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I'm 29 and I frequently date college freshman girls. It really depends on the girl. The big difference in preference in who a woman is looking for is typically life stage. You and her being both college students already puts you in the same life stage with her. From my experience 33% of college women won't date someone older, 33% exclusively want someone older, and 33% don't mind either as long as the attraction is there. Just keep approaching and don't get discouraged if a girl tells you she is…
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:06 AM
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Sometimes I do.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:30 PM
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I agree that shallowness in younger generations is at a new level. Definitely that followers doesn't prove much. Plus with so many social media apps it is hard to keep up with them all. I can't possibly have a certain number of connections on all apps. It is easy to get random followers on Instagram. Mutual connections with others is also emphasized by young woman. I live in California, USA and I will reject connections that I have not met in person (unless they are famous, which hasn't happened…
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:21 PM
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I think it doesn't matter which messaging service you use, if someone wants to talk they will use whatever messaging service. Instagram putting me at a lower tier versus texting is a great psychological question. You might be right. Instagram for not good looking guys could work depending on how you use it. I know this quite unattractive guy that uses it to post pictures of him flying planes. The guy ended up using it to get a decent girlfriend. Instagram is a great way to show girls your intere…
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:42 PM
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I work full time. I sometimes approach college girls. My generation is also into social media, but more so in the generation younger than me.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:37 AM
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The point I was trying to get across was that social media adds to a guy's trust when meeting strangers. A person with no mutual friends and no followers may indicate to a woman that she should be careful trusting this guy. But thank you though :) I think to some extent everyone is shallow though. Not necessarily in looks though.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:32 AM
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And they are giving you instagram because it’s pumps their follower count and it’s zero investment. It pumps up my follower count too. I prefer Instagram over phone numbers now because: - With many students still wearing masks on campus, Instagram helps me identify their actual face. Maybe I wasn't as attracted as I had thought. - They can also see my face. I'm not good looking so better that they see my face and determine if they are interested or not before I waste my time on a date. I've had …
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:24 AM
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she was the one that continued with the topic and I was just following her. This is good. It means it is on her mind. Maybe she wanted to catch herself talking so openly about sex with you and didn't want to look like she wanted it. i thought she was having other dudes going directly to that You can assume any woman you meet is already having sex with another guy or has a ton of options. Don't get hung up on this. she is unique and love herself alot. Yea some women are like this. Definitely don'…
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:04 AM
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I later said "really, you don't" This response makes it seem like her response is strange to you, but it seemed normal to me. I'm not sure what information you were looking for. I would have given a short response on why you like to hang out with your cousins more than friends. she said " I don't fuckin know the fuck" and " your acting like I got a tally going" Her response is also strange. Normally girls might say "Why do you ask?" At this point it really depends on how interested you are in th…
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:12 AM
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It's definitely a prerequisite for attraction.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:00 AM
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haven't date yet cuz she said she is busy with college but when she's is done we will Seems like what a girl says when she wants to talk to you more online and get more comfortable before meeting in person. No one is ever too busy to meet someone they like. sexual topics and all of sudden she said she is not looking for sex or don't want to fck with me. I would just deflect with some humor and change the subject then. Just wait until you meet up to gauge the sexual tension. Texting brings out th…
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:53 AM
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You push yourself to get into more social interactions and condition yourself to stay calm in these situations. You will learn what type of responses project desperation and neediness.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:43 AM
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Now, as before, im really intimidated, more than about the girl, about my aproach becoming a public conversation and having people listening to whatever im saying, so im literally focusing only on aproaching girls that are good looking and by themselves (not near people), which limits my potential by a lot as you can imagine. This is so relatable to me! I also tend to only approach lone girls, not in hearing distance of others because I'm scared to get judged by them for making approaches. It's …
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:32 AM
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Ask for directions, but try to tangent the conversation onto another topic ASAP and carry on the conversation from there. They'll catch on that you didn't need the directions in the first place and just wanted to talk, but that's fine. Another opener is making some observation about something nearby and asking them about it for their opinion. Just carry on any conversation and at a good point you can ask if they want to continue the conversation over coffee. If they weren't very busy when you fo…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:21 AM
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I'm a 29M in northern California and have done approaches at universities for a long time. Sometimes at college events I'll bump into other guys aged 26+ that have a job and just there to meet college girls. On campus the guys I see talking to girls are weirdos that get escorted off campus by the campus police. I see other day gamer groups go to some of the campuses I do, but I have never met any.
