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| 7 | Got a date for the first time in forever, help a guy outI know it’s easier said than done, but try to be outcome independent and just aim at having a good time. With some eye contact and slight playful banter you are already doing more than great. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 34 | Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but..Man, seems like you are catching feelings and she felt that. I think it’s best you don’t text her anymore unless she reaches out again, and if that happens quit that “I can’t stop smiling” stuff. Be concise in your answers and somewhat distant, but not necessarily cold. There is a chance it will catch her attention and make her text you more/set up another date, but don’t text stuff like that anymore and don’t double text if she has t replied to your previous text. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | could he like me back?Look, if you want to do it just do it, otherwise it’s gonna keep bugging you and you will regret it. I am sure that even if he rejects you it’s not gonna be awkward after like two days, so there really isn’t a downside. Also from what I gathered, he is into you, so just shoot your shot, and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | This Is Why You Must Have A “Do or Die” Attitude If You Want To Get Good At Cold-ApproachGood post! | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:45 AM |
| 55 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateShe definitely knows you saw that and that this was the reason you were acting “grumpy”. If she has the audacity to invite you for a next date, I would say just move on and don’t waste any more of your time with her, but only you can answer that question, because only you know how your relationship is. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Need help with a 0 interest situationMate, don’t try to make a girl like you if she has shown that she does not. It never ends well. Don’t simp, it continuously chips away at your dignity and makes you a lesser man. I understand that you have some feeling for her, but you need to accept the fact that she has 0 interest and move on. Otherwise, it will make you suffer, not her. Go find some other women who are worth your time and energy and actually appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.I agree with you, we will all end up in the dirt at some point, no need to take the joy out of living for material things. Whether you are religious, or follow a philosophy such as stoicism, they all say that greed rots the mind and the souks. It’s not to be co fused with ambition, a man needs to be ambitious, but the desire for shallow material stuff only to make him feel better is what puts you on the wrong path. Don’t be lazy, set goal and work towards them, but whatever they are, they need t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?What we are discussing is leaning more towards psychology than towards biology, I definitely wouldn’t say your judgement is precise, as that is not within your field of expertise. A successful homeostasis in itself is the healthy balance of many different factors, one of which are the neurotransmitters from where the discussion began. You apparently don’t really know the biochemistry of the brain if you’re telling me that watching pornography regularly doesn’t change your dopamine levels which, … | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Well when it comes to the harmful effects of regularly consuming porn, there are many, but I am not quite sure whether performing in it can do any psychological harm. I would say that there isn’t anything harmful in that, because it’s your own experience so it’s different. Do you mean watching pornography made by you, or simply being in it? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Well the less sexually explicit the material is, the easier it should become for a person to get aroused, and the libido should rise, because porn is desensitising people to sexual stimuli. So if you get used to masturbate to fully clothed women, for example, the longer you will last plus it would take a lot less to get stimulated compared to a person who only uses pornography and doesn’t find anything that isn’t explicit arousing. If it’s hard for you you can try to gradually decrease the sexua… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Lol, no need to pose with how much you “know”, because clearly you think you know more than you actually do. Yes, many habits are unnatural, but few others are this psychologically damaging. Does sleeping in a bed mess with your neurotransmitters the way rewiring your brain to get off to porn regularly does? No. If you don’t understand what you are talking about just ask, don’t play smart because you aren’t impressing anyone. And there is absolutely a thing called “balance”, it’s the normal leve… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 40 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Yes, porn does affect you negatively. Masturbation is healthy and natural in moderate amounts, but consuming pornography is not natural. It really does rewire your brain because it affects your brain’s chemical balance. It makes it release a great deal of dopamine, which is responsible for rewarding and validating you based on achieving something, and that’s why most people feel shitty after masturbating to porn - it flushes it all and you will have to wait a bit before more is produced and stor… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | 21M never dated before, need you adviceMan, don’t listen to him, I’m sure you aren’t ugly and even if you are, I’ve never seen it stop anyone from getting very good-looking girls. Whatever can be blamed for the situation, it’s not looks | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Taking a break? IntenCel?If you’re forced to be celibate because you can’t get laid you are involuntary celibate, if there are girls who said they want to sleep with you and you said “no”, then you would be intentionally celibate so there’s no need to be kidding yourself about being intentionally celibate because it’s not actually intentional. One thing that will help you is to not think about it in such terms. Take a break, figure stuff out, rest and then come back with stronger, clearer mind. It’s very important to lo… | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 2 | How to approach girls at the gym?Well besides clubs and bars, I would suggest you to try another gym just for the sake of being in your element, but away from people you know. This will make you feel more comfortable and not care that much about the outcome of the approaches | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls at the gym?Then go somewhere else man, no one is confining you strictly to the gym except you. Since you are a regular there you might wanna go easy with the approaching because of obvious reasons. When you go to an entirely different place, however, you can do anything and try whatever without caring how you’re gonna look or feel. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 08:17 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Mate, you are overthinking everything, if you like her just either go tell her or make sure to show her. Who cares what she says, the important thing is you doing it and taking this step. And don’t idealise her too much, so it won’t sting if she says no. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm completely crushed.Well you decide what the lesson is here. But maybe that means you should steer clear of developing oneitis no matter how hard it may be in some situations. Also don’t sweat it bro, she showed you her true nature and her actions are a reflection of her, not of you. Keep you chin up, go find a better girl and see how she will come back (although I definitely wouldn’t advise you to take her back) | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm completely crushed.Mate, I am sorry this happened to you but I think it’s was not just 2 days. After all she wouldn’t end a relationship over someone she just met, my guess was they had known each other for longer and just decided to stop doing this and end it with you. The bright side is you absolutely dodger a bullet with this one, and you can learn a valuable lesson for the next to come. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 4 | (19m) feel like i’m missing outI like your style man, great response! | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:37 AM |
| 4 | All tbis redpill shit is nonsenseLMAO This just has to be a troll, no fucking way you are being serious with that shit. And if you are, please stop fucking crackheads, I don’t see how it can help you haha | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/20 09:11 AM |
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