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Caregiving is a part of emotional labor. Per Google, primary caregiving is “the mental activity required to manage or perform the routine tasks necessary for maintaining relationships and ensuring smooth running of a household or process”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:38 PM
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“Most likely murdered” the video is right there for the public to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:44 PM
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I’m dating a man in his early 20s. I didn’t not know his age when we first started talking. It did repulse me but because he has a more mature personality it’s been able to work. Don’t see him as a chiks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:16 AM
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Don’t think so. Legality does not always equal morality but the comment and post are talking about consent and instances with children
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:44 PM
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So having sex without consent and having sex with kids as an adult is not obviously wrong? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:15 PM
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Shoulder length or right above shoulder for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:51 AM
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Genuinely, long hair for me. Makes guys way more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:44 PM
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Have you tried getting to know them outside a romantic/sexual way? Like just talk with women as friends with no expectations
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:02 PM
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If she centered her whole life/personality around being hot then usually can’t take it well. Otherwise, perfectly fine and just going through the natural progression of life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:40 PM
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I don’t have any friends dating or sleeping with either a misogynist asshole or a homeless looking person, much less both those in one. Not to say it doesn’t happens, but this is for sure not a definite reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:00 PM
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I think very young girls (early teens) and oldest women are quickest. The latter for the reason you stated (though it’s not the only reason, many women want to protect younger women) and former because it directly impacts their lives often (having to deal with gross and often predatory older men hitting on them). Either way, I would say the quickness of being grossed out doesn’t matter. In my experience, the vast majority of women are naturally repulsed (repulsed might be too strong a word, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:52 PM
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For real. I thought that when I was 13, and I’ll still think it when I’m 60. Sure I’ll be called bitter/jealous for it once I’m older 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:19 PM
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At first, but eventually the technology will become cheaper and more available as all technology does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:32 PM
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Not arguing your point, but Pete Davidson is not a bad boy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:32 AM
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I’m purpled pilled and got -9. I consider myself a moderate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:32 PM
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Oh well makes sense. He would definitely be into foreplay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:21 PM
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Which guy? Simon? Because I watch that show and totally believe Simon to be the type to love foreplay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:37 PM
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Not really. Most of the time these women are not the same woman. Even then, most people make a distinction between serial monogamy and polyamory. And there definitely are women (and men) who are okay with being in an open relationship too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:29 PM
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Unfortunately no, the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:01 PM
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To many, if not most people, men or women, there's nothing like young love or a first love. Sex is great, but being in (mutual) love is a whole other feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:56 AM
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As a half Asian, that's understandable. Can cause a lot of confusion on the child's part (and wondering if your dad has yellow fever lol). All very logical reasons, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:30 PM
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Hey, it's all about perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:28 PM
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I feel the same the other way around (especially the CF part lol). Best of luck to you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:27 PM
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I don't really care about body count (but I am a woman). And I don't mind traditional dynamics, but I definitely couldn't date religious. I think I would like the EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:32 AM
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Source please that most people think the U.S. is the best country in the world. The people I'm around tend to rank countries by safety, public education, average income, affordability, political stability, access to healthcare, public services, freedom. Some of those areas the U.S. is great in, others not so much. The markers you cited are facts. But your stance that those markers are the most important and make the U.S. the best country in the world is an opinion. U.S. could rank a 100 differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:16 AM
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I never said otherwise. Your opinion that the U.S. is the best though, is still that. An opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:01 AM
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Haha to each their own. I lived in Virginia for two years and hated having real weather :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:05 AM
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I want a military, but it doesn't need to be the size it is now. And we certainly don't need to be spending as much money as we do on it. Again, it's all perspective. There's plenty of people who do want to socialize healthcare, and in their view, socializing it would make the U.S. better and the fact we don't have better healthcare is one of the reasons that makes the U.S. not the best. Again, all subjective depending on one's values, beliefs, and needs. I'm not here to argue about the U.S. lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:04 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that. Yeah, I guess I was talking more like the heart of LA. I know a lot of people from high school who moved there to be influencers and such. No hate to them, just not my scene haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:05 AM
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Yes, that’s still subjective though. Not everyone prioritizes the same values. I don’t necessarily care for military size or consumption. And there are other countries with those same freedoms. The US is also lacking/behind in certain areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:03 AM
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This is just in terms of dating. Also, best and free-est (depending on how you define/measure it) is subjective, though I do love this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:51 PM
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Ikea Heights? Iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:41 PM
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Good, 90 day fiancé needs material!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:40 PM
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Hockey players are literally so hot. And I can attest to both the French and Amsterdam parts haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:39 PM
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Sorry to hear that :( Dark skinned women are literally so beautiful. Ive always thought Sudanese people are generally some of the most attractive on the planet (just as one example). I’m rooting for you to find a hot European mate if you ever choose to!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:37 PM
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I’m just glad I don’t live in LA. I feel like it’s the worst there 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:33 PM
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Haha I’m a woman too. Definitely a lot of pretty girls out here, but I know a lot of them are crazy too (same with men though)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:19 PM
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Technically, Islam prohibits more than 4 wives (at least at the same time). I’m not sure about in practice though in those parts of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:18 PM
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I feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:04 PM
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Moving yourself, but only for the purposes of dating. It’s all hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:19 PM
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I believe that would be Utah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:48 PM
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Speaking as a Californian, I agree! Just a lot of crazies too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:30 PM
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True, and I agree with those choices
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:30 PM
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In this case, I was imagining one was working part time and the other full time. If both work the same hours, just earn differently then in my personal opinion, it’d be worth discussing one partner potentially cutting down their workload to do housework instead. But if both really love their jobs and don’t care, then splitting housework equally is still fair. However for me, if I was both making more and paying more of the bills, I would want my partner to start staying home and do housework ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:29 PM
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I don’t agree. 1) finances 2) looks 3) personality. I’d say the problem is that people usually overestimate the first two and underestimate the third. But that’s the general order of importance imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:26 PM
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I see why she’s your ex lol. The formula is seriously not hard. The more you depend on your s/o financially, the more you should be doing housework and domestic chores regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:56 PM
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Oh wth, I didn’t realize you were OP! My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:09 AM
