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ksm6149/r/seduction29/08/16 01:19 PM
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The silent treatment is the quickest, easiest, and most efficient way to get ZERO accomplished. One or both of you needs to say what needs to be said to one another and talk like two mature human adults with your own respective thoughts and feelings. If she can't handle that, then you deserve someone who can. Otherwise you're both wasting each other's most valuable currency, which is time.
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:01 AM
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You need only ask yourself the very important follow-up question: Attractive to whom? As others have said you still need to work on everything else. If attractiveness of the body is the invitation to the part; attractiveness of the personality makes you the life of the party
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:42 AM
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Everyone "just looks." It's natural to observe your surroundings. You're actively doing the same thing when you notice them looking at you. Send them a little smile back or a nod and see what happens. Just a look isn't really an indicator of anything, but an action like smiling could potentially be one
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:36 PM
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Text him and say it was great meeting everyone, and ask for both the girls numbers through him. You can try to make it sound like you want to set up a group study session or some other social gathering
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:10 AM
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No editing, they were just falling down a well
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:40 PM
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There is 100% something to be said for confidence that makes you shine in situations and makes people want to be near you. It just takes a specific combination of personality traits to be fat/unhealthy AND confident. All things that can be worked on
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:11 PM
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You're not wrong, but not everyone looks for the same qualities. I have friends that do not look like they would be together from a physical standpoint but they have been happily for years. Pro tip, learn to cook and make a girl laugh
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:35 PM
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I have had to flake sometimes and I feel like it's accidentally had a positive effect SOMETIMES. But it's only because each time I did, it was genuinely my own fault double booking myself. I owned up to it each time, and if it was someone I was actually interested in, I suggested an alternative time/day. That's how they may show their interest in you and it's a way that you can reciprocate. Basically, don't do it on purpose. Try not to do it at all because you don't wanna be that guy, but when i…
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:30 AM
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This is just personal preference but since you're asking, do you really want to choose the girl who won't get let into bars because of her age? Obviously that's only temporary until she turns 21, but at the same time she may end up feeling that age difference a bit sooner than you do.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:24 PM
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I once went on a date with someone who was being very forward physically, but I didn't mind because she was attractive and I was into it. But I was holding back with reciprocating initially because it was the first date, and because of the point that you made. She took it as me being oblivious and I jokingly told her "ya never know these days, better safe than sorry" and she looked at me like I had 5 heads. So basically, ya just never know these days
/r/seduction10/11/21 09:52 PM
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Meh, you don't want a girl that's only right swiping you because she thinks you're 6'2". That's the definition of not-worth-your-effort
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:55 PM
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This is the kind of situation-specific story that I feel like more people need to hear. It puts all the other advice on this sub into perspective of how it can help you. Good for you man
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:43 AM
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If you are athletic, then it will show without you having to try. As others have said, make sure to get some properly fitting clothes so you don't have to think about it too hard
/r/seduction22/05/21 03:59 PM
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Emotions aren't supposed to make sense. Just don't let them control you
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:00 PM
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Anyone who thinks not emotionally investing in relationships is a good idea has been learning the wrong lessons
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:58 PM
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Title needs to be "Stop falling in love with people you don't know"
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:56 PM
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Meet hot horny 95s in your area
/r/seduction02/12/20 06:50 AM
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What?
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:24 PM
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This is always gonna be my battle. I am extremely attracted to girls who take initiative in general. That confidence is sexy and the thought that I'm the target is a huge turn on and a compliment to say the least. If a girl were to go out of her way to do something for me or spend time with me in some way, that's automatic extra points for them. But that's the thing... It's almost always the 5-7 range girls who are the ones to take that initiative because the 8-10s almost always have plenty of a…
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:23 PM
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That makes total sense. You guys had your "argument" and she probably had a number of other people she could turn to for attention during the time you weren't speaking. I am by no means a seddit expert but the social engineering part of it is fun. Happy to help!
/r/seduction09/07/20 07:48 PM
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She's always BEEN thinking of herself. The no contact for 3 weeks just made her forget to keep up the facade. Honestly good for her. You should do the same.
/r/seduction09/07/20 05:40 PM
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That's the stuff that kept me subscribed here for so long. The self-building was beneficial to so many areas of life, not just seduction. Everything from interviews to motivation, or just general interpersonal relationships stand to benefit from advice like that. But there's a part of me that feels like it's hard wired to just think of PUA type advice as cringy, even if I catch myself doing it
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:07 PM
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Context and knowing each other's temperament and tone make a huge difference though
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:27 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you. These are the types of posts I stay subscribed for. We should have more emphasis on how transferable a lot of the advice here is, like for interpersonal interaction, job interviews, small talk, etc.
