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I used to agree with you, it has gotten too far gone not to say something at this point. If we dont it will only get worse, I have kids that I dont want to see indoctrinated.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 12:50 AM
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To me, main issue is the normalization of people suppressing subs like this as radical or anti women. This is the barrier of entry into the conversation and its continually stigmatized as something it's entirely not. I've been an MRA for 10 years and I havent seen very much progress, I was hoping Trump would delve more into this. The conflation with MRA's and incels or MGTOW is frustrating and annoying but it continues because mainstream media refuses to acknowledge facts. If we could somehow br…
/r/MensRights21/09/20 07:34 AM
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Oh wow, you've managed to make an even dumber argument. You're in a sub about fathers who care about and want to be a part of their children's lives making a strawman about deadbeat dads (who would be despised here). And then somehow argued for us by saying we are focused on problems we have or could have, which is why we are all here to begin with. Congratulations, this is the dumbest interaction I've had in quite a while.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 07:15 PM
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Hes arguing semantics, apparently you worded the failure/success incorrectly and hes for some reason trying to pin his argument on that. You're still correct hes still wrong, but that's what he just attempted to argue with you.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 03:58 PM
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Were next.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:57 AM
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And of course they make the women the victims by saying it impedes the success of women...
/r/MensRights25/05/20 05:47 AM
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Yeah im gonna have to disagree with you on that.
/r/MensRights23/09/18 03:36 PM
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Im gonna disagree with you on this. I strongly feel that 'cuck' is the newest and most devestating shaming tool. It hasnt spread to the mainstream completely yet but when it does there will be very few men that will want that label attatched to them. Also, feminism is a dying trend outside out their little bubble, we dont have to care what a few cringey embarrassing people say. Outside of acedemia and reddit no one cares about feminists.
/r/MensRights23/09/18 11:14 AM
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Yeah i saw that yesterday. How was that not national news? Maybe it was and i just dont remember it but thats the most blatant display of sexual abuse i have ever witnessed on tv. Fuck that guy.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 08:31 PM
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He shouldn't have spouted nonsense about women never lying about sexual assault, they do lie and it isnt uncommon. This is karma.
/r/MensRights07/07/18 02:52 PM
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Bro, seriously you come off as the biggest cunt ever. You could have provided the stats with your original message. Your the one that posted so it's on you to provide the argument. Don't be a cunt, be an ally.
/r/MensRights21/06/18 11:09 AM
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Wow, I have to say it is extremely disappointing to see this sub be so anti Trump. This place made me an MRA ten years ago, and everything in Trump's presidency aligns with all of my MRA philosophy. Alot of the time I feel like it was us, the forgotten people, that voted him in, quietly waiting in the shadows. People that understood we needed a President who would take American citizens first and foremost and fight the cancer of feminism and far left madness.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 03:44 PM
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Wtf? He's black. Lol. The point is about men, race has nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 03:21 AM
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I have no idea, my kids' mom even said it was ridiculous and stopped the charges so we could work it out on our own. I had 30% physical custody (which lasted all of a few weeks) at the time they set the bill but still I'll never understand how they came to that figure.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 07:26 AM
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Yeah it's definitely more complicated in my case. I'm mostly being facetious because I'm paying off a debt not a recurring monthly ongoing child support. However they were charging me $771/month on an $1800 income. It's still ridiculous but not nearly as ridiculous as the posted material.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 05:09 AM
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Lol hey that's almost as much as I pay and I have my kids 50 percent of the time.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 01:08 AM
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Wow, that's definitely a thorough look into the claims. I don't see how anyone with knowledge of the police reports could possibly think of placing charges on Winston.
/r/MensRights05/09/16 06:17 PM
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What the fuck does she mean by "statistically impossible"? Did they mean "impossible" but felt the use of "statistically" would make them seem smarter? Or does this person think a statistic of male abuse, even one showing 1% is impossible? It's like a bunch of 4th graders with dictionaries are attempting to make dialogue. I don't understand how someone could make less sense.
/r/MensRights15/08/16 11:26 PM
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Eh, you may be right but my first thought was the hysteria when someone decides to make a fuss about it. For female "objectification" (quotes cause this is fucking dumb) all it takes is a somewhat known journalist to write a shitty article about women and blah blah blah and they will have 100,000 twitter followers tweeting all kinds of lame stupid shit. For male "objectification" that simply doesn't exist. So it's not an "omg they're objectifying men!" argument, it's a "look you fucking idiots, …
/r/MensRights06/08/16 01:11 AM
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Jesus christ I can't even follow this author. I have no idea what half of these off topic remarks are referring to. A little less "look at me and the incredibly specific names no one else knows but me can spout about while I make otherwise good points." And a little more "here's what happened" would be nice. I think I just saw the peak of pretension, seriously, let's get a little less of that.
/r/MensRights05/08/16 03:00 AM
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Fair enough, I can see how some can be put off by him. I don't agree with everything he says but he certainly brings more awareness to the issues discussed here than almost anyone else out there.
/r/MensRights23/07/16 11:35 PM
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If you followed milo, which I don't know why you're not if you subscribe to this sub, then you would know better.
/r/MensRights23/07/16 07:31 PM
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That last bit is something I feel is because unmarried mothers automatically get full custody. If it were the other way around I'm sure it would show that men abuse their children more. Point is, until there is more research I'm comfortable assuming gender parity in these cases.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 10:36 PM
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Woosh.
/r/MensRights19/03/16 04:42 AM
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So when a woman is on the pill and tells her boyfriend not to use a condom because of it, is that volunteering for parenthood? Why is it only women get a get out of jail free card and not men?
/r/MensRights18/03/16 07:37 PM
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It's incredible how far feminists will twist something in order to further their agenda. I know exactly what he's talking about in that paragraph and it has nothing to do with manipulation or bad intentions of any kind.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 04:18 PM
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It's a fairly recent thing in this sub. I've been here for 5 years and this sub has changed my life, the movement basically started here and spread to bigger and better things. It's fine to me if we get some young idiot kids in here who think they understand what's going on here, and it helps to have veterans in here who can keep the noobies in line. It's just how movements work as they get bigger I guess.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 03:28 PM
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I'd like to see how many actual rapes happened, although with so many fake rapes it's gonna be hard to quantify legitimate cases. The whole feminist who cried wolf thing and all.
/r/MensRights03/01/16 11:14 PM
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I think about it the exact same way. It's called stolen valor. There's a reason people do it, it makes them feel powerful. There's an obvious incentive for these women to jump on the valor train before it leaves the station, I'm just glad it wasn't more.
/r/MensRights12/12/15 03:55 PM
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Yeah why isn't everyone talking about this? She's blatantly admitting to everything in a shallow immature blame everyone but herself way. Just ignore the excuses and understand she admits it so she can go to prison or whatever.... I don't understand why this is even a discussion, am I going crazy?
/r/MensRights12/12/15 03:29 PM
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It's true you can file at any time but the younger they are the more you have a chance. I've been told by lawyers and mediators that the courts view this as "well if you really cared and wanted this you would have gone for full custody at the beginning." I'm not sure how pervasive this is but it certainly is alive and well in the state of California. That being said given your situation I would definitely speak to a lawyer and see what they can do for you.
/r/MensRights28/11/15 04:00 PM
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I don't see how a nurse could make that much money. That sounds more like a doctor's salary to me.
/r/MensRights28/11/15 03:37 PM
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That's great news, good on them. I feel bad for whoever is on the other side of that debate for sure.
/r/MensRights08/11/15 05:18 PM
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Echochamber? Hahaha that's rich. Ive made like two comments in r/feminism and got banned. Same with all the other feminist subs. I've never seen this sub get ban happy in the 4 years I've been on it. Your absolutely out of your mind ridiculous.
/r/MensRights08/11/15 03:46 PM
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Her experience matches my neighbors so perfectly.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 11:01 PM
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The trailer looks really good except for the whole associating mra's with red pillers thing.
/r/MensRights27/10/15 02:32 AM
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From what I understand, the police will ask them to press charges, then they don't because they would have to prove it. However U.S. college campus courts only need a 'preponderance of evidence' to convict (more then 50% likely). Also the colleges are pressured through funding to deal with these things and federally required to for some reason.
/r/MensRights17/10/15 04:02 PM
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I don't know, I'm reading through the comments and while yes there's alot of downvotes, I don't see anyone being all that nasty. I see a bunch of reasonable responses.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 01:44 PM
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There's pretty much a new story coming to light daily of exactly this. In fact I would argue women do it overwhelmingly more we just don't give enough of a fuck as a society to do anything about it.
/r/MensRights20/09/15 08:24 PM
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Gamergate has been smeared? I guess I hadn't noticed.
/r/MensRights19/07/15 03:50 PM
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I don't get this. Is it like a collective putting of their fingers into their ears over the gamer gate thing? Why wouldn't they just ignore all mention of it? Seems like that would be easier then basically saying "2 plus 2 isn't 4" while they go blue in the face trying to prove it.
/r/MensRights19/07/15 03:28 PM
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Did you watch his latest show?
/r/MensRights23/06/15 03:28 AM
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I keep seeing posts about "for all the people who's father's abandoned them" and it was seriously starting to piss me off until I saw this. It's a shame more people can't see the real problem.
/r/MensRights22/06/15 03:12 PM
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I refuse to read articles that have a disabled comments section. If you can't stand by what you wrote then you must not believe in it yourself.
/r/MensRights13/06/15 07:14 AM
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Why would that be shocking? The Hawks suck.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 04:42 PM
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It will because sadly there is no irrefutable proof that she lied. don't get me wrong, she most likely did, but there isn't enough evidence to prove it.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 04:41 PM
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This is the correct answer. As much as I hate false accusers I would not want the same miscarriage of justice to be allowed for them as it is for the falsely accused. Every single case needs to scrutinized and if proof one way or the other is not made available then the case should be thrown out, full stop.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 04:39 PM
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Dude, there is no proof she was lying. Simple as that. Thank god things didn't turn out even worse for the guy but pretending her dumbassery was somehow proof that she lies doesn't help anyone.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 04:13 PM
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It's almost as if she's upset she wasn't getting the attention the other girl was.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 06:47 PM
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Whoa wait a minute... when I close down my store at midnight in the dangerous part of town Im always alert and watching for any danger, I'm 240 pounds and 6 foot 7. Also, I'm a guy.... I don't see how walking around at night is comparable to anything else in this thread.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 06:45 PM
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Lol at the first one. "They are trying to make us edit out parts of her speech, in case you missed it here is the full speech."
/r/MensRights29/04/15 04:33 AM
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Lol I read up until she said "if I'd been a male". She still hasn't learned anything.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 03:02 PM
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Circumcision has been ingrained into our (western) society. I was never a feminist but before I found this sub I was definitely emotional on this subject as I have been cut. I found it hard at first because I wanted to pretend that there was nothing wrong but after a while I realized how wrong I was.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 01:55 PM
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I find it much more telling that at such a young age, working (I'm assuming) mainly minimum wage or entry level positions, one gender could possibly get paid more on such a wide scale. I mean, it makes a lot more sense when you have longer careers and many more factors to consider but how can we all start from the same point yet one gender is already ahead?
/r/MensRights17/03/15 10:35 PM
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Or he had mental issues and couldn't deal with being a loser? The guy was fucking nuts, don't act like he had some deep intriguing reason. He hated everyone because of his own fucked up head.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 03:05 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. I've seen down votes but I haven't seen any bannings, and I have been banned from feminist subs as well merely for politely disagreeing. You really have to try to be this wrong on a subject, shame on you Wong.
/r/MensRights28/02/15 04:41 PM
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The line you draw connecting our current rape hysteria and the lynching of black men is really powerful. I'm gonna use this in the future if you don't mind.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 04:53 PM
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or we could just not have college administrators operating courtrooms in our colleges and leave it to the experts.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 07:27 PM
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I agree with you, the one thing I found interesting though is the authors ignorance on the numbers for domestic violence.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 07:03 PM
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The numbers from ontario suggest there are a lot more women being victimized than men. Does anybody else find that odd? Every single in depth study I have seen shows near parity between the sexes. Why is it so different for Ontario? Are they recording it differently than the peer reviewed studies since it's a government analysis?
/r/MensRights27/01/15 05:58 PM
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That's just the policy when one parent makes more than the other. It sucks but that's the current law.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 10:24 PM
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Wow thank you! I do have a lot more to say i just wasn't sure how much time should be spent on my personal stuff versus the logical argument stuff. This definitely helps.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:59 AM
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Thank you i really appreciate you taking the time to watch the video. Did i do alright? It's my first ever video so i'm definitely looking for as much feedback as possible.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:19 AM
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I just spent about an hour watching all her videos on that youtube channel. She is mercilessly efficient in dismantling feminist myths, all while holding the title of feminist. She explains in one of her videos on that channel why she is a feminist here and it really makes sense to me. It's kind of a way to stick it to all these newbie feminists that have pissed on the name feminism, while asserting her dominance over tenure and knowledge of the movement historically.
/r/MensRights17/09/14 04:12 AM
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Do you have a link to the post? EDIT: I want to see the comments over there and add my opinion is all.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 10:44 PM
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Well, there might be some legal repercussion if the user if identified but he/she wont be labeled a sex offender, that's just ridiculous and offensive to victims of sexual abuse.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 03:30 AM
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Yeah i just finished the 30 minute youtube video on the subject. I have to agree with you. This is deeper and more important than i realized.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 02:35 AM
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How would that ruin the name of gaming? I couldn't possibly care less what two pissy, arrogant, manipulative, zealous cunts have to say on gaming much less anything else. I understand she (Zoe) is an awful rotten person but i don't see why anyone should be worried. She is a nothing, a meaningless troll that should be laughed at not a cause for concern.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 05:37 PM
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Well it doesn't "prove" they exist but in an anecdote it suggests these types of clauses can and do happen. Sorry, i totally am on your side i just like to be accurate.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 02:51 AM
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That's a stretch. I see where you're coming from but there needs to be something that actually adds to the discussion with the post. At least pose the phrasing you just said when posting so people know how to react. Really though, you're just trying to stifle discussion. Don't like it? Don't read it, just move on. Discussion is literally the thing i miss most about this place, i want discussion more than anything else on this subreddit. I remember /u/kloo2yoo, now that was a great time to be on …
/r/MensRights22/08/14 06:07 AM
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I go to /r/femradebates for the discussion that used to happen here a few years ago.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 04:41 AM
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What does this have to do with anything? I'm tired of coming here and seeing these lazy posts. Ok, this woman sucks, that's horrible, but how does this one person relate to the systemic problems men face? This is something anyone of any gender can do to any person of any gender. There is no inherent bias in this act. Women can and do get convicted for stuff like this. On top of that, the OP doesn't provide anything to discuss. No opinion was made in the header, no question or discussion starter …
/r/MensRights22/08/14 04:35 AM
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This is the perfect response. Intentions and words are all nice and great but the actual boots on the ground making shit happen are what really matters. Feminists can say they care about equality until they're blue in the face, it won't matter until feminists stop blocking men's rights issues via legislation.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 03:34 AM
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Someone should post this to r/femradabates.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 03:21 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 11:00 AM
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Yeah it is but it's just me. I have no way of knowing it's a widespread thing at all so keep in mind it's one anecdote.
/r/MensRights09/08/14 04:15 AM
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It's funny because my entire adult professional life has been tinted with the feeling that socializing with people is off limits, especially other female employees. I have been told straight to my face that because im a guy i have to watch the way i speak around the ladies (I'm the only guy working at a college bookstore). This could be anything from asking for advice about my relationship to noticing someone got a new haircut, because of how it could be perceived. I honestly feel this atmospher…
/r/MensRights09/08/14 03:54 AM
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Just off the bat i hate this post because of the title.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 05:02 AM
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Wow it really is like the Nazi's and the Jews, well not exactly, but the reason behind it.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 04:08 PM
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I was in Santa Cruz today and was very pleasantly surprised to see a group out on the boardwalk with posters denouncing circumcision. I was so happy i forgot to snap a picture but there was at least ten people out with large posters.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 12:44 AM
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I agree, i just also want to point out that any talk about "friend zones" has less than nothing to do with anything any men's rights advocate has ever stood for. I don't want to try and say i'm some expert or anything but I have followed everything Men's rights for the past 5 years, since i had to start going to court for access to my newborn son, and that has never once been a topic anywhere near my radar except from PUA sources (which clearly have nothing to do with MRA's).
/r/MensRights29/05/14 05:40 AM
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Whoah, you just read my mind. I feel exactly the same way about the PUA's and the red pill advo-idiots. Those morons have nothing to do with men's rights and it is a real shame that they sometimes get categorized near us.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 05:29 AM
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What MRA's talk about "friend zones"? Is there a single name to an MRA that one could say right now and provide an example of when they uttered any reference to the subject? Somehow these ideas propagate into the mainstream. I want to know what quote or what random person these people could possibly be referring to that feminists in mass believe it to be true. It is so wildly outside of the scope of any men's rights position that it is literally laughable. I guess i will just never understand th…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 05:21 AM
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Ah, ok so when girls get wet during their rapes it cancels it out too right? /s Guys get hard from external stimuli, rubbing a cock is going to make it hard. Making a penis hard and getting consent to stick that penis inside a girls vagina are two separate things.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 01:54 AM
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I used to really enjoy Louis CK until he got into that tiff with the feminist crowd, now it seems he just panders to their interests when his dialogue targets gender. This one was going well right until the end there.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 02:30 AM
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Thank you for this.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:14 PM
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When i say 'accusations of bullshit' i mean accusations of trying to comment brigade the sub i was posting in.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 06:22 AM
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Feminists will just respond that it's because we have been so anti-feminist. Which is fine but that's not the point. The point is, feminism has, for a long time, stuck it's ugly head into actual laws that have horrible consequences for men. Feminism is currently 'anti-MRA' but it has been gleefully ripping apart the rights of men for decades.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:13 AM
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I was in the same boat when I found this sub. I think you are definitely in the right place.
/r/MensRights20/04/14 07:46 PM
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It's true though. At the end Celda finished it off with an explanation so i don't see a problem with it.
/r/MensRights20/04/14 03:29 AM
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Whenever i see these articles im more interested in the comments on their own page. In this case, her own commenters were arguing against her. So a screen shot wouldn't do it for me. Unless there is someway to get all the comments in the shot as well.
/r/MensRights15/04/14 08:23 PM
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Yeah some doctors probably do this but like one of the top commenters in the article said, this is not across the board. So not every doctor is like that... i know that phrase is overused but goddamnit its true here.
/r/MensRights15/04/14 03:20 PM
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Oh i totally agree with you. I think Karen Straghan said it best in one of her videos where she describes the historical relationship between the genders as nothing remotely close to patriarchal. My point was more about the obvious flaw in feminists current argument. It's like "yeah feminism is awesome we got custody when women previously didnt as much" but when things go too far i hear "yup, that's patriarchy fellas, sucks doesn't it?".
/r/MensRights14/04/14 02:55 AM
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What do you mean by "false feminists"? The feminists that actively hold power and pass laws that negatively affect men? Or the feminists that actively ignore the damage done under the name feminism?
/r/MensRights14/04/14 02:11 AM
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I'll never understand the willingness a lot of these girls have to birth a child when the father has no interest in raising a child with the mother. I get the whole "she is protected, he will pay either way" thing it's just, i have morals, a heart, a brain, and i just don't see how you can do that to your child or the guy with a straight face.
/r/MensRights14/04/14 01:27 AM
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Here is a study on the subject: http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2282740
/r/MensRights14/04/14 01:21 AM
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I don't see why you have to bring up the broad spectrum of men's rights into the conversation. I mean, i agree with you on those issues but i just don't see the relevance here. However, you do need to talk to your therapist (thank god you have one) about your recent experience. Just simply explain the details as it happened, as long as you feel comfortable doing it, and she will receive the message. I can almost guarantee anyone who has worked their way up into that field will be perfectly capab…
/r/MensRights12/04/14 04:29 AM
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Republicans DO try to deny women reproductive rights. They are NOT the answer. I grew up Republican, my whole family is Republican (and Christian). I have (apparently) radically different views. My family sees the left completely destroying the family symbol. I see feminists doing this, i do see more liberal minded people being won over by the feminist premise but i don't categorize it as something that is definitively liberal. This is why i hate when the two political parties are introduced int…
/r/MensRights09/04/14 05:08 AM
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The bill for what? Less children would be born.
/r/MensRights06/04/14 01:03 AM
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Less children would be born without fathers because (some) women would no longer use children as pawns to get child support or a relationship.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 11:08 PM
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Jokes on her! Three months "salary" from me would be something like $3,200 (during the best of times). Then again i wouldn't be able to eat or have a roof over my head for those three months.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 03:13 AM
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This is the epitome of, get a lawyer immediately and don't lose access to your son. I went through the same thing. The sooner you get on it the better. The courts are clogged with this shit so the first person in the pair to file for custody is assumed to be the first individual invested enough to be responsible for children. I filed for custody when my son was 1 month old (random fuck buddy who promised up and down that she was on the shot). My lawyer, the mediator, and the Judges i dealt with …
/r/MensRights02/04/14 04:06 AM
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You are right in so many ways. When i was introduced to the topic on this very subreddit a couple years ago i challenged the notion that i was a victim. It took a while for me to come around and acknowledge the unnecessary damage we do to boys because i felt personally under attack. You have to find a way to separate the person reading the words from criticism. If you fail to do this the majority will instinctively reject what you're saying because it is such a personal subject.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 03:56 AM
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Yeah, still two years ago. That was before the name was adopted by PUA's. Red Pill on reddit has absolutely no affiliation whatsoever with the MRM or the mensrights subreddit. It was a cool way of explaining things to newcomers before it got perverted into something entirely different, that's what i'm saying. It wasn't even a big part of the MRM, it was merely a temporary catch phrase that existed for a month or two until it disappeared.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 03:35 AM
2

Yeah that is two years old. The red pill was taken over by PUA types a while ago (after that interview).
/r/MensRights31/03/14 02:27 PM
-1

Get out of here with any Red Pill garbage. No one here is interested in that.
/r/MensRights31/03/14 02:50 AM
2

Men drive more.
/r/MensRights31/03/14 02:45 AM
1

This can only end badly. Stay out of each others personal stuff unless you are actually worried something is going on. I would never allow that kind of provision into my custody agreement. If she wants to have boyfriends that's fine, because she knows more than anything in the world that if anything happened to my kids it would mean the biggest of shit storms for her. We would be back in court faster than you can say "shouldn't have lied about being on birth control".
/r/MensRights28/03/14 02:34 AM
2

Why wouldn't you go for equal custody? I didn't have anything in my past standing in my way so i went for it and eventually got it. It was the hardest/most expensive thing ive ever gone through but the thought of not being on an equal footing isn't anywhere near an option for me. Your son is still young enough. I would go for it while you still can. Once the courts see that your ok with being in your sons life so little they are less willing to adjust it.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 02:29 AM
1

Damn it, i didn't read your comment all the way and checked to see if it was up yet. Thanks for all the hard work. I still can't wait to read it.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 02:51 AM
3

This was great man. I can't wait for part 2!
/r/MensRights25/03/14 11:29 PM
2

Wow, even in the face of undeniable logic, wow. Must be cool, to just never feel embarrassment or any of that. If i were you my heart rate would be up trying frantically to come up with an intelligent rebuttal. Sadly you embarrassed yourself further with your last comment. At what point do you let yourself ask the question: 'What if feminism went a little too far?' It's an easy observation that A LOT of less zealous individuals have considered. Maybe it's time to let your mind flourish, or you c…
/r/MensRights25/03/14 06:10 AM
-10

That's a crazy stretch of things. I hate this sensationalized language like "oppressed" thrown out at every perceiveable problem.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 04:07 PM
0

