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Yeah, but wealth is also attractive. Would you rather date a woman with $30k annual income, or woman with $2mil annual income Of course it isn't the most important thing in the world. But it does contribute. There are some women out there that I know that make shit money but have so many other amazing qualities that it doesn't matter. But, for example, on tinder. If I see someone's major in college is history, I'm going to be less attracted to them than an engineer. Based on knowing nothing else…
/r/seduction02/05/16 06:17 AM
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I'm not disagreeing, as this is often the case. But I, personally, like the fun of the game more than most. I'll usually try to escalate one slight level, but not again until she does. eg. I'll approach her and start talking. There, I did the approach. Now she needs to be the first to make physical contact. Then I'll take the next step and get her number. Then I'll make her text me. Then I'll ask her on a date. etc, etc, etc. Of course there are exceptions to this. But in many situations, I'd ra…
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:38 PM
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I'll confirm this by saying I've been following this subreddit for three years and have never read anything in depth, just field reports and occasional tips. Then I'd go out and try the things I'd read about. Many times. With lots of failure. And three years later, believe it or not, I actually am successful pretty god damn frequently! So yes, the only real way to learn is to go do things. Reading tips will build your confidence, but if you don't practice, you'll never improve. You can read all …
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:08 AM
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Just so you know, this is very stupid and childish and I hope nobody else does this. Not only is it illegal, but it uses up resources that are made to help people and save lives. Whether the call actually goes through or not is irrelevant, there was a good chance it would have. Additionally, if it had connected only for a split second, you would've gotten a call back.
/r/seduction26/12/15 09:00 AM
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TheRedPill is basically sociopath feeding grounds. It's just pure crap for any meaningful relationship
/r/seduction04/11/15 05:51 PM
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You're the kind of person that I enjoy dating for relationship prospects, absolutely, and with that I couldn't agree with you more. However, a lot of people here are actually just trying to have sex. So your advice is preaching to the wrong audience.
/r/seduction26/07/15 06:52 PM
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I agree with you, depending on the person, and on the age. There's different strategies dependent on maturity level. I was dating this fantastic woman, and we were honest about everything. Our sexual histories, what we look for in a partner, where we disagree on things, some different people we've dated, etc. It worked out great. I've also dated some girls who react terribly to this stuff. Like I was talking to a girl a couple years younger than me, and I told her that I was recently kinda datin…
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:56 PM
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Uhhhh don't do anything like that. If you think they're in immediate danger, meaning in the process of hurting themself, then call a paramedic. But in very few circumstances is a psych ward helpful. It makes people like that hate themselves more. Recommend a therapist, yes. There's a huge difference between wanting to die and having a plan to die.
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:59 AM
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Yeah man, if I met you somewhere and you told me your hobbies are photography and building drones, we'd have a lot to talk about. I also do photography, and I have a huge interest in mechanics and electronics; was an Engineering major. Sometimes the first step is just talking to people. You seem really fuckin cool man, haha.
/r/seduction30/06/15 06:42 PM
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You kidding? All of the old folks I talk to (which is a lot) are always very very knowledgeable about something. It's not technology, but if you think that the only valuable knowledge is modern science/tech, then you need to grow up, kid. Old folks are amazing, maybe you should talk to them sometime about something other than Facebook or smartphones
/r/seduction28/05/15 06:08 PM
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You're a good mod. I know people probably get pissed at you for taking down a post like this, but the fact that you added this in just...really good of you and shows that you care. Keep it up mate.
/r/seduction30/03/15 05:23 AM
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Idk I've been in a couple of long term relationship with girls like that and although they take a little while longer to trust you, when they do it'll be sweeter imo. Because you know what they give you is special and most other people don't have that with her. Just be good and respectful to her
/r/seduction29/03/15 12:32 AM
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I'm also 20. If you want this girl to like you, be yourself. She already knows you a bit. Loosen up, take a bug deep breath, and relax. If this is the girl you're focusing on tonight because you like her, I want you to do something for me. Go talk to 3 other random girls. Yeah, before you talk to the girl you're into, go talk to three other girls. "Hi I'm blabla and am making it my mission to learn the names of every cute girl here, what's your name?" You don't have the intention of picking up t…
/r/seduction28/03/15 12:38 AM
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drop my standards for a woman who makes seduction easy If a woman makes it easier for me - by dropping hints and being relaxed and taking initiative - I'll start looking for attractive qualities in her. If she approaches me, says hi, and we start talking.... She could be slightly below average, but I'll usually find something cute about her that makes her worth it.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:35 AM
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Ah there's your problem.
