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DISCUSSIONlackadaisicalily/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 01:39 AM
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If you guys have been seeing each other non-exclusively for over five months, she's been seeing other guys. Especially if she hasn't asked for commitment yet.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:43 AM
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That's what I thought too! I think sometimes you might that the person is marriage material early on. But waiting for weeks for sex just because of that seems weird.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 12:57 AM
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You can still be a strong independent woman and be red pill. You just have to be submissive to your man. Maybe give one of the guys a chance, just make sure to vet well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 05:24 PM
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True that. Although she just goes by a single name like Adele
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 10:38 PM
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I would get out now then. You're still young, there is no need to waste your and his time. You might also need to go into monk mode for a bit. If you haven't been single since 15. You should take a few months or more to get your self in the right set of mind and body.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 09:46 PM
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If your boyfriend is a naturally ambitious person, he's going to improve on his own. A lot of men don't get to their best until their 30's career and looks wise. You should be supporting him and him supporting you. However, do you still love him? Because if you're easily swayed by what your mother said, your feelings may not be there for him.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 05:27 PM
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It's generally disrespectful, but more in a non-traditional way, but only he can tell you what he thinks. You should talk with him to see how he feels.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 03:25 AM
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Some people with really solid careers that are built around their names keep it. If you're gonna have kids, you should just take his last name, unless both of your last names sound fine hyphenated.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 01:42 AM
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I really want to be a part of a subreddit of women who didn't talk about abortion every other post.
/r/RedPillWives22/02/17 10:54 PM
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She doesn't like the guy. Ten years is a gap. Does he live a normal lifestyle and have a decent career?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 09:47 PM
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I just make sure not to be sarcastic. Also I never curse or make my sass crude.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 02:52 PM
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I've noticed more guys take interest in me when I'm more sassy. Does this go against RP? What are your guy's thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 04:34 PM
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I'm definitely going to do 1. ;) These are all great!
/r/RedPillWives31/01/17 10:39 PM
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Get into a healthy routine of cooking your own meals and working out a few times a week. Pick up hobbies that keep busy but in a happy way.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 12:53 AM
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Wow! That's impressive. I'm always scared to work my distance up because I feel like my body start falling apart(my knees) after 10 miles.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 03:49 AM
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Yes! Charlotte for me too! Also Samantha because she is hilarious.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 03:46 AM
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I watch Girls and Sex and the City.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 10:02 PM
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How far do you run?
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 10:01 PM
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Why do women think the side of their hair shaved is cute? It's gonna suck to grow out. Also septum piercings, aren't those for bulls? I've never heard anyone complimented for their septum piercing, unless it was a by a girl, but only because it's different/trendy.
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 03:41 AM
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It's really up to you if it is a waste of time. Personally, I wouldn't date someone unless it was moving towards being serious and eventual marriage. You're still really young, but you also don't want to give your best years to someone who won't commit to you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 03:48 AM
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Sale or Return Bride was one I liked! Also Savage Surrender
/r/RedPillWives24/12/16 03:46 AM
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On the more fun side of books, read some old classics, they typically have traditional relationships, because that's the way things were then. Also, a guilty read would be romance books, but not modern ones. Read ones published in the 80's, the new ones are too modern relationshippy.
/r/RedPillWives24/12/16 02:35 AM
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Strippers aren't high RMV women. So him dating one lowers his. You are who you hang out with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 02:39 AM
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I like the responsibilities I have as a woman. I get to have the experience of bearing life of my child. I get to feel safe and have my SO keep me that way. The list goes on for the pros of being a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 02:48 AM
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It's so weird that we are even in a same community since the views of TRP men and RP women are so different.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 11:48 PM
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The context of the situation. If you mentioned you like cars or she does and you are talking about it, it's a question. Sometimes asking where you work can be small talk, but it all just depends on the situation.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:06 PM
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Men's red pill stuff isn't meant for women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 01:41 AM
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If my SO's n-count was more that like 4-5 I wouldn't be into him. Men who have only slept around and didn't have serious LTRs for their N-count is gross to me. I've never lied about my n-count.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 12:32 AM
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Your about a 23 on the BMI scale, but past 24 is overweight. I will be honest and say that 140 might not be your best weight to look great. But if your SO likes it, then you're fine.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 02:06 AM
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Volunteer at a humane society
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:13 AM
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Don't feel bad about AWALT, it pretty much applies to men too. It is about realizing that no one is perfect, and that any can be a jerk.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 11:45 PM
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It grosses me out when a straight man acts feminine. Women are the best at being women and men are the best at being men. So why mess that up.