Thank you. I haven't followed this particular subject and that brings me up to speed.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 04:17 AM
-2

Alright, could you provide a little context as to why it's relevant to this sub?
/r/MensRights16/03/14 01:35 AM
5

Wow. Glad to see some of the comments calling the op out but how in the world did so many people "like" That garbage?
/r/MensRights13/03/14 06:17 PM
1

I wouldn't phrase it that way but there is an element of truth to it.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 01:04 AM
0

Great! Now a bunch of people will start looking into this movement and realize the legitimacy and scoff at how embarrassingly wrong and unfunny that skit was.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 02:58 AM
-2

genital mutilation (circumcision may be more common, but FGM is more damaging) There are certain forms of FGM that are more damaging than your typical western circumcision but that by no means suggests those forms of FGM are used in a capacity anywhere near as big as circumcision in the west. Also, there are more damaging forms of MGM as well. Point is, more men experience genital mutilation than women worldwide so i don't agree that FGM is 'more' damaging.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 02:27 AM
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Shutting down planned parenthood would be one of the dumbest things an MRA could possibly support. PP is our ally not our enemy.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 02:37 PM
3

I think that, while men can and definitely in some cases do use their superior strength to inflict damage, men typically refrain from going "all out" or using their full force. Every altercation I have seen with a man being physical with a woman, save for a few, have shown obvious restraint from the man when delivering punches or pushes. Also, women are just as capable (if not more so) of picking up anything weapon-like around them as men. Being that they are at a disadvantage it makes sense tha…
/r/MensRights08/03/14 03:22 AM
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That's the opposite of how i feel. In fact, i am always proud of this sub when newcomers who have questions or feminists who come to challenge submit posts. It seems we genuinely want to reach out and educate instead of holding out the finger and saying 'well if you dont get it then fuck off'. It's nice to have 'safe' spaces and all but i don't believe the internet should be one of those places. This is real people exchanging real ideas that effect real things in life. When censorship begins laz…
/r/MensRights06/03/14 05:18 AM
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I've heard arguments about this specific subject that show it is not sexism but statistical probability that effects those premiums. Something along the line of 'men typically drive far more than women so the odds of collecting on insurance are higher for men even if women get into accidents in a higher frequency (per mile driven)'.
/r/MensRights06/03/14 04:30 AM
-1

I don't understand how this disagrees with the post.
/r/MensRights06/03/14 04:24 AM
3

I would love this so much.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 10:20 PM
10

I see the all caps thing all the time online. It's mainly used when the user lacks an education not sanity.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 09:19 PM
3

Are the comments literally disabled on an article discussing cencorship?
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:54 PM
2

The whole point is you cant really define feminism. However the best measure is legislatively. The actual real world implications that would never have happened if not for feminism.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 06:36 AM
7

I actually agree with this for once. It's about time we stop dodging the non-pc topics and start actually addressing the issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 06:24 AM
1

The comments there are pretty bad. Some specifically painting this sub in a bad light.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 03:49 AM
40

Something sure changed their direction.
/r/MensRights23/02/14 01:21 AM
160

True but groups like N.O.W. (one of the biggest feminist organizations) do things like advocate against equal custody of children and they are 500,000 strong so i think it may have something to do with feminism as a whole.
/r/MensRights22/02/14 11:26 PM
2

Because when the accounting department looked into it they realized they would not make a profitable income. Spending more on manufacturing when less revenue is generated is stupid. Feb. 28 Dr. Development Expenses 1,600,000 Cr. Revenue 800,000 Like that.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 05:08 AM
0

Yeah it's a bad name for a good program. It's not just for moms but their primary target is so i get it. I don't like it but i get it so it's not much of an issue as far as amazon is concerned.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 02:56 AM
4

Thank you. I cringed hard at the title.
/r/MensRights15/02/14 01:32 PM
5

Lifetime? That may or may not exist but it certainly isn't the norm. Let's not over dramatize what's actually going on here.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 03:26 AM
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I'd be willing to sweep it under the rug if and only if a male teacher would receive the same treatment. However, i would prefer it if teachers just didn't get sexually involved with their students.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 03:24 AM
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Kinda contradictory. I support non-violence, however, if someone hits you, you have every right to defend yourself (unnecessary hits to the face are excluded). Every fight i've been in i have focused on the gut. I've never lost a fight, dusts shoulder off, and i've never needed face shots.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 04:31 AM
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I think im having a brain aneurism after reading those comments. This girl: Teresa Baustian · Top Commenter · Works at Iowa Attorney General's Office Ben James You need to read a definition of legal consent and capacity to consent, so you could stop engaging in this endless circular discussion. Is just the icing on the cake. Just so completely and utterly clueless as to what she is replying to that i can't help but punch myself in the face just to see if I'm not dreaming.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 04:04 AM
2

...What?!
/r/MensRights13/02/14 03:34 AM
1

Still could have been done more responsibly.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 03:32 AM
12

This is the one comment I would like to see OP reply to.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 11:25 PM
2

He isn't saying feminists want boys to go to war and die he is saying that the message the SS tells boys and men is they are expendable and not treated the same as females. This message can now be compared with feminists big topic of girls and women always being told that beauty is skinny or nothing. Do you understand the analogy? He was simply adding that feminism adopts these types of issues as well so it can be considered at least a component of the over all argument.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 11:16 PM
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Great they already do, problem solved.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 10:53 PM
1

It was my understanding that HR isn't involved in the hiring process.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 02:09 PM
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That doesn't always correlate with higher earnings though.
/r/MensRights01/02/14 02:12 AM
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I see your point but i think you should be attacking this subject from the opposite end of the same argument. I would never support a policy of forcing women to endure anything they didn't want to simply because they are women. However, forcing responsibility seems reasonable to me.
/r/MensRights26/01/14 02:59 AM
1

This bugs me as well.
/r/MensRights12/01/14 07:11 AM
0

And that, my friends, is the epitome of ignorance.
/r/MensRights12/01/14 07:10 AM
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If you look you will find them. There are countless youtube channels with literally thousands of subscribers each that think this way.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 02:29 AM
12

I've had it happen to me. She knew exactly what she doing and proved it daily with similar things coming out of her mouth.
/r/MensRights05/01/14 10:37 PM
2

This is actually a great point. I wish there was a GWW video on this topic.
/r/MensRights30/12/13 04:08 AM
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The right to preferential treatment when being charged with a crime would be one but I can't say that I would feel bad for that one.
/r/MensRights21/12/13 06:26 PM
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Very disappointed to see this upvoted here. This narrow minded view is exactly what is given the movement a bad image. Oh well, this sub had some really great times. I have a feeling That's pretty much over at this point. Its been a great 4 years or so guys and gals. I'm gonna have to take this as my cue to unsubscribe unfortunately.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 11:11 PM
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I've never heard anyone say before that a significant amount of child celebrities were home schooled. The majority of them were probably provided schooling in and around the studio (or whatever you call it) but that is hardly comparable to home schooling.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 04:58 AM
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It's a very sheltered and confined existence for a child when they are supposed to be absorbing as much of the world as they can. This is something i hear a lot from people who haven't met or don't realize they know someone who is homeschooled. I was until 6th grade, during that year (1st of public school) i won my schools spelling bee and went onto the county wide spelling bee tournament (didn't win). I have since never had problems in the classroom, in fact, half of the time i was head of the …
/r/MensRights31/10/13 10:28 PM
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This makes a lot of sense when i apply it to my five year old son and my two year old daughter. She speaks incredibly well already but it's not just that. She memorizes entire disney songs (like kiss the girl, whole new world, beauty and the beast, etc), but not only that she sings in tune with the song. None of those besides the memorizing are things my son does and he is three years older. Although he was definitely ahead of her when he was her age in certain areas, like potty training and bei…
/r/MensRights31/10/13 10:19 PM
1

You are definitely right, i think the reason "The most common reason for circumcision is that the mother thinks it looks better." is true is because so many more women have unilateral rights to their child then do men.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:40 AM
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I couldn't finish reading. That is some mega dumb. I feel dumber having read what little i did.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 01:05 AM
13

Is this sarcasm? I feel like I'm missing something.
/r/MensRights24/10/13 01:30 PM
4

You and me might have very similar views but feminism doesn't see eye to eye with any of them.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 09:07 PM
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10/19/13 - /r/rage officially declares video evidence is no longer considered reliable.
/r/MensRights20/10/13 04:21 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. In my experience though GWW seems to not be too interested in that kind of funding. Or at least, she has mentioned before (if im correct) that she wasn't asking for personal donations. I would love to see this happen though, she really does need some better equipment.
/r/MensRights20/10/13 04:16 AM
1

Yeah but there hella small so you can cram a bunch of those suckers into a life pod thus inflating your survival figures. Also, that many more people get to live full lives.
/r/MensRights20/10/13 01:50 AM
8

Is that suppose to say $2,462.22?
/r/MensRights19/10/13 02:54 PM
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Don't throw around loaded terms like oppression. That is not what is going on. No one in the west is oppressed. Terms like that should be reserved for legitimate circumstances.
/r/MensRights18/10/13 01:24 PM
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Who gives a fuck about He-Man? That's not the point, look at every action figure geared towards boys in the past 30 years and well over 90% of them are going to look similar. I'm not saying it's bad or that something needs to change but it really is that way. I don't necessarily think the barbie thing is all that much of a problem either (it's not like the U.S. is known for being populated by unhealthily skinny people). So yeah i guess i agree with you but if society thinks the barbie thing is a…
/r/MensRights17/10/13 12:47 AM
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I definately didn't like that part but I noticed that too. It happens the majority of times articles mention vulnerable men. I'm not sure why its so important to stigmatize men that way but I guess I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing.
/r/MensRights14/10/13 03:02 PM
4

She*
/r/MensRights14/10/13 12:45 AM
1

This is the most real response i could imagine. People like "fractual_shark" are just parroting phrases and uneducated responses he/she has heard from some people they have heard before. Why did they hear those phrases and from where did these phrases come from? I think we can all agree that feminism can be thanked for this.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 05:57 AM
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I have no idea who you are talking about. I found the movement over three years ago and have consistently seen morons like that either downvoted or completely ignored entirely. I literally keep up on the MRM every single day through multiple channels so im confident i would know about some idiot making the entire movement look bad. So far, all i have seen is blatantly obvious racist sexist fucktards think they are in the right place and get rightfully shunned or overwhelmingly obvious trolls fai…
/r/MensRights10/10/13 05:41 AM
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I really can't understand this stigma against MRA. all it takes is the smallest of honest glances to see we are only talking about legitimate issues.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 05:14 PM
2

Sounds somewhat reasonable. Do you have any material regarding your statement that women were viewed as not having the mental faculties required to vote? I honestly haven't heard that take on it before.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 05:05 PM
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That seriously makes me rage so hard. The utter ignorance is absolutely astounding.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 05:00 PM
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They got the right to vote without the responsibility of potentially being drafted. Peasant: I will die for my right to vote. Person who is worth more to society: I Don't have to die for my rights I'm more important than You.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 04:52 PM
1

Ah, I get it thanks.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 04:49 PM
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grabbed a knife and stabbed him in the knife. What form of life wrote this monstrosity of an article?
/r/MensRights09/10/13 04:43 PM
1

I thought a shadow ban made it so other users can't see the content the banned user is posting and the banned user is also unaware of this.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 04:13 PM
2

haha same chapter: It turns out there are two universals: (1) there is more emphasis on female attractiveness than male attractiveness, and (2) men consistently express stronger preference for attractive mates than women. I would definitely disagree with (2). I'm pretty sure (1) is because of money, not men. Women buy these products, men do not tell them in mass to get them.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 02:26 AM
2

I deleted mine over a year ago and I love it. I feel like I'm off the grid.
/r/MensRights06/10/13 10:21 AM
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Females have just as much "privilege" as men. Point to all the areas of society that prove the point (child custody, healthcare, DV laws, divorce laws, rape laws, etc..) and from there explain that, yes, men have some "privileges" but it is only that. There is give and take from both sides.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 11:57 PM
1

Ok.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 03:45 AM
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They aren't. He is gay, so if he were straight he would have to interact with women who think this way, while attempting to find a mate. There are male feminists out there obviously, but i don't see as much of them (which is beside the point).
/r/MensRights02/10/13 03:31 AM
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Because you're dismissing his point entirely. The point of his statement boils down to "the ideology of feminism tends to brainwash young woman into believing the terrible, sexist, misandrist theories it promotes".
/r/MensRights02/10/13 02:53 AM
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I agree with you on the CAFE point. However, if you look at the thread again, you will recognize the consequences for uttering such stupidity. It is rightly downvoted. There might be some underlings who still upvote terrible shit yet never comment because they know for a fact that their comments will be downvoted but clearly that doesn't represent a majority opinion. Also, other subs might be crossposted to the thread in which case you could have vote manipulation, with the purpose of making thi…
/r/MensRights02/10/13 02:12 AM
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Well... why be thank full you're gay? He's grateful, he's not thanking anybody. Isn't there non-brainwashed women. If that is a question then my answer is obviously yes. I don't think anyone in their right mind would suggest otherwise and i'm not sure why you asked. And the implication is that gay men aren't feminists (because otherwise, they'd be brainwashed too). I'm not sure i have heard someone utter "gay men aren't feminists" or vice versa. Also, I don't know why you would bring that up bec…
/r/MensRights02/10/13 02:03 AM
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I agree but i definitely appreciate the post. It sends the same message i always think about. I truly and honestly don't believe there has ever been any amount of homophobia or transphobia in the MRM of any significance. Now, someone might be able to pinpoint a comment or two, or maybe an article that received little attention that illustrates the opposite of my point but honestly i've never seen it and i would go as far as to say that it is not at all an aspect of the MRM.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 01:56 AM
3

What? She says she is a feminist? I never realized that. I bet actual feminists hate her.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 12:46 AM
1

Sure thing: For one thing, not all positions within society are equivalent; everyone is not the same. Thus, for example, when men whistle at a woman waking by, it has a different force and meaning than if women were to whistle at a man walking by. next paragraph Power is a central element, by extension, of this focus on differences in social position. When a judge in court says what he or she thinks freedom of speech mean, it carries much greater force than when your neighbor who is not a judge …
/r/MensRights01/10/13 05:31 AM
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No it was: By Martin, and Nakayama in Experiencing Intercultural Communication: An Introduction, 5th edition. Chapter 5, pg. 155.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 05:17 AM
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I just can't agree with this position. I feel like if i am walking down main street and a car passes by with a girl whistling obviously at me, the first thing i do is look around to see if anyone saw. Whether it's positive or negative, getting called out in public is almost instinctively embarrassing. Feel free to disagree, i am looking for discussion.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 02:09 AM
2

Any idea as to how it went?
/r/MensRights28/09/13 03:04 AM
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and am scrambling to find some kind of live feed to anything over there. I am still trying to find a live feed. If anyone has one i would really appreciate a link.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 02:01 AM
1

Only in certain aspects though of course. This is why it is not "oppression".
/r/MensRights28/09/13 01:31 AM
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How is this sub not more interested in this? I have been waiting for months for this event and am scrambling to find some kind of live feed to anything over there. This is a huge important day for the MRM. I hope everyone over there is safe.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 01:28 AM
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Child custody is the main reason i follow the MRM. If the parents are not married and they have a child the courts just willy nilly hand 100% custody to the mother even if the father is present and willing. I think that this is the very definition of discrimination.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 12:36 AM
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Honestly, i just think that word gets thrown around way too liberally. I don't know that there is any "oppression" going on in the US at least. Obviously this isn't the case elsewhere.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 12:12 AM
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It's not a problem, i typed it up on my phone originally so it was unclear to begin with. Thanks for the discussion.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 02:23 AM
1

Yes i agree with you wholeheartedly and that is exactly the point i was trying to make. It is women are more likely to have custody (or be a better parent? I Don't know), therefore discrimination based on being a male is justified. This was suppose to convey that women are already given custody (in the case where the parents are not married) automatically. I went through this exact situation. This is discrimination, period. I am a man and was not given any custody of my child because of my not b…
/r/MensRights26/09/13 11:41 PM
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OK but handing someone 100% custody over the other parent literally is discrimination. It is women are more likely to have custody (or be a better parent? I Don't know), therefore discrimination based on being a male is justified.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 09:35 PM
1

Holy Shit! I'm doing a COM class right now where i'm tasked to present a current event in front of the class. I plan on presenting the coverage and general information about the upcoming CAFE lecture in Canada(I don't have to present until the 16th so i have to time after the event to prepare). I'm gonna provide an analysis of the previous three events, in terms of protesters, as well. I know it's not 100% relevant but i can't wait to get up there and see how many people agree or disagree with w…
/r/MensRights24/09/13 10:35 PM
2

I usually allow myself one per year.
/r/MensRights23/09/13 06:03 PM
5

I don't need to read it. It is never ok to initiate violence. It is an irresponsible dangerous and idiotic way to deal with things. Anyone who initiates violence should spend time behind bars, period. I can think of plenty of different ways to solve the issue on the spot that are better so really there is no excuse.
/r/MensRights22/09/13 01:13 AM
-10

Don't spout that ridiculous crap here.
/r/MensRights21/09/13 03:08 PM
1

Lol "relationship".
/r/MensRights19/09/13 04:48 PM
1

25, U.S. 21 When i learned of the movement and started following.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 05:12 AM
5

They are all misinformed, some more than others. There is nothing else to it.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 05:10 AM
1

Its funny I hear this from other people from time to time (that a lot of mra's are sexist or whatever) and In four years of knowing about this sub any sexist content has always been down voted or completely taken out. I have never seen a video or screenshot or thread linked that ever truly implicated r/Mr this way. In all this time though I still hear about this phenomena, is there some secret alter r/Mr that people are seeing this content on?
/r/MensRights18/09/13 03:31 PM
1

What insults? Its basic communication. Your responses come off as extremely sensitive. Nothing That was said here was so abrasive you should be hesitant. There is no hostility.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 03:26 PM
3

Whoah, i didn't even realize. What a blast from the past.
/r/MensRights16/09/13 02:14 AM
4

That was absolutely brilliant and heart-wrenching. Thank you for posting that.
/r/MensRights16/09/13 02:04 AM
2

I guess really the only positive avenue would be to focus on male birth control.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 10:07 PM
2

Eh, i think it should be considered fraud and have legal consequences. I understand where you're coming from i just think it is that attitude that paralyzes society's willingness to do anything at all about the situation.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 10:00 PM
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Clearly, but that is beside the point. Most men don't willy nilly stick their penis in every available orifice without hesitation. I have never and haven't met anyone who would recommend such an act. During the interaction birth control is discussed so there aren't any surprises. This includes the decision by both parties to not use a condom since the woman is already on birth control. Does anybody call the guy an idiot when he has sex without a condom with a girl who actually is on birth contro…
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:46 PM
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I hate comments like these. That is an incredibly insensitive misinformed and unhelpful thing to add. These situation are complex and cannot be reduced to "haha you should have known.". 99% of the time these guys are not actively "impregnating" women, they are simply having consensual sex in which it is agreed children are not a desired outcome. It's like someone going to a friend's house to play video games once and finding out 9 months later you owe that friend video game support for the next …
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:30 PM
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Risky click but worth it.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 06:00 PM
1

The better point is for many of us, it is our sexual history with women that got us here. I'm of the "yeah I'm on birth control....haha jk!" Camp. But plenty of others have been physically abused by spouses or maybe have gotten close to certain situations.
/r/MensRights11/09/13 12:42 AM
8

Maybe having mandatory equal custody except in obvious cases would help to alleviate the stresses of all these single moms. This is the subject that brought me here 4 years ago.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 09:58 PM
10

Exactly, that is a rather childish way of excluding all the valid points we discuss here. We don't want to walk away from responsibilities, we want reproductive rights. Did people frame that the same way when women where just starting to get birth control? Maybe some, but either way two wrongs don't make a right so how about an open dialogue for men and reproductive rights?
/r/MensRights10/09/13 05:23 AM
1

Damnit Chrome! You were suppose to make me proud!
/r/MensRights10/09/13 02:38 AM
5

wow this article is interesting and informative. “Here comes the first misuse,” the group titled a Facebook post of an article from The Times of India about a man who could be the first in India to be booked for the crime of stalking, now a criminal offense. The paper reported that 20-year-old engineering student filed stalking charges against a man who kept sending her explicit text messages, even though she told him she was not interested in a relationship. whoah what the fuck? Really? Have a …
/r/MensRights10/09/13 02:35 AM
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404 - File not found.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 01:56 AM
1