/r/seduction21/03/15 02:14 PM
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All I'm saying is that it's possible, you know? We can't quite judge before we know :P
/r/seduction16/03/15 12:56 AM
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I agree. If someone tries to seem more alpha than me, her friend, it actually makes them look insecure. And you can bet your sorry little ass that I'm going to talk to my female-best-friend about how silly you look!
/r/seduction14/03/15 06:26 AM
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Nope. Guy here. Dated and hooked up with a girl for about half a year. Honestly thought I may end up marrying her someday. It's two years later now and we're best friends and have no feelings at all. We give each other dating advice, bitch to each other about our relationships, and all that jazz. But we talked about it a long time ago and we just enjoy each other as friends. I hook her up with cute guys, she hooks me up with cute girls. No feelings for each other. People in this sub seem to thin…
/r/seduction14/03/15 06:19 AM
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Disagree. I'm that 'best guy friend' to two different girls right now, and have been with others before, and am in no way upset about it. It's possible to actually be genuine friends with someone without wanting to fuck them. For example, I'm truly best friends with this one girl, and we're always looking out for each other, guiding each other away from stupid relationships, but I mean we hook each other up with dates, too. I've helped her hook up with several guys. Never once been jealous or an…
/r/seduction14/03/15 06:15 AM
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Haha! that's one of the best I've ever heard! I'm assuming you got laid again soon after?
/r/seduction23/02/15 07:58 PM
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Lol, fair enough. Just thought I'd try to help some of those douchers be less of douchers
/r/seduction22/02/15 07:43 AM
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Haha, I do it too. But not as a method to impress a girl with my lyrics knowledge :P
/r/seduction22/02/15 06:31 AM
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I see it happen all of the time; guy approaches girl and tries to impress her by singing all of the lyrics. I love singing and dancing like an idiot as much as anyone else, it's fucking great, but it's not useful as a pickup method. You have to talk and actually build a connection, and too many people think they're getting a girl to like them by singing her the lyrics to Rap God
/r/seduction22/02/15 06:30 AM
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No, (s)he is just referring to simple concepts of the phleugenshnof
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:38 AM
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Very very good points
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:30 PM
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Rather than let him go, I think it would be very beneficial to try to work on it . It sucks ruining friendships like that, and you'll be much happier if you can find a way to keep him in your life. That said, it may take some work. Have you been neglecting your friend lately? Bailing on him to meet up with chicks? If so, stop that. Hang out with just him sometimes, stay in and play video-games, put HIM first sometimes. That's what best friends do. Or when you go to the bar, you don't have to pic…
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:25 PM
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Good job. I know it's a bummer sometimes but you're doing the right thing based on the situation right now. Maybe things will change and you'll both want more out of it in a year, but just don't wait for her. If it works out, it works out. If not, it's okay.
/r/seduction02/12/14 04:15 PM
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Yes. It's true. And someday I'm going to get a Mustang and give her stories and love her too! That's why POS cars are so great; they have so many stories. I'm not saying I'll get a POS mustang, I'm just saying I'll give it stories too and eventually it'll also be that great
/r/seduction17/11/14 08:33 AM
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I love my beater from '99 to death and show it off, no matter what anyone thinks. She's my baby <3
/r/seduction16/11/14 07:17 PM
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Well I mean... does yours not?
/r/seduction15/11/14 10:30 PM
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I have so much respect for OP for going for it regardless of being terrified. Social anxiety and he still does it. I don't have social anxiety and it's still hard as hell. OP, have you checked your balls lately? Are they made of steel?
/r/seduction02/11/14 08:29 AM
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This. Even if it's just for a couple minutes, if I can't quite get it up fast enough, I go down on her. Hell, sometimes I do anyways, it's fun. But definitely turns me on a lot hearing how much she likes it.
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:11 PM
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Another idea that I got from this was "Oh, well I guess I don't know you well enough yet; we should change that" Yeah?
/r/seduction19/09/14 11:16 PM
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No, I think you're missing the point. He learned his lesson after the first incident. I'm pretty sure he knows he was being kinda nuts the first time by saying that, then he realized that he sounded unreasonably clingy and fixed it and was telling us what he learned
/r/seduction21/08/14 03:31 PM
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I just imagine going up to him and saying "hey, I saw you over here and I just wanted to thank you for helping me deal with that jerk last week. I was really thankful that you had my back when he said that he thought I spit in his drink. If it wasn't for you I'd probably have gotten my ass kicked. So thanks man, can I buy you a drink?"