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I don’t agree. It feeds some egos, but to me and many others those type of “compliments” mean nothing. The impression I get is literally just that you’re a woman and they will have sex with anything that moves. And I feel you’re projecting your male perspective/desires on women. Idc if someone random wants to have sex with me, it means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:55 AM
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Depends on the person. The world is not so simplistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:50 AM
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Well, you probably won’t no matter how many times you ask. Beauty is not very objective past the basic standards which I think you already meet (slimmer, symmetrical enough, nice skin, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:26 PM
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Are you the man in the picture? Is that actually your girlfriend? If so, does she know you’re posting these pics all over the Internet? I’d suggest you go get some help and talk to someone because judging by your comment history, you are very concerned with whether or not you guys are looksmatched. It’s not healthy to be this concerned about how relatively attractive you are in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:23 PM
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This one right here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:41 AM
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With Miranda Kerr, she definitely was/still is hot. But a lot, if not most, red pillers look down on women near/hitting “the wall” and could not fathom an attractive young billionaire choosing her over other hot and also younger models (or having a harem). Plus, Miranda was already in a relationship and had a previous child so I think alot of red pillers seemed angry that Evan would go with her instead of choosing to fuck a bunch of hot 20 year olds continuously Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:19 AM
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If a woman is wearing thongs underneath leggings, she’s probably doing it to avoid panty lines. If she’s wearing it as part of lingerie or simply under shorts/jeans, then yeah probably just to feel sexy or feminine. (Or option 3, shes run out of clean underwear lol.). I don’t think this is anything new?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:07 AM
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You can be in a frat, a business man, etc and not be toxic. I’d say in the case of frat the two overlap a lot more though, but the “willing pussy” could just be due to proximity and drunkenness to/of (often more “liberal”) women. The individuals aren’t necessarily toxic, they just have more access. I think it has a lot more due to looks/wealth than toxic masculinity. Even within a frat, in my experience it’s usually still only a few (good looking) individuals who are usually getting laid. And in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:43 PM
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Do those studies divide the percent of men who are having sex between toxic and non toxic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:29 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re trying to argue. I prioritize being a conscious reflective adult over mindlessly following biological/evolutionary instincts. I think we both agree that not everyone prioritizes similarly. I wish people did, but I realize I’m not gonna magically change anything. I still think OPs thoughts are dumb though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:35 PM
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There’s a difference between it simply already being that way and someone wanting/advocating for it to be that way. I think people should strive to be more evolved, but maybe that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:15 PM
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When people always feel the need to have more it’s sad. Doesn’t mean you can’t want more or have more. And lmao, are you gonna give me that source or not? I’m still waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:21 PM
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People who don’t always feel the need to have more to feel satisfied in life. And what’s your source that pursuing toxic masculinity leads to more pussy than avoiding it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:07 PM
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So getting sex is a higher priority than being a conscious reflective adult? Weird world. Either way, Dick wetting and being a non toxic make are not mutually exclusive. And source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:04 PM
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Ah yes, why should people want to have a higher consciousness and actively reflect on their actions? Silly me. /s Aggressiveness only works to an extent. Most women don’t want to be with someone who has to prove their aggression and “manliness” all the time. It’s cringe imo and can be both physically and mentally harmful. Plenty of non toxic men out their getting their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:56 PM
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So we should just accept things that were natural 8,000 years ago and keep doing them? You’re acting like humans, especially men, haven’t been able to develop a higher consciousness and think about their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:43 PM
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So your two types of women are either anime manga or country gun loving? There is a very wide spectrum of straight women in between. I’m just saying plenty of women like pretty boys. Google Francisco Lachowski. A classic pretty boy and I can guarantee you he has no trouble finding women interested in him 😂 and I never said I speak for all women. The only one here trying to make absolute statements is you lmao. I, a straight woman, and many of my friends all prefer pretty boys . Though some defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:20 AM
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I’m not talking about bisexual women though. I’m talking about straight women which pretty much all my friends growing up were. And one can both be a pretty boy and a football player at the same time lol. They’re not mutually exclusive (and two of the most popular guys in high school fit this description). Pretty boy just refers to softer facial features. Usually a leaner guy, longer hair, pretty eyes, cute smile, little/no facial hair, etc. These are the type of guys/boys most women/girls are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:56 AM
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I don’t think this is true. Among my group of friends growing up, there were definitely more who were into pretty boys. Most of ones I’ve seen who like “manly men” are usually at least 23. And pussymen =/= pretty boy. You can have the face/body of a pretty boy and be a Chad. Lots of girls are into pretty boys especially with the rise of Kpop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:23 AM
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Exactly, the best plastic surgery is unnoticeable. It’s a case of Kylie Jenner vs Kendall Jenner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:43 AM
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So? Men have conscious brains you know. They can choose to put in more effort and attention towards a woman’s pleasure, so of course that’s what women are going to want. Giving women pleasure is not beyond the capability of men. Edit: if we all strictly adhered only to our biological dispositions, the world would be a lot shittier than it is now. Also, yes penetrative often won’t make a woman climax that easily. But that’s why fingering and eating someone out is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:45 PM
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Yeah, this. If it was worded as who bases their worth off the interest of the opposite gender more, then I’d say it’s more equal. But romantic relationships has always been women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:16 PM
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Nah. A lot of people sell their "bodies" and time. Factory workers, construction workers, gardeners, etc. Legalizing prostitution would lessen exploitation because prostitutes could go to the police since it'd no longer be a criminal act. Stds would lessen. Although there is a lot of exploitation in the sex industry, there's also a lot of perfectly legal and consensual work happening to0. Adults should be able to choose what to do with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:05 AM
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People who want to cheat will cheat imo. Sure, social media can make it easier. But I’ve never been a fan of trying to control my partner’s behavior. I have friends who get nervous or stressed their boyfriend might be cheating, but from my perspective if he cheats, he cheats (and I’ll deal with it then). No reason to worry about it now. If I didn’t trust him and trust the fact he loves me, I wouldn’t be dating him. On the flip side, I use social media to stay connected with friends (moved around…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:11 AM
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No one said anything about cutting connections off, just not starting romantic connections when you don’t want to. You’re weird if you think people not wanting to be in a relationship at the moment automatically means they want to sleep with others 😭 Maybe she just hasn’t found someone she likes yet. And yeah she could be in a ltr where she doesn’t see the other person all the time, but maybe that’s not what she wants? You can want time for yourself and also not want to see anyone or date/sleep …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:01 AM
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This is not true. Maybe she just wants to find out more about her own personality, interests, and hobbies and be more sure/confident of herself before entering a relationship. It’s very common to want to mature as your own person before finding someone else to share your life with. And ltrs take up a lot of time and effort. Maybe she just wants to be able to focus on her own work or passions without having to worry about being around enough for someone else or consider their time/schedules. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:35 AM
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Yeah, I don’t want to rely on makeup. I’d rather rely on something that’s there 24/7 like plastic surgery (though I don’t have any and am not sure if I ever will). I want glamming up to be a fun activity, not something that feels like a chore or that I feel pressured to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:23 AM
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Of course prettier women have an easier time. I try to generally look good, but I’m also not going to go out of my way to look as good as possible at every given moment. In fact, I try to look pretty average the first date (nice, but not over the top) because I don’t want the guy to be disappointed when I inevitably don’t wear makeup, don’t have my hair done, wake up naturally beside him, etc. I don’t want a guy who’s only into me for my looks or even primarily for them. If I start at the low I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:15 AM
