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SEEKING ADVICElafemmeviolet/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:06 PM
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If your waist is cinched that doesn’t really sound bag lady like.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 02:55 AM
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How can that be? You said you dress like a bag lady, how does that show your sillouette?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 09:53 PM
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Some women at that age volunteer or work part time. I know some have a lot of hobbies. If they have grandkids they end up watching them a lot. Some just sit on Facebook all day unfortunately.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:36 PM
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Just a thought because my husband is similar. Have you considered maybe you might learn to like football? I didn’t care about it for a long time. I’m Canadian, grew up with hockey being the main sport watched. So I just saw a jumble of guys running into each other with a ball squirting out. Over the past few years I started paying attention more and finally understanding the strategy. The main reason I started to try to enjoy it was it was taking up the entire Sunday anyways (and Monday night an…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/22 06:52 PM
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You're absolutely right. It's just a male thing. I just personally have experienced Republican men in my career circle more and they pretend to take the moral high ground then act like fucking animals when no one's looking. Male depravity is not political party specific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:21 PM
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See, I've had the opposite experience! But that's the thing like 99% of men are pro porn. Any conservative men I've met who says they're anti porn has a secret porn habit and a vile opinion of women. I've also had the unpleasant experience of my friends right wing husband's making a move on me when their wives are out of the room for 10 seconds. They also get super aggressive super fast in debates over politics. That's all anecdotal. My issue is really with the idea that left wing progressives a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:09 PM
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I agree there are plenty of liberal men who are fake feminists. I don't consider ultra rich Hollywood producers/directors progressives. IE they usually vote with the centrist democrat pick that protects their financial interests not an actual progressive candidate. The post itself made it a left vs right issue. I'm generally progressive so I take issue with the post saying the progressive left wing will protect pedophiles as a civil liberty issue. It just didn't make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:47 PM
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I think the left wing progressive part is where it lost me. Progressives aren't going to support pedophilia. I know far more progressives that are anti porn because of sex trafficking and exploitation than I do republicans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:41 PM
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How do we know the situations are real? (Honest q, not being a jerk)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:47 AM
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That's for sure. Same with any of those fake "reality" shows. They're all exercises in trading dignity for fame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:46 AM
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I intend to. Just gotta get some ducks in a row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:45 AM
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I think these are fake cases...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:06 AM
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I haven't read the spartan one..what traits does he say being a basic bitch are? I kinda thought some.of the approaches he advocated in ho tactics might trigger a "she's thirsty" vibe but since it's about straight up getting financial gifts rather than a relationship i figured it was just relevant to creating this sexually aggressive fantasy girl to get what you want financially from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:44 PM
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I'm not sure what the context is, but I think what he means is that LV men or men who aren't serious don't think you're worth the effort. I've only listened to ho tactics and it really drives home to drop men immediately that don't put forth effort. I know nothing about the author himself other than listening to this one book but it'd be a weird contradiction to what he's saying which is a lot of "be a queen" "if he can't afford you drop him" and testing men for their financial value. I'm not ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:34 PM
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"if you know your limits".... Meaning that they have to exercise restraint not to assault us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:00 PM
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Absolutely. She makes the way so many men treat women's bodies sound as grotesque as it actually is, no romancing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:21 PM
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Honestly, its easier having kids alone than with a LV man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:10 PM
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And men wonder why we don't engage with them don't "smile", and avoid eye contact. You literally hold a door for a man, or say basic pleasantries and it's "she wants the D".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:06 PM
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Whatever makes you feel safer. People can hide narcissism for however long it takes. Have you worked with abused women? Or in an ER? Sometimes it takes a single event to see the true behavior of someone. Some men go 20 years and blindside their wives by leaving them for someone younger for some hidden resentment they never brought up. There's the men you can see it a mile away, but then there's more covert ones. Vet as best you can but you can't ever be sure. You cant always predict mental illne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:53 AM