I always thought prenups and such clauses wouldn't stand up in court if one of the participants disagrees or whatever. I haven't looked into it or anything but it's something i heard somewhere.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 12:37 AM
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I can't understand the downvotes. Your argument makes a ton of sense and it is one that i have pondered many times. The only thing i can think of is either its a troll brigade made to make us look bad or readers just didn't get passed/past (brainfart) your first sentence.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 12:31 AM
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Hi Chad.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 05:46 PM
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I get you completely. I live right next door to a park and grew up basically playing inside of it. When my son was born i was so excited to take him all the time to the park right next door. I quickly realized that if women were present with their children i was to receive negative stares and/or obviously attempting to be on the opposite side of the park. After a year or so i started to not give a flying fuck and stopped noticing other parents. I strut that park like i own it and nobody is gonna…
/r/MensRights09/09/13 01:13 AM
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Is it weird that from a glance i automatically assumed they pictured the male victim? I half expected it even. I don't know maybe it's nothing.
/r/MensRights07/09/13 03:25 AM
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While it isn't the easiest thing in the world by any means it certainly doesn't compare to the difficulties of a much more physically oriented full time job. The point is stay at home parents should not be celebrating their work in a "I work just as hard or harder than you" way.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 07:18 PM
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Very true. This was the point i was making but it doesn't explain the lack of privacy afforded "certain" male clubs. The reasoning behind this could be that while yes each organization has a right to define which hours are acceptable, it seems that "certain" male clubs are susceptible to the intrusion of reporters (male or female) into their locker room at unnecessary, yet permissible times. This is only an off hand observation, so take it as you will. I just feel like men are not granted the sa…
/r/MensRights04/09/13 04:37 AM
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I have never heard of male reporters going into female locker rooms. Ill try to find a source because now im curious. It seems wildly odd that it would be allowed in any circumstance. EDIT: I actually found something. Take it for what it is but it seems there is at least an attempt to make it fair. What i am stuck on is this ability for each organization to define what time is acceptable for when locker room access is granted. Maybe it is that more male locker room access is actually being grant…
/r/MensRights03/09/13 10:14 PM
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This is awesome. I hope you can put it together because i would really be interested.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 10:05 PM
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Is putting this woman away for her crime worth the harm it would do to her children (lacking a mother figure)? Fuck yes, this woman has proven she is an amoral criminal. What on God's earth about this makes anyone think these children would benefit from her upbringing? Maybe the courts should do a better job keeping children in the lives of their fathers so they would have options when mothers commit crimes.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 10:03 PM
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True dat.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 12:22 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Wasn't it mrm figures that were doxxed? I'm not sure I know of any real harassment coming from this movement.
/r/MensRights01/09/13 04:54 PM
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This is so fucking true.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 11:21 PM
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they lie about all things. Women lie just like people in general lie. I didn't mean to imply that they didn't. So every single person on the planet lies about all things?
/r/MensRights30/08/13 01:20 AM
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That is a silly thing to say. Education is the difference.
/r/MensRights25/08/13 10:09 PM
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I've met plenty of girls who think or have thought this way. They tend to be on the poorer end of the spectrum (as far as I have noticed).
/r/MensRights25/08/13 01:11 PM
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I agree we can't blaim feminism for this which is why I stated that originally, the point was that society views female genital mutilation as barbaric and male genital mutilation as acceptable. Feminism is partly responsible for the correct perspective that mutilating girls is bad however if it claims to "fight for equality" then evidence shows us it only cares about half of the equality. This obviously isn't the strongest point I've provided but I feel it is at least relevant to the discussion.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 10:58 PM
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Genital mutilation of boys being routine while the slightest hint of female genital mutilation is seen as barbaric. (Not directly feminisms fault but it is hypocritical to say feminism "fights for equality" in this area.) The constant attempts at lowering the standards of punishment for women for the exact same crimes. Again groups like N.O.W. The deliberate misleading of the population in terms of the wage gap. Obviously it is feminists who push this bad information the hardest leading to the g…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:15 PM
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The alienation of male victims of domestic violence and rape through legislation, VAWA, the Duluth model. The consistent opposition to equal custody of children through groups like N.O.W. Creating the social stigma against masculinity in almost every facet of daily life through incredibly sexist ideology like patriarchy theory and rape culture.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:44 PM
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Child custody is why i was brought to this sub three years ago. It was the only place i found to vent and get advice about my problems aside from spending cash asking my lawyer. Basically, as a guy, you have absolutely no reproductive rights. It's all "man up, faggot" and "yeah that sucks but oh well" from the uneducated until it happens to them. That's how it happened with me. Having gone through it and seeing the massive bias and obvious discrimination against men in this arena i can say very …
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:43 AM
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I don't get drunk with lots of drunk strangers. I don't pass out or become insanely irresponsible in the company of people I don't know. Because it's a stupid thing to do and I'm a grown up. Words of wisdom. There should be a campaign of posters that say this rather then "hey guy, you're an animal and you should totally not rape the next woman you see."
/r/MensRights21/08/13 04:02 AM
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All men want sex every second of everyday. They think about it 20 times a second or something so legally we have to take that into account and say that the man is always consenting. /s
/r/MensRights21/08/13 03:58 AM
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How can she be jailed if she was underage at the time?
/r/MensRights21/08/13 03:55 AM
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Aren't all these shows scripted?
/r/MensRights18/08/13 03:19 AM
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I experience this everytime i go out with my kids. Im a decent looking 6'6 guy and i never saw this much attention before i had kids. It is to the point where my girlfriend will rag on me when i get back as shes expecting to hear some story about some woman trying to talk to me. I even have friends and family that comment every now and then "i bet the ladies just flock to you and your kids." or something to that effect. Whatever it is you are experiencing i seem to be experiencing as well. I'm n…
/r/MensRights16/08/13 01:41 AM
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I agree for the most part. Elam has done substantive articles in the past so I can give him a pass when he does these angry defensive ones. The guy gets a lot of flack so I can't really blame him all that much. I will say that his stuff probably isn't the best introduction material for newcomers to the MRM though.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 04:21 PM
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Wow....
/r/MensRights10/08/13 03:23 AM
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All good points but i'm just glad he said what he said. I would like to see a much longer public debate on the topic with two very knowledgeable speakers in the future but i have to say this being in the mainstream now for the last one or two years is certainly a good sign.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 03:17 AM
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O i totally agree, im just saying what's done is done. I at least hope this guy was on the receiving end of justice.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 03:05 AM
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I agree, this guy does not sound like he is in his right mind, if these tweets are in fact real.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 02:58 AM
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I think the comments got it right on this one. Sure he had the advantage of "modifying his behavior" but I'm not even convinced she didn't know he was recording. On top of that she was acting like a fucking toddler, not a grown women who has a problem. Another point is that the guy clearly says he recorded it so she could no longer slander his name without evidence of her own behavior.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 02:36 AM
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Sounds terrifying. I hope he actually deserved it.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 02:09 AM
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Makes sense to me.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 02:14 PM
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Shit like this makes me feel so bad for black men. They really do get the worst of this. Don't get me wrong, i was royally fucked but jesus christ i see this shit almost everyday and there is almost nothing a black man can use in his defense.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 04:18 AM
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That argument is not valid. We aren't savages who wait three months or more into a pregnancy to perform abortions and i don't know of any significant group that is aiming for that.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 08:59 PM
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If the alternative is to force someone through a pregnancy when they are not willing or able to care for a child? If you want to have children you need to take the steps to ensure it is with the right person and that both parties want to be parents.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 07:32 PM
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Because how the hell is it your business if some girl somewhere wants or needs an abortion. The answer is it's fuckin not. It is one of the most embarrassing barbaric archaic lines of thinking currently in the modern world.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 04:47 PM
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I'm sorry I can't stand behind anyone who is against abortion. I find that stance offensive and despicable.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 07:25 AM
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While I agree that most family violence is towards women and children Except it's not. There are multiple studies that come up on this very sub all the time that explain this is not even remotely true. Domestic violence is not a gendered issue, in fact there are some categories in which women are more violent than men. Basically domestic violence is split pretty much down the middle in terms of gender.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 06:55 AM
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My knowledge was that signing the birth certificate was end all be all. On top of that whoever has been taking care of the child as a father figure would still be held accountable for child support because they had supported said child up till that point. In my experience it is unnecessarily hard to transfer the responsibility from the custodial "father" to the biological father when support has already been voluntarily given or mandated from the custodial father. The courts are only interested …
/r/MensRights07/08/13 05:27 AM
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I love most of the comments in this article. It makes me happy. Also the article seems to be recent (last month), which for some reason is a plus in my mind.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 05:19 AM
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I can kind of see your point. Problem is, it is feminism that currently attempts to halt the advances of the MRM. You can see it in the duluth model, VAWA, innocent lectures about the issues that face men and boys, the obvious backlash at the slightest mention of the MRM in feminist circles, the manipulation of flawed statistics to maintain a position that men are the problem in DV/rape, groups like NOW (a very influential feminist group that has power in DC) acting against the idea of split cus…
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:38 AM
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Not for me.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:33 AM
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I think you are 95% correct. The thing is, in my opinion the goal was never to have a "one fine day" but more to bring attention to the situation we are currently in. So essentially MGTOW are two things, 1. They are making a personal decision to do what they feel is best for their personal lives, and 2. They are, consciously or not, providing a real form of protest and activism that eventual will grow into something more noticeable to society.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:14 AM
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His general point is pretty strong here. His analogy is pretty accurate as well. I'm gonna give this one to /u/caimis
/r/MensRights07/08/13 02:56 AM
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I'll admit that example is pretty appalling but its not really misogyny. Its most likely some 13 year old who has no experience in life whatsoever. Even so, point taken, it appears there are some really moronic people that frequent this sub.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 07:46 PM
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Its funny I always hear this but I've been here for over three years and have yet to see it. I have seen blatant troll attempts though, but it clearly wasn't someone who actually believed in being a violent ass.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 02:18 PM
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Ok, i see where you're coming from. That makes a lot of sense and the headline should, at the least, be changed. They're presenting 12 month data as though it were lifetime data, and it is not. I'm not sure i agree that people are intentionally misrepresenting anything. I still think the disclaimer in the infographic did a good job explaining this aspect. The headline needs editing but aside from that i don't see too much of a problem, unless i am missing something.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 04:21 AM
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You might have eaten too much glue.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 03:18 AM
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I'm trying to follow you here but i appear to be lost. It seems the author made it plenty clear that the lifetime data was all that he had to work with, so i'm not understanding the problem. Are you suggesting the author not put in that information entirely? Or are you saying the author needs to reword something? I'm still not understanding how the information as a whole is deceiving in any way (i assume that is what you are implying).
/r/MensRights04/08/13 03:12 AM
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I have to say, I'm curious why you thought guys like that would be in r/mensrights. The only guys I have ever seen acting like that are the ghetto wannabe gangster morons who try to intimidate EVERYONE they come across.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 02:53 PM
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I'm not sure "half" is a good figure. I would agree that in that situation some limited alimony should be put into place just to give the at-home partner a chance to get something going though.
/r/MensRights31/07/13 01:36 AM
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I've noticed a lot of baby boomers in the U.S. be either adamantly for or against feminism. Most of the time i have seen against to be honest. This is all anecdotal of course but i have also noticed a lot of young people seem to claim they are feminists.
/r/MensRights31/07/13 01:28 AM
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A joke?... What?
/r/MensRights27/07/13 11:46 PM
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Not really, i have worked for plenty of different retail chains (not target though). In my experience it is entirely the men who do the "lifting and sweating" with the exception of maybe one or two in the past 8 years of experience. On top of this I've had one male manager in 8 years and 70-80% of all leads and assistant managers have been female. The trend to me is: are you a guy? ok, go do everything a women is expected to do and everything else. Are you a woman? Ok, here's an easy route to mo…
/r/MensRights26/07/13 09:37 PM
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I have had one male manager in 8 years of retail. All of the leads or assistant managers have been about 70-80% female as well.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 09:33 PM
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Jesus, this really is terrifying when it's laid out in a plain to see format. You pretty much have to have proof right on the spot, if you're accused, that you're innocent or face life altering trials/prison time that will taint your life negatively forevermore. Male privilege :)
/r/MensRights25/07/13 05:19 AM
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Feelings Feelings Still not sold on it. Feelings This is true, more men do die of overall violence. Well, if we are talking about physically violent intimidating rape then yeah i guess your right, about that small very teeny pocket of rape overall. Not only feelings but completely false. Men are exponentially more depressed than women, this would explain why there is a figure like 86% to 14% male to female suicide rate. Either way men have child custody issues, death in work ratios vs. women, be…
/r/MensRights24/07/13 04:57 AM
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I apologize, i saw the "evil feminist scheme" and thought i was somewhere else on the thread. Have a great d... shit, my job really does get to me outside of work.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 11:42 PM
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It's not like MRA's suggest all feminists are plotting some big conspiracy in some secret room somewhere. Here's a quote from me recently that attempts to explain what i think: an ideology that has little to do with men can be synonymous with man-hating. It's not a direct "men are shit" message that comes from feminism. It is through flawed and manipulated statistics and studies which are used to mend and create laws that feminism indirectly "hates" men. Things like domestic violence studies, fe…
/r/MensRights23/07/13 11:38 PM
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Could you be so kind as to fill us in on what issues women face in today's society? Not trolling i really am interested because every time i ask i get a confusing array of ideas that don't really make much sense to me. EDIT: I should probably put in here that i was mainly asking about issues in Western society.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 11:35 PM
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I am interested in this as well. Any response is greatly appreciated.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 05:04 AM
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You're right he didn't i thought that was odd of x30Jx to say.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 01:49 AM
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Am i reading this correctly or did all of you just say collectively say "ok the part about her having multiple offenses is wrong because the guy that brought it up hasn't provided sources yet." I'm completely unconvinced she was sentenced to life because of a one time offense. Has anyone provided sources to the contrary?
/r/MensRights18/07/13 01:48 AM
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Now that it's over the feed continues with another show. Does anyone know how to start the feed over? I just got home and barely caught the end of it unfortunately.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 02:06 AM
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Is this the same case that was on cotwa recently?
/r/MensRights13/07/13 02:44 AM
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Yeah that all makes sense it just seems he was implying he lives within a gated community, so it's not so much that it's his "property" that he owns it's that he's patrolling the grounds adjacent to where he resides.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 02:43 AM
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Except in the case of sunbathers. I don't think filming them will help very much.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 12:43 AM
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Lol, 'successful'.
/r/MensRights11/07/13 05:17 AM
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Take, for example, nursing in a private hospital. It would be allowed for a female nurse to have less pay than a male nurse, on the expectancy of maternity leave; however, in many cases, the woman will not be taking maternity leave because they won't get pregnant. This is the biggest load of horseshit around. The pay is administered after the fact, not before. you are an idiot to assume employers restrict womens pay on the assumption they will take maternity leave. This simply does not and quite…
/r/MensRights08/07/13 05:04 AM
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He could have pushed her off but that obviously risks accusations of physical assault. He told her multiple times "no", which is legally sufficient in court when a woman says she said no. A penis does not need emotional stimulation to become erect. It is a physical muscle that responds to stimuli much like a vagina which often gets "wet" during legitimate rape situations. You are a callous individual who needs to take a step back and look at how this effects all men, not just the big burly man y…
/r/MensRights08/07/13 01:50 AM
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This is exactly what i was thinking too. Yeah you can say no, but its not like as a guy you have the option to use physical force. I have been told over and over its "never ok hit a woman" just like every other guy. The law literally upholds this view so men are in a literal "fucked if you do fucked if you don't" situation.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 01:44 AM
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Yup that pretty much sums it up.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 01:25 AM
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No, the correct procedure would be to look at the evidence on the scene and if you arent able to make an obvious judgement as to who the perpetrator is arrest them both. The point is there should be gender symmetry when suspicion is involved.
/r/MensRights07/07/13 11:49 PM
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I love this one.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 01:37 PM
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From the comments: Because no 16 year old teen age boy is being forced to have sex that irrelevant fact, does not take precedent over the law. it's pretty relevant, actually really, what statute dictates such? Actually. Because if no one was forced, then no one was infringed upon. The State was not a party, yet it is the State charging a person with a crime, trying that person, and then incarcerating that person. I asked for statute, and you give me your opinion? I hate to rain on your parade, b…
/r/MensRights04/07/13 02:29 AM
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Yeah im aware of that that's why i feel guilty when i get short with the employees afterward. Point is more and more men are single fathers. I think it's time we start demanding the same treatment.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 02:15 AM
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I know it speaks ill of me, but when i go to a restaurant and my child needs a change i expect them to have one for me. Then, 90% of the time when they don't i get way too upset with the staff. I don't have any kind of relationship with their mother so im alone with my children and the whole world seems to be built for mother-child interaction. Thank you McDonalds.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 01:22 AM
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Great response. Thank you.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 01:12 AM
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Thats what im saying... Why in the hell would that be necessary when men's rights as a father get stripped away everyday without a second thought?
/r/MensRights04/07/13 12:22 AM
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You skipped over the most reasonable and obviously plausible scenario. It is very common to get drunk and do things actively that you literally have no recollection of the day after. This has happened to me on more than one occasion and has happened to almost everyone I've ever hung out with at least once.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 06:21 PM
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He is saying your change of title makes it seem as though Barbara Kay thinks Doucet SHOULD be innocent based on her sex. When in fact this is the exact opposite of what Barbara Kay was saying in the article. Had you left the title the same this whole misunderstanding would never have happened. I myself thought the same thing as u/rogersmith25 when i read your title.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 02:45 AM
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Reading comprehension is not his greatest quality im guessing.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 02:42 AM
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Wow that sums it up actually pretty good.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 02:35 AM
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You are right, i hadn't thought of it in that way but that's exactly true. I had to fight like hell to get 50% custody of my kids. On top of my effort i had a lot of financial support from my parents. I can't imagine how impossible it would have been without my lawyer.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 12:55 AM
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Wait so was mod1 banned? If so That's really dumb. I wanted to see what he/she wrote.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 09:18 PM
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The only thing i can think of is the idea of financial abortion, or legal paternal surrender. Which, to me, is a really good idea because it would place almost exactly the same restrictions and grant almost the same amount of options that woman have. Here is an excellent video for someone who is new to the idea of legal paternal surrender (LPS).
/r/MensRights28/06/13 02:27 AM
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Just that men should have rights and options just as women do. As it stands men have the right to financial responsibility and pretty much nothing else when it comes to reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 01:31 AM
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"To not be a dead-beat dad" The only reason you wanted this is because you have been brainwashed to believe there is an epidemic of men who Don't want rights to there children when it is in fact the exact opposite. You see first hand just how incredibly hard it is, as I did. It made me wonder, are all those "dead-beat" dads really not interested or is it that they tried and failed and are now slaves to their ex-wives/government?
/r/MensRights26/06/13 07:48 PM
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Lol. There's always one.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 08:27 PM
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This is what i was thinking. Why is the family not upset with Stephanie Dick? She saw the incident unfold and decided to use her time shaming some random dude into doing what she should have just gone ahead and done.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 08:25 PM
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This is amazing, thank you so much.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 02:30 AM
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Fair enough, but regardless it does happen.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 02:29 AM
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How old are you? You sound like my kids mom's lawyer.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 02:21 AM
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The gender breakdown of the judges means almost nothing. The inherent injustice is there. If a guy gets his "formula" set while hes working a sweet job, then gets laid off, these judges will not modify the payments required from him. Even if it is more than the amount he makes every month. This is why we have men being thrown in prison for not paying child support (debtors prison).
/r/MensRights24/06/13 02:18 AM
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Question. How you you know if the case law you are looking at is the one that set precedent? I'm not sure if i said that correctly.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 01:51 AM
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Truer words....
/r/MensRights24/06/13 01:40 AM
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This is my view as well. The problem is that we are calling it objectification. Men and women do the same thing all the time and it's not like we actually think the person we are attracted to is an object. To me objectification would be more akin to how nazis viewed jews.
/r/MensRights21/06/13 11:48 PM
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My girlfriend is way more interested in consistent sex than I am. I can do it twice a month and be fine, she would rather it be every other day or more. Anecdotal but That's my experience.
/r/MensRights20/06/13 10:58 PM
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This is truly a god awful situation all the way around.
/r/MensRights17/06/13 03:26 AM
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You could almost feel the desperation from the "single mother" to cling to everything she has been told. The propaganda has thoroughly engulfed her. She really does think her one example is descriptive of the entirety of the population. I could tell her that my actual real life experience has been overwhelmingly the opposite (and oh! it has), but alas her religious pursuit of victimhood will forever blind her.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 09:47 AM
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11 years old? Really? That is fucking sick.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 02:50 PM
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It is. I hate that this term is associated with the MHRM. it has nothing to do with the rights of men. If a girl doesn't want You or leads You on grow up and realize this is not a gendered issue. Both sexes do this.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 03:42 AM
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When i say ideology i refer to essentially patriarchy theory. That one tattered useless sexist theory has turned into the banner (the ideology) that feminism subscribes to. I may be out of the loop here but it was my understanding that the majority of feminists know about and believe in this theory. It would make sense that so many believe this because it's taught in women's studies courses across the nation and maybe abroad. I'm not saying this ideology means feminists are bad or being maliciou…
/r/MensRights06/06/13 02:49 AM
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I agree for the most part. This idea that feminists are bad or malicious is just plain wrong. Their ideology is overwhelmingly shit but the people who make up the movement have only good intentions at heart. If the majority of the people here can at least take that into consideration when confronting or debating feminist ideology it would make massive improvements in the general discourse. Edited for spelling. Thanks DemonicBtch.
/r/MensRights05/06/13 10:48 PM
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Yeah, a handful... The loudest and most effective feminists are out there pushing laws that affect men negatively. We all know the majority of feminists are well meaning individuals, albeit a bit misguided but still well meaning. It's not my problem that same majority doesn't understand there movement has been hijacked by extremists and totally destroyed it's view from the rest of society. I applaud any "feminist" who sees the reality but that doesn't take away from the fact that the laws passed…
/r/MensRights02/06/13 10:09 PM
5

What the hell is going on here? I feel like I'm missing something.
/r/MensRights02/06/13 08:01 PM
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Why do i keep seeing political implications in discussions here? It frustrates the hell out of me that people are trying to turn this into a left vs right thing. This is an equal rights movement, not a platform for some asshat republican/democrat to desecrate the precise focus of the issues.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 06:32 AM
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I don't know about that. It sounds like stuff ive gone through and have seen friends go through so it's not some far fetched idea. My problem is that its categorized as rape. I feel like these situations are the result of both parties getting drunk and making stupid decisions.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 06:17 AM
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I agree with you on that. However i see some issues at a glance with this report. The most glaringly obvious being it denies the existence of male rape outright. That and there are some issues with the source data from NCVS, but that i would have to look into much further. Things like the whole denial of rape thing really frustrate me. It's the reason a lot of the statistics differ in so many studies. Men can and do get raped, hell i've been sexually assaulted more than once (sexual assault also…
/r/MensRights30/05/13 04:21 AM
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Fair enough, i haven't seen this particular report so i will look through it. Thank you for adding to the discussion.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 03:52 AM
1

This. This right here is exactly what i'm referring to. discussions of men who are victims, despite the fact they represent only a tiny fraction of all victims. You're entire premise is based on the idea that women are victims of domestic violence more than men. This is simply not the case. It's really hard to describe that any other way. It has been shown through empirical evidence many times over. It's right on the sidebar of this subreddit for christs sake. Summary of studies on Domestic Viol…
/r/MensRights30/05/13 02:05 AM
-2

Damn this is some hardcore ignorance. I feel bad for all these people because of the level of indoctrination they have received. You can tell there is no educating a person like this too. I'm sincerely sorry feminism has such a grasp on these poor minds. Edit: That adjective was clearly not needed.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 09:30 PM
7

I think most people would agree with that. The problem is now when people bring up issues in the MRM (on facebook) feminist groups are free to interpret that as hate speech, which is a tactic they routinely employ.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 03:53 PM
1

I feel like I just read this comment on a YouTube video I think you may have been plagiarized.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 03:11 AM
9

He said in such cases. Stop trying to twist shit its so annoying.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 07:51 PM
3

Awesome stuff. To me it sounds like what you are saying (in response to the wage thing) that women are the ones holding themselves back for the most part as they are "feeling" as though they won't be accepted. That is, until you hit this point And the too-common male unwillingness to accept many women who break that norm. I understand where you are coming from but my perspective is similar yet different as if operating from the other side. I view this "unwillingness" as a legitimate complaint th…
/r/MensRights26/05/13 06:02 AM
12

My bad i must be jaded by all the blatant feminist legislation doing exactly the opposite. Edit: I completely messed up a word.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:35 AM
3

Great argument but it starts falling apart at So... wait until you're over 30, when the women hit the glass ceiling, and reap the benefits? This makes it sounds like you believe the wage gap myth which has been proven false so many times its not even worth saying. Also this If you think we have reversed millenia of patriarchy This almost certainly implies that you believe in patriarchy theory which is an absurdly sexist way to view history. Great stuff though outside of that.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:25 AM
9

What in the fuck are you talking about?
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:17 AM
4

You sound like an angry asshole.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 04:51 AM
3

K.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 04:19 AM
1

See what I mean? Its such an extreme obfuscation Its impossible to take these people seriously. People who think this have clearly never actually looked into the issues being discussed. I just Don't understand how someone could be dumb enough to think such a big movement would have anything to do with pro-rape ideas.
/r/MensRights25/05/13 10:41 PM
1

I'll never understand this rhetoric. There has literally never been a pro rape person that has anything to do with the mrm but That doesn't stop these absolute nut jobs from making this shit up around every corner.
/r/MensRights25/05/13 02:19 PM
5

You are an excellent writer.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:48 PM
22

Erection can easily occur based on external physical stimuli. Just as women can be aroused based on external physical stimuli. Does that mean it was consented? No. It has absolutely nothing to do with consent.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:41 PM
3

I think yours and ayakitty's comments are just as good as each other.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:31 PM
3

This is interesting. I hadn't thought of that option but I will say I also am not a friend of throwing nonviolent people in prison.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:26 PM
2

Brilliant.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:03 PM
7

Not sure if you're a troll but yeah that's abuse unless it was an obviously playful thing. Perhaps some more context would help us help you.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 03:05 AM
62

“This was a lie that snowballed and she could not find a way out of it.” Oh poor girl, she couldn't find a way out of the problem she created. She is such a huge victim. /s
/r/MensRights20/05/13 01:24 AM
4

This was awesome. Thanks for posting.
/r/MensRights20/05/13 12:24 AM
1

Damn, this is some hardcore extreme professional ignorance. Wow its so thick and heavy I can almost taste it. I sincerely suggest you actually educate yourself on why the mrm exists because your incredible lack of understanding is downright depressing.
/r/MensRights18/05/13 02:41 PM
13

That was awesome.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 09:28 PM
-2

I totally did not get that from the posters. It all seemed reasonable to me.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 01:29 AM
2