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"The Defining Decade" by Meg Jade. Definitely recommend for any women in their 20s. It's been a great read so far and is full of good advice (economic, romantic, personal).
/r/RedPillWives26/06/21 12:32 AM
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Yeah, fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:45 AM
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What about rape, groping, and sexual harassment? I had a feeling you would default to cat calling and look over the others. And lol, oh no, poor man can’t shout gross explicit things at an uninterested woman in public. He will absolutely crumble. Suppression of lust is banning consensual sex or making people cover up, not telling people they shouldn’t harass people on the streets who are just minding their own business. I do not want to suppress lust at all. I don’t even think cat calling should…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:42 AM
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I don’t want to “change men” as not all men harm or harass women. But I would try to create change by verbally advocating for it, calling men out on harmful behavior when I see it, bringing more awareness to the issue, trying to better enforce rules/laws against groping, sexual harassment, etc. it’s not perfect as I personally don’t have much political power or expert knowledge but it’s a start. If you have any better ideas please lmk and I will gladly start trying them out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:30 AM
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Read my edit. I had a feeling you would once again miss the point even though I’ve already said I’m talking about the harmful actions that arise out of lust, not just feeling lust itself. But maybe OP really is just talking about being shamed for having lust and that only. However, when women complain about men being lustful, they are usually not complaining about them simply feeling horny, but unwanted and harmful actions that come out of it such as groping, cat calling, rape, and sexual harass…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:27 AM
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Sex and violence do not always exist separately i.e. rape. I want to prohibit violent, harmful, and non consensual forms of sexuality that harm others, yes. And you’re simply wrong about the second part. There’s countless studies on the influence of shame on behavior. Here’s one: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25401288/ A quote: “Study 2 compared shame, guilt, and regret for events and found that although shame experiences often involved high levels of both regret and guilt, it was feelings of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:21 AM
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No, tf I don’t lol. So you’re born into a world and just have to accept everything as it is? That’s dumb. And I get that, and I do take extra steps, and it sucks having to. If you reread my comments I never said lust should be shamed, simply many of the uncalled for and harmful actions that arise out of it such groping and other forms of sexual harassment. Edit: and I can both take extra steps to protect myself and verbally call out harmful behavior when I see it simultaneously. Those two things…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:09 AM
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I agree lusting isn’t conscious, but acting on it is unless you’re no more mentally evolved than an animal. I don’t agree with shaming men for simply feeling lust though. And lol, most people in this world shame a behavior or group of people for something so I guess most people are bad people. Men should stop shaming women for sleeping around then so they can be good people. And it’s not like women (or men) only use shame as a tactic. Many harmful results of lust (groping, sexual harassment in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:58 AM
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You just agreed that lust isn’t caused by women because men will lust no matter what. Let’s say that many men get what they want and women no longer dress/act provocatively. Once again, look at Afghanistan. It ultimately won’t matter and women will be harassed/lusted after nonetheless. Also, a lot of times women aren’t dressing to evoke lust. We’re literally just living our life (maybe wearing shorts or a skirt on a hot day or a swimsuit at the beach) and men take it as a sign that they can say/…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:42 AM
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Because sometimes it’s hot and I want to wear shorts outside or wear a bikini at the beach? There definitely are times where women will purposefully dress provocatively or go over board (relative to the environment they’re in), but a lot of times women are just living their life and dressing comfortably and still get harassed by men who can’t keep it in their pants. It’s annoying. Why not just keep ones comments/hands to themselves? Edit: also it’s tiring to having to always go extra steps just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:35 AM
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Yeah, so women aren’t being hypocritical when they shame men for this. It just gets annoying having to deal with lustful men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:30 AM
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Lust isn’t caused by women. Even OP admits lust is inherent/natural to being a man. It can be provoked/increased by women, but that’s the case even when women are covered from head to toe such as in a lot of middle eastern countries. Clothing doesn’t matter, it’s how you dress relative to others. A woman in short shorts surrounded by women in long dresses will stick out like a sore thumb and provoke that lust. But if every single woman is completely covered, men will still lust nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:26 AM
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Yes, women can expect men to go against their nature. If everyone always just acted on natural whims/wants they had, the world would be in chaos. However, I agree with your point that not all men who lust are perverts and that good men can also lust. I also don’t think women should be surprised that men will stare if they look/dress more provocatively than average, but that doesn’t mean I can’t disagree with men making women feel uncomfortable/in danger such as through cat calling or other forms…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:19 AM
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Just curious, would you be willing to wait until marriage to have sex with this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:02 AM
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Seriously. Those are not the only two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:14 AM
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The irony of you calling women entitled when you’re the one who thinks a business should choose to continue to lose money, rather than switch strategies, just because you want/feel entitled to watch half naked supermodels astronomically out of your league walk down a runway. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:33 AM
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The VS fashion show has been steadily declining in viewers every year. They’re losing money and changing strategies. It’s called running a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:28 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:34 AM
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It’s both. A lot of people do love kids and would have a lot more if not for certain restraints like money and time. But a lot of people also don’t want kids and see having them as a burden. It’s just that now, thanks to a lot of different factors, people belonging to the latter group face less pressure and have the ability to not have kids which is why the number is decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:31 PM
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Not to mention the number of parents who have kids because they want a “mini me”. There is literally nothing more narcissistic than that 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:28 PM
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It wasn’t gender specific. He was just helping to raise money for victims regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:15 AM
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😂that made me laugh. But more just that they were very pro-women and not judgy/didnt talk about women in a negative way. One of them spent a lot of his time helping to raise money for rape survivors (which isn’t necessarily gender specific though) Just something I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:10 PM
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This!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:07 PM
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Very few. Most are good or okay (like they say, even bad pizza is still pretty good lol). They were great because there was a lot of foreplay and they cared about pleasing me too. Also, they were athletic (as am I) which just makes for more endurance and better sex imo. They were interesting people too. They were all very kind, open-minded, funny, and weirdly enough very feminist. Only realizing that last one now as I look back on the memory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:03 PM
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Yeah, and we have insurance as back up in case just driving safe and wearing seatbelts isn’t enough. And I agree, it’s better. But people have one night stands, and people have sex with strangers. Again, accidents happen. And again, that’s the same argument used to try to take away abortion right from women. Just because you have sex doesn’t mean you should be on the line for a child’s life for the next 18 years. Though I think it should be required to help pay for plan b or the abortion then. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:25 PM
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Asking a girl if she would like to go on a date sometime or if you can have her number would lead to an alleged assault? I really don’t think so in most cases, and not anymore than from meeting up online
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:07 PM
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Lol what exactly are you trying to argue? You’re nitpicking something that doesn’t even go against what I originally said - that overall that policy would have a positive effect. And sometime they do, sometimes they don’t. I don’t have the statistics on it and I don’t think you do either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah, sometimes they regret leaving and want to come back. Sometimes they’re just unstable and can’t make up their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:41 PM
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I never said people shouldn’t use contraceptives or take precautions. Accidents happen, people mess up. If he’s clear he doesn’t want a kid before the birth, I don’t think he should have to be responsible for it. The whole “don’t have sex unless you’re willing to be pregnant” argument is dumb in my opinion, and it’s the same argument used to take away women’s abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:40 PM
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Because the man wanted to have sex. I don’t think having sex should automatically mean having to raise and take care of a child for 18 years. This is also why I believe abortion should be a right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:18 PM
0

