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I learned how to do a striptease from a burlesque dancer who came to my friend’s house for her hen party (bachelorette party for US ladies). I liked it because it was very sexy and provocative without being vulgar which helped me not to feel so embarrassed, plus the clothes are beautiful... that and a glass of wine beforehand lol I can’t wait to feel sexy again and do this for my husband, I’m currently pregnant and feel like a beached whale :D
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 04:05 PM
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Prime example of someone who hasn’t understood what this group is about.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 10:13 PM
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Homemade pizza!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 04:58 PM
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Hi all! Has anybody got any good anti-nausea remedies for morning sickness? I’ve been having all day sickness for the past few weeks and it’s really taken it out of me. Also, should I take diclegis? The doctor has prescribed it but I’m scared to take medication during pregnancy. Anyone got any experience with it? This is my first after a long infertility battle so I’m very anxious!
/r/RedPillWives25/04/20 01:14 PM
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No idea how to use one but why not
/r/RedPillWives24/04/20 04:58 AM
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Honestly? Paternity testing should just be standard practice. That way men can be sure the baby is theirs and there are no hurt feelings on anyone’s part, because everyone has it done. As a woman I would have no problem with this being a normal part of post-natal testing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 02:36 PM
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Yeah I’m European and I agree with this, better for him to stay with her family
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 09:02 AM
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Girl I feel like you except I don’t have the other kids to look after. My MIL is actually living with us for a few weeks helping me out because I can barely get out of bed in the afternoons. I felt able to eat a proper meal for the first time in a week this evening and promptly threw half of it up and am back in bed. I get how you feel. I feel super guilty that I’m not doing much around the house, I can do light chores in the morning through the nausea but the afternoon and evening are impossibl…
/r/RedPillWives18/04/20 10:04 PM
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Eh, I’m from an LMC background and married a guy who’s solidly UMC. I think you’re mostly right, but there are always going to be exceptions to the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:05 AM
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Anyone else feel that the word “mother” shouldn’t be used in these cases? What a monster.
/r/PussyPass06/03/20 12:19 PM
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Exactly this. In a relationship with someone I care for, I want to help them.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 10:57 AM
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Woah hang on. I was long distance for 4 years with my husband. We’ve now been together for 15 years and are trying for a baby. Distance isn’t always the death knell for a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 07:22 PM
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Lasagne tonight, it’s traditional here for carnival
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 07:36 PM
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On the one hand it’s positive if men no longer get shamed for spending time with their families instead of working constantly. On the other, it’s ridiculous that these same women would be up in arms if the genders were reversed. Why can’t we find a balance? It’s incredibly frustrating.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 12:17 PM
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He’s definitely entitled to his privacy, but it’d probably be best to find a woman who at the least doesn’t have a huge knee-jerk reaction to the idea of men’s rights, more for the sake of compatibility than anything else.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:20 AM
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As a woman... there are more of us than you know who support or at least have no problem with men’s rights. Personally, I don’t get why women get hysterical over it given that most men have no interest in taking women’s rights away, they just want fair treatment in society, courts, the media etc. Be reasonable when explaining, use facts, make sure she’s aware you’re not advocating for women being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen... and if she responds with emotion and ranting then nope right…
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:18 AM
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It’s not easy, outside of church I haven’t had much luck either to be honest. Almost none of my friends are traditional, although they aren’t raving SJWs either. We don’t have conflict over it, and find plenty of common ground despite wanting different things. I guess I’m satisfied with having people around me who I like and who aren’t judgemental, the only women I know with the same views on marriage and gender roles as me though are much older
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 10:28 AM
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As another childless catholic woman aged 34 and struggling with fertility... do you have any coping mechanisms? Or are you ok with it? Sorry to hijack, and sorry to ask something so personal, I won’t be offended in the slightest if you want to refrain from answering. I’m having real difficulties with it myself, and I’m desperate for ways to feel happy without children when a family is all I’ve ever wanted.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 10:25 AM
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Well probably some women do. Some people are prepared to be offended by literally anything. Don’t worry about it, this is the internet. At least half of what takes place is probably miscommunication of some sort :) Plus tbf the way things are at the moment I’m not surprised you jumped to that conclusion.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 09:35 PM
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Probably not very many, but possibly more than you think. Question: where did you get that I felt personally attacked by the menu? I just thought it was stupid, outdated and put unnecessary pressure on the guy to pay. Edit: if you read the comment again it literally says I was pissed off for my husband, not for myself.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 08:02 AM
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Probably how he looks after me when I’m sick. I have terrible migraines and when I have an episode I’m completely useless. He’s amazing when it happens, never complains, helps me with the dog, brings me water and medicine.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 02:08 PM
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When was this? I live near there and it used to happen a few years back but I haven’t seen it in a while. Used to piss me off, not because I felt discriminated against but because it seemed a bit shit for my partner that he was expected to pay. I mean what if it was my turn? Or a treat for his birthday or something?