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:18 PM
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I don't know about you but I only bust nuts on juicy sirloin
/r/seduction06/06/14 04:39 AM
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Do this next time for me. Whether she ends up interested in you or not doesn't matter; now you know. It's better to be rejected than to not know if you'd be rejected. Because if you are rejected, then you can cross her off your list and not ever go for her again. The extra perk is that she could very well also like you, and now you have a chance with her and can take it any direction you choose: one night stand, relationship, friends, or nothing. But at that point, the power is in your hands rat…
/r/seduction06/06/14 01:08 AM
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Quick tip: remember that feeling of wishing you talked to her. Next time you see a beautiful girl, remember how you felt last time. This is no different. You don't want to feel like that again - go talk to her.
/r/seduction05/06/14 10:09 PM
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You have to show her that you're genuinely interested in her life, and you have to live a life that you are proud of that would be interesting to her. Of course there is more to it but that's two super important parts of it.
/r/seduction05/06/14 10:07 PM
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Yeah I forgot to add that it's different for everyone - and just as some people shouldn't drink alcohol, some shouldn't smoke weed. Simple as that. I've had good experience with it, but I know people who have also had a bad time with it and won't do it again. It's a lot less common to have it affect someone badly, but it is still an issue. I know it can send some people into panic attacks - maybe just because they don't know how to handle the feeling of losing some control over themselves. But y…
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:02 PM
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I couldn't say it better myself, haha.
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:46 AM
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Haha, same here, it's one of my favorites, and it's totally true
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:16 AM
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Happy to help :)
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:17 AM
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Exactly what the point of this whole subreddit is - find something great that you can apply to your conversation and remind yourself of if you are struggling. I actually love that theory, and I think of the same thing sometimes. Cheers!
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:16 AM
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I used to be afraid to approach anyone - I still am afraid to talk to girls sometimes. Nobody is perfect. One of the best bits of advice on here that I read was about a week ago where someone wrote something like "I think of myself as having an alter-ego who's a little bitch who is afraid to talk to anyone. I hate to let him win, so I have no choice but to approach that girl that I find cute." Honestly though, there's nothing wrong with being shy as long as you're confident and happy with who yo…
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:14 AM
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Glad to help :)
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:10 AM
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You're in a good place - keep being yourself. Everything on here are fun little tricks to try from time to time if you remember them, but just don't be too serious about it. It's pickup - it's fun, not something you should be stressing about. Enjoy your time here though, it's a great community :) This is actually only my second real post on here, haha
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:10 AM
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This is true. There are also some drugs that can lower anxiety (lookin' at you, marijuana). This one has helped me if I'm especially anxious before going out - however, being not anxious enough can also have a bad effect on your game. But back to your point, lessening my caffeine intake has definitely improved my quality of life in more way than one.
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:08 AM
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I know how ya feel - but while you are walking around your house, are you constantly thinking "the floor is white, the walls are yellow, the curtains are yellow, the tv is black" or do you just recognize what it is and forget about it? I've taken some psychology classes just for kicks, and have noticed myself analyzing everything about people - but after a while, i just become used to it and recognize it for what it is and forget about it. Maybe you just have to become used to ignoring those thi…
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:03 AM
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Haha fantastic, you made me laugh with your wording. You seem like a good friend
/r/seduction07/05/14 08:59 PM
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It's really hard sometimes, I get it. Sometimes we all get a little stressed. As long as you learn from what you did wrong or right, then you're succeeding :)
/r/seduction07/05/14 08:56 PM
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Haha, valid point
/r/seduction07/05/14 03:19 PM
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Not if you care about her in the slightest bit
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:22 PM
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If you're in a relationship with a girl and she comes back from having sex with another guy and says "Oh, sorry." would you just immediately forgive her? No? Well then you must be pretty manipulative, sir, because being upset about something for more than 10 seconds automatically makes you a worse person.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:21 PM
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Not hating on anyone in this sub at all, but we do tend to highly glorify getting sex on the first date
/r/seduction07/05/14 08:04 AM
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"Dude" seems to work WONDERS for me... I had a habit of accidentally calling my ex "dude" sometimes, and she would get all pissed :P
/r/seduction23/04/14 09:39 AM
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Wow, more great advice... Thank you, definitely appreciated this whole post from you. Really made me think for the first time in a while.
/r/seduction21/04/14 08:05 AM
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Fantastic read and a bunch of great points, thank you
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:34 PM
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Girls love to prove a guy wrong about something; and in this case, it's fine by me, it works.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:25 AM
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Anything that you write or make creatively is automatically copyrighted You don't have to register it
/r/seduction29/03/14 05:44 PM
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Oh wow haha I didn't even notice Thank you!