Sometimes, sometimes not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:17 PM
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I think it’d overall have a positive effect. A lot of single moms have to deal with men coming in and out of their lives, and a lot of kids have to deal with absent or semi-absent parents breaking promises This way, it’d be easier to just separate cleanly. And men aren’t at risk of being baby trapped
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:09 AM
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Yeah because those are just the groups of people who most often have a kid, so it’s just what I thought to write. I know a few single moms too and they don’t hold their kids over their fathers heads either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:59 AM
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I'm not leaving them out. They can belong to either group A (father says he doesn't want a baby, then she gets no fiscal help) or group B (baby daddy wanted/agreed to a baby and becomes equally responsible for it).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:52 AM
1

I don’t know what couples/families you know, but most I know certainly aren’t like this. Most moms aren’t just holding their kids over their dads heads?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:22 AM
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I do think that in situations where men clearly express they do not want a child before birth, they should not be legally bound to any fiscal responsibilities. But, if both people were wanting a baby and agreed to have one, one person should not be more responsible for it than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:57 AM
1

I said for some women, not all. It depends where you live and how attractive you are. If you look like a model or very attractive girl next door type, and live in a city with many wealthy men, it can for sure be an easy source of income. I.e. attractive sugar baby living in LA or Miami. I’m not disrespecting sex work, I know it’s still work. However, there are few jobs where you can be making $500+ (or even like $200) an hour like some women can make being a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:15 PM
1