/r/MensRights23/10/19 10:29 PM
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Awesome, I don’t know a word of Swedish (just English, Italian and French to fluency with a smidge of Spanish and Scottish Gaelic). I like kids too! I became a teacher, and I love my job. However... they can be little shits too. Makes me glad that social media didn’t really make an appearance until I’d finished high school, it seems to make it all so much more intense for the bullying victims.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 09:03 PM
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Good for you! Be aware that you don’t have to be ugly to be bullied for your looks. I was bullied horrifically and I modeled for a while so I’d say that I’m probably pretty categorically not ugly. Sometimes (usually!) it’s just kids/teens being assholes and nothing more.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:46 PM
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It won’t be easy. I still have to pull myself up when I get obsessive. It’s super easy to fixate on something when you were bullied about it, especially something that gets as much attention as looks do in our society, and especially when it’s something that’s still important and not to be neglected, just... try to find a balance I guess Ps your English is pretty good :) what’s your first language (only if you don’t mind saying)?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:37 PM
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Until I got to your age (I’m 34) I had to ask myself if you were me! Similar story. Personally I’m still pretty insecure and not sure if I’m as pretty as people say I am. My husband seems pretty convinced though and that’s the main thing! I suppose my main piece of advice would be to not fixate on it (easier said than done, I know). Looks are important yes, but it’s way more important to keep healthy and to focus on who you are as a person. Look after yourself, maximize your health which has the…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:30 PM
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I don’t have much advice, I just wanted to let you know that you aren’t alone. We’re struggling with infertility too, and for us there are issues on both sides which sucks. Now looking into both IVF and adopting, since we always wanted to adopt anyway before we even knew we’d have fertility problems. I get your husband. It’s hard, you feel like a failure, like you’re broken. There’s some great advice on this thread but the main things really boil down to being there for each other, listening and…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 05:50 PM
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When he has problems, dark times, when everyone else seems to abandon him... stick by him, don’t criticize him, give him advice only when asked and don’t get offended if he doesn’t follow it. Stand up for him when others criticize him. Don’t belittle him in public. In private, offer only gentle advice, without ever trying to change who he is as a person. Make sure he knows he is appreciated and that you are attracted to him. Make sure he knows you are proud to be by his side no matter what. Make…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 11:11 PM
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You’re like me! Apparently, we’re ambiverts! Personally, I think I’m something of an “Antisocial Extrovert”.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 05:29 AM
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Nope. See la culla della vita in Italy. The reasoning is that if the child is abandoned at the hospital he/she stands a fighting chance , which is better than the alternative for certain sick fucks who otherwise abandon kids in fields etc. it’s not the initiative at fault, it’s that it shouldn’t need to exist in the first place
/r/MensRights19/09/19 02:19 PM
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It’s impossible to say what that looks like for each individual. What works for me and my husband might not work for you, besides when I say to develop interests they need to be things you are actually interested in so me being into watercolors and natural history might be the most boring thing ever for someone who is more interested in modern history and formula 1 racing. Same for the schedule, depends on personal situation, job, location and more
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 07:03 AM
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Not op but I have a similar relationship. My 2 cents would be that the best way to attract this type of man is definitely to be the type of person that attracts respect yourself. Develop interests and culture, volunteer your time etc. Aside from that, work out where in your area these people are likely to congregate and try to be there too. Edit: not saying you don’t do these things already or that this is all there is to it, I think there’s always a good dollop of luck in there too
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 08:16 AM
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I literally just said this to my husband. When I find myself agreeing with this dude then it’s gone too damn far
/r/MensRights14/09/19 07:11 PM
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As a Scottish person I approve of this
/r/MensRights05/09/19 09:15 AM
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This is ridiculous. I work, but far fewer hours than my husband. I do the housework. Because I work fewer hours, so that’s fair. It’s still equal division of labor, if anything slightly skewed in my favor. These people make me want to bang my head against a brick wall.
/r/MensRights03/09/19 10:38 AM
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This. I’m a center left voting woman, so about as far from alt-right as you can possibly get, and I support men’s rights and am horrified by what feminism has become. Make of that what you will, but I think it all comes down to group-think, echo chambers and the inability to have a civil discussion with someone who doesn’t share the same opinion. It’s a dangerous trend and also absurd given that some of the most interesting conversations I’ve ever had have been with people who have completely di…
/r/MensRights03/09/19 10:08 AM
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This makes zero sense.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/19 09:23 PM
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Children shouldn’t be cut. Male or female. End of. If someone wants to do something as an adult for religious reasons they can go right ahead, but they shouldn’t be allowed to impose it on a child
/r/MensRights26/08/19 08:25 PM
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Research backs you up. The cost of a wedding is inversely proportionate to the likelihood of the success of the marriage.
