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Building Powerkyle_fall/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 06:03 PM
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Building Powerkyle_fall/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 08:33 PM
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Building Powerkyle_fall/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 05:19 PM
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Discussionkyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:23 PM
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Feminismkyle_fall/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:39 PM
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Discussionkyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:19 PM
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CMVkyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:56 PM
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Lifestylekyle_fall/r/seduction19/02/22 11:32 PM
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Building Powerkyle_fall/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 07:58 PM
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kyle_fall/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:29 AM
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Debatekyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:32 PM
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Discussionkyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:11 PM
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Question For Menkyle_fall/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:34 PM
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Red Pill Theorykyle_fall/r/TheRedPill24/02/26 05:41 PM
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In what ways have red pill teachings most positively affected your life?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/26 01:16 AM
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Take a dating bootcamp and hire a photographer. Don't let your past hold you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:47 AM
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They would only lock you up if they come to the conclusion that you're a danger to yourself or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:46 AM
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Nah just pay and make more money and put the women in her more feminine role. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:21 PM
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Women love to submit to a dominant man they trust and crave. 60% at least according to statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:45 PM
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Women love to submit to a dominant man they trust. If you're in a relationship with a man you peg then you wouldn't understand, you've already given up on that and settled. Or maybe not, 60% at least of women are sexually submissive and who knows what happens to the rest but I think a large proportion settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:45 PM
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I think a woman that genuinely desires her man will want him to cum in her mouth, these other side fetishes are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:19 PM
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Yes. Acts of service is one of the 5 love languages and having an active sex life I would consider as a sign of a genuine relationship. How exactly do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:21 PM
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Genders are not the same but sure I wouldn't go out of my way to help someone I wasn't genuinely desiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:20 PM
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Yes the post asked what I would need. I don't date sexual prudes and definitely don't provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:19 PM
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Genuine desire like she regularly enjoys having you cum in her mouth regularly and more mundane things like doing your laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:06 AM
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There is a difference between existing and consciously putting a lot of effort into learning cold approach and meeting women organically that way. It's a skillset that takes time and talking to hundreds of women to start getting good at. If you get rejected by 2 girls in your life and you think you're forever a loser then you have a lot to learn young padawan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:48 PM
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Have you tried to learn cold approach and go out with wings? You'd be surprised how important charisma is. Money and social status help a lot but I mean that can be said about any fascet of society. I don't know man I think you're overthinking it a bit. Find a couple girls that are down to makeout/sleep with you and you'll get over this insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:34 AM
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I couldn't possibly disagree more, being grateful for what you have is one thing but believing in your own weakness and inability to achieve what you want is just low self-esteem imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:01 AM
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Losers settle on their life. That's literally what the word means, losing at your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:33 AM
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100%. You need to be well off or work on becoming so if you want top tier women in your life. Just like being a good hunter back in the cavemen days.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/26 05:07 PM
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Why? You spend time, don't you value your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:27 AM
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Of course. You can build a great business that's working towards a meaningful mission to you. While surrounded by beautiful women. I'm not sure what your argument is or what alternative life path you're suggesting.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/26 07:17 PM
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You can be greater than you ever imagined, delusion is the death of progress though. What are you working on in terms of your dating life?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/26 05:52 PM
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I'm a big fan of the SMART method for goal setting. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant and time bound. You can ready and study red pill strategy for years. What are you looking to get out of it? Be able to have casual sex with attractive hot women in my city(8/10) within the next 6 months so I can find one(or multiple) that are compatible with my desired lifestyle and fit my values. That's a smart goal. Level up my business in the next 6 months to go from shaky unrealiable clients to a s…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/26 06:14 PM
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Your gf fantasizes about you dying so she can sleep with her ex? I’m confused why you haven’t broken up with her yet. I think incels that haven’t left their house in 2 months have a healthier sense of self than you do tbh. Go make more money, lift, travel the world and find women who appreciate you brother.
/r/askMRP11/01/26 04:00 PM
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Don't worry bro, we're all gonna make it. AI girlfriends and web 3 are coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:53 AM
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What do you define as sufficient effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:52 AM
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Get comfortable being uncomfortale if you want success in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:10 PM
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Women and the world reward successful risk takers. Men that overthink and analyze on internet forums instead of trying out the real world do not get those benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:05 PM
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Sure women in general are more risk averse than men. This is why developing leadership skills is great for your dating life as well and why building a social circle will pay dividends for years to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:58 PM
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I don't see any problem if you're not satisfied with your dating options increase your SMV. Not too complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:12 PM
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Right but you use a small sample size meaning that those same guys in the next 10 years will be or have been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:12 PM
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That's fine they can be average guys with average lives then. Not everyone needs a phenomenal lifestyle with access to the top women on earth. It appeals to me and therefore I'm working to achieve it but most of my friends aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:25 PM
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Wrong. Go outside plenty of average gen z guys dating average gen z girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:24 PM
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Top 1% of earners is 500K USD across the west. You can be very attractive to women even when short. I don't see why most men couldn't get that level of income and fitness in the next 5 years if they dedicated themselves to it. That would then open up pretty much endless dating opportunities for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:46 PM
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Plenty of average guys dating average women. If you want top tier very attractive women with a great personality that's a different story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:44 PM
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Why is it a thing worth repeating? Either become the top 1% or get an AI girlfriend or get a basic girlfriend, why is complaining on the internet gonna change this fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:00 PM
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This is why being a keyboard warrior on Reddit will always fail. Even if 90% of women don't like being approached(which is not true I'd say more like 70% of women are open to it if you're not creepy or intimidating) and you have success with 10% of women that would make a ridiculously successful casanova after only a few dozen approaches. Even if you got rejected 99% of the times you could still get multiple girlfriends a few months after a rigorous cold approach habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:02 PM
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Go get some then cowboy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:06 AM
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How is she exploiting young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:55 AM
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Is this your idea or do you have any data to back that up? I think she's potentially right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:15 AM
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Sex workers is a transactional agreement to exchange sex for resources. If you wanna claim that going 20% down that route makes you a sex worker then you're just not using the term properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:14 PM
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Right, random women that go to universities in all the big cities in the world are sex workers for going clubbing with cool promoters on the weekend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:40 PM
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Yes 100%. Money is part of a dating strategy but if you're just sitting in your room complaining then the money won't make any difference. With money you can host high end parties, build a high status brand on social media, hire a dating coach, travel the world, hire sugar babies, etc. It'll objectively for sure make your dating life better than if you were broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:44 PM
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You're delusional lol, I know a club promoter with a penthouse that cleans up with hot "ghetto women"/working class women. Money allows you plenty of perks that being broke doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:42 PM
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How many dating photoshoots have you done? How many dating coaches have you hired? How many high end events have you hosted? Plenty of options that money gives you to improve your dating life, just gotta be motivated and not have a victim mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:41 PM
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Build a social circle with guys either at your level or above it to inspire you and be your companions in your journey. Have clear goals and not just a vague notion of self-improvement. Do you want a social circle with 20 hot girls in it? A girlfriend in the next 6 months? Start a business? Get a 6 pack? Make $20k/month? Have clear goals(you can use the SMART goal setting format it's a pretty good start) and find quality people that align with those goals.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/25 09:07 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:49 PM
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The potheads are killing it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:02 AM
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I think your understanding of psychology leaves a lot to be desired
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:25 PM
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I mean sure. If you want sexy ripped young guys go date dudes in South America plenty of them there. You'll need a lot of money to support your couple's goals though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:33 PM
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I'm so confused why is this an argument. I think you're conflating the fact that it gets easier to date as you get older as a man for the causation that women like other men. It's just easier to offer value in terms of materialism, stability or even emotionality as you get your shit together as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:27 PM
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Do you have it posted somewhere else? I’d be curious to read it; I agree with the premise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:55 PM
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Why not? You don’t think rich people use the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:51 PM
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Yes I believe that signing a contract that gives her monopoly on your sex life and also incentive to fuck you over if you outearn her is an unwise move.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/25 03:34 AM
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Why can't you have wild bdsm sex with good emotionally stable women?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/25 03:29 AM
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What about a great career or business is the right one just going to come to you? Opportunity needs to meet preparation or failure(or worse a mediocre relationship) is inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/25 03:03 AM
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AI girlfriends are a good product that will satisfy a lot of men. Becoming high value is a lot of effort. I want 5-10 wives so the math needs to even out somehow.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/25 03:02 AM
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Good post, life is boring be exceptional is a good rule to live by.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/25 02:51 AM
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Don't turn being authentic into being boring. You can both be true to yourself and learn to put a fantasy twist to it to appeal to the female fantasy. Just like you would probably like a hot woman that leans into her femininity to make you feel her more.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/25 02:47 AM
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Men have burden of competence placed on us with in turn is turned into the blessings of power is we handle that burden properly.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/25 12:18 AM
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Your problem is in your psychology and lack of purpose, it doesn't really have too much to do with your girlfriend. Why haven't you elaborated on what your career is? That should be where most of your drive, motivation and yes income is coming from. If you indeed developped new high income skills in the past few years, getting back into top shape should be an easy thing to do in 6 months and now you're a high earning in shape 29 year old that can either keep his girl or dump her and go find 3 mo…
/r/askMRP18/10/25 03:24 PM
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I run a group chat for this in Toronto, dm me your IG and I'll add you to it
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:25 PM
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Yeah most men are quite useless, if you build on your skillset daily you should be above 99% of men in no time.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/25 12:32 PM
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It would be more of a harem setup than an open relationship, my vision would be to date a few bisexual women that also have some sort of relationship with eachother and be the provider of the group type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:16 PM
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I'm 6'4 and I've been outgamed by shorter guys many times. Work on your charisma, business, social circle, social media, etc like any other guy out there and you'll see pretty similar results. Justin Marc is a good example of a pickup coach who's a short indian guy doing really well for himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/25 07:25 PM
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Showcasing highlight reels is one aspect but showcasing projects you're working on is the more relevant one. Social media is a tool to find people to invite to your life. Having a sour grapes mentality is a bad take and throwing out the baby with the bathwater. Social media is only gonna become more relevant as it becomes more monetizable in a web 3 world
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 05:44 PM
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What do you mean by fake? Not everyone that goes to cool events is a millionaire if that's your point but having a cool lifestyle is not fake lol
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 05:42 PM
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Great point and explains why social media makes a lot of people depressed. They realize that their mediocre experience is not the reality for everyone. Someone they turn that into uninstall it for a social media detox? To me that's an ostrich strategy.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 07:55 PM
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I believe in polyamory I want a few different wives at the same time and to provide for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 AM
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I believe in child support but not alimony. Even if you're not legally married you can be common laws but there are ways to avoid that. You can make your own life and relationships happen on your terms, the average man just doesn't even think that's an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 AM
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It's not a legal contract that's the point, its a personal one. Make up your own its your life don't use institutions that are hundreds of years oudated to dictate your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:59 AM
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Because they think they have to. Plenty of ways to commit without putting your life on the chopping block for a woman you love. I plan to have a private marriage and pay for a ceremony for my women and their families but no legal contract. They're making a contract with me personally not the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 AM
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Yes you did you said that pathetic people base their self-worth on who they date, which is a nonsensical statement since all people base their self-worth on their accomplishments and who you date is part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:06 PM
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Confidence comes from competence. Dating is one fascet of that but generally others would be financially and career related and perhaps also having a strong solid social network. The idea that self-esteem is generated is asinine. Self-efficacy is one part(being able to deal with the challenges of the world i.e. competence) and the other part is more like trauma so like feeling deserving of good things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:01 PM
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and it's like 5% of men that make a significant improvement at confidence Where do you get that number from? I'd say over 80% will make significant improvement if they take it seriously and have the proper support systems to make a long term commitment. It's also worth noting women do not have to do this at all. Why is it worth noting that? Squirrels don't have to do this, so what? Women aren't trying to cum in females, so what does it matter what their self-improvement journey looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:27 PM
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True assimilation is important otherwise you can't really relate or mingle too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:24 PM
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I mean AI girlfriends are coming soon so you won't have to deal with human women if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:13 PM
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Not true. Plenty of ways to get out of your comfort zone and get better social skills. Pickup, stand up, improv, public speaking, making video content, making music, etc. These are all skills not fully personality attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:38 PM
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What do you mean most men and in what quantities? That's my problem with collective solutions vs individual ones, have you tried coaching men before? A lot of them have mental blocks bigger than mount everest. I used to get rejected quite a bit and I levelled up and I do well now. I've been rejected hundreds of times in cold approach now I do pretty well at it. Do I wish it had been easier? Kind of but now I get to enjoy the fruits of my labor and the pussy that comes with it so I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:02 AM
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Gen x like 45-60? In what way would you say it's unsuccessful? I'm not the best pickup guy but it's generally pretty easy to go on date with women when approaching anywhere from 1-50 of them depending on how good looking you are and how good your social skills. Online dating is much simpler but cold approach works for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:03 AM
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Have you tried it out for yourself or are you watching videos and intellectualizing it? It usually works quite well in my experience, you of course have to have your shit together outside of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:04 PM
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And do you base your opinions on any facts or just your random feelings? I base my opinions scientific research and a lot of anecdotal evidence that I weigh less heavily than what the data says.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:13 PM
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Right and do you understand the incentives of each sex when it comes to dating? You have completely different reasons for being attracted to a younger man than you than a man would have towards a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:51 PM
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Yeah that's his whole point. You don't have any incentive to be intellectually honest and think deeply about why men find younger women attractive. It's the law of incentives. Good ol Upton Sinclair Quote: "It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:32 PM
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My Instagram is the same as my Reddit name kylegfall look me up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:55 PM
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I knew I had to break up, but i also wanna fuck one last time. I meet her again, we check into a hotel - which she paid for. Fucked her and broke up with her in the span of 3-4 hrs. She cried. I mean good on you for having standards and not dating mentally ill women but that's pretty low value behaviour. Be the change you wanna see in the world.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/25 04:33 PM
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Low birth rates, high divorce rate, 25% cheating rate, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:52 PM
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I mean we can agree to disagree but yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:24 PM
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Right so you're settling for some traits over others, if that works for you more power to you but I like to have my cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:24 PM
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Right your perspective is very naive and shallow and not reflected by any stats or study available. Women usually don't like to deconstruct their own mind, ruins the fantasy for them. There are very few women in the world who would be in the type of relationship described. Because women don’t date so so men. Have you heard of an RAS flip? It's when 1 week before the breakup the girl's like yes my man is awesome he does x and y and z and after the breakup she flips and goes he was always a loser …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:08 PM
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For the most part, however, if you’re in a relationship, it’s likely a pretty good relationship, otherwise why are you in it? I don't think you have experience with many relationships other than your own. Humans relationships are mostly codependent for convenience not so much these wonderful love stories. You're right that they're not always perfect or horrible but that's like saying they're all subjective and you can't access objective metrics about them. Which you can there are plenty of stats…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:04 PM
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2 "Next" and "No" are the most powerful words a man can use. There is no woman so valuable that it is worth having her destroy your peace, your sanity, and your happiness and general well-being. No woman is worth handing the wheel to on your mission and derailing it. Don't commit or offer exclusivity to the wrong women. Spin plates that's your job, commiting to someone who doesn't deserve it will always rob you of your health eventually. Gems for sure. Every time I've deviated from those princip…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 05:48 PM
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Right and do you think on average most people are in a mediocre and probably probably codependent relationship or an exceptional one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:21 PM
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Sure and if you look at wider society so you see people in unfulfilling relationships at large. Not all of them but more than 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:59 PM
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25% cheating rate, 50% divorce rate, most people never having read a dating book, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:58 PM
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That's funny that you use that word because that's what I would say to you. Codependency and people can be attracted to a wide range of people. Doesn't mean those relationships are built on solid fundamentals. Also I would go as far as to say attraction is built in evolutionarily to help make relationships work, women can be attracted to a dude one day and not after the weekend ends. You're telling me what's fundamental attraction or some dopamine/oxytocin her brain was temporarily producing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:55 PM
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Because those women generally were with not very attractive dudes and thus settled for some relationship with a less attractive man than the ones they see in regular society? Which part of my point is so crazy to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:43 PM
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Because most humans don't study relationships and have poor communication and dating skills and enforced monogamy has been a thing and the cheating rate is 25% in relationships and 50% rates of divorce and anecdotally most couples I've seen(multiple dozens) have been mediocre at best. Do you know plenty of phenomenal couples around that have lasted for over 5+ years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:41 PM
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I speak for societal trends in society and human psychology. What do you base your opinions on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:40 PM
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Yes I believe most people settle for mediocre relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:39 PM
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If you're turned on by other humans outside of your relationship then your sexuality still needs exploring. Idk how long you've been married for but you also have 25% of cheating so you might change your mind over time or open up your relationship. I don't know if eyeing up other people means you've fully settled but I know that humans are not particularly monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:30 PM
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What? I specifically said that those women settle for low/average value males en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:26 PM
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Yes and if your mom lived in an era without enforced monogamy and put effort into her dating strategy she wouldn't have married your dad and you wouldn't have existed. I mostly masturbated when our sex life had issues I was pretty much satisfied otherwise. Most relationships are settling I agree with you so I don't get your point. Men settle for average women while they can't get the women they really want and women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:25 PM
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Right and you're on a gender dynamics subreddit. Do you think most humans study gender dynamics, communication skills, appearance maxing, datings skills, etc before they get into relationships and make informed decisions or do they just mate off randomly? My take is not only not childish but yours is not though through properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:24 PM
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Some of them, the highest smv have way more partners than the sluttiest women. I know a few men with over 500+ body counts. Doesn't appeal to me but I'm into polyamory and want 5+ wives so that's a different type of sexual appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:23 PM
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Yes and we live in a society with something called enforced monogamy. If men could most men would date 18 hot women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:21 PM
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That they want to fuck them if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:21 PM
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So in what case do you think people settle and how would it manifest?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:20 PM
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Hypergamy just means you're looking to date someone more well off/higher social status/more attractive than you. Always chasing the best option would be something like branch swinging which implies that women are never really single and before they break up a relationship usually arrange another one consciously or subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:19 PM
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Why do they eye up random dudes then lol when I was happily dating my ex that I found super hot at the time I basically was not attracted not really interested in any other woman for that whole year only after we started fighting that I started looking around. If I had to put a number to it most relationships are like 4-6/10 and especially the woman is always looking for an alternative. I’ve also seen relationships where they’re super happy and I’m completely invisible to them, they’re not all s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:29 AM
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The stats on relationship satisfaction don’t confirm what you say. Plenty of people for example stay in relationships with terrible communication because they have low self esteem and don’t know there’s an alternative possible. Look at the relationship advice subreddits for plenty of examples of this. You can say those are biased towards the bad and I’m sure they are but it’s pretty similar to what I see play out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:26 AM
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Of course it makes sense the average guy doesn’t offer much value so they lack high value men to date. The average woman is not begging random dudes to date her lol she dates them sometimes usually regrets it and then if it doesn’t work out are happily single instead of having a liability in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:24 AM
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Well unless you spent some serious time self improving and consciously working on your dating strategy probably you got into some random ass relationship instead of an ideal one. Look at the relationship advice sub for examples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:19 AM
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I mean sure but most people don’t take self improvement nor dating strategy seriously so they end up in mediocre relationships at best and I’m not surprised they go window shopping when they get out of the house. Happened to me before that’s why I know for sure it’s a real thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:18 AM
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Not always but it can and most women don’t take dating strategy seriously so I’d say most settle for some random dude that they then bond with and hopefully workouts but not the best they could’ve gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:16 AM
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Women with partners eye me up all the time when I dress up particularly good in the summer for example, if I was those dudes I wouldn't be too happy with it. Not saying they'd cheat but I do believe a lot settle. I've settled for partners myself before, its the norm but thats why I believe in self-improvement to be able to attract the people you're really into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:47 AM
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Women with partners eye me up all the time when I dress up particularly good in the summer for example, if I was those dudes I wouldn't be too happy with it. Not saying they'd cheat but I do believe a lot settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:47 AM
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Some low SMV korean, who was simping to her on discord, he wasn't even rich. Wait after watching the video that's not at all what happened. He was friends with her friends and they played games together for a while and he got with her as she broke up with an ex, that's like social circle game not really simping on her Discord.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 10:47 PM
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Very cool I'll look into that couple. Sometimes things can't be explained in terms of value but it's the most surefireway that I know of.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 10:39 PM
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Source? Closest I could find is 26% divorce rate amongst college educated people and out of those 90% of the times the women initiates it. What would the upside of such an arrangement be exactly over a private marriage?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 07:08 PM
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Why not do a private marriage? You can give your girl her special day and have a big celebration with your families without involving the government into it. And figure out how to avoid common law. Setup a trust for your kids, make it on your terms not general terms that aren't really great for either parties. You can commit in ways that aren't marriage.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 07:06 PM
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What's your favorite transformation you see in yourself as part of you red pill journey so far and if you could give 2 pieces of advice to the guy you were on Day 1 of that journey what would it be?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 06:25 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what your post is getting to but I like the title. The quickest path to power is admitting you have none and learning how it works. I've had heated arguments with basically virgins and 1-3 body count guys telling me I don't know what I'm talking about when I've outperforming them in literally every metric imaginable. There is no virtue in arrogance, weakness and definitely not stubbornness. Good luck dealing with the system you think Trump and other world leaders are gonna h…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 08:27 PM
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North American is one of the hardest dating markets in the world. I lived in Toronto for a few years and there's some of the most beautiful women you can imagine but good luck getting them. That's why I'm huge on Social Media and social circle game, basically the best way and perhaps the only way to get them outside of pay to play. Guys don't understand this is simple economics and supply and demand. If you're a dude even making $4000 USD/month online you're an 8 in terms of absolute value in mo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 08:24 PM
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How? The frat boy can't afford to travel outside of his city and probably has access to like 100 women tops and lets say he's a beast and a dozen of those end up sleeping with him. A dude in his 30s with even that networth can host his own parties and events, can do the passport bro strategy, can build a social media brand to reach thousands of women(one of my brands reached 6400 women last month) etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:59 PM
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That is the ultimate goal all of us men want. However, we need an outlet and some experience in the dry seasons. Depends what the dry season means. I believe in nofap and just using that to crush your money goals but that should take less than 6 months and then you can spend a lot of time focusing on your dating life.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 07:48 PM
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I mean sure the more the better. most people aren't impressed with multiple 6 figure net worth. that's a middle class life at best. maybe you own, but you probably rent. drive a low end BMW at most, maybe go on an international trip once every few years. eat at $100 restaurants once a week or so. I mean depends on your cashflow and income 6 figure net worth can be owning an apartment in a nice city and making $8k/month with about $2000 disposable income per month or making $20k/month on your bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:47 PM
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At that point, I was thinking, Maybe she wants me to be more aggressive, pull her in, maybe even kiss her. But I didn’t want to come off too strong. I was trying to be a nice guy since she seemed sweet. It think it was socrates who said "He who hesitates, masturbates."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 07:45 PM
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Well there is no we. I learned that individual and collective solutions are so different. I think your suggestions make sense and that + ai girlfriends/4K VR porn will be the future of 80% of men. I can't possibly see any other scenario. Even if AI utopia UBI came out tomorrow that wouldn't change the status came and some men having more access to scarce resources than the average dude that's gonna spend it on nonsense and still be broke with free money being given to him lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 06:29 PM
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Yeah I think it's achieable for most men that spend give or take 5 years being obsessed with business or a high potential careers. Most men don't do much lol they cope with their powerless existence with video games/alcohol/porn. Business is hard but simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:43 PM
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Appreciate it. Let me know other questions you have on this topic, working on a series of other posts around specific ways to build value and what that looks like in terms of dating options.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 04:42 PM
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I don't think the argument is that younger women prefer younger man, it's that as you get older as long as you've been working on yourself you'll objectively be more attractive in general. The random 22 year old frat boy can get some play in college but at 35 with a wide network, a multiple 6 figure net worth and in shape he could realistically pull tens of thousands of women from around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:28 AM
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Absolutely. Build up your value and be very careful who you give it too. I've dated women that just drained my energy and made me depressed and some that made me appreciate life and the fact that I exist on this earth; world of a difference.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 10:43 PM
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Yes it's true that the teachings are too varied and need consolidation. I think AI is gonna help a lot with it, it takes a lot of emotional labor to coach someone through their mental blocks, more than I have I usually end up flipping out and calling them a loser. Everyman can succeed if he wants to I truly believe that(apart from perhaps serious disabilities but even then I believe a lot of those will be cured in the next 15 years with biotech advances) but most of them like their comfortable m…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 06:30 PM
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I think dating is most accurately understood in terms of economics and right now the economy itself is such that the demand for men is so high that literally there is no place in the market for the average man. I do agree that this will lead to them looking for escorts, AI girlfriends, 4k VR porn, etc and I don't see a way to reconcile that as the economy will get worse not better in the next 5-10 years. I lost my virginity to a stripper and probably saw like 20 escorts in my life and it helped …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 05:41 PM
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I mostly agree with you but that's a straw man of it. I'm seriously coming to the conclusion most guys are not meant to learn game. I've been in the community for 10 years and I've met at least 100 guys trying to make it work and perhaps a couple dozen got some okay results out of it and maybe 3-4 that really manage to gain abundance like it's sold to bring. Which makes sense, human dating was always about females looking for top males outside of enforced monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 05:38 PM
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Women want it all so they don't advocate for anything in particular apart from high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:25 PM
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Why outrage? This is the continuation of project Terminator that comrade Schwarzenegger initiated many decades ago. We will create a superior race of alpha males to copulate with the females and this new race of superhumans will be used to stand up to AI. The future is looking swole
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 05:21 PM
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This is the perfect time to pivot into and create fifth wave feminism. If we manufacture merch and AI girlfriends we can easily solve this problem and rake in the dough. The first t-shirt can simply say the future is pink, that should be ambiguous enough to sell to a wide portion of the mainstream audience.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 04:31 PM
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Like 40-60k.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 04:27 PM
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I've had like 15-20 hookups and pretty much upfront with all of them or it was just never brought up. Was mostly in Toronto where there is a strong hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:17 AM
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That's a good point, operant conditioning and specifically positive reinforcement is a true concept for all humans.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 12:10 AM
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I think mostly people will be fine but I do believe that the value of human labor is going to 0 and at least people will get some form of basic UBI 2-3k to cover housing and foods and the most competent will keep fighting for assets. That's a good scenario perhaps there's a more brutal collapse that'll come before that.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/25 08:23 PM
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Why do you care what other men do? When you're high value random women respect you, when you're a random average dude yeah you're gonna struggle. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:16 AM
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Good points, if a woman gives you her attention for long periods of time it increases your shot by a lot. Two options I would add are: 1) Start your own social circle. People are more isolated than ever and they need fun/valuable things to do on their off time. I have various communities I run that give me the attention of a lot of women and it's already getting me some attraction from women that were completely out of my league previously. I hosts photoshoots and just started a run club as part…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:56 PM
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I mean I agree with him. How do you disagree? Most men are a commodity meaning that you can say for example that a construction worker is important but he's replaceable by any other construction worker. They don't stand out nor have a unique skillset. Women look for unique value otherwise well you're a replaceable by any other dude. I'm an event promoter and try to recruit my friends to help out with stuff and most of them are useless and detract value. I have to coach them beyond what is reason…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:39 PM
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He makes his money by screaming at girls on his show and by telling guys they have to work >80 hrs/week making 6-figures or else they're "low-value men" Agreed that how he treats women is over the top. What do you have against the advice of making over 6 figures?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:29 PM
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You're confusing individual outcomes vs collective ones. It's not because a civilization goes through issues that you yourself can't thrive individually. Competing in a tough environment is not for everyone. I aim to scale my businesses to multiple 8 figures in the next few years and have multiple wives. The average man cannot compete with this and nor would it make sense for him too. I almost killed myself doing it.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:18 PM
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16) Therapy will become more mainstream. The proportion of people seeing a therapist will slowly approach the proportion of people who regularly went to church (or mosque, synagogue, temple etc) decades ago, which makes sense when you consider the fundamental societal roles of both entities. Agreed. Therapy is a great tool to understand the inner workings of your mind. Just be careful to not take their recommendations too seriously and use it more as an introspection tool than coach. Take advice…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:16 PM
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Good post, would just say its a bit general for a subreddit on sexual strategy. My main question is what does the word God mean to you and why do you choose to use it in this context?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 10:08 PM
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Why? Plenty to learn in dating lol. Emotional intelligence and communication skills for example let alone stuff on more basic attraction concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:05 PM
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College/Campus is a great start to a social circle, can you share some of the takeaways you got from it?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/25 04:59 PM
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I mean true both sexes generally handle rejections poorly I’m not sure if there are stats on who takes it worse but I see your point. I don’t know what made you want to spam randomly on this subreddit but if you don’t enjoy it perhaps don’t come here. I’m gonna go to bed have a good one.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/25 07:15 AM
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Of course you can you can look at studies and sample size. Not that I have but you could objectively look at for example if getting more fit and more money after a break up increases your odds of getting into a longer and more relationship afterwards vs some other method like going travelling and w/e else.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/25 07:12 AM
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So you don’t agree on his points on self improvement? You didn’t address them just spoke in vague generalizations
/r/TheRedPill29/03/25 07:06 AM
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I agree, people can change but its a hard and painful journey where you have to face your demons and realize you're the problem in your life and not other people. Women hate rejection and usually even from themselves feels bad, some can change and become way more positive and pleasant in their 30s but usually it's more like daggers throw at the world and I assume inwardly as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 10:07 PM
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Don't think that's true. I have plenty of close friends but it's different than having a woman. It's like a warrior without a cause, having other dudes to shoot the shit with is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:47 AM
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You need a lot of status to attract attractive women though and wealth is one. Money itself is a crutch but status is hard to fake i.e. being in a high position if some form of social circle/hierarchy with a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 01:54 AM
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I mean bro if it works for you do it lol. I don't need that to pull hot girls I've worked on my social circle, online dating and social media. If you're satisfied remaining a low value male more power to you, we need those to contrast with the rest of us. Read the social circle post I just wrote, the whole point of value is you can't fake it long term especially not with social media these days. I have girls that hit me up from 4 years ago, if I started faking shit left and right I would lose th…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 12:57 AM
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I mean even then why don't I just make more money and afford one instead of replicating someone's product? The point should to be to find shortcuts not fake your way to the top, that doesn't work in my experience. You can think of specific ways that might not backfire but it's a back philosophy imo. It reminds me of the influencers going to that LA studio to shoot fake private jet pictures lol. I'm working on a deal right now to use a private jet a few times a year for client media shoots. Why d…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 12:52 AM
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Red Pill is not about fighting against the system for the sake of it, its about power strategies that the average person is too weak/too scared to utilize but they have to produce results. Rolexes generally keep their value and some like the Submariner are known to generally appreciate. It's definitely not a stupid investment especially since most luxury goods companies are looking into blockchain/NFT technology to verify authenticity so I think the knockoff market will die over the next 5 years…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 12:43 AM
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I don't think it's a good idea. If you want a Rolex why not make more money and get one? I got a few friends with them, they're a good networking tool. Are you gonna tell other men/women that your watch is fake or you're gonna lie continuously? You can't even lie about it to other men because the rest of your lifestyle won't line up. It also reduces your self-esteem internally because you know you have to fake it to attract women and you're not skilled enough to make enough money to buy one. I k…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 11:55 PM
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If that’s true then why is it that just when the supply of men able to offer value in relationships has lowered this correlates to now when less and less people date because women really have no incentive to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:58 PM
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Everything can be looked at in terms of economics, that’s what science does measure things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:56 PM
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I think people mostly dislike alimony over child support. Paying for your ex to go date another dude is a pretty punch to the stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:28 PM
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Having a great dating life is not a given. Especially if you have some masculine pride and want to date the most attractive women with some good personality. My social life and dating life sucks. I’m willing to do anything to fix it. If that means quitting my job to become a personal trainer and bartender, going to another country, another city, literally anything, I’m willing to do it. I would do that at least temporarily. Take a 3-6 month break and solely on dating. In the pickup sphere they h…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 06:06 AM
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So you're already got a nice physique with a wide social circle, crushing it at business with a nice social media following and you feel like your genetics are still holding you back? Or you're not doing much and finding excuses for it on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:55 AM
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Men will marry the Madonna and then resent her when she doesn’t want to be a whore for him. Ironically hating the part of her that kept her chaste and pure even though he wanted it for marriage. It's an interesting dilemma. I indeed don't think I could ever date a no sex before marriage type girl I would feel like they're so boring but a hedonistic women is also a dangerous proposition. I'm a fan of the idea of polyamory and dating multiple women to have the best of both worlds so don't think I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:03 PM
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Of course. What's stopping you personally from becoming a Chad though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:03 PM
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That makes sense to use it as a comfort pull. I have a lot of girls in my social circle but escalating and closing with calibration isn't always the easiest, I'll add this one to the repertoire.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 06:26 PM
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I meant more when meeting women at a night out and stopping for food somewhere instead of taking them straight back to my place doesn't seem to be a good move. I've only tried cooking for FWBs, haven't really tried it as first date move. I'll give it a go if you're saying it's worked well for you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 04:46 PM
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Agreed with your post, starting to taking my physique more seriously and it feels good. I would just say that in terms of lifestyle design your fitness won't take you far. Meaning that I know some dudes that pull like crazy but don't have great career/business propects and thus don't have great lives. Gotta be a balanced man to have an epic life.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 03:08 AM
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From my nightgame days I've always known food to be a dangerous activity because it satisfies cravings and leaves both parties lethargic and not really in a sex type of mood. I can see that not being the case in a 2nd/3rd date where you can just chill and watch TV for a bit before escalating but it seems a bit more hard to make happen on a 1st date. Have you found that to be the case or not in your experience?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 02:53 AM
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Good way to put it. Which is why monogamy is such a horrible proposition if you want to keep your woman attracted to you. I'm a big believer in polyamory and harems, especially in this day an age where most men are weak, soft and broke. If you can manage to stand up amongst the crowd and have great communication skills, you can date have your cake and eat it too with multiple women. I'm 29 now and I don't think I've seen a single monogamous relationship I would wanna be in and the ones that seem…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 02:23 AM
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I'm confused, he never said most women have trouble connecting. He said they initially have their guards up and for good reason as it's usually a bad deal. What core point of his do you disagree with?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 02:14 AM
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100%, great read.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 02:11 AM
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I would say it's pretty significant that over at third of women imagine themselves doing it and 31% know one that has. I've never seen those stats anywhere else, that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:02 PM
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Being a stable provider with boundaries that doesn't tolerate nonsense behavior is what I'd call a purple pill man. Beta male I think means give or take to agreed to be walked over for companionship in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:01 PM
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Perfect. I’ll work on a few posts that I think will bring a lot of value to the community with points I haven’t seen many people write about recently.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 07:19 PM
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Do you guys still nominate endorsed contributors? Would love to post more and get that title, I've been reading this subreddit for 13 years, it'd be cool to graduate to the other side now.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 06:28 PM
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Makes sense, appreciate it brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 06:00 PM
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Can I propose at least an exception for this one, I use my personal identity on Reddit specifically because I think it's a powerful personal branding tool and if it helps my dating life and overall impact on society. I got the idea from Michael Sartain who said the worst thing you can do as a man especially on Instagram is brand yourself as DragonLord4422 and you should basically always use your Name/Last name as your brand. It's a bit harder for people with corporate careers than can be wiped o…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 05:54 PM
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Yeah for sure, shoot me over your IG too. I swear if some of you guys aren't on Instagram you're not trying to date btw.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 05:38 PM
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What's your Instagram? DM it to me and I'll take a look at what your life looks like and give you concrete steps to make this work. You guys can follow mine and take a look at mine @kylegfall, I'm a dating photographer and run a lot of events with models now. Done shoots with dozens of guys, some of us start lower but with the relentless mindset you will succeed(literally read the book, its by the coach of Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant.) It's impossible to fail. There's something you're doing w…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 04:37 PM
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Tell that to the crypto market xD But nah for real yeah I don't see an alternative to becoming a powerful and free man and then having a powerful and free dating life. Oh wait I do, having a mediocre one like most people out there.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/25 09:30 PM
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If Owen Cook can do it, most motivated autistic men can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:09 PM
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I like women 18 years old and up and I promise you that random dudes/women hating on my dating preferences matters absolutely 0% to me lol. Mostly an echo chamber virtue signalling to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:12 PM
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Great post, I struggle with that because I work in a nerdy industry(finance & media) and I have to be technical. My plan is to build up my brand and get the cashflow going and then just profit from the results and be a troll intellectual down the line.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/25 07:51 PM
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So why can't you go on grindr and have sex at anytime as well? If you're not attracted to the average man the average woman isn't also so what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:41 PM
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Totally agree with how you fleshed it out. It's definitely a coping mechanism based out of ego. A lot of these "alpha males" don't enjoy nor are good at leadership in any meaningful way. I've heard it put that the quality of a man is his ability to garner ressources for himself and the people around him. The king archetype in the king warrior magician lover talks about being a man of abundance that allows the world to thrive and grow around him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 10:34 PM
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What about reading books is that beta? School? I kind of see your point but it's phrased so poorly that it's hard to take seriously. Every smart human should always be learning from other competent people. Critical thinking and not just absorbing ideas without thinking about them is what makes the difference between a follower and a responsible leader IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 12:15 AM
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There’s a difference between following like a puppy dog and learning from people that are where you want to be in different areas of life
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 10:54 PM
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Why not?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 10:53 PM
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I just don't agree with most of the premises set here and definitely not the OP's. Women are definitely attracted to hot guys, there are calendars with 6 packed firefighters for a reason. And men are turned on by pleasing women also, I've just used a vibrator on girls and had a great time. I think human sexuality is very complicated and hard to simplify into GOTCHAS like "you're selfish."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:51 AM
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That's an interesting point and would align with intrasexual competition and the same argument the other way that women hate on other women the most. Your fellow similar person fighting for the same things as you would be your biggest competitor, makes sense. I've taken girls from guys who were very similar in personality to me but I was just more developed in other areas so it was a hard counter matchup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:24 PM
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I don't think very many people preach this, its just meant to reduce neediness if you're an overeager guy. What does work if a woman is half interested is posting DHV content on social media of you doing cool stuff without her. It doesn't work all the time but a lot of times I've gotten random DMs from girls that were ignoring me before after I post myself hosting a cool event or hanging out with other hot girls in general. Intrasexual competition is huge in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:01 AM
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Yes society is not fully honest about this but the badass i.e. the strongest most competent dude that offers the most value to the group usually gets the women in most media because it just makes logical sense to write the script that way.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/25 08:30 PM
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That's so funny I can't believe they used the 80% of women are into only 20% of men stat lol. Gonna watch it, I'm curious what they greater point is.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/25 03:01 AM
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Then they find a mission and make a bunch of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:24 PM
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I see where we disagree now, I consider life strategy and dating to be one and the same. Having low effort hookups with random girls is a small part of a high quality dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:14 PM
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I just don't understand your point it's not very fleshed out. Then if you do sleep with her is the ongoing not a lot of effort? Plenty of guys sleep with women easily and then have terrible relationships because their life is not setup properly. I think you mean that if a single girl is not interested in you then doing a lot more for her is not worth it and you're better off finding a girl who's into you straight from the bad. Overall attracting a lot of women into your life so you can pick from…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:07 PM
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Show me even one man in the whole world that gets high quality women without effort lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:02 PM
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I don't like the general idea of your point, men have to put in a lot of effort to get women. I think a better way to put it is you should put your effort into women as a whole and in overall raising your value instead of simping for an individual woman otherwise you're just not utilizing your ressources(time, effort, money and energy) properly. Chasing women in general is not precise enough to explain the phenomenon at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:38 PM
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Alright good luck with your changing of the world, you'll need it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:03 PM
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You're the one writing the post though, if someone thats interested in the topic can't read your writing because it's too convoluted that's your loss not mine I don't really care lol but it means our thoughts are condemned to irrelevancy forever if you don't change your ways.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 09:17 PM
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Communication is a skill and if you can't make points succinctly than I suggest that this has to do more with your skill as a communicator and ultimately as a leader rather than anything to do with the topic at hand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 08:26 PM
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I'm only gonna respond to the TL;DR as the post itself is too long Patriarchal Realism as a gendered narrative structures the way that the capitalist class tries to organize and terrorize labor to as near slavedom as they can. In regards to men and misandry, this means they are tasked by master to labor for them rather than for themselves or their families. This is enforced both by the threat of force, master’s whip, and the medusa’s gaze, the distinctly feminine overture against men that they o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/25 11:10 PM
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Still think you need a high amount of cashflow to be able to afford to date the hottest women and especially if you want many at the samet time like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:16 PM
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That's fine, and those people will be low value in society and thus have less access to the tribe's resources. Imagine being in tribal days and not wanting to carry your weight and expecting great spoils out of that life strategy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:15 PM
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Divorce rate in Australia is 30% so that is better than the states. If those people are doing well then great for them but a lot of these low income marriages devolve in arguments, codepencen and cheating. I don't know what the stats are on that but it is rampant and economic instability in a relationship is still the #2 cause for divorces worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:16 AM
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Okay so feel free to describe your point succintly and I'll explain to you why I think it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:14 AM
1