I love that too! I definitely don't think it'd be healthy if I dated another introvert lol, I'd never get out. Thank you for this :)
/r/RedPillWives10/06/21 07:03 PM
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Lol, that's funny because we are definitely opposites in all those last ones you just listed, but have the same type and level of communication. I think you're right. I actually really do enjoy that he's more extraverted because it balances me out. I often tell him that he's the yang to my yin :) I just get worried he'll always want to go out a lot even when we're older and I'd rather have him at home.
/r/RedPillWives10/06/21 07:02 PM
1

Yeah, I agree. I think there are some cases where a good friendship can lead to romantic interest just because the mental/physical connection is so strong, but I think more often than not, it's better to just go for it and be straightforward about your intentions.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 08:45 PM
2

It's a good starting point, not always the best imo. Some people will have no intention of taking you out of the friendzone, so it can lead to false hopes and wasted time (if you're not also actually interested in just being friends). However, no matter how the relationships starts, I do think your s/o should eventually become your best friend (ideally before marriage), so you can comfortably talk about those important topics that you mentioned.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:22 PM
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I think it actually makes it easier for guys who are willing to ask a girl out irl. A lot of my girl friends have expressed that guys seem less willing to come up and talk to a girl since they're just relying on tinder. Much more flattering to be approached irl than online. And you have the chance for your personality to show, and appear more attractive than if you were just being judged off your looks. I have a guy friend who has absolutely no luck on Tinder, but has landed very attractive wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:12 PM
3

Love that. Thankfully, that's how it's been with me and my boyfriend too :) sometimes I get worried or feel like I'm holding him back, but we both do our best to do things for the other i.e. I go out on big nights with friends, and he'll stay in and spend time with me when I ask.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 04:53 PM
4

Shower thought: how much does introverted-ness/extraverted-ness matter in a relationship? Is a relationship more likely to survive if both people belong to the same group? Just something I've been thinking about lately. My bf is extraverted whereas I'm an introvert through and through.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 04:16 PM
8

I don’t see the demands women usually make as gender specific. I expect a certain standard form all adults regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:14 AM
7

I don't think this is a good analogy. No one is saying the woman is the boss persay, but this doesn't mean the woman can't want someone who sometimes just does things without having to be asked. For example, I'm fairly young (22F), so I realize not everyone my age has their shit together. However, over time, I would want/expect my partner to keep gradually progressing (like I would want/do for myself) and move onto the next stage of life. Whether it's getting finances together, working on a care…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:40 AM
3

Nah, some people just don’t want children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:47 AM
3

Clean shaven for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:44 AM
1

I love this! Also, what does "staying on your paper" mean btw? I don't think I've heard it before
/r/RedPillWives05/06/21 02:47 AM
2

I don't get what you mean by your first sentence. And yeah, feminism can differ depending on the region, but many feminists globally are sex positive. And studies show that if you want to decrease a criminal activity, you go after the demand and not the supply. Not saying I agree with it, but that could be why they target the customers more than the prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:29 AM
5

I've observed mostly the opposite - feminists argue prostitution should be legalized because it would make sex work safer for all parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:50 AM
14

Are you a woman? Just asking because your post history makes it seem like you’re a man and OP asks for standards for your own gender Edit: these standards definitely seem like they were written by a man and not a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:05 PM
1

Hm good point. I still think it has more to do with personality and upbringing or willingness to take risk (or needing money) than something inherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:21 PM
3