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I literally said I'm not advocating it.. My point is that when we start labelling everyone who has casual sex as LV or pickme's without considering the many reasons someone might choose to it becomes an extreme point of view and awfully similar to redpill "AWALT"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:30 AM
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I appreciate what FDS does but you really can't vet men entirely. I think it's an illusion to think we can predict. Men snap all the time who were "such nice guys". Interacting with men to any degree as a woman is risky. I mean I appreciate the common sense red flags to dump the obvious duds but we should never feel safe. My ex was a nice guy till I dumped him then he stalked me and threatened suicide constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:17 PM
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There's you know, somewhere in the middle. People who just don't want a commitment of a relationship because they don't have time while they are working on their careers etc and this includes women. I mean I don't think people being honest they can't give someone what they deserve in a relationship at that time but are lonely and enjoy having sex/physical connection still are low value. FWB should be vetted to a degree and EVERY woman should GET UP and leave when the sex sucks. Mid act. I've don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:13 PM
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I see your point about her tweet but I don't think it's always a virtue signal it's just hey, can I not want this too? Is that not ok? Does it always have to be about snagging a relationship or being "not like the other girls?"? Like for FDS principles YES obviously the goal is commitment with a HVM. But I really don't like the labeling everything else women do outside of that as pickme. If she was trying to use it for a relationship yes, sure. But what if you really do just want sex? And you're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:27 AM
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Right! I actually get irritable with cuddling when there's not sex involved. I'm ashamed to admit that. Like I become very touch averse if i haven't had sex recently with my husband. I should probably talk to a therapist about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:50 PM
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I should have specified i did stop watching porn a while ago, i think around a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:03 AM
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I did...well over a year ago I think now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:54 AM
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It sucks because I have what feels like a really high sex drive and i feel really neglected that my husband doesn't. I feel far more intimacy and bonding from sex than cuddling and just hanging out. Trying to fix that but I have no idea how. I want sex to be a big part because I guess i associate my value as a woman with it still even though I shouldn't. I think? I don't know. Or maybe i DO just really like it and want it a lot. I don't even know how to find these answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:53 AM
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My ex husband was this bad. He was in medical school. I was footing the bill for everything working making 80k right out of school... Good money, but we didn't save quite enough for my maternity leave though as I got pregnant right after i started working at my new job and we (he) had a lot of credit card debt. So we're down to a very scant amount in our account. I'm nearing the end of my 12 week maternity leave but I've got 3 weeks left. Winter is just starting. My post partum body doesn't fit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:45 AM
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Hi! This happened to me a LOT. I played tennis since the age 3 and my dad was trying to make me a champion (whole other story)so by 7th grade I had several coaches (one expressly to learn serve and volley, one for the basics/drills and the other strictly for match play) and was quite good. This little twerp insisted he could easily beat me though he'd played like twice. At this point I was routinely beating older teenage boys at the club I played at and could ace my own coach frequently. I said,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:25 AM
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I'm having a hard time with figuring out what my own preferences are and what was put in my head by porn or men and I tricked myself into liking it. I don't know how to enjoy regular sex anymore. I don't even know what it is. I feel so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:12 AM
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They might not know :/ When I was 15 when I would go out with my friends I unfortunately I had many men in their 20s approach me and at times assault me. I didn't tell my parents.it would have been relatively easy for me to see someone without my parents knowing just by pretending to be with friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:23 PM
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It absolutely is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:09 AM
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That is the most pathetic neg attempt I have ever seen in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:31 PM
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I feel.like the vetting is never done. I would be unlikely to get married again. You never know when a man is gonna turn into a useless entitled teenager and you're his mom, maybe he's a high earner now but starts relaxing, you keep progressing. Suddenly youre the bread winner and he can go after you. I would never want to have to split assets or risk what I've earned when he quits his job because he has a mid life crisis and stays at home playing call of duty and jerking off. I'll be as committ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:43 PM
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I have to honest. I DON'T want a 5 star upscale restaurant date for a first date. I just want a fun one with some thought behind it. Rock climbing and ice cream. Or like, laser tag and GOOD mexican. Like stuff that the guy has thought about from getting to know me and my interests. It takes money not value to have a date at an expensive restaurant. Plenty of sociopaths love bomb with expensive dates and don't a flying fuck what your actual interests are. I'd love the upscale romantic dinner date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:54 AM
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Here come the cool girl porn watching pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:40 PM