Show me where all these poor and broke guys are fucking the hottest chicks continuously. I've been part of the pickup scene for 13 years and I see it only once in a while and usually that guy get sone lay or dates the girl for a month before it falls apart. Also usually PUAs fuck hot chicks that have mental issues as the stable ones aren't impulsive enough for that type of game to work on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:03 AM
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If you're not making over 100k a year as a man good luck sustaining a relationship with a woman in these days. If you'd like to debate this point go ahead I'm pretty confident on it. With the divorce rate being as high as it is I'm sure someone could make an algorithm that can count how long its gonna take for the dude making 60k to get dumped depending on other characteristics he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:02 AM
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I would say the money is necessary to have access to the hottest women they're usuall paywalled in some form. It's also mandatory for keeping the relationship going long term. PUAs are notorious for getting ghosted after one fuck because they don't have much to offer beyond their initial charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:58 PM
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Did you read the rational male and the early posts on the red pill subreddit? We can agree to disagree I'm just curious where your ideas on red pill vs blue pill come from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:54 PM
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That is a very surface level analysis. Red pill focuses on the material because it's the easiest benchmark of your power and influence as a man. If you say you have dating issues it's hard to help. If you say you have dating issues and you're broke, overweight with no strong social network it's much easier to strategize a way out of your situation. Blue pill does not say just be yourself, its more like the packaging they surround their ideology with. Their ideology is just be a good beta male an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:43 PM
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Good he needs to get his shit together so he can be valuable to any other human being let alone a high quality in demand woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:38 PM
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That's nowhere close to what the Red pill believes. Make your point and I'll debate you if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:33 PM
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Not true. The blue pill fundamentally believes in the system. I.e. a man needs to pull himself up by his bootstrap, get a good job so he can get a wife and the white picket fence. The red pill believes that this is a good start but not even close to have a powerful dating life. Being a brokie that can't afford anything and somehow still finds a woman that loves you doesn't have a pill, its just bad life strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:33 PM
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Totally agreed, a lot of these underachiever men will have to get an AI girlfriend cuz the can't support any women in the west at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:31 PM
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Alright keep being a loser. You're in luck, AI girlfriends will get really good in the next few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:30 PM
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You didn't identify my points just started avoiding it. Tell me exactly and precisely how men's systemic issues are holding back your dating life? If you wanted to you could have 5 girlfriends a year from now if you got rid of this loser mindset. You got this brother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:19 PM
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I don't know how to argue with an anonymous user with most likely little experience in this topic. Check out of my instagram its the same as my reddit kylegfall, it's a concept called IVE Irrefutable visual evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:18 PM
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What you want is an integrated life strategy that involves both your career/business and your dating/sex life. Dan Bilzerian describes it well with his book the setup, most read for any single man. Michael sartain also talks about it a lot. Think the exact opposite of an autistic genius AI programmer making $2M/year at OpenAI with 0 women in his life vs having a more decentralized job like running a marketing agency where you can make that same money but do your job worldwide and at your own dir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:10 PM
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Why do I have a great life then? Why do a lot of people that I know do? Because we don’t identify with systemic issues and find our own competitive advantages to win at the system. You’re gonna complain about it or win with me? Home sapiens came from the empty cold tundra and here we are and you’re gonna give on your dating life cuz the odds are stacked against you? Gtfo with that victim mindset, any man that adopts it is doomed to internet porn forever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:02 AM
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Lmao you sound strange I hope its working out for you in the best way possible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:12 PM
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You're not trying to address a systemic issue you're trying to create a great life for yourself. Become an economist or a politician if you wanna impact societal trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:11 PM
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I don't think you read up to the end of the post. It's more about individual dating stragy vs overall dating market trend. What do you think I portrayed inaccurately?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:16 PM
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I don't understand what your comment has to do with my post, did you read it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:16 PM
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You have to reinvest that money into building the lifestyle you desire in terms of women. How is that going for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:13 PM
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He's also an incredibly high status and powerful male in our society through his career, I wouldn't leave that out that tells the whole story of his dating situation. If he had $5 in his bank account and homeless on the street good luck attracting hot women in droves and keeping them in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:12 PM
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You're definitely somewhat right personality i.e. game is hugely important to success with women. Its gonna be tough for a dude with a great personality working 50 hours a week at a dead end job to manage to crush it with women and especially not in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:32 AM
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Yes where is this evidence you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:30 AM
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There's a multitude of ways to get more access to women that don't involve attracting these gold digging social climbers that you're talking about. Status is generally a function of competence and experience in a given social network or field so I don't see why you could possibly consider that a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:22 AM
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What are you talking about? The fact that you even view another person as some kind of thing with different specs tells me everything I need to know. Right so like they do in a job interview for example? I think your worldview around this topic is not very well thought out but I appreciate you for participating in the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:20 AM
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Which scientific data are you talking about? I think you don't have much life experience on these topics whereas I've been a dating photographer for years and have been friends with dating coaching and club promoters so I've seen a lot of this myself in real life. You're gonna have to take my word for it or try it out yourself instead of just believing random black pill youtubers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:03 AM
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Top quality is by your own metric, you can mean the most attractive, most pleasant and women with the least baggage. I don't understand your points, are you saying you don't think most men these days struggle with their dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:02 AM
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I think it works the same as last decade just more competitive and most men don't adapt. This is literally natural selection and most organisms aren't efficient enough to adapt but it's not that hard. Work on your social circle, social media and value through career building or entrepreneurship and the guys that I know that do that well myself included are doing quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:01 AM
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It's one of the greatest predictors of divorce as well as joblessness being one of the highest corrolator of being sexless in the past year for single mades between 25 and 35 in the united states. Let alone if you wanted to use extra income to spend on improving your social life and attractiveness I'd say disposable income is one of the greatest predictor of a successful sex life for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:59 AM
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Yeah they should ultimately fulfill our individual goals but all of society is a social circle so if you're at the bottom of that overall you're not gonna have a good time. It's why passport bro is such a popular and powerful strategy right now because being bottom 50% in the west still puts you at the top 10% of men socioeconomically in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:57 AM
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It's definitely not easy but it's quite simple. Join or a create a social circle around a high value activity and grow it from there. It can be an entrepreneurship club, creatives community, professional networks especially around finance, run and fitness clubs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:02 AM
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You're making a false dilemma fallacy. Most of the ways that are gonna improve our status and income are gonna let you enjoy your life outside of women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:00 AM
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Totally, the average man can get a great relationship by taking massive action and working on himself. To get top quality women though you need to pull some extra ordinary leverage by definition though especially to maintain those relationships long term and not just pull a girl for a night or a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:43 AM
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You can look at it in terms of comparative status but even in terms of objective ability to care for themselves the average man is not doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:41 AM
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Have you tried it? As a man you should learn what works from the men who are living the lives that you want, not from the advice of triggered women on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:36 AM
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Yeah I think more and more our dating marketplace will become transactional and commercialized but eventually everyone is gonna win out or get an AI girlfriend either or lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:36 AM
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There's plenty of ways to increase your lifestyle and status while working a full time job too. It's the field called social circle game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:35 AM
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Of course she can. Being a man in abundance that's confident with a great social circle, fashion and fitness on point with a solid instagram will be hugely different than a random anxious dude who doesn't work on himself and resorts to coping mechanisms instead of self development.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:07 AM
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The market trends are not what most affect an individual man's dating circumstances. It is mostly his psychology and ability to take research information that would help him and take action on that information to change his life. Most guys don't get that far but they absolutely each could.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:03 AM
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I hope to then inspire them by debunking their claims that would fool them into being pessimistic about their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:01 AM
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Right I adressed this in the original post, we're not even close to a sweeping majority of the male population that is skillet enough to produce mass value for themselves, their communities and the women in their lives to put it in simple economic terms. The average male is barely getting by and doesn't have much to offer the average woman. Our economy is much more complex and competitive than it was 40 years ago. The reason why I make the claim that it's mental blocks vs hard bottle neck in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:01 AM
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Well I don't know many so hopefully their lives is doing well but my point was moreso about them being low value in society and therefore not having access to the highest demand and value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:35 PM
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I woudn't use the word expectation moreso reality of the marketplace. It's more decentralized now so we have more freedom but you gotta put more work in. I think if individually you put the work in your dating life will be much superior to pretty much any man 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:34 PM
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That's true but there I would hope that a lot of people here are looking to learn about ways to improve their lives and not just complaining about the states of things as I see most post here be about. I doubt most men commenting here have thriving dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:33 PM
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Money also buys you a lifestyle if you invest it well so you can also take time off work to travel and meet plenty of women all around the world or build a high level social circle in your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:32 PM
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Good looking helps but most men have many other bottlenecks they need to solve like indeed media proficiency or building a cool and wide network or even just building up economic value. I like the concept of straight 7 by 1stman, just be a 7 in most main categories and you'll be way above most men. Don't need to be a 10 at any one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:31 PM
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Well if you read my post I talked about increasing your value. If you're low value yes then you don't have much to offer to most women. How to increase your value is a different conversation, if you have specific questions on that I can try and answer them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:29 PM
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No most men didn't even get to the part where they faced their own mental blocks and got through their victim mindset to the point that they can effectively work on their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:28 PM
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Right and what about the things you buy with money that improve your lifestyle and get you access to more women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:28 PM
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Men in real life are also mostly low value. I don't know many plumbers or electricians cleaning house with the ladies because they are also low status in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:04 PM
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The average man is defeated in all aspects not only dating wise but economically as well. The only solution is to have the courage to learn and get past that. I guarantee you most men will never have the balls to approach 100 women whereas that's what required to learn cold approach skills for example. That combined with raising your value through business/career climbing and working out will fix the dating lives of even non neurotypical men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:03 PM
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They are in a lot of ways. I'm not really interested in social commentary though I'm talking about ways for men to empower themselves. Female empowerment is not my specialty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:02 PM
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Yes they do to a degree as they signal competence and good social skills which come from specifically high status as opposed to a wealthy programmer for example. Money also gives you the excess ressources to hire a personal trainer and put more time in your fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:00 PM
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Absolutely! Women hate men that don't take action and so do other men that have done through the risk taking successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:59 PM
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You can have a victim mindset or a growth mindset. Emotional support is important and I do empathize with men having trouble in the dating market. Only bettering yourself and becoming a more viable mate can help solve that though. Or AI girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:59 PM
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Have you ever done some pickup or hired a dating coach? Money doesn't solve dating problems directly unless you're trying to pay for play but there is absolutely a skillset to gathering attractive single women in your life. I say this as someone who's been a dating photographer and been friends with many club promoters and I started out with being a professional league of legends player with 0 women in my life literally lol and now I know hundreds of women and have dated many.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:58 PM
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Great!
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 11:45 PM
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Totally agree, in other words be a dangerous man that has successfully dealt with danger before and triumphed and not a domesticated puppy like most of the populace these days. Cold approach is a good starter exercise as well for this as well, plenty of successful guys that are terrified of saying hi to a beautiful woman on the street. The feminine does expose weakness in the masculine. It's beautiful how the system works.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/24 08:49 PM
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Good insight, be careful about shifting blame though. You said nowhere that you lacked standards in dating a work in project rather than go for a high value hot girl. That indicates to me low self-esteem and people pleasing tendencies/validation seeking where you aim to be the nice guy that builds a girl up so that the outside world and herself tells you that you're such a good guy and she's lucky she met you, etc. I can smell it from a mile away because that's was my mindset in hindsight when d…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/24 12:16 AM
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I think this works short term but over a 20 year period you're fucked. You can't really pretend to live outside the dominance hierarchy for that long. Eventually externalities are gonna matter and if you're in that situation you're gonna have to ask her for money to bail you out from some bad situation or another and she'll realize you have no leverage in society and she's dating a cool bum.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 11:55 PM
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What's your plan if she dumps you with a low income living in Toronto of all places?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 11:53 PM
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I like it, solid post. Do you have part 2 already posted somewhere on your website?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 10:05 PM
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Culture is not meant for dominant males. If you're expecting general culture to pat your back as you aim to rise above it you're gonna be endlessly disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/24 12:46 AM
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This is a really good post on leadership and dominance. Do you have a source on the claim that testosterone can turn a gay man straight? That's pretty wild.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/24 04:43 AM
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No, 3-4 at a minimum for powerful men.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:29 PM
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I mean it's pretty special to be able to have sex with many attractive women you like. Less than 5% of men have that privilege. How many women have you approached in the last month? How did they respond to you? How many dates have you been on? The way to achieve dating goals is to make them very logical and trackable just like any other goals. Use the SMART goal setting method: specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-based.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 05:25 AM
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Great comment. Where are you spending your energy OP? You didn't talk about hobbies but if you're an extrovert who socializes a lot and when your man comes home you're too distracted to give him and give him your feminine energy then that's a much bigger deal than anything finance-related.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 08:49 PM
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Do you think it works with introverts? We're drained by social interactions like small talk with strangers; not really energized.
/r/seduction25/06/24 07:28 PM
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Curious on what you ended up doing and how it went down, can you update us?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 08:24 PM
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Do you want men only carts for the sake of double standards or because you find an actual issue/danger with having women in the same subway as you? Be careful of ideology
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:53 AM
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What would you recommend for something similar but with no drinking involved?
/r/seduction05/05/24 09:59 PM
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However, I have seen men dragged, written up by HR, and cancelled for things deemed “problematic” with little to no evidence. To pretend straight (white) men aren’t in the crosshairs of the woke firing squads cancel canon of social justice is to be blind. Totally agreed. I would also say a similar thing that nothing stops those men from starting their own business and competing on the free market which is pretty much a meritocracy. Getting fucked over by middle managers happen to straight white …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:10 PM
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True but also as a man you kind of stand above culture so why does that affect you? Like apart from internet forums where would you encounter this type of criticism? Maybe from uni friend circle or corporate mixed gender groups but my issue with complaining about culture not accepting men's dating preference is that how would it make sense as a powerful man to really worry about what random women think of who you date? I think it helps ground you but that's like if you stopped working on your bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:48 PM
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Which part of US culture is stopping you from being sexually free apart from the higher standards men have to face to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:32 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:28 PM
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Not sure what your issue is, pretty decent post.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 07:02 PM
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Ironic because what he said is very deep.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:54 AM
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Of course. Gave me a much more holistic view of the journey and my place in it. Gave me confidence in finding the methods for me to become an attractive man in an extroverted society as an introvert. Gave me a deeper understanding of the dynamics between men and women and how I could build myself up to be a more attractive man to many women long term. The actual "game" part itself is a bit hard to define but books like How to Win Friends and influence people and the Likeability factor helped me …
/r/seduction18/04/24 07:43 AM
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Brother, you're saying nonsense on a thread where you're contributing nothing to the conversation. I'm gonna stop responding because it's a waste of time but read the comment thread again and find one useful thought you said. There was none. I never said I was smarter than everyone. Just your dumbass clearly.
/r/seduction18/04/24 05:04 AM
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Clearly she's not dating you for your IQ so I'm glad you found a grounded hottie with low standards, good for you brother. You're stuck on the idea of things you need to be a better person but in the context of some Bruce Wayne type comic book reading mindset. I could listed a lot more characteristics that make someone high value like integrity, ability to not take one so seriously, strong drive, honesty, etc but in a short reddit comment I think jacked millionaire gets the picture across. You'v…
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:55 AM
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Yeah, I agree, it's definitely versatile. They build upon each other so hard to rank them but social circle game and networking game could make you millions and literally get you into any circle if you understand stuff like value arbitrage. If you literally try to walk into a group of strangers and integrate into them without having a good social media/business and general value offering then I'd say that's pretty much useless. For example, I'd take online dating and social circle over only cold…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/24 03:04 AM
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Cold approach is a A tier core skill. Social media and social circle game I'd say are S+ skills. If you're high level enough the women you want come to you. Practicing game and frame on anonymous women is a great way to do it but IMO there might be a better way. Perhaps with AI; I'm working on a product like that. An audio-based chat bot that calibrates you and ranks your social skills.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/24 09:43 PM
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Interesting; thank you for the paragraph I think you make a lot of sense. I guess we're running out of terms at this point but what would you then label someone who believes in traditional marriage but hasn't gone through the game/sexual theory part of learning and thinks women are these wonderful creatures that would never cheat or leave him if he fulfills his role as provider? That's personally what I call bluepill and the overly liberal and egalitarian person I'd just call a male feminist lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:05 PM
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I mean you're confusing the political term vs the dating term. I remember when red/blue/black pill were terms used exclusively on 4chan /pol/ back in 2015. That's what I mean, you're conflating terms. The Red Pill subreddit and community here was created in 2012. I mean you're not wrong on the political side; I'll look more into it. If you want to read more on the terms as they're used in the dating community; here's a good breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:11 PM
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True, I'd have a hard time arguing with that. Walter Weekes from Fresh and Fit is a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:49 PM
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I mean following tradition without adapting to the new reality of society is literally the definition of blue pill. You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:47 PM
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Fair enough, being agnostic on ideology is a wise decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:42 AM
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Cheers mate. Can I ask how much of the red pill philosophy you're familiar with and why you consider yourself a purple pill man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:35 PM
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Why do you need social validation to date who you want? My tip for you from a male who hates authority is consider yourself the utmost authority in your life and look for feedback from other people to not be delusional but never social consensus to validate your choices. That's how you end up miserable and mediocre like the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:34 PM
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Are these apps ever profitable outside of the match group? Stuff like Feeld for BDSM makes sense but I agree with the top comment that autistic women don't need this. ADHD part is fascinating though. Are there issues that people with ADHD have in dating that neurotypicals don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:31 PM
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1) because I've had sex before. Not saying it as fact it's just my opinion. And no not the way I look at it. It's special because of those feelings of love being involved. Having that many experiences with that many people I feel like you would become jaded and always be looking for something else. True love is not wanting anyone else because they're the one. Why is that true love? I mean hard to define; if that's what it is to you sure. I know plenty of married people that are toxic as fuck and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:50 PM
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Sex is one of the most special things in life and doing that with random people cheapens it. How do you know? If it's the most special then wouldn't sharing that love and connection with more people make it even more special? I also have to think I'm in love to have sex. Are you experienced in game? You have a blue pill mindset. It's not necessarily wrong and more power to you but I predict a lot of pain currently in your life and in your future with the way you seem to be looking at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:13 PM
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Edit: to those who downvote my comment, please explain why. I don't lash out at random women on the internet, but I'm also getting sick and fucking tired of witnessing the above and constantly being reminded how worthless I am because I am a man The only problem is that caring what other people think of you is not very masculine. Why do you care about what anonymous strangers say in response to your comments? Go workout; you'll feel much better. So many people have shit-talked me in different wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:44 AM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:15 AM
1

