AM
1	Friends with benefits ? Asking is a huge no-no. After first sex, avoid 'dates' and avoid answering about relationship. Other person will understand. If sex keeps happening, then FWB is 'official'.	/r/seduction	04/10/20 09:49 AM
2	No problem getting numbers or making moves "Try to seal the deal" mindset, is how you are systematically shooting yourself in the leg.	/r/seduction	04/10/20 07:54 AM
4	Met girl recently and got her snapchat she reply’s to me and im able to make her laugh pretty easily but doesn’t want to go out with me when i ask because she had a boyfriend when i know for a fact she doesn’t. Seems like shes slightly attracted to me maybe 6/10 how can i build up the attraction? I'm fan of moving on mentally, but staying in touch as a type of 'target practice' to develop: -situational awareness -mental resilience	/r/seduction	04/10/20 07:38 AM
1	Making a move... on my housemate? Eh what happened to simply flirting? (There is something helpless about having to 'explain' it, in my opinion.) If I were you, I would try a flirting style 'sexual listening', also known as 'fuck me eyes' during your next conversation with that person. Best of luck.	/r/seduction	02/10/20 09:23 AM
1	Putting too much pressure on yourself to be smooth and charming Thanks! Idealizing this 'imperfect flow', is a lovely idea. I will adopt it. 🙏🏻👍🏻👏🏻🤗	/r/seduction	02/10/20 07:41 AM
1	I (18M) finally successfully approached to girl (19F) and I think I'm too excited and worry will I fuck it all up It is basically her 'turn' to contact you first. This is rather important, so wait it out. It can easily take a week before she texts, and knowing this, it will be easier for you to stop obsessing over it. After 6-7 days without text from her, I would probably send her something short like "so, how is your laundry situation :-)"	/r/seduction	02/10/20 05:30 AM
1	There is nothing weird about going out alone, as long as you are not self-conscious about it Rather than avoiding, bask in the glorious discomfort of your own (perfectly natural) self-consciousness, to let it push you to start conversations quickly (the cure). 👣👄	/r/seduction	02/10/20 04:54 AM
1	Can I get some advice on how to handle being flustered? (20M) Listen, that is a deadly effective style of seduction in and of itself. Please embrace it; With time and practice, no-one shall be able to resist you.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 05:34 AM
2	Dos and Don'ts of dating Similar story here. And it was all about #3 for me (the rest kinda self-corrected when I remembered to focus on #3) Small tip for committing #3 to memory: 'fuck me eyes' mirror practice, as you get ready for the date.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 05:09 AM
1	30 Quick Tips For Attracting Women A+ for effort 🙏🏻 Some filler, but two are great (have a guess) : 14 & 27	/r/seduction	30/09/20 04:25 AM
1	𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝙆𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝘼𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙏𝙚𝙭𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙂𝙞𝙧𝙡𝙨 𝘼𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙈𝙚𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙄𝙣 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 I do same as him (texting w/name included asap), and it seems to work well for me too. Sometimes, things can be great, contrary to all logic/reasoning. Just saying.	/r/seduction	29/09/20 05:17 AM
1	𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝙆𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝘼𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙏𝙚𝙭𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙂𝙞𝙧𝙡𝙨 𝘼𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙈𝙚𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙄𝙣 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 Nice simplicity! (I do similar except I taunt/tease a little, before flipping the script with "Lets meet now". Beginners beware: 'Pre-framing' best done on 'peak vibes' (situational awareness))	/r/seduction	28/09/20 09:29 AM