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:06 PM
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You tell them you already graduated. I go to college academic clubs, groups, and events all the time. Tell them you have an interest in whatever event you join.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:59 PM
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Enroll in a PE class or night class after work. Now you have an excuse to talk.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:50 PM
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College campuses are pretty dead on weekends. Try the retail in the college towns if you can only do weekends.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:49 PM
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I'm 29M and sometimes take a PE class on a big campus to grab a student ID. The youngest I've had was a 19 y.o. Some of the freshman are really dull since they have no life experience, but some young women surprise me with their maturity. I was honest and told girls my age and I got a few messaging me they can't stand guys their age and want someone more mature.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:43 PM
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“what if i didnt go crazy and just spend more time with her” You made the right move not spending time with her. She wasn't interested and you didn't waste anymore time with her. Good call.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:08 PM
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Where did you learn to do a compliment hit and run?
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:03 PM
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Is a front stop where you walk in front of them, face them and say your line?
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:00 PM
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I agree. Joining school clubs and events is a great way to meet people!
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:56 PM
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I understand your doubts. It could also be that I go beyond what a normal gamer does and I will sit on a random lectures and go to school events, which have students much more receptive to strangers. Here are the 25 encounters broken down by location: School Clubs Meetings: 4 Events and Socials: 6 Classroom: 2 PE: 2 Gym: 2 Cafeteria: 4 Quad: 1 hallway: 2 Bus stop: 1 Working school retail: 1 I see in a lot of college pickup videos that the guy stands around the hallway or school entry and makes a…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:27 PM
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Oh I'm sorry I didn't mean to interrupt your mind palace, it's not even important I just wanted to say that your jacket is REALLY comfy. You look like a walking blanket. Haha I love this opener! Really sets a good mood.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:48 PM
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I remember when I first started making approaches when I was in college it went something like what you described. Typically, if you start talking to a girl and she does not stop to make eye contact with you and keeps walking, then don't keep walking with her! If you had a good hook she would stop to chat. If she needs to make it to some class on time she will ask you to walk with her. I think your interaction was over after you said "it's pretty long too, much longer than mine, do you like long…
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:36 PM
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If you live in an expensive area like New York City or San Francisco, then living with your parents and saving for a house is more normal. It also depends on how your parents react to you pulling girls back to your room. I personally use this subreddit and search [field reports] to give me ideas on how to approach women. There are just so many day game and night game examples to read and how to react in different situations.
/r/seduction02/04/22 04:55 AM
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There is an expiration for attraction. It may have passed for this lawyer girl. If you are already texting her, then keep doing that. Wait until the next Lyft ride so you can interest her with some conversation. Have you seen the netflix documentary "Don't F**k with Cats: Hunting an Internet Killer"? It brings up a good debate in the first amendment: Does freedom of speech mean we can freely post murder videos? Maybe she will have some take on that since she is studying law. If she is engaged en…
/r/seduction02/04/22 04:17 AM
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You look great!
/r/seduction02/04/22 04:04 AM
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Sounds like what I'd see at a college party with alcohol. I think she is just having fun and flirting with any decent looking guy. If you wanted you could take her aside and have a flirty conversation and apply some petting followed by more kissing. If you wanted to know if this situation means you look good, then yes you do.