/r/MensRights08/08/19 09:55 AM
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This is an indictment of the shitty US health system as much as one of the bratty bridezilla crap, because apparently the problem is that he aged out of his parent’s insurance. Ugh.
/r/MensRights08/08/19 09:54 AM
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I get that maybe it was more comfortable to stand, but they should have at least offered. Tell me they at least apologized for stomping on you?
/r/MensRights08/08/19 09:47 AM
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Lots of women want the wedding, not the marriage.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 11:12 PM
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But shouldn’t the payment come from the hospitals which are private rather than from the government? Sorry I’m not too clear on the American system as it’s completely different to ours. Yes the whole thing is barbaric and should be considered mutilation, it makes me so angry to hear how “accepted” it is. It’s fucking disgusting that they do that to little kids.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 10:05 PM
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Speak to your partner. Equal effort, not equal chores. My partner works longer hours than me, therefore I do more of the housework. Actually I do about 99% of it. I still see it as being an equal partnership, we’re just bringing different things to the table. An older woman once told me that the household is like a business, and with two people trying to do the same job it’s destined for failure. I think she was right.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 09:59 PM
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Wait, you’re in the UK? Not the US? I didn’t think circumcision was even that practiced there. It’s just awful, the whole idea makes me squirm and want to cross my legs, and I don’t even have a penis.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 09:53 PM
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You should get compensation! Fucking hell how is this not a thing?
/r/MensRights07/08/19 09:50 PM
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Why should a man give up his seat to another able bodied adult? Also, if you’re an able bodied woman and you see an elderly or injured guy on the train, what’s stopping you giving up your seat? I’ve done it before and would do it again. A woman once threw herself in front of me on the underground to get the last seat when I had a sprained ankle and a broken wrist, I also had bags in the other hand and no way of holding on to the handle grip. When another passenger protested she said that she had…
/r/MensRights07/08/19 05:00 PM
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What gets me is... how can you justify doing that to someone you supposedly love enough to spend the rest of your life with? Even in your own head that’s got to be hard to justify. It makes me think of the classic trope of women who want the wedding - the party, the ring, the big white dress, the presents, the honeymoon- and not the actual marriage. That makes me sad 😞
/r/MensRights01/08/19 06:44 AM
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Holy shit that’s a mess. I’m not in the US, and I’ve been to about 5 bachelorette parties and none of them had a stripper or any sex acts involved. Most of them involved either a day at a spa or some kind of sports activity followed by some drinks and a nice meal. I know that friends in the UK on the other hand have told me similar stories about brides to be as in your post though, and I find it surreal. What are the statistics on bachelor parties? Are they just as bad or not so much?
/r/MensRights01/08/19 06:36 AM
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I’m aware of that... but Amsterdam is seen as a party town for both. What I’m saying is that the individual person and their behavior and attitude are more important than where they are geographically, and maybe even more important than their gender. Also my husband went on a destination stag night, and I’m as sure as I can be that he didn’t get up to anything too egregious
/r/RedPillWives13/07/19 03:44 PM
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So? I went on my bachelorette party to Amsterdam. We went to museums, rented bikes and had a picnic, went for an early morning running tour with a running tour guide and had a few drinks each night without getting trashed or ending up on stripper poles or smoking pot in a coffee shop - hell I don’t even like cigarettes, let alone spliffs! It was a really chill girls’ weekend. Don’t see why boys can’t do the same IF that’s the kind of friend group they are. Big if though...
/r/RedPillWives13/07/19 12:24 PM
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To be fair.... having visited the US my husband and I were horrified by the fridge level aircon you guys have. We live in a hot country too but you guys take it too far for our personal tastes... especially my husband actually, the strong cold air gave him a rotten headache. Ah yes, it’s our personal tastes so we can’t push that on the rest of the country, someone remind these ladies of this please? Seriously though, why do you guys make it so cold inside in the summer, it must be like 15 degree…
/r/PussyPass09/07/19 11:54 AM
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It’s all true in both directions though... that’s what feminists don’t get
/r/RedPillWives09/07/19 11:45 AM
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Thanks for this site in general, it’s great. Also, I completely agree with the article. My husband had a really tough year last year and we got through it with our relationship intact, and the tips in here are spot on.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/19 10:56 AM
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Thanks 😊 in the end he stopped asking, maybe he really was worried that I secretly wanted a bigger ring and now he’s sure that I mean it when I say I don’t he’s ok with it. We are currently putting the finishing touches on our own home - we’ve been renting - and can’t wait for the next stage of our lives together ❤️
/r/RedPillWives30/04/19 03:40 PM
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He’s taking a fertility supplement with zinc, selenium and a few other things I don’t remember the name of. I’m on folic acid and have started the Keto diet as apparently that can boost fertility too. What do you suggest?