I’d say that comes down to family upbringing, personal experiences, and personality. Some of which is genetic, but it doesn’t directly influence or indicate someone’s moral philosophy. I also don’t think there’s that much range within each subculture or class. At least enough to constitute a link with genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:58 AM
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I think more cultural than genetic. Morality isn’t something genetically passed down unless you’re talking about antisocial personality disorder or psychopathy or something that can make you behave immorally. Society for the most part teaches us what’s “good” and “bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:44 AM
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Personal opinion and subjective morality. Some women see it as inherently immoral and/or just not worth the risks. Also, fear of societal and familial judgement/shame. Some men also just see it as inherently immoral and don’t want a woman who would choose to sell their body for money. On the other hand, for some women it’s one of the easiest ways to make money (and potentially a lot) and they don’t find it inherently immoral and likely separate romance and sex and don’t see the two as having to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:37 AM
2

Yeah it is, at least to some extent, but so is the urge to feel/be unique. Should people also stop engaging in hobbies they enjoy because others find their hobby strange? What about eating foods others find peculiar? Listening to non-mainstream music? Continuing a career in an unusual industry? Wearing only clothes that are trendy and worn by others? Even though the urge to fit in is natural, I still find it sad when others are so easily influenced by the thoughts and opinions of others. Do thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:20 AM
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If someone really didn’t care, then they wouldn’t be embarrassed. Embarrassment indicates they value the opinions of others. And lots of people want to be strange. That’s why a lot of people go out of their way to set themselves apart from others and be “quirky”. And again, by not wanting to be perceived as strange by others your motivation is still ultimately that you want the approval of, and to fit in with, the general crowd. And I think that’s a pitiful motivation to have. Want to be better …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:58 AM
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So am I. But there’s a difference between striving to be better for yourself and striving to be better just to gain the approval of others (as your original post indicates). The latter is just sad in my opinion, but hey, to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:47 AM
2

As opposed to your mindset that people should preemptively change for their partner without being told so even if their partner already likes them for who they are because the “lesser” should feel embarrassed because they have no self confidence and are easily manipulated by the thoughts/opinions of others? Sure, makes a lot of sense😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:40 AM
2

Because they already like me for who I am and don’t care so why should I? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:25 AM
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Lmao wtf. Not everyone is so shallow. You’re judging who is “lesser” simply based on looks? If this was only sex, I might think you have a point. But physical attractiveness isn’t enough to maintain a relationship. There is more to it than looks. I feel bad for people who would be embarrassed. Seems like a case of no confidence or self-esteem. I get putting in effort to look better, but 1) some people don’t care and also 2) some people still wouldn’t be able to get as hot as their partner even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:35 AM
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Have you seen someone for your depression/anxiety? I think it might help having a therapist to talk with. Anxiety and depression can be a hard thing to just "think away". I have anxiety, and I often do things even if I know I shouldn't because I can't help it and am seeking some type of validation. If you don't feel like/can't see a therapist, I would try journaling. If anything, it simply helps delay the impulse to do something by requiring you write it down or at least pushes you to reflect on…
/r/RedPillWives22/05/21 06:26 PM
1

They’re taller yes, more muscular no. There’s a pressure on kpop idols (male and female) to stay rather slim. They’re really no more muscular than a lot of everyday men you see. Kpop idols tend to have more circular/softer faces, not super strong jaws. And your comment about transgenders doesn’t makes sense. Liking soft feminine men is not the same as liking people who identify as a woman. And no, unless they’re bisexual? Lol. You can be a fan of groups for different reasons and by sexually attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:49 PM
1

There’s been a sharp increase of girls into kpop type boys (softer, more feminine)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:24 PM
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I don't want children, and I have been wondering this as well. I plan to either work and still do the brunt of housework (if I make less than him), or if I'm a stay at home wife (though I wouldn't expect to be with no children honestly) I would make sure to do all the cleaning, make his favorite meals, do the grocery shopping, wash his clothes, do any errand that he or I needs to get done. I also love gardening and home repair so maybe I could do projects that fix our place up, add value to our …
/r/RedPillWives19/05/21 10:12 PM
1