Then put the work in to learn game, dress properly and raise your social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:12 AM
1

Sure; why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:12 AM
0

Have you had it before or you're just hypothesizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:11 AM
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Why not put the work in to make yourself fuckable then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:11 AM
2

Send over your Instagram. Mine is the same as my username here, I'm not an anonymous keyboard warrior. You can see my lifestyle right on there.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 05:58 PM
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What is your kind? Quality relationships are harder than casual sex to get but definitely possible. What is your experience in terms of your game journey?
/r/seduction14/04/24 12:13 PM
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Show some receipts brother, easy to be a keyboard warrior. If it’s working out for you great but the majority of guys your age are struggling hard.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 12:12 PM
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No worries brother. I learn more myself everyday. Here's a good video specifically on this concept by Todd Valentine. Feel free to follow me on IG, I'm very public about stuff like this, and I post content around it myself. The handle is same as my Reddit.
/r/seduction14/04/24 05:44 AM
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Yeah, it's actually a nightmare situation for them. They don't have the past experience to know it's bullshit so they can't even have a solid enough frame to get past it. Good on you for having empathy, I need to work on that.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 05:35 AM
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Thank you for still posting Vasiliy, keep it up! Do you ever do any video content? I'd love to see these guys contest your points without the protection of the keyboard. Michael Sartain does this where if someone talks shit on text they have to turn on the webcam and say it to his face, it's always hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/24 05:33 AM
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unclevasya Yo curious what your thoughts on these gen z and this new wave of men. I just don't see how they're gonna compete in the dating marketplace. Dating when I was first in the red pill around 2015 was already hard then but at least people weren't delusional. I just don't see how these guys don't end up paying $50/month for a chatgpt VR girlfriend; I'm repulsed by them and I generally love all humans and don't really take this stuff too seriously. A woman who has to get impregnated by thes…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/24 05:30 AM
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Nothing I hate more than anonymous reddit losers talking shit. Paradoxically you say stuff that's so cringy while calling it cringe, if I took myself less seriously I'd have a brain aneurysm.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/24 05:27 AM
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Which part don't you understand? This is a fairly commonly talked about concept in the community; you must be new here. Here's a video Todd Valentine did on it.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:57 AM
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I don't honestly understand your question but I assume you mean why are men and women held to a different standard? I'm putting in daily work to become the most powerful man I can be so that I can find multiple women to impregnate and carry my children and take care of them all. Females don't think like this. I will also choose women that are well-developed and not liabilities to my life but I don't expect them to go through the same path to self-transformation as me. At the end of the day, I'm …
/r/seduction12/04/24 10:04 PM
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I can expand if you have a question but basically there's the concept of absolute value and relative value. You working on your career/business/fitness is your absolute value; i.e. the value you hold overall in society. Relative value is the value you buildup in a social interaction or setting. So if you're a jacked millionaire and you end up stumbling your words and urinating yourself in front of a hot girl then your relative value would get destroyed in that moment but the next day you're stil…
/r/seduction12/04/24 10:01 PM
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If there was, they wouldn’t lose interest in a man that shows interest. They don't. If you have good game you showing interest while presenting value and not being needy will make them swoon. They wouldn’t fall for the guy who doesn’t give two shots about them and constantly flirts with other women. Some women are attracted by toxicity but in general they are attracted to males who show preselection. If I analyzed your life I'm sure you make illogical choices all the time but overall I don't see…
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:47 PM
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Sure but I would say from a third party perspective if you have enough knowledge on human psychology and sociology then they make perfect sense and are predictable.
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:45 PM
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Why is it an enigma? The more distracted you are; the less power and relevance you have. The more focused on your mission and life you are the more abundance you create for yourself and the potential women that would end up joining your life. The average male is useless to women and probably a liability actually with the drama and wasting her time she could be spending meeting a superior male.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:56 PM
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How is that weird? It's just all about frames. In one frame you were the guy awkwardly trying to hit on her and it got switched to her being the awkward one and embarrassing herself in front of one of the more socially important males in the environment. Women are very logical; men just don't understand the game they're playing.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:53 PM
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Phenomenal post; thank you for sharing /u/Vermillion-Rx . It actually goes back to the core red pill philosophy(that never made it to the mainstream or on Youtube) with the Anger phase and acceptance phase. I've ran into a lot of truths that /u/Heathcliff-- presented here. Only I'm at around his starting phase of getting a lot of IOIs from random women but not the women I truly want due to not taking lifting seriously and being stuck in that politeness phase with the 8-9s that he talks about her…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/24 07:05 PM
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I would call what you're saying the perfect example of the loser's mindset. You're not exactly wrong but you're not right at all and anyone who believes what you do is inevitably bound to lose from purely mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:23 AM
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You're actually stupid and don't know what you're talking about. What's your IG? Follow me it's the same as my reddit, all your theories on dating I'm living them daily lol.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 02:21 AM
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I mean I think you're incorrect. I'm a dating photographer; getting men laid is literally how I make my living. I know plenty of other coaches that help in various ways but there are many skills or steps you can take in life to drastically change your dating results. If you wanted to meet more women this summer that are into politics and philosophy for example you can start making content around that and making a social circle around it. There are social circle coaches that teach how to do this.…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah I think philosophical views and dating skills need to be separate. I still believe in the ideas of feminism but if you don’t learn dating skills you are fucked no matter the amount of pandering you do. Also people are way too binary with their thinking. No reasons you can’t be a pua feminist men’s right activist. Feminist won’t help you get laid hit if you love women it is interesting and important to see how their rights as individual people have evolved over time. Civil rights in general …
/r/MensRights05/04/24 08:22 PM
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I mean facts; the sooner the average redditor accepts this the sooner he'll be the one getting pursued by said females looking for high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:48 AM
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Yeah myself, some of my friends and my long term clients. I started doing photography for myself with a tripod in 2020 with a camera that my dad gave me lol. Then I eventually started doing shoots for people and charging them. In terms of results for myself I went from 14 matches to 700 and have had 3 fwbs from it and idk like 20+ dates and fun nights with some cool girls. My clients results vary some take it more seriously than others. One of my latest guys went on 15 dates in the 2 months afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:29 PM
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Yeah, but it's an introductory book to finance. If you were a completely normie you would've gained a lot from it. If you've invested before and know something about the finance world then I would just look at more advanced material. I think it's great at what it does though.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/24 02:36 AM
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Listen having opinions is great. Mostly Reddit is theory and is meant to be widespread. I doubt you’re dating very high value men and thus the principles relayed to them won’t apply to you or your life. I’m looking to host debates publically as well so if you’re down to contest my points on discord/zoom let me know. Myself and my life are pretty public on my Instagram, same name as my Reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:55 PM
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I mean if you care to disprove it go look at studies otherwise you lack the life experience and knowledge to make generalizations and should refer to the rule as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:54 AM
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If you're happy then that's great, the point of the rules is they apply to everyone. Anecdotal evidence does not dictate wider trends across the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:35 AM
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It's feminine because it seduces; not asks. The basis of female dating strategy is to entice a powerful man to stop his conquest to settle down with her. I’d eat glass before I asked a man to be my boyfriend, what kind of advice is that? I want to know he’s interested in me, not capitulating. I don't understand your current strategy. You're gonna see random men and never ask him to date you so you're gonna mostly focus on middle of the pack men that don't have a lot of options for whom you'll be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:12 PM
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Red pill does tell you to avoid women with big egos so there you go. Screening yourself out so if that's what you're looking to do then amazing. You're also screening for guys with more feminine traits but a lot of women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:03 PM
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Work and especially starting a side-hustle is the priority; the rest is an accessory. If you do something social on top of it like club promoting or travel guide in your city you can make some money while meeting a lot of girls too.
/r/seduction11/03/24 03:32 AM
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Fair enough, thanks for explaining. Sorry to hear your relationship didn't work out, mate - appreciate the insight and that's not my situation. It's all good brother, that relationship taught me a lifetime's worth in one year. I'm extremely thankful to that girl. Psycho though lol but that's kinda my type.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 11:32 PM
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I mean same question to you; why did you ask her? You can think that telling instead of asking is a different frame but I'm not sure that it fundamentally is. The whole point is that as a man she needs a relationship with you more than you need one with her. Why did you feel the need to make it official like that? What have you gained? I think I'm the best person to push you guys on this because I did the same thing 5 years ago telling a girl she's my girlfriend now and it fundamentally didn't c…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 04:56 PM
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Why did you ask her that? Why didn't she ask you herself?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I don't think you're in the wrong place then. Keep building value and working on building your purpose. Women are just a bonus on top of that. Once you learn the basics of game its just value building and networking from there. Forcing yourself to be someone you're not can get you laid. The lesson is not to hate women for succumbing to the character you were playing more like breaking down what parts of yourself you made come out there that usually don't come out and seeing which ones you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:39 AM
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I'm confused; how many dates have you been on in the past 6 months? Get some nice pictures done, get on dating apps, go out with a few girls, and bring them back to your place. Have you tried that and at which part didn't it work?
/r/seduction07/03/24 02:06 AM
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Red Pill is mainly about dominance. If you're dominant you will be better with women than weaker men. Why do you think that you need to be toxic and disrespectful to be dominant? I would use influential as another word for dominant. Are you influencing your woman in the right way? Guiding her on your and her mission? If you're doing that and having strong boundaries and an understanding of frame control you won't need to resort to the toxic form of dominance to hold frame. Stuff like inevitably …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:51 AM
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Lol stop speaking in generalities; it's a copout humble brag masking insecurity. Whenever I act contrary to my beliefs, it seems like women have a better response to it and it honestly disgusts me. Which specific action have you done that you thought was positive and helpful that ended up turning off a woman? Usually when men say that it's them being manipulative and incompetent and turning it into women just like psychopaths and not the nice guy I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:48 AM
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Here's what I told him: "If you just stay on there on the front lines and keep trying, eventually you will be able to talk to women". He was in a situation where he kept going out day after day, walking around, pussying out on every girl and he was beating himself up over it. I told him that even if he went out for hours and didn't talk to a single girl that was still a success. I had a lot of respect for him because he would go out day after day and try again. Why don't you go out with him; Dis…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 11:35 PM
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Not at all; this is great this is how you get better. Untypical result though, don't approach women in stores that's an intermediate move. This is what a guy should expect after doing it a for a bit. Not that the women are crazily into him but if you do 100 approaches in a semi calibrated way(get a wing to tell you if you're being super weird) you'll easily get a few days. The guy in the above video is more calibrated than a true newbie due to being a content creator and being used to talking in…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 11:34 PM
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Sweet dmed
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 06:50 AM
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I mean respect is relative; just based on value. If you're unattractive with no other redeeming trait why should anyone man or woman respect you? Learn in-demand skillsets and social calibration and you'll be respected regardless of your physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:49 AM
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I've heard a lot of good stuff from Napoleon Hill; deep and metaphysical apparently. Starting a self-development book club on discord if you wanna join btw, we're voting on the book of the month this Thursday.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 06:36 AM
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Isn't red pilled supposed to be about the biological truths about women and to a lesser extent races? Kind of; the red pill is amoral dating and power strategies for men. Understanding about psychiatric disorders and how they manifest in both the women you're gonna date(psychopathy closely related to BPD and narcissism which you'll find plenty of your everyday average woman) as well as the business partners and friends you're gonna make on your Red Pill journey. I haven't read it myself but I ps…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:42 AM
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How many have you read so far? It's one thing to have a good reading list but a whole other thing to implement a consistent reading habit.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:40 AM
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How precisely and exactly is it a scam? It's decent introductory advice into financial advice; won't make you rich but it's not fraudulent.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:39 AM
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Alpha widow is a real thing but women will definitely go back in lifestyles. She'll probably resent her new man deep down but they're not stupid; they know that they need providers which is why the bitter wife is a popular concept. The husbands don't usually know why they're bitter and just think marriage sucks in general; which they do for sure but 50x worse if your wife is an alpha widow and you don't even know what that term means.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:12 AM
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It's a good lesson on lifestyle. If you work on your social circle you can have access to yachts and boat parties pretty easily. You meet either promoters or boat owners and leverage events that you invite the girls that you cold approach and invite the girls you meet in your daily life as well to these events. Now you're not the guy getting amoged by her ex-bf with a boat but you're actually the cooler guy because you pop into yacht parties once in a while and you have access to many of them an…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:10 AM
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Yeah for real, doing 1-10 will kind of get you comfortable again but only after a few dozen will you start to actively learn on the spot and slowly start to gain mastery over the process.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:03 AM
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Then I asked what she likes doing in her free time, to which she said she doesn't get any since she's always studying to get through her master's. There was a pause and we both smiled, and I immediately followed up with "hey we should talk more, can I get your number?" to which she paused, smiled and said "ummmm we don't know each other that well". Great job overall, do this 100 times with implementing feedback and you'll do well. It's 2024 though, why are you asking for numbers? Get her Instagr…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:03 AM
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1) Be laser clear on your goals. Write them down in time frames and with action steps to get there so you can both know where you're going and assess how effectively you're doing this. e.g. If you want a 9/10 girlfriend that loves you, cooks for you, and fucks you whenever you want; identify what time frame you can and realistically want to make this happen and breakdown the steps to get there. 2) Find or create a local inner circle/mastermind/community of guys that you can meet up with weekly o…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:48 AM
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Thanks for keeping an open mind man, as another content creator most subreddits are way too strick on the content promotion rule. We have to grow together otherwise the whole community dies off.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:33 AM
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If I were you I'd make a youtube video out of your articles and just link to that in the thread so you grow a youtube brand which seems more easily monetizable to me than Substack or Twitter.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:32 AM
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Join meetup groups around business, AI, and crypto so you meet guys that will help you make money and in big cities, there are usually one or a few pickup groups to make friends for girls. You can also create your own container events and communities to cherry-pick members. All you have to do is market it and people will join. If you're in college then even easier.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:18 AM
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He does weekly calls, I'm an old student of his too and the one today is relevant as he interviews Mystery the legendary pua. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJLKjUuZdQ4
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:37 AM
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Half true. You can also make great and funny content if you're 16 and not only will you build a following but people will eventually pay you for sponsorships or as clients to shoot their content.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:36 AM
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How good out of 10 do you rank your current IG account? Make it at least a 6 before you consistently start to outreach to new girls. Other advice is making reels to grow your audience so you're not just some random guy with 4 bad pictures and 54 followers.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:35 AM
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Also about the quality of your pictures and your ability to build and convey sex appeal.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:13 AM
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You don't have to include your children in the content and I don't think your mindset makes sense in terms of actual safety achieved but up you do you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/24 06:37 PM
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Which leads me to believe that most guys who do get laid regularly are a lot more scheming than they appear. And that’s part of the act, because desperation is obviously a huge turnoff. But most of these guys aren’t Casanovas, they might be fairly attractive and sociable but they really aren’t that witty or charming, which makes their sexcess more mysterious. Smart man another theory is that guys who effortlessly seem to sleep with a lot of women and aren’t incredibly attractive or famous or cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:21 AM
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No it's working great for me. What's not working for you, let's fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:16 AM
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Sent you a chat
/r/TheRedPill03/03/24 06:31 AM
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You’re literally an anonymous troll on an Internet forum. Come on my podcast let’s flesh this out publically and if your ideas and rebuttals have any merit we’ll find out quickly.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/24 05:03 AM
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Meaning that if a woman's playing hard to get; she doesn't like you. If you're not sure what she means; she doesn't like you. If she's talking to you but never agreeing to come out with you; she doesn't like you. A lot of guys either have a mental block that stops them from seeing it or they self-delude because reality is too painful. Unfortunately and fortunately the only way to grow and learn is to confront and accept reality.
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:07 AM
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Build massive value through a brand business and build a community in the which your status is 10/10 and then have sex with the many girls that will then be into you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:44 PM
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Just about the reach of women you have access to at the end of the day. I have a reach 100x bigger than yours because I post content and build an audience. I feel like any man should want this.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/24 03:13 AM
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No more like be interesting; divulging everything about yourself isn't necessarily being nice more like uninsteresting.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:46 AM
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After or before meeting them? You should stick to basically only building value or comfort and asking them out right away on dating apps, that's where your issue is coming from.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:46 AM
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You find your highest leverage skillset and make content based on that. Network with other content creators in your city. Film your workouts so now you have accountability as well as you can go to the gym, make content there and eventually get sponsored by them or just do an event there or just network with other fitness influencers, etc. Depends on the exact ROI you're trying to achieve in this whether it's purely networking, dating or money-driven but I coach people in this so I've done this m…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 10:11 PM
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You're mostly right yeah. I'd say having the nice IG with decent followers is the 80/20 rule, it'll give you pretty nice results with minimal effort. I would say that last 20% is key though and should not casually be tossed away because as you literally as you say it yourself other males will end up outcompeting you totally and absolutely if you do. And ultimately, you WILL get overshadowed by guys who are basically already celebrities, 'full-time influenfers' have better social circles, whole s…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 04:24 PM
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If you're ever done cold approach or online dating before probably you've had the experience of what it's like to start from nothing and having to sell yourself to women from the start. Part of the journey is learning to do that well consistently but also what I'm telling you is that with the Instagram strategy I've outlined above; once it's done you don't really have to start from scratch ever again. Every approach you get now turns into a new female follower if your profile is set up well to s…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 04:18 PM
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Hey listen I appreciate the commentary but come back when you’re able to make meaningful contribution not from an anonymous account. Good day.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 06:02 AM
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Okay don't speak in generalities then, define your 10/10 women and link some examples and clearly it'll be easier to get those women as well if you made content on social media.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 04:00 AM
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That can be a critique of capitalistic society overall. If you don't like for example Miami culture then be more of a Montana kind of content creator if you catch my drift. The same concepts apply, it's just a medium of communication.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 03:29 AM
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I know from personal experience that this garbage is a waste of time that could be spent actually developing as a man. You want to stare at small rectangle for hours upon hours every day in the hopes of making shit money and pulling in low quality hoes? That's great for you. I don't care. Do you care to be educated or do you want to just spew random rants? Whatever activity you were gonna do to develop yourself as a man, film it, post it. Boom you're welcome now you're making content. Do that an…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 03:28 AM
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The cost are a sliding scale I'd say. The first step is to take 12 solid grid shots that make you look your best in locations that are relevant either to your business or city. From there you can decide if you wanna post more reels, do YouTube content, TikTok,etc. Other coaches teach stuff similar to this like Corey Chaloff and Michael Sartain who I've learned from.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 03:26 AM
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Getting good at Instagram is utilizing the platform more than an average user can. For example I throw model photoshoots and film it to make reels out of. I can now do this in every city, I DM girls and models my reel and ask if they wanna come. My response rate from cold DMs is about 20% with my current account. For a random guy more like 0-1%.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 07:54 PM
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Yeah true. You can also build a brand and audience from your bedroom but that misses the lesson. Become a well-rounded man and use social media as an extension of that to connect and market yourself to people worldwide.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:15 PM
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I'll check him out, yes exactly you can start in a field/niche that you like and use general game and marketing principles to grow and become big.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:15 PM
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What would you say you hate about it?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:14 PM
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If your husband built a brand and posted content both you and your children would be better off as those could easily scale to multiple 8 figures if he does it seriously and competently. Social media is the opportunity of the century thus far.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:14 PM
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Having a presentable and good image is step one. Step 2 is making consistent content so you become the favorite creator of those same girls and influencers that you want to network with. People like Iman Gadzhi print money from posting content and having "fanboys" who are other grown-ass successful men. You don't have to post cringe content to be successful.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:13 PM
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Absolutely brother, I highly recommend everyone try it out. It helps tremendously to be able to speak into a camera and make a succint and effective point in 30-60 seconds. Then you add captions to it and some visual supporting element and boom you're a content creator. People over complicate it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:12 PM
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I think you're absolutely incorrect. The next trend IMO will be private clubs and community and they will absolutely spread through social media. You're thinking of it as too limited but as I've said social media is just the medium not a specific format. For example even if you hate posting stuff publically and value privacy over internet fame, for me I can still use social media to reach out to you or even just throw an event that you'll show up at if I run accounts in the business, crypto, din…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:11 PM
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Not at all, it's about the level of result you expect in life. If you have high standards and want something pretty close to a 10/10 lifestyle with 10/10 women in it then I have a hard time seeing how you're gonna get there without social media.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:09 PM
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Your girlfriend will eventually benefit from you having a brand and presence on social media but it will make her have to compete harder for you. So win-win yeah lol
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:08 PM
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Yeah agreed, getting good at the platforms is nonnegotiable but making a living from it is indeed not necessary. If you already have a solid business then I'd say focus on learning social media to scale it but if you have nothing else going for you then I'd say becoming an influencer or starting your own media business is a solid path.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:07 PM
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Your comment is half accurate, making good content is valuable in and of itself. Plenty of millionaires and even global multinational brands have a hard time making good content on social media because their value isn't communicated well on the platform. That's why for any guy both starting out and already established, both taking the time to make good content or hiring someone to do it for you is literally mandatory in 2024. If you're an 18-24 year old guy without much ground to stand on, I'd h…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:06 PM
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I have, clearly you're just posting random comments without being able to make a coherent argument. I've been on the Red pill for over 10 years, perhaps it's best for you to not assume and think before you write stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:03 PM
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I don't think you understand the point. Social media is an enhancer to cold approaching. When you meet women/high status guys at clubs, parties, events and you hand them your shitty IG with 200 followers and weird pictures or just a random phone number that they'll put in their phone with 2000 other guys; you're at a significant disadvantage to guys like that me that have a curated Instagram as well as monthly events I throw from it that I can invite girls I meet through cold approach to.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 06:02 PM
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I don’t know what you mean, articulate your point with the brain cells you hopefully possess.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 05:09 AM
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What are you texting them? Around 60% should answer and then you get them on IG or ask them out asap and shouldn’t be too hard to get dates.
/r/seduction28/02/24 05:09 AM
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I don’t know man just sounds to me like you have no idea what you’re doing. No arguments pure mental blocks. Social media won’t just get you pussy by but quality pussy, money, status, access, anything you want really. Dismissing it without any reason just makes you a boomer. If you’re not gonna adapt at least admit that you don’t have the energy to learn the platform and don’t miss the potential of it for people who do.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 05:08 AM
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Amplify or build as well. You could become a multi-millionaire from just a daily posting strategy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/24 03:40 AM
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That's a crazy level of fear to stop you from using the most powerful platforms in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:12 AM
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Thank you Vermillion, I appreciate the response. Agreed, it must be used not for entertainment and escape but for creation and distribution. There's both being a creator of content and also being a creator of community. As we have seen here hosting a place for other people with similar ideas to yours to share space and refine ideas is how I came up with my strategy in the first place. Other people like Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain have also inspired me with their social media strategy.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 11:52 PM
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I think you're confused between consuming social media and creating on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:49 PM
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Yeah for sure. It's just kind of a silly thing not to put effort in. It's like saying you don't believe in the internet and you can be successful without it. Sure but why?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 11:03 PM