/r/seduction02/04/22 04:01 AM
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After the rage subsides, look at this as a learning experience. Figure out what you can work on when courting a woman. Work on yourself and when you are older and more financially secure, snag your own 21F.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:44 AM
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This field report is so relatable. The walking around and looking for someone to talk to part is like a normal day gaming thing to me haha. I also have trouble approaching girls when others are around. What I'll do sometimes is stand around the corner and thinking of an opener based on the situation, then draft possible responses she will have and what I'll say back in each situation. Then I'll decide what stories I want to tangent off into based on what personality I think she has. After all th…
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:11 AM
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Pretty much every college girl I've encountered for the last few months have been receptive to talking with a stranger. Perhaps covid and the pandemic has made them long for human interaction. Note that when I say "contacts", it includes phone numbers and also social media. I count an accepted friend request on facebook as a contact and if I follow a girl on instagram and she does a follow back that is also a contact. The true test is if they respond to the message I send, but I also included th…
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:55 PM
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I think your girlfriend's opinion is spot on with how most woman think about approaches. Glad you like my field reports. I'll post another for April to June at the end of June.
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:00 PM
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Weekdays. I work remote. I set up my laptop somewhere on campus, get my work done, and make approaches if I see a girl that catches my attention. College campuses are dead on weekends. I don't make approaches on weekends. The foot traffic is low. Try retail areas near college campuses on weekends if you are looking for college girls. EDIT: Sometimes there are college events on weekends.
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:43 PM
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Yep. I've met two engineers and a doctor in residency at college events. They all already graduated and are working. Just there to meet college girls lol
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:22 PM
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You got me on the name haha
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:46 PM
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Thanks. The height helps, but my skin is dark and I don't have a good looking face. I can get away with less than some shorter guys to attract girls, but I need compete with better looking, taller, light-skinned guys. Actually recently I found out that a girl that had rejected me last year ended up dating a average-looking, 5'2'' guy. He owns a plane and takes college girls out on flights. If you work on yourself you can make up for physical shortcomings.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:08 PM
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I don't think girls anywhere are difficult. I do envy some guys that have that look that gets girls approaching them without much effort, but we work with the looks we are dealt with so just need to work on what we can change. I've had situations where I was chatting with a girl who acted cold and guarded. I disengaged and a couple minutes later, another much more handsome guy approached. She made a b-line to him and asked for his social media within seconds after she made a comment about his ap…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:53 PM
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Me: I was thinking of somewhere with more light so I don't feel like I'm in a dungeon haha. I'm trying to find my "special spot" on campus to get some work done so I'm trying out different spots and seeing how I feel. What's your "special" spot? There are probably several ways to tangent the topic. The above is what came off the top of my head. I have never actually had a conversation like that before though XD Note that some people really don't want to be bothered and that can be judged by them…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:26 PM
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I'm always impressed with the maturity of some of the young women I meet. I'm not sure what you mean by predatory. There are no tricks, just two consenting adults.
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:40 PM
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I just don't want to get a reputation on campus On large campuses this has rarely happened. Students will come and go as they graduate, but the people to pay attention to the most are parent helpers and faculty that will remember you for years to come. I've been taking college classes off and on since I graduated from a far away university. Some parent helpers have caught on that I've dated a lot of girls at their organizations for the past 7 years and that the age gap is getting large. One pare…
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:20 PM
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I sometimes take a class I'm genuinely interested in and talk to the girls in the class. Sometimes I sit in classes I'm not enrolled in to see if I might take it next semester. I can only take like one or two classes since I have work.
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:00 PM
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do you find yourself being "old" at 29 in a college campus? Girls will ask what year I am and what I'm studying and I'll tell them I've already graduated, but still take classes for personal development. Sometimes they ask me how old I am and when I tell them I'm 29 they get surprised and say I look so young for my age, but ask why I'm taking classes at my age. I tell them through out your life you will always need to learn new subjects to stay relevant in the workforce. If they ask my age it ma…
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:23 PM
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South-east Asian. I look kind of like the guy in my profile pic except much uglier :(
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:35 PM
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Dark skinned
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:28 PM
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I don't understand what you mean by "she never does initiate", but "she always would be the first to talk". I had a date once with a girl and she ghosted me afterward. If she sees me in public, she still comes up to me and asks how I've been doing. She is probably just being nice and doesn't want to burn bridges.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:39 PM
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I've done this after I had met the girl almost a year prior. I randomly added her on facebook after I met her, but never texted her since I had a GF at the time. After I went single, I asked her about one thing I remembered about her and we chatted for a bit online. I asked her out, but she didn't want to. It was worth a shot.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:28 PM
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Keep approaching! Make it your goal to meet X new people every week. Go to new places if old ones aren't working. Reflect on why she stood you up (but don't bother her about it). Did you not interest her enough? Are you too accessible? Do you not have any hobbies or goals? Work on yourself and keep approaching!
