kungraco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
48	Does Everyone Hate Their Ex?		kungraco	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/23 03:19 PM
1	Marital split fiscal responsibilities.		kungraco	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/23 09:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Would you date a woman who initiated her divorce? Absolutely. That said, I'd be interested in the history behind it.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 01:36 PM
1	Default judgement Her lawyer could still file an excusable neglect motion.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 08:37 AM
3	Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date" I'm over 60. I honestly can't see myself ever dating again. Granted I'm not even moved out yet but I just don't see it in the cards. Her patterns have changed and I suspect there is someone else which is fine. She has a right to do anything she wants and I hope someone makes her happy. I'm a loner and will likely be alone the rest of my life.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 01:02 PM
7	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice F I N I S H - S C H O O L.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 12:42 PM
2	What was the hardest thing for you to deal with in the divorce process? Facing my own personal failures.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/23 03:32 AM
2	On The Divorce Path The both of you are blowing this way out of proportion. Humans are flawed, we do stupid shit, we deserve some slack. My advice is to see a therapist and get some outside perspective. You both need guidance as to how to get things back on track. Your family is worth the effort. From my point of view, the issues you've described are salvageable. I hope you can find a way to keep it all together. Stop beating yourself up. I hope it works out for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 02:19 PM
4	On The Divorce Path Trust is essential but breaking up a family over vaping is insane. Get it worked out bro.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 10:52 AM
6	My first Divorce; please help. I'm in the process of packing boxes as we speak. It is surreal pulling things out of closets and drawers. Many of those items hold memories. Today I found wedding pictures I haven't seen for ages. These are moments of my life so I'll keep some I guess. I'm stronger today than I was 2 months ago. You will be stronger down the road. Accept that it takes time. Your old life is over but your new life is just beginning. You get to make it anything you want it to be. Best wishes brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/23 02:27 AM
1	I don’t know when to give up or how to leave You haven't necessarily wasted the best years of your life. We all go through trauma, it's just part of living and it's how we grow and evolve. What you have done is make some poor decisions. Choosing to stay in the relationship is one more bad choice. You can correct this now by choosing to make a decision to help yourself by moving on. It's up to you, you are responsible for how the rest of your life plays out.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 05:48 PM
3	Anxiety, Alcoholism and divorce I drank from my teens until I was 42 yrs old. When I met my wife I stopped because I wanted a life with her. I'm 20 years sober. We're now going our separate and ways I'll remain sober. No one could have forced me to stop drinking, it had to come from within. I wanted to live. You have a right to live. What you are doing now is not living. You have choices.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 03:50 PM
3	Need emotional support. I think I may have triggered the beginning of the end. Fear, sadness, anxiety...all normal emotions. Don't fight it, allow yourself to feel them. It's natural to experience these things. I'm getting close to moving out but in the time since the first discussion and now I feel stronger than I did then. I've kept dialogue open but civil and respectful and received the same in return which has helped a lot. I allowed myself to be not okay, reached out and repaired a relationship with my sister who has offered great support which also has been of tremen…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/23 05:37 AM
1	I (20m) just found out my wife (19f) went on a date with another man My gut feeling is that she checked out awhile ago. You need to understand this for yourself. Until you do you will be bouncing around in a vacuum of false hope and denial. My personal approach would be to find a way to distance myself from her emotionally and put all your resources into the child. That is where your responsibility lies. Sorry brother but you are young and you will survive this.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 04:32 PM
1	Does Everyone Hate Their Ex? Not everyone has been wronged. Many marriages end because interests changed, someone became withdrawn, each didn't work hard enough at it and through the years they drifted apart, stopped sharing with each other. I'm truly sorry that your marriage ended leaving you angry. Mine didn't. As I said we each have our own experiences. I'm anything but holier than thou, I'm just a man with a long trail of mistakes and failures behind me. I live with severe depression and debilitating anxiety but I choos…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/23 11:38 AM
2	Does Everyone Hate Their Ex? My greatest failures in life have been the greatest lessons in my life.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/23 07:52 PM
3	She now regrets her choices after her new man is treating her like shit. Enjoy the solitude and time to reflect on your new life as you travel alone to CA bro. Best wishes.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/23 10:37 AM
2	Come to the realization and its not good Not when a guy says he hates women and the advice he gets is go bone one. The OP needs someone to nudge him toward getting help. He's in a bad place and thoughtfulness and intelligence are in order. Make sense?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/23 07:48 PM
1	Come to the realization and its not good Jesus...there is another option. He should get his mind right, work on himself before unleashing his shit on some undeserving unsuspecting woman. Seriously, that didn't even cross your mind?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/23 06:36 PM
-5	Come to the realization and its not good Terrible advice for someone who says he hates women and has anger toward them.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/23 08:51 AM
1	I’ve hit rock bottom but I’m Happy to be Free. Maybe bite the bullet and offer to take on all debt as an incentive?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/23 01:48 PM
1	Probably over I don't see any scenario in which staying in this toxicity does not destroy you. How much is your mental health and emotional well being worth. Can you be a present father when your self esteem is crushed? Do you own a house? If so after selling or her buying you out, you will have funds to move. Mediators cost about $1000 give or take.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/23 12:40 PM
1	Marital split fiscal responsibilities. I appreciate the sentiment. We just came back from mediation and papers are being drawn up. House repairs were not included in the settlement.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 05:43 PM
2	Marital split fiscal responsibilities. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 02:32 PM
2	Marital split fiscal responsibilities. I appreciate your response and wish you well. I have no regrets for the years we had together. I feel pain, but accept it as part of the process. I'm not bitter, I'm not angry.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 02:31 PM
-1	Marital split fiscal responsibilities. My question was an inquiry, to gain knowledge about fiscal responsibility. Obviously I asked because it's an issue with me. As far as me wanting her to be okay, facing adversity with honor is important to me.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 07:17 AM
-1	Marital split fiscal responsibilities. I care about her and want her to be okay.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/23 11:16 PM