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You're delusional and making stuff up about past life and culture. The 90s for example were a very violent time in most inner city neighbourhoods and stuff like social media helps quell that amongst other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:02 PM
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You're missing out man, why intentionally be irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah absolutely, I think the above poster is a bit confused on the word brand and it's meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:01 PM
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I don't think you know what you're talking about, you should watch a few videos to understand the concept. It's called Personal Branding, you can google it. Gary Vaynerchuck makes some amazing content on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:00 PM
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Absolutely, so you're relevant to that one human being and a few more that you're friends with and your family. But to the other 8 billion people on the planet you don't exist nor do you bring any value to them. Why not change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:00 PM
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Sure it's not a replacement for building value but an enhancement to it. If anything it's one of the quickest ways to build value if you're starting from the bottom; that's the part you seem uneducated on. If you live in a city and you have at least an Iphone 14, you can use your phone to both film high quality content of yourself and others. That's how I got my first venue client and now I handle the social media of a decently big club in my city.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 10:59 PM
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Yeah, that's fine, most guys will never get the level of success they could. Especially nowadays with the Apple vision and VR stuff; most males are gonna fall into the path of least resistance and the rest will reap the rewards of putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:57 PM
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How many matches do you need in your experience to get dates? For myself I'd say around 10-20 so that's why it's important to get a photoshoot done and have top pics so you can burn through matches to get dates weekly otherwise it's hard for sure.
/r/seduction27/02/24 09:25 PM
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Yeah but my goal is mainly building my business; not going on more dates. Once my business scales a bit more and I pivot my content for my dating strategy then that number will go up to 1000 and I'll use it to host events for women around different cities. Literally follow my IG and you'll see it lol @Kylegfall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:24 PM
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Thanks for reading it and giving it some thought. I think you have an amazing opportunity if you're in school; especially if you live on Campus. I would use it as a way to network and connect with other students in your program, host study sesh together and post content on it. Doesn't have to be very long to product, just a 10 second reel with 3 cuts of people studying and then maybe a hook like "Exams are coming up, will we make it?", "Project due in 4 hours, are we passing?" etc. If you instea…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 09:23 PM
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I run my business now from social media and I get 100 women watching my story daily. I'd say I've gotten maybe 3-5 dates from it and 20+ from dating apps. I've only had one long-term relationship and it was more from social circle than social media but I do think my next girlfriend I'll find from my social media content more than likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:18 PM
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It's not my definition though, you have to read and research where the Red Pill came from. Have you read the sidebar and the top posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:17 PM
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Idk bro I disagree; social media is modern communication. The less you use it the more irrelevant you are. Just like we're having this conversation here on Reddit and if you didn't have a Reddit account you would be irrelevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:16 PM
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You should be able to get 3-5 dates a week from social media/online dating if you know what you're doing. That's the quantity output but the quality will drastically go up as well. If you want me to give you an audit of what I'd do if I were you, DM me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:15 PM
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I don't recommend doing it from a toxic angle but if you make it comedic enough that even women will enjoy watching your content then I think you're onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:14 PM
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Very true, women are quite clear with their communication if you have the knowledge to decode them and the lack of ego to accept it.
/r/seduction27/02/24 09:14 PM
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I think you're confused about social media and personal branding and I think you should give it more of a shot and do your research on the things I've told you about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:58 PM
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You're not looking at it the right way. Even if your type of women was women who posted modestly on Social media, didn't go out clubbing, liked to read, etc it's still way easier to meet those type of women on social media. For example, I'm starting my own book club that's both online and local. I can promise you I will get laid and maybe find a girlfriend from it lol. On top of gaining huge value from hosting my own book club because I love reading and meeting people who also like to read the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:46 PM
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Why not? Make content about /r/GlobalTribe and you will literally help unite humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:35 PM
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Most women are on social media whether or not they're addicted to it. You don't need to specifically date the IG thotty type if that's not your type. Personally, I think they're really hot but I'm polyamorous so it's a bit different lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:34 PM
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The red pill is not supposed to be an ideology; it's supposed to be a methodology and just insight about the dating world that you weren't aware of before. It's completely possible to walk away from the red pill completely loving women and being extremely content with the way dating dynamics are in the current world. That's my view. The red pill helps you climb up on top of the market and win it on your terms. The current content creators and overall negativity is due to each person's overall ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:28 PM
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I've had one year long relationship with a girl I loved. Taught me a lot. To find my next deep relationships, I fully intend to use social media to help me reach more women worldwide and find the ones I connect with more easily. I suggest any guy do the same thing and it's why I made the post. I mean it both for the guys that are looking for love but also the guys that just wanna fuck a lot. It's just a great tool overall that should be used and mastered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:25 PM
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What about any mission or thing you wanna accomplish in your life? Things you wanna change about the world and earth? Building an audience and network on social media can also help you achieve that. You don't have to look at it as just a material shallow thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:24 PM
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Yes if you can do it consistently. Because it's not really about the views but the audience you make and also the format. For example, people don't think about this but if you're a real estate agent and you make 20-minute videos on youtube that get 2k views, that can make you 20k/month. You don't need to make all the money from adsense if you have a business strategy on top of your content strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:23 PM
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Doubt it, social media is pretty much the biggest leverage society today. Both for getting laid, increasing your social status, and making more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:21 PM
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You can use it to amplify whatever positive trait you have. Meaning that if you already have no issues dating you can reach hotter and more tethered girls with social media. Or just do it with less effort. Or if you like posting content it’s pretty simple to eventually monetize it once you find your voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:06 PM
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The content that you put out is up to you, there's a wide range of different creators that are successful in today's creator economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:03 PM
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No, your idea of attraction is kind of strange. I'm not talking about intimacy and dating. I'm talking about a lot of people and women knowing about you and in general being interested in what you have to say and do in life and want to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:02 PM
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I mean of course I think my niche and business are important and relevant but my points are still true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:01 PM
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Why don’t you become the next tech lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:59 PM
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No, everyone has a distinct identity but relevancy is literally being more aligned to your culture or group than other people. If you are not making content in the music scene for example then you’re not relevant in it. You’re just a random dude that goes to the concerts and listens to the music but for other people in that niches perspective; you’re not relevant to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:59 PM
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Dude what are you talking about? Instagram is just a global marketplace for attention. Different people do different things on there. If you're such a talented and smart individual, why don't you pitch these to manage them and become a millionaire with them since they already have an audience that's just waiting to get monetized?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 07:57 PM
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You can still use social media to build a community, make money, get more lifestyle access, etc. Depends on the level of energy and effort you wanna put into it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:53 PM
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I mean if you're content with the amount of money and access to women and cool things in the world you have at the moment then you've made it already. If you haven't then you're just delusional and you should post more content.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:53 PM
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Sure man if you're gonna let that stop you then what can I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:52 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/kylegfall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:45 PM
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That’s a silly comment, everyone should understand the basics of cybersecurity and osint but to let the paranoia stop you from having a brand is lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:42 PM
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You’re wrong. There is nothing to see through its a purely honest strategy. You’re providing value to your community and audience by posting content. This value will get you social proof and social status in your community. That’s just how the world works there’s no deception or malevolence in the process. If your intentions are pure then everything you do will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:21 PM
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Anything you’re interested in will work. Video games and anime are ironically some of the easiest content to build au audience and fan base around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:19 PM
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Feel free my socials are Kyle fall on all platforms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:18 PM
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No, you’re thinking about it the wrong way. You can interview the other girl gymnasts you train with and know, maybe host an event and podcast. Now your fan base will be gymnasts all around the world which are some of the hottest women on earth right? So I’d recommend you do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:18 PM
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No actually you are objectively stupid and I can prove it to you any which way you desire. You can post a faceless YouTube channel or theme page if you’re concerned about anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:17 PM
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I’d say you need one redeeming quality or strategy. Either be funny or knowledgeable or do a lot of research or have access to something cool to make content out of or be really charismatic or have a lot of friend, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:13 PM
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It’s irrelevant whether you’re going for sex or a relationship, you can go just to network and make friends outside of your social circle which is huge for women. To a concert, photoshoot or party for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:12 PM
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Thats actually not true because there are endless different leverage points and ROIs. For example you can outcompete someone with millions of followers in relevancy if you cultivate a small niche following of 2-3 thousand people on your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:11 PM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about. Sex appeal and relationship market value are two different things. You don’t to have to post any MOS, just literally film basic training and film your group of guys. One reel can be who can do the most pushups? People talk shit and you see who can do the most. Post that boom 20k views, you’re welcome sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:10 PM
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That shows that you have huge ideology that’s blocking our new information to help you. Regardless of your personality type you can post content on social media. Plenty of famous INTPs content creator for example which is the most introverted and sheltered type. Which I am btw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:08 PM
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It’s actually great for women because you can message and swipe in bigger cities next to yours and get access to higher quality men than you’d get in your local town
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:07 PM
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There’s massive difference. For example when I post a story 200 people see it daily. I don’t have to text 200 people to update them on my life and maintain my connection with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:06 PM
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I think you have really negative limiting beliefs. Not only shouldn’t you be too concerned about your privacy but that’s not even the point; you could run a faceless YouTube channel or a theme page and never post content with you in it and still get most of the benefits I’ve outlined.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:06 PM
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You have crazy limiting beliefs. For most people an extra 2-5k a month would be a shit ton of money, don’t need to be mr beast to get value out of posting content that’s a binary mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:04 PM
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Make content about being in the military. Clear it with your SO but should be fine. Doesn’t have to be crazy stuff just working out, how does Y work etc, you’ll build an audience and attractive women will want to fuck you because of it 100% lol Military men have a lot of sex appeal you’d have to be a boomer and crazy to not use social media to display it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:04 PM
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That’s what people say about new business ideas. New businesses and new influencers daily
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:02 PM
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What’s your interest then? If it’s more intellectual then you should do more thought out content and use different media to display that. Unlimited options really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:02 PM
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Oh yeah if you’re in a smaller city it gets incesty I’m sure lol. I’m from Toronto and even here you see and meet the same girls often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:54 PM
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The barrier of entry to being relevant in todays society is posting content; like it or not it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:53 PM
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Don’t worry you’re hotter than you think. I’m actually a men’s dating photographer lol, most men think they’re not photogenic but that’s just not true. Just gotta practice more and watch videos on angles and photography in general 👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:53 PM
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So you use the phone app on your phone but not the Instagram app and one of those apps is weirder than the other to you? Fair enough but only one of these apps can both make you a shit ton of money and introduce you to unlimited women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:52 PM
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I mean you can get one girlfriend, many casual girls or build a brand or business out of it. Up to you and your personal goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:51 PM
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Yes and if you’re welcoming to more and more people eventually your whole city, country and the world will know you and thus you’ll be famous! Remember me and my post in those days I’ll be honored ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:51 PM
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You can talk to girls IRL and post content on social media at the same time. As a matter of fact that’s what I do and recommend doing. It only makes it easier once you give them your IG and you have 2k+ followers and content they can binge watch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:50 PM
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That and also building the skill set and appeal that other popular media has. From the creator mindset you can now study pop culture like anime, tv shows and movies to understand why people like it and emotionally invest into it for years. If you get even just decently good at this then your dating issues will be all but a distant memory and you’ll have fun times with people you enjoy being around all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:49 PM
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That’s literally not true. Some of the most popular content creators and influencers are awkward and arguably not great looking dudes. Like Neon, imaqtpie, asmongold, etc I’d say you just need one redeeming quality. If you’re funny that’s good enough. If you’re skilled at X relevant thing that’s good enough. If you made funny anime reviews you would get laid big time from it for example. If you made monotone boring reviews maybe not so much. If you’re boring and monotone but you’re strategic and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah but you’re conflating causation and correlation. Even if you were a hardcore Christian that wanted to never sleep around and only date for marriage I would actually argue social media is the best way to find a partner. All you’d have to do is post content about your faith and philosophy which a wide range of people will relate to because well your niche has hundreds of million of people and you could literally interview people from your local church and gain social status in your local Chri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:44 PM
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Yeah I think it’s very common for women to only be on dating apps for 1-2 weeks while they find a guy they like and then not again until they’re single. Where as people are on Instagram and other social media all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:39 PM
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That’s a bad way to look at it. If you hand an active social life then that’s the perfect place to start making your content from. Then you’ll eventually make money from it and be able to take your friends out more and do more fun activities so win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:38 PM
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It’s a different format if you’re already doing it as a career then you’re be a « natural » at it in no time. Just gotta pick a topic and niche and a platform you like. I can help you out if you’d like, dm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:37 PM
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Yeah this is a really a good way of looking at it. I know a lot of people that go traveling a lot and don’t post anything about it where as travel content is the easiest and what people most like to watch for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:36 PM
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Organic reach is very strong these days. Meaning you can get 2-3k followers and get benefit from it without needing to pay crazy money for ads or having been lucky enough to start posting in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah jf tou can get at least a dozen people to show up at an event you’re throwing every time then you got some decent local fame. Can be built up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:32 PM
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You actually don’t even need to post yourself in the content. I would recommend getting rid of that mental block but you can just post content like a faceless YouTube channel or an IG theme page.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:31 PM
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Because social media is just modern effective communication, it’s not just a weird app on your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:30 PM
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Not at all, the best content is one you film in real life. Like to to an event, film it and then go home edit it and post it. You can and should have an active social life to fully benefit from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:29 PM
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I didn’t say you had to be a YouTuber. You most likely already have an Instagram, learn to make reels for it that’s the easiest way. You don’t need to go ALL IN on it, build slowly over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:28 PM
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That’s so true, it’s way easier to text people on messenger, IG DMs and Snapchat than through just texting with someone’s numbers. Guys that aren’t doing this are missing out big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:25 PM
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You don’t need it but it’ll help you get way more attractive women than you would otherwise have access to if you’re a regular guy. See Destiny the streamer for a good example. Multimillionnaire seeing girls all over the US and worldwide from his content skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:24 PM
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Depends what stage of life you’re in too. No reason your content has to be goofy. You can make content around your skillset if you’re in graduate school or have a career for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:22 PM
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Famous is relative. If you get 500 local followers in the music scene you’re into that’s pretty famous. Don’t need millions of followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:21 PM
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It’s about the same thing these days, original red pill has long been forgotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:56 PM
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That’s exactly how it works lol except people are not honest about their level on that skill tree and they’re closer to 1/10 at it than the 6/10 they see themselves as
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:55 PM
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That’s a naive mindset. Have you read various books on dating or having you felt like your feelings on it were right and just decided to post this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:54 PM
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Do you want to become this man or are out just complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:53 PM
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Date other women both for your own sake and to gain more social proof. Increase your value overall by making more money, getting better social skills, making better social media content, etc.
/r/seduction20/02/24 04:08 AM
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Do you mean collectively or individually? Individually this is great advice and every man should stop looking for society as a whole to help them. If you're part of a collective group then you can have a different perspective and spread out help to men but as individual men I do believe that self empowerment is basically the only road to salvation these days.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/24 05:02 PM
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No shit captain obvious. Don't live through effort live for adventure and excitement and your dating life will get much better brother. Why is this the first thought that you think of and care to write? I'd say that's a prime example of a fear-based instead of an abundance-based mindset.
/r/seduction19/02/24 04:59 PM
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Does your anxiety come up in specific times like when you're stressed about money & bills or would you say at this point it's more of a generalized anxiety? Yeah depends what you're naturally interested in and good at but programming now is really a phenomenal skillset. Especially if you combine it with AI and use it to multiple your output, in one year you could have a 10k/month business. Don't give up brother.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 04:29 PM
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Have you looked into self-improvement/meditation for the emotional issues and then starting your own side hustle for extra income so you don't have to do manual labor forever? I feel you bro, doing that is the only thing that saved me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/24 05:58 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:51 AM
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Has always been the case; why nowadays?
/r/MensRights03/06/23 10:46 PM
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What did your lawyer answer to that question?
/r/MensRights03/06/23 10:46 PM
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Which study and which one-night stands? I don't doubt that they regret them with mediocre man but if there is somehow a male scale that they use then I would love to see that data.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:10 AM
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But I'm saying there's no reason it can't look exactly like the porn we have now that's real; just with a completely fake girl. I'm quite confident you won't be able to tell a real shot porn video and a fake AI generated one in the next few months. Do these people look real or uncanny valley to you? They are AI but to me look pretty much perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:04 PM
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You're right but thinking about it too small. Just like a DSLR digital camera can shoot in film grain quality if it wanted to like a retro camera, an AI that can generate too HD porn can also generate 720p slightly more blurry and realistic content. Not even in long from now probably in like two weeks, it will make stuff that looks exactly like gonewild girls. It's a training model so you can feed it actual pictures and it'll do it more and more like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:15 PM
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Why? They can still do onlyfans and produce their own content as I outlined in the thread. I don't think AI-generated porn is gonna kill the market for naked human women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:13 PM
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AI-women like in the movie HER, are going to completely change how dating/relationships work Yeah, I think it's going to be huge. What do you think is going to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:59 AM
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That's what I'm thinking as well. I'm trying to dissect the whole AI/VR future and break down to see which specific innovation is gonna change things and I don't think it's this one. In the end, we have to do this or end up in a boiled frog situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:51 PM
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Did you delete your other comments or an automod/mod did it? I think generally they take true ideas and then take them too far from either lack of experience or just trauma. For example the thing about relationships being transactional and needing to make sense for both parties and then you take that to the extreme where women only care about money & status and men only care about sex with the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:48 PM
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I like this subreddit because once in a while someone has a unique insight or way of thinking about something that I never considered. In general, though it is very toxic. As someone who started out as basically an incel and then went through the PUA phase and actually approached hundreds of women and dated a few to solve my women issues; I can say objectively that a lot of what people talk abut here is mentally ill crazy nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:23 PM
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I just reject the notion she's with me because of what I give her. She's had richer and better looking guys express interest. I am extremely average haha Is that really a different notion then? What you give her is not simply in material terms, it's also emotional. So it could still be purely transaction but you being emotionally safe while still having some average value to give her is not a bad deal at all. For example you could objectively be more valuable to date than a rich guy that can tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:02 PM
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Well, it's interesting right because then is that concept really love or is it just a future prediction of potential? Like if she "loved" you the same but figured that whatever you were going through would take way too long to solve and she wasn't down to deal with that and ended up dumping you then is that really her not loving you? Like she could "love you" but decide that you don't have enough potential for her taste, isn't that what women mean when they say that they loved the guy but were n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:52 PM
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At what point is that the true love that is romanticized and wanted here and instead is just an insecure and codependent woman? I'm not sure that I agree that a woman should support a man while he's "building himself up."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:40 PM
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How would you define simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:27 AM
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Exactly, most guys are not interested in getting results. They want a quick dopamine hit to feel better about themselves, they're useless junkies.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 06:04 PM
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Even if I wanted to, I can’t. Check my post history, I was the one telling guys here to get on insta but spergs wanted to sperg. Oh, you wrote a post on IG game, totally up my alley, I'll read it. Eh, I see what you’re getting at. Technology starts from the fringe and works in to the central masses. Eg TikTok is very popular right now but wouldn’t say it’s necessary for a 19 year old to get laid, insta or snap might be though; 5 years ago insta was optional/more option than today at least. And t…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 06:03 PM
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I don’t understand your use of the word “can’t” in this situation. Every woman can walk around without makeup. They just look better with it. Just like you can go to dinner with a graphic t shirt but would look nicer with a tailored clean pressed dress shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:08 PM
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What an interesting take, I'd believe it. I did notice that he's particularly anti-women (much more than his cohost) and he's from what I've seen very nice to guys. I took it as him being a macho misogynist but your guess makes sense too. He does have arab and Muslim roots so it would make sense for him to reject himself and not acknowledge himself as being gay or bi if he is. A straight man will 'simp' for women in some way, at some point, even if it's behind the scenes. Tate being a great exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:41 PM
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How is he gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:00 PM
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I really don't understand why him, Tate and other guys of that ideology argue for that as a given fact of life. I would actually get behind the point if it was under the guise of ethical non-monogamy even if it was only open on one side. If a man finds women and tells them straight up that he wants to sleep/date different women but he doesn't want the women that he's involved to see other men then I would see nothing with that. Why do they always have to call it a high value man's God given righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:00 PM
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I think Fresh & Fit and any show of that similar style are really good for society as it forces us to have conversations that we've been avoiding for literally thousands of years. Having said that, I find Myron specifically to be an extremely rude, unprofessional and borderline abusive character. He does not come from a good faith perspective and instead a lot of times uses his platform and the authority that he has on the panel to bully and verbally abuse the women on it. I do think that any wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:56 PM
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In every single one that I've watched, he at least shows minimum respect to the men while being incredibly rude and borderline abusive to the women. You can see a good example of it in the recent where when Waka Flocka walks out of the show Myron is like alright no worries bro and when the women leave he literally tells them to fuck off and literally says they're low IQ. Here is the VOD Timestamps: 1:19:00 girl leaves over debate about rape culture Waka seems concerned about her 1:26:00 Waka lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:49 PM
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Who is a grifter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:42 PM
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Why do you group all women together? Plenty of women specifically enjoy treating and pleasuring men and especially if it's their man that's a majority of women IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:41 PM
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Every woman should know how to do her makeup well and wear it at the very least semi-regularly. Any other take is quite delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:33 PM
