I'll just share my experiance.

About a month ago I've met a girl through tinder. First date bowling, we clicked, kissed. Drove her back home, kissed her in the car, she went home.

From this time we're msging back and forth all the time flirting, sexting etc.

New years - our second meeting. I got her to my place. I give her three orgasms with my fingers. She's in awe. She gives me a bj. We do not have sex cause she stops my advances for like 5 hours of foreplay fun.

She later said that I was the first man to bring her this much sexual pleasure, was able to dominate her etc. Basically my stock is running very high.

We continue dating. We have sex, its hot af, she is in total awe. I give her great orgasms.

We continue to flirt, send each other pictures, plan dates etc.

Fast forward to yesterday. Her initiative mind you (she still invests 60% to my 40% i'd say). She is like "are we seeing eachother tonight?" ... "Its gonna be hot I promise, ill give u a bj of your life" and talk like this.

Then 5 hours later (when we're supposed to meet) - sorry, not gonna come. Something happened.

Then fast forward to today - we schedule "a call" for later tonight. I feel whats coming - she's coming back to her ex or something...

She tells me bad news "I've met a guy this week, and felt something".

I confront her about being all nice and wanting to meet yesterday - "Yeah I thought I'd come but I really don't want to play on 2 fronts".

So I guess that's that.

It all went great, good chemistry, I was in her house twice, met her mom. Gave her amazing orgasms, we've had hot sex. And I'm just cut off like that in a matter of 2 days, just cause she met someone, whom she haven't even been on a date with. She just ditches me for a chance of dating this guy...

Yeah, I'm crushed. She was invested, took me for a romantic walk, in a month I felt live we've built connection worth a year of knowing eachother. Then It all got cut off seemingly in two days.