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:15 PM
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You are good looking, smart, well-educated, cool, and masculine, BUT you are a nice guy. I'm reading this as you aren't exciting her. You are good on paper, but you aren't exciting. Work on conversational techniques to keep her interested. I've been watching Charisma on Command videos recently to help me.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:06 PM
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Yea, I knew a guy in his 20s that was really awkward and dated woman in their 30s and 40s until he could establish his own maturity. Just approach these woman and see if you can make a pull on them. Likely if they know you are younger than them they'll know it'll be a physical thing.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:55 PM
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I'm posting another field report later this week that summarizes the last 3 months.
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:25 AM
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I agree with this completely. You need to take action.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:26 AM
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This is why I find it really helpful when guys post their race, height, age, and location in their field reports. All this matters in seduction and it's better to learn from a guy whos stats look like your own.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:47 PM
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Carrying on a conversation is a skill you need to work on. Sometimes if a girl pauses too long on an open ended question, I'll tell my own silly story. Sometimes the girl will pick out something bizarre in my story and it becomes our inside joke and get her laughing. Set 3 sounds like you need to learn some crowd control skills. Or keep her back from her friend for a minute and close with "It was really nice talking with you. Let me get your number so we can continue this conversation another ti…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:44 PM
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I've waited in class until a girl I didn't know leaves so we can talk on the way out. I don't think they notice I waited so we chatted normally and didn't mention it. If she is busy asking the professor a question and I'm one of the last people to be in the classroom, I'll leave and walk outside really slowly and act like I'm busy texting in the chances she exits. Again, most girls don't mention it being creepy and will talk to a fellow classmate they have never met. I probably over think it bei…
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:41 PM
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This has happened to me also where the girl takes 16-24 hours between each text, but we text huge block of texts to each other. Found out after 3 "dates" she thought of me as a friend. I hope after you guys meet the texting frequency increases. Texting frequenting is an indicator of interest.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:08 AM
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I tried stalling as much as possible so I could walk out with her. I do this too. I waited at the entrance of the building for her. I'm also guilty of this. I wonder what women think of this sort of stuff.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:05 AM
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I feel the same way as you. I come across women 25+ very infrequently and when I do they are always in a relationship or married. Online dating never gives me any matches.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:11 AM
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It's never too late to learn something new ;)
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:14 PM
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I approach at several different colleges in my area. I got my degree from a university far away. I'll typically drive to a college in the morning and sit around in the campus cafe while I do remote work. Every once in a while I'll do a walk through of the campus and check for a girls that interest me and make an approach.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:14 PM
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I come across as boring and often ramble with small talk. I'm trying to change that though and learn seduction techniques because I can get quite boring. Part of why I wrote cute and innocent is to give the reader a mental image of what type of girls I approach. Different types of girls likely have different ways you would present yourself to attract them. If I started approaching more alternative dressed woman or those sorority kind walking around in tube tops, I would have to change my game up…
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:06 PM
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It felt creepy at first, and I've asked a few college girls if it's weird, but I've been told that 30 is still not that old. A few undergrad girls admitted they are already dating a guy that's my age and have hooked up with men as old as 35. I think this barrier is only in your own mind. Once you own up to it that your a 30 y.o. talking to 18-23 y.o., then you find out age is not an issue (unless you actually look too old). However, girls are still shocked when I tell them my age and will respon…
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:47 PM
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Stop texting her if she doesn't go out with. Just talk with her in person. Check in with text once in a while, but just go silent if she isn't going out with you. The idea is to make her realize you aren't going to text her unless she goes out with you. Right now she is feeling validated that she can attract older men. Don't be her fan.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:35 AM
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"I don't go into a guy's house on the first date. I'm not that type of woman."