/r/RedPillWives11/12/16 04:18 PM
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When he was hitting on you, were you being receptive? Or were you shutting it down and keeping it platonic? Because if you were being open to his flirtations, it is already too late. You messed up what could've been a platonic relationship where you benefitted from his musical talents.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 04:05 PM
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Lose 5 pounds. Practice German twice a week Start a workout regime and do it at least three times a week Don't eat out, like, at all.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:26 AM
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Your poor mental/emotional health is hurting him and you. You both need to be healthy mentally, especially if you're both students. Do what is best for the both of you. Also! I know it feels like there is no point without him, but time heals everything. A saying that helps me if I feel anxious is, "this too shall pass."
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 03:13 AM
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You need to be the best for yourself, before you can be the best for other. You should look into options that will help alleviate your anxiety. This may be a good time to slip into monk mode and focus on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 02:47 AM
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I'm not conservative(only fiscally). I'm traditional in a dating sense. Otherwise, I am totally a modern woman. I never wear dresses/skirts unless it is an event that would deem it necessary. I don't cook often either. Although, I do love to clean. Cleaning is my jam.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 10:37 PM
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It would depend on his reasoning. But probably not.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 09:35 PM
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aww man, that slip up sucks. A woman's confidence totally comes through her femininity!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 09:33 PM
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Totally interested in those links. I plan on checking out some German children's books.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 01:22 PM
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How are you learning? I've been doing Rosetta Stone and Duolingo.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 12:33 AM
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I know lots of guys from my high school who are now welders. It may be a Midwest thing.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 10:53 PM
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I think we can all feel that way. What's is in the past is in the past. You can only move forward and make decisions you don't want to regret.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 10:42 PM
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She stopped talking to you because you didn't ask her out. So she moved onto other guys in the class.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:48 AM
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This is anecdotal, but lesbian women are more likely to watch porn than straight women. So that could be skewing the data.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:43 AM
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I also have an interest in critters... of the feline variety. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 01:03 PM
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Because I want a forever person to be by my side.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 03:01 AM
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Its great to be able to share hobbies with a SO for sure. Then you can do them together!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 11:21 PM
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I feel the same way! I am also learning German, but then I started learning Mandarin too... There are too many interesting things in this world, and I want to do them all! haha
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 11:20 PM
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Thats funny! I am also a big baseball fan. My comment certainly did not include all women who like sports. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:20 PM
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Yes I'm starting to realize that. I sure hope not all men think in the way that some of those guys do. It is very disheartening.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 11:02 PM
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Writing is a great hobby to have. I have a lot of respect for those who are able to do so eloquently. There isn't much falsehood in how I prefaced my question, except that I got this notion from AskTRP and not the actual TRP subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:36 PM
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What are your hobbies? That's the question I asked.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:04 PM
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Make sure he is open to the advice before you give it. Really reflect on your advice and make sure it is needed and that you understand all sides to the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 02:04 AM
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I've read several times on TRP that women only have hobbies that their SOs have. I have seen a lot of truth in this, mainly when women like football all of a sudden. But, I still think that a lot of women have hobbies that are not shared with their present/past SO's. What are your hobbies that you discovered on your own?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 11:01 PM
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I like that! "A gentleman only exists if a lady does".
/r/RedPillWives04/12/16 10:57 PM
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Wrap your hair with a silk or satin scarf when you go to bed.