Yes, but you act as if words don't have consequences conscious or not. I never said it was harassment or actual rape (I actually said the exact opposite). I'm just saying it normalizes the behavior he is "joking" about. You can intend one thing, but another things happens instead. Intentions don't dictate outcome. I could say anything and just say it's humor. Doesn't make it right and doesn't mean I'm not contributing to something negative. And does this -> "Yeah, that’s her, with the gold. I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:56 PM
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I didn't downvote. Did it say I did? Genuinely asking because I wasn't even aware you could downvote people on here (I only see one pill clicker thing). And sure, it technically is an assumption but considering the amount of allegations this man has against him, I think my assumption is a safe bet. It's not exactly like he's going to admit to meaning it but he has settled a surprising amount of cases for allegations of rape (and of minors). Considering how powerful and wealthy he is, I doubt he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:47 PM
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That’s what the argument against locker room talk is saying though. No one is saying locker room talk is the equivalent of assault in regards to harm. But this kind of “humor” normalizes this type of behavior because people brush it off as “just a joke” or unharmful. What trump said is disgusting no matter how many times you read it (well at least to me) and whether or not it was meant to be “funny”. Dave Chapelle is satirical and I wouldn’t consider his sets locker room talk because he is inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:17 PM
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Not really. 3 dinner dates a week with someone you don’t even know would literally be exhausting. That’s so much time wasted. Im sure it happens, but most women definitely don’t go on 3 dates a week with different men lol especially week after week. If you think that, you need to spend more time with women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:53 PM
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There’s more but this is just the transcript I copied from online: Trump: "I moved on her actually. You know she was down on Palm Beach. I moved on her and I failed. I’ll admit it. I did try and fuck her. She was married." Unidentified man: "That’s huge news there." Trump: "No, no. Nancy. No this was— And I moved on her very heavily. In fact, I took her out furniture shopping. She wanted to get some furniture. I said, ‘I’ll show you where they have some nice furniture.’ I took her out furniture–…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:28 PM
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I’m open to dating lower if it is out of the persons control i.e. born poor, couldn’t pay for college and has student debt, job they like simply doesn’t pay that much (though I guess this is technically within their control, but I’m not going to fault someone for doing something they enjoy). But if the person is below my class because they’re just not financially smart or at least trying to be (i.e. fanatic spender) and/or not interested in being home owners one day and working towards that toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:25 PM
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Nah, penis size really does not matter that much like boob size does not really matter to most men. Like as long as you aren’t on one of the extreme ends (too small to feel when hard or too large that sex is uncomfortable and even painful) you’re good Edit: also orgasming for women is much more about the clit than penetration. Orgasm from penetration is a lot rarer than clit stimulation (not that they can’t happen at the same time though)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:19 PM
3

Right, the first thing that comes to mind for me now is Trump’s “just grab them by the pussy” remark.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:16 PM
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I don't know a single woman who goes on 3 dates a week with different guys. Not saying it doesn't happen, but it's definitely not as common as you seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:37 PM
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I'm vegan and don't necessarily care if my s/o is vegan (though vegan is my preference). My current bf eats everything but is open to and enjoys eating vegan food I make so it's really never an issue. This is only problem I think is if one of the individuals is extreme in views (i.e. vegan requires no meat in the house or other bbqs all the time) or in regards to kids. For example, I would have to raise my kids vegan and I know a good amount of people wouldn't be okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:08 PM
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Some of them sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:48 AM
1

Your experience isn’t facts man. And all I’m just saying is college educated women do date “down”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:27 AM
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No you shouldn’t lol. Just date whoever you want to date, it’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:10 AM
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No one is forcing you to meet people online. And those online still exist on person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:09 AM
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That’s your own personal experience, not facts. I know a lot of female lawyers who are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:09 AM
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I don’t know what that had to do with the original point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:44 AM
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Is there research to back that up? Any more than non college educated women? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:32 AM
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That’s a good point, but I still think a lot of women are okay with marrying “down”. I prefer educated and a good salary, but I don’t care whether the man makes more than me or not. I think it’s a stretch to say all college educated women are like this because many “woke” women do marry down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:31 AM
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That’s like saying to justify talking about racism you have to date someone of a different race. Dating is personal. It’s weird trying to govern other people’s relationships. I’d say those women shouldn’t exclude people because they make less (because that’d be hypocritical), but it’d also be wrong to date someone just because they make less. Should those women break up with poorer men if/when they start making more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:24 AM
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Yes, I know. My original comment still applies. Do you expect people to specifically look for someone who makes less than them to justify caring/speaking about inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:19 AM
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College educated women do date “down”. Women at elite law firms aren’t usually coming across technicians or electricians very frequently. People (excluding OLD) are more likely to meet and date people within their circles/professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:13 AM
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Nope. Reread my prior comment. If that was true then my levels of attraction to men wouldn’t change once I talk with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:04 PM
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No, personality counts for a lot. I’ve been on dates from tinder where I end up not being attracted to the guys once I actually meet him even if he is conventionally attractive. Conversely, I’ve been attracted to guys in real life that I would most likely not have swiped right on on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:55 PM
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Or they like their personality and think they make a good match. It doesn’t negate my statement that sexual attraction does not only equal physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:48 PM
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Physical attraction is not a synonym for sexual attraction. You can find how about how relatively physically attractive you are, yes, but it is not the only factor sexual attraction is made up of. Personality matters too. Couples that meet in real life vs online usually have a larger disparity in physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:38 PM
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I don’t doubt it! I’m sure you’re a great dad. I just would not intentionally want to have a child with someone at that age. I’d prefer a younger dad in his 30s/early 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:58 PM
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Wrinkly dicks are really no better than saggy boobs. And even if that was the case, why would a young girl go after someone who is that old when she could just as easily go after someone her own age and enjoy each other’s attractiveness while it lasts. You have your whole life to get old and ugly with another person. I think you’re overestimating the value of money here. If a man is 50 and a multimillionaire then yeah, he could probably get a 20 year old, but just making 100k a year is not going…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:36 AM
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Plus if I ever want kids, a 50 year old would not make the most ideal partner. Older people tend to have less energy to play with kids (not that that’s the only thing that matters, but it’s important to me). And I would want myself and the dad to be around for a long time so my kid wouldn’t end up fatherless earlier than necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:18 AM
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No, that would be horrible. Not only do I generally find men that age to be unattractive in the first place, but that would mean likely having to go 30 years of my life without the love of my life and my best friend besides me (once they die). Sounds miserable dealing with all that grief and missed time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:16 AM
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Then congrats? Lol. That doesn’t take away from my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:01 PM
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I think more people in general are staying single and childless. It’s starting to become more acceptable/normal in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:53 AM
2