I can admit I get heated very quickly on this issue. Its usually best for me to avoid it.
/r/MensRights12/05/13 06:35 PM
1

Honestly I wouldn't bother talking with someone who doesn't support abortion either. Nut jobs.
/r/MensRights12/05/13 03:27 PM
1

How do they not? I think you need to shake things up and look at this from a different perspective because you aren't seeing the holes in Your argument.
/r/MensRights12/05/13 03:22 PM
1

Correct.
/r/MensRights10/05/13 03:14 AM
8

That's a little incoherent. Some context would definitely help for this post.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 05:05 AM
1

For some reason i am curious as well.
/r/MensRights04/05/13 03:50 AM
3

Its this sentiment that is exactly the problem.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 09:08 PM
1

Yeah I was joking.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 06:07 PM
4

If anything i've noticed a push against any PUA's. There are sometimes some material from articles on PUA websites but even those posts show comments criticizing any PUA elements or show no comments at all because this sub isnt interested in any PUA ideals. IMO they (PUA's) take a few ideas from us and run far and away to the extreme end.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 06:22 AM
2

Hell no. We have to wait for the 2032 GirlWritesWhat election. Where a Canadian woman for some reason becomes President in the states. Only then can we have true equality.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 06:16 AM
7

Its a bot that captures the original text in case it gets upvoted and you change the text to some disturbingly sexist remark to make this subreddit look like it promotes sexism. If has happened enough times (other people, not you) to warrant this bot.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 02:22 AM
2

I agree that was horrible wording.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 03:42 PM
-6

I really hope this isn't a troll from our side because this is just ridiculous insanity.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 09:21 AM
4

Please do and please update. Create you're own update thread whenever you get some info.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 09:14 AM
6

That report could have at least let someone from the MRA community explain what it actually is. I'm glad she tossed up a couple good examples of issues but they had that crazy guy talking about rape and nothing at all to explain how disturbingly misguided this guy is.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 03:29 AM
2

That really was awesome.
/r/MensRights11/04/13 01:31 AM
3

I get what you're sayin but i still think we've all jumped a little too far into the "i'm always and forever a helpless victim when it comes to situations i can sue for" rabbit hole. People get far too offended for the simplest of things nowadays.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 02:58 AM
2

You are dead on, this is what i have tried to tell people.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 05:15 AM
1

I agree, good observation. I would probably get all emotional and ranty.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 04:44 AM
3

I'm using this in the future, thank you.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 04:28 AM
3

Oh god yes, perfect analogy.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 04:14 AM
4

Maybe it's been longer than a few months but there has definitely been a transition. I just can't really decide if it's good or bad. On the one hand, two years ago this sub was filled with almost nothing but studies and intellectual debate yet our views were almost completely ignored. On the other hand, now we have obviously a lot more subscribers and the aforementioned views are now reaching more and younger demographics yet the flow of useful information has somewhat dwindled. Pick your poison…
/r/MensRights28/03/13 05:40 PM
4

I couldn't agree more. I used to be a regular in here but a few months ago we got a huge pack of new subscribers, it looks more and more like these new subscribers are all highschoolers and facebook whiners.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 04:40 PM
1

Except neither of those are acceptable. Maybe 100 years ago they were but with the advent of birth control its a moot point.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 02:16 AM
2

Then why arent men offered the opportunity to be responsible? They are simply seen as bank accounts to the state to pay for services the mother signs up for. Id agree with you if men were given a fair chance.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 02:14 AM
1

I like it.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 08:56 PM
1

Feminists and trolls who dont understand the movement.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 08:13 PM
2

So in other words no matter what data sigil1 shows you you're not going to consider it.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 07:51 PM
1

I am not a men's rights advocate, either. What?
/r/MensRights07/03/13 05:34 AM
10

I worked at starbucks. Most of the homeless people had one or shared one. Keep in mind that the laptop is usually the most expensive item they own.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 08:25 AM
1

I see where you're coming from it's just that i don't think anyone is talking about the "feminists" who are self proclaimed and educated in "women's studies" yet make no awareness of themselves in an activist/legislative sense. The way i see it, when people make comments like this they are referring to actual feminists who have followers and legislative power, The people that invented VAWA and the wage gap myth, and the followers who zealously oppose any refusal of their propaganda.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 05:18 AM
1

Good to know, thank you.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 09:42 PM
3

http://www.aljazeera.com/news/europe/2013/02/2013221101441771388.html There's a start.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 03:13 AM
36

You just made my night.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 03:07 AM
1

It's funny, I'm 6'6 and i like short women. It really is different with everyone.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 03:04 AM
1

I have to say i have already seen things that make me think we already have enough traction. The MRM is well known on the internet and is growing in college universities. The traffic we get from other websites calling us a hate group alone is enormous. In my opinion, there is no way we can lose the incredible amount of traction we already have.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 12:45 AM
4

You are part of the problem.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 03:39 PM
2

Has anyone actually ever heard of anyone anywhere going on record as being "pro-rape"? I feel like this term is being thrown around without any thought whatsoever behind it.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:48 AM
1

I don't understand why you think that. As a white male I couldn't possibly agree more with the post. Its an extreme double standard I encounter often.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 03:18 AM
0

Yeah it took me a second too.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:23 AM
1

I think the comment meant: "Which was what? I am lazy and curious."
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:20 AM
2

Sorry to here that brother. How long is alimony usually paid out for?
/r/MensRights23/12/12 07:59 PM
2

Why would you even bother? I'm actually really curious. Is it because you don't like this sub and you are trying to paint a bad picture? Is it because your 15? I don't get the motivation.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 07:53 PM
2

I love hearing stuff like this (not about your ex treating you disrepectfully). After everything i went through in court i was jaded for a while, luckily this sub and support from friends and family corrected that error in my perception.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 07:52 PM
3

What are the requirements for voluntary termination of parental rights? Is it likely that he would be able to get that since he is not on the birth certificate or anything? Not in this country, i don't know about anywhere else. Fathers have absolutely zero say in matters like this. Based on how she has acted in the past, I wouldn't be surprised if she got pregnant on purpose in an attempt to try to get him to move back to Tennessee and/or marry her. If it could be somehow proved that she lied ab…
/r/MensRights21/12/12 07:54 PM
3

You should really do an AMA.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 07:36 PM
1

Hopefully, in time, women who like to have sex with random guys or guys who don't want to be fathers won't decide to have these children in such a completely irresponisible way. Unless you can raise the child completely on your own without the aid of some unwilling donor stay the fuck out of it. At least that's my opinion. Even then i am against single parent households, and by against i mean i know it's a terrible irresponsible thing to do. Every study to date has shown this to be true. However…
/r/MensRights21/12/12 02:53 AM
2

This is exactly correct. Don't complain about a lack of men around school campus' without addressing the glaringly obvious reason for it.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 02:20 AM
1

Good on you. Thanks for the help.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 02:11 AM
3

I'm saving this. Great stuff. Thanks for taking the time.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 03:29 AM
0

Is there a better, more focused men's rights forum you are aware of?
/r/MensRights18/12/12 07:15 PM
2

Yes.
/r/MensRights18/12/12 06:57 PM
30

I hate this shit. If anything the problems the mrm deals with matter most to men of color. This is as backwards as possible.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 12:36 AM
2

I get what you're saying and i mostly agree, it's just that i don't think being permanently labeled a pedophile for that specific action is really justifiable. This is, to me, is the closest on the line you could possibly be. You're either a pedophile on the one side or an overly zealous teacher who needs to be fired immediately on the other. I do understand the difference with genders and that is horrific but an altogether different argument. What i am saying is this type of behavior should be …
/r/MensRights16/12/12 04:19 AM
2

I couldn't agree more. It all boils down to a level of maturity to me. It saddens me sometimes to see MRA'S break out the misandry card when its unnecessary as well.
/r/MensRights15/12/12 11:33 PM
3

I completely agree
/r/MensRights15/12/12 12:36 AM
4

I can't stand when this site is linked to.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 10:15 PM
2

I havent seen anything really victimizing him outside of some NFL announcers shortly after the news broke. Apparently him and his buddy were on bath salts or some shit at the time. That dude was fucked up.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 05:18 PM
14

I have seen too many examples of this family structure and the mothers don't even have to identify as feminist to follow the same patterns. It's as though feminism has permeated our culture so much now that people who might otherwise be rational adults are now whiny selfish and cruel without even understanding their actions.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 02:38 AM
2

I think he's right. I have absolutely no expectation of privacy walking around in a public area. There isn't a legal problem with any of this. Persoanlly I wouldn't take pictures of random people but that's beside the point. The point is both sides of the coin should be acceptable.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 05:07 PM
2

No. That's not at all what he's talking about. You've misunderstood.
/r/MensRights04/12/12 05:05 PM
3

Damn I want to punch Hansen's face. What a fuckin tool.
/r/MensRights24/11/12 05:01 PM
3

It is a tad extreme, but i still agree with you.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 10:27 PM
9

Awesome stuff, glad to hear it.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 09:45 PM
43

At first, I didn't like your comment but by the end I have to say that not only do I agree but I have thought about this same concept multiple times.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 05:06 AM
1

I've heard the term more used as "the big man is keeping me down". This is an important distinction because it's only referring to the people at the top (men or women).
/r/MensRights16/11/12 09:36 PM
1

Men shouldn't make decisions about abortions. They should however have the option of legal paternal surrender. On top of that i don't think circumcision is a fair thing to compare this to.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 03:36 AM
7

Jesus Christ man that's heartbreaking. Did you ever discuss with your mother how that makes you feel?
/r/MensRights14/11/12 05:42 PM
-1

Thats the dumbest thing I've heard in a while and it sounds exactly like feminism.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 04:17 PM
1

No trust me, im really surprised. This subreddit usually isn't like this. Honestly im pissed becaue this is a place i recommend people visit and if they come here and see this whiny shit they are going to be totally turned off from it. I have invested way too much time into this place to let it be burned down by newbie idiots. Sorry im ranting, this one just really got to me.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 06:16 AM
2

What the hell happened to this subreddit? How is this the number one front page thing? These guys were dumb enough to give in to an obvious scheme. This happens a lot, to all sorts of people. Old ladies, old men, dumb women, dumb men, dumb kids with credit cards... This is clearly not a men's rights issue and this sub should be ashamed by having this at the top for even a moment. I have been here for over two years and honestly im starting to feel the recent influx of subscribers is to our detri…
/r/MensRights14/11/12 05:58 AM
0

I cannot for the life of me understand how your comment got so much downvotes. I came here to say basically the same thing with more words, but seeing the obvious mob mentality towards zealously pursuing victimhood makes me feel like i shouldnt even try. This is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 05:43 AM
2

I get that its deceitful, but is this really a big deal? What's the worst that can happen I guess is what I'm asking?
/r/MensRights11/11/12 02:59 AM
2

I haven't felt this intelligent in at least a week. Thanks for that pick me up.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 02:54 AM
7

Stopped at "ghettoized". That is one terrible article.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 03:20 PM
2

Men go their own way.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 03:00 AM
5

I don't believe I have ever come across a single mom that made less than me.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 01:37 AM
-3

So he's anti-abortion except if he decides the baby will be too hard to take care of. This is why I can't stand pro-lifers arguments.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 03:10 PM
2

I would definitely make an effort to try and get into contact with your daughter, try to establish a relationship and let it build from there. Eventually shell be telling mommy how she wants to visit daddy and stuff will have to change.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 12:35 AM
8

I really don't think the courts are going to rip her out of her roots with her mom. Unless she is an obviously unfit parent she will maintain custody for a while. You can however attempt to gain some time with your daughter that you can eventually try to turn into custody. I know she's awful for kidnapping your daughter and in a perfect world she wouldn't have been allowed to do so but again the courts are going to try and look at this from your daughter's perspective.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 12:03 AM
1

I agree. 50/50 custody should always be the default unless the mother or father are obviously unfit. This also would help children overall.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 05:39 AM
3

I'd sign it in a heartbeat.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 12:19 AM
2

Good riddance. This is The single most important topic in this community in my opinion.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 12:16 AM
13

This is exactly what i have been saying. This policy would overall lower the amount of children born out of wedlock as well as significantly lowering child poverty. If you look at the big picture you'd see a land where two parent families are abundant and children are only loved not despised.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 05:40 PM
4

This proposed solution would lower the amount of children being born out of wedlock. This would drastically lower the child poverty rate. It essentially tells people "If you cannot properly take care of a child: Do Not Fucking Have One". This would help men but on top of that it would help children on a significant scale. If you really care about the children and actually wanted to help you would be supporting this.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 05:27 PM
2

This is reasonable to me as well.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 05:19 PM
4

Yes, but if mechanisms were in place that discouraged and hindered women from having children out of wedlock (like legal paternal surrender), more women would be on birth control and staying on it. Thus, overall lowering the child poverty rate.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 05:18 PM
3

I was wondering exactly this as i read this thread.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 05:15 PM
3

If mechanisms were put into play that hindered and discouraged women to trick men into parenthood then less children would be born out of wedlock. It's the fact that women know they will automatically recieve full custody and start getting child support should things turn sour that makes them so relaxed about going through with these pregnancies as well as stopping birth control. If women have that option, why the fuck shouldnt men? Because, fuck men?
/r/MensRights02/11/12 04:54 PM
4

I don't understand how you are not grasping what he is saying. Imagine you are a teenage in high school and your girlfriend is on birth control, everythings going fine until she stops taking it and gets pregnant (yes, this does happen), you never wanted to have a child with this person and you obviously arent ready or capable of raising a child because you haven't even gotten your first job for fucks sake. Your girlfriend can Abort > adopt out > drop the child off at a safe spot (like a firestat…
/r/MensRights02/11/12 04:46 PM
2

Yeah that would have been reasonable 100 years ago. Woman have an option at every stage. Birth control > abortion > adoption > safe drop off > keeping (and automatically get full custody of) the child. Men have none of those options. It's not like anyone is saying a guy should be able to opt out of parenthood at any time. What i have seen proposed is since women have generally around a month to get a safe abortion, men should have a month period where they can opt out of any financial responsibi…
/r/MensRights02/11/12 04:37 PM
6

Yeah i have heard such things as well. It's funny because for the guy he's just trying to keep as much of his money that he earned as possible while for the woman she is trying to take money that she didn't earn and calling the guy greedy should he refuse. I think the courts and the woman would be the greedy ones in this situation. This is an extreme over generalization but you get what i mean.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 04:28 PM
1

Signed up immediately. Thank you for this i'm really excited to get my free strings and picks.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 03:03 AM
2

I'm glad they don't ban. I like it when a moron says something stupid and there are walls of text calling them out on their stupidity.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 01:01 AM
19

100% of the time. I cleaned bathrooms for two years.
/r/MensRights01/11/12 07:01 PM
3

So should men like me join the fight against feminism if it's actually making it easier for us in term of access to sex, social status, etc? My problem with this is, if other "alpha" males are anything like me, i also had no problem with the finding partners department however that is precisely the thing that trapped me when a random temporary partner decided to switch off birth control to get pregnant without my consent. I know plenty of guys personally in a very similar situation, some of whic…
/r/MensRights31/10/12 02:00 AM
3

And not one reply from OP...
/r/MensRights30/10/12 08:33 PM
2

Sounds like you feel the same way most of the subscribers here feel. As long as you don't equate your feelings to anything remotely resembling the feminism of today i think you and me are on the same page.
/r/MensRights30/10/12 03:39 AM
2

I definitely have to agree with you on that point. I cannot stand when people bring this up as if its some common thing. I have never heard of anyone actually doing that except for TV and movies.
/r/MensRights29/10/12 04:12 PM
6

Great response video. I have met many people like that dude in the video, it infuriates me to no end.
/r/MensRights29/10/12 03:27 AM
1

When I went for custody, half the material I used as evidence was incriminating things on Facebook. People really are that dumb
/r/MensRights28/10/12 02:36 PM
1

I don't regret breaking away from the Brits for one second. I agree with you otherwise.
/r/MensRights27/10/12 12:20 AM
1

Thats an awful lot of assumptions to make.
/r/MensRights27/10/12 12:16 AM
2

Yeah i think that was more bad wording than him actually hating women. He was equating the exposing of woman's breasts and vaginas to be "slutty behavior". I will attempt to reword it. Children being near an exposed penis is no different than children being near an exposed breast or vagina.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 04:22 PM
5

1) That wasn't me, i just kinda jumped into this conversation. 2) "Extreme misogyny"? Really? It's language like that that makes me think we can't even begin to have a discussion.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 04:14 PM
21

This thread is filled with moronic concern trolls. Breakdown: Setting - Slutwalk event where woman walk around exposing their breasts and yes in some cases their vaginas. A man decides to antagonize the crowd by pretending to expose his penis. Crowd proceeds to throw objects at him and end up chasing him and physically touching him. There was no reason to get physical, that is the point. If this was a woman there would be outrage and backlash at the crowd. Doesn't mean this subreddit supports pe…
/r/MensRights26/10/12 04:04 PM
1

Boom.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:57 PM
2

Your point is dumb though. It was a side attack on the main argument. Your just trying to deflect by zealously grasping on to this weird "i want to make you look like you hate women" rant.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:55 PM
4

So the law applies to men and not women?
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:53 PM
6

How the hell is that weird to bring up? Women are walking around with their tits and vaginas exposed and this guy pretends to expose himself so he's the bad guy? What the fucking fuck?
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:52 PM
5

Dude, women are walking around topless and yes even exposing their vaginas. If fucking dipshit parents brought their kids to the event then that's on them. Either way there is no difference between a man exposing himself and a woman exposing herself. Stop trying to twist this into some irrational double standard.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:50 PM
8

I couldn't get through 30 seconds. Wow that's pathetic. I'm glad i havent embarrassed myself like those guys did.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 06:49 AM
5

I like this idea.
/r/MensRights25/10/12 06:35 PM
18

"blueoak9" isn't really explaining that right, in my opinion. "disquietly" said it better when he/she said 'male-positive space'. It's not that /mensrights believes the internet is an all out male bashing circlejerk. It's that this particular subreddit is one of the few areas that are male-positive, meaning the actual issues facing men are actually talked about in great detail which, you have to admit, is not as socially acceptable as talking about women's issues. Anyway, i hope that clears some…
/r/MensRights25/10/12 06:34 PM
1

Here is it.
/r/MensRights25/10/12 12:05 AM
1

Yeah the shady8 user or however you spell it. Ill see if i can find it but im at work.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 11:58 PM
2

That is a very simplistic definition. I think the most important thing to mention when defining patriarchy theory as feminists see it is the whole "the system is designed to benefit men and oppress women." This is the thing that kills debate and any rational thinking.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 11:23 PM
9

Definitely leave the country. If they are gonna be that ridiculous your best option is to run.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 04:31 PM
5

What the fuck is this crap?
/r/MensRights24/10/12 12:23 AM
2

I have seen so many examples of this.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 02:37 AM
1

Proper analysis.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 02:19 AM
2

Ok i guess i just don't get it.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:08 PM
3

Why the fuck can't this guy just type 'fuck'?
/r/MensRights19/10/12 05:43 PM
2

Why is material like that marketable to women? I could understand if some nut came out with this and tried to sell it, but to get it published, mass produced, and get sold an actual significant amount? What is it about men dying or violence of men that is so entertaining to so many women? I have yet to see anything similar for men and i have never heard about any guy proposing the death of all women in a serious manner (like some feminists do for men). It's not just this either, back in middle s…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 05:39 PM
3

I hate that this ended up on r/MR.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 05:32 PM
3

Thats a great infographic but how accurate is it? I would love to make posters and stickers to put around town but i need to know it's accurate.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 05:29 PM
-2

Yeah i was going to say this. I never really had to do much flirting in my dating life. Normally i catch a smile from a girl who seems obviously interested and go say hi. I think this aspect has almost nothing to do with gender and everything to do with physical attractiveness.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 04:34 PM
14

That wasnt the whole video. The full video shows her starting the altercation by choking his throat and spitting in his face.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 02:43 AM
2

Ah, that would make more sense. Thanks for the different perspective.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 01:34 AM
3

Well i don't agree with it. It should definitely end now.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 10:48 PM
3

Im not sure why there were posts supporting VA, but please don't let a few dumb people represent all of us.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 08:56 PM
3

Upvotes for everyone :)
/r/MensRights18/10/12 03:26 PM
14

Exactly, I would have laughed in their face and waited for my mom to rip shit up. There's no way that would slide.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 03:19 PM
36

Have you watched any girlwriteswhat videos? She has some exceptional videos out there on basically every basic issue the MRM deals with.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 06:56 AM
1

Well said.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 05:05 AM
3

I agree OP shouldn't have used those terms in the title, but if you actually read around this subreddit youll find countless examples of people discouraging any downvoting whatsoever. If by brigade you mean "group of people who engage in valid and mature discussion" then i would have to agree with you again. As far as this subreddit even remotely resembling the actions of users from SRS, that's just silly fantasy.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 11:24 PM
1

What was the other post?
/r/MensRights17/10/12 11:21 PM
6

You forgot your "/s".
/r/MensRights17/10/12 04:43 PM
6

I was hoping i would read something like this on here. Thank you For standing up and doing the right thing.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 04:03 PM
4

Yeah i'm not sure what frederickharttt is talking about either. Might be a troll.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 03:12 AM
8

Brian Banks.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 02:09 AM
3

I'm pretty sure that was in the DV studies as well, there was a statistic showing just how often women use weapons during the assualt versus men. Ill have to find that specific tidbit again.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 12:01 AM
8

Very much so.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:11 PM
2

Ah, i see what your saying.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:52 PM
2

I don't get it. Are you suggesting feminists aren't ever violent or violent minded?
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:34 PM
4

Great stuff Nepene, thanks for writing all that out.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:32 PM
4

I actually was thinking this same thing while getting ready this morning. I love the idea and i really hope it pans out.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:27 PM
4

I once brought up the MRM at a party and this dude says "wait, men's rights? Don't you mean women's rights?". Its to the point where even men are saying they shouldn't have rights. I set the poor lad straight but he had clearly never pondered the subject in his life.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 02:59 PM
5

Couldnt agree more. All these fucklords would be singing a completely different tune if it had been a woman.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:10 AM
2

Yeah i have to say i think that should get taken out of the sidebar. I have seen that quote too many times when referring to this subreddit and in the two years i have been here i haven't seen it discussed once.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:09 PM
3

I like this one.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:07 PM
2

Any chance you could put up her response? Of course, take out any material that is private or irrelevant.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 03:57 PM
20

Thats false. If you are in public you cannot expect privacy. Don't want to get your picture taken ever? Don't go outside.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 03:25 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/pttmT.gif
/r/MensRights08/10/12 02:35 AM
2

I have you tagged as 'typhonfuckingblue' (say that in the movie preview guy's voice). You're awesome, i love your stuff. I agree with you as well on this issue if that means anything.
/r/MensRights08/10/12 02:15 AM
2

Shut up! No YOU shut up!
/r/MensRights08/10/12 01:59 AM
1

They are everywhere in the US. The thing is they usually only take one person at a time. Its mainly places like gas stations and fast food restaurants. I'm pretty sure its just to save money though.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 05:07 PM
1

It's really annoying to listen to. Because of the voice thingy, not because the video isnt good.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 04:19 AM
2

The only way this is remotely relevant is if you provided a link of what you said that got you banned.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 04:07 AM
1

True true.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 05:33 PM
1

That's the dumbest sentence I've read in quite a while.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 01:41 PM
-1

That's dumb. If it isn't while on a date don't call it that. If you call it date rape it explains who raped who. If it was someone out with friends and gets drugged it's just rape. There's a reason particular words are used to describe things.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 02:03 AM
10

I have come to realize a lot of women have higher sex drives than i do. It's weird because of all the bullshit you hear growing up but i guess it's just not a gender specific thing. Everyone is different.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 08:48 PM
1