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 05:41 PM
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If he dated a stripper that was a big red flag. You should've vetted more.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 05:10 AM
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marijuana doesn't cure cancer. It just alleviates the nausea and other symptoms.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 10:16 PM
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In a religious context, even if your man or you weren't virgins you would still wait until marriage to have sex. From here on out, you will have to make sure you tell your future SO from the beginning about your past.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:03 AM
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What about women who've never dated and have interests that aren't bland?
/r/askTRP16/11/16 10:05 PM
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This happens to a lot of people, it is natural to get a crush on those in higher positions. Jut put your time into your studies and hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 12:34 AM
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Definitely, I'll try to do something different than my usual nines.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 11:34 PM
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I can definitely try something different with my hair it's always just down and curled. Thanks
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 11:33 PM
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I just got that impression, because I thought all the women in this sub already made to sure to look good in public. It seems less of a challenge and more of a life pro tip.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 11:27 PM
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My full face of makeup isn't a full face. Also heels are no good for a student. Otherwise I would do this if I was graduated.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 01:22 PM
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I'm not stating it as a fact, just thinking out loud.
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 09:18 PM
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Because you're steering the man towards making a decision. But yes most direct you can be besides just asking them to get coffee.
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 09:01 PM
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I get that, totally. But isn't that almost manipulative? Or is that alright?
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 05:00 PM
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If a woman was completely open, wouldn't she just be the one asking a guy out if she was interested?
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 02:43 PM
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I'm always done up when I'm out. I've been told I'm intimidating because I am on the attractive side, and I always am doing something purposefully. I need to work on looking more open to being approached
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 02:17 AM
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At what age is it appropriate to online date?
/r/RedPillWives06/11/16 10:23 PM
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Do you think guys approach girls for dates as much as they used to? My mom is always surprised by how little I get approached by guys when out and about.
/r/RedPillWives06/11/16 09:41 PM
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I think baking for anyone you care about is an awesome thing to do. For your bff, grandma, and so, they all are appropriate to bake for.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:12 PM
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If he doesn't want marriage, and you do, you should break up right now. His attitudes are also very toxic towards you, I personally would not waste time on a person like that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:09 PM
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I care, as I want him to have the same values as me. Since I am not promiscuous, I wouldn't want him to be.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:07 PM
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You're probably going to want to find women at your church. Especially the ones you follow along with the submit to your husband thing.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:41 AM
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If he has had a lot of partners, isn't ambitious, is not Christian, and isn't curious of the world.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 12:30 PM
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I wonder if they would check your insurance though.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 01:48 AM
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Would your spouse be able to see you in the hospital though?
/r/askTRP10/10/16 01:34 AM
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I agree. I also don't want another routine to add to my schedule of beauty. I'm trying become lower maintenance.
/r/RedPillWives29/09/16 12:12 PM
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I agree! Also, he broke the biggest rule of first dates, not talking about exes. Obviously he's not ever her.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 09:12 PM
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Men and women are pushed into college and take on debt that doesn't get paid until too late in life. The more wise people can get the debt paid in less than five years. But my dad always said, "if you wait until you can afford to have children, then you'll never have children."
/r/RedPillWives18/09/16 05:49 PM
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I wish! It snows a lot and they never shovel well on campus.
/r/RedPillWives04/09/16 04:01 PM
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Feminine boots? It gets really cold, I wear jeans throughout the winter. My top half is girly, with nice sweaters and watches, however I always have worn combat boots with boot socks with the girly half. They're stylish nice branded boots, but I'd like something more feminine to shake it up. Any ideas?
/r/RedPillWives04/09/16 03:46 PM
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Outlander!
/r/RedPillWives31/07/16 04:45 PM
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I love that movie! It's so funny. She is too extremely submissive to be my role model.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 12:22 PM
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I've been learning how to play the guitar again! I've also restarted my German studies. I am having troubles trying to form the habit to practice. But I'm excited.