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I would say you do have a fragile ego if you care about the opinion of random men about why you wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:33 PM
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but often they’re still peddling outdated stereotypes about both genders. Can you specify which dating coach you're talking about and which harmful stereotype specifically? I think that rejecting the notion of learning how to date entirely is pretty crazy so if there are people peddling harmful stuff then they should be pointed out specifically and the ones teaching helpful material should be equally praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:27 PM
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Why not? I would argue dating coaches are much better than their mainstream counterparts at both teaching guys how to get as much casual sex as they want but also how to create deep and fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:17 PM
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I see it more as a CBDC dystopia where your chatGPT VR girlfriend only lets you fuck her when you have contributed X amount of productivity into the system so that you keep being worth keeping alive. Liberal agendas will divorce from capitalist ones once the incentives stop aligning. The ruling powers have no incentive to make VR sex illegal unless it significantly reduces the productivity of the masses.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 03:15 PM
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You're wrong, stable diffusion models create completely unique things. They're just trained by human creations to be able to create things according to the forms and categories that humans would understand.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 03:11 PM
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When you're jerking it to pörn, think about what you're doing. You're having sex with a computer and becoming transhuman. Do you have a fundamental issue with the idea of transhumanism or just how it would take place in this context? I think in general the idea of transhumanism and integrating yourself with AI and machines is what is gonna create the most powerful and wisest humans in history.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 03:10 PM
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I mean you have some valid points but don't go full Luddite mode. Mastering VR and specifically AR technology will soon become mandatory for every man looking to gain power and influence in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 03:07 PM
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Here's a red pill for you, there's nothing more blue pill than mainstream Christian beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 03:06 PM
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My whole argument is against the concept of dating strategy and optimisation. By trying to turn sex and relationships into a game you can win, you automatically lose. You can’t be fulfilled in your relationships without being vulnerable and open to connection, which risks being hurt or heartbroken. Why do you believe that these two things are mutually exclusive? Why would strategizing your dating life stop you from being open to connection and vulnerable? One of the biggest dating coach in histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:02 PM
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Your point is so strange I don't even understand it. I guess you're saying that being overly logical in your approach to dating can backfire. What exactly are you suggesting as an alternative? It’s obviously more multidimensional when you add in a gender divide and the element of sexual attraction but it’s still the case that approaching a woman with the mindset of it being an interaction that you can ‘win’ through force of personality/money/physical attractiveness in order to ‘get sex’ from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:52 PM
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Your post gives me inspiration for a piece on societal shame and how everything worth having in life will make people hate on you. If you start a business then you'll get broke wannabe socialists calling you corrupt even if you're doing ethical business that helps people. My guy in that thread is on the right path, his angry social circle will soon be watching VR porn and he'll find his FWB soon enough if he keeps trying and calibrating.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 02:26 PM
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I mean sure it's not great game but he's on the right track. If he does this 2-3 more times combined with doing some cold approach and online game he'll be ballsdeep in a girl that wants to fuck him in no time while the guys that called him a creep in his old social circle will be saving up for a VR headset to be able to hangout with their anime chatGPT girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 02:23 PM
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In general, would you say that the women on Instagram who grow brands from mostly only their physical appearance, would you say that there are massive similarities in how they look? Or are there a lot of plain, overweight, awkward looking, etc women that get famous with their looks since there is a lack of consensus on physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:08 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:15 PM
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Also - Now you’ve said the sentence “a lot of women struggle to attract high-quality guys” you’re not allowed to comment on posts claiming women have it easy on dating apps or dating in general. Women can find a random average guy that wants to fuck them sure but it's incredibly hard for a woman to find a high-value man who will see her/date her long-term. There aren't many high value guys on this sub so if women here go by the group consensus in terms of male opinion then I worry for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:08 PM
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I think every single guy who's particularly high value and gets attention from a lot of women starts to pay attention to things like nail and makeup skills. If you women that aren't naturally popular decide to not learn the skills that would make them more attractive to attractive males then that seems like a stupid life strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:59 PM
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If they don't care about being more attractive in the attention economy then fine. A lot of women struggle to attract high-quality guys though and little things like that matter big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:58 PM
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That's a silly take, all the actors you've ever seen in a movie or TV show are full of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:47 AM
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Looking at your comment history though, aren't you kind of a nerd? I'm not surprised you're not into the pretty girl type.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:04 PM
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It's up to the ones that want to be particularly attractive to the higher status and standard males.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:04 PM
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Reddit is a wide site. Listen to the opinion of the men you would want to be with, not random men who say random shit that may or may not make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:29 PM
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That’s a cope. You don’t have to wear full caked faced everyday nor even most days but a woman who can’t do her makeup and nails properly on a regular basis loses a lot of her feminine appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:28 PM
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I don’t know if it’s true. You would think that being masculine would make them more strategic and less emotional so they would be more open to things that work even if they don’t make them feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:26 PM
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If you’re around 35 then the question I would ask you is do you consider yourself one of the hottest women in they demographic? I think most 35 year old women are on instagram and the ones that are socially savvy and particularly attractive would for sure appreciate a man with a well curated image.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:11 PM
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Do you live in a big or smaller city? That’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:37 AM
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Why do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:49 PM
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I agree it's not essential but if everything else is going well in your life then wouldn't it be nice to have the option to do it? I think people obsess over demonizing materialistic things. They're never worth sacrificing your principles and values over but overall having extra income to spend on shopping, beauty care, travel, etc are all things I aspire to provide to myself and any woman I date. If you could choose to have your man help add that to your life why wouldn't you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:34 PM
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Men should be more in control of their appearance as well. It should be about improving and maximizing the presentation of your good attributes, not to deceive and invent some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:31 PM
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It doesn't have to be but every woman should at least practice and know how to use it strategically when she wants to. At least over 50% of women cannot do that. I live in a big city in the west(Toronto) and here in downtown of all the girls I see only perhaps 20% have a great grasp on their style, fashion, and beauty care. I'm sure it's even lower in smaller cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:28 PM
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As women, we don't care that you're turned off by our Hotness Meters not being set to 100% all the time. This is real life — not TikTok/Insta. It doesn't have to be an every-time thing, understand your own life strategy and when it makes sense for you to do it. I think every woman that wants to deal with and have high-value men be attracted to her should know how to doll up properly. I've been on dates with girls with dirty or unkept nails and no ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:27 PM
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I think the skills should be prioritized for them to learn IMO if dating life and socializing are important. Not necessary to do every day, at least not fully but being aware and in control of your image is sooo important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:24 PM
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Yeah, great makeup is huge. I mean both sexes like their partners to look as good as possible. If you're a woman I'm sure you'd rather not date a guy that's 110 lbs and full of acne if you could avoid it right? It's not the only or most important thing but it's massively important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:22 PM
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I mean he explained it in a weird way but which part of that exactly do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:20 PM
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Big time, for sure. For me in a similar vein, I wear grey contacts that suit me quite well and I notice a big difference when I wear those vs when I just wear my glasses. Women are nicer to me but even guys too are nicer and more something like almost submissive, it's a very interesting phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:20 PM
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I think most high-value men like women that know how to hold and put themselves together. If you never learn it then you will probably only cater to average men. This an extreme example but I know Iman Gadzhi the multimillionaire 23-year-old specifically talks about one of his pet peeves is girls without their nails done properly. Totally agreed personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:18 PM
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The list of privileges women get in Spain is VAST, so it’s deffo worth it. Like what?
/r/MensRights30/03/23 10:16 PM
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Are you saying that you don't aim to make enough money to pay for your woman to look her most attractive for you if she wants to? I'm confused about the sentiment in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:15 PM
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Unless you're a night game expert then having a good IG will help every single other strategy out there. Even meeting girls off Tinder and hooking up with them that same day, the easiest way is to convert through IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:12 PM
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Yes, honestly I wouldn't listen to anybody that tells you otherwise. It makes a massive difference when you meet new women at parties or events, I've had girls comment that I must be famous because I have 2500 followers and a good profile lol. If I had 20k+ and even better content I could see how it would make everything even much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:11 PM
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You would get the hottest 25-40 year old women on the planet more easily so I mean if you consider that weird sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:09 PM
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Red Pill also has a lot of bitterness and anger issues mixed in with the objective truth which dilutes it and makes people who are in the community delusional at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:54 AM
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That's one of the worst parts of this sub. It's not only blue vs red pill but also vs black pill. As someone who's been on the whole spectrum of the game journey, there's nothing more toxic to the world and to themselves than black pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:50 AM
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Then he's a massive fool for ruining his own dating life over random comments he saw on the Internet. Plenty of women love getting approached. Clearly not all but enough of a percentage that it's absolutely worth doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:26 AM
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I did. You're saying you would get infatuated with an escort if you enjoyed fucking her? A lot of men enjoy casual sex with no expectation of ever dating the girls they fuck so it doesn't explain the reticence towards escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:44 PM
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You can be alpha to some women and beta to others, I don't see why that would necessarily be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:43 PM
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Have you tried any of these things or are you just seeing people complain on the internet and afterward making your own post to complain in response? I'm a man and I've done all three of these things successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:12 PM
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To be fair the FDS subreddit got heavily restricted and they moved their platform to avoid censorship just like the Red Pill community had to so I think on Reddit the double standard is fairly limited.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 02:50 PM
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I feel like she has a few good points though. And a lot of women hate men but a lot of women love us.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 02:10 PM
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That's only referring to a k long-term mating strategy vs just enjoying sex with a hot woman in the moment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:08 PM
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Are you saying you're against passport bro culture? I feel like it's a good idea for most men to try, no reason it can't be as ethical as any kind of dating you'd do in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:06 PM
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Yeah for sure, send me a chat or PM!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:52 PM
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Interesting, are there a lot of women in your social circle or just guys? I could see that being a very sensitive topic in a mixed group but when it's just the boys sometimes the truth comes out. If you live in a big city I guarantee you know a few guys that have done it, perhaps just never talk about it. One of my best friends has never talked about anything like that before and is a bit on the conservative side religiously and overall randomly dropped that one time in Amsterdam he banged an es…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:00 PM
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I don't understand what your overall point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:58 PM
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Are you saying that there are no guys with options? Plenty of guys get laid 2-3 times a week with different girls each time without ever paying for it. Heck, I don't like casual sex very much but I've had three different girls in a week before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:57 PM
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My social circle would clown on a man endlessly if he admitted to buying a prostitute. Can I ask how old are you, if you live in a big city, and if you and your friends are more conservative, liberal arts crowd or party people? I and a few guys I know have admitted and talked about getting escorts in the past, it's not exactly a popular topic but I'd say about 1/3-1/2 of the guys I know have done it or would be open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:43 PM
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The wage gap does not exist when you account for things like maternity leaves and other gender-based work absences. Salaries when controlled for gender are exactly equivalent AFAIK. I like your point comparing johns and promiscuous women, it's kind of interesting from a sociological perspective. What do you make of it beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:39 PM
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What would you consider a Chad if not someone who can get a lot of sex from attractive women without needing to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:37 PM
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and still today most women are unable to earn as much money as most men, and they are unable to do most physical labour Pretty sure most women in western cities make as much as the men if not more in a lot of cases. As for physical labor are you saying that construction workers are the peak of male highvalueness?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:22 PM
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If you want something classier. I know Instagram baddies that'll do full service for $250. For real, it's actually surprising psychology and anthropology to me that prostitution is not very well-liked/popular amongst men. You can fuck the hottest girls you can think of for like $250-500. It's within the budget of basically any man to do it monthly but it's rarely if ever talked about. Men care both about the emotional aspect and the conquest aspect of dating/sleeping with girls normally. Or are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:00 PM
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2 and 3 are wrong or rather not equivalent to promiscuous women. The effort is not that low and it's not that easy compared to women. Women are born with their value and can just get sex (more like give sex). Men are not born with what they need to visit many prostitutes. That requires a lot of money and that money needs to be earned and the effort probably won't be extremely low. Of course, there are men who are born into wealth, but most men aren't like that. Having a lot of money can be seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:57 PM
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Promiscuous women are wayyyyyyyy less stigmatized then being a John. Bring a John is literally punishable crime. The only thing that happens when your a promiscuous women is the Christian’s don’t like you. I'd say it's pretty close. A lot of the internet culture today is around bashing slutty women. Prostitution is a hilarious one though because I don't think it's shamed that much it's just 0% talked about. I've had 3-4 friends randomly drop that they paid for pussy that one time in Amsterdam or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:55 PM
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I had an opposite problem for a long time, I was a shy gamer kid growing up on top of being an INTP. I'm 6'4 though but had very little luck until I grew into myself at around 25-26. Still the height isn't a magic pill, I'd say I'm pretty attractive too and plenty of shorter "uglier" guys outgame me because they have better social skills/game than me. Practicing that stuff is not to be underestimated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:04 PM
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But most encounters are shallow for me. I don't have any great experiences to compare against except when dating older women. Social media changed younger girls a lot, ime. Yeah 100%, makes sense. Have you tried to do a long term sugaring relationship with allowance or just a PPM and see a few different girls a few times each? I read the SugarLifestyleForum as much as this one lmao, it's one of the most interesting places on the internet for sexual dynamics conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:56 PM
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Yeah fair enough, I respect the sugaring. It's a very interesting option if you can afford it. You can get the same hot 22 year old girls that people spend years chasing much easier. I've never tried it myself but my only hang-up would be that it would lead to shallow encounters instead of actual warm and pleasant relationships. What's your experience on that front?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:45 PM
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Send me pictures of your online dating profiles/social media and I can give you feedback if you want. I'm a Tinder and personal branding photographers so I've done this for dozens of guys. I think you're a bit tongue in cheek here, obviously having a decent career is better for your dating life than having a criminal record. Since you already took action and went to the gym and saw good results then you're coachable so I think you could get the results you're after. Obviously it's a easier if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:29 PM
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Fascinating stats, thank you for sharing. I had never heard of the tape worm thing before, that's horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:54 AM
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No worries, just found out about it myself!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 11:15 PM
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When I discovered the red pill back in 2016-2017, it was hot garbage back then too. Yes some of it was self improvement but a lot of it is how to be a player, not how to become a good husband or boyfriend. That content is pushed to women all the time. How to be a good gf, wife, fiancé etc. How to get a man to propose. I mean it seems that these are where our views differ, learning how to have casual sex with women is a great and quality skill to have in my opinion. Depends on what you mean by be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:43 PM
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I think it’s a lot more than 10%. You have to think about the amount of pressure that gets put on women to be married and have children by a certain age. Men don’t deal with the same pressure or societal standards. I could see that, I have no idea and I rarely see women talking about it so I could very well be uninformed. YouTube is what’s getting the most views and has been for years. The main source for red pill content is youtube. It’s not for men looking for marriage. Fair but as someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:15 PM
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Nope, especially not mainstream porn. Some of the guys on the porn subreddits have very interesting brands though. Some of them post themselves fucking girls and then they get fangirls that wanna get fucked too and they go meetup with them. That's crazy, I would be more tempted to do something like combined with an onlyfans but still not. No reason to go down that route. Maybe if I was seeing multiple bi girls and they were down to get filmed and then I would send it to the other girls and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:05 PM
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I don't know if there's a way to find out ut you think there's a significant % of women that read books on dating, relationships, and marriage? My guess is maybe 10% at most, does that sound about right to you or more? I'd say the percentage of men that read books on those same subjects is probably around 10% as well. Red pill content is garbage and not for men who want to be husbands. Not necessarily true, a lot of RP content(at least on the subreddit, not so much on Youtube & Tiktok) is on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:39 PM
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The women really think it's a problem though I don't understand how this data is presented, if the question is how well the incel problem is managed then wouldn't most women voting 4-5(a higher number) mean that they think it's managed quite well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:59 PM
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Makes sense, women are more intuitive and less intellectually strategic than men. The percentage of men into self-development, game, red pill content, etc that consciously think about dating strategy is for sure at least 3-5x higher than women who do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:55 PM
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I have; wouldn't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:52 PM
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I dont see the point in gender days. Just seems to encourage segregation to me. They were literally conceived by conservatives who were very hardcore into gender essentialism, and very rigid gender roles, yet we keep them for some reason -_- What do you mean by this? According to my extensive 30-second Wikipedia research, International's Women Day was started by the socialist party of America in honor of working women's rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 06:19 PM
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Happy International Women's day! It's definitely a day for the boys too; take some time to reflect on the amazing women you're blessed with and enjoy <3
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 06:08 PM
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Thank you for sharing brother, you're 100% right. Guys like Tate, David Bond and Andrew Anderson have really good content on the benefits of living abroad as a male. There isn't much benefit to being a middle class male in a western country, you're playing against so many factors and institutions. NYC lifestyle is great if you're a multimillionaire though.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 02:08 PM
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I don't think that's quite right. I think the average middle class person has been losing power in society for the last 30+ years. That leaves the average man and woman worse off but the average woman has an easier time navigating that situation than the average male. The top tier males wether economically or socially are doing better than ever.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 02:04 PM
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You both reacted like volatile children. A relationship is supposed to be strong and a good rule of thumb is if you have to result to ultimatums; it's over anyway. If you want actionable advice I would talk to a therapist and really ask yourself why you're with this woman, what she does for you and what you do for her. Right now you sound like youre in a codependent mess, getting the upper hand in that will only go so far.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 06:23 PM
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Great point but worth noting the point of quality vs quantity. That guy if he's like you describe will never sleep with a high tier woman in his life. Maybe he doesn't care but that's something to aspire to on your short time here on earth.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 05:23 PM
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Who is supposed to take care of the children then? The average man through state tax? AFAIK if the women makes more she doesn't get child support but most men make more than their partner and children have to be taken care of. Why would fault divorce be a thing?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 05:18 PM
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I have an issue with taking women's agency away for a pretended benefit to society. Most men are even more irresponsible than the average women and drain society just as much. Society is in a weird transition period from a codependent system to an independent one but empowering the individual is a benefit to us all in the end.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 05:08 PM
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You're definitely on to something. I always thought that being able to be a nomad and work from a laptop turns you into a God in most places in the world. The flexibility and freedom is an insane power. A guy making 5k a month in a major US city is a random nobody but put him in Argentina/Brazil/Colombia and he's upper class nobility and with 20x the dating options.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 04:42 PM
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Agency is a great thing. Liberating the individual at the short term cost to the collective is an acceptable cost. Would you really want to be a woman in a society where she has no agency and is financially dependent on whatever man she's stuck with? Sounds like a nightmare to me. Most women are better off today and the few men that put the work in are also better off.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 04:23 PM
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This is a great post, thank you for sharing. Relates exactly to my experience in game, I'm tall and good looking but historically struggled hard with women because I was anxious and overthought everything. If you joke around and have a good time while leading to a bedroom, it's very easy to pull girls and I overthought every word I was saying for years 😂
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 03:40 PM
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Meditation and mindfulness will be godsend for you bro, did wonders for my anxiety. I still feel it but now it's more like a calming force that helps me think rather than anxious nervousness.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 03:33 PM
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That's definitely a healthy way to view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:49 PM
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Men get a lot of their emotional needs, fulfillment, and general existential needs from sex whereas for women a much greater percentage of those are generally fulfilled by their social circles. Also, women get their fulfillment as biological creatures generally more from the childrearing part than the sex itself. This is why motherhood is generally a bigger deal for women than fatherhood is for men. Whereas men from basically conquering and fucking so like achieving arbitrary things in their com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:14 AM
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To what degree? I think unless you do a lot of spiritual work and truly transcend your biological envelope then yeah you're basically 100% a meat machine that only uses its superior intellect to fulfill the base instinct and compulsion of said meat machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:06 AM
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I mean, makes sense. Not like there's too many ways to achieve fulfillment in our capitalistic society. Most men live empty lives with no power so to have a girl fake pay attention to you, it's a fantasy I have a hard time blaming someone for falling into. They probably knew deep down what they were doing too but what the fuck else are you gonna spend your money on anyway? Might as well live the dream for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:05 AM
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Which city are you from? 100% find a wingman in a game group near you to go out with you. Taking this stuff from Youtube/Reddit to real life is like voodoo magic, it helps a lot if you see someone demonstrate it and/or open a set with you so your brain actually believes it's real.
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:39 AM
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What's an internal question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:07 PM
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I think your thinking is correct then. I've done the same thing and although yeah it's not the same thing it does give you a little companionship/fun until you have the proper set up so that you can have girls in your lifestyle. Best of luck brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:06 PM
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I'm confused what the point that you're getting at is. It doesn't matter the reasons why things are the way they are beyond perhaps understanding some trend that's gonna help you improve your life in the future. No result will come for you by complaining on Reddit, all that's gonna help you is picking up strategies and tips from the other men succeeding on here. And there are plenty, I used to go on 3-4 dates a week when I was dating properly. I came to a similar conclusion you have currently, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:13 PM
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Well, doesn't that mean that our current system is the current version of that exact same natural selection; literally it's natural evolution? We couldn't have a widely scaled society if everyone was free to personally utilize violence to get their needs satisfied. So we've evolved to have a centralized power a single brutal tribe leader, then that lead to a king and his court, and then to the more and more decentralized system we have today. But we're still in a jungle basically. If you can't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:45 PM
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This is basic natural selection though. Women have the ovaries, men have the sperm. The whole mechanism for our species evolving is that the women select the men that have the best traits/life strategies, and I mean basically reward them with pussy/reproduce with them so that we grow forward and not backward. This has always been the case and is also the case with most other animal species. The problem IMO is society indoctrinates us to all get along and "yay, your soulmate will find you" nonsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:44 PM
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I don't think he has very satisfying relationships with these women.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:01 AM
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Disagreed, it's an actual full story instead of the usual "asked a girl out, and she said yes, yay" boring posts we see here all the time.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:01 AM
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That's ridiculous. A clean diet and a steady workout regimen will do 80% of the work. Hair dying at most. Look at guys like Aaron Marino(46) or Tai Lopez(45), they take care of themselves and look great. No weird surgeries and procedures are required.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:54 PM
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I am 6'4 and pretty good looking and you definitely need game AND good logistics to get decent results. I'm an INTP so I struggle to just be casually social and get bad approach anxiety. If I drink at a party with drunk girls where I have good status then its pretty easy to make things happen but getting to that point is game IMO.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:20 AM
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Yeah, this if you're tryna to find a girl to smash. If you're even remotely trying to find a girlfriend then move on, she clearly likes and enjoys her freedom.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:16 PM
1