I think wearing an apron is feminine and helps keep the paint off! Also, I'm not sure if others will agree but I think overalls (especially the ones with shorts) can be cute and feminine. You can get a pair specifically for painting so you only have to get paint on one pair of clothing.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/21 11:46 PM
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Didn't he cheat on her? It's in the Amazon's and their children's best interest for Jeff and McKenzie to present a united front, so that's probably why the divorce seemed very amicable (which it might have been, but still, he cheated on her).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:42 PM
1

I’m not exactly sure and yeah, I’m not too worried though. If a guy doesn’t want me, he doesn’t want me. I’m confident I’ll be able to find a kind ambitious man who’s loving. I don’t care if I necessarily marry the wealthiest/most successful to handsome man. Just a good one :)
/r/RedPillWives24/04/21 05:10 PM
1

If I do end this relationship, I was considering dating an older man for my next relationship (though of course, I can't 100% help who I fall in love with). And yeah you're right, and I believe my boyfriend would make an absolutely excellent husband personality-wise, but kids cost a lot of money and so I feel like my family's household would need to have more money/stability in order to provide the best life for our children. I would want them to have as many opportunities as possible and not be…
/r/RedPillWives24/04/21 02:57 AM
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That’s true, but I think another story with a similar premise would have just gotten popular instead. I don’t think you can put this whole thing on Shakespeare alone. This is a very pervasive concept in media and literature
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:57 AM
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I definitely don’t think William Shakespeare is solely to blame for this. I think this concept existed both in writing and real life before him. Other, older writers have written similar stories in the “destiny and fate over conflict” aspect but Romeo and Juliet just got particularly famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:49 AM
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What's an AAR? And yeahh, I agree. I think it's been some time coming for awhile now.
/r/RedPillWives21/04/21 10:32 PM
1

Yes, I think deep down I do know what I need to do, but haven't been ready/willing to accept it yet. But you're right, I am looking for validation/confidence because I'm afraid of making a mistake and regretting it. And yeah, I don't blame him for this or think he's a bad person, just not the person for me. I also don't think he's a selfish lover, just genuinely submissive but yeah, I probably can't change that as I couldn't see anyone being able to change me to become more dominant since that's…
/r/RedPillWives21/04/21 10:31 PM
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That’s true, and I do like the way I look even if I don’t necessarily look slim/slender. But I was just talking about Hollywood because the post is about actors/actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:50 PM
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That's the thing though, Hollywood often isn't after an ideal weight persay, but a certain body shape/image. And I didn't say "eat whatever you want" though. I'm talking about cutting down your intake of food and as a result, you feel tired, sick, and weak. I'm sure if you ate whatever you want, you would also feel tired, sick, and weak because you are still not eating healthy. And I'm not arguing that people will feel hungry sometimes, I'm talking about prolonged tiredness and weakness. Yes, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:31 PM
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But people have different natural equilibriums/weight. If you are feeling tired, sick, irritated but are still within a technically healthy BMI range, you are still under eating because you the food is not enough to sustain and energize you. And the metabolism thing I agree with, it doesn't affect it a lot. However, people have different body shapes and proportions. For example, I have naturally stocky/thick thighs so even though I'm a pretty low weight, they still appear big. If I wanted to fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:05 PM
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Yes, dieting usually is but that's not the point. And depends how much you're under eating. Yes, if you're eating pretty much nothing for a long period of time you will eventually just be bones, but just because you're not completely starving yourself and look like a skeleton doesn't mean you're not still under eating. Also, some people have slower/faster metabolisms than others. Someone who has a slow metabolism might have to under eat considerably to appear slender/thin like another person who…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:47 PM
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People can still be under eating and not appear horribly anorexic, doesn't mean that they're not getting enough calories to energize them and sustain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:32 PM
4

I am very enthusiastic and have not let it shown while we have sex. Just when we’re not sometimes I’ll bring it up and he hasn’t done anything to change it. Or he’ll say things like “I just want you to use me” when he’s horny but this annoys me because I’ve told him about it and he has still not started to ever take charge. He says to be turned on he likes when a girl just throws themselves on him (and he essentially does nothing but lay there) and I hate being the one always having to initiate …
/r/RedPillWives21/04/21 03:12 PM
1

You make a really good point, thank you for your insight.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/21 08:40 PM
4

Wtf? The first part yes, the second part no....
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 04:55 AM
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I second this. I have something called Misophonia and hearing the sound of people eating (even if it is quiet) drives me absolutely nuts. My fists will sometimes clench automatically if I find the noise to be particularly loud or appalling. Do you by any chance chew with your mouth open? I know that makes it worse for me. Either way though, I'm sorry you went through that. It's never fun to be yelled at. Depending on whether he's done this before, it might have just been an instinctual reaction …
/r/RedPillWives31/03/21 03:34 AM
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