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:10 AM
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But /r/seduction isn't anti personal relationships either, and there's nothing wrong with not having sex every time you're with a girl. There are actually plenty of people in this subreddit because they're in relationships and just want to learn to make their SO happier
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:39 AM
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Haha yeah that's true. Plus I think girls tend to like guys who don't care if it was to make them sound gay or anything because they're confident enough to not let it matter to them
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:41 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate it! And yeah I do think it's healthier to go for the experience and not just the sex - seems to work really well for me haha. If you have any questions now or ever, feel free to PM me or post on here! :)
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:01 PM
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So a girl isn't allowed to like to cuddle and not have sex? And I'm blaming nobody, I had a good time and I'm glad she did too!
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:55 PM
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Also check out my response to the other person who commented on my post here, I think you might like it :)
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:42 PM
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False I've spent nights with a few girls and not had sex with them. And sure maybe sometimes I messed up, but also sometimes they legitimately didn't want to. I know this is true because I've spent nights in bed cuddling with a girl who is now one of my best friends, and she (at the time) was a virgin and had no interest in having sex, even though she would kiss me and sleep and cuddle with me all night. Same thing with another girl who's not a virgin but doesn't have sex with people unless she …
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:40 PM
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Thanks for not taking it poorly, I really appreciate it
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:33 PM
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I say the same kind of thing - but only if I actually think they're attractive... Kinda shows them that I have a good taste in guys which shows I have good style and that appeals to them. I dunno. What I mean is I actually tell them if I think the guy is attractive and maybe why. I'm not gay or bi or anything but I can tell when a guy is attractive, and I'm totally comfortable talking about it. It usually works to my advantage.
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:04 PM
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Maybe. Or Maybe it comes off as you being too serious and not meaning it lightly, as I can tell you do. Regardless, I like it man. Lol.
/r/seduction12/03/14 09:59 PM
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Hahahahaha I'm sorry but "I bet you taste delicious though ;)" is the funniest thing I've seen on here in awhile. Hahaha. Classic.
/r/seduction12/03/14 09:49 PM
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A girl won't always have sex on the first date. Some want to wait 3 or 4 so that they know they like you a bit If you like her, I recommend giving her a shot You were treating her as if she is pretty easy - usually what people on this sub go for. And it works a lot. But some girls won't have sex that quickly. And trying to force her to might have pushed her away a bit. It can be learned to analyze if a girl would be okay with the ass squeezing thing or not. That could've been one thing you did w…
/r/seduction12/03/14 09:32 PM
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OP was a little of both presumably, so double bonus
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:24 AM
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I read the title and sat up straight, only to start reading and slowly slouch back into my caveman humpback position.
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:10 PM
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Stories like this make me love my college experience too, thanks for the laughs man
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:06 PM
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Hi, I'm also an android developer who uses my coding to my advantage. If you look up "Ice Media Controls" by Buoy (my Dev name) on Play Store, you'll see the only app I've released if you're interested... I'm still learning too, and I'm currently on Hiatus due to accidentally formatting my Galaxy's internal storage (fuck. Can't even access my recovery or anything so it'll be awhile til I have an android again) :( But anyways, I just wanted to add that you can make a lot of design tweaks. I'd rem…
/r/seduction19/01/14 11:09 PM
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And if she knows you haven't had sex before, if she cares about you even a little, she'll take over and guide you through your first time or two. And don't stress yourself out. Everyone has a first time. Nearly everyone will be understanding if you're not great, hell, sometimes even try to help you get better at it. But you'd be surprised how hard it is to tell sometimes if someone's had sex. One of my ex girlfriends never told me she was a virgin and I found out much later. Basically anytime on…
/r/seduction19/01/14 03:25 PM
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Just so you know, I agree with you 100%. I would get bored set using the same line maybe by the third time and it's shadow and doesn't help you get to know the girl and feels unnatural. And I hate to call anyone names, but if I saw the OP around, I'd think he was a huge dick and wouldn't want to associate with him.
/r/seduction22/12/13 06:40 AM
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Eh, I don't quite think that's what he was going for. He definitely had good intentions with this post.
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:10 PM
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I do it too, in a friendly way. I guess it depends on how the guy acts. If he puts his arm around you and introduces himself to everyone else, then yes he's being an asshole. If he puts his arm around you and asks you "Hey man, what's up?" Then it seems like you're just bros and trying to not seem like an outsider. It could also be the vibe the guy (also you or I) puts off, but I think that sums it up prety well.