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:25 AM
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Sounds like her interest is there. Don't call it a date and go out with her then sexually escalate with her. If she pushes away your advances and continues to keep things platonic, then don't give her your time until she shows more interest.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:15 AM
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That last paragraph you wrote looks like lots of regret. You can't do much at this point except use this experience as a learning point for your next relationship. She may or may not come back to you, but don't wait on her if you don't want to. You can check in with her once a month though. I was in a similar situation like yours with an ex that I still loved, but didn't want to see me. I texted her once a month for 3 months and eventually she got back with me. I was also seeing other woman at t…
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:58 AM
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You don't need to pull woman back to your house. In the backseat of your car is fine. Go to bars, clubs, and college parties and make pulls back to your car. Toss her in the backseat and screw back there.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:25 AM
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Text is a hard place to get across personality. Don't text back too often or the conversation will dry up too quick. Try to make an excuse on why you can't text and need to talk in person, such as "This is a great conversation, but I need to go workout now. Want to meet me at the cafeteria for lunch tomorrow and we can continue this?"
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:19 AM
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I don't only approach Asians, but California universities have so many Asians it would be hard not to approach them. I think over 50% of students in most California universities are Asian. I had about 3 non-Asians in my approaches.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:59 AM
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young adult (18-35) groups, university, and cold approaching in public areas.
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:47 PM
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I'm really sorry this happened, but she probably upgraded her man. Some woman are like this and will quickly "upgrade" if the opportunity presents itself. Just keep improving your circumstances and be the best man so this won't happen.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:52 AM
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Unfortunately, the only reset switch is time. Wait at least a month before making another approach. First impressions are extremely important. Clawing your way back from a bad impression is difficult and often you won't have the opportunity after the first impression because the girl has lost interest. If you and this girl are part of a mutual group then you might be able to redeem yourself by showing your best side to the whole group. Otherwise, you wait for the reset.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:39 AM
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I think the window of texting 2 to 24 hours later is perfectly fine and the timing won't change how likely she was to text you back. If she was interested in you, she would text back regardless of how long you waited within how long she could remember the interaction. The content of what you talked about in that 15-20 minutes was the important part. I hope you got her interested in you and got her laughing. If her interest wasn't high enough after she got picked up, then she wont text back.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:29 AM
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Do your normal opener then ask if they are in college. Some college freshman are also 17 so I would check their year in college and just directly ask their age if they are a freshman. I'm 29 and I hang around college campuses often. Usually the girl's friends will notify me if my target is underage.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:43 AM
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I don't think you can really meet a girl on Instagram you've never met in real life. If you DM girls you don't know, they will think of you as a fan. Instagram can definitely add interest to you when you meet a girl in real life and show them your Instagram. I've seen many men's Instagram's with them doing fun and interesting things.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:34 AM
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Exactly this. You are on the back burner for now. Don't think too much about her for now. She may or may not come back around later. You have to let her come back to you at this point. No more texting her for now. You can message her again after a month. If you see her in person with a group of friends then don't give her attention. See if she comes up to you and talks. If she still talks with you in person, then you can try one more time.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:44 PM
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If she gives you a fake, then she wasn't interested.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:58 AM
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I've started asking "What's the best way to get in contact with you later?" and let them choose. If they are interested in you, they will respond on any of the platforms. Lately, it's been mostly Instagram. Phone texting is the second most common. I don't have snapchat. Also if they say they don't have any social media, then they are not interested and just move on.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:54 AM
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You can try putting a condom and rub her vagina with your dick, until she gets so horny after a few times, that she can’t wait no more and will ask to have sex. This is a good idea. Or use her thighs and cum on her belly. When I was 25 I also had a virgin 19 y.o. GF that also did this for 2 months until she got annoyed with me using her thighs and finally let me put it in. I tried to put it in slowly but she was impatient and grabbed my cock and pulled the whole thing inside her. She ended up cr…
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:45 AM
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I agree, it takes many approaches and lots of luck you bump into the right person.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:28 AM
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I know others that are over 30 that met their partner in zumba. I would scope out the age range in the groups you join. I personally go to a biweekly badminton group that is for all ages, but is mostly ages 20-30.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:15 PM
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Good attempt. Brush it off and don't approach her unnecessarily. In the future you may want to look for more signs though that she is interested in being asked out. Like keeping her engaged with non-work topics. If she giggles, smiles, and looks at you in the eyes she might be interested. You've just revealed your intent with a girl at your work so now it makes it harder to ask out other woman or you look too desperate or like an office hound (assuming you work in an office).