I thought he was suing because the lover was alienating the father from his daughter through lies and insults. I have absolutely no idea why this guy is suing now. Just because your wife wants to cheat doesnt mean anybody needs to be sued... Can't you move on with your life?
/r/MensRights01/10/12 07:54 PM
9

Better ten men be set free for crimes than one innocent man punished.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 06:41 PM
3

I seriously can't stand when people come into this sub thinking we would support something like this. Yes women have all the say in reproductive rights, that doesn't mean we want to take away any of that. We would just like some reproductive rights secured for men as well. Forcing a woman to go through labor so you can have a child is ridiculous on so many levels. Legal Paternal Surrender is the solution. If a man wants a child that badly he should find a partner willing, or adopt. Just as it sh…
/r/MensRights30/09/12 02:51 AM
8

Yeah I have always heard 99.9%. That's a little weird.
/r/MensRights29/09/12 02:16 PM
1

I thought that might be what PAS stood For but somewhere above someone typed parental alienation disorder so I was thrown off. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/MensRights27/09/12 12:02 AM
1

PAS? DSM? huh?
/r/MensRights26/09/12 10:14 PM
6

Yeah im gonna go ahead and fall into your category. I like the discussion and debate in here. It keeps me on my toes, always thinking about what it is im saying and how it may come off. Sometimes feminists who don't hold our values (yet) come in and see the top rated comment and compare it to the lowest, it usually ends up being clear what we are really about.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 02:05 AM
1

wtf?
/r/MensRights26/09/12 02:01 AM
1

Which is why I said to get things like her saying he won't be held responsible for anything, and to get what ever legal agreements made now before she flips on him if she does. That way if she does try to make his life a living hell he as a way to fight her and/or throw mud back. This wouldn't hold any weight in court. They will simply dismiss it and say "the child needs support, you are the father therefore you support it." There is no "don't support" option. The state makes a lot of money off …
/r/MensRights25/09/12 03:02 AM
1

Yeah, right now. Right now she's trying to quell his worries so he will condone her for exploiting his trust. Once that baby is born and she needs to procure requirements necesary for proper human development she won't think twice about altering her previous promise. She may even vacillate on the issue just to string him along for malicious reasons. Paternity tests are always a good idea in my opinion. When i got mine done i actually felt really good because i knew for sure, no one could ever tr…
/r/MensRights25/09/12 02:34 AM
8

Unfortunately there isn't really much that can be done at this point. The best bet for you would be to have your parents help with a lawyer so you can sue for 50% custody. Make sure the papers are ready by the time the child is born. The longer you wait the less chance you have of actually getting custody. If you don't, she has the ability to decide at any time for the next 18 years to sue you for child support. This exact thing happened to me when i was 19 and 3 years of court battles later i h…
/r/MensRights24/09/12 10:45 PM
2

This is true.
/r/MensRights23/09/12 05:18 AM
2

I wouldn't say love, i would put it as a muted pleasure. A simple "oh yeah? Well, alright."
/r/MensRights23/09/12 05:08 AM
-2

Ill never understand the slut walks they accomplish less than nothing for women and feminism.
/r/MensRights23/09/12 02:44 AM
28

This is exactly what I dealt with before I got my 50% custody and restraining order against the mom. It was literally everyday. And its all about money, not the needs of the child. She wants to hurt you by making you pay money and not seeing your child. The interests of the child might as well be on another planet.
/r/MensRights20/09/12 02:02 PM
0

Not in California.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 04:44 PM
2

I agree with the first half of Curebores comment. It answers any presumption about the video. The author korezaan clearly hasn't done his/her research on the subject.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 04:44 AM
12

My son's mom took him across country at two weeks old. I contacted my lawyer and he set up all the papers to have her served the minute i knew she was back in town. Two weeks later when she showed up i had a friend show up at her apartment and he just handed her the papers. From that point on it was a custody battle that i eventually won after three years. All i did was consistently be and portray myself as the responsible adult i am and the courts soon recognized my son's mom was crazy to not w…
/r/MensRights19/09/12 04:30 AM
1

That's another point i was thinking about but neglected to mention. Thank you for pointing that out.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 04:17 AM
3

Does it matter?
/r/MensRights19/09/12 02:01 AM
1

That's why i agree with you. I think TheTyger is a little more in tune with the rest of us. After TheTyger said: I would not say that 8 months is justice. If it was 2 years per person, I would think the sentence would be much more fair. We are literally in agreement.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 01:59 AM
1

They could if the burden of proof was so high that they fear the charges wont stick and thus be labeled a false accuser. I'm not sure how that circumstance would come into existence but just saying it might be a possibility.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 12:51 AM
0

The dailymail gets reposted here almost everyday. It's probably the most commonly linked to website other than imgur in this sub.
/r/MensRights18/09/12 11:22 PM
7

Why double? That is a little extreme.
/r/MensRights18/09/12 11:20 PM
8

I think this means we should focus more on proving rape happened rather than so much punishment for the false accuser. There should definitely be a punishment yeah, but not so high that it deters real rape victims from coming forward, because in my utopia it wouldn't be so easy to lie about rape and get a conviction.
/r/MensRights18/09/12 11:19 PM
-1

I should point out that jurupa's views are a little extreme compared to the rest of us. His original comment did not come off nearly as bad as his second. I think TheTyger is a little more in tune with the rest of us, even then there are plenty who would say that may be a little much.
/r/MensRights18/09/12 11:10 PM
8

...Anyway.. jTo has done it again, i love this guy. I wish i was there in Canada so i could check this debate out. Seriously awesome shit, thanks for posting.
/r/MensRights18/09/12 11:01 PM
2

Yeah wtf did i just read??
/r/MensRights18/09/12 10:59 PM
17

'The pitiful aspect of the case is that was everyday for her. 'She would obtain money from wherever and spend it on drink and drugs and be in a state of oblivion.' Borrell’s barrister, Joanne Kidd, said she had suffered difficulties that led to her mixing with older and more sophisticated people and getting into trouble. Oh yeah, i feel soo bad for her. Why is it everytime some woman does some god awful appauling thing the first thing society does is try to justify it? Really? She stabbed a guy …
/r/MensRights18/09/12 08:55 PM
1

Eh, i think it's a little more complex than that. There's so much legislation and bullshit that has been thrown at men in the recent years it's hard to really pin it on one specific thing. You may have a truly valid point but i feel it doesn't take into account that many aspects also come into play here. For example, me, i had plenty of girlfriends and have had a misleading reputation for having gotten around. I have had no difficulties finding partners, it's when one of them lied intentionally …
/r/MensRights18/09/12 02:07 AM
4

Wow that's insane can you explain how that came to be?
/r/MensRights18/09/12 02:04 AM
1

Whaa?
/r/MensRights18/09/12 02:00 AM
36

Yeah i lost it at that comment, and everyone just applauds him for it.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 09:12 PM
-2

This is exactly what i have been going through for the past 7 years. I have loads of experience in every aspect of retail and i see little 15 year old girls who can barely speak english correctly getting hired over me all the time. When i get a job i stick to it like its my lifeline because i know if i'm out of work i'm lookin at a bare minimum of three months before i find an entry level minimum wage position. All of my girlfriends and my sister (4 years younger) as well have found jobs at the …
/r/MensRights17/09/12 08:18 PM
4

That is really interesting, i had no idea it was an actual thing. This is my favorite comment so far today.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 08:11 PM
2

This is straight up smart. Thank you for typing that out. I'm gonna have to save this comment.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 06:52 PM
1

Haha i got banned from that sub last week after posting a comment in a different sub entirely.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 04:10 PM
22

That comment almost made my head explode. That has to be the most backwards thoroughly wrong thing ive ever heard
/r/MensRights14/09/12 03:35 PM
3

Awesome stuff i may have found a new blogger to follow. Wish he would have talked more about the boxcutter guy preaching about emotional arguments as he waves his knife around.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 12:50 AM
4

I agree completely.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 10:43 PM
4

Your name is really dumb. I cant stand the lies women keep spreading about reddit. I have never seen more white knighting and blind zealous love for all women from men than on reddit. I have seen very very few simple naive one liner women jokes compared to the hundreds and hundreds of times i have seen men stick up for women here.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 01:34 PM
1

Yeah i noticed that too. I was really hoping i could hear more but that music drowned it out.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 12:51 AM
48

I love that John did this. He is a true warrior for men's rights. I would love to do this at my community college but i work there so id most likely get fired.
/r/MensRights10/09/12 06:48 PM
2

What is there to discuss? For some odd reason you seem to accept the idea that getting rid of women is a viable option. I can't see how you could think that with a straight face. Just the same as some radical feminists want to get rid of all men. Both of those extremes are equally stupid. Unless i am missing a huge chunk of information about what it is you are arguing for there is no point discussing your views. Think of a black guy who's chillin on reddit and some guy is trying to argue that al…
/r/MensRights10/09/12 12:09 AM
2

At least you're consistent. Good luck in life.
/r/MensRights09/09/12 01:58 PM
4

I literally cannot think of a rational response, outside of petty accurate insults involving your intelligence, to such a wildly ignorant statement.
/r/MensRights09/09/12 07:07 AM
3

I think you're a little confused. We all know not all women are feminists, this is simply a fact. You know this, i know this, and so does the rest of the world. You're the only one trolling here. I've been here for over two years and am very passionate about mens rights. I also get very angry when morons come into this subreddit spewing ignorant hatred that means nothing. This subreddit is full of people that do not hate women, but stand against the injustices feminism has brought upon us. I lov…
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:58 AM
-1

Am i in the twilight zone here? How could you possibly think something so stupid would be supported in this subreddit? Take your misogyny and shove it, we have enough asshats trying to discredit our name here.
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:53 AM
1

So stooping to the radical feminist level is the answer? That makes no sense... It's not women that's the problem. It's the bullshit laws feminism has put into place oppressing men that's the problem. Just because a lot of women abuse this fact does not mean all women should be "gotten rid of". The solution is to make it impossible (or close to impossible) to abuse other people through the laws whatever country you reside in establishes. You HAVE to be a troll. Everything i just said is blatant …
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:51 AM
6

A troll that accomplishes literally nothing with its trolls. That has to be the worst most ineffective troll attempt i have ever seen. It literally makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/MensRights09/09/12 02:20 AM
6

Yeah i saw that too. I feel like the hivemind of reddit really is that redneck moron we hear about. Those views come from women who dont understand men and from men who have never been with a woman. What's funny is this subreddit wouldn't exist if it were not for the experience of the subscribers. This means that generally speaking, the reason the men and women that subscribe are here, are here because they have experienced something that makes them interested in the subject. So to clarify, i wo…
/r/MensRights08/09/12 05:44 AM
4

WTF? This must be a troll post... No one here in the MRM would ever suggest getting rid of women... it's feminism that's the problem... There is an enormous difference between the two. I hope you get the downvotes you deserve.
/r/MensRights08/09/12 05:32 AM
2

Since when do news groups reveal such dramatic detail? I can't imagine hearing this on national news. On top of this they sit there and try to justify her actions... This is just insanity. They go so far as describing in glory detail the murder of this accused man and proceed to attempt a justification for the beheading of him. I may not know all the details but clearly this man recieved zero due process and never had even a glimpse of defending himself. If this kind of attitude continues whats …
/r/MensRights08/09/12 05:28 AM
3

I had never heard of that subreddit. Thanks for sharing it. I think the difference is subscriber based as well as the name. R/mensrights, the name for example, exudes a certain political incorrectness that grabs attention. I have read a lot of posts from people saying things like "when i first saw r/mensrights i was like dont they mean feminism?" Or "mens rights? What more could they possibly want?". It really puts into perspective the reason we are here. Its the social stigma behind sticking up…
/r/MensRights08/09/12 03:20 AM
5

Thats the most delusional zealous group of nuts i have have had the displeasure of experiencing in quite some time. Sad to see how far gone some people are.
/r/MensRights07/09/12 11:04 PM
4

What? When was it expressed that this was written during paid working hours?
/r/MensRights07/09/12 04:59 AM
2

I guess i kinda do identify as both, its just men are so severely discriminated against i am first and foremost an MRA. Also i have a lot of experience with the court system when it comes to child custody so it is something that im very passionate about.
/r/MensRights07/09/12 02:25 AM
3

Yeah i saw that this morning getting ready for work. I turned that shit off when she started talking about equal pay not being the reality. I hope jon let her know how dumb she is but i doubt it.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 08:25 PM
3

I completely agree. Those horrific laws end up putting men into debtors prisons and on the streets homeless. On top of that they cant even have a relationship with their children. Thats financial, social, and psychological tortue for a lifetime. I dont want to turn this into sympathy olympics or anything but id rather get raped at gunpoint or something similar than experience that.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 07:12 PM
9

Sure she may have been raped but theres things like courts of law, prisons, due process, and human rights also. If you were accused of rape or any other crime im sure you would want these things in place and enforced. Why is it that murderers get to stand trial yet its ok to blatantly torture and murder anyone accused of rape?
/r/MensRights06/09/12 07:08 PM
2

In fact you are more likely to be at the poor end as a male, while women float around the mid zone. The homeless rate is something like 86% male right now in the US.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 05:00 PM
4

Wow and this was eight years ago... We haven't made the progress i would have hoped for at this point. Still though, documented and sourced proof will eventually become mainstream as long as we push it. Thanks for the submission, i saved it.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 03:44 AM
3

You sound like you get it. It just sucks you consider yourself a feminist. If i wasn't more aware i'd align more with egalitarianism. Either way i have had great pleasure reading your comments. Thank you for taking the time.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 03:34 AM
4

Dude Celda, you outdid youself on that one. I just read through it and i am thoroughly impressed. I was looking for a concise well sourced persuasive argument on the subject for a while and i couldn't have asked for anythingh better. I know it's a year later but thank you for your time and effort with this.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 03:21 AM
4

Not at all. The general narrative is that women are better, more nurturing parents. The more the public sees that these instances happen a lot with women the more the narrative breaks down. The point is not to shame this one woman, it is to shatter the idea that men shouldn't be given proper custody to their children on a more regular basis.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 07:40 PM
3

Has no one here seen "think like a man"? This literally happens in the movie. I just about pissed myself it was so funny.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 02:06 PM
0

I couldnt possibly agree more. All this whining and pretending to be offended makes me sick.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 02:00 PM
3

More like women shouldnt have children with men who are either unwilling or unable to provide for a child.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 09:27 PM
3

Wtf are you talking about? Are you just naive? That book is malicious trash. Wtf happened to this subreddit? How the hell are people upvoting this insanely ignorant comment.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 09:25 PM
1

Theres one on the frontpage now im pretty sure.
/r/MensRights27/08/12 02:43 PM
2

As long as the father has money and a lawyer yea.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 11:25 PM
6

So children should stop having relationships with their fathers because their mommy may or not breast feed them? On a side note i have known at least a dozen mothers around my age (all young, and including the mother of my two children) and none of them breast fed because it "hurt" or they were lazy. They all used formula...
/r/MensRights24/08/12 09:00 PM
1

I was under the impression that assange hadnt been proven guilty. I dont remember reading anything with any hard evidence against him. Am i missing something?
/r/MensRights23/08/12 04:35 PM
2

I agree with you for the most part. However there are places women can "get sex" a lot easier like bars and clubs but i don't know how relevant that is because men can always just go get a prostitute or something i guess. Either way i think you're dead on. I have seen plenty of women look for sex and not get it because of plenty of reasons. Just the same as any average guy i know.
/r/MensRights20/08/12 01:18 AM
2

I wish my issues were like this. That aside, chavelah is dead on.
/r/MensRights20/08/12 01:09 AM
1

That guy sounds like a badass. Ive never done any research on him but from this first glimpse he seems pretty badass.
/r/MensRights18/08/12 02:38 AM
2

Just finished watching. First off, its hilarious. Second, he makes a lot of great observations, however because it was a comedy show i feel like he strayed in and out of the truly good points too much for the general audience to understand what he was getting at. Then at other times it seems like he contradicts himself. All in all it was definitely good though.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 08:00 AM
2

Will do thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 06:38 AM
13

Im behind GWW 100%. I would be incomprehensibly pissed off with the shit she is dealing with. When it starts to get personal shit gets real quickly.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 03:09 AM
3

I doubt retailers were paying less than minimum wage to certain demographics. That is easily the dumbest way to get sued.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 03:50 PM
5

I disagree completely. Affirmative action created a huge employment impediment for young white men. Especially when you live in a racially mixed area. I for one looked for three years to find a entry level retail position in my town, while constantly getting passed on for 15 year old girls who could hardly speak correct english.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 02:45 PM
3

How is this relevant to airlines assuming all men are pedophiles? Pedophile is just the word the general public uses to associate with creepy men or women who may or may not molest a child. This is also irrelevant, airline policy discriminates against all male passengers under the assumption that they may molest a child during the flight. That is the issue, not symantecs.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 08:33 PM
6

My thoughts exactly. I get that pedophiles arent automatically child molesters but that isnt even close to relevant in the grand scope of the issue.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 08:27 PM
4

We are done here.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 02:48 AM
3

First link, first page...: "Keywords Domestic violence· Feminism· Scientifc bias". Unless you are backing up and trying to argue something else this is precisely what you are looking for. Just put your emotions aside and read the dang study.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 01:51 AM
5

This might help. Also, This. And this for good measure.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 01:02 AM
7

Feminism created 90% of the issues we deal with in the MRM. Rape culture, VAWA, misrepresentation of facts and statistics from domestic abuse to rape to wages across genders, these are all things created by feminism directly or indirectly. This is the red pill you have to swallow to understand why 43,000 people subscribe here.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 12:38 AM
6

I'm gonna assume you worded that badly.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 07:34 PM
1

I think i heard about the idea once in 8th grade but i have never heard about anyone actually attempting it.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 03:15 PM
3

Wow eight months. And she only had to attempt to destroy two lives. We are getting closer and closer to justice.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 03:11 PM
1

Where is this quote from? Is this something recent?
/r/MensRights14/08/12 02:47 PM
10

I don't understand why all you people have friends on facebook that are so sexist and ignorant.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 02:16 AM
16

Im so sorry about your situation. That is a really tough thing to go through. I have to that alphagarebear is correct in stating you should not ever consider leaving your children. The courts will look at that and assume your wife as the primary custodian. In my opinion you should tell her that if she is unhappy she can leave but you will never leave your children. Then suggest marriage counseling (whats more important here is that she knows she is gonna have to be the one to pack her bags).
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:52 AM
2

Wow fuck this. That's ridiculous.
/r/MensRights11/08/12 03:38 AM
5

Have you been circumcised? Some would say they would rather be raped then to have been left with a cut penis. Just to remind you, this is something that is permanent and there is no "going back", there is procedures but as far as i have heard it's not a sure thing and it's very hard to go through. No amount of therapy and counseling can restore your mutilated penis. I want to stress that i am in no way downplaying the horrifying effects that stem from a rape. I'm just simply looking at two diffe…
/r/MensRights11/08/12 02:59 AM
2

Men may get into more accidents when you compare it like feminists compare wages, but i think it's a little more complex than that and no one is willing to understand it. Men get into more accidents because they are driving more. Which reminds me of the wage gap myth, men are making more because they are simply working more and choose higher paying and more dangerous jobs. This does not mean at all that men are worse drivers than women. In fact. For instance take this: Overall, men were involved…
/r/MensRights11/08/12 02:29 AM
2

Why is rape worse than circumcision again? One thing happens once, and while it is horrible it still is a very temporary thing, the other is a permanent mutilation on your body you never asked for. I'm not gonna run around all willy nilly and tell everyone which is worse but the idea that they arent at least in the same ballpark is a little offensive.
/r/MensRights11/08/12 02:21 AM
2

Dude what the hell are you doing in Korea? Get stateside and get your kids. You will lose them... I can't stress this enough. Women have so much more sway when they show up in court and you don't. She can say whatever the hell she wants and you have no representation. Every single military custody battle i have ever seen has been horrible and ugly. Don't be one of them. Also, get out before you traumatize yourself, She can and probably will use it against you in court.
/r/MensRights10/08/12 04:39 AM
2

Thank you, this really does help.
/r/MensRights10/08/12 03:11 AM
3

Yeah im tired of this "fringe" assumption being thrown around, its just intellectually dishonest.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 03:31 PM
5

Four years for murder... oh wait nvm, it's only "voluntary manslaughter" when a woman commits murder. Justice is served. /S
/r/MensRights09/08/12 03:26 PM
4

I paid child support to the mother of my son for two years and recently got my first support check from her, it was for $12.00.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:18 AM
1

You are misunderstanding the meaning of feminism. Mens rights is a direct opponent of feminism. They know it, we know it, the people not generally interested in either category arent going to be as privy to this knowledge. The sooner more people understand this the better.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:15 AM
6

Im glad im not the only one that caught that. I guess thanks are in order to the slpc for doing our job for us.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 07:11 PM
1

Thats not what anyone is arguing here but alright.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 06:40 PM
6

sticks head in sand "lalala ananalalal!!"
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:57 PM
11

Is it just me or did that article basically say "MRA's are stupid because" then proceed to give rational elequent thought out reasons why we are right in this situation? I didnt really see anything effective as an argument against us in there, more help then dissent in my opinion.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:16 PM
16

No, dad's do not get a break. You have to have money unfortunately to secure rights as a father (assuming you are in the US). The government wants money, pure and simple. You have to have a lawyer to even be remotely close to 50% custody. The courts will absolutely steamroll you, and if they don't, mediation will. What i did was A) have an overpriced lawyer and B) reasearch the shit out of this subreddit and all the research you find relating to it. You will become confident in your position and…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 05:30 AM
1

Worcestershire is a place? I thought it was a spice to add to bloody mary's... Either way that article makes my blood boil. That is a perfectly legitimate poster that expresses actual reason. No wonder feminists tackled it.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 05:20 AM
1

That was absolutely magnificent. John the other hits the nail again, along with some vague unclear things but still the clearly relevant parts were well worded and extremely powerful.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 02:45 AM
1

hes doing the wrong thing. The courts ALWAYS look down on the one who walks away, regardless of gender. Even if he wasnt trying to "walk away", that is how the courts will interpret it. The lawyers he contacted either didnt tell him it was ok and he lied about that or they are the dumbest lawyers on the face of the US.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:21 AM
3

He also followed up that sentence with sonething along the lines of "and she has a history of violence" leading me to believe he was merely describing a situation while unkowingly making it seem like he was an aggressor.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:18 AM
3

"Why do you black people feel so entitled? Slavery is what it is, why change the whole system?"
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:16 AM
2

I call making the post when we have 43,000.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 12:41 AM
2

You have to laugh to not go insane.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 02:40 PM
1

Its less about time, she started to make slightly more money than me recently. The courts will divide child support based on a pay scale. Funny thing is i have never made more money (we both made the same), yet ive always had to pay.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 02:31 PM
1

No i recieved my first check for child support about a month ago, it was $12.00. This is after i paid out hundreds in child support even though i had my son just as much if not more than his mother since he was 6 months old.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 02:22 PM
10

I was tricked into fatherhood at the ripe age of 19 (she promised up and down she was on birth control). She then immediately went after me for child support when my son was born without even the slightest opportunity to try and be a father. After a year in court i stumbled upon this subreddit and immediately came up with enough evidence, proper thought structure, and research to eventually secure the 50% custody i should have been given in the first place (4 years and over 12,000 dollars later)…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:58 AM
4

Sounds like an intervention is in order. Seriously though, i recently got a little too drunk and ended up being a huge asshole to my lovely girlfriend. I had done this enough times that she wasn't fighting my drunkin slurs about breaking up. I woke up and once i realized what i had put her through i stopped drinking nearly as much and completely stopped mixing beer with alcohol. Ever since our relationship has been pretty good. My point is, try not to jump to mental disorder conclusions, especia…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:06 AM
-1