Thank you for sharing, that's an interesting experience. May you find it again brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:15 AM
1

Have you seen some of this stuff in real life or in media?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:15 AM
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I don't know where you guys live but I've never heard of this before. Only time I had a girl bring someone else is when I asked out this Christian girl and she brought her older sister to chaperone lol.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:24 PM
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Is this in a small/mid sized town? Such weird people, I don't think you missed out on much. Your original plan was gangster though.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:21 PM
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Nah probably a weird orbiter circle.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:20 PM
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This is such a weird take. I would feel very sad if my girl didn't feel like she could talk to me about her life, even if it ended up in venting. If it makes her feel safe and connected then of course it's worth doing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 04:30 PM
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If our mom was a narcissist and your dad a codependent then she didn't really put him first now did she? She probably used that philosophy as an excuse to get her needs met and ignore not only your needs but his too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 04:59 PM
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-You don't address the issue of what a woman should do if she doesn't really like spending time with her husband. I mean, if he's that great, shouldn't she want to make him her #1? Here, it comes off like a bit of a chore. Anecdotally, I find that a lot of women like their husbands less after having kids. You see this phenomenon all over mom groups, there's even a book called something like "How not to hate your husband after having kids." Maybe an idea for a future post. This question of yours …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 04:56 PM
2

How would you describe the effect of the adhd meds on you?
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:04 AM
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How big is your city? I'd highly recommend not doing this at your own campus as even in your school of 18,000 you will get a reputation in a few weeks and it'll lead to very awkward times. You're doing great. You don't get it. If you can approach 60-70 girls and get laid once, that's amazing. This is your first time man, next time it'll be less(50-60) and you'll start getting girls you like and that like you more and more. Realize that no one does this and girls in general are super anxious and …
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:58 PM
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Well there's many ways of looking at it. If you go off of basic status and biology then yes men chase women; that's how our species work. If most men are disposable and the women are high value then it would make sense that a particularly rare and valuable male is crazily rare and it would break the system;women would start chasing that man. Therefore if you find a way to make yourself high value; you will experience abundance and get rid of that humiliation that you feel. That's really a bunch …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:43 PM
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I'll report a rating on the 1-10 scale plus meta-analysis compared to the other methods of acquiring the attention of and scoping out females. I got you my brethren, together we shall prevail.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:40 PM
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This is genius, actually a great move. I'm gonna try it out and report back.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:48 PM
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Most guys in the game(and in general really) are trauma-filled and use short-term coping mechanisms(lying to get laid) to deal with life. This will only lead to lowering your own self-esteem internally and developing even more coping mechanisms to deal with that! I wouldn't suggest doing this. Be honest and authentic. Tell her you want someone to have a casual sex-based relationship with. If that doesn't work for her great, don't scam her into losing her virginity; that's literally what leads to…
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:56 PM
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I'd say your lifestyle goals are too different to make it work. His goal could be reasonable if one: 1) He had a career/business trajectory that made sense to financially take care of not only himself but also you and your future children. 2) Had some sort of way to equally give you some financial freedom so you wouldn't be stuck relying on him financially as I see that often turn toxic with SAHM. If you don't mind me asking, what are your motivations for becoming a physician? Are you more in it…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 05:29 AM
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Yes. It gives you invaluable feedback that women in your real life would never have the balls to say to you (for good reason evidently.) If you now know this is the case then you know that if you're balding then things like working out, skin care, fashion, etc are mandatory because you don't have too many other things to leverage. You need anonymous strangers(at the bare minimum) to say this to you because otherwise you'd just be gaslight in real life by people saying you look fine while getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:42 PM
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Do you know what your MBTI type is? I'm curious if you're an introverted type.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:36 AM
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There's no way you've ever done that.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:36 AM
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Why would they want to hear that if they're not getting laid? You can only share stories with people that relate to them. Guys that don't have real estate portfolios don't won't to hear about real estate portfolios. Guys without baseball card collections don't care about baseball collections. Guys that don't get laid not only can't relate but also feel inferior when they hear that, makes sense tbh. You need to make friends that are also getting laid and/or find the few of your friends that are w…
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:48 PM
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Guys on the internet are hilarious lol, ask for constructive criticism then get offended when they get it. Do you want hollow flattery?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:22 PM
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I wouldn't look at it like being somewhat you're not, it's just your actual functional potential. Most men(and humans in general) are very undeveloped for what they could be. You could look at it like very logically like having undeveloped emotional coping mechanisms and control, the ability to self motivate and discipline, having a good understanding of how the world and human society work, having an understanding of how the financial and economical system work, and how to position oneself opti…
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:49 AM
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Sometimes. But then you think it over and it makes perfect sense. What's unique about you before you put a lot of work into yourself? Your unique style of self-deprecating humor? Your League of Legends skin collection? Then you learn a bit about biology and how natural selection works and you put together that not only does a female not have use for a low-value male but that male is also probably toxic and dangerous to her! Only after you put a shit load of thought and effort into your life, ski…
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:31 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain and give you two types of advice: 1) Figure out what you specifically like about this girl so you have a way to find many other women like her so you develop an abundance mentality. IMO you're always starting at a loss if you think this woman is the only one for you and if you fuck it up you've lost something tremendous. 2) Figure out what she's about, what she likes and what her lifestyle is. Is she a posh rich girl that dates business owners and likes to go on a …
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:41 PM
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1/5 of men under 18 are fathers? In what possible demographic is that true? I'm 26 and I'd say about 20% of the men my age are fathers here and Canada and that's pretty generous because I don't know of any in my social circle of 50+ guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:03 AM
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Feel free to send me pictures of your profile and I'll critique it more precisely but in general, you want: 1) High-quality pictures(from a DSLR or iPhone 12/13) 2) Attractive angles and poses. There are a lot of good ways to pose for men that make us look more attractive than we are usually. Smiling and shooting from a slight angle rather than head-on are quick tips. 3) Have something that catches the attention. Dating coaches are great at this but have a cool pic of you at the bar, riding a bi…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:50 PM
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You're exactly fucking right. You think being a man of power and character is overrated until the true nature is revealed just like in Ukraine. And it the shows why these things are honest signals. In a war zone(civilized society is also a warzone, just a more drawn out and boring version of it) you see how catastrophic it would be for ANYONE to rely on underdeveloped manchildren, let alone a vulnerable female. Females crave masculine power because it's the only thing that can protect them on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:51 PM
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What are you basing this on? I'm basing my opinions on having gamed for 8 years and having met literally hundreds of guys in the game community. Some of those being like literally 5'1, really not great looking, or having speech impediments. I'm also a dating photographer so I've made tinder profiles for some of these guys. I still stand by everything I said. You could be butt ugly and spend the next month optimizing an online dating profile for yourself and then by June you'll get laid 3x a week…
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:05 PM
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If you night game in busy venues/streets, it's not crazy to talk to 30-50 different girls in a night. So that's like 30 nights out. If you go out 3 times a week that's only two months and a half. These seem like crazy numbers but I know guys that go out 4-5 nights a week and talk to way more than 30 girls every time lol. That's what the incels don't get, for every 10 of them that sit at home complaining, there's a guy willing to spend 8 hours a day messaging girls on tinder/Facebook messenger or…
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:45 PM
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You're 100% right. Even if someone had "women throwing themselves at them" you would have to have good experience with escalation, closing and handling logistics to really take advantage of it. I'd say I'm quite a bit better looking than average and I have way more girls being nice/eyeing me than most other guys I see but my game ATM is pretty weak so I don't get many more results than the average guy.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:42 PM
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If you're not kidding, WAY MORE THEN THAT is the correct answer. I've slept with fewer girls than that and I've probably approached around that number. I know guys that have tracked approaching a few thousand. Through day game mostly but you can see how you could easily approach 30 girls on a single night out in 2-3 hours so these numbers are nothing really.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:39 PM
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You can't advocate not to over-obsess over women while your way to avoid that is a coping mechanism. Any man that stops watching porn and has healthy hormonal levels will realize that this relationship to females(or lack thereof really) is in need of emergency fixing and all other random hobbies or inspiration you could come up with are quite frivolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:50 PM
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How much porn do you watch? This is keyboard advice, it's obvious in theory but life is not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:02 PM
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You act as if most people find meaning in this society. Most people are oppressed and at the bottom of the hierarchy both socially/romantically/sexually and financially as well. Economics hugely affect what is talked about on this subreddit, what's mate value if not economic value? So you're not wrong but developing your social and dating skills is a huge part of being a well-rounded man. In this day and age, combine that with starting your business so you can be financially independent and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:02 PM
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I mean no offense bro but Asian cultures are known for being tyrannical, oppressive and revolving around following the social order and not valuing things like emotional intelligence and individual freedom. This is precisely the loop that Will is stuck in, his marriage got destroyed and he can't let it go due to his traditional upbringing/current family and/or media pressures and now he's stuck in a codependent relationship sucking up to get his wife's love/approval that is forever gone. Literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:21 PM
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I don't know who Will did or didn't fuck but he was clearly the most affected party in that whole situation. He's now in this weird frame where he's trying to keep his traditional family together while sucking up/looking to his wife for validation. Incredibly creepy, especially how he was laughing then went to assault the man 2 seconds later. The man has lost his marbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:17 PM
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Great job on the mental resilience needed to get that one. I would've gotten tilted halfway through for sure.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:27 PM
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This comes from you not understanding her fully and where she's coming from. She's your girl, why is she doing this? Does she have a group of friends that she shares these memes and this is her culture(as funny as it sounds, there are a lot of subcultures of people, especially in millennials.) I would consider that mostly harmless. Is she insecure that uses this to get validation from random orbiters? That would be problematic behavior, insecure women will do irrational actions that will end up …
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:30 PM
0

Can I ask what industry you work in and how he managed to do that sneakily without getting in trouble?
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:26 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:53 AM
2

Male friends that have the lifestyle you aspire to. If you're a nerdy/dorky/FA/incel type your number #1 priority should be making friends with the coolest people in your niche. 2nd should be going to a normie gathering spot where the guys get laid(gym, martial arts class, biking meetup, club, bar, etc) and making friends with the guys there. You will get calibrated by default, think of it like passive XP. Then once in a while, you will accidentally get laid, and then once you understand the pro…
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:15 AM
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I also took a look at your post and I can see why you're getting the results you are. The posters above are right, you are good-looking with a good build but you also have dork/traumatized energy. This is fine, you're 23 so you'll grow into yourself. Take this as non bs constructive criticism. You have to start hanging out with guys that get laid. Don't charge your personality but pick up the skill points from the degenerate club guys. Go clubbing a few times, make friends that buy booths and fu…
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:11 AM
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You're overthinking it. There's promoters in their 30s, there's promoters that use coke to get girls in. If you're a mid 20s graduate student you'll probably be one of the most well adjusted ones out there if anything. Coming off as weird fully is on you and your vibe. Just be a cool guy inviting them to a cool party and you'll start off with one group of girls that comes through and hopefully has a good time and they tell other girls to come through and it snowballs from there.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:31 PM
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Yeah, for sure. That's probably one of the best times to do it especially if your school is in a city/near a downtown. Go to school and promote the club's to everyone during the week and get everyone reduced cover/free entry for girls. You'll get known as the party guy with good connections. Great way to make friends with the hot girls at school then get invited to all the frat/sorority parties.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:50 AM
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It's simple, not easy. It's literally how thousands of social media figures get millions of and. It's much easier to complain on Reddit and watch porn every night though so you should probably keep doing that.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:35 AM
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I think this will start to become a new trend, older women having younger boytoy girlfriends. Good time to be young and learn to seduce wealthy/powerful older women cheers boys.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:26 AM
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What's stopping you from getting rich and famous? If you take years to work hard on it by the time you get there I tbh wouldn't be surprised if there was a way to get taller too.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:25 AM
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What a stupid take. You have half of the equation but you faceplant right after. If you wanted to, in 2022 with every social media app out there what's stopping you from also being a celebrity? It's never been about "them vs us" if you want to be a famous fuckboy that fucks 100s of girls literally spend the next few years of your life learning fashion, making TikTok, and networking; literally anyone can do it.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:23 AM
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What makes you think I'm arguing for myself? You're one disrespectful fuck dude, go check yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:49 PM
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And why are the fathers absent? You're delusional if you think most men these days can easily put themselves in a position to start a business. It can be done, as I'm also doing but it's a luxury afforded to few. You have somewhat the right idea but are naive to the situations of most of the populace today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:40 PM
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How else do you explain men not being able to economically compete with women? Dumbfuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:29 PM
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Not only am not a woman but I'm literally the last person you should call out for anything. I live in Toronto and I'm out every single week approaching girls, working out, working on my biz,etc and I work in a huge restaurant so I talk to a lot of men 20-30 and they don't put 20% of the effort I put it in even though I'm the 6'4 "good looking one" that should have it easy. Men are lazy as fuck and if you refuse to put at the very fucking minimum the same effort as the top tier guys do then you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:28 PM
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Women don't date the same way men do. Men have to proactively hunt and women are mostly always open 24/7. Women don't have to go to singles events or dating apps to get laid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:25 PM
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You're literally 100% wrong. As a young guy, basically, 100% of girls my age(20-30) are interested in sex/dating. If anything it's the men that aren't interested or willing to put the effort into making themselves dateable due to porn, video games, and the current stage of capitalism. That last one is not talked about much but good luck making yourself economically abundant as a young male in modern western societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:32 AM
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Dude seriously. Women are a pleasure to deal with when you're a high value man and literal hell when you're trying to fuck them and you're not. Do yourself the favor of taking this man's advice and trying it out. After having experienced both the thought of living as someone who fucks a sex doll is beyond absurd to me, it's not even sad it's like saying you want to drive hot wheels around instead of a car; it's pure mental illness.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:50 AM
1