/r/RedPillWives25/06/16 08:24 PM
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I'm not controlling and an ENFJ. But sometimes I find these tests are similar to horoscopes. I don't think you can generalize it.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/16 02:05 AM
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What about a woman who is an ENFJ
/r/RedPillWives05/06/16 10:07 PM
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What's your budget for the wedding?
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 02:23 AM
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She must be a Low quality LTR
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:30 PM
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I am using Tria right now, I'm three weeks in. I've started noticing a difference.
/r/RedPillWives16/05/16 01:44 AM
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Me too!
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 05:08 PM
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Very good post! Especially the religious and political sections. Another one might be their sexual past. If they have had many partners and never any relationships.
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 02:21 AM
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Long term, it is better to wait than to do it early on. Your n-count will raise too high. Commitment is more important. Because the goal of this subreddit is for women to become the type of woman that a man would wait for and stick around.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 06:03 PM
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The thing is, if you wait longer, you don't have to hope for the best. Because you'll know the person better and they'll know you better.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 05:47 PM
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Sometimes our feelings betray us. I may be insanely attracted to a guy and want to have sex right away. While I may want to do that, it's not good for me. Instant gratification isn't a thing you should strive for in the start of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 05:29 PM
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Talk with him and state your case. If he doesn't want to get married even if you have kids, it may not be worth it. It matters what is important to you. If you think he is the best man to have kids with and not get married it's your call.
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 10:27 PM
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Passion is a short moment to me. You can have passion in a relationship, but it doesn't last forever, it should come and go. Comfort is something that should be in your relationship almost all of the time.
/r/RedPillWives21/04/16 12:55 AM
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Probably because its a long distance relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/16 01:54 AM
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Do any of you have any tips for writing letters? Like how to write about your life in a way that isn't babbling.
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 09:43 PM
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You should never have to lie, to make a relationship work or get your way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 01:39 PM
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I think your past is still something that can be taken into consideration strongly. However, I agree that having a feminine presence like the one you described and having a great personality greatly helps mask the bad past.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 02:32 AM
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That's so nice!! I am just starting to crochet, I should do this!
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 02:29 AM
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No woman should ever let herself be a plate.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 02:26 AM
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This is all so true! Generally it is the woman who is the one who remembers all the important dates for family and social things.
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 03:08 PM
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Not RPW related, but Serial podcast and Stuff You Missed in History Class are really interesting
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 02:15 PM
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Alright, I am just being skeptical. I want this place in tip top shape for the women who need it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 10:39 PM
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Are the women on the list of moderators in the sidebar? Because all the mods in the sidebar are TRP mods, and women can't be TRP moderators.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 10:35 PM
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So are any of the new mods women? Because this place is for women.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 09:44 PM
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I would want him there.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 01:26 AM
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Try getting outside more often, go out and do things with your man. You get out of funks by changing up something, not by trying harder at doing the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 02:36 AM
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Spice it up and compliment him on a specific thing he's wearing or how he acted in a situation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 09:34 PM
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You need to be able to integrate yourself more with his people. Especially if you want this to go LTR, you'll be seeing these same people often. He'll feel more comfortable if he sees you getting along with his people. However, you could ask him to introduce you more?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/16 02:03 AM
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Yay Good for you! I always get a pang of stress when I get into my car and it is dirty.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 11:47 PM
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Yes! I do this too. If I have already eaten my three meals of they day, I just have a cup of tea.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 02:36 PM
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I vacuum mine like once every 2-3 months, I always take everything out of it, so there isn't anything in there and looks clean. But, it definitely is not clean.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 02:49 AM
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All of my German relatives had an hour glass shape. But this is all very anecdotal.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 01:22 AM
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No No, I wouldn't want him reading that. Nope, he's great the way he is. No, I've always known. I think it is a thing for both men and women. However, I am a very monogamous person, I never look around at others while with someone. Even when I'm single and am liking a person, I can only like that one person.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 05:02 PM
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