/r/seduction30/11/13 05:54 AM
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+1 for Crown. Definitely. Bought 100 on Amazon for like $16 or something. Plus I tested their strength by putting both of my arms completely in one of them, and pulling my arms apart. It took a lot to break it. Plus it doesn't smell (or taste, I hear) latex-y at all. Overall the most wonderful thing to happen to my penis. If you are reading this and haven't tried them, try them. They're Prime eligible, too ;)
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:49 PM
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You get downvoted but this is actually partially true so....... Yeah I don't know why you did... Maybe because you said "all of them" - it's definitely not all of them..... Happened to me on a few occasions actually. Plus I've done it also. Didn't mean for it to become a thing, but we had fun a few times and ended up hanging out and enjoying each other's presence so went on a few dates, hooked up a few times, etc. Not to say it happens very often, but sometimes it does. Maybe you guys run into e…
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:07 AM
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Hahaha I was thinking the same
/r/seduction20/10/13 05:45 PM
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The feeling is mutual, friend
/r/seduction17/10/13 02:37 AM
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Okay, Josh Peck
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:21 AM
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Lol that was funny. I actually used to meditate almost daily, but since I left for college, it's been so hard to find time. And I know that I want more than a beautiful woman, I know a lot of what I do want. But nothing has worked out well enough for me yet. But I'm in a relationship now and trying to make the best of it, so we'll see. I really appreciate the comment :)
/r/seduction14/10/13 05:27 AM
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But don't be like me, who every time he has ever had a girlfriend, gets immediately attracted to everyone else and has to use everything in his power just to not cheat..... Yup that's where I'm at right now. Amazing girlfriend, still not happy. Never happy. Don't do this. You'll end up incredibly unhappy with life. :(
/r/seduction13/10/13 05:41 PM
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"No," add in hasn't kissed a midget....
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:01 AM
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My favorite term of the night
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:59 AM
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Great comment.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:39 AM
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They don't know any of that.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:37 AM
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Lol except having boobs. Ladies will always be better at that.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 05:10 AM
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Except I don't know her name or anything. Ah well I actually wouldn't do that to a person anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 05:03 AM
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I'm 5' fucking 8". It's a curse. But I've been told I could possibly pass for twenty one when I have my facial hair on haha. Otherwise just honestly pretty average... thanks man hahaha
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:59 AM
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Age of consent here is 16 anyways haha. Although I did consider this, shit you not
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:54 AM
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I love photography though I refuse to take classes in it haha. I did have a 'friend' this year though who is basically willing to -model- for me if you know what I mean. Might still take her up on that. Actually I totally should, what am I saying.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:42 AM
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Haha that's the plan. Should be awesome. I already got 2 numbers at orientation hehe. Thanks man, I'll do what I can! Maybe I'll have more to contribute in a few months
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:37 AM
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Understandably so; I was. Hahahaha. Hopefully I've improved a bit since then as I'm headed to that same school as a freshman this year.. But I do plan to learn some more from you guys. Thanks for the comment, friend!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:23 AM
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"beatboxing sounds" was a joke ha, i didn't actually do that. Just kinda cleared my throat and moved around a bit. And yeah I see what you mean by I should've done more. This was really my first time going through "college hookup" things. I did my best. But I do really appreciate the feedback. I am headed to that same university in a month actually haha. Hopefully I'll learn a lot more from you guys on here, I've only been here for a few days. Just wanted to contribute something. Improvement awa…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:21 AM
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Just random but all of you mods have done an incredible job with this sub. Most organized and well-put-together of any that I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 03:59 AM
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Or this
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 03:56 AM
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Or she subconsciously (or consciously I guess) thinks that she has "won" you. She always wants to "win" and if she can change your mind from not wanting her, she feels she has won. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 02:54 AM
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They're all the same. AND they don't see a problem with this.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 02:51 AM
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I'm going to laugh when this becomes a thing and I hear a group of girls somewhere talk about Sarah
/r/seduction25/07/13 03:48 PM
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You should write a book. Not necessarily about this, but about something. You have an amazing writing style.
/r/seduction25/07/13 03:42 PM
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Nice. Quite smooth on your part. You use your own personality but keep it classy. I like it quite a lot.
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:02 PM
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I don't know if it's actually sexy, but we feel sexy doing it so just bear with us.
/r/seduction05/07/13 06:24 AM
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Good girl status. Yeah I never thought that might be why some people do that. Thank you
/r/seduction03/07/13 08:18 PM
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As simple as it seems : "hey, it's penguinz0"
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:03 AM
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Just talk to her. I'm not trying to be mean, but you're twenty one, act like it, just tell her how you feel. It's almost childish to fear having those conversations.
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:00 AM
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I really like this. Thanks for the story :)
/r/seduction03/07/13 04:49 AM
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