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 11:52 AM
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Exactly! It’s definitely something that’s all in his head, I love my ring and have never got a negative comment on it. Even if someone did say something bad, I’d ignore it - it’s none of their business anyway
/r/RedPillWives04/02/19 05:54 PM
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I don’t know - what’s forced comforting? Sorry for the ignorance, it’s not a term I know. I never even think about replacing the ring, I’m not really into status symbols of any kind to be honest, it’s definitely coming from him or from something outside of our relationship. I’m wondering if it’s to do with some of his friends who tend to be a bit preoccupied with that kind of thing.
/r/RedPillWives04/02/19 05:53 PM
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That’s not a terrible idea if he really continues to feel this way about it. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives04/02/19 12:24 PM
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My sex drive tanked on birth control. Rest assure it will come back... and the first few months when it does, it comes back with a vengeance... like woah. Good luck and look after yourself
/r/RedPillWives04/02/19 11:41 AM
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Thank you! I’m trying not to obsess about it but it’s oretty difficult. Just going into the TWW again now ugh
/r/RedPillWives04/02/19 07:17 AM
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Yeah, apparently in particular male fertility is falling. One theory is that it’s all of the oestrogens and phytoestrogens used in factory farming
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:29 AM
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We’d been using natural family planning before trying as a contraceptive method. The worst thing is we actually fell pregnant by accident the year before we got married - unfortunately I miscarried but I guess it made us complacent. It was a shock to not be able to get pg just 2 years later. We are both making some lifestyle changes to increase our chances too. Re. Adoption, it’s always something I’ve wanted to do whether or not we can have a baby naturally, but he just doesn’t feel ready for th…
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:27 AM
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We’re making sure that sex isn’t all about babymaking, but it does take the spontaneity out of the equation for about 10 days a month which sucks for both of us. We’re going to just relax for the next few months as we’re moving into a new house soon so that’s stressful enough on its own. We’ll start trying again once we’re settled.
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:23 AM
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Thank you ❤️ And prayers are always appreciated
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:21 AM
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I think it is harder for guys in a way, as they don’t feel they can talk to anyone about it. So yeah, you’re right
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:21 AM
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That’s how we’re trying to look at it...
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:20 AM
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Thank you! We are trying to do just that, like you said it’s an emotional rollercoaster. Congratulations on your family, I’m so glad it all worked for you
/r/RedPillWives29/01/19 07:19 AM
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Opera! I never thought I’d enjoy opera, but my husband is Italian and often takes clients and their SOs to the opera - I loved it from the very first time
/r/RedPillWives11/09/18 11:21 AM
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If it’s in your means you should feel free to spend as much or as little as you want.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/18 08:38 PM
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He already has a study and he works way too hard as it is. This is a place for him to relax with his guitar, his comics and his PlayStation. He refers to them as man caves, obviously it's ironic.
/r/RedPillWives21/10/17 08:34 AM
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Yes a comfy chair is definitely a good idea! Also a recliner can be moved to the new place when we move so that sounds like a good idea, thanks!
/r/RedPillWives26/09/17 02:33 PM
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The problem with that solution is that as this is a rented apartment and very small, there is no space he can have as his own other than that room which right now is in a terrible state... he doesn't have the time to do it up himself, so I wanted to do it for him... I do see what you mean, but he's the kind of person who needs his own space and until we get into the new house I want to go d some way of meeting that need. Maybe rather than as a surprise I should ask for his input though so it's g…
/r/RedPillWives26/09/17 02:30 PM
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Me too! This was funny because I consider the kitchen "my space". He goes off by himself in the bedroom to play the guitar and read when he needs his own time because we don't have a man cave space but next week I'm planning on gutting the spare room and turning it into one for him - I have my space, he should have his... it's only temporary while we renovate the place we bought but still.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/17 10:52 AM
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I'm in Europe and I just get them at the herbalist - maybe you can order some on Amazon or something to avoid dealing with the MLM stuff?
/r/RedPillWives25/09/17 01:22 PM
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I've been where you are in a sense. We met overseas and went back to our respective countries for 4 years before I decided to make a permanent move to be with him. It's possible to do, but it's hard... I cried way too often those first years. As for advice ... Make use of technology, write snail mail letters a d throw yourself into self improvement. This will pass, although if you find a way of transferring closer it will be easier on you both
/r/RedPillWives24/09/17 10:04 PM
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Orange and spice? Eucalyptus and mint? Tea tree? Chestnut? Sandalwood? Citronella (smells quite different to lemon)? I use a lot of essential oils as I find them less cloying than candles and my husband likes the scents more - they tend to be less girly unless you go for the out and out florals
/r/RedPillWives24/09/17 09:10 PM
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Lavender is good for headaches though, as is peppermint... I say this as someone who suffers from horrible migraines
/r/RedPillWives24/09/17 09:03 PM
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