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I genuinely hope a few not completely POS that thought porn was harmless read this and the replies and realize how much they are hurting themselves, their relationships. I fucking doubt it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:23 PM
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Hot pockets, Tony's frozen pizzas, banquet frozen meals, bagel bites. They occasionally splurge on a pizza they leave out on their coffee table and eat over the course of two days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:47 PM
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I have never wished so hard I could time travel, so I could go back and respond with this for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:18 PM
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Yep. I told my now husband the same. I was afraid to show affection and let myself be vulnerable. He love bombed me and I finally opened up. He now says I'm clingy and too emotional and expect too much (because I questioned why he puts in one 10th of the effort/affection he used to).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:15 PM
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That's so true. And maybe I'm nuts...but younger men dating older women not so much? I'm going to have to search now because maybe I'm onto something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:37 PM
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That's what I pointed out in my comment. They obsess over getting women to "squirt" not for the womans pleasure but as some sort of accomplishent for them, like a party trick. or humiliate them by telling them they pissed themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:15 PM
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Why am I being down voted. I legit thought I had something wrong with me when it happened and had to look it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:37 AM
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Wow. I really needed to read this. My situation isnt as dire but... I guess I never thought about seeking out my parents help. I. 37 and have two kids with my husband and I'm beyond miserable, maybe I need to reach out toy family even if they're not perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:35 AM
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Some women "ejaculate" it's happened to me. Of course men either fetishize it and make it all about them or declare we have pissed ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:10 AM
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I would use Bezos as a example of someone who betters things for men (or humanity).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:19 PM
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I mean, there's a reason we're called bleeding heart liberals. I seems like right wing people only care about those that they decide DESERVE their care and if they aren't what they consider aligning with their moral code then they don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:18 PM
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Ok, I can't speak to the social workers for the foster system but in the healthcare world they are the most underappreciated, abused workers I know. They are constantly berated, screamed at, dumped on. I value them immensely as a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:15 PM
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What a bunch of bullshit. Most women do all the homemaking and work, most men do NOT do the same amount of housework despite women working so how exactly is that expectation not still there for women? Every wan I know is exhausted from doing everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:50 PM
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Sure, but he wouldn't be the one responsible for her death. you see the difference? I question your sanity for suggesting a first responder just leave their post with no coverage. Imagine if your loved one needed them at that time. I am a medical provider on the front lines of covid right now and that might make me a bit sensitive to anyone who cannot just abandon their patients. Imagine the only OB left their job in the middle of the day because their wife went in labor elsewhere and the same w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:17 PM
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I'm not arguing that.... I'm saying AFTER that decision he couldn't just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:06 PM
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Haha. This sounds GREAT, except lose the date and add my BFFs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:02 PM
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Exactly. It's fucking healthy if you're keto!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:46 PM
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The issue is it takes a long time to vet men. They stay on their best behavior and then slowly use your traumas against you, you don't even realize it bamn, he's a sociopath. It's really hard to weed them out without months of astuteness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:42 PM
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Oh please, this jackass. He was negging and if they can't call you fat or ugly they go for age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:40 PM
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You're getting downvoted but as a woman who has two kids and is a medical provider I actually agree with you. If my ex husband (a doctor and before an EMT) had this situation I would have been upset but good god, I would feel AWFUL if I was the reason someone missed saying goodbye to their grandfather. It may be that medical people have a different attitude, like we can separate emotion and "triage" the most dire situation to act on that first. That's probably what he did but who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:36 PM
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What? No. Are you insane? That could literally kill someone if he left and a call came. You obviously haven't worked in EMS. That is illegal, it's literally patient abandonment. if he wasn't there when his child was born his wife would have survived (and she did). First responders are often the first ones there with an AED, with BLS training. I get being pissed about him choosing the coworkers situation over his own wife. But after the coworker left he really couldn't leave without coverage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:30 PM