Nightgame is a staple due to anonymity, volume, and rapid escalation being the norm. There is really only a nightclub where you can meet a girl and be fucking her in the bathroom 10 mins later. Mostly the goal is to learn the fundamental skills and to apply them to other areas of your life. Daygame is a great alternative if you don't enjoy the wild and degenerate part of nightlife. I would say that nightclubs are some of the rawest and honest places in the world so thoughts like this The clubs a…
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:53 PM
1

I live in Toronto and this is a very common thing here. I had never really seen it in another city before, highly dependent on culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:11 PM
1

Well no shit Cowboy but you can get passed it after endulging to your heart's content or go the Catholic priest route and somehow try to convince yourself that you're above earthly desires. Both of these are just as hard but only one is fulfilling.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:48 AM
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Most men don't really get laid and hate the men that do. It's like going to an entrepreneurship class with guys wasting their lives not doing much and talking about how you make $1 million a month, some are gonna appreciate the motivation but most will hate your guts.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:44 PM
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Do you cold approach/interact with attractive women a lot? If you lift and go home to jack off, then obviously not much is going to change. Do you follow a proper hypertrophy routine and have you seen gains in that regard? If you're going for a powerlifter physique then that's not really geared towards looking more attractive.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:42 PM
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Saying women love dick ≠ not respecting them lol. Get out of here you resentful SJW.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:25 PM
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This is a meme people tell themselves to feel better and feel like they're adding valuable insight to a shallow conversation. If you think fucking hot girls as a straight male isn't part of the core things that will make you happy in this life, you're delusional and fundamentally misunderstand biology.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:24 PM
2

What do you mean he didn't take it great?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:32 AM
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Would he do it for one of his boys? Would one of your girlfriends do it for you? I've had great friends complain about driving me 15 mins lol so if he's so enthusiastic he's being charmed by your feminine charms my gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:30 AM
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She's saying that her commitment and union with you are worth more than one night of sex. Her presence in your life long term should be more of a reward to you than her pussy. If you're a high-value man, one night of sex should be basically of 0 value to you. That's women screening for a high-value man to share their life with vs just a guy that's just good for a quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:43 PM
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Amazing, thank you for sharing brother. I often get outgamed by men that are less good-looking, shorter, and have less game than me just because I'm skinnier and physically weaker than them and I'm primarily intimidated by them and women can sense it. Unfortunate truth of life but it's an honest signal clear as day.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 06:00 AM
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You're not wrong but it's an oversimplification. Most men do become unattractive to their women in their marriage, has nothing to do with those women being club girls just has to do with the structure of a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 07:51 PM
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Would you accept being reincarnated as a gay male bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:07 PM
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I mean, you're not wrong but these are extremely nuanced points. I don't agree with your comment overall but I'm glad you wrote it. This exact same conversation is one we need to have on CNN morning news. Yes, men don't have to fear for their safety at the hands of women the exact same way that the opposite applies but women have the law on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:55 PM
4

That's so interesting. Do you mind elaborating on that? Basically you have a long-term relationship that's mostly sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:56 AM
0

This is literally hearsay. Try to approach women in real life and most of them love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:17 AM
0

In general, I think it's a fantastic option for a western man to look in SEA or South America in terms of permanently relocating his life. Of course, you instantly jump up 2-3 SMV points when you go to a third-world country. Why be middle-class average in America/US/UK/Australia when you can be upper class in a country that's set up favorably for you? I believe this is gonna become a HUGE point of contention in the next decade. When nerdy software engineers figure out that them having a tough ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:33 PM
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I think it's a cool subreddit to read for a different perspective. Basically a female version of TRP. A lot of posts have pretty interesting points that I wouldn't have thought of before.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 04:18 AM
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treat (someone or something) with the reverence and adoration appropriate to a deity. This is part of the Google definition of worship. I actually change my mind, I don't think I would honestly ever monogamously date a girl that doesn't think of me in those terms. I'm sure you've met in your lifetime a girl who is really dedicated to a cause that you would personally consider stupid(ever work a with a woman who's in reverence to like your boss/company while you know that those people have no res…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:56 PM
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I don't know if he meant it super literally but generally, this is a great concept that's missing from most relationships these days. You went far into one extreme but I'll go the other way, most people in relationships today merely tolerate/accept each other. It blows my mind how relationships are not based on mutual admiration, respect, adoration, etc perhaps those are better words to use than worship but to me they mean the same thing. There are women I meet who I look at and think to myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:47 PM
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Your comment has the intellectual nuance of a Nutella peanut butter sandwich. What does worship have to do with being a doormat? Let's not be too obtuse here and think too deeply about strict dictionary definitions. OP's idea seems to revolve around a woman worshipping you in the way that she adores/admires you. I'd say women these days mostly tolerate or at best like their man, I doubt many of them would be caught dead saying they deeply admire the man they share their life with. I do the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:39 PM
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100%. Women are very easy to please. If you look at what the average woman puts up with from the average man, you don't have to step it up that much to be the best man she's ever interacted with. Have a solid financial foundation and your own place, be reasonably fit, be experienced sexually and willing to explore new things and take time to please her, work on your emotional trauma so you're not being a toxic mess throwing your baggage at her every chance you get and understand the fundamentals…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:32 PM
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Agreed with you. I had a conversation with a girl the other day and she said that she's never had a boyfriend and has a low body count because men she meets these days don't meet her standards and precisely aren't ambitious enough. Made me respect and be attracted to her so much more, was like princess energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:41 PM
2

A beautiful man has a leg up when it comes to the dating scene for sure but he still needs status, charisma, power, etc otherwise he is still useless and will be used and exploited in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:37 PM
2

You can still get a lot of casual sex if you're not optimized in outside matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:20 PM
1

I think the more interesting point is that IMO only inexperienced and inherently low-value men seek out virgins. If you're a well-calibrated guy that's seen a lot of women in a western city then you have run into awkward/anti-social girls that are virgins/super low laycounts and they're not the most fun to hang out with. The only guys I know that still want a virgin/inexperienced girl are the guys that are religious or conservative and have little experience/didn't do too well in the dating game…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:05 PM
2

Intelligence I would argue is being able to use your intellect to positively affect your life. If you have a high IQ but your only use for it is studying and memorizing random and abstract facts about neuro genetics then I don't really think you're intelligent at all, you're more like a robot. If you're a smart and intelligent man then you're able to figure out that studying social skills and being able to relate to people will be more beneficial to your life than studying Wikipedia articles in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:51 PM
1

If you were a smart man trying to get laid you would research and learn interesting facts/conversations topics related to astrology and you would then have valuable conversation content to bring up with any girl that you come across. If you were even smarter you would learn the signs and pertinent questions to ask for each so you could make some reads and guesses about right that would polarize them and intrigue them within minutes of talking to them. That's why I believe most men are dumb as ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:48 PM
6

You're missing the point old guy, OP has a good point.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 03:55 AM
1

You're symbolically right but practically wrong. This is a tangible, material world and as such human beings(men in this example) are able to have a tangible effect on the world. Some men are able to influence it more so than others, due to a variety of reasons but it's asinine to say that we all have an equal effect on the world. Are you saying that fundamentally/spiritually/existentially everyone has the same value? 100% agreed, I literally believe in nonduality so we are really one and the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:50 PM
2

Thank you for the suggestion, hadn't heard of that guy. I'm all for contrasting perspectives in all ways. This is like porn to me, a contrasting perspective of a contrasting perspective.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 09:10 PM
1

Thank you for the recommendations, the one by Creveld seems particularly interesting, I'll look into them!
/r/MensRights15/12/21 08:08 PM
1

What's do you believe in and stand for, personally yourself? I think it's important to not give up on the world we want to live in and victimize ourselves. We have great power, men have literally moved mountains before. There are men that told a random guy that you couldn't go through a mountain and he said fuck you, I do what I want and he invented TNT. I don't know if it went exactly like that but I like to think it did.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:32 AM
1

Thank you brother, I think it's worth reading or at least watching a video on her views. Greater perspective is what we need to change this world for the better.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:30 AM
1

Wait really or are you memeing? That's pretty cool.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 09:01 PM
5

Right? I think the only solution is open discourse like I said, I think I speak for everyone here when I say I'm plainly bored of moral virtue signaling.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 09:01 PM
9

100% agreed, if a random girl punched me in the balls she's asking to get decked. I mean I don't think it's common as it's never happened to me but this should be culturally shamed. A lot of the issues here are fairly common sense and we should start highlighting and promoting the politicians that have the balls(pun half intended) to stand up for these issues.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:17 PM
2

100% agreed. I love the word wagecuck, it's literally so accurate. You literally let the government/corporations/the economy fuck you and take all your money while thanking them for a paycheck. Anyway, that's why I'm a huge believer in content creation/freelancing. If you can secure an online income independent of your location then you're not at the mercy of any individual government and can travel wherever/do whatever you want and live the same upper-middle-class lifestyle(if not even better) …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 07:41 PM
1

This AF/BB dichotomy is 100% absolutely a lie. How could it not, obviously these things are a gradient more than binary camps. The whole point of TRP should be to integrate these concepts of power/attraction/social dynamics/effective life path(w/e you wanna call it) and use it to build whatever life you want. I would be absolutely depressed if I was still trying to pick up girls at the club at 50. And I've seen guys do it. I've met 60-year-old guys making jokes about looking for hot 19-year-old …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 08:32 AM
1

Night game is nightmarishly difficult if you're not the right personality type for it. You should still do it but it's fairly common to never pull from it. What's much better is TINDER and house parties where the logistics are in your favor. The only parties I've ever gotten laid at were the ones I hosted in my own place, it works really well. Having a tinder date at your place or within 5 minutes away from it that ends up being drinks in your apartment is also a killer.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 08:29 AM
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A girlfriend will give you more happiness than w/e nonsense gadget a million dollar would buy you. If you make the argument that you'd use the $1m to drastically change your lifestyle to give you more freedom than I'd concur that it's a great idea but I'll still say you should have a girl(s) in your life.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 08:27 AM
1

I don't understand your statement though. It's one thing to be upset but another to say wild one-liners. Wouldn't you find an issue if someone says men are nothing more than workers to be exploited and then discarded after their value ran dry?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 08:42 PM
2

Well that went from 0 to 100 pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 07:33 PM
1

Aye, I actually 100% agree. I believe the average man now and in the near future is gonna have a terrible dating life unless he puts down significant time into improving it. I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing though. I joined a local PUA group when I was around 19(I'm 26 now), I haven't become a crazy sex god but I feel like I have all the tools needed for the dating life of my dreams. Whereas when I was 16-18 becoming a billionaire felt more likely than becoming good with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:51 AM
2

It's a Pakistani accent, make of that whatever you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:32 AM
0

I'm confused then, what exactly is your point with this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:30 AM
1

Nonsense, talk to a local photographer that knows what they're doing and any guy that's not disfigured can get results from online dating. You have to pay for it though, photoshoots and tinder platinum/boosts are mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:15 PM
5

Fair, but for my case specifically, most of my friends are introverts and their girlfriends are introverts also. Being an introvert is not a reason to not develop your social skills/not go out. If anything you should go out MORE as an introvert because you're starting off from a harder point than a natural extrovert. I'm a shy introvert with SOCIAL anxiety and I go to clubs/parties all the time so much so that people doubt me when I tell them I'm an introvert. Literally, I'm the most social guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:14 PM
5

You're wrong, it works just as fine as ever. If you live in a big city I don't really see a way day game wouldn't work. I know a guy that's not particularly great looking and has a foreign accent that does it in the city I'm from(Toronto, which is notorious for having hard women) and he's gotten girls over recently from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:11 PM
5

What if the future turns into mega harems where all the high value men have 5-10 girls and the low value men that refuse to cultivate value turn to VR to equate the balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:42 AM
1

I mean you could probably argue even that statement but regardless a community's philosophical foundation rarely reflects its current state as is evident with TRP. Scroll down the front page and look at the posts made in the past few weeks and you dare come back and tell me that TRP in its current form is emotionally neutral.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 07:28 PM
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There's no way you believe that
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 09:32 PM
26

That's a strange way of looking at it. It's all based on functional survival. A bunch of men giving you attention is great news, they fulfill your different emotional, physical, and financial needs. TRP has this weird habit of demonizing women for things that are pretty practical and biological and have been how the human race has functioned and evolved for literally hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 04:48 PM
1

Society is very strange. I'm straight and all my straight friends make a strange amount of gay jokes. I'm fairly confident we all have some sort of bisexual feelings. But if you were actually gay/bisexual everyone would look down on you and it'd be a big deal. I think in a hundred years we'll figure out that our understanding of sexuality is currently very primitive and everyone is actually pansexual. But until then we're in some sort of strange shame-based culture that accepts things in only a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:31 PM
0

100%. Probably not mandatory but men need to be trained on how to use their bodies and minds. Most men fool themselves into thinking they're useless which causes the phone victim-mentality/incel phenomenon. If you get through this and realize that you're a ridiculously strong creature and your kind has taken over continents then writing upset comments on an internet forum about how women don't like you starts to become a little bit silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:30 PM
9

It's not because you have the power to do something that you always use that power.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 11:43 PM
17

This is wrong advice. That's like saying don't go daygame because the majority of girls you talk to, you won't sleep with. Online game is amazing. It doesn't replace real-life game but it has the highest reward for the lowest time investment. I don't know what this idea of validating girls comes from, who here in their right mind would have long drawn out useless conversations with girls they've never met? At most you should exchange 2-3 messages with a girl(which takes 45 seconds to come up wit…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 07:53 PM
1

I don't know man, I'd say if you're willing to get naked with another human being and exchange bodily fluids with them, there's definitely some attraction there. I'm assuming that you're referring to the good enough to fuck but not to date phenomena but I'm not sure what your bottom point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:26 PM
1

I don't understand which type of person doesn't like cuddles and physical affection. Probably because of my personality type, I attract pretty much only girls that love cuddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:24 PM
1

I also think a guy has to be an NPC or above for it to work. Preselection won’t override disgust. What does NPC mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:51 PM
6

There is indeed no such thing as an Incel. Just mental illness and excuses.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 01:54 AM
1

The problem I see with that is your worldview contradicts itself. You believe women should remain chaste until marriage but you yourself and your son go about sleeping with random women until you find your wife. Aren't you contributing to ruining women according to your own worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:51 PM
3

I really don't believe that. I think they might have this fantasy and sometimes write about it but I generally doubt that most of them specifically go out of their way in real life to find girls that are virgins. It's just used as an imaginary argument that sounds good, i.e. I'll find the immaculate women that will only fuck me in this lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:02 PM
1

100%. What are your thoughts on needing to go through that sexual abundance phase though to really find a genuine relationship? I believe also in your idea but I believe if you fall into it accidently vs picking it out of abundance and experience then probably you fundamentally don't really understand relationships and you will start to adopt behaviors by default that are a turnoff for your girl and she will eventually stop being attracted to you. That's what happens IMO to most men that classic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:54 PM
2

100% my dude. Except I believe any single man can be a man-whore if he wants to. It just takes a whole lot of commitment that is not reasonable unless you're traumatized and really just need the validation of fucking hundreds of girls, which in this case therapy is probably better than doing game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:51 PM
2

Love is such a nuanced thing though. If anything I'd say that the women in dead bedroom relationships really love their husband, they're just not sexually attracted to them, they can't help it. It's unfair to call them prostitutes, they are attracted emotionally to the guy most of the time. And nobody explains this to us, so you being on this forum and debating human sexuality with thousands of people you probably understand a lot of it more than the average person. The average girl doesn't full…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:49 PM
2

And that's fair enough. I'm sure that you understand that these actions are mostly not made consciously though right. A girl doesn't choose to disrespect you as a low-value man, it's just basic biological math. That's why you really have no option to improve yourself and grow your power in this life otherwise both women AND men will also disrespect you and walk all over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:44 PM
1

You only go for virgin women then? I respect the commitment, if that's what you wanted in life then I see no issue. Did you also have premarital sex or abstained until you found your girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:29 PM
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For sure that's fair enough, I was playing devil's advocate for the reasonable portion of that argument. I don't think many men on this sub have had deeply fulfilling relationships with women so to them the easiest thing to picture when thinking of a great relationship is a girl that fucks them all the time. Can't really blame them, if most people explained their whole train of thought and past experiences in these comments I feel like most people would agree with each other and there would be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:09 AM
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I mean I struggle why men think "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" is worse than "I want to fuck you for a night". I don't think that's the comparison in most guys' minds though. It's more than they are good enough for providing emotional and financial support but the women in their life aren't particularly attracted to them physically. And then from there, the concern becomes that they got picked because their wife/girlfriend basically had to settle for them and they weren't her fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:05 AM
70

Men on the other hand seem to consistently believe that a woman's "best" is being the person they want to sleep with immediately and without effort. From what ppd says, that woman can be a great wife and support person but if she had sex with another guy earlier than you at any point in her life she has not given you her "best". That's definitely a strawman. I don't think most men mind that a woman has fucked other men in her past, they get bothered when it comes out that she's not particularly …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:02 AM
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You're not really that wrong. That's why self-improvement is not a luxury for a man, it's a matter of biological life and death. It's not only based on genes but on lifestyle, that's why money and freedom matters a lot to a woman. If there are two men that look exactly the same, I guarantee you the influencer travelling the world is gonna do a whole lot better with girls than an accountant living in the suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:39 AM
1

What would you want her to do? I feel like most women I sleep with for the first time offer me oral without necessarily expecting it in return and then we have sex and that's that. Do you want more compliments or comments on your performance? I feel like that's a societal issue in regards to how people, in general, treat men vs just how women treat men during sex.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:37 PM
1

Because at least they are masculine so it creates a sexual polarity. A shy/awkward guy doesn't have his masculinity developed so although he's more pleasant to hang out with, he makes the relationship almost platonic for the women he's involved with romantically and sexually so it's super hard to make that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:24 PM
1

I mean sure but then from here, the conversation gets nuanced. Why do you go specifically working out vs running/swimming? You could say you enjoy it more or it's more convenient but then I'm sure there are other activities that are more convenient than working out that get you out of the house and prop up your endorphins. At the end of the day, humans are generally quite good at figuring out activities that are good for their benefit, it's what evolution has trained us to do. And to say that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:13 PM
2

I think the biggest issue is most people have no idea what they want and if they do then don't have the value to attract it. Dating is crazy complicated and I would honestly be surprised if someone could adequately understand themselves and the other gender without reading books on it and spending years investigating the process. Most people yolo it and wonder why their dating life is a mess. You go to school for 15 years for a career, I would argue a fulfilling dating/sexual life is just as imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, I agree but that's such a cliche that I don't even know what it means. Who does anything for themselves in this life and not for the outside results it brings? Only enlightened monks bro, obviously don't be 100% for the rewards but most men that accomplish great things in life are for ego, money, or women. Now when you're decently well into the path it's a good idea to reflect inwardly and build a connection to your spirit vs only the flashy stuff but you need some of that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:20 PM
1

You're actually not wrong. That's my gripes with traditional pickup. If as a low-value dude you're gonna go around hitting on girls in the street until somehow after thousands of times doing it you magically gain the calibration to doing it well, good luck I've rarely seen it work. I think the best way is to combine that with social circles and online content creation. You need friends to pump your emotions up and you need to get your emotional wins fast otherwise you will never make it through …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:18 PM
9

You have 75% of the conclusion right. It's not that they have it too easy, it's that you have no value to offer them. Dating and mating is purely an honest signals game. If a woman doesn't value you, she will not date you/fuck you. You just admitted that you had trouble with women because you have no value to offer them. There are really only two paths to take from there, build up your value or cry about it on online forums. One is a lot more fun than the other ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:47 PM
1

What? That's the sour grapes way of viewing it. Most smart men are terrible with communication overall, not only when dealing with women but with other men as well. Being able to figure out a niche field doesn't make you magically good at communication. Most women are way better than men at human communication, so much so that they run circles around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:36 PM
1

That's not what I said, I said that the average woman is more intelligent than the average man. Maybe the claim that you said is also true but I don't know how you would realistically prove that. Also, I don't really know what a matriarchal society would entail, perhaps we live in one already in the best. Women, in general, tend to do better than men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:32 PM
1

For sure I agree with intelligence but in this context, it depends on how you apply it. Men with high IQ are generally bad with women because they're very linear with their thinking and have trouble using their raw intellect for a variety of things and therefore aren't really that useful to women. I believe that women are more effectively intelligent than men in general because they use their intellect more logically in ways that improve their lives vs just pseudo intellectual masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:49 PM
4

The average man doesn't have much to offer the average woman. The average man makes the same(I feel like it's possible it's even less now?) than the average woman, has less of a grip on his emotions, and doesn't have particularly anything of value to share that would be interesting for a woman to learn about. When you remove the natural leverage that a man has over women(i.e. physical strength) the average man gets actually outcompeted by an average woman and therefore why would she be sexually …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:13 AM
1

Why do you think that is? That's super interesting, I knew that South Koreans put a lot of emphasis on aesthetics but I didn't know about East Asians in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:11 AM
2

You have to develop sex appeal as an Asian male if you wanna be able to compete with the other races. It doesn't necessarily have to do with looking young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:00 PM
1

I think it has nothing to do with age, more with sexually attractive features. If you were 28 and looked 10 years younger but had developed sex appeal you would kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:58 PM
-1

That's a terrible mindset to have. That's realistically the only way to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:46 AM
26

Natural charisma and strong frame stemming from early childhood/teenager experiences of consistent positive reference experiences. 90% of guys don't have it but some do. If you don't have it you either buy pornhub premium or do what the above guy said.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 03:09 AM
16

Not myself personally but my roommate is one of the highest status and attractive guys I know. He used to go clubbing in big clubs here in Canada and he told me it wasn't uncommon to sleep with 1-3 different girls per night in club washrooms almost every time he went. In my experience sexual status is even more exponential than people theorize about on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:51 PM
1

Yes, the too cool for school comment saying to not worry about women's behavior being posted on a subreddit about sexual strategy ._.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 09:09 PM
1

100% true. If you start improving yourself and seeing a lot of girls, oftentimes you'll be fucking way more people than the girls are. I live in Toronto,Canada (which is one of the most degenerate cities in the world I'd say) and it's super common to find cute/hot girls that haven't had sex in months. Goes from a variety of reason from masturbating often, to not being bothered, to bad experiences with men, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 09:08 PM
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We shouldn't shame sex workers but I find it hard to categorize is as particularly moral. It basically always revolves around people having sex with people they don't want to because they need the money. It might be harsh to call it economic oppression but it could rationally be seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:43 PM
-2