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:26 PM
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A big advantage that you have over a lot of the guys here is the approach confidence, especially after a divorce. Speaking from secondhand experience, I know how much of a hit a divorce can take. So the fact that you were able to approach and shrug it off after something like that is the main thing to acknowledge and commend here. Good on ya mate. Keep it up and you'll see results soon enough
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:57 PM
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That's a matter of opinion. I'll lose interest in a girl real quick if I'm not sensing equal social effort. Approaching is one thing, but bitch I got other shit to do, work with me here
/r/seduction26/02/18 03:59 PM
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Depending on the area (city, college town, etc.) 4 kisses a month is perfectly reasonable. One night per weekend, or maybe 2 nights a month... Perfectly doable
/r/seduction31/01/18 05:35 AM
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Op could respond with something along the lines of "is he gonna be cool with 3rd wheeling it?" Polite, gets her mind on track with yours, and clarifies your intentions
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:19 PM
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Definitely plans. Something like "hey how've you been? (Assuming you haven't heard from her) Just got back from my trip. I was thinking we could catch up over [CASUAL_DATE] on [DAY_AND_TIME]" If she doesn't respond then move on
/r/seduction30/11/17 03:22 AM
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Probably a good call. It's not the end of the world if you don't text her. If she asks how your trip was when you get back then you can re-open things from there
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:16 PM
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If you can naturally work it into a conversation or it somehow relates to what you two have talked/joked about before (bonus points if it's something funny) then go for it. But I'd limit it to just a couple pictures just to avoid bombarding her. I'm a dude and I'd find it annoying if people kept sending me pics I didn't care about.
/r/seduction29/11/17 08:35 PM
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My personal solution (which gets my point across and also gets a laugh because I'm one goofy mother fucker): look at her with crazy eyes and just say "YEA AND THAT'S HOW YOU GET SHIT DONE"
/r/seduction13/11/17 06:11 PM
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Doesn't matter; had sex. I only ever had sex with one chubby girl. It was by far the best blowjob and only titjob of my life. When she swallowed, my asshole inner monologue thought "of course you would". Still makes me chuckle
/r/seduction01/11/17 02:39 PM
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This worked great for me a bunch of times, usually going something like this: Me: (approaches girl on phone) "you look like you're having fun!" Her: "oh haha I'm just texting my friend" (I noticed she was actually just aimlessly scrolling through Facebook a few seconds before I approached) Me: "tell your friend to come here, there are so many fun people to talk to!" Her: "oh yea? Like who??" Me: (extending my hand) "hi I'm ksm6149" Banter and flirting ensued from there It may not be the most ref…
/r/seduction24/08/17 06:32 PM
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It's like LinkedIn for me at this point...I never even look at it since I have the messenger app installed anyway. So everything on there is like 2 years old. It normally wouldn't matter except that ONE time when someone tries to stalk me. You always have that "yea I really gotta update that..." Thought in the back of your head
/r/seduction08/08/17 01:24 PM
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May wanna recalibrate your BS senses
/r/seduction13/06/17 03:28 AM
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Maybe she no longer wanted to go on the date but didn't know how to decline so she just tried every passive aggressive tactic in the book. I would've done the same as you.
/r/seduction03/04/17 06:30 PM
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Same thing used to happen to me. Then I realized I could regain an erection by going down on her again for a brief moment, even putting on the condom while taking care of her as a way of building anticipation before entry.
/r/seduction14/01/17 03:16 AM
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My best line was with a girl I knew for a while before we dated. We loved watching movies together and one of her favorites was Django Unchained. Well, after a couple weeks of palpable sexual tension, I just went in for a kiss and then paused and said "I'm sorry, I couldn't resist". If you've seen the movie, you know what scene it's from
/r/seduction06/09/16 02:46 PM
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My time is pretty much eaten up from 6:00 AM to 5:30 PM. So if I have one lined up, it's usually meeting somewhere in the city after that.
/r/seduction29/08/16 03:11 PM
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This just may be crazy enough to work. I like it
/r/seduction29/08/16 03:10 PM
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When this happens, I normally just tease. For example, there was a girl that I was texting and she joked about operating a Russian XXX cam site. So when she said she couldn't make it to a date, I responded with "ah, got a fat horny lonely man waiting for you online tonight?" She laughed and then then went on to explain the true reason, which was fine by me. But it helped to keep with the generally playful tone of conversation that we had been having.
/r/seduction29/08/16 01:14 PM
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Posts like these are the true reason I come to this sub
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:51 PM
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Of course it's real
/r/seduction18/08/16 03:12 AM
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As someone who broke up with a GF of 4 years 3 weeks ago and just today got a dinner date for next week for the first time ever (thanks to /r/seduction of course), this is truly awesome.
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:42 AM
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