ladysandy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want	ladysandy	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/13 10:06 PM
14	One of the biggest blue pill mistakes women make? Putting children before marriage.	ladysandy	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/13 06:57 AM
6	Social Media Commandments	ladysandy	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 06:19 PM

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2	On looking "younger" while still in 20s I think it has to do with your style. If men think you're younger then be assured, you physically have a youthful appearance. If a woman says you look 29 rather than 19 based on how you're dressed it is a compliment. Typically older women have better style than teenagers. Ot at least many women develop better personal style as they get older. If you adopt sloppier style you'll look younger....and sloppier. I think you have a non-problem.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/14 01:22 AM
1	Social Media Commandments yep.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 07:34 PM
2	Social Media Commandments That's pretty bad. I guess if her boyfriend doesn't mind, whatever. There's a lot to be said about having an air of mystery though. I've never taken a pole class, though it looks appealing. If I did I'd keep it private. Imagine surprising your man with a routine! It would be a fantastic trick to pull out of your hat. You lose that specialness when your pole dancing is on display to the entire world.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 07:33 PM
2	Social Media Commandments I have a fairly high tolerance for baby and kid pics. A lot of my girlfriends have them to post. But I agree, there's always someone who looks like her life is consumed by her children and it's cringe inducing.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 07:28 PM
1	Social Media Commandments Those quizzes! Yes! They're only fine if you're 13! Same thing goes for the "20 Things about me" posts. They just seem so over the top self-indulgent and vain.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 07:28 PM
1	What beauty routine keeps your skin youthful? Get a prescription for tretinoin (brand name Retin-A) cream from a dermatologist. There's a lot of over the counter stuff I've tried, but nothing compares to this. It erases fine lines and wrinkles! And it makes your skin so smooth. I've been using it for about 2 years and I'm 29. I regularly get complimented on my skin and told that I look very young. Also, if you smoke, quit. If you drink, do it in moderation (no more that 1-2 drinks a day for women). Everything else has been said by others.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 05:19 PM
1	Since this is a place to discuss strategy, what does RPW think of my situation? 22F, has had two sexual partners, sterilized in June. I'm sorry, I don't totally understand your reply. Having a values requirement isn't about idolizing people, it's about determining exactly what you want in life and seeking out partners that are compatible with that. Being childfree is a value, but it isn't "better" or more principled than wanting children. Wanting children is a value. A young woman who wants children would have a larger pool of men to pick from, but I would give her advice-- don't waste a date on a man who proclaims he doesn't …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/13 07:45 PM
5	Since this is a place to discuss strategy, what does RPW think of my situation? 22F, has had two sexual partners, sterilized in June. Goodness, a lot of cynicism on this thread! Throwaway, you'll find that a lot of people will have a visceral, emotional reaction to you being childfree. They get offended by it. It's not rational, but it is what it is. Most people want children and react poorly to different values that's all. It's true that since most men want kids someday you'll have fewer guys to choose from, but there are quality child-free men out there. I don't think your situation is much different from any other kind of "…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/13 04:28 PM
0	For curiosity's sake: What are RPW like with women in general? I have both male and female friends. My male friends are casual, usually in the same social circle as my husband. I'm definitely closer with my female friends. I can talk with them and bond with them more than any men I'm friendly with. I am pretty selective about girlfriends though. Most other women are not appealing to me. I'm polite with them, but I find socializing with them sort of arduous. When I come across a gal I click with we usually bond quickly. For men, my socializing is pretty ligh…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/13 04:45 AM
1	Prioritizing your life: which is more important, marriage or parenthood? Look after your relationship with your husband first. Your relationship is the foundation of the family. Taking care of children is not solely the woman's job either; mom and dad are a team. It's best to fortify your relationship so it's easiest to come up with a game plan and support each other as parents.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/13 04:34 AM
1	10 Ways that Women are remarkably like Cats Whoa, number 2 is a little dark! I laughed.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/13 04:26 AM
2	One of the biggest blue pill mistakes women make? Putting children before marriage. I'm sorry for using the word shameful. Your post has made me see that. A better word would've been "non-ideal." Of course I don't think you should've just married your child's father. Social convention is one thing, but putting your child's (and your) best interest first has to take priority. But your situation is unique. It sounds like you and your then boyfriend were set on marriage, or that the pregnancy could've easily happened after marriage and then you would've been forced to divorce your…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/13 09:54 PM
1	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want I'm only addressing women who claim to be have sexuality like men; they enjoy casual hook-ups and "aren't interested in anything serious". I'm sure women like this do exist, but they don't need to be here looking for advice! A woman can always find casual sex with men. I'm addressing women who play act at this sexuality thinking it will get them the relationship they actually want. It won't. Tomboys are not necessarily the same thing. A girl who, I don't know, loves playing call of duty, wearing…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/13 05:58 AM
1	Dear women, you're really not as "badass" as you think. Engaging in athletics and fitness is a great thing for women, but we don't need to justify it by being "kick-ass" in terms of being competitive with others. I've played some team sports but never felt as competitive as men. I enjoyed the game, but I was never into it emotionally as men were. I didn't care about winning the way they did. I noticed this was true for a lot of women I played with, but ti wasn't "politically correct" to acknowledge that reality. Competitiveness is encouraged for girl…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 09:36 PM
0	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want Eh. I guess I missed this part. Seems really teenager dramatic. And it was a book for Young Adults right? That extreme emotionality isn't appealing to me now, but as a teenager I would've swooned!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 09:25 PM
10	Do Other Red Pill Women Support Ending Women's Suffrage? Oh man, no way! Not that this blog post makes a good argument for it. The argument against women's vote is that women's suffrage is correlated with loss of "individual freedom" though how exactly isn't clarified beyond the creation of gun control laws. But it's also correlated with "increased paganism." Wouldn't the greatest amount of individual freedom also entail a diversification of religious beliefs? Anyhow, women having a political voice is pretty irrelevant to sexual strategy. There's noth…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 09:22 PM
11	Can you explain the "happy feminist"? There's a broad number of lifestyles and beliefs attributed with feminism. I think it depends on how one's feminist beliefs manifest. At its core feminism is about political, social, and economic equality. None of that is actually incompatible with complimentary gender roles within the context of a marriage. It's not impossible for a wife to have a job and make her own money and still be feminine. Nor does a woman having the right to vote, the ability to open a credit card without her husband's …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 09:04 PM
5	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want Being vulnerable or wanting meaningful sex as oppose to casual hook-ups is portrayed as weak in popular culture. If women and men are truly equal, women should be able to get and enjoy all the same things men do. This is the Blue Pill for women. There's a book Female Chauvinist Pigs which catalogs how modern young women are adopting some of the worst traits of men in attempt to be "equal" or "empowered." Having casual sex, professing to enjoy going to strip clubs, and engaging in raunchy sexist …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 08:53 PM
0	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want OK, I've seen the movie but I haven't read the book so I may be missing some details. I believe Edward is hyper masculine because he is a blood thirsty monster who can and sort wants to rip Bella's throat out. The reason this is sexy is because it highlights her vulnerability. The scene in the woods where he explains to her what he is and how he wants to drain all her blood and how is super strong and there's nothing she can do about it is the most sexually charged scene in the movie. This is al…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 08:42 PM
1	Understanding your feminine sexuality to get the relationship you want I think that's it exactly. Displaying vulnerability in the context of a relationship is something you employ to entice and bond with your mate. It's part of intimacy. Since when is anyone expected to act the way the do in the bedroom in their public life? Being vulnerable with a lover does NOT mean being a helpless sap in every other aspect of your life!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/13 08:29 PM