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And it looks almost like Comic Sans. Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:29 PM
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I played video games when I was a kid and sporadically in my 20s. Both my adult LTRs have ended up being gamers. The second downplayed it as "a few hours here and there" then it ended up being nightly and really endlessly on his phone. So if I do get a divorce, yeah. Its a deal breaker for future relationships. Men just can't seem to put responsibilities above pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:25 PM
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That sub made my blood run cold. I cannot believe how fucking disgusting men behave to their SO/wives. Its a mixture of nausea and hopelessness. I don't believe any of them anymore. I've never met a man who doesn't March porn and of course ... Every man I've been with is relatively awful in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:28 AM
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My dad is a porn addict who cheated on my mom. Fucking sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:14 PM
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I have another account that i abandoned that was me sobbing about how.my man doesn't want to fuck me anymore. Yes. It does. And after a long time on there I'm pretty sure a chunk of the men were narcissistic lovers who couldn't get their SO off so they blamed them and turned to TRP and MRA. Another chunk I think married a woman who wasn't attracted to them in the first place, which I feel bad for those ones However, the majority of women on there have porn addicted SO's that they cannot fix (nor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:13 PM
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It's the irl block and delete. No sense wasting a paragraph examining why porn is harmful to an addict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:56 PM
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Unfortunately it seems like the porn use was excessive signalling an addiction. If it was a handful of sites spaced out over a longer time period that could likely be dealt with. It sounds like he is already a porn addict. I wouldn't get involved with an active alcoholic/drug addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:51 PM
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Yeah I have cut back on texts/calls. I let him hit me up first. I'm having a really hard time finding quality friends who aren't pickmeishas or just... Really fucking shitty friends. Any idea where to cultivate new friendships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:45 AM
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I felt that pain in my chest for you as I read this . It fucking SUCKS. And don't second guess yourself an instant ( not that it seems you are) because it won't go away. I hate that to be anti porn makes us sound like judgemental prudes (I love sex damnit, and have a super high sex drive). They just don't understand how bad it is, how it makes them addicts, bad lovers, less interested in real sex, literally breaks their brain. And I feel you, it seems finding a man who isn't watching porn daily …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:11 PM
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Wow. He has never dated a woman over 25. It's a fucked up fetish. I suspect he can completely control these woman who probably fawn over him like a god. An older woman would hold him accountable for acting like an ivy league frat boy at 43.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:53 PM
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Yeah they think they're good at sex. And pickmeisha's faking orgasms have made this their "reality". So OF COURSE they think we should split the bill because they're going to jackhammer us and rub our thigh crease instead of our clit for 20 minutes( if they even acknowledge we need our clit involved instead of just ramming fingers into us with no other stimulation as foreplay)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:17 PM
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What do I have to wear? Hard next. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:52 AM
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You really never know is my point, you can hope but... jealousy and insecurity can plague anyone when they love someone. It's not even necessarily misogyny though often it is. It's just... I don't know why you would volunteer that information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:22 PM
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Let's be real, you can vet all you want but you never really know who someone is 100%. Sociopaths are out there and can not show their true colors for years. You trust as much as is reasonable but most men unfortunately whether they WANT to or not will feel some way about your sexual number/past. I feel someway about it with my husbands past and I know it's unreasonable but I wish I didn't know. I wish we had just left our past relationships/sexual experiences on a strictly need to know basis be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:59 PM
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Yeah. I used to have this fantasy. It bordered on a fetish actually. I also had determined that my husband maybe wasn't attracted to me because I was successful, wanted to split chores and my sense of humor was too crude. I read the surrendered wife and really lost my mind for a while. Of course, I just got angrier and he just did less in every way. Reading 'why men love bitches" was a revelation. Interestingly enough they have similarities in avoiding acting like a thirsty pickmeishas and not n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:10 PM
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So first time, um so we've been together for 7 years and I'm graduating soon and don't have a way to stay in the country sooo maybe we should get married? Him - well it won't be real in God's eyes because you're not my religion so it wouldn't be real but for legal.putposes ok. My stupid ass then took him to kays, we picked rings out and used a credit card to pay for them. Total cost less than 300.00. his mom then planned a makeshift "wedding" in the park by his house 7 hours away from my family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:13 PM
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Um, you pretty much nailed it except, I did end up married, twice the first entirely planned by his mom in a park by his house with 4 people in attendance, the second I planned entirely my self bought tickets to vegas booked Bellagio, and picked chapel and booked. All paid for by me (our finances are combined but I've always made double and sometimes quadruple what he does.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:03 PM