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:33 PM
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After-work language classes, art, and photography classes at your local community college is a good place to meet young adults. Dancing, zumba, and yoga at your local gym is another good location. You may have to scope out places a bit to see the age range. Sometimes older adults dominate certain classes.
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:46 AM
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You need to get used to rejection. Remember that "maybe" or "let me think about it" both mean no so don't wait on a girl if she says this. Also I don't want to dissuade you, but just an anecdote, back in high school I asked out this girl who said "let me think about it". Well she never got back to me, but also told everyone in the school that I liked her and used my approach as self-validation. For a long time it made me scared to ask out anyone else, but I got over it. High school is just a ver…
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:31 AM
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Meetup groups and bars. I would recommend Daygame at college, but you don't have a degree and might have a harder time connecting with college students. You could take a college course for fun. If you work a 9 to 5, then find language, art, or PE classes before or after work. Pick something you wouldn't mind doing even if you don't meet anyone because you might not.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:13 AM
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Write down some experiences that you think are notable when hiking or background stories about the people playing the music you listen to. Memorize these and retell it during a lul in the conversation. Make sure you put enthusiasm into it and check in with them once in a while to make sure the story isn't boring them. Work on asking questions that get the other person to talk. If they don't give you much of an answer then answer your own questions until they get more comfortable. Assuming you ar…
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:27 AM
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You said the solution yourself: Join a fraternity, student clubs, and common interest groups. Make an effort to ask people out to do fun stuff with you and take pictures. You don't necessarily need to post the photos on social media, but you can show it to new women you meet if what you did recently comes up in conversation. Joining the leadership for student clubs is also a great way to get have a tight knit group of friends to have fun with.
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:06 PM
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Are meetup groups all not meeting in your area still? Many universities and meetup groups are back. Some are temporarily closed for the next few weeks because of the new covid variant. In the mean time you might still be forced to do cold approaches and online dating. If they are open, then go where you have the most success. Keep going on dates and practicing! Sometimes you do say something strange and not get a second date, but just reflect on it and try again. It seems like you don't have an …
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:07 PM
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I usually just take a while to respond to her and send lots of smiley face responses to let her know I want to save the conversation for later, but I'm still interested in her. For example: Her: Did you forget me? (Wait half day to respond) You: Of course not! Looking forward to our date on the weekend :) Her: What were you doing yesterday? (Wait half day to respond) You: Working on some stuff. I'm a little busy now. Talk to you later :)
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:51 PM
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You are in a good position. All you need is a car to take college girls out and your own room to take them back to. And if you don't have a private room then you can do it in your car. I picked up girls in college when I was 25 and ended up dating a cute 18 y.o. freshman girl studying engineering for 2 years. Your life experience will make women more interested in you and give you something to talk about with them. People go back to school all the time during their lives to learn something new. …
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:30 PM
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Messaging people you've met like old high school or college friends has a realistic chance of going to a date. I've done it a few times. Sometimes I never had talked to them in person before messaging, but they are a mutual friend or sometimes I have met them in-person, but it was super brief like in an ice-breaker at some event. I usually start by reminiscing about something regarding the place we met or both went to. Then I ask them how have things changed since that high school/college class …
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:14 PM
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Thanks for sharing your stats! You are far more selective than I though most people are!
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:02 PM
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The age difference has seemed to only improve my getting women. There are a few that will avoid me, but the majority don't see an issue or will be interested in talking with me. Some college girls tell me they don't like hanging out with guys their age or that they want a more experienced man. My girlfriends eventually catch on that I go after college girls after piecing together my dating history. They do get jealous by it, but nothing to break up over.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:33 PM
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I think this works until I look too old. I probably have until my mid 30s. I definitely need another "marketing channel" that has long-term sustainability as I age. I have some ideas I'll have to test out.
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:47 PM
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