Check the comments. There is some seriously ignorant people in there. It's pretty sad.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 08:27 PM
0

I don't see why that's not a reasonable thing. It may end up taking a lawyer to get it done though. Better to be sure you're not getting screwed in my opinion.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:28 AM
2

While older men remain willing to prise open their chequebooks for a 25-year-old whose alabaster complexion would grace the yacht of any concupiscent billionaire, an increasing number are ignoring the traditional etiquette of courting when it comes to women over the age of 35. This, i believe says it all. Women over 35 are complaining that men are no longer willing to spend ridiculous amounts of cash on them. On top of that they are saying it's not okay to lavish young girls, yet men should lavi…
/r/MensRights25/07/12 08:52 AM
27

The appeal judges accepted that the father’s exile from his own children’s lives violated his rights. Oh really? That became apparent when? After his five year absence from his children due to court mandated bullshit? So what is the court gonna do about the destroyed relationship between father and children? Are they gonna fund for therapy? Are they gonna fund for parental assistance for the father? I would bet my life the answer is no. It's just "here you are, the thing you should have had all …
/r/MensRights25/07/12 08:42 AM
2

I'm not sure about who's likely to attack first but i do have some research that's relevant for example: click and scroll down to chapter 5 And this one Explaining the Concealment and Distortion of Evidence on Gender Symmetry in Partner Violence These studies show that women perpetrate just as much, if not more, domestic violence as men do.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 03:32 AM
1

Ive been around plenty or pregnant women and i think maybe one of them changed their diet, the rest just didnt smoke or drink.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 08:05 PM
2

I think she should be separated but unless shes giving birth i dont see why she shouldnt be confined.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:10 PM
15

Thats irrelevant.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 01:58 PM
3

Most young women i have met on their own exhibited the same behaviors (mess everywhere, cant cook or clean). In fact i had to clean bathrooms at a bed bath and beyond for two years and the womens restroom was twice as dirty 100% of the time so go figure.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 03:14 PM
1

Ive seen countless "conversations" between mra's and feminists, granted some go surprisingly well, however some of the most vile and offensive things i have ever read came from feminists.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 02:56 PM
5

Boom
/r/MensRights18/07/12 07:32 PM
0

I don't agree with this. Twitter has a follow system that actually helps in this case. If a lot of people are seeing the exchange of ideas it will start to generate thinking, wether all of them are responding or not. Plenty of people could be reading some of the very valid points he made and they'll think i hadn't thought of it that way before, hopefully. Point is, if there is even the slightest chance of enlightening someone just by sitting on my ass cruising the internet i will take it almost …
/r/MensRights18/07/12 07:13 PM
2

Yeah, me too. I'm kind of at the opposite end as you though, i prefer rehabilitation (when applicable) for a multitude of reasons to permanent incarceration. However i do support the death penalty when murder is involved so that's weird. Im basically pro - i dont want to pay for your problems.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 02:24 PM
2

Best comment in thread.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 02:01 PM
8

Im glad you are not in charge, thats way too extreme.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 01:57 PM
6

Me too, i was really disappointed. On the flip side there was an interview done by colbert recently with a feminist who colbert, in my opinion, completely destroyed, that was pretty satisfactory. I will try to find a link.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 04:22 AM
5

Sounds like every strip club i have ever been to. Except the genders were reversed.
/r/MensRights07/07/12 12:56 AM
3

Well said.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 06:28 PM
13

Eh, maybe. I haven't seen an anti-womens's rights MRA, i have seen a lot of trolls though. Regardless i guess it's possible i mean a few well thought of feminist authors actually advocate for the genocide of men so, i guess there are extremes on both sides.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 06:27 PM
4

It really does baffle me. For me, it took having a life changing biased experience in court over the custody of my child to consider myself an MRA. This means i had sex with a girl who decided to have a baby. You dont get to custody court masturbating in your basement... From what i have seen on just this subreddit most of the anecdotal experiences i have read stem from actual contact with the opposite sex. This idea that men are watching manga in their moms basement and suddenly, by the thousan…
/r/MensRights29/06/12 09:57 PM
2

Thats the one. Thanks.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 03:21 PM
3

Because you finally found a safe haven for logic?
/r/MensRights26/06/12 04:09 AM
5

I looked in my library and i seem to be missing the one i was hoping for however i do have some relevant ones. This study aggregates over 200 studies over 30 years. This (scroll to page 81) details child abuse which isnt as relevant but then again neither of these are as relevant as the one i was looking for. The study i was trying to find succesfully concluded with empirical evidence that just as many if not more in some states, women raped men just as much as vice versa. The only hitch was tha…
/r/MensRights26/06/12 03:53 AM
6

I would strictly provide empirical evidence. Focusing politely but firmly on only the evidence, avoid any descriptive phrasing on your part.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 02:30 AM
2

This is amazing. She has done well again.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 02:25 AM
3

Not even a fine for the wasted man hours investigating this false report? I was 13 and phoned the police as a prank and received a $200 fine....
/r/MensRights24/06/12 05:55 AM
2

Yeah i get your point but on a side note, do you really think it's possible for the general public to agree to a lower punishment across the gender board when it comes to this situation?
/r/MensRights24/06/12 05:41 AM
5

Yet again i see this post and the OP fails to respond to a single comment. Does anyone else notice this trend?
/r/MensRights22/06/12 08:34 PM
0

Overkill
/r/MensRights21/06/12 03:34 AM
1

I was like "June 21st... am i living a lie?" then i read the name of the Herald. Am i wrong or did i not see anything talking about prosecuting the "widow"? There were so many names thrown around plus im drunk so yeah theres that.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 03:33 AM
2

Can i be the first to say 'fuck this'? I have a daughter and this is revoltingly sexist.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 04:46 AM
3

Thats brilliant.
/r/MensRights18/06/12 09:32 PM
1

Theres a way to know if a particular person downvoted you?
/r/MensRights18/06/12 03:01 PM
8

Dear god i had to clean restrooms for two years at a Bed Bath and Beyond. The women's was, 100% of the time, dirtier than the men's. I found some of the grossest scenes in there. I'm talking profuse blood and shitty toilet paper stuffed into that weird pocket women get on the stall wall. Just a general lack of respect for the room it seemed. And what is it with all the small tidbits of toilet paper? it's as if no women will use tp unless it has perfect corners, so they tear off and throw on the …
/r/MensRights18/06/12 02:57 PM
0

I wouldn't suggest going to the police, they might do the opposite of what is needed here.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 02:36 AM
2

I'm going to start doing this in my town. We have the perfect overpass i could do this at.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 02:27 AM
2

Yeah its not so much the two years for me, its the 25-life a man would get for the same exact thing that pisses me off to no end.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 02:09 AM
23

At least you didnt breed with her.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 12:49 AM
8

Lol? The mens rights page gets constantly attacked by feminist trolls.... what planet have you been living on. I have never seen a more perfect example of feminist immaturity than the mens rights page of wikipedia. The womens rights page is locked because feminists dont want anyone fucking with it, meanwhile they constantly try to edit and block content on the mens rights page.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 04:15 PM
0

How many jokes have you heard where the butt of them is women's rights? Plenty I'm sure. Was this sarcastic? I havent heard of widely viewed jokes that were politically correct such as this. I'm inclined to think yours was a sarcastic statement because i cannot fathom your point being based on any sort of reality.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 07:54 AM
1

Eh, pick your battles.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 03:47 AM
1

I just read the top comment section. Once i saw that it was the top voted comment nothing else needs to be said.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:43 AM
1

Lol that is a silly argument. It's funny too because my brother works in the industry and he has said there are plenty of women in it. In fact i went to his office once, i swear to god i thought i arrived at a model photoshoot (this is in LA). There were tall skinny good looking women everywhere working on designs at their desktops. So this idea that fat basement dwelling men are out there creating videogames is incredibly rediculous. I know my experience is anecdotal but i didnt see a single un…
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:42 AM
1

Yeah i have to agree when i first saw that posted i didnt even bother looking in the comments for fear of an exploding vein in my forehead but when i finally gave it a chance i was so surprised. Those girls know whatsup sometimes.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:20 AM
1

Actually there really is little misandry in that thread, i was pleasantly surprised.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:19 AM
2

On top of that, which men are the ones you look up to in video games? The super strong built mega ripped super warrior ones. Kinda similar to how you usually see attractive females on games. So this idea that women are stereotyped while men are not in videogames is bogus.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:17 AM
0

That's not the impression I've been given from all the MRA's I've seen outside of here. That's not the impression given by the sidebar. Where do you get the idea that anti-feminism is part of this sub? It's not 'anti-feminism' so much as it is 'anti radical feminism'. Your average feminist is just the average person. Radical feminism is truly the enemy of the MRM, not the only one but definitely the biggest by far.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:14 AM
6

I agree with everything you said, i went through all of those things in California and can confirm that this is great stuff. That being said, the negative slant about the whining isn't necesary. This guy is talking about incredibly relevant stuff while getting a lot off his chest. More people should be talking about the details like this and how you have as well. The perspective from the person going through it can be just as important as the perspective of the expert.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 10:15 PM
21

Sell anything and everything you can to get a lawyer. Having that retirement is more important right now. Fuck everything else, you need to get a lawyer who specializes in cases like this.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 09:27 PM
1

Is anyone making a list of these? I really hope so.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 07:17 PM
2

Oh yes. Throughout the entirety of my educational career i probably had four or five teachers that were male.
/r/MensRights13/06/12 12:39 PM
7

Yeah i imagine a lot of people don't remember how they came across that site. I'm glad people your age are capable of understanding some of the shit men are disadvantaged at from the get go. My feeling is that there should be some male talkers in health class to reinforce this knowledge. I am currently trying to start such a program in my city. I have been through the legal system and have seen first hand the overwhelming bias against men when it comes to trying to gain custody of your children.…
/r/MensRights13/06/12 05:23 AM
0

Im using this in the future. I didn't read the article but i told my girlfriend the headline and she thought it was hilarious so thank you.
/r/MensRights13/06/12 02:37 AM
12

I understand totally. I started playing MS-DOS games when i was six. By the time i was 12, porn was an everyday thing. It's funny because i actually didn't come across 4chan (not that 4chan is exclusively porn) until i stumbled across reddit about 3 and a half years ago. Can i ask how you stumbled upon 4chan?
/r/MensRights13/06/12 02:36 AM
22

Just curious but how did you stumble upon this subreddit?
/r/MensRights13/06/12 01:04 AM
6

Wow, surprisingly that page is 10,000% better than it was a year ago. Im really impressed.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 03:12 PM
4

Lawyer it on up! Sorry but this is pretty much your only shot.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 12:52 AM
10

Seriously ive had it with these bullshit articles and posts. Men should never have a say when it comes to forcing a woman to go through with a pregnancy. If she doesnt want to carry your child then get the fuck over it and find a woman who does. This whole argument is disgusting and i absolutely hate its presence on this subreddit. What happens when nuetral people come in here and read that crap? They'll think we are some psychotic asshats who think we deserve what we want when we want it just b…
/r/MensRights10/06/12 02:40 PM
4

Yeah im gonna have to agree with you on this.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 01:32 AM
1

I like this idea.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 10:17 PM
6

That sounds like the biggest waste of time imagineable. Even if the story is false its generating interesting discussion about a topic that doesn't normally get discussed.. I guess a thank you is in order for them?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:51 PM
5

So which part was the trolling part?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:35 PM
2

Pshh, speak for yourself. It was relevant, thoughtful, original, intelligent, and uplifting. I would like to see more of this. There is absolutely no problem with posts like these, they appear in almost every subreddit. This subreddit isnt some lame humorless group of zombie morons. If it is relevant i see no problem with it.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:31 PM
2

Tell him he is a sexist moron and send him a link here.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:26 PM
-5

Disadvantage is not quantifiable. Would you say the disadvantage of the Jews was the same as the disadvantage of the Germans during WW2? Imagine an entire gender (as apposed to an entire race) subjugated to false pretenses and everyone in the country agrees with how things are being done. I'm not trying to say men are burnt to death in human ovens but they might as well be. And by the way men in Western society are overwhelmingly more disadvantaged than Western women. It is impossible to deny. I…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:46 AM
2

I'm sorry but i have never been told by society to treat women as anything other than goddesses who should be held high atop an entitled pedestal. This guy was raised in an entirely different era. And even then he's wrong. This guy is a flagrant white knight, and has no idea the obstacles common men encounter.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:36 AM
8

I don't know i always felt like my bed is my sanctuary, and that only special people are allowed to sleep on it. That may be just me i don't know. If i were in the situation and it was completely platonic i would have no problem sending her to the couch. In fact, i have done so on many occasions. I think you should start now. Not only does it set a precedent but it makes you feel good knowing you are in control. It's really a win win in my opinion.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:32 AM
-3

In the past week or so i have seen a lot of posts similar to this. Where a man wanted to have a child but the woman didn't so the point of the posts were "do men have any say?" as if to say men should have some say in that area. It has been happening on this subreddit and the idea is disgusting so everyone who subscribes to /mensrights or posts here should know that this idea is not at all an example of what the MRM fights for.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 12:12 AM
9

Because radical feminism is one of the main obstacles of the MRM, you can't expect a men's rights movement to ally itself with a group that has high ranking, high powered members who advocate for the killing of all men. Egalitarianism on the other hand....
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:08 PM
1

Pretty sure everyone here knows that. It has been stated time and time again that the redical feminists in power who can and do apply their dogma to the laws they perpetuate are the feminists in reference. Average feminism doesn't really do anything to harm anyone.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:05 PM
4

Why is there this disgusting push for men to have rights over what a woman decides? That's truly disugting. The only argument that should be made is women should be able to decide what they do to their bodies and men should be able to decide if they want to be involved with any permanent decision a woman makes. That is what is fair. Any guy that wanted his girlfriend to have a baby when she wasn't ready or didn't want one can go shove it. Go find a woman who wants to mother your child you selfis…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:01 PM
1

Yeah i can see the appeal for sure, something tells me though people are going to be kicking themselves five years down the line over all the details they put online about their lives. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone, your situation doesn't seem to be too dangerous. However, on mine i noticed a friend who i had gone to a group event with posted pictures she took of our time there. There happened to be two pictures that could cause serious questioning (questionable but explainable). I …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 09:48 PM
2

Damnit i hate those two words. I just can't get em right!
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:57 PM
2

You should delete your facebook. I did and i felt much better. It's really sad learning just how stupid everyone you know is. That and the lack of privacy is easily enough to delete that sucker.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:47 PM
3

We discuss issues that systematically affect men in a negative way. Child custody, divorce law, false rape allegation, denial of male DV victims, disparity in prison sentences between genders, mass media bias, male genital mutilation being not only accepted but encouraged, and a host of other things. The only reason you tend to see comments holding feminism in a negative light is because feminists actively pursue policies that hurt men. Obviously we all know not all feminists are like that (that…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:40 PM
0

I wouldn't say anything if i were you, in my opinion. The best tactic i can think of is to bring up the situation in a group setting and let her realize the consensus. Eventually it will hit her like a ton of bricks and she will start to back peddle.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 04:21 AM
8

I know where you're coming from, it is sad, yet unfortunately necessary.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 04:18 AM
3

O wow that's a problem.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 04:05 AM
10

Yeah just chalk it up to it being her first time someone didn't give a crap who she was, she is finally going to see real world consequences. This should be a wake up call for her. Hopefully this will instill in her mind that having boobs doesn't get you out of being a moron. You did the right thing in my opinion, if she wants to get pissy that's her deal but you still did the right thing.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:51 AM
1

Only two upvotes? This needs to be near the top.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 01:54 AM
1

Damn that sucks.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 01:52 AM
4

Is this satire or something? I cannot possibly imagine a guy being dumb enough to willfully screw himself over by having a child with a women who didn't want one. What did he think would happen? She has all the control in the situation.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 09:48 PM
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It sounds like a selfish want for a child on your part outweighed the traumatic toll it will take on your life, your childs life, and the father your forcing into fatherhood. Depending on where you live the state will force you to sue him for support meaning youve plunged him into financial servitude for at least 18 years all because you decided right now, as apposed to a more responsible time perhaps with someone willing to be a father, is the best time to have a child. I hear this excuse all t…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 06:09 PM
-1

Why werent you on birth control? Was it a religious thing or something?
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:53 PM
1

If there is a way the courts and my lawyer did a damn good job of blocking that opportunity from me. I even spoke to DCCS and all i got were vague answers to say the least.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 01:51 PM
1

Yeah my baby momma (anyone else hate that term?) works and actually gets paid more than i do. I take care of my son more then she does and somehow i still don't get anything.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 04:24 AM
-4

That's really tough, what makes you think he wouldn't love and care for the child? I never wanted kids, in fact i hated kids. Then my fuck buddy screwed me over after promising me she was on birth control. 3 years and $15,000 later i have 50% custody. I couldn't imagine my life without my son at this point. It's not something you can say "that guy couldn't be a good father" about unless you know for a fact that that guy is a scumbag who is violent and commonly commits crimes, or for some reason …
/r/MensRights07/06/12 04:23 AM
1

I appreciate you coming here for advice. The fact that you just made your account makes you suspect, but im sure rightsbot will take care of that. I know that it's not 100% effective. I know it's probably not even close, but that's his decision. Let's be honest here, this decision rests on both of your shoulders. That being said, no man should ever be able to tell you what to do with your body. If you want to keep that baby (no matter how much i would advise against it) i still have to concede t…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:59 AM
5

Haha, i've thought about moving many times before. However when i started making progress all that shit faded into the background and eventually disappeared. It's amazing what a little progress can do to encourage a person. I think you'll make it through this and hopefully be able to hold your head up because you defeated a sexist system working against you. That's my greatest accomplishment so far :)
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:19 AM
10

Trust me i know that feeling, the mother of my son seemed normal at first. It was mind boggling how much she changed into this psychotic malicious cunt. Then i realized literally all of her closest friends were pregnant and screwing over the fathers, at the same time my son was born. I promise you this girl has been told she is right in this situation and that she feels no remorse. It seems that there is some weird block on empathy for men like us in this situation in our culture. She is going t…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:11 AM
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Great! Call the cops. Document absolutely everything and find a way to eventually get a lawyer. This may not sound like much but it is exactly how i got started (except i had no custody whatsoever). Even if the cops don't do anything (i ackowledge this is heartbreakingly tough to go through), document everything with dates, times, quotes, copies and everything in between. Eventually you will stumble across a legal network, as i did, that will provide you with extremely crucial legal advice to ge…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 02:30 AM
2

I couldn't agree more.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 02:10 AM
6

Do you have any custody at all whatsoever?
/r/MensRights07/06/12 02:08 AM
2

That's funny i was told i would recieve $50 a month from the mother. My son is 4 years old and i havent seen a dime.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 02:04 AM
2

Great stuff ignatius, i might add a few of these to my special list.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 01:46 AM
3

Welcome brother. While media bias seems to be a popular topic of the MRM (men's rights movement) it is actually one of the most insignificant. Things like custody laws, divorce laws, false rape allegations, gender disparity in the sentencing of crime, male genital mutilation, and denial of men being domestically abused are much more important in my mind. Sometimes feminist groups will paint the MRM as a bunch of whiny basement dwellers upset that men don't look awesome to women on tv. This could…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 01:27 AM
5

How do women not make it to high positions? I see more and more of them everyday, Meg Whitman for example is the CEO of ebay. It's not as if women are barred from those positions, if they were Meg Whitman wouldn't be CEO. It comes down to the same set of reasons the wage gap myth is so incredibly false. Women on average tend to make certain choices in their lives that affect their earning potential. If you dedicate yourself entirely to your career you have much more of a chance to rise to the to…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 01:19 AM
2

I have never heard of anything like that offered to men.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 10:03 PM
5

Came here to say this.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 09:56 PM
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In california it doesnt matter if you work or not. You are charged child support as someone working 35+ hours a week minimum wage. You could be homeless and you would still get charged. Of course that's for men, i havent ever seen a woman charged child support, and the ones i hear about pay a fraction of the cost men do.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 09:32 PM
3

Official fan of Mass Mutual
/r/MensRights06/06/12 03:14 AM
4

Explanation?
/r/MensRights06/06/12 03:11 AM
2

I didnt know you could search a subreddit for a keyword. How is that done?
/r/MensRights06/06/12 03:07 AM
3

Yes, i love this comment. The tidal wave of justice is coming.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 03:05 AM
2

Unfortunately a lawyer is your only option. Try to find a cheap one, in the end the lawyer fees will be nothing compared to how much your crazy ex extorts from you.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 08:09 PM
5

This please.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 03:42 AM
0

Everytime i hear about that show i hear the same thing you just said. As a father i watch cartoons all the time with my son. Granted i wouldnt normally be watching them if it werent for him but i do appreciate when the writers throw in material for the parents to enjoy. Kick buttowski, regular show, hell even yo gabba gabba does it. To sit here and say its some sort of feminisation of males is rediculous. Im sure when my daughter is old enough ill be sittin there watching my little ponies with h…
/r/MensRights05/06/12 01:10 AM
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This. Nobody seems to grasp this.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 08:31 PM
2

Sorry for the assumption. My anger towards these situations sometimes gets the better of me. In my opinion you would still be doing the right thing. No guy should ever be able to force a woman to have a child, and unfortunately aborting is the safest choice to make.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 08:21 PM
5

Nice. Well done.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 02:33 AM
3

I don't understand.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 02:26 AM
1

Agreed, i was frustrated.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 12:41 AM
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Yeah it's your right to choose but you're making a stupid decision. I see this happen all the time and in the end it just ruins lives. You're gonna end up seeing the baby and think "how could i ever give you up", trust me it is one of the hardest things in the world to give up a child. Then you're going to establish financial support by strong arming a dude who never wanted to have a child with you. He's going to end up hating every atom in your body while simultaneously loving the child you kee…
/r/MensRights03/06/12 11:15 PM
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Are you too far along for an abortion or something? I don't understand why you are bringing a child into this just to put it in the system. As long as you are in the beginning stages it's a simple procedure, i took my friend to get one once (no i wasnt the father, just helping her out). Yeah there is some recovery time but the feeling that you did the right thing is what is important. Bringing a child no one wants into the world is the complete opposite of a noble deed. Especially when there are…
/r/MensRights03/06/12 11:00 PM
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Could you post a link to the thread?
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:55 PM
0

But, he is a tattoo artist and makes great money Pretty sure you can assume she would take him to court (if he didn't willingly do it anyway).
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:35 PM
2

Child support should not be "payment to see the child". I can't tell you how much i agree with you. It took $15,000 to get my rights to my son, and it only took 3 years....
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:16 PM
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I think people tend to use the "men are slammed in the media because of bias" as the overarching fundamental goal of the MRM. I have seen it plenty of times. In this sense i feel that most people think men's image in the media is the most frivolous issue the MRM deals with. I'm not saying that's true or right but i have seen it enough to know it happens quite a bit.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:14 PM
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Child support itself isn't a bad thing by any means. What i think you are referring to is Legal Paternal Surrender. This is the idea that men, just as women can do, can opt out of being legally responsible for the child, obviously this would come with restrictions such as a timeframe you have to work with. This is the first video in a series of four that discusess the subject. Girlwriteswhat is very popular around here i think you might find this video interesting.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:04 PM
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Yeah it's not so much that i reject the widening of the definition it's the fact that so many women/men will lie and abuse the new definition. The definition itself isn't terrible, the only thing i would like to add to it is to prove it happened beyond a reasonable doubt where both parties have a chance to defend themselves.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 03:02 AM
1

This is a new idea to me. Very interesting though.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 02:48 AM
1