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There's nothing more delicious then responding "sorry, who is this?" To a text from an unknown number that turns out to be that LVM you dated a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:22 PM
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Oh and I should add, accepted horrible selfish sex and literally embarrassed myself crying when they lost attraction and didn't feel like fucking me anymore because of my total lack of self respect and self worth to put up with their bullshit in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:18 PM
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I proposed to myself. Twice. Because they were too lazy to ever plan anything or pull the trigger. Bought my own ring. Twice. Planned every vacation and 99% of date nights. I feel nauseated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:14 PM
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I cook occasionally, and when I do it's like he won the lottery with how appreciative he is. I think the key is to never become the cook. Like make cooking something you do that's genuinely a special act or because you like it and NOT and expectation or assumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:10 PM
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I'm a a PA. :/ By the time I left I was in my 30s and we had a kid and I just felt too much guilt about the time investment. Then I met another man who convinced me I was just trying to "prove something" by still wanting to go. It's a great career but it hurts when I know more than a lot of the MDs and know I could have done it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:01 PM
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All the comments here validate every experience I've had and it feels so good. Because even though you know it's probably not you and they're porn sick and just selfish you start to believe them a little bit because of the pickmeishas who faked and faked and blew their ego up because they didn't think it was worth it to damage dudes ego. So then you're the broken one. You're the one with the defective pussy. And you can't for the life of you figure out how anyone could get off from that jackhamm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:31 PM
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Exactly. Funny how all women recognize when women are faking to get the disapointing LVM to hurry up and GTFO. But men think they've made every girl cum like 8 times. We gotta stop with this. The last few men I slept with before I met my husband (and including him) I just flat out stopped them and said "k. This isn't working for me. Imma head out " I mean if there had been any real effort on their part then I would have made an attempt to be more sympathetic but....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:10 PM
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You know it's really bad when some of them are defending her and calling him out. My fav comment was "but I thought a no really means a not yet". 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:06 PM
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Yeah. She probably has low self esteem so thinks it's what she SHOULD hear. Super fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:32 PM
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Holy shit this my ex husband. He would never EVER give me credit. Discouraged me from going to medical school. Never acknowledged my fitness or academic accomplishments. In fact when I ran my first 5k he mocked me for being one of the last finishers. When I ran 13 miles he said yeah but at what pace? Meanwhile he was a couch potato slob who had never run more than like, 100 feet. "I got a 98! " "Why not 100? "Or just... Silence When I had an eating disorder he would constantly tell me how his si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:31 PM
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I am SO sorry you had to go through that. What a true piece of shit LVM. Glad you're here though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:08 PM
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Agreed, but I will say I go all out on my husband's birthday and Christmas, he used to with me and it has slowly tapered down to low effort gifts. Usually jewelry and something cute that I like this Christmas it was a 70 dollar backpack. The jewelry was a few Pandora charms and a necklace and earrings which though pretty were cubic zirconia for sure. I bought him the newest Samsung note, a boardgame, some shirts that I had my kids pick out and some shirts from me that I knew he would like. As we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:54 PM
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For real. I'm guessing at least half of them would have a facepalm omfg moment and never do that shit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:26 PM
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I really needed to read this. I have a bad habit of getting an interest (guitar, drawing, languages, etc) feeling like I'm terrible and because I don't I prove rapidly enough getting frustrated and quitting. Where does that leave me? Sitting on the couch feeling pathetic and feeling WAY more needy for my husband's attention (who is happily gaming or painting his figures or working on dj set lists/music (a hobby)). I just need to push through the discomfort stage. And I also really need new frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:01 AM
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Shit. My husband says this to me all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:39 AM
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I still do this with my husband. In the middle of it I'll just have the thought "annnnd he clearly doesn't give a fuck". Especially when I tried to be sexy . Ugh kill.me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:37 PM
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Ugh. I did this. I was pregnant and my boyfriend (now husband) took a pay cut because of his moronic business decisions partnering with a friend who can barely spell his own name. I pressured him to quit since I made 115k a year and he was making 15/hr and we could sAvE oN dAYcARe and he always wanted to be "a stay at home dad" He pretended to be offended then quickly quit and did the barest of minimum around the house while I busted my pregnant ass doing 12 hour shifts. A year after the baby wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:56 PM
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