Why act like this is a lot of work? You could open social media accounts on all the major platforms, buy a website domain and host it in less than an hour.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 02:50 AM
4

Look at the girls MGK dates, literally the hottest women. Of course, it helps that he's a famous rockstar but a lot of girls seem to specifically dig his style and attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:06 PM
3

Good to know, I've never heard that before. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:12 PM
0

What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:49 PM
1

Agreed with it being possibly quite strange for a LTR that you have. Fantasy is often very different from imagination. But it's very possible to do it in a much better way. Plenty of young girls these days are bicurious and are either too shy to try to try it or just don't know how. If you're a cool sexy guy, you can make that happen for them and far from being awkward, it can be an experience they thank you for afterwards. Also why craigslist? Setup a good Tinder account and you can find plenty…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 09:21 PM
4

New Russian girl I'm seeing smokes, we'll see if it lives up to the promise 😉
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 12:19 AM
1

Being highly masculine brings out the polarity of women and generally makes them turn highly feminine. There's obviously extent to this but with a girl you like, it's very cool.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:35 PM
1

You're literally breaking frame if you check her phone without knowing. A strong man shouldn't sneak about. Either confront her and ask for her to see it or don't at all and just pay attention to her behavior in the next few weeks.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:55 PM
2

I'm confused. She's literally offering herself to you. Do what you want. Makeout with her, play with/lick/kiss/bite her tits, go down on her, finger her, w/e. Usually, I tease them with fingers, start fingering them and then they moan and beg to get fucked and you can do that or tell them to blow you. What kind of effort do you expect from a young girl that you're fucking for the first time?
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:39 AM
1

Holy shit bro, that's fucked. Just know that beyond all this TRP stuff and girls/money, we're all just humans on a piece of rock and something life is brutal. I've been through tough times and 2020 brought the entire human race to its knees but we'll rise again. Hopefully, you find the strength to get through this brother, we're with you.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:13 AM
1

Completely agree dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:01 PM
2

I think the huge missing piece of this puzzle is that women experience sexual satisfaction beyond orgasms and get more benefits than just sexual. There are a lot of psychological/social benefits. Also combined with the fact that only a small percentage of men get consistent NSA sex(and questionably enjoy it, a lot of guys I know that do really well just want a loyal and cool girl to date but good luck in this day and age.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:01 PM
2

I don't think these traits have anything to do with raising your attraction(sexual or otherwise) as a man. They have more to do with comfort which is more for an LTR than a one-night stand. A lot of relationships go on for a long time without kindness and respect but those are generally between codependent and dysfunctional people. You need to work on and develop your sexual charisma no matter what but I have a hard time picturing a healthy, functioning, and mutually beneficial relationship that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:11 PM
10

Maybe different women look for different things or is that crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:34 PM
3

Is this really possible though? We've now clearly seen how sexual strategy and mating patterns are deeply affected by different political ideologies. Seems like it's all connected and whatever happens out there affects here too.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 08:43 PM
2

I think new arrangements will evolve. Both sexes have been suppressed. Men perhaps had it slightly better but it the common man was still a peon. Only extremely rich men were able to have sexual freedom. Lords would literally force the peasant wives to fuck them on their wedding nights, so often time their kids wouldn't even be theirs. For the first time in history, most people in western countries have enough money to live and do w/e they want. The sexual marketplace is hard to predict at this …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:01 AM
1

Why are you so value? She gave you the blessing of destroying you so hopefully you can build yourself back up stronger. Every girl that breaks your heart is an angel sent from God to deliver you from your weakness and pathetic neediness.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:00 AM
1

How old are you? Where have you figured this out? Honestly, this seems like a rational conclusion when you read Reddit and watch the news but doing it in real life proves different every time. Once again, I live in the most anti pickup city in the world. We literally do day game in the Eaton Centre which is famous for PUAs and literally used to have posters and PSAs warning girls of men approaching men and it didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:13 AM
4

Isn't it cool as fuck? Once you learn to do this, you can meet any human that you see anywhere. Blew my mind once my friend did an approach with me and we chatted up two cute blonde girls. I was like "Wait what, you can talk to other humans you see? How have I never thought of this before" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:57 AM
4

I've done this consistently since 2016 I'd say. I did it as recently as a month ago when the temperature/lockdowns weren't as painful in Toronto. It's always possible man but it sure as fuck ain't easy. But what else is the alternative? Waiting for VR to come out to get a nice AI girlfriend from the comfort of your bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:56 AM
3

It's not really my goal but yeah. I've gotten on a lot of dates from it. And once you're decent at cold approach, everything becomes easier. Think of how easy it is to chat, flirt with, and go out with a girl from school/work/activities when you're used to doing it with random girls on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:54 AM
1

How many approaches have you done? I have friends that are 200 lbs that have gotten results from it. Day game is not easy though. It's hundreds of hundreds of approaches. Even my friends who are good looking 6'+ white dudes have done hundreds if not thousands. It's hard but it works. What else are you gonna do though? Watch Youtube videos and watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:51 AM
3

My apologies, I read too many negative comments and went a bit too aggressive on you. Your experience is very valid and thank you for sharing. Hope my comment was still insightful if you take that part out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:35 AM
5

I'm 25 and this was mostly in Calgary and Toronto. I grew up exactly like those guys and in my teens played League of Legends 12 hours a day and the mere act of making eye contact with a girl would give me anxiety for the next 20 mins. Then I decided enough was enough and joined the pickup groups in my city. I made friends and we'd go out, walk to parks/malls/bars/clubs anything and hang out and talk to girls. Pickup isn't an end-all but it's literally a practice invented by nerds/shy dudes to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:34 AM
0

You're spreading nonsense. I literally live in one of the most anti pickup cities in the world(Toronto) and me and my friends do it all the time. We've had girls come over to our place THIS YEAR DURING LOCKDOWNS. I'd say 75% of girls love it even when they're not interested. Of course it doesn't work all the time but it works often. You need tough skin though. You didn't have enough of it man. I've also had girls cringe, fully ignore me, insults me, etc. And I've had girls light up and talk to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:17 PM
0

Is this your intellectual theory or have you tried it? This year alone(in 2020 during quarantine) I've approached tons of girls, had dates, and slept with some. My friends have done the same. Most girls love it and are shocked and pleasantly surprised when you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:13 PM
6

Depends on how you do it. I had a pickup phase and probably approached around 500 girls over a 2 year period. I'd say 75% of the responses were positive, with a lot of the girls being really flattered. I've had married women light up and apologize because they were taken but say I had made their day. That's not all for sure. I've definitely come off more off-putting than I intended and scared/creeped out some. It's part of it. I'd say it's a shame that men have lost this skill or never had it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:11 PM
0

I don't think she's wildly attracted to you man, she's just copendent.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 12:08 AM
11

Belle Delphine(probably the top e-thot in the world) reveals that she makes $1,000,000 a month from her onlyfans and other content. Pure insanity Here's the link if you guys wanna watch, super interesting.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 01:07 AM
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Don't throw me in that bag, I really don't care who you date fam. Date a 16 year old if you like them young for the sake of young, legal here in Canada. I just don't really see the point man. And personally, I disagree on the younger is always better, I'm 25 and generally the peak hot for me is around 24-27, and their personality is also more pleasant to hang around vs a 19-year old that doesn't know anything about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:06 AM
7

Whoever made the choice between these two? Why would a successful man want to entertwine his life with an 18-early 20s girl vs a cool and smart girl a bit younger than him that can actually add to his life? I'm not judging, do w/e you want, you can marry them 16 here in Canada for all I care but it just doesn't make sense to me logically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:59 AM
23

Morals-match I like it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:24 PM
65

That's exactly how I would picture it. This gives credence to the argument that older guys only date younger women out of insecurity since it shows true once their relationship is exposed to a challenging environment(a normal social gathering haha.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:14 PM
2

Thank you for the comment, this is exactly what I've been feeling. I've quit close to a dozen times already but each times it gets easier. Did you notice improvements in your life when you did quit smoking?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:05 AM
1

Yeah, I think it's a better look and generally healthier than smokes but still not great. Have you noticed any anxiety from vaping or smoking itself?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:47 AM
2

Sounds about right tbh.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:46 AM
1

Not that he's justified but why do you think that is? Society bombards men with the idea that they're worthless if they're not able to get hot girls. It's supposed to be your birthright as a cool male. Look at any Disney movie/romcom/anime/tv show. The whole point of our lives seems to be portrayed as our ability to get girls. I've also had my moments of hating society as a result of not being able to live up to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/20 03:16 AM
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It's almost like you didn't read the post.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 09:23 PM
1

Yeah agreed on the workaholic diagnosis. I wish the best for him, he's doing a lot of good for humanity.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:52 PM
1

Yeah, that's really sad. There's a really good Rolling Stones article with Neil Strauss(the author of The Game) interviewing him. He talks about how he's really lonely and he has a hard time finding satisfaction in life without a woman he loves to come home to. Easy to make fun of him and call him a chump but I have a hard time not calling one of the greatest visionaries and achievers in our generation an alpha. Just shows that there are different facets to life and society really messes up by j…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:27 PM
1

The only other alternatives is leaving them worse or not caring at all. #2 is not too bad but why not give them good cock and a good impression of men to build up their self-esteem? I'd say that most of the dysfunctional behavior from women that are talked about on this subreddit is caused by low self-esteem women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 08:27 PM
1

If your grandparents are capable of having a healthy, mutually loving relationship then so can you. Isn't the whole point of TRP that you can't get over human nature? You just need a better understanding of the dynamics at play here. Society was mostly held by marriages of necessity, not of love. Now we have more freedom than ever. Of course, that's gonna shake things up for a while but it should still eventually lead to greater satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 07:36 PM
22

Think of it like the 35 year old making 300k a year that never dated a girl because he was "too busy" building his career. Those guys usually end up in a pickup Bootcamp because they have 20 years to catchup on. Definitely focus on building yourself but do both at once.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:08 PM
3

Because most men online are also inexperienced and their preferences come from theory and discussion boards as opposed to real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 06:46 PM
1

This is nonsense. You're just not playing the game properly. I'm a photographer and I've optimized mine and my roommate's profile to do really well on tinder. He's a good looking guy and combined with strong pictures he's one of the top guys in our city with 3000+ matches. Here's his profile. Especially in these lockdown times, Tinder and Bumble are incredibly powerful if you use them well.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 06:19 PM
1

And I think the last two federal elections have proved how shaky democracy and unity is in the US. I would've doubted it a few years ago but I don't have a hard time seeing people taking arms and going to war against each other. Sad to see really.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 05:58 PM
2

I don't think so. Sports will just change. Who cares about men throwing balls at each other when we have literal superhumans for our entertainment? Think speed climbing mount Everest, gladiatorial fights, etc. The height of entertainment has yet to come.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 05:55 PM
1

Probably will be a hybrid of the both. AR lenses have already been patented by Samsung and other tech companies a long time ago. Combine that with Stadia and streamable hardware over 5G and we already have the tech to make this happen.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 05:53 PM
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What do you like about it? It had some novel idea but I think she went too far into trying to be edgy. I would recommend everyone read it though but if you're bitter against women I'd avoid it as it's only gonna lead you to double down on that.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:15 AM
3

I disagree, I think they're more sexualized if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:49 PM
1

What qualifies a marriageable woman to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 05:11 PM
2

Do you think perhaps the premise of monogamy is the concept that's flawed here? People complain that marriage rates are falling but this is also the first time in human society where both sexes are sexually and financially pretty much independent. Before you needed to get married or you would DIE. Perhaps there's a new way of rearing children that will come about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:19 PM
2

I'm not an American but I can confirm this in Downtown Toronto. Most people(especially women) around 30 are very attractive. Dating apps are skewed though, they don't present a statistically accurate representation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:17 PM
3

Now you understand social dynamics. Be careful with saying controversial stuff, people will get mad. Think about it constructively though, if the people you around say stupid stuff, then don't hang out with them? If you're 15 then I suggest you study entrepreneurship and start an online business/brand instead of socializing with people that you don't care about and won't talk to ever again after the next couple of years.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:32 AM
3

I mean, justify it however you want but if you don't have social media, you're becoming less and less relevant by the day. My roommate has 300 girls watch his stories and if it weren't for covid, we can throw parties with one post. Are you matching that with cold approach, what's the alternative strategy here?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:44 PM
4

Every single comment in this thread is autistic. Why is there a single person in your friend group that you don't like/get value from hanging out with? You should carefully pick out every single person that you associate with. If you aren't able to do this then your social skills/networking skills aren't where they need to be. Practice.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:12 AM
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He's not wrong. The average man has nothing to offer the average woman. Only a great man has value to society and women really and now with social and technological inventions, great men are able to access every woman.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:52 PM
3

TRP understands human nature only to an extent. Sometimes it's the complete opposite and you're too HIGH value for a girl. Women are like men, some are more ambitious than others. For some girls, if you're working out, making good money, and good at networking, you're too much for them. They just want a quiet life near their parents, raise kids, and die. And some women want to conquer the world so nothing will repulse them more than that.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:18 PM
6

If you want, I can review your profile and help you structure it. I'm a Tinder photographer and my roommate is this 0.5% guy you're talking about. He has 1100 matches and 1800 pending likes in Downtown Toronto, where guys seem to not be able to get laid much. We have 5-10 girls coming to our place every week.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:45 PM
1

You can totally talk about any of this, it just has to be socially calibrated. Are you really surprised that shouting Feminist in a college lecture makes you seem immature and turns off girls? Easy to blame the world, much harder to blame yourself. I've talked to women about women being sluts, simps not being able to get laid and being creepy, etc and never had issues.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 05:37 PM
8

He's right, you must be a simp for liking women over the age of 18 haha. I feel like a lot of RPers are slightly autistic with a huge lack of life experience, and that's coming from someone who's been on RP for 7 years and being honest, that was my case. I'm 25 and a lot of women 30-45 are incredibly attractive. The 18-22 are as well, it's jus different ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:14 PM
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Throw a photoshoot. If you have a photographer friend then great, if not message 20 of them in your city with 500-5k followers and you'll find a few that will shoot exotic cars with girls for free. Wait, did I say girls? DM 100 hot girls in your city saying you're throwing a shoot with photographers and luxury cars and guaranteed 5-15 will be down. Post it all on your story and perhaps make a video out of it. Congratulations, you're now an event promoter/luxury networker. Combining things like t…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:58 PM
15

Have you ever actually dated/fucked a girl that was very inexperienced or the so called virgin holy grail? They're generally insecure, shy and awkward. Everything is a catch-22, I wouldn't worry about this too much. Plenty of girls with mountains of red flags that have not fucked much at all.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:39 AM
1

That's a good way to put it, you articulated my thoughts better than I could've!
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:20 PM
2

I agree with the other posters, it seemed like one of the guys already knew her and fucked her. Which is what happens, perhaps ask her about it and see if she's honest with you or lies and from that you'll learn if you can trust her. Other point is there's not much you can do apart from having previously lifted and looking imposing so random guys aren't inclined to do that. You can reply with some form of judo and challenge frame "If you think I'm cute, don't be shy about it bro, you're not my t…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:13 PM
1

I would assume that 5/6 on the non-monogamous scale is something like completely open relationships or polygamous relationships(3 or 4 way relationships) where 1/2 are things like FWB relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:25 PM
3

I don't think sex bots are gonna be the norm but they're gonna have a role to play. I see something like the the movie 'Her' being much more likely with companionship AI being much closer to the emotional intimacy that a real relationship provides with sex bots and other such contraptions just being used to bridge the physical aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:24 PM
1

I don't think globalism will end anytime soon, I believe nationalistic movements are part of a trend of vocal minorities crying out but as a whole the world is benefiting for increased connectedness. What's your reasons to believe that nuclear families are coming back? My theory is that we're gonna do the complete opposite and bring about a new version of the tribal days where families are a lot intertwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:20 PM
1

You bring up fascinating points. I don't think an uprising will happen for two reasons: 1. Military and tracking technology makes it harder and harder for an uprising against the state to be possible. Just 70 years ago, the Nazis physically marched on Berlin but a contemporary equivalent of people marching on Washington beyond a peaceful protest seems hard to believe. The social culture moves more and more towards socialism and things like social programs and even UBI are becoming a staple of ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:17 PM
1

Perhaps we will see a sort of eugenics where girls are actually favored over boys as a lot of men will not be reproducing this century(just my theory) as more and more are priced out of the dating market and turn increasingly to things like porn, video games and VR technology as it becomes more widely adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:12 PM
2

I find that hard to believe. Technology makes it harder and harder for crime to be a viable option as well as society moving towards a more socialist model with UBI being seriously discussed and tested in many major western countries. I think this will be the first time in humanity where polygamy doesn't lead to violent outcomes. I think the beta cucks will find their fulfillment in video games and VR girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:10 PM
4

Do you mind elaborating? This is the first study I've ever linked, I thought I was coming in with strong stats haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:39 PM
3

I'm thinking something like that will happen. What I'm curious is if we'll see something completely unprecedented with the new technology people have access to these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:38 PM
2

There's a whole range of answers. They ranked it 1-6 if they'd be open to polyamory. Anything from serial dating to threesomes to full on polygamous relationships counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:16 PM
5

Clothes for men are the equivalent of makeup for women. Accentuates masculine features. The more of those you have, the less you need to worry about fashion but it can still supercharge your look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:22 PM
9

I feel like the issue with the 20% thing is that the category in which that takes place is not always the same. Of course not all women want the 6'2 lacrosse player, because there are a wide variety of categories on which they judge men but I'd argue they're still attracted to the men in more or less the top 20% of that category. For example, a more nerdy girl will probably not peg her dream guy as a sports player who's never done something nerdy in his life. But she's probably more likely to wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:20 PM
1

That's the difference between a social science and hard sciences. 2+2 is always 4 and you can replicate chemical reactions with 100% accuracy but anydealing with human psychology is more nuanced. It doesn't make the science any less accurate though, it's just not as straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:10 PM
5

I think the issue is that every single point has so much nuance that they're not easy to categorize and refute. For example, AWALT(as I understand it) means that every single woman has female nature and to not forget that. Not necessarily that every single girl will cheat under X circumstance or some other black and white point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:06 PM
1

Breakdown the social circle and understand the dynamics at play. Who is it centered around? If it's you and she's otherwise a cool person, tell her to cut it off and if she does it again then just stop inviting her to things. Also your frame should be strong enough that silly comments like that shouldn't break it. For the guys that are really solid with girls, there's not much that you can do to steal girls/ruin the set away from them.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:34 PM
2

Missing and wanting positive female energy in your life is not beta, it'd be worrisome if you didn't. Focus on your goals and progress. Although I don't quite see how covid stops you from meeting new girls. Online game is popping right now. Get yourself some nice new pics and hit up the apps my man. Don't spend winter alone, it's gonna be a cold one 😇
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:45 AM
1

Yes, that's way better than using the Tinder editor
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:32 PM
2

I'd say this one is cooler. I still think it's too polarizing needlessly. If you took one sitting down on the kit, holding the drumsticks and smirking down or something, I think it'd achieve the same effect of showing value while looking better. You definitely wanna try out Bumble, Hinge, Badoo, and Facebook dating. Tinder is more difficult if you're not traditional looking for your area. Other apps will have much more niche girls if you're into that. Bumble works especially well for me, that's …
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:32 PM
3

Haha, glad to hear. Get them through Google Drive and do NOT crop them on Tinder, that destroys the quality. Use an actual editor that will not compress whatsoever. If your pics are taken on Iphones 10/11s then they should be much better yeah.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:58 PM
4

That's an amazing tip. Plenty of photographers will take pictures of you for free. That's a good tip for anyone if you'd rather not shell out for a specific shoot and I wouldn't recommend it unless the photographers knows what they're doing as most portraits aren't great for Tinder.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:24 PM
1

That's what I was thinking after all the interest but I'm not sure of the product angle besides just giving tips for shoots, it doesn't seem very scalable.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:23 PM
2

I'd say the swiping on who liked you is worth it alone. Saves you time where you'd be swiping to match with girls you wouldn't fuck anyway. The ROI always seems worth it no matter how you put it but the more matches you get the more useful it is.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:22 PM
8

Yep. Toronto is so interesting because the inequality is wild here. The city of hobos and Lambos and 27 year old virgins and guys getting laid three times a day everyday with different girls. I'd say it's the trend the world is going now. I've heard it referred to as the Kansas Small Town Girl phenomena. Where in the past the hottest girl in a small town would get with the lawyer or the doctor of the place, now she's getting flown to LA and hanging out with Bilzerian and getting 50k IG followers…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:23 PM
69

Here's a video breakdown, hopefully that helps. Trying to give it to you straight and be constructive, I think you can and will do really well if you redo them all.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:03 PM
-2

I feel like you don't really mean that. If you're serious, there are definitely ways to kill your sex drive. Things like porn and antidepressants have a documented effect on it so from that we can infer that it'd be possible to temporarily or permanently change it from similar or other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:28 PM
104

You're a good looking guy but your pictures don't do you justice. I'm surprised no one pointed it out. They definitely lower your SMV by 2-3 points. You look either more uncomfortable or more try hard than you should be, it's probably confusing to girls. PM me and I can help further, I'm literally a Tinder Photographer.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 01:25 PM
3

If you got married irresponsably, you have no one to blame but yourself. You're the only person responsible for your happiness. Still time to get out brosky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:50 PM
2

TRP is a toxic community, don't pay attention to it. You got the right idea and they're right, how can you trust this girl to have your back when things actually matter? Little things like this may seem inconsequential and they are, that's the universe giving you a huge pass so you don't have to find her lying about stuff that actually matters. Plenty of nice girls that will treat you amazingly that not only do not lie but don't have skeletons in their closet. Take this as a lesson learned and c…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:46 AM
1

What does instant gratification have to do with relationships? Not that I disagree with you, I just can't quite put it into words and I'm curious if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:27 PM
1

What percentage is this hot extrovert male that you're speaking of? I know dozens of guys around 18-25 and only maybe a handful have an abundant dating life. A lot of them get girls but it's sporatic(myself included) and not a consistent thing. If 95% of guys are struggling then it's really not an average ugly men problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:07 PM
3

Haha, I ran into the same thing. As a guy around 20-23 girls your age start hanging out with guys in the mid to late 20s who have their own car and apartment and you have a hard time matching up. It's not necessarily bad because you can scale up and work on yourself and date the same girls when you've got your shit more figured out but it's an interesting phenomenon whereas in school everyone hangs out with people from their same age group generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:05 PM
2

What do you think causes this and when did it start? I think it's partly to do with big cities. People live in huge cities with a lot of people they don't have much in common with. I'm from Toronto and it's rated one of the Canadian cities where people have the hardest time meeting dating partners and making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:03 PM
2

Could be a BPD girl. Hot and cold and flipping out over a perceived rejection. Don't doubt your intuition and don't bend over backwards for a girl.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:35 PM
1

If you're in the US this is illegal and could get the women in trouble so don't do it. If you're somewhere where it's legal then yeah, go for it why not.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:33 PM
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