How did you find out it was true she was raped?
/r/MensRights02/06/12 09:14 PM
1

He is actually making a film i believe on this.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 07:14 PM
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The situation i was referring to would be one where say the woman said she was on birth control and the couple both talked about not wanting children and even in the event of pregnancy that they agreed an abortion is necesary. But despite all this gets pregnant and gleefully continues with the pregnancy and tries to sue for child support. This actually happened to me. The ideal answer is to develop birth control to the point where unwanted pregnancies don't happen The ideal answer is to develop …
/r/MensRights02/06/12 06:51 PM
1

You clearly already do. But to answer your question, no i never said anything similar to that. For example, my stance is against the mainstream of society. I believe woman are intelligent capable human beings who have agency and are not objects. I believe women are smart enough to be able to make a choice and have the audacity to face the consequences. You seem to subscribe to the idea that women can't control what they do and that society forces women into every decision they make. You make it …
/r/MensRights02/06/12 06:36 PM
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Absolutely, men have the option of adoption if they truly want a child. To condemn a woman to nine months of pregnancy based on some guys wishes seems barbaric in my opinion.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 06:18 PM
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I dont mind if some woman wants to have a baby. What i do mind is being forced to support something she and only she wanted (and had the power to stop from going forward).
/r/MensRights02/06/12 06:01 PM
1

Correct. Its up to collective society to fix it not me. Doesnt stop me from being a part of the solution.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 05:43 PM
3

Word for word exactly my experience.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 04:23 PM
1

Your reply to ignatious. The idea that women arent responsible for their actions is pervasive in our society, and when that happens consistently men tend to be the ones held accountable for women's decisions. It is a sexist notion and the MRM would very much like to stomp it out of existence.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 04:19 PM
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What a steaming pile of hypocritical crap. Seriously this hand slap shit while men get tossed to the wolves needs to end. She hasn't learned anything accept some new convenient imaginary medical terms she can use to blame all her actions on.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 02:26 PM
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Well said. That last paragraph actually was brilliant, ive been trying to put into words this idea and you did it flawlessly.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 02:11 PM
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Yeah i read the first ten and saw nothing but intelligent advice/discussion. You are completely ignorant on the subject of men's rights. You see every attack on feminism as an attack on women and conflate misogyny with men wanting equal rights. You're a troll in every sense.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 04:24 AM
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Whatever, I don't see how that has anything to do with this subreddit. Everything negative or even questionable is downvoted immediately here. In fact most of the comments they depicted in that shitty video were downvoted as well. Go stop supporting something that is blatantly right because of a random internet video, that's fine.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 02:33 AM
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Why didnt the article talk about that blaringly obvious fact? Its like the elephant in the room
/r/MensRights01/06/12 04:20 PM
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So a woman blatantly murders a dude in a horrific way and is charged with manslaughter? I thought manslaughter was reserved for negligence or accidents.
/r/MensRights01/06/12 01:36 PM
3

Well said.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 11:15 PM
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Still though, i would like to see some monetary compensation for his troubles. God knows it's gonna be tough for him to find a job much less a career given his reputation thanks to her. Perhaps a government funded compensation to be compensated by her income once she is realeased from prison? I think that would be ideal, after all, it's the courts that truly failed this man (i'm not sure there is a way to make the court system pay you, that's why i said government).
/r/MensRights31/05/12 04:45 AM
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It shifted the dynamic away from males competing with each other for sex to males competing with each other to see who is a better provider to get better mates. My problem with this statement is that the author made no attempt to illustrate how these women were 'better' mates. What is it that made them better than their fellow women? I realize this isn't relevant to this subreddit but still it's interesting that she assumes these women were better mates based on, from what i can see, their willi…
/r/MensRights31/05/12 04:07 AM
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Damn you should do an AMA.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:36 AM
1

You should start writing these down in a list somewhere. "santa clause: women edition"
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:34 AM
1

This article makes me so mad, i can't believe this crap. Really? This is what we do now world? Women are killing their children and the fathers get to just suck it up? Women everywhere are told that some imaginary 'disorder' can explain away killing your children? Fucking christ this is bullshit.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:33 AM
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now as a dad, I can not imaging life without my child. Never let me live to see that day, and I am satisfied. We are in total agreement here. But those memories feel like a story about someone else That 'someone else' is us. We are going through all that bullshit you went through. I hope you understand that that is why we are here.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 03:40 PM
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You are satisfied with this situation? To me, this points to the same problem i had. Why shouldn't there be a push to fix it? A simple nudge in research towards male birth control would put it into mass production here in the U.S., it is already being done in India. Meanwhile Legal Paternal Surrender seems to be the most logical solution. It's comments like the one you just wrote that are interesting and generate discussion here.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 03:28 PM
1

I have one child, a 13 year old boy Was this a consensual thing? I mean, did you and one of your eight women decide together to have this child? I was an average 19 year old guy, yes having sex with people. This girl who had promised me up and down she was on birth control gets pregnant and after promising me up and down she would get an abortion she didn't. Long story short i "man'd up?", thing is she was just using the child for child support money, it was clear after three months when i start…
/r/MensRights30/05/12 02:51 PM
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That is grossly sexist and exactly the kind of attitude we fight against.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 01:36 PM
1

This makes a lot of sense to me. One of my favorite comments of yours :)
/r/MensRights30/05/12 02:54 AM
1

Dressing skanky doesn't make you more likely to be raped, it only makes you more likely to be oogled. Research shows overwhelmingly that it's the quite reserved girls who arent the loud sexy party girls who tend to get raped, this is most likely because not as many people are paying attention to her.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 02:22 AM
2

Agreed, that argument is not one that i would side with. It really has nothing to do the clothes, now if you were talking about guys or girls checking soneone out based on what they were wearing i might be behind that, even then its not really relevant to this subreddit.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 05:37 PM
1

Well im glad you made it. i agree with the others, this video was exactly spot on with how i feel. It's like i was waiting for this video from you or something.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 02:27 PM
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about transferring money from men to women. I would say it's more about the transfer of money and the government wanting to be a part of that, so they can take a portion.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 11:46 PM
4

Is she accusing you of being gay for being sexually active with a lesbian? I'm not sure i follow.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 06:51 AM
2

Yeah i agree it's just i think there's not enough awareness of the issue to young people. For example in sex ed or health class or whatever they call it these days, they could mention the risk men put themselves in when they trust the word of their female partner in terms of birth control. My girlfriend takes the pill so i can see her take it everyday, this makes me feel much more comfortable. But that is only because she decided to take it at a convenient time every night when we are usually to…
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:52 AM
4

True true.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:43 AM
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She's also extremely popular on this subreddit. I would assume every single one of her videos has been submitted here. This is one of my favorites of her's.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:43 AM
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Eh, maybe, it kind of sounds like she would have said no to war in absolutely any possible situation. As in, it was a principle for her to not promote violence of any kind. I'm not so sure these types of principles help propel a nation into what we have become. Then again, i'm pretty buzzed so what do i know.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:40 AM
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So are you of the mindset that war is unnecesary?
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:09 AM
3

I have noticed that saying fuck in a slightly censored fashion actually makes it stand out a little more. Almost like an imaginary exclamation point at the end.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:07 AM
0

How does it happen that the OP starts a thread and completely abandons it with absolutely no response? Everything i submit i try and respond to every comment, i don't understand!?!?!?!
/r/MensRights28/05/12 03:53 AM
0

Oh, and always wear protection. I know you mean well, but i seriously hate this phrase with every ounce of my body. It's just not right that men have to slip on a pleasure hampering cock suit even though their partner is on birth control. So many couples around the world rely on simple birth control methods provided for women and have natural sex but no one complains about them. All of the sudden when a girl lies about being on birth control the argument turns to "should have worn a condom". As …
/r/MensRights28/05/12 03:49 AM
1

This is the very first time i have looked at gender roles in this light. Thank you for posting this. This guy clearly doesn't understand the reasons behind all those false statistics, but still he raises a very genuine point on gender roles.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 03:42 AM
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Well then we need a campaign of these cases being pushed forth (only when it's actually necesary of course). This happens all the time it shouldn't be too hard to form a coalition, the false rape society could probably help in situations like this, if the actually recieved significant funding.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 03:08 AM
1

wtf?
/r/MensRights28/05/12 02:29 AM
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Oh crazy, you're the guy from False Rape Society, i didn't know you were on reddit. Love your work man, i hope you stick to it because you can make a huge difference.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 12:54 AM
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Radical feminism, and it's hardly a school of logic. School of supremist arrogant malicious hatred is more accurate.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 12:15 AM
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/r/mensrights, making a difference.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 12:00 AM
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Perhaps Marcella “Beth” Dresdale won't face any real repercussions, but if this story is able to reach a large crowd, and whenever someone googles Marcella “Beth” Dresdale this will come up. People need to know that things like this isn't acceptable. Unfortunately universities are a hotbed for "victim's rights", especially women and title IX requires universities to convict students with only a preponderance of evidence, aka only 50.1%. That's just too little evidence to throws a man's life away…
/r/MensRights27/05/12 09:35 PM
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Holy omg jesus christ this is so fcking great. I love this guy, this is exactly what needs to be done to set a precedent. If even one case like this gets won it will be known publicly that you risk getting sued for that crap.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 08:35 PM
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What was the motivation for your friend to show you this link? Was it an attempt to persuade you? Or was it an attempt to shock? As for the content, pretty much par for the course when i read any radical feminist blogs. This misandric supremest view is what pits feminism against the MRM.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 07:22 PM
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If you are whining on this thread about the pic i feel you should kindly unsubscribe. Trivializing the mutilation of babies is a disgusting terrible thing to do. There are thousands of men out there who suffer side effects from botched circumcisions. Just because you havent personally known anyone that this happened to, why would anyone talk about their messed up dick, doesnt mean it it doesnt affect men in a negative way. If some guy or girl wants a circumcision they should have to make that de…
/r/MensRights27/05/12 04:53 PM
3

wtf? I honestly don't follow you. I think you are reading a little too far into this. Maybe read some of my recent comments to understand how thoroughly you misunderstand me.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:57 AM
1

No i would have to disagree with this. Given the statistic above i think it's obvious we have a real problem in the U.S. when it comes to black father's rights. When you look at a number like 72% of black children are born to sinlge parent households and you compare it to every demographic imagineable it's painfully clear there are massive disparities. I see it all the time, it almost seems to be a cultural shift amongst the black community that women should take advantage of men in the reproduc…
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:55 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? The content of the video is blatant. It's a pregnant girl denigrating an ex-boyfriend while simultaneously revelling in the fact that she is maliciously pursuing financial 'retaliation'/extortion. You act as if worldstarhiphop contracted this girl into making this video on their behalf. That is hardly believeable.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:44 AM
2

Yeah i couldn't agree more. It's gonna be really hard to argue with any of those responses.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:39 AM
1

Looks like a regular youtube link to me. Is it linking you to a different site than youtube? When i click on it it loads up fine.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:37 AM
1

What link? theres a youtube link and a reddit post link.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:32 AM
2

I think this post might clear up some confusion. There is a real and clear disadvantage to black men when it comes to father's rights in the U.S.. It is kind of swept under the rug but it is definitely there. And im not just saying this because im black, im not, im white, having been through the worst of the court system i see daily evidence that black men face harsher realities than men of any other race (in terms of family law).
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:26 AM
1

The government defines a single parent as the one who holds custody of the child. Therefore your argument disappears.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:19 AM
5

including a cultural shift toward greater acceptance of single-parent child rearing. The single greatest misnomer of our time. Cultural acceptance of women using men as disposable sperm banks that provide a pay check is more accurate.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 05:17 AM
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with no real hope of being exonerated save for a confession from their accuser. Unfortunately whats done has been done, but to suggest that we can't make things better for the future is incredibly backwards. Just because a guy got falsely accused before me shouldn't negate the fact that if i get falsely accused today there should be real consequences for the false accuser. A girl should know as she is going through with this that should she be found out as a lier she faces hard time. This is the…
/r/MensRights27/05/12 12:51 AM
2

I don't get this article, is he saying he has seen examples in the MRM of men or women not behind gay rights? If he is i would have to say i have never seen it, at least not here or on avfm. I have noticed nothing but understanding and acceptance for the gay, lesbian, transgender community, at least in mens rights spaces.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 11:42 PM
1

No worries, i've made the same mistake myself. On a seperate note, this lady sounds terribly indoctrinated and misinformed.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 10:40 PM
1

And on the facts IMO, Marylou's is not a BFOQ situation. Agree to disagree on that one. I have seen novelty coffee shops in california that are very popular for having themes like sexy employees. Most starbucks i've ever been to tend to hire in the same way, i actually used to work for them and you could tell something was off about the hiring practices. I tend to have a problem with this much more than marylou's.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 09:51 PM
1

You're right it is. Mere customer satisfaction, or lack thereof, is not enough to justify a BFOQ defense, as noted in the cases Diaz v. Pan Am. World Airways, Inc.[3] and Wilson v. Southwest Airlines Co..[4] Therefore, customer preference for females does not make femininity a BFOQ for the occupation of flight attendant.[5] However, there may be cases in which customer preference is a BFOQ—for example, femininity is reasonably necessary for Playboy Bunnies.[6] Customer preference can "'be taken …
/r/MensRights26/05/12 05:07 PM
2

Nah this is a non-issue. Hooters is a prime example. People go to these places for a reason, they want to see pretty girls. That's the allure. Men don't go to strip clubs to see guys (unless there gay, in which case they don't want to see women (unless there bi, but that's beside the point)). Let's not push government down the throats of private business owners, it hampers economic progress in the longrun. If some lady wants to start a whore house of a coffee joint and there is demand for it the…
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:47 AM
-1

How so? It's not as if you can assume he doesn't have training. How exactly does it make things more dangerous, i'm assuming that's what your point was.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:26 AM
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Haha sometimes the satisfaction of telling someone what they are is enough for you even if it changes no minds. I do this sometimes.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:24 AM
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When you have an argument to make, focus on the issue. Don't let your tone or language become the issue That's true to a point, if this was a national platform of debate for actual change i would agree with you. In blogs/articles across the internet there is usually a 'tone' to accompany the argument. It makes for more interesting reading in some cases (when the tone isn't used too harshly). However, this comment wasn't even an article or blog post, it was simply a 10 sentence post talking about…
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:22 AM
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challenging popular conceptions about masculinity, confronting homophobia, sexism, racism, classism" with "admitting gender crimes Still f*ck these people. When i think of a men's centre i think of a place to discuss the miserable situation that is men's rights. Meaning bias against men when it comes to divorce law, child custody, any crime known to humanity, false rape allegations, circumcision, men's image in the media, and much more. Not saying that the previously quoted issues aren't worth d…
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:14 AM
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The Women's Centre would, however, support a men's centre on one condition, and I paraphrase: if the men used the centre to admit to their gender crimes. Seriously f*ck these people.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:16 PM
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Seriously can we stop with this? This has to be the hundredth post about the exact same thing within like a three day period.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 07:31 PM
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You can get paid by a Senator? I want some money :)
/r/MensRights24/05/12 07:23 PM
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I don't get the uproar either, it's as if they assume every women on the planet knows/cares about all the tedious details of every sport. We are all well aware a lot of women know a lot about sports but what about the women who don't particularly care for it much but their families constantly watch it? It's just sad that people are blocking out an entire audience in the name of 'maybe, maybe not sexism'.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:02 PM
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Because i didn't have anything else to add. I didn't think it would be that difficult as i have seen plenty of comments in that form.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:57 PM
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Really? the video goes along with this perfectly. Did anyone even bother too watch it?
/r/MensRights23/05/12 08:07 PM
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women are still severely underrepresented in business and politics This may be the case but it certainly isn't due to discrimination. Look at women as a whole in the U.S., the big picture, and on average women like to have babies (even if it's once). That doesn't mean it's a bad thing, it's a choice that women are now able to make and have complete and utter control over. These women who have children have to take time out of their careers to raise their child(ren). This takes you away from your…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 06:51 PM
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You are both wrong.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 06:39 PM
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That's complicated, women's rights is something that has been in the social eye (like seriously feminism got stuck in societies eye like an annoying dust flake) for a long long time. Everyone is aware women used to be at a disadvantage when it came to freedom and in some cases sexism. In fact everyone became so aware that the rights of men completely dissipated from the publics conscience. Only now, where the highest priority in the way of rights for women is establishing free birth control can …
/r/MensRights23/05/12 06:30 PM
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That's what egalitarianism is for :)
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:53 PM
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Haha that's almost as dumb as the "men shouldn't be allowed birth control cause they will forget to take it." argument.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:40 PM
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Nah i don't agree with the idea that men should stop cat calling women or giving them a good checking out with the eyes in passing, i have seen numerous accounts of older women who say they miss that exact thing from when they were younger. I check out girls in passing and sometimes i will give them a smile, you know what happens? A lot of the time they actually smile back. Now no one would ever condone touching someone that didn't want to be touched but the rest is all in fun. If some girl were…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:35 PM
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You are not getting the point. These moderate feminists, no matter how many you think there are, are not the face of feminism. The radicals who hold power and make laws designed to align with the theory of feminism are the face of feminism. Feminists who actually follow the philosophy of feminist That is what the radicals are doing, have you ever even been to a women's study class? It's filled with gross misrepresentations of facts and outright lies. Feminism's train of thought is the very same …
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:18 PM
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/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:00 PM
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Private organization says you cant see a movie unless they search all males excluding females, if a male refuses he is not allowed inside, all females are not searched. Sounds pretty blatantly sexist to me.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 01:53 PM
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Nah, i stand by the statement. I see it much too often sorry.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 01:41 PM
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So true, i can't say from my own perspective as i am white but i have seen exactly this. It's the reason why i am sympathetic for every black father. Literally the exact same thing happened to me yet i fully understand that this happens much more to black men than men of any other race, i have seen it. It's as if black women have figured out the cheat code to life and are utilizing it in mass numbers, without remorse in the slightest sense of the word. Hence this.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:58 AM
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What? The majority of reddit users are American. This results in the unfortunate trend of people assuming you live here in the U.S. after you say something that doesn't simultaneously imply you are not from here. It's not as if black people in the UK constantly get confused for African Americans. Context is everything.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:53 AM
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It's a bigger problem in the black community than it is elsewhere. Black women are encouraged more than others to jack sperm and trap men into a fatherhood they had no intention of being in. It's unfortunate but that's the reality.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:50 AM
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Eh, to a point. Don't get me wrong, i'm white and this literally happened to me it's just i see it much more rampantly in black culture. It really makes my heart go out to all the black men (even more so than the racism thing because this is actually something i can relate with, as i am in no way a racist). I posted this in another comment on this thread but i think it dovetails with what im saying. It seems to me like black women have realized this is the way to do things, and black men suffer …
/r/MensRights23/05/12 04:47 AM
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cool
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:55 AM
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I'll just leave this here.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:04 AM
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I absolutely agree. I hope my comment didn't come off as "don't ever communicate with feminists" because that is thoroughly not how i feel. I love having mature rational debate with open minded feminists, everytime i have had one of these i felt i got through and made an impact.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 02:46 AM
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Yeah its the name. We all know NAFALT, trust me it gets repeated here daily. That's fine if you're not like that but its also irrelevant unfortunately because the radicals who hold power actually do damage to men in the name of feminism. The fact that there are less radicals than rational feminists matters not because it is the radicals who are actually going out and doing these things.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 10:50 PM
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Agreed, not sure i would pay for it either.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 10:01 PM
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Ah i had never heard of that. Thanks for pointing me to that subreddit it looks pretty interesting. As for my five year old story, i stand by it but obviously it only touches on maybe one aspect of the argument.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 10:01 PM
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Yeah it was more of a culmination of events that led to me deleting it. I recently went out with friends and found all the pictures taken smeared all over my page. These were events that i didnt want publicly shoved in front of everyones faces. Its so easy to screw someone over and it doesnt even have to be intentional.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 09:58 PM
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I literally just deleted my account on facebook after reading this.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 05:29 PM
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Ok, there is a club that everyone can join, if they want, and when you're in this club you get a special helmet that let's you be mean to all boys. You get to tell them that they are all bad people for being boys, and if they say anything back you get to tell them they are just being stupid boys. Also, if you want to get a special pet to raise and love all your life you are entitled to get it whenever you feel like it then you get to make a stupid boy pay for it. Plus if the stupid boy wants to …
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:15 PM
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This makes me interested in seeing Adam Sandler's new film, i honestly think he might be able to put some issues into the mainstream with it, intentional or not.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:09 PM
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I'm not familiar with ELI5, could you elaborate if possible?
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:58 PM
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It's not "if our demands are not met" it's "if our Constitutional rights continue to be violated". That's the difference between a terrorist and a patriot. Yeah i definitely could have worded that one better. Thanks for the correction.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:46 PM
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The core ideals of feminism (patriarchy theory) are at odds with everything the MRM stands for. You must be new here because this is a constant topic here. You cannot be both because they work against eachother. Its like saying you're an atheist and a devout christian at the same time.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 02:46 PM
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Yeah i will agree with that.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 12:24 PM
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I think videos like this showcase the reason the MRM exists in the first place.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 06:05 AM
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talked to my father and I in years Can you clarify that statement?
/r/MensRights22/05/12 05:51 AM
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I have a few overweight female friends that would disgree with you. Keep in mind the average person does not have sex with a prostitute (or even had the opportunity for that matter). It's hard for anyone considered unattractive to get physically intimate with other people. The business aspect may have more to do with culture than women's sexuality. Who knows, maybe these women would like a guilt free pass to sex with a male prostitute, yet it's shunned by society, This might be the first privile…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 05:44 AM
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That's a little too violent for me. I don't think something like that is necesary, especially when we are finally beginning to be recognized in modern culture. Honestly we don't need stuff like that, because we are so incredibly right in every issue. All there needs to be now is awareness., not threats of violence if our demands are not met. We are already on the winning side, society just hasn't caught up yet.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 05:36 AM
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I'm just saying the suggestion of violence is not appreciated.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:48 AM
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Why would any self respecting MRA subscribe to anything promoting feminism? The MRM is non-feminist at most tolerable to anti-feminist at least. Feminism simply cannot go on at this point, it is a dead concept. Egalitarianism has a chance but i have a hunch it's gonna be the obvious rise in MRA voices that impede and destroy feminist theory. Only when equality has been reached will an egalitarian view rise to prominence.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:43 AM
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Context is everything my friend. Read the comments above.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:37 AM
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Really? You thought that would be a good suggestion here? It's like high schoolers learned about this place and started offering their opinion. This shit is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:36 AM
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Oh man do i hear you, i was "friends with benefits" with this girl, long story short we had a kid we had previously agreed we wouldn't have. She made my life a living hell and i thought it was bad, it was when the court sessions started that i began losing sleep and having constant nightmares. The stress of court is incomprehensible. Here you have this judge sitting there who could at a whim crush your life. One thing that kept me going was my judge thoughout the, three year $15,000, battle for …
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:19 AM
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No. they can't. I'm not going to comment on the rest because your title suggests something your point isn't. Consider this: A guy who isn't very fit but would like to have more sex but can't attract a female. Consider this: A woman who isn't very fit but would like to have more sex but can't attract a male. The ability to 'get laid' when you are at the lower end of the 'looks' spectrum diminishes across the board regadless of gender. Now, if your title was "Can hot women get laid anytime they wa…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:04 AM
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Jesus christ bro i'm so sorry. My friend recently went through a false rape accusation and served some time but got out. I can't imagine going through either of those things (yours or his experience). If that happened to me i would switch schools and never talk to anyone again, not to sound insensitive sorry. Is your case coming up soon? Have you looked for any legal advice? I have been through family court but that's it so i'm not sure how much i could offer you but if you need any advice or su…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:56 AM
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Yeah i figured i would be wrong on the time period. Thanks for the correction :)
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:50 AM
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I have noticed that too it's really encouraging. I tried to start similar askreddit posts a year ago and they never received any input and were promptly downvoted to hell.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:40 AM
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"Legal Paternal Surrender" is the now accepted term thanks to Girlwriteswhat.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:39 AM
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Yeah, i see that but you have to put yourself in the context. This looks like WW1 era, where soldiers were leaving their jobs to fight at war yet they still needed supplies and armaments. That's when women picked up the slack and took to the factories to help out the country. You had scores of women who had never encountered that type of machinery. It made sense at the time to make it gender specific. If you take that same manual and print it today in our ultrafeminist, get offended by everythin…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:37 AM
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A mother of twins born 18 months after the death of the biological father You've lost me. EDIT: Ok, vitro fertilization was used because he had "esophageal cancer just months after marrying Karen Kuttner in 1999". I understand.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:22 AM
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Depends greatly on how long you have known on top of how long you have been apart of the child's life. If you have had any significant impact positively on the child's life you would be in danger of being stuck with the child (assuming you found out it wasn't yours and you didn't want the child). Only advice i can give seems to be the only thing anyone ever says around here, "lawyer up". It takes cash to be a man in this world unfortunately.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:21 AM
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Yeah i'm not sure what they find so sexist about that one. It seems to be a well reasoned perhaps poorly worded at times attempt to aid supervisors in ushering women into the workforce. This should be seen as a great thing, in fact i would bet the women's rights movement hailed this as a groundbreaking achievement when it happened.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:17 AM
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Could we get a little more info?
/r/MensRights22/05/12 03:10 AM
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Prosecutors and police ignored tips unearthed in the case files that Carlos Hernandez, an older friend of DeLuna, who had a reputation for wielding a blade, had killed Lopez. Something about this sentence makes me question it's grammatical integrity.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 02:00 AM
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Good stuff, even if their view is incredibly wrong on all counts it's still awesome that we can start having a discussion about it.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 01:48 AM
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We need a bot that somehow does this. This is great.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 01:43 AM
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This is how i feel. It would effectively end welfare babies, eventually.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 11:17 PM
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Its not as if he could force a women to have a child. These women made the conscious decision to have children with a man they knew couldnt offer enough support to raise their children. All i see is some guy having sex with a bunch of incredibly irresponsible selfish women who wanted to have kids more than wanting to take care of and support them. Yeah hes an idiot but that doesnt excuse whats really going on here.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 11:14 PM
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Yeah me too. Also my son is three and he will randomly get erections so by the age of seven you can bet your ass it's possible.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 11:00 PM
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This comment illustrates why we need male studies so well.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 08:15 PM
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Not always, asshat.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 10:58 PM
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This is pretty much exactly how i feel word for word. The idea that alimony should last for any significant amount of time is ludicrous. When warrented it should never be for longer than say 5 years (in the event of a housewife who has been out of the workforce for any significant amount of time). In five years you can go back to school on your ex's dime and learn some new skills that will make you relevant again. Sounds fair to me, unless kids are involved then it's more complicated. Your views…
/r/MensRights20/05/12 05:22 PM
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It's clearly relevant. Like Manoffriendship said. I know you want to be all politically correct and everything but the ugliness of domestic violence perpetuated by women needs to be brought to the public's attention.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 06:40 AM
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Keep on keepin on.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 06:25 AM
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Seriously this guy has more comment karma than girlwriteswhat and she has been here over a year. I wish i had kept my original account i would have three years of karma under my belt.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 06:22 AM
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Both memes and articles on top of user submitted questions in the form of askmensrights should all be considered viable options. There could essentially be a reddit inside of reddit all about mens rights. A TIL section, an Askreddit section, a Politics section, the list could go on forever. I'm not sure if you are trying to tally up a vote or something based on down/up votes but if it is that's my opinion. Also, i don't feel that crossposting is in any way a bad thing. If the community doesn't l…
/r/MensRights19/05/12 06:12 AM
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Dude this. For child murder as well.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 04:39 AM
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I agree i would very much be interested in that figure.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 04:38 AM
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Great stuff, i love when MRAs charge into the lion den and take them all on.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 04:28 AM
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Very good read, thank you. It's like that was what i knew about feminism all along but never put it into such coherent words.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 12:29 AM
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Thanks, you and TracyMorganFreeman both deserve credit but i'm lazy as stated earlier. Alright viperz let's see some response. Can anyone crosspost this to him/her or something?
/r/MensRights18/05/12 06:14 AM
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I think people are misunderstanding where you are coming from. I went through three years of excrutiatingly stressful court battles with a random freind with benefits. i started dating my girlfriend one year into that ordeal, she provided me with the most stable support i had out of anyone. Just her being there for me before and after court and at some times there sitting next to me in court before i get called up to the bench. That's what it takes to support your boyfriend at this point. It tak…
/r/MensRights18/05/12 06:08 AM
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And who is /u/viperz? For the sake of my laziness along with the 36,000 subscribers who could potentially read this?
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:57 AM
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I hate the guys that say reposts are bad and all that but i must have seen this video a dozen times in the past week here on this subreddit. When will it stop?
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:54 AM
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I think the gender is less important than the skill set.” Thank you.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:52 AM
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I had know idea r/askmras even existed. I have been on reddit for around three years, and this subreddit for propably two and a half. I seriously doubt there is even a dent of enough awareness of that subreddit to begin to sway the majority of people's minds. I'm sorry i'm a downer today i had a long shitty day. I may be completely wrong because i'm a little drunk so take my comment with a grain of salt.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:45 AM
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And the feminists there are still unsatisfied... They think not only should they have that but be entitled to everything else. I keep hearing about a large men's rights movement over there but this seems to be a big blow to any efforts.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:41 AM
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Yeah i totally agree with this. The thought of a public attack against my business, or place of supervisory responsibility, scares me so i would not want to be caught off guard it is only fair.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:27 AM
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I think someone here on reddit should. This guy is highschool, no offense, i think we can get someone to write up a very coherent non-confrontational letter to be sent widely to all the local news outlets in the area. Hell id even send it to my cities resources as im only an hour and a halfs drive from there.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:07 AM
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Good point i wasnt even thinking about when they're older. I hope you dont think im against child support, if that's how i came across i apologize.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 02:18 AM
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No... wtf? If that were true there would be dead children lining the streets starved to death. $120 a week? That's insane, i spend maybe 40 to 50 a week for my two kids. Once you have clothes a crib and a roof over their heads its pretty simple, food and some toys every now and then.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 03:18 PM
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Lol. You're hopeless, have fun basking in your ignorance.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 03:11 AM
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A man forced into servitude for 18 years is easily comparable to rape. Fuck you for trying to deny the experiences of men everywhere. It is the most incredibly hopeless feeling i could ever imgaine, much like being raped. The whole world crushes down on you for 18 years at least with absolutely no remorse whatsoever, you lose your house and job and are reduced to a cup of noodles every night for dinner? Too bad fuck you. You cant pay the outrageous child support and alimony payments? Fuck you yo…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 02:15 AM
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It's common knowledge that everything discussed in /r/mensrights happens all the time, if it didn't there would be no need for the subreddit. Do you honestly think 36,000 people decided out of the blue to all make up stories that are consistent and constant throughout? You are denying the collective experiences of over 36,000 people, and that's just this one site, there are plenty of websites out there dedicated to these issues. For you to sit there and say all of us haven't experienced the expe…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 01:27 AM
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You sound like a college freshman majoring in women's studies. You know nothing about the reality, it may look like it would work on paper but trust me, i have been through it, you don't have the first clue what you're talking about.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 01:15 AM
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mediation you've clearly never been to mediation.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 12:26 AM
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Not sure why this got downvoted. The idea that you would leave a stay at home mom high and dry after years of effort is pretty disgusting.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 12:19 AM
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Saved.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 12:10 AM
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Wow.. just wow.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 12:07 AM
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I don't believe i have ever said the words "there is no discrimination anywhere". My whole point was that in the education system in the U.S. i find it incredibly hard to believe there is any form of discrimination against minorities. I say this because i work at my local community college bookstore, i do everything from receiving, paperwork, maintenance, supervising the floor, to cashiering and customer service. The reason i bring this up is because it just so happens to be graduation time. My …
/r/MensRights16/05/12 11:29 PM
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Yeah i think i made some assumptions i shouldn have, sorry about that. That statement about running and crying was meant to be comical.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 11:17 PM
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Thats what reddit is for :) I did challenge them however they are diehard feminists. Perhaps i did over react, either way i use facebook maybe once a month at the most so its not like it was a big deal or anything. I also don't have much friends on there anyway.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:49 PM
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I may have mistaken you for mzmarymack, sorry about that. You and i agree completely on every point it seems.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:33 PM
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I think you're getting a little too personal and emotional here, really it's just a discussion. I apologize greatly for saying "they" instead of "a Genderologist from a well respected and higly funded research institute". I figured it was implied. And no one is running away crying "discrimination," I said that because you seem to be of the mindset that discrimination is behind the cause of this disproportion you earlier offered. If you don't believe it is because of discrimination then once agai…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:30 PM
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Same here as well. I do this exact process daily.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:17 PM
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I always thought it was pronounced 'cunning wit', you learn something everyday i guess.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:15 PM
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People would be able to come here, see what sort of bastards we are, and know that we're deserving of hate. Instead they are subscribing. every. single. day.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:13 PM
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Well has there been a study in trying to figure out why that disproportion exists, or did they just find that out and run away crying "discrimination!!!"?
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:12 PM
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Im not sure what you're saying here maybe i wasn't clear. I dont agree at all with any discrimination, i just had a thought about why we might be seeing more white men receiving scholarships than say black men. Also, arent there more white men in america than other races? I've always been told white was a majority thus the reason we have minorities. With that in mind would it not make sense that on average more white men as a flat number would be attending college than men of minority at any giv…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 07:28 PM
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Because i had seen a very sexist discussion and i didnt want filth on my updates. Also i wasnt inviting debate i simply said unfriend me if you dont agree or if my view offends anyone.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 03:13 PM
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I think the argument is skewed by the fact that more white men go to college than minority men, kinda like why men have to pay more for car insurance than women even though men are better drivers statistically its just that men drive a lot more than women.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:53 PM
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My parents. I didnt have a dime to my name except for 16 hours a week retail.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:46 PM
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Facebook is a place for friends and family, at least for me. Its not a platform for debate like reddit is.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:44 PM
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Are you white? That would probably be an important piece of information for you're comments validity. I know how that might sounds but shut the fuck up and look at the context of the conversation (only meant for trolls trying to misconstrue what i said as racist).
/r/MensRights16/05/12 06:13 AM
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Thank you, that is one of the most ignorant sexist racist statemants all wrapped into one that i have ever read. It infuriates me that people think this way. I see it all the time and it never ends. I was raised as a conservative christian in a middle class family in the US. I was always taught how to respect women and hold them up on a pedestal. I was told to always help those in need especially women or children So i met a nerdy girl in highschool, i was kind of nerdy but had a lot of friends.…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 06:11 AM
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Haha i kinda like this idea. However, I don't think it will become popular.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 05:32 AM
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It's not really difficult to understand... You said something generalizing women, which we all know gets downvoted constantly on this subreddit for obvious reasons. I said "what?" while simultaneously downvoting you. Then you decided to try and be a big agressive antagonist on the internet and reply with what you said. Not as vague as one might think.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 05:26 AM
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which would probably put it automatically out of the running for anyone's dream. I know how that might have come off now but i obviously didn't mean it like that. The story repeatedly portrays men as mad rapists and in the movie im told there is a scene where she does physical permanent damage to a man's genitals in a glorious fashion. Thus being relevant to feminism (rape hysteria) and the consequences of feminism (sharen osbourne laughing and encouraging a woman who permanently damaged an ex-b…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 05:21 AM
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That's disgusting. I just want to know why. Was she suffering some kind of breakdown? Was it postpartum depression? Actually i don't care. It's time we stop coming up with "disorders" to name different ways of killing children, all in the effort of stripping away the responsibility of women's actions.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 04:36 AM
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Yeah that's what i got from it too, we may be judging a book by it's synopsis here but it sounds like the typical feminist author to me. Your point on The Hunger Games is pretty accurate, just look at the following for Girl With The Dragon Tattoo. I'm [retty sure that movie is a feminists dream.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 04:28 AM
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I set an easy standard on my facebook, I told everyone my position and said if you disagree in any way promptly delete yourself as my friend. I didn't seem to have any problems after that.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 03:38 AM
1

What?
/r/MensRights16/05/12 02:06 AM
2

There are sooooooooo many great topics out there, this is a really low level fringe issue that much of us don't really care about all that much. What about false rape allegations? I see a new guy getting out of prison after 20-30 years almost everyday it's ridiculous. How about father's rights and how they don't have any? I myself went through a great deal securing rights i should have had from the beginning. You could write about divorce law and how men's lives and livelihoods are completely ri…
/r/MensRights15/05/12 06:12 PM
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How many of these guys getting out after 20-30 years based on DNA evidence do i have to see until someone gives a flying fuck?
/r/MensRights15/05/12 06:07 PM
1

I hate comments like these. It clearly has relevance, just because it's not tightly centered around a specific subscriber's specific view does not negate it's relevance.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 06:03 PM
2

Very good read, thanks. Just as a curisosity might i inquire what you do for a living?
/r/MensRights15/05/12 06:01 PM
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I can totally see where you're coming from on that front it's just i kinda like those posts. It always feels good to me, as a man, that a woman understands the plight of males. Every single time i see that in a headline i click and see what she has to say, and that's because i really am interesting in the female opinion. As for the LadyMRAs i think thats a great subreddit but i would hate it if we lost our female presence on this one seeing as it has 36,000 subscribers and rising.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 03:15 AM
3

Thank you for dismissing that comment. I just want you to know that comments like those always get downvoted here (in case you hadnt come upon that conclusion earlier). Thank you for your post it is much appreciated.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 02:45 AM
3

I'm upvoting you reluctantly as i feel you could have made that exchange a lot more polite given some effort however referencing that subreddit always beckons an upvote.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 02:42 AM
1

I disagree, feminism is the problem. Also, the Men's rights movement started 20 to 30 years after the women's rights group started around 1910. That is, the women's rights movement started 20 to 30 years prior to 1910 (at least here in the U.S.). The top issues in my mind are child custody (being number one among all other issues), divorce law, false rape accusations, suicide rates, disparity in prison sentences, circumcision and negative stereotypes in the media.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 12:38 AM
3

I don't get it. Was there some kind of troll attack that actually made us look bad or something? Every troll effort i've seen generally boosts our subscribers.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 12:10 AM
2

Yeah i gotta say that guy takes some things a little too far. I do appreciate his devotion to the cause.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 12:09 AM
10

I think i just became .02% dumber after reading your comment.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 02:34 PM
9

This type of thinking needs to stop. It is the result of feminist hysteria. If she sees herself in the same type of scenario from which she's heard so many horror stories about... This illustrates my point accurately. just be a fucking man and cross the street. Seriously fuck you whoever you are. The outcome will be the same even if you didn't move, so why not just be the bigger person.' This reminds me of black slaves. They were told to sit in the back, not at the bar, or not at the white water…
/r/MensRights13/05/12 03:46 AM
2

Heres one
/r/MensRights13/05/12 03:37 AM
3

Men aren't getting raped nearly as much as women are in general You are severely wrong.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 02:22 AM
1

But the thing is (a) i shouldnt have to do that, and (b) women shouldnt feel threatened in an environment that's not nearly as threatening as they are told to think.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 01:45 AM
3

"Men are experiencing what women experienced when they first entered the workforce in record numbers—the pressure to 'do it all in order to have it all,' How is this remotely similar? Men are experiencing the same thing as always except now we are fighting back. Gone is the day that a man rolls over in court after a divorce where he loses his kids. As men try to be better dads, they are running into the familiar difficulty of balancing kids, career and marriage Fuck this author seriously fuck yo…
/r/MensRights13/05/12 01:34 AM
1

On behalf of the MRM, thank you and your group for raising awareness about men's rights issues. Through your trolling efforts you have unwittingly attracted more subscribers to our subreddit. It seems as though the level of trolling is a bit too obvious for the average person thus motivating them to actually check us out and see what we actually are all about. We have recieved nearly 500 new subscribers in the past couple of weeks so sincerely thank you.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 12:25 AM
7

This needs to be said more.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 12:07 AM
5

Someone please do this.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 12:01 AM
1

I was wondering if you meant that sarcastically. Im a very nurturing single father so aside from sarcasm its hard to understand what you meant.
/r/MensRights12/05/12 08:21 PM
0

/s?
/r/MensRights12/05/12 05:35 PM
1

I just have to say that after all my experience i have had exactly one good female manager and that is my current one. I have only had a male manager twice in my life and i have been in retail for 8 years. So not only do more women get promoted to manager more than men but more women suck as managers than men, in my own experience.
/r/MensRights12/05/12 01:37 PM
5

Haha this times infinity.
/r/MensRights12/05/12 01:32 PM
0

Yes.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:20 PM
1

None of what TO has done suggests he lacks the potential to be a loving father. Who said he wanted those kids when he had them? Sounds to me like a bunch of women using him to make babies that can pay for their lifestyles. Maybe given the proper opportunity he would have settled down with someone after he retired.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 04:23 PM
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Wow.. you must have zero friends.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:56 PM
1

Thats really disgusting and counter intuitive.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:29 AM
3

That's one of the points of the article and it's sad that a lot of people gloss over that. Planned Parenthood provides a multitude of services that only benefit us as a society. I am the farthest you can possibly be from a feminist but this service is clearly essential not detrimental.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 02:29 AM
10

I agree this would be a good conversation starter. I might consider crafting something of the same design. Honestly as much as most of us don't want to admit it, it's stuff like this that's really gonna start conversation and debate among the general populace. Once that spreads we can look at more permanent congressional solutions. As it stands though there simply isn't enough awareness of the specific issues so yeah this would totally be a great thing.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 02:26 AM
3

You could go to planned parenthood like i did. A whole bag for free.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 02:18 AM
5

Why the hell would this be downvoted? It's obvious we should be all about women's access to birth control and abortions. imagine if, not only do men not have any rights when it comes to reproduction but women too are limited in their ability to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. You think the amount of men who pay child support would magically dwindle? Obviously children would be born at staggering rates triggering more economical crisis and subsequently enslave more men than the mind can imagine. T…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:12 AM
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I couldn't possibly phrase that more accurately.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:05 AM
1

I'm wondering the same thing.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 11:56 PM
2

He is no longer rich. He was when he had the children but now he has no income coming in so he simply can't afford the ridiculous payments he was forced to make before. As far as him not getting custody i have a feeling he was mistakenly uninterested because of his career. Now the shit hits the fan, i feel terrible for him because there is nothing that he's done to show he couldn't be a great father. To me, it's understandable being under the pressure he was to be more involved in his career tha…
/r/MensRights10/05/12 11:30 PM
5

Upvotes for everyone!
/r/MensRights10/05/12 10:19 PM
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Yeah i know i came here to say that. Health experts remain unsure of the specific reason for the widespread incongruity, but Denney suspects that marriage offers a support system for men that's uniquely beneficial. Seriously? That is the biggest load of horse shit i have ever read. She completely misses the fact that men get financially destroyed after a divorce. If i worked hard all my life only to have half of everything i earned be given away to a scheming wentch i wouldn't want to stick arou…
/r/MensRights10/05/12 08:52 PM
6

Isnt the good men project just some white knight morons?
/r/MensRights10/05/12 02:25 PM
3

Good for you man hopefully my son will have the same luck.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 07:05 PM
2

Special ed teacher. That is fuckin sick.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 06:26 PM
5

This is something i have noticed a lot. I grew up in a christian household and my family was always very conservative. I have definitely seen a real trend among conservative christian women that they seem to oppose feminisms fight for supremacy. Of course this is just my experi.ence but im glad im not the only one who notices.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 06:24 PM
8

I was 19 as well. 15 thousand dollars in court/lawyer fees and 4 years later i have exactly 50% custody. Yaye me.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:15 PM
1

I see your point but after seeing her and reading his comment where he still refers to her as "ms. Wilson"im inclined to believe he didnt want it to happen.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 02:21 PM
1

This is the best comment in this thread. Well said.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 02:15 PM
2

Thank you, even if i may disagree with you there is still room for debate. If a comment is deleted the room for debate dwindles exponentially. Who knows maybe you'll say something profound that everyone needs to hear, maybe me or someone else will say something that influences your opinion, either way we have to let the debate be open and uncensored.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 02:47 AM
3

I disagree on looks but the more important point is that yes rape is rape. It's funny that feminists have long touted that saying yet here we are in a mensrights subreddit saying the same exact thing. I guess it's come full cirlce.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 11:49 PM
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She isn't really that attractive if anyone was interested. I just had to check because i had this image of some overweight women using her weight to force him into submission, and the thought of that horrified me. This line: “It’s bad, that when I grow up and think about my first time, I have to think about Ms. Wilson.” really got to me because he sounds like he doesn't see her sexually at all but now he's forced to and on top of that this is what he will base any future sexual interactions off …
/r/MensRights07/05/12 09:42 PM
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You really dont understand the point. Women have all the say in the matter, men have to hope she will stick to her word and not have a child. If you think thats fair i suggest you watch some girlwriteswhat on youtube. Particularly her video on legal paternal surrender.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 05:35 PM
2

Why is a mod deleting this stuff? Even if you're a troll i would like to at least have a debate. This depresses me, i wouldn't have made the choice to delete your post if i was a mod so for that i'm sorry, i think you deserve better treatment than that. Please at least participate in the debate.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 03:06 AM
1

Holy crap that was good timing.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 12:01 AM
2

Copying text in case it gets deleted or altered. "Back in my parents' day, when a man was interested in a woman, he would ask her out on a date. If she agreed, then he would dress up smart on the night in question, take her out to a nice restaurant, dazzle her all evening, then deliver her back to her home expecting nothing more than a goodnight kiss. He would open every door, pay for all expenses, and possibly bring her a small present as a token of his affection. These days, jeans and a shirt …
/r/MensRights06/05/12 11:53 PM
1

What the hell? I've never taken a girl out on a first date and expected sex. I'm definitely not a bad looking guy and i've had lot's of girlfriends but i have never met someone and immediately started having sex nor have i ever expected that. Also, this idea that modern women think they should pay their fair share on a first date is false. I have never been on a date where the girl payed even a little. As far as long term relationships go of course there is give and take but as far as the first …
/r/MensRights06/05/12 11:49 PM
1

HERnia, HEReditary (anything negative).
/r/MensRights05/05/12 06:17 AM
1

no, it's both.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 12:01 AM
1

This was a great article, thank you.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 10:53 PM
3

Its incredibly high. I've seen another report from cdc i believe that said there were 998 instances of rape in the country not including prison rapes. I forgot which report that was in but i know the number was under 1000.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 10:06 PM
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Dont ever let anyone pressure you into having children. It's entirely your choice what happens, which is a lot more than i can say for men. I wanted to wait till my 30's but got forced into it at 19.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 05:32 PM
5

I said the same thing before my son was born. It instantly changed when he first took a dump. Looking down at your own helpless child crying because he needs a change is something you instinctively do, you just do it. I wouldn't be too worried about your boyfriend however i would definitely recommend making sure he even wants children or is ready because i was given no such courtesy.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 05:16 PM
2

That's true only because he was going up against maddow who literally does this shit daily. It's incredibly easy for her to interrupt while simultaneously getting mad about her opponent interrupting her, Castellanos realized he was going to look like an ass if he pushed her even further, even though she was doing the exact same thing to him.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 08:36 PM
3

This 100 times. When i first saw the movie trailer i was offended but after i thought about it im glad hollywood is taking on the subject even if its got a comedic flare.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 06:30 PM
2

Brilliant article. I would recommend this to anyone who is ignorant on the subject.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:11 PM
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